View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
michele11
06-19-2015, 04:53 PM
I need to get in the shower and 2 bulbs are burnt out so I sit here and wait. It's already dark enough in the bathroom I don't wanna look like a circus freak at work. They probably hate me and my gf. Were constantly having them bring stuff up since we sleep til after house keeping done. Lol. I don't wanna get ready!!!
ScarletKitten
06-19-2015, 06:05 PM
*deleted*
Leaving angry posts up is feeding into negative vibrations.
Aniela
06-19-2015, 06:15 PM
I'm so fucking angry at my bf. I want to break up with him. I need to just send him back to his country. I am fucking done. It's over.
I want to call the police and have his ass deported. I've suffered through this piece of shit relationship for 8 torturous years, and I cannot do it anymore. Will the cops deport him?
Depends on his current immigration status & what he's done. They can likely muck him up at the very least.
Aurora_Sunset
06-19-2015, 06:39 PM
Every time the tineist drop of water gets between my phone screen and the front of the case, it screws up the touchscreen and damn near never goes away until I pry the screen apart and wipe it off. I can't get it with my nails so I have to spend 5 minutes digging at it with this stupid keychain I have. It's such a pain in the ass.
lynn2009
06-19-2015, 08:21 PM
This friend who I can't really stand anymore for WEEKS has been going on about this guy from overseas who she met briefly while he was visiting her city in the US. Apparently he was just soooo flirty via text, she really thought it was going somewhere. Then she found out he had a girlfriend and she's been losing her shit about it ever since. She is yelling about it again tonight. When does it fucking end, my God, she's as bad as I am but at least I actually dated the guys I lose my mind over!! Come on!
miss.a.p1600
06-19-2015, 09:11 PM
Im pissed cause I want a generous husband, a mansion, and a pretty baby .... like NOW! lol. I hate having to wait this long. I can't wait till I get what I want so I can parade around the babys daddy and do everything to make him super jealous for all the years I deal with his bullsh*t.
BarbieNYC
06-20-2015, 07:16 AM
Humble bragging is still really annoying me in here. And it's gotten worse.
Actually the forum is kinda giving off this negative vibe in general. I rarely post anymore and don't even bother reading the hot topic threads. Lots of passive aggressiveness and keyboard warriors. I wonder if they are this aggressive in real life cuz I know a lot of hood bitches that'll get in your face but they're not really the type to go posting on foums unless you count instagram lol. The only thread I can think of that I started as negative was the new posters thread, but it ended up going a positive route with lots of good suggestions from members. Why can't all threads go that route?
ScarletKitten
06-20-2015, 07:28 AM
^^Yeah, I here ya. I've been desperately trying to stay positive, but I think this world is just going nuts now. I just had to unfriend someone. Too bad. I tried to give love and support to this person ever since I've been here. It's sad, really. Oh well.
I won't be posting on here as much anymore either. I feel the negativity everywhere and I just want to be done with it.
I have this strange feeling that certain frequencies are being beamed upon the masses. That's why everyone seems to be angry and blowing up. Or maybe it's the new moon? I don't know. All I know is, I am done with this negativity.
Peace and Love everyone.
hf487
06-20-2015, 07:55 AM
I paid- $655 for a new photo shoot- that im not happy with- I looked BLAH my legs have been attacked by cellulite and i SERIOusLY need to get hardcore in the gym and get rid of it!
I just hate feeling like shit after a photoshoot- Ive been published before a few times and i guess i havent taken care of my body and now that im not 21 anymore that has taken its toll- i never had to
work out before to look good and now i do and its going to take some work to get my body where it needs to be- Eating like shit plus not working out has not been good for me over the last 3 years.
Yesterday i was fricken depressed over it- thinking i was ugly blah blah blah- Its so annoying
Im so over trying to be some hott "Model" im a Badass Camgirl and thats good enough- now days Pretty and Sexy dont mean a thing- Pretty girls are a dime a dozen and im done trying to compete with that
im gna do me- and be the best me i can be!!!
simone87
06-20-2015, 09:13 AM
I may get a lot of shit for this, but i feel like strippers and sex workers ( not all, but a LOT) are sometimes more slut shamey and judgmental and just prissy AF than civilian women so much of the time..its like we complain about being judged but then turn around and do it 10X worse to each other! and i feel like a lot of it is because some girls just aren't fully comfortable doing this job and so feel that they have to put others girls down to feel better, like " i may be a stripper but at least I'm not wxyz bla bla like her! what a nasty whore! hehehe". there's also just so much cut throat competition and yes, bragging and boasting and puffing your chest out like a little rooster in this business and the body shaming and body bragging is just ridiculously bad. and i dont mean just on this forum, its worse in real life.
Elektra Luxx
06-20-2015, 09:52 AM
Period! Yuck! Pain! Cramps! Sad! Pissed-off! In fetal position! Bf: "We should do something fun today". Me thinking where I'm going to hide his body.
xStacey
06-20-2015, 11:07 AM
There's a girl at my club who's constantly complaining about being broke, not having money to pay rent but at the same time often brags about her lavish lifestyle. Do you seriously need a 5 1/2 for just one person, a $5000 fridge, working out with a personal trainer 5 times a week and eating out 3 times a day?
Selina M
06-20-2015, 01:26 PM
Humble bragging is still really annoying me in here. And it's gotten worse.
Actually the forum is kinda giving off this negative vibe in general. I rarely post anymore and don't even bother reading the hot topic threads. Lots of passive aggressiveness and keyboard warriors. I wonder if they are this aggressive in real life cuz I know a lot of hood bitches that'll get in your face but they're not really the type to go posting on foums unless you count instagram lol. The only thread I can think of that I started as negative was the new posters thread, but it ended up going a positive route with lots of good suggestions from members. Why can't all threads go that route?
I used to get kinda annoyed at members like that, and now I just remember that a lot of them are probably very unhappy in some other way. I'd rather be making less $$ than them and not be completely miserable/giving myself problems. Stripping full time has a tendency to consume you, and this is probably one of the only ways they feel good about themselves, by flashing their $$ around on an internet forum.
Okay annoyance: I can't focus for shit on studying... Like, if I have assignments to complete, that's all good, I love checking things off. But to just say "The test is over 4 chapters, study" ? Ugh. It gets done, I've gotten much better at teaching myself how to study (wish that had happened in like, sophomore year!), but it's grueling mentally. I need lists and order. I have a test in an hour and a half and here I am on SW.
I think that's why I'm semi-intimidated by night shift. There's no order. It's fucking chaos. Ahhh!
MyButter
06-20-2015, 02:49 PM
Arrrgh moving is so stressful.
I dont even understand how we're going to go about looking for a place to live when the handful of hotels that do allow pets wont allow them to be left unattended in the room even if they're kenneled. Don't worry, I completely understand why the hotels have implemented this policy, but it sure as hell complicates matters.
Naida
06-20-2015, 04:48 PM
So many girls bitch abt the declining hiring standards in clubs resulting in oversaturation of girls & whatnot … yet every single time a starry-eyed new girl starts a 'So do you think I could really have a chance????' thread it's the same resounding 'Of course you have a chance, go out there & try! Don't worry abt that extra 20-30lbs, it'll come off w/ dancing!' or whatever the issue might be.
There seem to be several of these type threads every wk & nvr any 'Hey, you're beautiful & all, BUT you really need to work on xyz first' bc being 'supportive' is more important than being realistic. I just think that being too supportive can set sm of these new girls up for going into the club only to be chewed up & spit out bc they really are overweight, or have such bad social anxiety, or whatever.
I've completely stopped visiting those threads, and many of the other newbie threads, for precisely this reason. Some of the girls are just fix-'er-uppers who would be up to snuff in a few weeks if they made the effort, and it's understandable to tell them to start before those changes are made for financial reasons, but some of them really have no business auditioning until they make changes first. Need to lose some vanity weight, like 10lb? Go ahead and give it a shot. Need to lose 20+? Work out first and try later. I just can't bring myself to say it when many posters get jumped for telling the truth. I thought we were supposed to sell customers a fantasy, not live in denial ourselves about who we think will be a good dancer.
My gripe, on the flip side of all that, I feel like a hypocrite because I'm not up to what I consider to be par for the course. I can only help the weight issue so much because I have no control over my diet until I leave next week and diet is the largest influence on my weight. I feel like my teeth are horrid and I only seem to feel worse about my skin issues (two tattoos, scarring from a failed navel piecing, a few birthmarks) as time goes by. When I look in the mirror, I really do not see stripper material these days. I'm constantly reminding myself that I'm really only ~10lbs away from what I consider to be an acceptable weight and all the bloating that makes it look worse will clear up within a few days of getting there. I've also furiously hunted down every dentist I could find there that does the types of work I need/want and I think I've found the perfect one.
Just... ugh. Back to work cleaning for packing.
zoezoebelle
06-21-2015, 12:14 AM
Pretty sure my housemate just screamed bloody murder from sex, with her door wide open and the lights off (and no other loud sex noises leading up to it). I had no idea she even had company over, so I felt obligated to open my door and ask if she was okay, assuming there might be a rat again. All I heard was moaning. Sigh. It's 3am. If you HAVE to scream that loud you could at least make an attempt to have sex with the damn door closed. Now I just feel like an idiot for showing genuine concern.
kaninchen
06-21-2015, 12:44 AM
I have cramps and no chocolate to console myself with.
miss.a.p1600
06-21-2015, 10:28 AM
I am feeling depressed. I just want to lay in bed all day but I can't and resent having to hustle for adult responsibilities. I hate having to commute to the club to make money. I wish I automatically had all the money I needed and didn't have to hustle for money anymore.
curvydancer25
06-21-2015, 11:36 AM
My boyfriend gropes me too much. Every time he comes home from work he automatically reaches for my ass, pussy or breasts. He checks to see what kind of underwear I'm wearing and if I'm sexy for him. Sometimes I have to cover up just so he won't touch me and it's too hot and humid for that. He works nights so most of the time I'm in bed when he gets home...currently 6 months pregnant so things are uncomfortable. As soon as he wakes up he reaches for my ass or pussy. He'll literally pull my shirt down and stretch it out to grab a tittie. Like this morning, he wakes up and starts to put his fingers in my underwear. I've told him before about it and he stopped for a few days but got right back to it. So today I asked him, Do you really think I like being touched on my pussy as soon as I wake up? His response...It's mine right? I said "No it's not yours, it's mine and I give you the privilege to touch me. That doesn't mean you get to touch it anytime you want. It's annoying to wake up and be groped all the time." When he doesn't get his way he shuts down and gets quiet and upset. I told him "You don't have to get quiet and not talk to me all day just because I told you not to grope me all the time." And what does he do? He says "Ok you made your point" with an attitude. So Now he's not talking to me and he's gonna have an attitude for the day until he goes to work just because I told him there has to be boundaries and you can't get what you want all the time. Now he's acting like he's going back to sleep when I know damn well he's not.
I feel like all he sees me as is a sex object and a play toy. I asked him the other day, why don't you rub my back or shoulders or something instead of my private parts. I don't even remember what he said. Of course he thinks I'm rejecting him when I tell him not to do something. It gets so fucking irritating. I said what if I grabbed your dick all the time how would you feel? He said he wouldn't care. I doubt that.
MyButter
06-21-2015, 12:00 PM
Sometimes it's hard to come to terms with knowing that my parents, cousins, aunts, uncles, and peers from my hometown are all ashamed of me. I'm basically the family fuckup, and while it's mortifying and it makes me sad, it's a little infuriating because I personally don't think the decisions I've made are *that* awful. Who knew dropping out of college was such a crime? And stripping?! Eternal damnation!
Maybe I'm totally alone on this one, but I feel like if my daughter decides to strip, cam, escort, or do anything sexwork related I wouldn't be ashamed or disappointed at all. And more power to her if she decides to opt out of college and march to the beat of her own drum. I just don't want her to have to carry the weight of familial/peer disappointment like I do.
kaninchen
06-21-2015, 12:11 PM
My boyfriend gropes me too much. [...]
Oh HELL no. Girl... My face when reading your post:
http://22oh311t47ddptkji3ha50yx.wpengine.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/oprah-are-you-serious.gif
Let me try to put this delicately: have you thought about leaving his ass? Ugh, what he's doing is extremely disrespectful, gross, totally unloving, and just all-around bad. Exactly like my ex-boyfriend. OMG why are men fucking awful seriously
Naida
06-21-2015, 03:13 PM
You know, I'm glad my niece's father wants to be a part of her life, but he needs to get it through his thick fucking skull that her entire life has been here with us. It's disgustingly fucking selfish of him to make her miss a play date that has been scheduled for two weeks and keep her past the time I was originally scheduled to be moving five hours away from her. Thank goodness I managed to reschedule for next week, or else we'd both be miserable about not getting to spend time together because he's a prick.
lynn2009
06-21-2015, 05:54 PM
I've had a migraine all day. I've been getting really terrible headaches the last few months and I didn't know what else to blame on it other than my old glasses prescription. My old pair I had for ~4 years, but I always saw clearly out of them so I never worried about it. When I switched to my contacts and got my new pair the headaches eased up a bit but not entirely. I have no idea what's going on. I googled what it means to get headaches in your eye or eye socket and the only thing that comes up in cluster headaches :O
baer45
06-21-2015, 06:04 PM
Just realized there is no more Game of throne tonight. Should have made other plans!
kaninchen
06-21-2015, 06:54 PM
I am so annoyed by the depiction of camming as sleazy and unhealthy and vaguely criminal in the new season of True Detective. Stop it! I hate this trope!
Selina M
06-21-2015, 09:30 PM
Why were there teenagers hanging out on the landing of my staircase? They don't live here. I don't like saying "Uh excuse me?" to get up to my apt.
Now they're walking away around the other side of the building, and I'm on the balcony with the dogs... they're yelling "woof! woof!", trying to get them to bark... I just got Atticus to shut up >_<
lynn2009
06-22-2015, 07:34 AM
I wish I had something fun to do with my week off.
2 tons of fun
06-22-2015, 08:40 AM
Ugly and overweight women hating on the pretty girls in the club. If you dont like how you look, do something about it. No need to hate anyone else because they look better than you.
miss.a.p1600
06-22-2015, 10:46 AM
Why were there teenagers hanging out on the landing of my staircase? They don't live here. I don't like saying "Uh excuse me?" to get up to my apt.
Omg I hate that! Had that experience several times last summer and I reported their ass for loitering lol! I never said excuse me I just gave them a stern look "like get the f*ck out of my way" and stormed through and they instantly moved over. Still annoying though.
[email protected] it if their parents are too lazy to entertain them or busy at work then they need to be in a summer camp or at a job or doing something productive. If they want to stand around all day in the sweltering heat then they can do that on their own patio / balcony / terrace / staircase.
whirlerz
06-22-2015, 10:55 AM
Why were there teenagers hanging out on the landing of my staircase? They don't live here. I don't like saying "Uh excuse me?" to get up to my apt.
Now they're walking away around the other side of the building, and I'm on the balcony with the dogs... they're yelling "woof! woof!", trying to get them to bark... I just got Atticus to shut up >_<
Yea, sounds like where I live..& they have to try & aggravate the dog too? Ugh..I'm w/Miss P.
So, I can't fit in these pants I really love..I will have to search on Ebay to get 'em
Selina M
06-22-2015, 02:50 PM
Omg I hate that! Had that experience several times last summer and I reported their ass for loitering lol! I never said excuse me I just gave them a stern look "like get the f*ck out of my way" and stormed through and they instantly moved over. Still annoying though.
I almost asked "Isn't it past your bedtime?" Hahaha.
The girls were all "Omg sorry!" and moved, the boys were the ones that puffed up ::)
Soooo can we make SW like Survivor, and vote annoying, argumentative, know-it-all blue members off the forum? Pretty please?
zoezoebelle
06-22-2015, 03:17 PM
It's kind of weird how I'll tell friends about these crazy rich/famous guys I meet at work, and the first thing everyone says is, "Isn't it amazing how rich/famous people are normal people just like us?" I don't know where they're all getting this information from, but that hasn't been my experience at all. xD These guys are fucking freaks. The whole elite class is like a foreign planet where everyone's some kind of manipulative sociopathic genius with a massive ego. The few who aren't like that do amaze me, yeah.
xStacey
06-22-2015, 06:14 PM
It's kind of weird how I'll tell friends about these crazy rich/famous guys I meet at work, and the first thing everyone says is, "Isn't it amazing how rich/famous people are normal people just like us?" I don't know where they're all getting this information from, but that hasn't been my experience at all. xD These guys are fucking freaks. The whole elite class is like a foreign planet where everyone's some kind of manipulative sociopathic genius with a massive ego. The few who aren't like that do amaze me, yeah.
Lol I initially had the same reaction too... I was surprised multimillionaire CEO goes to the movies by himself on a Friday and Saturday night to watch superhero movies, eats hot dogs on his cheat day, texts with "LOL" just like ordinary people.
Aurora_Sunset
06-22-2015, 07:29 PM
*$_^%&^!!! I scratched my fucking eye and even with my contacts out all day, it's just getting worse. Bright red, super sensitive to light. I have my brightness on the computer turned all the way down and it still hurts. It's only 10:30 and I don't want to go to bed, but pretty much all I'm gonna be capable of soon is sitting in the dark. That's the only way it isn't hellish.
zoezoebelle
06-22-2015, 08:26 PM
Lol I initially had the same reaction too... I was surprised multimillionaire CEO goes to the movies by himself on a Friday and Saturday night to watch superhero movies, eats hot dogs on his cheat day, texts with "LOL" just like ordinary people.
The CEO I'm dating sends the most hilarious drunk texts, literally like a 16 year old girl sending texts every two minutes. "hru?" "hello?" "hi?" "hey?" "hi?" "where are u?" "i miss u :(" But he came from a blue collar family. The others at the club are extremely strange in my experience. And even the one I'm dating is very different from most people in certain ways... He does have a very commanding aura and really dances to his own beat, which I adore. The other day he picked me up in a porsche and on the road we saw a farmer's market, so he was like, "Hey look, fresh fruit!" and pulled over. I was thrilled. The people working there looked terrified and literally jumped out of the way when we walked up together. xD One time he said he would be 20 minutes late and ended up being on time, so I was sitting in a Denny's and he just walked in in a full suit and sat down in front of me. Shameless... x3
ScarletKitten
06-22-2015, 10:49 PM
*$_^%&^!!! I scratched my fucking eye and even with my contacts out all day, it's just getting worse. Bright red, super sensitive to light. I have my brightness on the computer turned all the way down and it still hurts. It's only 10:30 and I don't want to go to bed, but pretty much all I'm gonna be capable of soon is sitting in the dark. That's the only way it isn't hellish.
Oh god, that must hurt so bad! I scratched my cornea really badly as a kid and it was one of the worst pains I ever felt in my life. Go to the eye doctor ASAP!
xStacey
06-23-2015, 09:23 AM
"I know you will say no, but will you (insert OTC invitation here) with me?"
It pisses me off so much when cheap regulars who never tip ask. Because it's too expensive at the club they think it's gonna be free OTC ::)
Aniela
06-23-2015, 09:54 AM
Customers at my retail job who think they are being helpful by trying to crappily refold & replace my tshirts. No hon, you're not being helpful, you're not being cute, you're actually further mucking up my displays by topping the stacks off w/ shirts that look like a child folded them. I wish we could have a designated drop-off spot for unfolded shirts, it would make collecting & straightening them so much easier.
KikiGem
06-23-2015, 03:59 PM
My sister is so bitchy all the time. I can't stand it anymore. She has a great place in her college town, our parents pay rent for it, it's empty- go live there!!! She's been making us all miserable since early may, she doesn't leave until sometime in August. Between this swampy heat, her and all the shit in my life idk how I'm going to survive the summer. I just want her to go away since it's obvious she'll never change and actually treat us (especially my brother and I) like family much less human beings so yeah... Go away!
Rant over...
Selina M
06-23-2015, 05:34 PM
I'm still getting kind of shocked at the prices people charge for wedding shit. I asked my old roommate to do our photos. I fully expected him to charge something, but he also does not have any weddings or even portrait sessions in his portfolio and it seems to be mostly a hobby for him... He said he would normally charge $800-$2000 but would do ours for $500 :o
I mean, he does really great stuff from what he does have, photos are my non-negotiable, and I'd rather pay him than a stranger (I can imagine being uncomfortable with a stranger following us around saying "act happy!" and shit)... But jee bus. Most people at least shoot a couple weddings before they have the balls to ask for $2000.
Can't help but wonder if he's been studying the whole "Ask for something high first so the lesser seems more reasonable" thing himself.
HoolaTwister
06-23-2015, 06:14 PM
I confess that I find bragging about money to be so tasteless and tacky. I know real moneyed people don't talk about it or act so impressed.
michele11
06-23-2015, 07:07 PM
My second day home. Nothing on TV and I want snacks but don't feel like driving out to get them. I'm already bored and don't want to deal with adult stuff!
Genoveve
06-23-2015, 08:47 PM
I get annoyed because there's 2 things I would like to do every day; work and exercise. However I don't like to work until I have nothing else left to do in the day and I don't like to exercise until I have nothing else left to do in the day......and so I usually end up doing only one of those things a day which is nuts because the two things combined would only take a few hours. I wish I could work 3 long shifts a week and therefor have 4 days off to do my working-out on but every time I try to work longer shifts my average plummets. :boggled:
xStacey
06-23-2015, 09:38 PM
I hate holidays, tomorrow is a big holiday where I live. I want to go see my doctor but it's closed, I work on Thursday at 11 so I can't, from Friday to Sunday it's closed, so I have to wait until Monday. I have tons of packages I am waiting to be delivered but nope, will have to wait until Thursday to get them.
Serena-Shields
06-24-2015, 11:24 AM
Had to drop my favorite regular this week.
He started talking about coming to see me, bringing it up almost as frequently as anything else we talked about, so I finally told him it wasn't going to happen. In different circumstances I would have thought about it, but he wants a relationship. No, honey. If you're coming down here you're going to get billed for every second that spend with you.
Told me he was too attached to just be a client, so bye bye. Oh well.
Also it turns out my brother thinks only damaged girls do sex work and that I'll regret it one day. I asked him if he thought I would also regret my promiscuity, he says no, because I'm not charging for it. LOL, buddy, if you even knew what I planned on doing once I get a car.
lynn2009
06-24-2015, 01:05 PM
I don't know if anything drives me fucking crazier than when I call to ask when auditions are and I show up only to be told come back tomorrow!! My god get your shit together people.
xStacey
06-24-2015, 02:56 PM
Had to drop my favorite regular this week.
He started talking about coming to see me, bringing it up almost as frequently as anything else we talked about, so I finally told him it wasn't going to happen. In different circumstances I would have thought about it, but he wants a relationship. No, honey. If you're coming down here you're going to get billed for every second that spend with you.
Told me he was too attached to just be a client, so bye bye. Oh well.
Also it turns out my brother thinks only damaged girls do sex work and that I'll regret it one day. I asked him if he thought I would also regret my promiscuity, he says no, because I'm not charging for it. LOL, buddy, if you even knew what I planned on doing once I get a car.
I regret sleeping with random guys and giving myself for free prior to sex work.
miss.a.p1600
06-24-2015, 03:02 PM
I regret sleeping with random guys and giving myself for free prior to sex work.
[email protected] real! All those times I twerked in the club for free...smh! And let not mention the free - and often times mediocre - sex I had with dudes that were not worthy of my p*ssy. If I could go back in time I'd charge the skin off their a$$ straight gold digger sugar baby style. Ugh lesson learned.
xStacey
06-24-2015, 03:06 PM
[email protected] real! All those times I twerked in the club for free...smh! And let not mention the free - and often times mediocre - sex I had with dudes that were not worthy of my p*ssy. If I could go back in time I'd charge the skin off their a$$ straight gold digger sugar baby style. Ugh lesson learned.
Lol I started reading Ho Tactics (thanks again NightGoddess for the suggestion) and the author was talking about giving away free pussy for what, an orgasm? And I was thinking... All that free sex I had, I did not even get an orgasm from *face palm*.
(Sorry for the threadjack)
Aurora_Sunset
06-24-2015, 03:32 PM
^^Totally went and ordered Ho Tactics today after reading her post too! I'm so excited for it to come. I can't stomach the thought of free sex these days. It makes me sick to think of all the mediocre sex I had with assholes for...nothing. Ugh. Regret that way more than all the money I've made charging for it!0