View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Aniela
06-23-2014, 06:52 PM
Apparently my mother cut up the tshirt my bf gave me to repair his sweater. She noted this possibility when we were discussing the sweater in question, as it needs to be repaired again, & I mentioned that I had been unable to find the tshirt. She got an odd look but said she honestly couldn't remember if the shirt I described was the one she cut up for the repair.
So she not only cut up a perfectly good tshirt, for just a few square inches of fabric, but cut up the one I specifically said not to touch, & tossed what was left … WTbloodyF?? I am going nuts trying to think where else it could be, hoping I had placed it sm where else bc I cannot find it anywhere & this is going to bother me immensely until I either find it or know for sure that it got destroyed. Yeah, I am in a fkin MOOD.
audrey_k
06-24-2014, 01:37 PM
I had two clients today, one in the morning and one in the early evening, and they were both totally fine-- but OMFG the clients trying to book today were driving me CRAZY.
Every guy that called would just jump into asking when I was available-- this SUCH a pet peeve of mine, I can't stand it when I pick up the phone and they just go "are you available?" or even worse "where are you located?" Is it so much to ask for you to say "Hi, my name is X, how are you?... I'm great, thanks. Well, I'd like to make a booking, and I was wondering when you're available?' Apparently it is! We don't have to discuss our hopes and dreams, but it would be nice to get a fucking introduction instead of being treated like you're ordering delivery food! I can also tell they're going to be a shit client too because the ones who I actually enjoy having a sessions with ALWAYS introduce themselves and ask how I am before making a booking, because, shockingly, I seem to enjoy being around clients with manners. It's ALMOST as annoying as clients who ask me what my rate is when it LISTED LESS THAN A FUCKING INCH FROM MY FUCKING PHONE NUMBER ON THE SCREEN or ask me if I do 15-minute quickies or half hours (which I state in EVERY section of my profile I will not do) or ask me what services I offer.
Everyone that called was like that today and they all wanted to book in the next thirty minutes and I ended up turning everyone down today because I was just in a mood and EXHAUSTED because my first client wanted a VERY early booking and I was running around all day... and then around 6pm I got the most annoying phone call. This guy tries to book and wants the 6:30 slot which, for some reason, is the most popular time of the day to see an escort so I never have that available unless you book the day before or early in the day, I had someone book that spot today on Sunday evening. I told him he could come tomorrow at 5pm but I had someone at 6:30 as well and he said that was fine. So I asked him what his name was, and it went like this:
"My name?"
"Yes, your name."
"Why do you need to know that?"
"I ask all my clients their names."
"Why?"
"Well, for one thing I need to have something to put in my phone since I get 50-60 calls a day sometimes, and I need to know a little bit about you before you book."
"Well I would rather just be anonymous."
"Well, I'm sorry but I can't book you if you don't give me your name."
"Seriously? Why?"
"Because there needs to some level of mutual trust here. If I'm going to let you inside my house and sleep with you I need to know your name. You don't have to give me the whole damn thing but I need to know your first name at least."
"Well I think that's strange."
"Alright, well it doesn't appear we're a good match. I'm sorry but I will be unable to book you, have a nice day."
"Wait, I'll give you my name."
"I'm sorry, but you don't seem like the kind of client I'm interested in taking on. Have a nice day."
Seriously? You won't give me your first name but you expect me to be able to trust you with my address? God he fucking pissed me off. And then he sent me a bunch of texts and I had to block him. I love that the block feature is so easy to use on the iPhone cause I block at least 3 people a day.
Vackra
06-24-2014, 03:48 PM
I hate the term "hobbyist". Like women are a hobby comparable to stamp collecting or model trains.
simone87
06-24-2014, 04:58 PM
i have some semi-new regular trying to get me into the whole "Nerium" pyramid scheme. it blows my mind that a 60 year old man can't see right through this bullshit, and thinks he's gonna come into my club and try and hustle a hustler. haha
audrey_k
06-25-2014, 03:55 AM
I hate these World Cup matches. They're seriously cutting onto my income.
chanzep
06-25-2014, 12:37 PM
They sure are, if its not bad enough that its almost July, crap summer season has now started early because of the damn World cup!.
audrey_k
06-25-2014, 02:16 PM
They sure are, if its not bad enough that its almost July, crap summer season has now started early because of the damn World cup!.
You would think that with England being out there would be a ton of sad, depressed Englishmen looking for comfort... but no....
kaninchen
06-25-2014, 06:36 PM
I ordered two gorgeous awesome pairs of work platforms that I've been meaning to get for months. They were both supposed to arrive today but only one pair showed up. Unsurprisingly, the tracking system says the entire order is complete. Motherfucker!
These AWOL bitches are $80 and I don't want to be on the phone with FedEx and Discount Stripper trying to get my money back. Grrrr!
lynn2009
06-26-2014, 09:37 PM
I finally called the cops to file a noise complaint about my neighbors and it's been like a half hour and it hasn't stopped! I swear, I hate these people so much, they are always so loud but lately I hear a stereo BLASTING ALL AFTERNOON and I let it go because I accidentally rented an apartment in the ghetto and I don't want to get on these peoples' bad side. But usually sometime in the evening it stops and it's after midnight where I am and it hasn't! I went over around 11:30pm to see if they could be reasonable and honest to God, it is some first floor bedroom with the window left wide open and the stereo SO LOUD on some religious station and the lights were off. I tried shouting into the bedroom with a very polite "Excuse me!" but of course it got me nowhere.
edit: I called the cops again and the an officer came back and I walked him to where the bedroom window was and he started with the "excuse me!" also and some person turned the lights off again but he had a bright ass flashlight and there was some elderly woman in there who is probably completely deaf. I have no idea how they haven't gotten more noise complaints, it never stops! And it was so loud in my apartment, the next building over I think if I lived in the same building as that woman I would strangle her. As a plus at least the officer was cute, if not seemingly younger than me.
Spinnerette
06-27-2014, 08:12 AM
I'm already not having a good day, stressed about the move and my husband is being a ass. So I signed up to a few new cam sites and one of them doesn't want to accept my contract simply because I didn't sign it including my middle name and now it won't let me make the adjustment. Just unnecessary BS. My signature isn't my "full name" and never has been.
(and they use a slur against transwomen as one of their "categories" so I'm already looking at them like fuuuuuuuuccccckkkkkk you)
tuesdaymarie
06-27-2014, 10:07 AM
I fucking hate flaky people. If you say you're going to do something, then do it. If you don't want to do something, say you aren't going to do that thing. And if you say you're going to do something and circumstances change and you can't do it any more, pick up the fucking phone and notify your goddamn friends.
I've had multiple people I've done huge favors for flake out on pet sitting for me, and on plans in general in which they invited themselves over to eat my food and play my video games, then they just never show up. I offered to pay all of them $350 plus whatever their gas costs were to feed my pets while I'm gone. They all happily agreed, then casually flaked out. "Oh, they need to be fed every day? They're just cats..." WHAT THE FUCK? Yes, they're living creatures and need daily food, thus why I'm giving you like $400 when you've never given me shit for all of the favors I've done for you. Fuck everybody.
audrey_k
06-27-2014, 10:35 AM
My flat fucking flooded last night.. I haven't gotten more like 4 hours of sleep for the last 3 days and I could barely keep my eyes open at 1:30 am but I really needed to pee and heard what SOUNDED like the shower going off and even though it was a strange time for someone to be taking a shower I just thought OK...
them I see water coming under my door and realize one of our pipes burst. Everything I was supposed to wear to my photoshoot is SOAKED with dirty water and so is my computer charger. We managed to get the pipe to go into the tub and had to keep going back and forth to the kitchen with buckets of water. We got an emergency plumber ($500 but the landlord has to pay) to come and he managed to turn the water off.
It's almost 4am by the time I can get to sleep and I overslept and was 30 mins late to the photoshoot, nothing is dry so I can't wear anything I want.
I get to my work flat and the key is missing to turn the electricity on... my client was nice about
it but its early enough light is still coming through. Had to call my flatmate and demand she come over with the key... my work phone is about to die and I can't charge it w/o electricity!
audrey_k
06-28-2014, 06:09 PM
My flatmate is absolutely WASTED and she and her friend are being totally fucking obnoxious and stupid, she can barely walk and is like stumbling and falling against the walls. Her friend just opened the door and came into my room while I was getting changed, I was like wtf are you doing and she was like sorry I thought this was the bathroom. Uhm no!
AlenaRoza
06-28-2014, 06:29 PM
For some reason everyone goes 10 mph below the speed limit today. I already didn't wake up when I wanted to for work because I like to get there early and get the older dudes money thus avoiding the young crowd. I get my gum and cigs and am already in a rush and the cashier is leaning over the counter having a ten minute talk with a guy about mutual friends or something dumb. I can be a real bitch if I feel I'm being ignored so I was tapping my feet and sighing lol.
Then I'm behind a dude at a light and it's green and he doesn't go for a whole 30 seconds or something. Now I'm sitting in the club parking lot just not feeling it at all. I want to go home but I literally owe my mom like $500 and only have half of that paid off. Ugh.
audrey_k
06-28-2014, 06:57 PM
Is it so hard NOT TO FUCKING CALL ME AFTER MIDNIGHT??? I HATE THESE FUCKERS CALLING ME FOR BOOKINGS AFTER MIDNIGHT! I would absolutely NEVER take a booking at this hour as it means they're totally fucked up and it's seriously all over my profile DO NOT FUCKING CALL ME AFTER MIDNIGHT so they obviously didn't bother to read anything which means I'm just going to get a shit-ton of "will you do a half hour" "how much" etc. No one who calls at this hour is someone I would ever want to book so they're just annoying me. Last night was worse, literally I got 35 calls between 12am and 5am, I picked up the phone at 4:45 and screamed at the person so loudly they sounded like theu were shaking. It's pay day weekend so everyone's drunk and partying and wanting to blow money I guess.
I don't really want to turn off the phone because I like to sleep in a bit but keep it by me so if it rings I can pick it up and take early bookings but I can't fucking deal with it ringing, everytime I hear it vibrating my blood boils, it's like they're invading my person space.
kaninchen
06-29-2014, 01:24 PM
Does anyone else ever get ready for work, feel totally hot, but then ... find that you're unable to walk out the door? That happened to me this weekend. I spent three hours last night with my hair, make-up, and fake tan looking gorgeous trying to convince myself to work to no avail.
I don't even think it's a case of burn-out, because I want to be at work, working and getting $$$. I just can't handle the thought of being around so many people sometimes. I did line up three OTC regulars for today and tomorrow, which I'm fine with as it's just one person. At least I'll still bank, but now I'm mad at myself for skipping payday weekend! Oh well. Ugh!
whirlerz
06-29-2014, 01:32 PM
Wow, that's annoying as F**, I've experienced it, UGH!
Me:, ugh don't even get me started..:(
simone87
06-29-2014, 01:45 PM
people saying grace over dinner annoys me now. i eat 3 meals a day because i'm lucky and hard working. i was born in a first world country without any disabilities and i go to work and make money to feed myself and my kid. the dinner doesn't come down on a silver cloud because God blessed me cuz i'm so special, but not millions of other people around the world who are starving.
Aniela
06-29-2014, 02:03 PM
people saying grace over dinner annoys me now. i eat 3 meals a day because i'm lucky and hard working. i was born in a first world country without any disabilities and i go to work and make money to feed myself and my kid. the dinner doesn't come down on a silver cloud because God blessed me cuz i'm so special, but not millions of other people around the world who are starving.
Wow -- I'll be honest, haven't outwardly said grace over a meal in yrs altho I remain internally thankful for the opportunities+ability to provide for myself. I think any1 who prays over their food w/ the suggestion that it's on their table bc of their own specialness or sm other 'roll of the dice' attribute could use a smack upside the head.
sierra.
06-29-2014, 02:09 PM
Is it so hard NOT TO FUCKING CALL ME AFTER MIDNIGHT??? I HATE THESE FUCKERS CALLING ME FOR BOOKINGS AFTER MIDNIGHT! I would absolutely NEVER take a booking at this hour as it means they're totally fucked up and it's seriously all over my profile DO NOT FUCKING CALL ME AFTER MIDNIGHT so they obviously didn't bother to read anything which means I'm just going to get a shit-ton of "will you do a half hour" "how much" etc. No one who calls at this hour is someone I would ever want to book so they're just annoying me. Last night was worse, literally I got 35 calls between 12am and 5am, I picked up the phone at 4:45 and screamed at the person so loudly they sounded like theu were shaking. It's pay day weekend so everyone's drunk and partying and wanting to blow money I guess.
I don't really want to turn off the phone because I like to sleep in a bit but keep it by me so if it rings I can pick it up and take early bookings but I can't fucking deal with it ringing, everytime I hear it vibrating my blood boils, it's like they're invading my person space.
I have a "do not disturb" app on my phone, that will block all calls coming in during a specific time window (that I set). It also allows me to "whitelist" numbers that are never blocked. Maybe something like that would help?
simone87
06-29-2014, 02:35 PM
Wow -- I'll be honest, haven't outwardly said grace over a meal in yrs altho I remain internally thankful for the opportunities+ability to provide for myself. I think any1 who prays over their food w/ the suggestion that it's on their table bc of their own specialness or sm other 'roll of the dice' attribute could use a smack upside the head.
i'm very grateful i have food, don't get me wrong.it just gets me when people say that god gave them their food, because if he gave it to them then that would mean that he didn't give it to all the people who are starving and that just seems very cruel to me.
Aniela
06-29-2014, 02:58 PM
i'm very grateful i have food, don't get me wrong.it just gets me when people say that god gave them their food, because if he gave it to them then that would mean that he didn't give it to all the people who are starving and that just seems very cruel to me.
I know my post was maybe worded a bit funny, not sure how else to express what I was really getting at -- the gist of which is that I agree w/ you! Also fwiw I wasn't reading any general ingratitude into your post. Apologies if I came off wrong.
audrey_k
06-29-2014, 04:24 PM
I've had two clients come in the past 3 days and cancel on the spot... it is seriously the most insulting thing ever. The guy today really just pissed me off though and was ridiculous. He arrived and was like 'you don't look like you're from California.' I was like uhm, how should I look? He said "you should have big boobs and be blonde.'
My fucking size AND hair color are both posted on my profile??? I have no idea why anyone would book me if that's what they're looking for, I mean Miranda Kerr, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Kate Middelton, Victoria Beckam... those are the women I describe myself as being, brown hair, tan, thin, flat-chested, there's nothing about Pamela Anderson on my profile! We got into an argument, he threw a twenty pound note at me and told me to shut up. I ripped up his twenty pound note and threw it out the window before LITERALLY kicking him out of the flat. Twenty pounds? Fuck you, what am I supposed to do with that? You owe me the amount that you cost me by canceling for the most RIDICULOUS reason ever!
UGH, he really pissed me off because I had two other other clients asking for outcalls and I turned them down because I was feeling lazy and wanted to do an incall. I had a weird feeling about him and should have gone with it instead of being lazy.
Aniela
06-29-2014, 05:31 PM
This is far from a 'petty annoyance' but don't know where else to put it.
Was just told by my mother that 1) their haste is burying my little boy w/o me was not bc of my 'mental instability' but bc they just wanted to get it over w/, & 2) I was not only out of line to be pissed off abt not even being consulted abt it(bc it was abt practicality, after all!) but I need to get over it.
I am ready to open a vein & be done w/ it, I am so angry. Or at least just 'let out a bit'. But fk the military & their health standards(not really, just venting here) I don't need any more scars or anythhing else added to my medical history that have to be lied abt. In the meantime I am just crawling out of my skin trying to keep this SI impulse in check.
SweetJulia
06-30-2014, 06:08 AM
This is far from a 'petty annoyance' but don't know where else to put it.
Was just told by my mother that 1) their haste is burying my little boy w/o me was not bc of my 'mental instability' but bc they just wanted to get it over w/, & 2) I was not only out of line to be pissed off abt not even being consulted abt it(bc it was abt practicality, after all!) but I need to get over it.
I am ready to open a vein & be done w/ it, I am so angry. Or at least just 'let out a bit'. But fk the military & their health standards(not really, just venting here) I don't need any more scars or anythhing else added to my medical history that have to be lied abt. In the meantime I am just crawling out of my skin trying to keep this SI impulse in check.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I can't even imagine dealing with that. *Hugs*
whirlerz
06-30-2014, 07:31 AM
I'm already not having a good day, stressed about the move and my husband is being a ass. So I signed up to a few new cam sites and one of them doesn't want to accept my contract simply because I didn't sign it including my middle name and now it won't let me make the adjustment. Just unnecessary BS. My signature isn't my "full name" and never has been.
(and they use a slur against transwomen as one of their "categories" so I'm already looking at them like fuuuuuuuuccccckkkkkk you)
That's Shitty..& I can relate about the sign ups..for the life of me why does it have to be so damn frustrating?
& Aniela, you are in my thoughts dear. But you knew that, Hugs.
Me: checking out tomorrow, I hate shitty internet..the last place was too, but @ least I could cam somewhat..here no way>:(
chanzep
06-30-2014, 09:56 AM
So, I have ended up with shit flatmates AGAIN Argh!!, I need to live alone ugh.
kaninchen
06-30-2014, 11:50 AM
How are you feeling today, Aniela? Sorry you're going through this.
whirlerz
06-30-2014, 12:41 PM
So, I have ended up with shit flatmates AGAIN Argh!!, I need to live alone ugh.
99.9% of all flatmates SUCK!>:(
How are you feeling today, Aniela? Sorry you're going through this.
Yea. We luv you, girl!^
chloemay
06-30-2014, 12:43 PM
This is far from a 'petty annoyance' but don't know where else to put it.
Was just told by my mother that 1) their haste is burying my little boy w/o me was not bc of my 'mental instability' but bc they just wanted to get it over w/, & 2) I was not only out of line to be pissed off abt not even being consulted abt it(bc it was abt practicality, after all!) but I need to get over it.
I am ready to open a vein & be done w/ it, I am so angry. Or at least just 'let out a bit'. But fk the military & their health standards(not really, just venting here) I don't need any more scars or anythhing else added to my medical history that have to be lied abt. In the meantime I am just crawling out of my skin trying to keep this SI impulse in check.
I'm sorry you have this major thing to deal with and wish I had a useful suggestion or even some meaningful words. Huge hugs to you. Here is something, how about finding something you can hack the hell out of, whether its bushes in the yard, chopping up veggies in the kitchen or killing it in the gym with a heavy bag or treadmill and have at it until you can't anymore. Repeat as necessary. Its fulfilling to relieve stress violently and do something productive at the same time.
It won't change the situation but may use up some of the cortisol running through your system. Take care of yourself.
Aniela
06-30-2014, 01:41 PM
99.9% of all flatmates SUCK!>:(
Yea. We luv you, girl!^
Feeling y'all on sucky flatmates! Had all kinds of sucky flatmates but it does make me appreciate the decent ones all the more.
@chloe & whirlerz just avoiding the family as much as I can since I am staying back w/ them right now.
chloemay
06-30-2014, 01:43 PM
Aww, anything that helps you right now. You know yourself the best. Good luck!
Aniela
06-30-2014, 01:45 PM
I'm sorry you have this major thing to deal with and wish I had a useful suggestion or even some meaningful words. Huge hugs to you. Here is something, how about finding something you can hack the hell out of, whether its bushes in the yard, chopping up veggies in the kitchen or killing it in the gym with a heavy bag or treadmill and have at it until you can't anymore. Repeat as necessary. Its fulfilling to relieve stress violently and do something productive at the same time.
It won't change the situation but may use up some of the cortisol running through your system. Take care of yourself.
Thnx, just saw this so sry for the late reply ... Was thinking the same thing at the time but it would mean a run or bike ride at nite in pouring rain. Just sat outside under the house watching the rain & stewing until I calmed down enough to sleep. Been taking 10-18mi bike rides every day anyway & it helps channel the anger. Thnx again for the reply hugs x 100000
SweetJulia
07-02-2014, 06:02 AM
Well, though I totally know better, I've had tons of sex and immediately went to sleep afterwards for the past few weeks. I have a UTI now. So yes, I'm feeling very pissy lol.
audrey_k
07-02-2014, 03:12 PM
I had a client who takes the cake for the worst client ever....
this fucker calls me and we speak for 5 minutes, everything seems fine. He wants an outcall and I have no one booked and it's been slow so I say OK. He gives me his address and I look it up on google images, everything seems legit. We agree on a time.
I am running late and text him 30 minutes in advance saying I will be 15 minutes late and is that OK, he says yep that's fine. I get there 15 minutes late on the dot and ask him if he is the top or bottom flat. I get these messages:
"neither you are too late"
"good bye whore"
"bye bye slag"
"you're too late I'm not there I'm with friends"
"bye dirty"
I sent him a tirade of fucking PISSED OFF texts saying I am exactly 15 minutes late as we agreed and he TOLD me to come, if he did not want to come late then he should have said that as it took me a FUCKING HOUR to get there and it's now going to take me an hour to get back, it's almost nine pm and I won't be able to book anything else. He just keeps sending messages similar to those above.
So I get on my personal phone and pretend I am my non-existent ghetto ass pimp who is fucking pissed his bottom bitch isn't bring back any money and can't fuck any johns for the night as she's wasted time seeing this asshat and scare the pants off him. I also send him some images of castrated penises.
I don't know why I'm getting such shit clients the last few days, my day is either awesome or total shit, I think I need to work on screening better.
kaninchen
07-02-2014, 05:23 PM
My entire extended family knows that I dance (thanks to a drunken blunt question at my cousin's wedding) and for the most part, no one really gives a fuck. Sometimes it still makes me feel awkward though.
Example: Anything I buy online, I have sent to my parents' house, because my neighbors are weird. I had a delivery issue with some Pleasers that I bought, and I guess FedEx contacted them as the shipping address. My dad texted me today to ask if I "ever got my stripper shoes" and "do you really need to wear seven inch heels???"
OMG DAD STOP awwkwarrdd. I guess it could have been worse, but still.
audrey_k
07-02-2014, 05:45 PM
^I'd give anything for my parents to be like that, lol. Nothing to complain about ;)
If I had stripper shoes delivered to my dad's house he would send me a text calling me a whore and that would be our communication for the next 6 months!
lynn2009
07-02-2014, 06:14 PM
.......
kirakonstantin
07-02-2014, 06:46 PM
My mom knows. She calls my clear shoes my "Cinderella heels." However, she never misses an opportunity to tell me that she can't wait until I finish my degree and quit dancing.
Aniela
07-02-2014, 06:51 PM
There are worse things to receive delivered to your house on a close relative's behalf.
For example, all in the same day he could have received a beginner's chemistry set, a curiously large quantity of fertiliser, various other containers of seemingly unrelated but equally-unpronouncable substances, & a copy of The Anarchist's Cookbook.
Compared to all that, stripper shoes should seem relatively harmless. :cheers:
kirakonstantin
07-02-2014, 07:36 PM
On that thought, we used to play a game called "Three things," and it consisted of bringing a cashier's reciept for the oddest combination of items. My reciept: A roll of tin foil, a computer power cable and a pregnancy test.
I won.
kaninchen
07-03-2014, 09:41 AM
^I'd give anything for my parents to be like that, lol. Nothing to complain about ;)
If I had stripper shoes delivered to my dad's house he would send me a text calling me a whore and that would be our communication for the next 6 months!
Aww no! That's terrible, I'm sorry. The weird thing about my family is that they're all extremely conservative WASPs, so logically they should flip their shit! Like, even now, I can't talk about my boyfriend of a year spending the night at my apartment (much less living here -- living in sin!) That's too scandalous!
Maybe they're just okay with dancing because at least it's not premarital sex. LOL. I have no idea!
kaninchen
07-03-2014, 09:45 AM
There are worse things to receive delivered to your house on a close relative's behalf.
For example, all in the same day he could have received a beginner's chemistry set, a curiously large quantity of fertiliser, various other containers of seemingly unrelated but equally-unpronouncable substances, & a copy of The Anarchist's Cookbook.
Compared to all that, stripper shoes should seem relatively harmless. :cheers:
Haha! My sister makes nail polish and one time she had metal ball bearings, solvents, and other assorted flammable chemicals delivered to their house. If only she had also ordered On Guerilla Warfare too!
audrey_k
07-03-2014, 04:12 PM
I washed a bunch of dishes a few days ago and saw last night 3 of them were piled by the sink. I figured they were someone else's dishes so I left them. I come back tonight and they're still there.
All I can guess is they're mine and she didn't feel I washed them thoroughly, but fucking say something why don't you? Don't just be ridiculously passive aggressive!
simone87
07-03-2014, 04:17 PM
a lot of times i really feel like i'm being judged by my boyfriend's family. they are very wealthy ( at least compared to my family), upper class etc and sometimes his cousins will make little comments to him like " she's just a stripper dude", or his dad will ask when i'm getting a different job. they are all super nice to my face, but i've just been getting that vibe lately..oh well
Vackra
07-03-2014, 04:17 PM
I am supposed to host two couchsurfers tonight and I really, really do not want to. They have not contacted me today, and I'm hoping they won't.
Aniela
07-03-2014, 05:13 PM
a lot of times i really feel like i'm being judged by my boyfriend's family. they are very wealthy ( at least compared to my family), upper class etc and sometimes his cousins will make little comments to him like " she's just a stripper dude", or his dad will ask when i'm getting a different job. they are all super nice to my face, but i've just been getting that vibe lately..oh well
If the 'She's just a stripper' cousins are on the pudgy side, make a 'casual' comment nxt time they start that shit abt how fit the job keeps you. Idk abt the father, I would not want to piss off my bf's dad but if he was trying to play those games I would def expect my bf to stand up for me.
chanzep
07-03-2014, 05:56 PM
I washed a bunch of dishes a few days ago and saw last night 3 of them were piled by the sink. I figured they were someone else's dishes so I left them. I come back tonight and they're still there.
All I can guess is they're mine and she didn't feel I washed them thoroughly, but fucking say something why don't you? Don't just be ridiculously passive aggressive!
ugh hate flatmates!
whirlerz
07-03-2014, 07:03 PM
Yeah so, @ my storage place today, a guy came in who has the unit next to mine..I was sitting on a flatbed cart used to load/unload items sorting out my stuff. He goes, "where are all the carts in this area?" Idk, I said & kept working..he then proceeds to verbally harange/attack me for like 10 min. straight, (btw there's a bunch of carts like a 10 ft walk away) asking me why am I using my cart for a 'chair' & I should just get up, take all my stuff off it so he can use it.
I told him not to start w/me & leave me alone, he starts taking stuff out of his unit..I go to the office & tell the lady. I later told her I'd call the cops if he ever starts on me..
Well, I was so upset (I get really upset when yelled @) I locked my purse, keys, & cell in the unit..I had to go get the girl to cut the lock off, she's a tiny thing & keeps complaining (the cutters are huge) & keeps asking me do I know anyone (no) to come & do it..
Now I have to buy one of their locks (17.00)..I have trouble with it, she gives me a hard time about that & she can't find the WD40 lock solvent to loosen it up.
I ran short @ walmart (food buying) b/c of this..
Tomorrow I'm going down there after I buy a WM lock, & they can damn well refund me for all this bullshit.
lynn2009
07-04-2014, 04:24 PM
My day was spent with horrendous food poisoning.
Happy July 4 everyone.