View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
zoezoebelle
06-28-2015, 10:09 AM
Yesterday I barely got any sleep, then ran around working on a film project all day and forgot to eat, then worked a late night shift and had a couple drinks. Could barely drive home even after I stayed an hour to wait off the drinks. Now I'm stuck in bed today in pain. I did this to myself, sigh. Time to count the money and remind myself it was worth it.
Glamourmilf
06-28-2015, 01:15 PM
Feeling pissy that I feel that my brother is taking advantage of me.
He acts really concerned because I am not allowed to put on the a/c where I'm renting a room, and I'm dying from the intense heat. He tells me that I should go over and hang out at his house, where it's nice and cool.
Right after I text him back that I will come over, he texts back and asks for a ride to run his errands! He's done this several times lately, and I feel like his personal driver.
Plus, every time he invites me over to hang out, he's watching sports! Ugh! I hate watching sports! It only reminds me that that's the reason I'm usually not working in the first place...because sports fucks up my camming money.
I'm so drained today because of all of that driving I did for him yesterday.
I'm going to say no from now on, when he asks me to drive him anywhere.
xStacey
06-28-2015, 02:26 PM
Ok seriously, I always go dutch on dates, I shouldn't even be doing this and I never ask for gifts. For the first time ever I ask the guy I am seeing to take me somewhere, for my birthday to see a show and it's their last tour in North America, I'm not even asking for VIP tickets, I asked for the gold tickets because the seats for the cheaper ones are all the way in the back. They're $150 after taxes, after I told him the price he just stopped replying and it's been over half an hour. Seriously? My body rub customers pay the cost of VIP tickets to see me for an hour, the only time I ask for something in over a year for my birthday and he cannot even shell out $150 to take me out? He's not a poor student, he's 29 and has a career in his family business, he can afford it but he doesn't want to.
zoezoebelle
06-28-2015, 03:07 PM
Ok seriously, I always go dutch on dates, I shouldn't even be doing this and I never ask for gifts. For the first time ever I ask the guy I am seeing to take me somewhere, for my birthday to see a show and it's their last tour in North America, I'm not even asking for VIP tickets, I asked for the gold tickets because the seats for the cheaper ones are all the way in the back. They're $150 after taxes, when I told him that he just stopped replying and it's been over half an hour. Seriously? My body rub customers pay the cost of VIP tickets to see me for an hour, the only time I ask for something in over a year for my birthday and he cannot even shell out $150 to take me out? He's not a poor student, he's 29 and has a career in his family business, he can afford it but he doesn't want to.
Maybe this is a sign that you should start asking for gifts, or at least expecting them. I used to be the same way; I was always a cheap date and never wanted people to spend money on me, and I usually ended up with men who didn't give a shit about me. I ended up financially helping out a couple of them even though they both worked full time and were just being reckless with their money, while I have a chronic illness and can barely work. My current boyfriend keeps trying to buy me things and spends a lot of money taking me out, and it freaks me out because I guess I was raised to believe that I don't deserve it. Maybe I do, though. Maybe you do too. Just let yourself consider the possibility at least.
xStacey
06-28-2015, 03:34 PM
Maybe this is a sign that you should start asking for gifts, or at least expecting them. I used to be the same way; I was always a cheap date and never wanted people to spend money on me, and I usually ended up with men who didn't give a shit about me. I ended up financially helping out a couple of them even though they both worked full time and were just being reckless with their money, while I have a chronic illness and can barely work. My current boyfriend keeps trying to buy me things and spends a lot of money taking me out, and it freaks me out because I guess I was raised to believe that I don't deserve it. Maybe I do, though. Maybe you do too. Just let yourself consider the possibility at least.
It's been almost 2 hours, I had the time to finish a session with a body rub customer and he still hasn't replied. Seriously, I'm just gonna find someone else who's gonna take me, shouldn't be hard, if $150 to take me out on my birthday is too much to ask because on his birthday and special occasions (x-mas, v day) I spent way more than that on him and he only bought me cheap gifts like $30 nerd figurines. Yeah okay it's the thought that counts but I'm fed up. Maybe that's why he's almost 30 and only dates women who are 21 years old because they're naive and don't expect more out of him as opposed to grown women.
HoolaTwister
06-28-2015, 04:46 PM
It's been almost 2 hours, I had the time to finish a session with a body rub customer and he still hasn't replied. Seriously, I'm just gonna find someone else who's gonna take me, shouldn't be hard, if $150 to take me out on my birthday is too much to ask because on his birthday and special occasions (x-mas, v day) I spent way more than that on him and he only bought me cheap gifts like $30 nerd figurines. Yeah okay it's the thought that counts but I'm fed up. Maybe that's why he's almost 30 and only dates women who are 21 years old because they're naive and don't expect more out of him as opposed to grown women.
You deserve it all, you deserve everything! Trust me, when you start to believe this, to expect nothing but the best, it will come to you. This guy? Forget him. He's not worthy enough to spend your bday with you :)
zoezoebelle
06-28-2015, 06:12 PM
It's been almost 2 hours, I had the time to finish a session with a body rub customer and he still hasn't replied. Seriously, I'm just gonna find someone else who's gonna take me, shouldn't be hard, if $150 to take me out on my birthday is too much to ask because on his birthday and special occasions (x-mas, v day) I spent way more than that on him and he only bought me cheap gifts like $30 nerd figurines. Yeah okay it's the thought that counts but I'm fed up. Maybe that's why he's almost 30 and only dates women who are 21 years old because they're naive and don't expect more out of him as opposed to grown women.
If a man doesn't treat you right from the very beginning, there's no chance he ever will. You shouldn't have to buy things for him to prove that you deserve to be treated right. I've made the mistake many times of telling myself "Well that's just a small personality flaw" or "Sure he's mean but I think he has good intentions." It's always part of a bigger picture. Should have dumped my almost-30-year-old ex when he was super rude to people in public on the second date. Sure enough, a few months later he was super rude to me, and on top of that started expecting me to pay for all the food on top of my own rent. I thought he was so impressive because he was from a good family and willing to date a stripper. Turns out there are a lot of really nice, successful, awesome guys who are willing to date a stripper, and some of them can actually take care of you.
whirlerz
06-28-2015, 06:33 PM
I'm so lonely & scared right now..I spent the last 2 days moving all my shit out of my motel, & bringing it to storage, back & forth in the car, dragging stuff up/down stairs, my legs, feet & arm are killing me. & after my IBS flaring up, the asshole mgt/houskeepr fucking w/me. I took pictures of the room in case they try to say I damaged something
I was supposed to meet my sd tomorrow & he reschedules again for Tues, which I had a potential sd date for that day, but I changed it for him cause I need my insurance paid, & $.
I'm just waiting to get on my medicine so I can get well enough to work, in the meantime, Im trying to build up my stamina so maybe I can try to work til that time comes
I was embarassed cause I saw a lady @ the hotel I'm @ now, walking her dogs, & we were talking,& I started crying about my bunny that died 2 yrs ago:'(
Genoveve
06-28-2015, 07:19 PM
The reason they say not to pop zits is that the same bacteria which tend to cause your pores to get infected (acne) live in large numbers under your fingernails. Plus your fingers have oils on them which will clog your pores. So picking a zit is very likely to cause a secondary infection and make it come back with a vengeance, or at least heal much more slowly. You can buy some little metal tools that pop whiteheads at most drug stores. But I imagine lasers help to cauterise the wound. It's never good to just leave a gaping bloody hole exposed like that.
The esthetician working on me showed me a client of hers who went to another esthetician to have a few bumps removed.... something went wrong and that esthetician ended up spreading the bacteria everywhere which caused horrific scarring. The woman had to do a years' worth of treatments and eventually lasers to fix it. I was like 'Jesus I wish I knew that that was possible because I don't think I'd be getting this extraction right now.....'
....
My annoyance is that I'm experiencing 'crispy-sickness.' I've made 2 batches of rice crispy treats this week and I get really ill every time I eat them. I kept brushing it off as something else because I've made them before and never had a problem but there's no mistaking it now. I really don't understand why it's happening because there's only 4 ingredients and none of them were bad, or can even GO bad for that matter. The only thing I can think of that's been different with these last 2 batches is that I used generic rice crispies and not Snap, Crackle and Pop so maybe the generic cereal has an ingredient in it that I don't do well with??? :yuck:
xStacey
06-28-2015, 08:33 PM
A millionaire's gonna take me to see the show and he'll buy VIP tickets :)
I should become a professional gold digger and stop dating all together, fuck those broke ass.
kaninchen
06-28-2015, 08:47 PM
Want dinner, don't wanna order pizza or go to the grocery store. Guess I'll just starve out of laziness.
zoezoebelle
06-28-2015, 09:23 PM
Last night was really scary. I was so exhausted by the end of the night I could barely walk straight, and I didn't feel safe to drive. I thought it might be the two drinks I'd had, so I wanted over an hour and still felt awful. I talked to the house mom and she shrugged and said to eat something. I talked to my boss and he said, "You only have a 20 minute drive. Just wing it." His friend snickered and said, "I'll take you home but it ain't free." The whole group laughed. I was pissed.
I sat in my car and called a few people but they were all asleep. I cried for a while. Finally I just started counting fibonacci numbers in my head, and I kept trying to focus until I could get past two digit numbers. Then I drove home and miraculously didn't get pulled over or hurt. It made me feel really unsafe. I realised that with my illness, if I'm ever rendered helpless at the club, can't walk or pass out, nobody will help me and quite a few people might take advantage of me. I really can't stay in this business.
Genoveve
06-28-2015, 10:35 PM
I get annoyed whenever I see people criticizing people who are heavily tatted and pierced by saying that they'll never be able to get a job. Chances are if someone is into oodles of visible body modifications that they aren't going to be seeking 'straight jobs'. Or so I guess anyway, I actually don't know anybody with a lot of tats and piercings. And they're like 'They'll regret that one day!' Well they do have things like laser removal and there's a procedure to repair skin that's been stretched from gauges so I don't see the big deal.
Aniela
06-29-2015, 02:59 AM
'OMG I only make $400-500/nite I feel like I MUST be doing smtg wrong' I get that income potential varies humungously but these kind of comments just sound SO damn entitled & ungrateful.
Talking down abt retail or other low-lvl vanilla jobs. The 'I'M too good to EVER do THAT' attitude that sm times comes thru. Shit, the 'shitty retail' ppl are the ones who sell you your clothes, cosmetics, Starbucks, etc. Sm times it's like listening to the high&mighty 'I would NVR stoop to *gasp* STRIPPING!' vanilla bitches.
xStacey
06-29-2015, 07:28 AM
I stopped replying to the guy I was seeing, he replied almost 6 hours later (a first time) and tried to change the subject. Now he just texted me that I should look for flyers for the show to get a coupon code ::)
zoezoebelle
06-29-2015, 11:28 AM
I stopped replying to the guy I was seeing, he replied almost 6 hours later (a first time) and tried to change the subject. Now he just texted me that I should look for flyers for the show to get a coupon code ::)
Oh, YOU should look for coupons for YOUR birthday gift? Aw hell no!
Selina M
06-29-2015, 12:33 PM
Thought I was gonna get to cut my car insurance in half... Nope. Get to the last stage and it says I have an accident, from almost 5 years ago, and jacks the rate up another $30/month. It wasn't even a 'real' accident; some entitled little brat at the university drove her BMW behind me as I was backing out, blamed me, had a hissy fit at a 2mm long scratch on the wheel well, and had the body shop jack it up to like $500.
All the other companies are hella expensive, but they only go 3 years back. Ugh. I guess I'll just switch and pay the extra $30 until this drops off in November :(
whirlerz
06-29-2015, 01:11 PM
Last night was really scary. I was so exhausted by the end of the night I could barely walk straight, and I didn't feel safe to drive. I thought it might be the two drinks I'd had, so I wanted over an hour and still felt awful. I talked to the house mom and she shrugged and said to eat something. I talked to my boss and he said, "You only have a 20 minute drive. Just wing it." His friend snickered and said, "I'll take you home but it ain't free." The whole group laughed. I was pissed.
I sat in my car and called a few people but they were all asleep. I cried for a while. Finally I just started counting fibonacci numbers in my head, and I kept trying to focus until I could get past two digit numbers. Then I drove home and miraculously didn't get pulled over or hurt. It made me feel really unsafe. I realised that with my illness, if I'm ever rendered helpless at the club, can't walk or pass out, nobody will help me and quite a few people might take advantage of me. I really can't stay in this business.
Awww, whatta buncha^ a/hole losers..I can relate! My arm's been acting up, & my knee ached from the weather & my health stuff, not as intense as you, but I was a bit worried driving, I get concerned walking as well..it gets scary
Kellydancer
06-29-2015, 01:24 PM
Maybe this is a sign that you should start asking for gifts, or at least expecting them. I used to be the same way; I was always a cheap date and never wanted people to spend money on me, and I usually ended up with men who didn't give a shit about me. I ended up financially helping out a couple of them even though they both worked full time and were just being reckless with their money, while I have a chronic illness and can barely work. My current boyfriend keeps trying to buy me things and spends a lot of money taking me out, and it freaks me out because I guess I was raised to believe that I don't deserve it. Maybe I do, though. Maybe you do too. Just let yourself consider the possibility at least.
Exactly. I never expected much because I'm no gold digger and because of that I dated guys like that. They should have been thrilled to date someone like me but treated me like crap. When I dated a wonderful guy who spoiled me I was suspicious. Now I suspect it to some extent and wouldn't date a loser like that. I wish I had realized it earlier because one guy especially took of advantage of me where I paid for rent and all of it while he conned me out of money. This piece of shit is probably here since he seeks out strippers/escorts etc and he contacted me on another exotic dance site (now defunct)I posted at. Part of the reason I never date men supporting someone else (kids, exwives biggest examples)is because I refuse to dream with this again.
simone87
06-29-2015, 02:15 PM
some lady at my vanilla job today had me in tears for over an hour..i've never had any stranger be so rude and nasty to me EVER. it made me miss the comparatively sweet strip club custies, that's how bad she was.
whirlerz
06-29-2015, 02:28 PM
some lady at my vanilla job today had me in tears for over an hour..i've never had any stranger be so rude and nasty to me EVER. it made me miss the comparatively sweet strip club custies, that's how bad she was.
Yea^ I was on the phone (cust.service job) a couple yrs ago, & some guy was an ASS to me over a minor issue..yea he made me cry, & he knew it by my voice..also mgt was listening in to the call & did nothing but "counsel me privately" after::)
Me: I hate this rain, we're lucky we're not in drought, but it really hurts my muscles
simone87
06-29-2015, 03:47 PM
^ we just gotta remember that they are crazy assholes who are taking out their personal issues on us, its no reflection of us at all..i gotta be better with blowing things off. on the upside, it made re-applying at the club seem a lot less scary!
Aniela
06-29-2015, 03:56 PM
Last night was really scary. I was so exhausted by the end of the night I could barely walk straight, and I didn't feel safe to drive. I thought it might be the two drinks I'd had, so I wanted over an hour and still felt awful. I talked to the house mom and she shrugged and said to eat something. I talked to my boss and he said, "You only have a 20 minute drive. Just wing it." His friend snickered and said, "I'll take you home but it ain't free." The whole group laughed. I was pissed.
I sat in my car and called a few people but they were all asleep. I cried for a while. Finally I just started counting fibonacci numbers in my head, and I kept trying to focus until I could get past two digit numbers. Then I drove home and miraculously didn't get pulled over or hurt. It made me feel really unsafe. I realised that with my illness, if I'm ever rendered helpless at the club, can't walk or pass out, nobody will help me and quite a few people might take advantage of me. I really can't stay in this business.
Do you not have a real emergency contact? I had one for most of my time dancing just for the possibility of smtg like this. Getting sick or hurt & needing a lift @2am. A person who knew where I worked, what I did, & had my planned schedule for the wk so at the very least their phone would be turned up on max volume if I needed them.
The fear of being taken advantage of is also why I didn't drink at work. I get violently sick b4 I get drunk but it can make you just as vulnerable.
whirlerz
06-29-2015, 04:38 PM
Do you not have a real emergency contact?
Speaking for myself, nope I sure don't. Can't really go about getting one so far either.
Aniela
06-29-2015, 05:19 PM
Speaking for myself, nope I sure don't. Can't really go about getting one so far either.
I realise it's not always possible to have in this line of work. I just think it's a really good thing to have set up, even if it's just a network among other dancers from the to be 'on-call' when working different shifts.
Etain_
06-29-2015, 06:30 PM
I am a low talker and no one can ever hear me the first time. I get so sick of repeating myself over and over... It's really hard for me to talk loudly enough, takes too much effort. :(
Selina M
06-29-2015, 10:25 PM
Biology prof is really driving me nuts. I am so glad we're already halfway done.
He was alright at first, then he was super rude to me one day (wanted a picture on our phones of something via the microscope; when I couldn't get a good one and said "sorry my phone sucks" he said "no it's the operator who sucks"). It was like, ON after that point. I spilled some tea the next week and he got all passive aggressive irate about it and talked to me like I was a 3 year old who couldn't be trusted with an open mug. Went on another passive aggressive rant about "If you're here at 8:01, you are late and 3 of those count as an absence. SOME OF YOU are at 2 already." Um... I don't need your 1% attendance extra credit, I have a 97% halfway in. Of course, I missed the next day (alarm didn't go off), and when I came back today he made me take the quiz I missed. I was annoyed bc I hadn't studied for it and was fine taking the 0. He got this attitude like he wanted a fucking cookie for letting me retake it. ::)
Cashmere Star
06-29-2015, 10:44 PM
A petty annoyance I have atm is that the club was slow today and I made zero profit. >:( GOING BACK TOMORROW
MyButter
06-30-2015, 09:25 AM
Why the fuck do landlords advertise as "pet friendly!" when they're not? This is the third house in a row that was advertised as pet friendly, assured us over the phone that they were pet friendly, and then later told us they weren't pet friendly when we wanted to put in a rental application. What the fuck is that?!?
kaninchen
06-30-2015, 11:42 AM
This has to be one of the ultimate first world problems...
But I over-scheduled myself for dates this week. It's only Tuesday and I'm exhausted. I'm supposed to meet this hot blond dude for coffee in a few hours and I don't wanna! I just want to stay home, drink kiwi lemonade, eat alfajores, and watch rom-coms with my cat. Damn it!
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-30-2015, 01:44 PM
Why the fuck do landlords advertise as "pet friendly!" when they're not? This is the third house in a row that was advertised as pet friendly, assured us over the phone that they were pet friendly, and then later told us they weren't pet friendly when we wanted to put in a rental application. What the fuck is that?!?
They might be against certain breed (the infamous "bully" breeds usually are banned.) Home insurance companies make a ton of trouble over large aggressive breed dogs. It's more of a home insurance issue IMO.
We moved into a pet friendly place & never heard any complaints, even though the carpets were white and the renovations were recent. So not all landlords try this "bait and switch" move.
miss.a.p1600
06-30-2015, 05:49 PM
There are not enough hours in the day....
Genoveve
06-30-2015, 06:21 PM
The post office is my current annoyance. I had something that was sent Priority 2-day a few weeks ago but took over a week to arrive and was ruined as a result. I had something that's shipping label was created 8 days ago yet it only actually left the post office today, which was 6 business days later. Really? I in San Diego have to wait this long for something from LA? I wonder how long it will take to actually work its way down here.
SnuffleUffleGrass
06-30-2015, 07:20 PM
The post office is my current annoyance. I had something that was sent Priority 2-day a few weeks ago but took over a week to arrive and was ruined as a result. I had something that's shipping label was created 8 days ago yet it only actually left the post office today, which was 6 business days later. Really? I in San Diego have to wait this long for something from LA? I wonder how long it will take to actually work its way down here.
I had mail take 10 days to get one state over once : ( Very occasionally the Postal Service has issues. But by and large I use them a lot.
Aurora_Sunset
06-30-2015, 08:44 PM
After straight-up telling this guy TWICE "No, I'm not dating you. No, we're never going to date," god forbid I make the mistake of agreeing to hang out with him more than once in a month-long period. Suddenly, he's obsessively needy and up my ass again... Making weird-ass comments like he thinks we're still in some "courtship" phase, and texting me updates about the minutiae of his life like I give a fuck... I will never understand the phenomena of guys who are sickeningly insecure yet oppressively convinced that they WILL win over a girl who has shown no interest. Wtf?
Naida
07-01-2015, 01:57 AM
So fucking pissed about mail that arrived on time for once. I got charged twice the quoted amount for the shipping and didn't realize why until my package arrived - the clerk charged me 2-day when I said standard!
I'm also extremely irritated by things at the new apartment with C. He and A split up, so I'm dealing with his break up depression. They were supposed to buy me stuff for work and I would compensate them for it after my first night or two, but nope. Found out when I got here that they hadn't bought anything! So now I have to spend my emergency stash of money on stuff to work, BUT I don't know any of the local shops yet, so I have to wait until C or our roommate J is free to help me find my way to one. And money is retardedly tight. Like, I had no warning at all walking in that we have basically no rent money for our little box by the due date. I'm trying to stay positive, especially since C is working hard to figure something out with the rent and I always manage to pull something out of my ass when things seem dire, but it's hard not to be scared.
OliveJardin
07-01-2015, 03:03 AM
The post office is my current annoyance.
^Haha, this was going to be my annoyance!
I went to pick up 3 parcels (work stuff) and two were there, but the third (was there but) couldn't be collected until 4 pm according to the slip (it was 3.55pm!). So, after batting my eyes at the post office attendant-he decided to give me the infamous 3rd parcel regardless (he initially suggested that I go to the end of the 30 person long line and by the time I reached the counter again it would be ok to collect it *face palm*) ::).
simone87
07-01-2015, 09:39 AM
people who "like" their own fb statuses and fb in general. if i didn't have all my photos of my son on there and have that really be the only easy way to communicate with my sister i would just quit fb altogether. it really makes me see how revolting people are
kaninchen
07-01-2015, 10:21 AM
My established, awesome $$$ regular was going to take me to a museum but just texted me, "Btw I'm not planning on a gift for this trip, hope that's not an issue."
What?! Um, yes, of course it's a fucking issue that you want me to work for 5 hours without paying me. Uggghh what I don't get this!
Also, what the fuck is it with people who try to camouflage bad news by prefacing it with a casual "btw"? "Btw I ran over your dog." "Btw I think we should break up." Nope. All of those statements are still terrible. Get it together, humanity, I'm tired of your shit.
kaninchen
07-01-2015, 10:29 AM
I will never understand the phenomena of guys who are sickeningly insecure yet oppressively convinced that they WILL win over a girl who has shown no interest. Wtf?
Seriously, ugh. I can't stand men who are unable to apply basic theory of mind to women. Male entitlement is my petty annoyance every day.
xStacey
07-01-2015, 11:31 AM
Curling hair is so much work... I have been wearing my hair straight every day for the past few years and I thought all I needed to get gorgeous bouncy curls was a curling iron! Wrong, my curls fall flat within 10 minutes because my extensions are 20 inches long, heavy and straight... I will have to secure each section with a bobby pin after curling to set the curl, I thought only celebrities did that...
Selina M
07-01-2015, 12:13 PM
Fiance got his sleep schedule all whacked out. I think he hasn't quite recovered from quitting Suboxone. But lately he's been going to bed with me around 1, then getting up after he can't sleep, staying up and going on bike rides until 8 am. I leave for class at 7:30 and don't usually have time to take the dogs out. Apparently when he comes back at 8am, he's too tired to take the dogs out >_<
SO I'm getting really annoyed at coming home around 11 am to a dark house and dogs that haven't been walked or fed. GET THE FUCK UP. Be a productive human. Seriously. If you sleep all fucking day, it just perpetuates not sleeping at night. Gah.
Kellydancer
07-01-2015, 01:26 PM
Seriously, ugh. I can't stand men who are unable to apply basic theory of mind to women. Male entitlement is my petty annoyance every day.
Me too. I couldn't begin to mention the men I told them would never be more yet didn't get the hint. If I say no, I'm probably not going to say yes. Often I say no because they have something that will never change, like they have kids, are obese or much older and they think if they are nice I'll say yes. Then they realize I was serious and they get mad at me. It's why I hated online dating.
miss.a.p1600
07-01-2015, 01:30 PM
I can feel ya on that one.
I've never had experience with suboxone but I have felt depressed and maybe in a slight depression now as I am so tired and don't feel motivated to do anything.
Things need cleaning, need to get organized, need to make money to pay bills but all I want to do is read stripperweb and eat and sleep.
[email protected]! I am considering Wellbutrin if I can't get myself together soon.
Genoveve
07-01-2015, 03:10 PM
Damn a lot of us are pissed at the mail. Well surprisingly my package arrived today so I can't complain anymore since it arrived on the 7th business day......Unfortunately the items in it don't fit. The romper goes straight up my ass(I'm 5'10 with a long torso so one-pieces tend to give me life-threatening wedgies) which means I can only wear it if I wear spanx underneath......and that sucks since the whole reason I bought the romper was to have something light and airy for the summer but with spanx underneath it it will be anything but that. Then there's a sexy bodysuit I got that I can not get up over my boobs even though it's a large. I'm hoping I can stretch it out, especially since I'm getting bigger boobs next month and I really like that fucking bodysuit.
Selina M
07-01-2015, 03:42 PM
I can feel ya on that one.
I've never had experience with suboxone but I have felt depressed and maybe in a slight depression now as I am so tired and don't feel motivated to do anything.
Right, I think he is depressed. I'm having issues with a myriad of other things too... He's enrolled in 9 classes in a year: completed 2 of them, withdrawn from 4, gotten dropped for not turning in the 1st assignment on 2, and hasn't done the homework for the last 2 weeks in the current one. Wasting his dad's and his money. I've also asked him repeatedly about budgeting for wedding stuff; he keeps saying he'll pick up extra shifts and not doing it. I've had to constantly remind him to do things like call his school or the MVD about his license. You'd think he'd care a bit more. Always an excuse of some kind; "Tuesday is a shitty shift, not worth it". "I'm a recovering junkie, cut me some slack on responsibility."
I tried to bring this up to him nicely, that it's concerning and something is wrong, and he got pissy and told me it doesn't affect me. YES IT DOES. Now he's gone back to bed, at 3:30 in the afternoon, FFS.
I don't want to be a nag and I feel like a nag, but I'm supposed to legally bind myself to this person in 4 months, and I am NOT doing that if I'm going to be a perpetual babysitter.
simone87
07-01-2015, 03:47 PM
^ how fast did he taper off of suboxone? I've been on it for over 3 years now, and its a complete bitch to get off of because of the incredibly long half-life of the drug..it can take months for some to get back to normal. not sure how he tapered off, but it can be horrible for a lot of people. i still haven't gotten up the guts to completely get off of it yet
Selina M
07-01-2015, 04:45 PM
^ He tapered off down to like 0.5 mg... the actual withdrawals weren't too terrible from what I could tell, just a lot of sweating and not much sleep.
That was a month ago. I don't know that I believe it's the reason for this. I mean it's possible, but I feel like everything is just an excuse.
/end threadjack
KikiGem
07-01-2015, 05:49 PM
People who don't know when to leave. Or shut up.
whirlerz
07-01-2015, 06:09 PM
Well, I tried this other motel, it's an independently owned place &..no. The lady got irritated when I asked something (like twice) & besides it being a ghetto-ass dump, I'd wanted to get out of there this morn early. I originally paid for 1 day, so I could see how it was. I had to be up & out, so their office isn't open all the time, but I went up/down the stairs 15x to go pay for another day, & no one was there. There was a bell to ring, & no one answered. So I said fuck it, I'm just leaving.
Now I'm bk to this other motel I just left, it's ok but expensive. I have a meeting set up in the city w/a possible new sd, so we'll see. I feel like all I've done is drag my shit around, my arms are killing me.
It hurts more to be alone on the holiday & just to be alone, walking the empty halls in this huge place.