View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Jucie
01-15-2023, 09:29 AM
It's Sunday and definitely feels like one too….home late after fun night with SD. I need a nap before I pick up my daughter.
AvaJade
01-15-2023, 03:45 PM
I got a bad haircut this week. So annoying. The only reason I'm not too pissed off is that I actually wanted a lot of damaged hair removed anyway, and it's long enough that I can just keep it up for the next 6 weeks before going to someone else.
I'm done with this place, even though it's 2 mins from home and a nice chilled salon, they are too inconsistent and I've realised clearly do not understand curly hair at all.
Aurora_Sunset
01-15-2023, 09:13 PM
Apparently, weed tolerance IS a thing if you do it all the time. That's annoying.
kimbe
01-16-2023, 01:03 AM
When you get another size than ordered.. Can it really be that difficult?
buttonpop
01-16-2023, 12:01 PM
Annoyed because at like 8pm last night, my landlord put a "24 hours" notice to enter/inspect today between 9am-5pm on the front doors of all the apartments (Ummm excuse me that's not 24 hours notice...). I don't want her coming in when I'm not home, so now I have to wait at home all day, and I had errands to do.
I get bad anxiety whenever a landlord wants to enter because it creeps me to remember they have keys to my apartment. A few years ago, a landlord gave a key to my apartment to some construction workers who were doing renovations on the building, and I came home from class and found them working IN MY BEDROOM without any notice at all. I'm a SA survivor and although I'm mostly healed from that trauma for some reason that triggered me horribly. I had sleep paralysis nightmares about seeing the construction workers standing over my bed for months, and I still have those types of nightmares occasionally even years later. So now anytime a landlord wants to enter to repair or inspect something I'm reminded that they could just give this key to anyone at any time, and it freaks me out so bad.
I do use a door stick thing that makes it so the door cannot open from the outside when I'm home and the stick is up. That gives me some comfort.
carmen_b
01-16-2023, 12:12 PM
My body is just ON ONE today.
It felt so UGH to get one task done this morning!
Then I really should do a few hours at my arts job and but am dreading going anywhere.
^ I will go if they tell me when to come ha.
EDIT : Oh thank god I was able to shift those few hours to tomorrow. :)
I think what it really wants is to just be done at 5 and then maybe go find the jacuzzi at the fancy gym and re-calibrate from there.
It’s 2:21 and I’m fighting the urge to turn my phone off the rest of the day.
carmen_b
01-16-2023, 12:16 PM
AND I turned the zip back to the fancy ski area on Rover only to IMMEDIATELY get a " ding " for day care again.
Apparnently these super well off folks can not take care of their dogs during the day but NEVER leave requiring house sitters ha. Each time I turned the zip to that hillside my phone went wild for day care requests.
This is the second time I've tried it.
It appears to be a bust again.
I'm giving it 24 more hours though. :)
Dreamqueen
01-16-2023, 01:20 PM
Annoyed because at like 8pm last night, my landlord put a "24 hours" notice to enter/inspect today between 9am-5pm on the front doors of all the apartments (Ummm excuse me that's not 24 hours notice...). I don't want her coming in when I'm not home, so now I have to wait at home all day, and I had errands to do.
I get bad anxiety whenever a landlord wants to enter because it creeps me to remember they have keys to my apartment. A few years ago, a landlord gave a key to my apartment to some construction workers who were doing renovations on the building, and I came home from class and found them working IN MY BEDROOM without any notice at all. I'm a SA survivor and although I'm mostly healed from that trauma for some reason that triggered me horribly. I had sleep paralysis nightmares about seeing the construction workers standing over my bed for months, and I still have those types of nightmares occasionally even years later. So now anytime a landlord wants to enter to repair or inspect something I'm reminded that they could just give this key to anyone at any time, and it freaks me out so bad.
I do use a door stick thing that makes it so the door cannot open from the outside when I'm home and the stick is up. That gives me some comfort.
I'm right there with You.
My last apt building would slip that notice under my door in the middle of the night.
That's not 24 hours notice!
It would happen at least twice a month.
I'm also a SA survivor, and freak out at the thought of maintenance coming in here.
The last guy they sent in Oct was 80 years old if he was a day.
I started to relax a bit.
That is until he tried to get cozy with me and kept asking personal questions.
GET OUT!!!!
chanzep
01-16-2023, 02:17 PM
Those apartments are so rude. That would puss me off lucky here they give us at least a weeks notice then remind us 48 hours.
I'm so sick of apartments I have been sorting out my messed up sleeping pattern and was able to sleep early last night of course my awhile upstairs neighbour wakes me up at 4:30 am on his exercise bike. He been warned about noise before when he 1st moved in and recent thinks he can be noisy again.
WendiStarr
01-16-2023, 06:18 PM
It has been rainy and cold today. Now it's snowing and my sinuses are going nuts and my head hurts like I'm coming down with something. I hope I feel better by tomorrow morning. I have to work 10 hours tomorrow.
SnuffleUffleGrass
01-17-2023, 08:17 AM
It has been rainy and cold today. Now it's snowing and my sinuses are going nuts and my head hurts like I'm coming down with something. I hope I feel better by tomorrow morning. I have to work 10 hours tomorrow.
I've got a chest cold. Mid winter is really dismal for respiratory infections.
kimbe
01-18-2023, 01:00 AM
I was making an online purchase and my card kept getting declined, finally had to use another. Don't know why..
xxxGothBarbie
01-18-2023, 01:27 AM
Been growing increasingly more & more agitated towards my friend lately. Mainly bc everytime we talk it's (new guys name) this & that. Like every sentence starts with his name and she rarely makes any time for me or our other gal pal anymore bc she's off catering to this 30 yr old she met on tinder. I don't get it *smh* He's already asking her for a threesome despite the fact they've only dated only close to two months and she's fine with that?!? That screams selfish jerk to me. Also he supposedly asks way more of her in bed than others have and caters to him. I hate it when females choose dick over friends. I've been distancing myself lately. She always chooses her men over her friends.
smeca
01-19-2023, 12:44 AM
I think this is more than petty, but bfs relative messaged last night that he's moving his wedding forward to get it done quickly at a small do, on FEBRUARY 14TH. Lol who the hell tries to make valentines day their day?
miss.a.p1600
01-19-2023, 09:02 AM
I am BEYOND pissed that my employer decides to take my hard earned accrued time off at the end of the year.
Didn’t warn or inform about this
So you know what mfs! I’m going to RECLAIM my days off. I’m going to “quiet quit” for 3.5 day. Good luck getting any meaningful work out of me those days.
carmen_b
01-19-2023, 09:16 AM
That's super weird. Plus the women isn't thinking it through. Ha. It should be TWO separate celebrations !
I think this is more than petty, but bfs relative messaged last night that he's moving his wedding forward to get it done quickly at a small do, on FEBRUARY 14TH. Lol who the hell tries to make valentines day their day?
kimbe
01-19-2023, 02:44 PM
Lower temperatures are back..
Aurora_Sunset
01-19-2023, 06:17 PM
I am BEYOND pissed that my employer decides to take my hard earned accrued time off at the end of the year.
Didn’t warn or inform about this
So you know what mfs! I’m going to RECLAIM my days off. I’m going to “quiet quit” for 3.5 day. Good luck getting any meaningful work out of me those days.
That happened to me my first year at Amazon. No one told me PTO expires at the end of the year so I lost almost a whole day's worth that I had been saving for after the holidays. I'd be so mad if I had saved 3 and a half.
I wish it was law that employer's couldn't just "cancel" PTO without paying it out.
moneybags
01-19-2023, 08:06 PM
Oh god I’ve been studying since I woke up. I’m so tired, but I have more studying to do! Then I have to work this weekend. I hate my life!
miss.a.p1600
01-20-2023, 11:02 AM
That happened to me my first year at Amazon. No one told me PTO expires at the end of the year so I lost almost a whole day's worth that I had been saving for after the holidays. I'd be so mad if I had saved 3 and a half.
I wish it was law that employer's couldn't just "cancel" PTO without paying it out.
The irony is I applied for time off and these jokers said no bc it was the holidays and only the seasoned employees could take time off on holidays.
i wish I could sue them to get that time/money back but my legal plan I have through the company of course won’t let me sue the employer
Like how tf are you gonna tell me I can’t use my time at the end of the year then take said time at the end of the year without my knowledge.
I never felt like some indentured slave until that moment I saw my paid days off whittled down to 2 hours. All that fucking overtime and perfect attendance for nothing.
Thats cool though. They gone pay one way or another.
carmen_b
01-20-2023, 11:37 AM
What ? You accrued a few days off and they didn't let you use it ?
Pretty sure that's illegal. It doesn't take long to check the labor lawns in your state either.
That is info the public can access.
moneybags
01-20-2023, 12:02 PM
The irony is I applied for time off and these jokers said no bc it was the holidays and only the seasoned employees could take time off on holidays.
i wish I could sue them to get that time/money back but my legal plan I have through the company of course won’t let me sue the employer
Like how tf are you gonna tell me I can’t use my time at the end of the year then take said time at the end of the year without my knowledge.
I never felt like some indentured slave until that moment I saw my paid days off whittled down to 2 hours. All that fucking overtime and perfect attendance for nothing.
Thats cool though. They gone pay one way or another.
You can call the state board. There should be legal aid or something free to call to check and see if it’s legal. Just because it’s in a contract doesn’t mean it valid. We need to start holding employers accountable
carmen_b
01-21-2023, 10:42 AM
I'm putting this film festival experience here instead of the Grateful thread lol.
It was just so " eh " yesterday oops.
I had let my friend stay over ( she is working and has access to EVERYTHING ) in exchange for access to the exclusive events.
I guess I shouldn't bitch.
We went to one GREAT party last Thurs. ! THAT one was amazing.
Then yesterday ........
Maybe I was just low energy but I felt like " where is the fucking food at this party ? " . I was so confused.
This event is from 4:30 - 6. It has this " female power " vibe and that felt ruined. These women could NOT shut up about their project. They started the discussion late , set NO food out, my friend and I were dying. We didn't want to be the only two people who left the room lol. I was feeling such embarrassment that this " girl power " event was the WORST one we attended. :/
Meanwhile the parties run by men had booze and food flowing ugh.
I guess men know that you feed women who show up to party ha.
carmen_b
01-21-2023, 11:31 AM
Now I have anxiety from sharing this space also even though we were really out all day at the events yesterday.
Post house guest anxiety.
I offered for a VERY special thing but I need to remember to only this for 24 hours MAX next time.
Dreamqueen
01-21-2023, 11:34 AM
Lower temperatures are back..
Yup. They sure are.
I had to put on my wool sweater to sleep last night.
There's no heat in my bedroom, or in my entire place for that matter.
Luckily it's only cold like this for 2 months.:cold:
WendiStarr
01-21-2023, 11:55 AM
I got groceries and totally forgot to add coffee to the list. I had a big box sitting there in the cupboard which turned out to be empty. I'm feeling so exhausted without it. How do moms of kids under age 5 survive without caffeine? I'm about to place an order for like 4 coffee pod boxes. This cold, dreary day is demotivating too.
charlie61
01-21-2023, 11:59 AM
I got groceries and totally forgot to add coffee to the list. I had a big box sitting there in the cupboard which turned out to be empty. I'm feeling so exhausted without it. How do moms of kids under age 5 survive without caffeine? I'm about to place an order for like 4 coffee pod boxes.
Right! When you're used to it, you kind of rely on it!
Kind of interesting... caffeine doesn't give people energy, it just accelerates the release of your own energy. It doesn't add any energy. Medically, it just tells your body to release stored energy all at once, which is why people crash after having it.
carmen_b
01-21-2023, 06:09 PM
I feel like I'm climbing up the walls in heat .
Just trying not to go over to the nearest bar ...... text N and Teacher .... text others ect .
The night isn't going well.
indiegirl
01-21-2023, 08:49 PM
I was replacing a used towel with a clean one in my bathroom and looked in the sink....and a large spider was in the sink out of nowhere:(!!!! I panicked and jolted back and squished it furiously. Walked away with goosebumps all on my skin out of fear bahahaha. I'm so lame.
lynn2009
01-21-2023, 10:26 PM
I was replacing a used towel with a clean one in my bathroom and looked in the sink....and a large spider was in the sink out of nowhere:(!!!! I panicked and jolted back and squished it furiously. Walked away with goosebumps all on my skin out of fear bahahaha. I'm so lame.
I used to lose my shit when I was renting because bugs would come in through the pipes all the time, and now in my house it happens too. The bath tub, the bathroom sink and the kitchen sink. It's so gross.
indiegirl
01-22-2023, 08:02 AM
I used to lose my shit when I was renting because bugs would come in through the pipes all the time, and now in my house it happens to. The bath tub, the bathroom sink and the kitchen sink. It's so gross.
The second worst bugs to find is cockroaches! Or when you notice the bug when you're on the toilet and you can't just flat out run right away hahaha.
LoveyD
01-22-2023, 09:25 AM
We've been experiencing King tides in our beach areas, flooding sidewalks and pretty much making a mess of the beach area. Looks like I won't be taking a run there today LOL
WanderingW
01-22-2023, 11:59 AM
Delete.
WanderingW
01-22-2023, 12:01 PM
Annoyed because at like 8pm last night, my landlord put a "24 hours" notice to enter/inspect today between 9am-5pm on the front doors of all the apartments (Ummm excuse me that's not 24 hours notice...). I don't want her coming in when I'm not home, so now I have to wait at home all day, and I had errands to do.
I get bad anxiety whenever a landlord wants to enter because it creeps me to remember they have keys to my apartment. A few years ago, a landlord gave a key to my apartment to some construction workers who were doing renovations on the building, and I came home from class and found them working IN MY BEDROOM without any notice at all. I'm a SA survivor and although I'm mostly healed from that trauma for some reason that triggered me horribly. I had sleep paralysis nightmares about seeing the construction workers standing over my bed for months, and I still have those types of nightmares occasionally even years later. So now anytime a landlord wants to enter to repair or inspect something I'm reminded that they could just give this key to anyone at any time, and it freaks me out so bad.
I do use a door stick thing that makes it so the door cannot open from the outside when I'm home and the stick is up. That gives me some comfort.
My friend bought an inexpensive Wyze cam on Amazon for this exact reason. You can watch from your phone and get alerts when someone enters.
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2023, 11:20 AM
I’m pissed this dude decides to bring his ass back here in lunch break same time as mine.
Bitch! I want to be UNBOTHERED by you and yo kids on as many days as possible. Take your ass to work!!! Eat on lunch at your job break room. Go find a mistress on lunch. Whatever but give my my fucking peace.
indiegirl
01-23-2023, 12:47 PM
Ugh I get SOOOOO effing hungry before my period. I‘ve been so good by just watching the clock and waiting or having a tiny low calorie snack with a lot of water
moneybags
01-23-2023, 02:46 PM
Newbies at the gym. They were hogging the gym equipment. Like do what you need to do, but respect if other people are waiting to use the equipment. I kinda felt like they were just lollygagging. Do your sets and let the next person get in. They had an attitude when I asked them how many sets they had left. Probably cause they didn’t know what they were doing. Like 4 sets should only take 5 or 10 minutes…15 max. The stripper in me just wanted to clap back and tell them to hurry the fuck up, but I was like just find another piece of equipment to work on. But I try to work from compounds to accessories muscles. No need to make a scene. Best believe if she ever is waiting for equipment I’m on I’ll take my sweet as time though.
I know it’s petty AF. Maybe they’re new and just don’t know how rude they were being.
I do try to not hog the equipment when I know people are waiting. If people aren’t I take my sweet as time, but not with the popular machines.
LoveyD
01-23-2023, 03:54 PM
Instacart and their stupid notifications telling me that it's time to go to the store. B**** I know what time it is. And honestly, instacart, you don't pay me enough to come at me with this hop-to- it attitude.
miss.a.p1600
01-23-2023, 06:07 PM
Purchased edibles which turned out to be stale.
Tried to move my stuff in storage but the fucking lock won’t fit
Wasted over an hour
And overall just pissed pissed pissed.
kimbe
01-24-2023, 10:39 AM
Newbies at the gym.
Definitely, I try to be tolerant to newbie’s but how hard can it be..
JGB2009
01-24-2023, 04:53 PM
Last night my car broke down. I hate cars sometimes.
Dreamqueen
01-25-2023, 10:35 AM
Last night my car broke down. I hate cars sometimes.
Car problems are the worst.
Did you find out what the issue is?
Hope it's nothing costly.
I'm putting off getting the diagnosis of why my car is still overheating, because mercury is still in its shadow period, and I'm superstitious.
Aurora_Sunset
01-25-2023, 10:42 AM
Our "snowstorms" have been weak sauce this winter. Icy sleet nonsense for a few hours, maybe a small layer of actual snow on the cars. Of course the cars are still a pain to clean off, but everything is just kinda ugly and boring.
I want a good one. One where it snows pretty flakes all day while I can sit here and watch. Work and schools cancelled. (Well, schools did pre-emptively cancel today, but it wasn't nearly as bad as they thought it might be). I want enough to find a hill to go sledding on, or go on a nice, quiet nighttime walk in the "winter wonderland."
This ugly, grey, ice bullshit needs to take a hike.
WendiStarr
01-25-2023, 11:20 AM
Snowstorm is bad right now and I was supposed to do vanilla job related stuff at 1. There's no snow plow trucks out and my sitter cancelled due to that and a big accident with an Amazon truck and other vehicles on the road.
miss.a.p1600
01-25-2023, 12:55 PM
Last night my car broke down. I hate cars sometimes.
Reminds me of the time my headlight went out and the dude I was fucking at the time was like “just hit it and it will work”
um no you fool. The bulb needs to be replaced now if you ain’t helping me with a VIABLE solution then this will be the last time you see this pussy again.
i hate cheap ass unreliable yet entitled men more
anyways hope you’re able to get it resolved soon.
indiegirl
01-25-2023, 06:37 PM
I've been farting like I'm expelling a demon from my ass ever since I started these probiotics. Good lord. The odor!!! Hahaha.
JGB2009
01-26-2023, 08:00 AM
Car problems are the worst.
Did you find out what the issue is?
Hope it's nothing costly.
I'm putting off getting the diagnosis of why my car is still overheating, because mercury is still in its shadow period, and I'm superstitious.
Yes I figured out what it was. I had a bad alternator and fuse. Luckily it is fixed now. Best of luck figuring out ur car issues.
miss.a.p1600
01-26-2023, 08:35 AM
I've been farting like I'm expelling a demon from my ass ever since I started these probiotics. Good lord. The odor!!! Hahaha.
Worse is when you about to get some head, feel like you have to fart, then have to squeeze your ass muscles to keep from farting in dudes face
most dudes deserved to be farted on though lol!
WendiStarr
01-26-2023, 09:58 AM
I bought birthday decorations off of Amazon for my middle child's upcoming birthday. This'll probably be the last time I do that. I opened the package and the decorations are not all put together one solid banner piece and decorations like in the pictures. They are in a million fucking individual pieces to be pieced together and I apparently have to buy my own string and supplies to string them together. Ugh! I don't have patience for this.
carmen_b
01-26-2023, 10:03 AM
^ If you have a dollar tree there are great decorations for kids ( in one piece ).
Also $1.25 mylar balloons.