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miss.a.p1600
12-24-2022, 03:28 PM
is it the weather? I tried to order grub hub mid day and EVERYTHING was shut down here. The roads are bad and a lot of business closed up


I could seriously kill Wal-Mart right now.
An hour before they were scheduled to deliver my groceries, they sent me a text saying that they wouldn't be able to deliver and that they were cancelling the order.

Excuse me, WHAATT??:yikes:

Imagine if I had guests coming over for Christmas dinner?

I had just paid for the yearly membership too.
When I asked to cancel it, they informed me that there are no refunds.
So, I'm stuck with them for a year.

I decided to try Aldi's grocery delivery service. It was the BEST decision I've made in a long time.

They use Instacart, and the service was very professional.
They texted me a moment by moment progress report to keep me informed.

The driver is getting your food. The driver is in his car on the way. The driver should be there in 10 minutes, etc.

The food was not only less expensive, it was packaged beautifully.
The bags were pretty, sturdy, and reusable.

Wal-Mart can go fuck themselves!:finger:
It's Aldi from now on!

WendiStarr
12-24-2022, 07:37 PM
I find it aggravating that the apartments I live in expect residents to shovel and salt the sidewalks, diy. They had maintenance men set out buckets of salt and emailed that we have to take care of that ourselves. It's not like we have individual sidewalks. It's just strange. I've lived in $800 and less apartments (pre-covid) that took care of the shoveling and such. These $1000+/month apartments act like they can't afford to do anything. The fuck?

carmen_b
12-24-2022, 07:58 PM
So ..... I'm not going to lie.
Tonight is feeling a little lonely.

I feel a weird energy.
I am trying to follow the lead of the people I'm seeing ..... let them reach me ect.

I knew it would probably be like this.
It is just too weird to request company on a holiday ( almost a pressure in just doing that and it must be avoided ).

I can't wait for this holiday to end.

miss.a.p1600
12-25-2022, 09:25 AM
Awww I’d gladly trade places with you. I want to be ALONE on the holidays without pressure to socialize.

You’d probably be ready to be alone though if you had to deal with L and his kids on the holiday.

Yeah don’t press it just do what you can to enjoy the holiday maybe hang out with family, do a doggie treat holiday, borrow your relatives kids or whatnot, et.

Dreamqueen
12-25-2022, 09:46 AM
is it the weather? I tried to order grub hub mid day and EVERYTHING was shut down here. The roads are bad and a lot of business closed up


The weather is not the issue, because it's 80 degrees and sunny. And the store that they deliver from is only 2 miles away.

My guess is that they couldn't find drivers.
People in this town are extremely lazy.
I've never seen anything like it.
Even my last driver mentioned how lazy the packers were when lots of my items were missing.

Aurora_Sunset
12-25-2022, 10:09 AM
I find it aggravating that the apartments I live in expect residents to shovel and salt the sidewalks, diy. They had maintenance men set out buckets of salt and emailed that we have to take care of that ourselves. It's not like we have individual sidewalks. It's just strange. I've lived in $800 and less apartments (pre-covid) that took care of the shoveling and such. These $1000+/month apartments act like they can't afford to do anything. The fuck?

That's insane. I wouldn't do it. It's their property - it's their responsibility. I can't imagine that anything in your lease actually says you're responsible for that sort of thing in a rental building. If it was a rental house, maybe. But not an apartment.

carmen_b
12-25-2022, 11:24 AM
My family did everything yesterday which is nice because I only went out once. It was a one hour brunch, gift exchange where you can steal presents ( the numbered game ) , and then the kids got to open theirs. I applaud my family for efficiency ! Ha. Including driving .... 5 hours flat !

I'm just going to make a lazy day out of it today. I just ordered Chinese food . I've got a great theatre room in the house I'm pet sitting at and THREE fur friends. Not so bad.


Awww I’d gladly trade places with you. I want to be ALONE on the holidays without pressure to socialize.

You’d probably be ready to be alone though if you had to deal with L and his kids on the holiday.

Yeah don’t press it just do what you can to enjoy the holiday maybe hang out with family, do a doggie treat holiday, borrow your relatives kids or whatnot, et.

indiegirl
12-25-2022, 12:09 PM
I could hear the sound of disappointment in my mom's voice that I wasn't coming over for Christmas Dinner. I just don't want to go. She liked her Christmas gift though.

WendiStarr
12-26-2022, 01:23 PM
I'm supposed to meet some of bf's relatives soon and I'm nervous as heck. I keep on nervous pooping. I need to get off of the toilet.
Instead I'm in the bathroom pooping and on sw ��

carmen_b
12-26-2022, 02:49 PM
How i supposedly have two boyfriends yet haven't seen a dick in 3-4 days is as much a mystery to me as I'm sure it is to everyone else.

miss.a.p1600
12-26-2022, 03:34 PM
Girl I’d trade places with you any day

I’m tired of sex. It’s pointless to me. I’d rather have a sexless sugar daddy.

carmen_b
12-26-2022, 07:03 PM
Down to 1.

N is a Jack ass.
I just gave him a verbal beat down that was glorious.

You should see his novellas he is sending.
Such FEELINGS ...... he should have his own show similar to Dr. Phil.

Meanwhile .... this pussy has been UNTOUCHED for 3-4 days and I'm not pleased.
I should have not responded to anything he said other than a quick ( fake ) message saying I was busy with a lover.

carmen_b
12-27-2022, 11:04 AM
He wants to meet for lunch.

He can take his stupid day time date ideas and shove them up his butthole.

carmen_b
12-27-2022, 11:04 AM
Boy this dude can take a BEATING let me tell you.
If he was into verbal humiliation he should have just mentioned it .
He struck gold with a PRO.

There were two things :

1. His bat shit crazy STUPID idea to do a " family " getaway with his ex yesterday ( nice hotel and two different rooms ) . I had some things to say. He KNEW I was alone on Christmas and that my family did everything Dec. 24 ! Rubbing a luxury hotel experience in my face ...... I can't even describe the level poor taste .

2. I offered him a CLEAR poly structure of seeing both him and teacher. Well ..... I didn't see HIM the last 4-5 days . Not pleased . Mamma isn't happy. Being offered a structure and a specific " place " does not mean it's an open invite to be a jack ass.

charlie61
12-27-2022, 11:31 AM
Just move on, right? Not a good fit. Don't waste any more energy...

carmen_b
12-27-2022, 11:34 AM
YUP.
He's scattered AF.
What dude doesn't take an open / clear poly structure , thank JEE-BUS for the good fortune , and simply don't fuck up ? If you are poly you make time a couple times a week for EACH partner. Easy !

It seems there is only one dude in town capable of fucking up a great offer .
My offers have been revoked .

LoveyD
12-27-2022, 02:57 PM
Oh my god! The most bizarre thing just happened to me. I was at the grocery store doing an instacart order when this girl I used to work with at one of my old clubs approached me with her cell phone pointed at me, accusing me of stalking her on behalf of the manager at our old club! I'm like, wtf? Even when I worked with her I had nothing to do with her. Never spoke with her, nothing. Then she has the audacity to approach me in a store and start accusing me of crimes that I have nothing to do with? With her cell phone pointed at me nonetheless? She kept saying that she was going to call the police on me! I didn't even approach her, she approached me and started saying things like " stay out of my neighborhood! I see you everywhere, I know you're stalking me! I'm going to get a restraining order on you" I yelled at her that I don't know her, I don't care about her or her life, and she needs to leave me alone! God I'm so tired of the crack pots around here! Leave me alone! Luckily the store clerks all know me and they were there to protect me and walk me to my car so that she wouldn't try to attack me. What a weirdo! You should never approach somebody in public with your cell phone pointed at them and start accusing them of crimes unless you are 100% certain. She's making a total ass of herself and doesn't even realize it! What the f? Bizarre that she was accusing me of stalking, yet she's the one following me around the store threatening me? What a f****** weirdo.

carmen_b
12-27-2022, 08:00 PM
^ Omg
Maybe too many paranoia causing drugs?

LoveyD
12-27-2022, 08:57 PM
^^ who knows! Sorry to go off like that, but I haven't even set foot in that club since I retired 3 years ago. Because of people like her. She kept following me around and recording me saying careful, you're being recorded. My response? So what! I'm not doing anything! F****** weirdo..

indiegirl
12-28-2022, 04:06 AM
Blahhhh! I'm in a brat mood, my bathroom sink is totally leaking. I have the plumber coming later today, he was here a couple days ago, but I hate spending my own money on repairs. :(...Have a kitchen pan under the sink right now to stop it from doing damage.

whirlerz
12-28-2022, 08:55 AM
I totally blew through my budget these last few days.

I’m on the search for some wise people with helpful financial knowledge

easy to do, especially today's times.

My car,( w/new battery) is in the shop, sometimes it starts, sometimes not..they already charge me 125, just to look, I should have went to this other place.
Yesterday, they couldn't take me cause their door was broken, TF.

I have one more far away storage I have to be out of by 1/5 or I'll be charged 90.>:(

JGB2009
12-28-2022, 09:06 AM
I hate winter. I have never liked winter. Plus my daughter is sick and what ever she has she gave it to me.

carmen_b
12-28-2022, 09:38 AM
I was just thinking today I was relieved that winter is basically 1/3 over.
I'm really not sure if I'm going to make it in this cold city another two months but I was really *trying* to settle here .

Aurora_Sunset
12-28-2022, 10:46 AM
There is nothing I want to do less this week than work.

Jealous that my husband gets the entire week off paid.

At least every shift this week has a hefty hourly premium attached to it. They know no one wants to come in.

lynn2009
12-28-2022, 02:01 PM
I bought 2 purple harmony pillows. But now that I have been up for a few hours I think I am coming down with a flu or covid, so I will update you once I feel better overall.

I am enjoying these now and recycled the boxes as I am going to keep the pillows. They do come with a heavy manufacturing smell, and I think that is what gave me a bad headache the first night.

I have chronic whiplash and neck pain and it is basically part of my lifestyle every day to manage the pain with Bengal, heat pads, constant stretching and neck cracking. Those things haven't gone away but significantly improved almost immediately, after that first night obviously. I bought them from Purple's website directly but I realized after they are cheaper on Amazon.

WendiStarr
12-28-2022, 03:41 PM
- holding my son's teddy bear urn and randomly bursting into tears
-dickmatized withdrawals
- realizing that I missed an interview for a job that I actually wanted because I was too busy having a fuckathon yesterday
- being on call with vanilla UPS job but not getting any work from them so far this week

indiegirl
12-28-2022, 07:17 PM
225 for the sink part replacement. It was completely leaking and broken *roar*

kimbe
12-29-2022, 01:09 AM
Crowded gyms >:(

Dreamqueen
12-29-2022, 11:27 AM
When asked what everyone did for a living (in a private Facebook group for introverts), I commented that I am a webcam hostess and phone actress.

I NEVER let on what I do, EVER, so this was an experiment.

Low and behold some cunt replies with, "Don't church it up. Call it what it is, sex work." ::)

I really wanted to reply that that isn't what her husband and dad call it while giving me their hard earned money, but I resisted.

Mercury is in retrograde, so verbal fights would have ensued.
I blocked her.
It's so sad that in 2023 normies are still so triggered by adult entertainers.

Guess that's :irked: why they are normies.

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 03:13 PM
Omg my former stripper came out so hard today.

I got a side hustle day job. I interviewed last week and went in today to fill out papers.
Then there was sitting and explaining things . I'm thinking the whole time " wait am I paid for this hour " ?
Lol
It was distracting haha
I left not knowing if the past 20 minute make of paperwork was paid .

I'm going to let it slide ( it's an arts non-profit ).
Each employee has a wage but the organization itself is a 501C .
So I'm not going to *pick* when I feel personal alignment with the mission ha.
^ The little " training and showing " thing took an hour and 40 min. :/

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 03:16 PM
It's SHOCKING to show up in person and not leave with money in your hand !

lilylilylily
12-29-2022, 05:09 PM
Dream, that reminds me when I was treated so mean and very harshly judged by a nurse/counselor I once went to see. It was a few years back.. She asked me about my past work and I thought it best to be honest but she focused on it the whole time, digging and asking what other types of sex work I did etc.. I will not tell another soul about my past days as a stripper because her reaction to it was exactly what I always feared. I regret that I didn't walk out because she was so mean.

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 06:16 PM
Dream : That is why I'm closeted. It doesn't feel fair to me to put energy out TO the sex work customers and then have to put EXTRA out defending / explaining choices.
Go read a blog or something for explanations and stories.
Don't seek them for ME anyway, ha.
My labor is over when I count and leave the club.

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 09:23 PM
ok just ONE more thing for today lol then I'll delete half of what I put up in a day or two since I've put a few things up ....

NOW I'm agitated with the tall teacher too.
So .... I accepted his quirk of not having a cell phone ( yes really .... he really doesn't ).
So we email . Often this works out JUST fine. He's been on this trip and I get not opening up a computer ect. for a few days but I haven't heard from him at ALL in a week ( we were together last Thurs. and he left on Friday ).
It would have been nice to at least get ONE check in message you know ?

I wasn't going to say anything because it is reading a lot like " wtf is with Carmens taste ? " in these messages .
Just agitated so I'll share a frown . :(

charlie61
12-29-2022, 10:12 PM
Is he an ex addict?

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 10:28 PM
^ I don't think so .......

but not 100% sure.

I would say it's really unlikely because he works for a school district ( I'm assuming they must drug test ) ?

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 10:29 PM
Do you mean addicted to a phone ha?

charlie61
12-29-2022, 10:31 PM
Just curious since I've heard of addicts in recovery giving up their phones to avoid temptation (contacting their former dealers, friends who were bad influences, etc.). I know my question was super random. I'm sure that's not the case for your guy.

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 10:41 PM
Anything is possible but I don’t think so.
He’s super healthy.
He farms his back yard and grown his own organic food / fruit from his orchard.
I just don’t think so but you never know I guess.
It wouldn't align with his ultra healthy / fit lifestyle.

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 10:42 PM
It’s crazy to think of traveling without the phone mapping / pinning !

Staci
12-29-2022, 10:42 PM
^ My first thought was that he is in a relationship and hiding it - so therefore can't receive calls/texts. But since you have been to his home, that's unlikely.

It's just so strange that someone who is single and dating wouldn't have a cell phone.

carmen_b
12-29-2022, 10:44 PM
I was going to offer to pick him up from airport for example and then it was … how would I even ?
How would I know when he got his bag / which door ect? Lol

Dreamqueen
12-30-2022, 10:01 AM
I could seriously kill Wal-Mart right now.
An hour before they were scheduled to deliver my groceries, they sent me a text saying that they wouldn't be able to deliver and that they were cancelling the order.

Excuse me, WHAATT??:yikes:

Imagine if I had guests coming over for Christmas dinner?

I had just paid for the yearly membership too.
When I asked to cancel it, they informed me that there are no refunds.
So, I'm stuck with them for a year.

I decided to try Aldi's grocery delivery service. It was the BEST decision I've made in a long time.

They use Instacart, and the service was very professional.
They texted me a moment by moment progress report to keep me informed.

The driver is getting your food. The driver is in his car on the way. The driver should be there in 10 minutes, etc.

The food was not only less expensive, it was packaged beautifully.
The bags were pretty, sturdy, and reusable.

Wal-Mart can go fuck themselves!:finger:
It's Aldi from now on!


Wal-Mart sent me an email yesterday apologizing for the mishap.
They gave me a $25 credit.
I ordered groceries and used towards delivery later on today.
We shall see if they show up this time.

miss.a.p1600
12-30-2022, 02:07 PM
It’s crazy to think of traveling without the phone mapping / pinning !

He got an old school paper map and a compass?

No phone is rare.

Only people I know with no digital devices is usually really old people who are so old they were around before Internet and smart phones and refuse (or don’t have the cognitive ability cause of their age) to learn new tech stuff.

buttonpop
12-30-2022, 02:32 PM
Anything is possible but I don’t think so.
He’s super healthy.
He farms his back yard and grown his own organic food / fruit from his orchard.
I just don’t think so but you never know I guess.

^^^this makes me think he's just the kind of granola-type person who thinks his life is healthier without a phone. farming, organic food, no phone, i bet he doesn't own a TV either.

I wish I could have no phone too. my life was so much better before I had a smartphone, I had a longer attention span, and I didn't waste so much time online. I like having maps and podcasts, though. I am thinking about getting one of those specialty phones that only allow texting, calling, maps, music/podcasts--no internet or social media.

carmen_b
12-30-2022, 02:48 PM
^ I actually love it and when I'm with him I go phone free ( I sneak and check when I'm peeing lol ) .
Out and about we are off grid / no phones.
I think it's part of why he is so good with conversations.
He just looks right at your face ..... no distractions .
He relays everything with stories v.s. pulling a phone out to show a picture ect. !

moneybags
12-30-2022, 03:06 PM
Crowded gyms >:(

Yeah wait till the first. Grrr.

I’m still pissy with how bad the industry is. I always struggle with this. It costs me money, so I just really need to get over it. ‘I’m so pissy about the free loaders and cheapskates, or if they spend money they want you to do backflips for $1 or want OTC. Gross. I managed to get a wealthy guy from Seattle. My type is middle class business men. I love them and they love me. My club is so run down and gross-we had a water line burst because of the cold and the room were literally wet and smelled like cat piss. I’m literally embarrassed to work there. This might be the push I need to cam again. There’s literally weekends where it’s crowded and people aren’t even tipping a dollar. Obviously I do okay because I still work there, but I dunno. For me it’s the principle. I need to stop being so stuck up and just make my money and be grateful I have a job, but it’s really hard on the days when most your customers are rude and cheap. Yes it only takes one guy with a credit card, but by the time I get to them I’m pissed because of all the rude guys who wasted me time. I just need to focus on the dollar bills.

It’s like when there’s no customers the girls fight over petty shit. I’m really just tired of the club. I just need to focus on making money and school.

kimbe
12-31-2022, 09:23 AM
A rare bad night's sleep, got up early for a morning work out. I tanned on my way home. It's going to be a long day, we're going to a party this evening that I, to be honest, wish we weren't going to. Hopefully, I'll get a nap later :)

Dreamqueen
12-31-2022, 10:27 AM
Wal-Mart sent me an email yesterday apologizing for the mishap.
They gave me a $25 credit.
I ordered groceries and used towards delivery later on today.
We shall see if they show up this time.


They showed up on time, and all of the items that I ordered were there.
My female driver was cute too.
Yezzz!:cutie::-*

kimbe
12-31-2022, 10:29 AM
^ That's great, I love when fuck ups are corrected!