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whirlerz
06-13-2015, 07:18 PM
Oh and I forgot my eye cream and there is no where in this fucken downtown area I could get it! I have to have bags the whole trip I guess!

Put a chilled spoon, or cold tea bag on your eye. Also, Cover Girl eye concealer has a depuffer cool metal part in it, it's a concealer, but it's always cool to the touch.

Serena-Shields
06-14-2015, 12:41 AM
Just got a notice of debt from the hospital from when I dislocated my knee, three years ago. 550$! Jesus Christ. And since I demanded an ambulance back then, my brother says there'll be a few thousand more owed as well since I didn't have insurance.

Today is NOT my day.

kaninchen
06-14-2015, 07:24 AM
More than 50 fucking dudes messaged me on OkCupid in the past few days and NONE OF THEM ARE HOT. What the fuck, world?

kaninchen
06-14-2015, 07:36 AM
My company has a strict 'nvr confront shoplifters' policy & today I am 99% sure I saw this bitch slip smtg into her shopping bag. She noticed me watching her & got an immediate, Ghetto Queen Bitch, hand-on-hip 'tude -- 'Is there a PROBLEM???' Wow, way to give yourself away. Only reason I didn't directly confront her was bc I didn't actually see it happen -- just her behaviour & the way she suddenly snapped her shopping bag shut & was very obvious abt trying to keep it out of my line of sight. She then played the race card, loudly, in front of a store full of ppl -- implying that I was suspicious of her bc she was black & I'm so white I glow in the dark. She then paid for a few other items like nothing was amiss but her entire attitude screamed 'trying to pull a fast one!'

I really don't care abt the item, it's sm cheapass tourist trinket that we probably have way too many of anyway -- what pisses me off is the entitled, ripoff mentality that so many ppl maintain inside & outside the club. Karma's got such a ferocious backlog that I really wish I could take care of sm of these shitsacks myself.

When I worked retail I actually didn't care either about people stealing -- I was only bothered by the extremely aggressive and negative attitude they often had. It was baffling and infuriating. One time when I worked at American Apparel, this woman came in and began stealing in a seriously obvious manner. I mean, she was putting clothes in her bag in plain view of the entire store. I asked her if she wanted a fitting room for the tops in her purse, at which point, she started loudly yelling, "Fuck you, bitch! I wouldn't steal this shit! I hate your fucking clothes any way, they're all fucking trash!" (I don't disagree with that last statement!)

Then she pushed over a few display racks while running out of the store. Dude, what??? I could give a fuck if you're gonna steal some overpriced, ratchet crop tops, but why do you want to make my job 10x harder by giving me all this shit to pick up? Just weird.

whirlerz
06-14-2015, 07:45 AM
Just got a notice of debt from the hospital from when I dislocated my knee, three years ago. 550$! Jesus Christ. And since I demanded an ambulance back then, my brother says there'll be a few thousand more owed as well since I didn't have insurance.

Today is NOT my day.

Check out the hospital's assistance programs..they may be able to help/reduce the bill. I hear ya, I'm paying on payment arrangements (which's another possible option) for blood tests & I have insurance!

Me: Where's my cute guy that was staying nearby?:(

Naida
06-14-2015, 11:41 AM
So much migraine. So much fury. So much kitten I do NOT want to get attached to. So much work and so little time...

KikiGem
06-14-2015, 12:29 PM
Why are strip club managers always such assholes? Do you have to treat your dancers like shit?

Selina M
06-14-2015, 01:12 PM
When I worked retail I actually didn't care either about people stealing -- I was only bothered by the extremely aggressive and negative attitude they often had. It was baffling and infuriating. One time when I worked at American Apparel, this woman came in and began stealing in a seriously obvious manner. I mean, she was putting clothes in her bag in plain view of the entire store. I asked her if she wanted a fitting room for the tops in her purse, at which point, she started loudly yelling, "Fuck you, bitch! I wouldn't steal this shit! I hate your fucking clothes any way, they're all fucking trash!" (I don't disagree with that last statement!)

Then she pushed over a few display racks while running out of the store. Dude, what??? I could give a fuck if you're gonna steal some overpriced, ratchet crop tops, but why do you want to make my job 10x harder by giving me all this shit to pick up? Just weird.

My family has a retail store, and the most ridiculous was employees stealing. They would get SO angry when confronted. I think they assumed they'd never get accused because they were employees.

Shoplifting story (sorry Charlie, I have to!): I was hanging out one day talking to my mom and she was showing some baby tortoises to this guy (pet store). She needed to go in back for something, so she gave me the "keep an eye on him" look. I started chatting to him from behind the counter, and suddenly this weirdo starts backing up all slowly, holding a tortoise hatchling in each hand. I went around the counter from the other side to head him off, and as soon as I said "Where ya goin'?" he spins around and takes off through the door.

I was wearing a dress and flip flops, and I chased that motherfucker down. I was screaming my head off, hoping security or the cops that eat across the street would hear, and finally the guy looks around and panics when he sees how close I am. I was a millisecond from tackling him onto the 150* asphalt when he turned around and held the tortoises out, going "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, here!". As soon as I grabbed them, he took off again. I turn around and my mom is just standing in the doorway like :O The security guard showed up a minute later and laughed his ass off that this little tiny blonde girl in a dress chased down a 6' ghetto-hood looking man and made him surrender the 'merchandise'.

Aniela
06-14-2015, 05:16 PM
^^^^ poor baby tortoises!! Lucky they had you there to protect them!

My new annoyance: had sm random lady come into my retail job asking abt getting hired. My coworker thinks she was drunk & I agree she was probably on smtg … but I tried to be helpful anyway. When it was just me & her I mentioned that I used to dance, & that it could be smtg to consider if she was in a tight spot financially. But, intoxicated lips & whatall … I am just hoping it doesn't come back to bite me in the ass, since no one at this job knows abt my stripper history.

wednesday86
06-14-2015, 05:52 PM
Apparently I am not allowed to congratulate my niece on winning a pageant because I didn't give her family money to sponsor it.

I'm sorry. I actually have to work for a living and my man doesn't 100% support me (unlike my niece's mother, who does not work, and gets to devote all of her time to fucking pageants.) I just moved, paid my deposit, rent, utilities, electric, internet, paid a shit ton of bills, enrolled in school full time, pay for groceries, pay for my son's diapers, clothes, etc. For the last month after bills I've barely had anything left over. I don't have a bunch of cash laying around to sponsor a child's beauty pageant...an event that I can't even afford to attend.

They never even talk to me anymore, unless they're asking for $$. I still talk to my niece online all the time (in fact she is the only one who acknowledges my existence) and I do care about her and I was actually proud of her.

But it's inappropriate to congratulate her since I didn't cash in.....

At least I can mark them off my list to visit the next time I'm in town, and won't have to stay in their dirty nasty house ever again. Good riddance.

whirlerz
06-14-2015, 08:10 PM
So. I went to my storage today, & did my ongoing organizing..b/c of my IBS, weight gain, etc., a lot of bottoms don't fit me :(..I gathered a huge bag of stuff to donate, I may break it down into several donations or sell some of it. I'm going to try not to buy much more stuff so I can get rid of as much stuff as possible

wednesday86
06-15-2015, 08:02 AM
A little annoyed with my husband for not bringing me what I asked from his parents. He brought my printer, but no paper. He brought a TV and a bunch of a movies, but no dvd/blu ray player. He asked me for a list which I gave him and he ended up just bringing a bunch of random crap I don't even want.../facepalm. It's a good thing he's pretty.

Glamourmilf
06-15-2015, 11:15 AM
So pissy that the drought where I live has gone on for way too many years now.
ALL of the lawns have turned brown, because of watering restrictions, and it's not even fun to go for my usual walks anymore, because everything is dead, or dying. Brown is the new green, it seems. So sad.
The one thing that always has healed me, both mentally, and physically, is being in nature. Not anymore.:'(

lynn2009
06-15-2015, 02:54 PM
Philadelphia smells like urine and shit. In case anyone was wondering.

whirlerz
06-15-2015, 03:02 PM
Yea, in one area I drove by, awful smell of sewer back up, very hot last night ugh

lynn2009
06-15-2015, 03:04 PM
Yea, in one area I drove by, awful smell of sewer back up, very hot last night ugh

I don't think it's sewage, it's all the homeless people.

Naida
06-15-2015, 03:45 PM
I should just give up on romance.

baer45
06-15-2015, 07:09 PM
Just went to bank of america to close one of my earlier check account this afternoon. What did I find out? They charge you a fee to close an account. What in the world it's legal to do such a thing?

KikiGem
06-15-2015, 07:30 PM
My sister is such a bitch and she treats me like shit. Leave me alone and STFU. Your life is not so hard that you have the right to remotely be this bitchy.

kaninchen
06-16-2015, 10:39 AM
I'm looking at volunteer opportunities for the summer. The local courthouse has a great law library volunteer program, but since it's a courthouse they do an extensive background check including a complete employment history. I wonder if stripping would disqualify me despite my degree, military service, and lack of a criminal record.

>:(

whirlerz
06-16-2015, 10:58 AM
Just went to bank of america to close one of my earlier check account this afternoon. What did I find out? They charge you a fee to close an account. What in the world it's legal to do such a thing?

I know!^ My credit card info got stolen, & I get charged for a 'new card fee'?::)

Aniela
06-16-2015, 11:07 AM
This subj has come up b4 in my house & it really rubbed me wrong last nite when it came up again: my mother's certainty that pitbulls are of the devil.

I understand why she doesn't like them -- one attacked her dog many yrs ago & nearly killed him. That dog was just mean as fk tho, Idk if the owners actually mistreated him or trained him to be that way or if it was just a case of poor temperament that they didn't bother to correct. But ALL pitbulls are the spawn of Satan after that one incident. I've pointed out all the times our relatives who worked in ghetto areas were attacked by black hood rats, yet she doesn't seem to harbour such blanket hatred for black ppl. Not that I think black ppl in general are evil or anything -- my point being, I really don't see why it's ok to demonise an entire breed when you've experienced one isolated incident, but your husband, brother & friends experience multiple acts of aggression from one demographic & it's like 'Meh, no biggie, they lived so I'm not going to get worked up over it'

Your dog that got attacked lived, too, & you said yourself that once you got him to the vet, the dmg wasn't as bad as it first appeared. But it's perfectly acceptable to basically be 'racist' against an entire breed, to the point you won't even enter the yard of a person who has a pitbull that's just chillin' inside the house. Animals are just as much a product of their upbringing as ppl are, if not moreso, & I just find it just as bs to hold that kind of hatred against a breed of animals as a group of humans.

zoezoebelle
06-16-2015, 08:20 PM
I have to drive to work illegally and pray that I don't get pulled over in the next week, because apparently it takes 5 days for the DMV to process a fax and my license was suspended in another state without me being informed, all due to THEIR error in filing the paperwork. I've been fighting with the DMV for the past four months, one damn issue after another. First I got my license but couldn't register until I changed my insurance, then I almost lost my insurance because I didn't have a license plate (which I couldn't get until I registered), then an officer wrote my name so completely wrong on a ticket that nobody could search it even with the code, so I had to go in and dispute that. I thought that was cleared up, so I went back and got my license plate, and when I went to change the address on my license they took it away because the other state hadn't been notified that I cleared up my ticket. I spent a week trying to call them, only to call AAA begging for help. They couldn't help me much. Then I finally got into the call center through the foreign language option. And when I finally got the papers faxed over, they informed me that I could either wait 5+ days for processing (they're closed on Monday, of course, so more like 7), or I could get someone to drive me 3 hours each way to their office since it's now illegal for me to drive in that state due to the red tape. And this whole time, I've been having to go and get new temporary parking stickers because they won't give me a permanent one without a local license and plate. I got two parking tickets due to slightly expired temporary passes, totaling $70. I literally broke down and cried the other day in the midst of this.

whirlerz
06-16-2015, 08:36 PM
Aww, I am so sorry^ Z. That sounds like a freaking nightmare!

simone87
06-16-2015, 09:05 PM
one of my friends just told me her mentally ill mother was just diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and it kinda just all came together and clicked for me because my "friend" is the classic narcissist and now i know where she gets it from. i'm now FINALLY good and done with being her conversation receptacle/ her audience/ her crutch. she doesn't care about me, i'm just somebody there giving her the much needed attention and platform that nobody else has ever given her and she has this huge starving need for it. but i could be anybody, as long as she has somebody to talk AT ( not to) about herself she doesn't care who it is.
and i realized that in my own way, i knew this all along but i was putting up with it because it was my way of keeping a friend and of feeling needed and useful to somebody. because i'm so damn lonely since i moved here i'd put up with just about anything and its pathetic.
the realization that she doesn't give a flying rat's ass about me kind of hurts after 7 long years of "friendship".but i think i'm finally ready to face it. oh well. she's in therapy now so good luck to her. and i won't be putting up with that shit ever again.

whirlerz
06-16-2015, 10:13 PM
I don't think it's sewage, it's all the homeless people.

I don't think that's an appropriate thing to say..
Thank you.

This's been a trying week for a lot of people, hoping & thinking it into positive that it will be better.

carmen_b
06-16-2015, 10:34 PM
The interior pot of my crock pot cracked. :(
I love that thing . Saves so much time / money.

miss.a.p1600
06-16-2015, 10:52 PM
[email protected] I can't sleep!!! .... and I have to wake up early tomorrow. *sigh* FML

OliveJardin
06-17-2015, 02:40 AM
...Mumbai escorts is back lol.

charlotte_ai
06-17-2015, 03:37 AM
My boss at a gym fired me (by email) while I was sick with gastro a week and a half ago.
Supposed to be job hunting this week but nature has decided to gift me with a throat infection that means I can't talk to any potential employers that call... Nor am I able to even answer the phone to tell them that.
Ex boss didn't pay me for being sick and gave a weeks notice I wasn't being kept on (during which I was too sick to work) so now down to my last $100

I HAVE TO assume there's a bigger picture at work I am not seeing here.

Elektra Luxx
06-17-2015, 07:39 AM
...Mumbai escorts is back lol.

Yeah, what's with the big demand for escorts in Mumbai?

charlotte_ai
06-17-2015, 07:42 AM
Yeah, what's with the big demand for escorts in Mumbai?
Secretly... all the girls get over there and the guys are ch$ap a$$ c$nt$... looking to marry... and they come home.
lol. I dunno. Seems like a good way to get sold into the people trade.

lynn2009
06-17-2015, 08:43 AM
Really obnoxious when I say thank you to someone and only get silence in return.

Glamourmilf
06-17-2015, 01:21 PM
Feeling pissy that I couldnt fall asleep last night while I was staying over at my brothers house.
The bed was uncomfortable, and the sheets and towels seemed clean, but had a bad odor.:-[
He's also very fuk..ing anal about everything in his house....the remote, where I should sit, eat, ..What I can touch and not touch, etc.. I really love him, but his OCD gets to me when I'm at his house.
Plus, he's a typical guy...and it's all about him, ...conversations i mean.
I have a bad headache, and my back hurts from lack of sleep.
To top it off, my work check STILL hasnt arrived in the mail yet.>:(

simone87
06-17-2015, 03:35 PM
i hate that rich suburban/urban hipster kids have appropriated plaid flannel. really pisses me off

KikiGem
06-17-2015, 04:23 PM
I'm pissed off that my birthday is in two days and not a single person in my family has asked me what I'd like to do, if there's something special I may like, or even brought it up actually. Yet my sister is making father's day plans with our dad, they're picking out a restaurant and making plans. Wanna know what my dad got my mom for Christmas? A regifted mug one of his coworkers gave him. For their anniversary a few weeks ago? Fucking NOTHING. I do not get my sisters worship of our dad. I've always hated my birthday being so close to father's day.

Naida
06-17-2015, 05:54 PM
I hate that I'm having to clean up nearly this whole fucking house by myself so I can move. Why the fuck can't anyone else lend a hand with THEIR shit?

xStacey
06-17-2015, 07:22 PM
My regular is always texting me such stupid shit. He really doesn't know how to talk to girls, to the point that I understand why he can't have a girlfriend and no girl I know could handle him as a customer. I tell him about my sunburn and show him a picture, he replies "Am I supposed to start calling you Pocahontas now?! Your skin is as white and red as santa claus costume! But don't worry, even if your skin were green I'd still love you as much". :O

And he's always bothering me with stupid random texts such as: "Today is the national donut day!" "It's really hot outside today! You should convince your manager to install a reaaal pool at the club!" Randomly inviting me to astrophysics conventions, ect.

zoezoebelle
06-17-2015, 08:41 PM
One of my regulars was having a rough day yesterday, and today he called me briefly just to chat. I felt bad for him and answered the phone, but inside I was kind of pissed off, like pleeease don't bother me when I'm living my life. xP When I first started stripping I thought I would never ever give my phone number to anyone, but it turns out some of my regulars are just really nice, timid married guys, so I just caved and decided it's better to get the money and have to text these weirdos a few times a week.

kaninchen
06-17-2015, 11:30 PM
I no longer know what my blood type is. When I was in the Army, my dog tags read A+. Later, when I had an abortion I had to take special medication for Rh- women. But... If I'm Rh-, then I'd be A-, not A+. WTF doctors?

Aniela
06-18-2015, 02:53 AM
Feel like I nvr get enough sleep every nite. Ystrdy I came home, fed the dog, took her outside, showered & was in bed around 20h. Didn't even eat. Still woke up several times & was tossing&turnng each time trying to go back to sleep. Now here it is, jut after 0530 & ugh. Still feel so damn tired.

Also, going to be working straight thru almost 2solid wks & still have to do laundry every three days bc boss says she can't get me any more work shirts -- 'full time employees are only allowed to have three shirts, unless you can find & buy them from sm place else!' BULLSHIT. :banghead:

MyButter
06-18-2015, 05:06 AM
I no longer know what my blood type is. When I was in the Army, my dog tags read A+. Later, when I had an abortion I had to take special medication for Rh- women. But... If I'm Rh-, then I'd be A-, not A+. WTF doctors?

!!! Kinda excited to see I'm not the only one this has happened to. I hope I'll never need a blood transfusion :/

I wonder if maybe abortion clinics use different methods than everyone else? My primary care doctor says I'm an A+, but the abortion clinic I went to swore up and down that I was an AB+ (which doesn't make sense to me because I have an A and an O as parents).

Aurora_Sunset
06-18-2015, 07:06 AM
I'm debating whether to call and argue with the state department of revenue or just pay their bullshit fine online and be done with it. I did my taxes at the end of March, and I always use TurboTax and always set it so that everything is automatically withdrawn from my bank account on April 15th. Well, Federal went through just fine, but for some reason, state didn't and I never caught it cuz I assumed everything was fine. I've even been paying my quarterly estimates and the state has been cashing my checks and everything.

Yesterday, I get this nasty letter in the mail about my unpaid state taxes along with a $135 fine and another few dollars in interest. I'm pissed because I have never had a problem doing the exact same thing over and over on TurboTax and why the fuck would Federal come out but not state if it was using the same system?

But at the same time, is an extra $135 really worth the hassle of spending probably an hour on the phone with someone who probably isn't going to believe me/help me anyway?

Aurora_Sunset
06-18-2015, 10:00 AM
I am just all-around shitty today. First, the shit with taxes literally just made my entire last bank deposit obsolete. Just had lunch with a client who has gone from seeing me every month to like once a year, but still hounds me for lunches all the time. I made the time every couple of months to keep him happy but he just told me he's filing for bankruptcy so the chances of him being a paying client in the near future are suddenly extremely slim...

I'm supposed to hang out with a friend tonight who apparently is helping a friend of friend out of an abusive situation and keeps hounding me for advice since I volunteer with the women's shelter, and there just comes a point where I have to be like dude, you can only do so much. You're not going to magically swoop in and "fix" the entire situation and nothing I tell you is going to make her life immediately better. She'd be better off just straight-up calling the shelter and asking for the resources she needs rather than me trying to do third-party counseling or some shit. It's getting on my nerves.

I'm also supposed to go to some big food and drink event on Saturday but I really really don't want to. I've lost 17 pounds and am only 3 away from my goal weight, but I feel like every time I step out of the house and try to be social, I take a giant step backwards. It makes me angry to be out and I just berate myself all day long about how fat I am and how I'm so sick of being fat. Logically, I know this is probably some form of body dysmorphia and that avoiding going out is feeding into it, but I don't know how to handle it.

I just want to hide from the world right now.

xStacey
06-18-2015, 07:21 PM
Stupid regular customers. Just because you come visit every week and never even leave a tip doesn't mean you're entitled to free text messages from me every single day. The same stupid guy I often talk about in here, who texts me all the time, texted me yesterday and I replied. I only reply once in awhile, so he texts me again today to ask how I'm feeling because I told him I got a sunburn. Really didn't feel like having a conversation with him today so I just replied a short "Not too well, it hurts lol" he replies :(, thought he understood I didn't feel like talking. 6 hours later he texts me again and asks so how are you feeling? Are you putting lotion on as you should?

Fuck off, I am not dying it's a sun burn, I don't need you to ask me twice in one day at 6 hours interval how I'm feeling. I hate this guy so much, everything he says annoys me, whenever I see him or get a message from him I get so pissed. He tries so hard to appear to be a nice guy it's just annoying. Like when I'm sitting on his lap, every single time he asks me "Are you comfortable? Are you sure? It's important that you're comfortable! Omg you really don't look like you're comfortable at all! Sit in a way that makes you comfortable! It's very important, you're not an object!!".

When he gets a bodyrub, I know he wants his happy ending but he pretends like he doesn't want it. "Are you sure you want to do that? You know you don't have to do it if you don't want to. Are you sure you want to dirty yourself after having such a great time together?" Just shut up and let me do my job. It's not one more or one less handjob that's gonna make a difference. I have some bodyrub regulars who don't want a happy ending and they make it very clear, they don't even want me to touch their dick. I tried not giving that reg a body slide and happy ending since that's what he asked for, when I do that he comes see me once a month, but when I give him his happy ending he comes every week, so stop pretending you're a gentleman and don't want a handjob lol, just shut up. I don't WANT to give you a happy ending, I just want your money. Does he really think I give him one because I "want" to?

sexsells
06-19-2015, 02:04 AM
I'm not feeling pissy today as fully fledged raging. My back has and is currently extremely fucked, something incredible is happening with nerve pain and also my right hip is fucked up. I can not work no matter how back I want to. What really has me raging is that 6000 USA sailors have docked port for the weekend and i can't take any of their money :'( FMLLLLL

22lligm
06-19-2015, 02:40 AM
I feel bad talking shit about my sister but this IS petty annoyances thread and this is one petty annoyance I have lately lol.

I am getting SO damn tired of my sister acting like she is the queen of strippers ever since she started working at this little shitty dive. Any attractive girl can waltz into a little club and suddenly be Queen Bee of strippers but that does not mean you got it down at every club. I have worked at way more clubs than her from dive to large clubs & I'm fully aware that I may be the shit at one place but not at the next. But now she goes from being stuck on dayshifts at nicer clubs to being the hottest one weekend nights at the new dive and suddenly she could write a book on how to be a stripper. If she talks down to me one more time as if I have something to learn from her I'm going to explode. I guarantee you if she came to where I work she would not be so cocky.

OK OK i'm done venting lol.

Aniela
06-19-2015, 03:05 AM
So many girls bitch abt the declining hiring standards in clubs resulting in oversaturation of girls & whatnot … yet every single time a starry-eyed new girl starts a 'So do you think I could really have a chance????' thread it's the same resounding 'Of course you have a chance, go out there & try! Don't worry abt that extra 20-30lbs, it'll come off w/ dancing!' or whatever the issue might be.

There seem to be several of these type threads every wk & nvr any 'Hey, you're beautiful & all, BUT you really need to work on xyz first' bc being 'supportive' is more important than being realistic. I just think that being too supportive can set sm of these new girls up for going into the club only to be chewed up & spit out bc they really are overweight, or have such bad social anxiety, or whatever.

Kellydancer
06-19-2015, 10:01 AM
Aniela I agree but the problem is when people are realistic others jump on her. Awhile back (has to be a few years) a woman asked that question and she was not dancer material (at least upscale). A poster was honest and said the girl had to lose weight and a few other things and other posters said she was being mean to her. There was another one who was no way ever going to be a dancer at a good club and same thing. It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't.

michele11
06-19-2015, 04:35 PM
^ I'm always brutally honest. Better than them wasting time and money for sure.