View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Legz541
08-19-2015, 05:03 PM
Girls that are "money bipolar." Seems like I've had to listen to this shit a lot lately. Just last weekend a girl comes in showing off her new $500 weave and bragging about how much money she makes. Last night the same girl comes in looking for a pity party because she HAD to make $600 that night or was going to get an eviction notice. We all know you're lying or stupid as fk. Either way I just wanna get dressed and get out on the floor without listening to your bull shit!
Aurora_Sunset
08-20-2015, 08:13 AM
I don't particularly like small talk in the first place, so it really irks me when someone starts it off with being overly friendly, I try to get into and reciprocate with a light and joking comment, and then they just go fucking silent. Oh, sorry, were you not actually wanting to small-talk? Then you shouldn't have started it. Now I just feel like an overly exuberant goob because I was trying to be nice by matching your level of initial energy. Awkward.
MyButter
08-20-2015, 11:26 AM
I feel like punching the people who keep insisting that college is affordable right in the face. 600 dollars a credit? Affordable my fucking ass.
Selina M
08-20-2015, 12:55 PM
^ Don't remind me... I'm SO jealous right now that my fiancé is at school and I'm sitting here going "Well I guess I'll take this class at CC... instead of the neat upper level Uni course..." I'm trying to pay off my credit cards... I really shouldn't commit to $2600 for one freakin class.
You really don't notice how expensive it is until you go part-time. When I was paying $5k/semester and taking 18 credits it was stomachable. This is like SERIOUSLY?!
But I feel so weird and lost not going back to school in August!
KaraLynn
08-20-2015, 04:18 PM
The only place walking distance to me to access decent working wifi without spending an arm and a leg is a Mcdonalds down the street. I had to sit by the playground today and there are kids just screaming at the top of their lungs for no reason and the parents are just sitting there and letting it continue.......
so naturally I called my husband and asked him if this is what hell is like and if we were stocked up on condoms.
lynn2009
08-20-2015, 07:24 PM
I stopped reading tuscl after our recent cross-over adventures and now I absolutely cannot stand seeing them on stripperweb. Ugh.
xStacey
08-20-2015, 09:46 PM
He ended up visiting over the week-end, what a loser ugh. I told him next week will be my last week working and then I will be taking some time off. At the end of the session I say "It was really nice to see you again! Hopefully I will see you next week one more time?" He hesitated and replied "Honestly, no, I don't think it will happen." Me: "Oh how come?!" Him: "First of all, it's expensive. Pause. And I am travelling in September so, I'll see you when I get back". He's leaving for the entire month of September. This is the second time in a row he blatantly tells me my services are expensive in all those years he's been a regular LOL. The other time he visited after I invited him after refusing three of his invitations to hang outside he almost did not come and complained "It gets expensive!".
Well if it's too expensive, visit less often but you don't have to tell it to my face and complain about the prices. I don't go to a steakhouse knowing it will be expensive and then complain to the staff their menu is too expensive.
What bothers me the most is after his comments of being "too expensive" he still has the nerves to text me repeatedly. The last time I saw him we talked about a neighborhood and I mentioned a dessert restaurant over there I really like so the next day he texts me "I was walking down X street after I left and I saw the dessert restaurant not too far away, it will be much more simple for you to go there after work!" I replied yeah I already knew about that location. Maybe he thinks I don't know how to handle a conversation by text messages but I just don't want to talk to him! 5 hours later: "So how is your evening going?" Ignored. He knows I am always working on Sundays, what does he want me to say.
So he clearly told me he thinks my rates are expensive and he doesn't visit as often anymore because he doesn't want to pay my rates, then expects me to reply to his text messages and entertain him for free after that?
Stupid customer, just texted me again "I really miss you a lot!". Well you know where to find me, what does he expect me to say after he told me "Honestly no, I don't think I'll come visit you next week, it's expensive." I'll just reply tomorrow "I miss you too! I am working on Saturday it's my last shift, come visit me one more time before you leave the country for a whole month!" What a fucker.
michele11
08-20-2015, 10:14 PM
^Sorry for threadjack but can you please update your bellami eextension review and maybe post a pic? My gf and I video chated today from Hungary and I'm not confident I want to get them. Now it's 350 and the lady has to dye them and other things i'm weary of. if they were 2-250 I wouldn't care but I wasted 170 on a pair a few months back that I couldn't even wear. Thanks.
xStacey
08-20-2015, 10:24 PM
^Sorry for threadjack but can you please update your bellami eextension review and maybe post a pic? My gf and I video chated today from Hungary and I'm not confident I want to get them. Now it's 350 and the lady has to dye them and other things i'm weary of. if they were 2-250 I wouldn't care but I wasted 170 on a pair a few months back that I couldn't even wear. Thanks.
Hi, I will post a review with pictures tomorrow, it's currently 1:22 am and I have to be up at 5:00. So sorry for the wait but I'll do it asap tomorrow, I tried sending you the message but your inbox was full.
carmen_b
08-20-2015, 10:53 PM
We were walking by a kids area at a mall and 5 minutes later I was mentioning going to the drug store to boy the economy size pack of condoms. Hahaha. :)
The only place walking distance to me to access decent working wifi without spending an arm and a leg is a Mcdonalds down the street. I had to sit by the playground today and there are kids just screaming at the top of their lungs for no reason and the parents are just sitting there and letting it continue.......
so naturally I called my husband and asked him if this is what hell is like and if we were stocked up on condoms.
KaraLynn
08-20-2015, 11:51 PM
Thats all the reminder I needed :)
MyButter
08-21-2015, 08:28 AM
I have a neighbor who volunteers at two different places, runs a successful home business, is a girl scout troop leader, does event planning in her "spare" time, is a chairperson on the PTA, and is a hard-core dance mom on top of all of this---and I said to her as she was droning on and on some event she was planning, "wow, you're so busy and active within the community!"---and apparently that comment offended her so much that she went home and wrote a really long passive aggressive status update on Facebook about being busy.
Honestly, the more I am exposed to vanilla women, the more I miss sexworkers.
Naida
08-21-2015, 09:10 PM
Why do three bad things have to happen for every one good thing I experience? My folliculitis is acting up terribly and now I have a huge abcess on my ass, so I have to wear shorts that are too small at work. This is after the manager has badgered me and asked other girls behind my back if I'm pregnant because I happen to put most of my weight on my belly - but I'm not even that fucking fat! Oh, and my teeth are giving me hell when I can't afford to see a dentist.
But now I have an amazing boyfriend!
whirlerz
08-21-2015, 10:55 PM
Ooh, can you try to make a payment plan w/your^ (of find a) dentist? Earlier this yr. I had 2 cavaties underneath crowns, I had to/was able make a deal w/the endodontist, but was able to save 'em..
Me: some loud mouth beeotch is blathering LOUD AF outside, @1am..:(
michele11
08-22-2015, 07:54 AM
I'm sure every ones had read me wanting to de friend most of my american breeders. Last straw was when one said " why would I want to sell you a cat as a pet? When I have literally people from here and all over the world wanting a silver of thid qualiy? First off all it wasn't show quality. So I wake up to a very prominent silver breeder post screen shots of, I guess a breeder who lied about her idenity to get a cat. I commented how, I'm pissed as a good and loving pet owner who casn't even get a silver because you all want them to go to breeder homes that you aren't more careful placing. The woman who contacted her was in the us but some how awoman in Germany has her. All I can think is Karma. Maybe she'll get pissed at my comment and delete me but it's apparant at this point she'd never sell me a quality silver as the lasr one I inquired in she said she wanted her to go to a breeder/ show home! She didn't specify that when she posted the pic. I mean it still benefits them if I show the cat! Fuck them snobs! Their worse than dancers!
miss.a.p1600
08-22-2015, 10:23 AM
Pissed cause the club was filled but with douchelord men who had no money, had boring conversation, or just plain time wasting idiots. I didn't even make a hundred mothf*cking dollars. Times like this make me want to hang up the heels. WTF? FML
whirlerz
08-22-2015, 11:04 AM
Pissed cause the club was filled but with douchelord men who had no money, had boring conversation, or just plain time wasting idiots. I didn't even make a hundred mothf*cking dollars. Times like this make me want to hang up the heels. WTF? FML
Aww. Still the tail end of summer slump, somewhat?
Me: takin' a yr. & a day to dye my roots, it's a perfect setup in the rm here, & didn't want to waste time/$ getting it pro done.
I wanna get out to my storage, so I can sun my baby yucca.
wednesday86
08-22-2015, 01:09 PM
Somehow I missed the fact that my genetics class is a "hybrid" course. We're supposed to watch hours of lectures at home, then take a test on it once a week when we meet. Naturally none of the videos are working in any of the formats she put on blackboard. GRRRR! I have piles of homework to do and I can't access any of the videos. I really hope I can drop this class and swap it for something else. I hate online classes! I had no idea I had signed up for one since I have another 3 hour lecture that meets once a week. I thought it was just one of those. Like what the actual fuck is this shit? Either make it 100% online or in the classroom. This is so much time and energy for 1 class. I have to take 12 credits to keep financial aid so I really hope I can swap it. I tried looking for another class online but don't see openings for much. :(
michele11
08-22-2015, 06:03 PM
Why can't people do what they say they are going to. My mom talked me into calling this guy my uncle knows( bad sign) to spray my house. he works for terminix. I talked to him monday. He was suppose to come tuesday( I'm glad he didn't it poured) so all week he's " oh I'll come tomorrow". fucken guy never called and doesn't answer texts. because at this point I don't want to speak with him. I sent him a text the ant were worse since the trees got cut and how he's not very reliable since it was suppose to be done tuesday! There is no customer service today. I go out of my way to even bring customers drinks if there is no waitress around. How do people survive today with such shitty work ethic. I guess if you want something done, do it yourself!
Selina M
08-22-2015, 07:21 PM
Wednesday: I hate hybrids. It's like "70% is online and then we will meet in a random classroom for 3 unannounced dates and you will have different assignments for the hybrid and on ground portions of class" They're always so unorganized, and it makes my head spin trying to keep up with it.
Every time anyone knocks on my door, it makes me jump and my heart starts pounding and I get all shaky. I don't know why, I've always reacted really strongly to doorbells/door knocking. I think bc growing up, we had a German Shepherd that would explode barking long before people got close enough to knock... like usually as they drove up. I had time to collect myself to answer the door for someone.
But this awful rapid rat-tat-tat sound of knocking is a foreign sound and it feels really intrusive. I don't like people getting that close to my door unannounced!
Crazy rural sticks girl needs to move out of the city and apartments :O
Glamourmilf
08-22-2015, 08:47 PM
Every time anyone knocks on my door, it makes me jump and my heart starts pounding and I get all shaky. I don't know why, I've always reacted really strongly to doorbells/door knocking. I think bc growing up, we had a German Shepherd that would explode barking long before people got close enough to knock... like usually as they drove up. I had time to collect myself to answer the door for someone.
But this awful rapid rat-tat-tat sound of knocking is a foreign sound and it feels really intrusive. I don't like people getting that close to my door unannounced!
Crazy rural sticks girl needs to move out of the city and apartments :O[/QUOTE]
Im the same way about people knocking at my door. The worse was when the process server comes round. OMG! Soo unexpected, and pounds on the door like he's the four horsemen of the appocolypse. Dont ever get evicted... just saying.
Aurora_Sunset
08-23-2015, 08:55 AM
Omg, my friend's newest guy, who she initially left her other abusive douche for, and was going on and on about how they got along so well and how he's such a man and so mature is WORSE than the last loser.
We went out of town for a single night to see a concert and stay at a casino. He doesn't even believe her that that's what we did. He texted her while we were eating dinner after the concert and because she didn't respond within 40 minutes, he started giving her all kinds of shit because he was under the impression that he could "text her whenever." That doesn't fucking mean she's going to have her phone up her ass constantly when we're hanging out! She called him at the end of the night after they argued a bit via text and literally had a 20 minute argument where he interrogated her endlessly about exactly what she was doing, the timeline, why she couldn't answer his damn texts right away, still called her a liar, said he didn't believe her, and was twisting everything she said, and demanded she apologize for being so disrespectful by not answering his texts immediately. They only ended the conversation because I finally shouted that I was going to come over there and hang up on him because I was fucking tired and wanted to sleep.
She tried to claim he was just drunk.
The next day, we went back to the casino for a few hours and she put her phone in my purse again. A couple hours later, I pulled it out to check for her and he had blown her up in the middle of the afternoon saying "Hmmm I noticed that neither of you posted anything on facebook about the concert." "Not answering me again?" "Fuck it, stay gone." When I showed her and she tried to cutely play it off and be like "Whoa, silly, no need to be so hateful" he responded with "Fuck you."
So much for just "being drunk," huh?
She proceeded to tell me that he does shit like this all time actually. Constantly accuses her of cheating on him, even though she knows that he texts other women all the time, calling them baby. Gets drunk and calls her "fucking worthless" and a "fucking cunt." Showed me a video she had taken on her phone of him getting so pissed one night because she didn't hand him a lighter that he stormed around the apartment throwing shit everywhere and cursing her out. She's not allowed to have guy friends.
She texted me this morning, telling me that after getting back last night, he had to AGAIN hash it out with her about how she was never honest with him, accused her of not being with me all weekend, and not believing anything.... and then he made her sleep on the floor.... Apparently he was also upset because he had tried to tell her that she should ask me to drive back home after the concert and stay at their place instead of staying overnight at the casino. He framed it as he wanted to meet me and get to know me, but it was clearly about keeping tabs on her. The concert was 4 hours away! We drove 4 hours and just barely skated in on time and got out at 11, 2 hours later. I looked at her as she was explaining this and was like "Is he fucking insane? There was no way in fuck I was gonna turn around and drive 4 hours back after that! That's fucking stupid."
What in the flying fuck? Sometimes I think I'm "so bad" about men because I'm always attracted to guys who only want me for sex. But then I see this shit, and I'm like Jesus fucking Christ, how can you possibly jump from guy to guy like this and think it's not that bad? Holy fuck. If I ever told her a guy was doing this shit to me, she would be horrified. And the worst part is, when I say stuff like that, she agrees - she knows how bad it is and how understandable it is that I'm horrified, and agrees with everything I say about how terrible and immature and disgusting he is and how it won't EVER change or get better... But then of course, all the excuses for why she has to stay.
She at least admitted on the drive home that he's just miserable person in general and she feels like that's why she should stay with him. I think she probably has that complex about all these guys... I tried to tell her it wasn't her responsibility to fix his attitude and that she couldn't work magic on someone who chooses to be that way.
Goddammit... I really wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt that she had moved on to someone who may be a little redneck, but was a decent guy. Nope.
Aurora_Sunset
08-23-2015, 12:05 PM
My friend and I stopped at a strip club on the way home yesterday and we began talking about possible future moving plans. I mentioned plans to look into 3 different cities over the next few months and making a decision about moving next summer. Some guy overheard us and tried to get in on the conversation. He asked where I would ultimately want to live and I said Hawaii. He chuckled and said Hawaii was expensive. And I said yes, I know, that's why it's a future dream for when I'm a millionaire.
Now, I make comments like that about Hawaii and my future financial status in a joking way, but I am ultimately serious. This guy's response? "Oh, you're looking to marry a millionaire?" I was like "No... I don't want to marry a millionaire. I want to be a millionaire."
"By marrying a millionaire."
"No. I'll make the money myself."
He laughs and says "Yeah, sure, maybe you should just stick to the finding a millionaire to marry plan."
Wtf? I wasn't even a stripper in this scenario and this is the kind of misogynistic bullshit I have to put up with from men in a SC?
And then they come here wondering why we're so "misandrist." ::)
kaninchen
08-23-2015, 12:24 PM
I am so annoyed by managers who have no problem shamelessly texting me every night, "Can you come in? We need you. Are you working tonight? What time can you be here? I know you don't work nightshift/dayshift/Mondays/Fridays but can you please come in anyway?"
Yet when I text them a simple question, like, "Is 9pm housefee still $50?" or "Is my regular there?" They can't be bothered to even reply. Ugh. Rude!
Selina M
08-23-2015, 12:48 PM
^ PFFT if they're texting asking you to come in, they better be waiving your house fee!
Genoveve
08-23-2015, 08:14 PM
My PA is cats bathing. Aside from like a 2 year period I have had cats all my life and for some reason this has really started bothering me in the last year. I just cannot stand when I'm resting or sleeping and a cat is lying near me going to town cleaning itself, especially when it's really noisy or I can feel the bed moving from it. Or if they lie on me and do it. If I'm wide awake I don't care but if I'm trying to do any kind of resting it drives me nuts and I will have the put the cat in the other room because cat baths take like 20 min. Sorry kitties.
whirlerz
08-23-2015, 09:24 PM
I watched a trailer for a movie called "The Witch", it looked really good..then I see, 'coming in 2016'?! What? 1. Why show a trailer for a movie coming out that far ahead, & 2. When in 2016, it doesn't say? 3. Why not for Halloween?>:(
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt4263482/
Selina M
08-23-2015, 10:09 PM
Goddamn insurance company said I 'failed to maintain a safe distance'. UM WHAT.
They have statements from the bitch saying that I 'rear ended her and she thought I was honking to tell her that traffic was moving forward, and that I just kept coming and hit her'. In what realm of logic would that even make sense? If I knew someone wasn't moving, why would I honk and then crash into them? Why would I then have the balls to call up and claim she had hit me? I have photographs of the incline in question even. This is after she stated to me that she had taken her foot off the brake, which I also told them.
I'm so pissy. I'm appealing this crap. My insurance made it sound like it was entirely up to HER insurance, which is obvious BS. This is using up my accident forgiveness, and she's scraped up my car. It makes me even angrier that I googled her and she makes 6 figures, so does her husband, and she's gonna do this crap to a college student? What a fucking cunt. A pox on her, and I hope she knows why when she gets it.
Aniela
08-24-2015, 02:58 PM
Awww shit. Pre-period spotting has begun. My body does indeed hate me. :bomb: So much for the possibility of breaking my dry spell this wk end. :banghead: :banghead: :weeping: :banghead:
Aurora_Sunset
08-24-2015, 05:37 PM
When guys ask stupid, offensive questions that just make you go "fucking really?" and then say "Well, it never hurts to ask." No... but it does though.
xStacey
08-24-2015, 05:51 PM
Customers stupidity. This regular visited a few times, he asked for my number after his fourth visit so I gave him my NextPlus number, he did not start texting or bothering me, good sign, and then one morning I receive this text message from him: Hey beautiful, how are you? Do you wanna do it Nath (I gave him a fake real name and told him my real name's Nathalie lol)? At your place? :D
...:O
And the same cheap custie who keeps texting me every week although I don't reply at all anymore. Instead of coming to visit he texts me to tell me he misses me so much, and wants to know how my evening's going. The week after he texts me Hi! Because he ran out of stupid random shit to say.
Glamourmilf
08-24-2015, 06:02 PM
Roommate's family is STILL here! It's been a week.
You're cramping my style, and f..ing up my income, cause I can't work or sleep in peace!
Go HOME!!:finger::shoot::smellie_e:x:
michele11
08-24-2015, 09:04 PM
I don't accept friend requests from people I don't know Irl. If they are friends of a friend and I see their posts and they seem normal I'll make an exception. Twice only with guys. The one guy I accepted his request a while ago. I saw her had a kis and gf oe wife. He never bothered me. I just get a request from him. I messaged him didn't I accept your request ages ago? His gf or wife probably made him delete me. he's cute. An MMA fighter and born in Brazil. 5 min and I'm ready to delete him. YOur so beautiful btw. You live in bank. Now he's messaging again. The other guy who's a sweetheart( a friend of a friend on here) lo. Same thing last night. These guys are like 20 years younger than me. WTF. It's why most of my 100 friends are breeders. Ok. He's going to go. He is friends with my first. I asked how he new him. he was in work release with him. ( my ex, we dated from 16-21) has been in and out of trouble his whole life. he asked how I know him. I said we dated for 6 years a long time ago. he says lucky bastard. Now he's messaging again. Yeah, Bye, bye.
22lligm
08-25-2015, 10:30 AM
Why are guys even on this website? Am I the only one that thinks thats weird?
Naida
08-25-2015, 01:48 PM
Why are guys even on this website? Am I the only one that thinks thats weird?
This kinda irks me some times, too. Not that I have a problem with a lot of our wonderful Blue Ribbons, but some of them seriously get under my skin and there's almost always an awkward feeling in my stomach when I notice a poster is a blue.
My gripe is that I can't work for a fucking week because of an abscess I got on my ass. This fucking blows, man. To add insult to literal injury, the only clinic not demanding $100 minimum upfront for my follow up supposedly does not do wound care in their general practice - walk in clinic only, where they do not even bother to properly triage patients and end up sending people away halfway through their business hours because they fill up with people they could have just pushed a little further down the list. My options are now either remove the packing myself or go back to the ER for it, and I sure as hell don't want to get slapped with ANOTHER round of bills by going back to the ER when this is an urgent but non-emergency situation. I'm about 90% sure that I'll remove it myself, but I don't want to when I have no idea if it needs to be repacked and all the fucking pain involved.
Oh, and the long time friend with benefits who kept turning me down every time I wanted a relationship? Now that I've announced things are getting serious (as in transitioning from dating to exclusive bf/gf status in the foreseeable future) with the guy I've been seeing for a month, he suddenly wants me to himself. This is fucking bullshit and I shouldn't be allowing it to screw with my head as much as it does, but how can it not when I've loved the guy for five years? At least spending time with my current beau has reminded me that I deserve what's right in front of me and not a guy who's selfish.
SweetCandy
08-25-2015, 05:08 PM
I'm sick of family and family friends only contacting me to be nosy and try to figure out what type of work I do. Like just mind your damn business ! They don't even really care about how I'm doing they just want to be nosy to gossip and try to make themselves feel better about their lives....
I've cut off all of my friends and I'm about to stop talking to my family/family friends for awhile too. No one is ever there when I need them even to the point where they would let me be homeless.. They weren't worried about what type of job I had when I was fighting homelessness but when I pick myself up very quickly and I'm doing ok all by myself, now everyone wants to call and talk and figure out what I'm doing.
I've had enough of everyone's bullshit and would just rather much be alone, stack my money, and live my life how I see fit.... Sex work has always been there for me when no one else has and I'll be damned if I let anyone who would let me end up on the streets try to make me feel bad about it.
KikiGem
08-25-2015, 05:08 PM
I can't take much more of listening to people around me bitch endlessly about things that aren't that bad. Like my brother, whining on end about the rare occasion he has to work a 9 hour day and waiting an extra half hour to get off. Nevermind the fact that one of our parents brings him lunch every day... that he has no expenses and all disposable income... he's got it so bad. Please, enough.
michele11
08-26-2015, 07:37 AM
Ugh. I need to go to my orthopedic surgeon and then the periodontist. I'm scrared( never been scared to go to the dentist. I use to go 3 times a year. I'm afraid they're going to say my gums are too far gone:'(. Plus I've been feeling weird. Not super depressed but i get ready to go and then I can't leave the house.:( Oh and forgot. Got my period last night.
SweetJulia
08-26-2015, 10:14 PM
Why are guys even on this website? Am I the only one that thinks thats weird?
Fuck esp when they start threads to get free sex talk.
KaraLynn
08-27-2015, 01:53 AM
I always seem to end up deleting long vents but long story short
1. I hate the fact that now that I'm doing better and doing things I've been wanting to do for years "friends" are being very discouraging of me. I guess they'd rather me go back to being depressed, drunk, and trying to kill myself :/ funny how people would rather be around to see you down than up
2. I had a friend who hated my guts for over a year because I got into a wreck with her in the passenger seat and she had to get stitches. Yes, it was my fault, I let myself get distracted and didn't yield when I should have but why hate me? She recently was in a wreck in the passenger seat with one of my close friends because she swerved to avoid a cat and guess what? She's over at her house right now buddying it up. No hating her for a year or blaming her. Why was I so deserving of the blame and hatred yet she wasn't? It really hurt.
KaraLynn
08-27-2015, 02:07 AM
I am so annoyed by managers who have no problem shamelessly texting me every night, "Can you come in? We need you. Are you working tonight? What time can you be here? I know you don't work nightshift/dayshift/Mondays/Fridays but can you please come in anyway?"
Yet when I text them a simple question, like, "Is 9pm housefee still $50?" or "Is my regular there?" They can't be bothered to even reply. Ugh. Rude!
I worked at a club where the manager would text girls to come in at the last minute to help him out and then try to charge them the 60 dollar after 10 house fee and wonder why girls stopped coming in when he asked. It's stupid. If you call someone in on their day off and they show up they're doing YOU a favor so you'd better wave their damn house fee.
miss.a.p1600
08-28-2015, 01:45 AM
F*ck this sh*t.
I think I may be in denial.
Selina M
08-28-2015, 12:09 PM
I have 2 cars at the moment. I park my new one on the street and my old one is parked in the single parking space I feel entitled to in my complex (you have to pay $15/mo for a covered space ::) )
One of the windows does not go up anymore, and I don't go down every single time some leaves blow in and clean it out. It's freakin monsoon season, it rains/dust storms every day right now.
Apparently the neighbors are pissed that they can't have the spot, because the office is now telling me I have to move it to the street because they're complaining that I never drive it and it looks abandoned.
TOUGH SHIT, what the fuck. My neighbors down the way are holding a spot with their scooters that haven't moved in 6 months. The car is registered and tags are current, it runs/drives. There's nothing in my lease that says I can't leave it in a spot.
I really didn't want to move again, I'm tired of it, but I'm totally not down with the amount of contact I've had to have with the office. In 7 months, this is the 2nd tow threat to my car, they've harassed me about seeing my fiancé walking the dogs (he's not on the lease), the glass door incident, my hot water was out for 4 days, and I've had a cabinet door and a door handle come off, a loose screw in the front door, and a toilet chain snap. Jesus christ. If I wanted to live somewhere with this much crap, I could pay $200 less.
lynn2009
08-28-2015, 01:07 PM
The same thing happened to me with the car. My situation involved a street spot so I don't know if it's different for you. But what a police friend told me is that if the car is functional, up to date on all the tags and all (like you said), they can threaten to tow it all they want. And they CAN tow it but then you can report it stolen. And if there's no cause for the towing it'll fall back on the property owners obviously. But it'll still be a big pain in the ass for you. Good luck!
Selina M
08-28-2015, 01:56 PM
^ That's what I figured. I don't want to go through the hassle. It pissed me off bc she was like "Um people are complaining so can you move it to the street?" NO. I park my new car on the street, trying to be decent and only use up one spot in the complex. How about you can tell people tough shit?
Tons of people violate their leases all the time; they work on their cars in the parking lot, have awful living room furniture on their patios, bbqs under a wooden roof, etc etc etc., and nobody gives them crap. They ignore your lease unless they want money from you and it might help them to attempt to invoke it (like the glass door $$ I still have not paid).
kaninchen
08-28-2015, 04:58 PM
It's a million degrees here and I hate everything.
Selina M
08-28-2015, 05:02 PM
Oh my God now the finance bitch is calling me, saying if I don't pay it by the 3rd, they're going to double it to $185, then count it as rent and charge me the $75 late rent fee. Can they even DO that?
I wish I could just lay down and pay the stupid $90 but this is just infuriating that they're trying to pull this on me. They're protecting their illegal immigrant landscape company.
kaninchen
08-28-2015, 05:08 PM
^ Read through your lease! I'm guessing that they can't do that. Unless they specifically stated that they can do that (or that they reserve the right to possibly do that) then they can't. And read up on tenancy laws for your state. If those kinds of fees are illegal then you don't have to pay them even if they are stipulated in the lease.
Genoveve
08-28-2015, 05:38 PM
Dear. God.
So in my apartment everything breaks down. I don't know why because it's not a dump but I guess it might as well be with how often stuff breaks. I feel like I am in a constant state of working around some malfunction. The worst part about it is that my elderly landlord does all the repairs and while he knows what he's doing, he's a walking fossil so it takes foreverrrrr. In fact most of the time he stands over me and just instructs me on how to do the repairs LOL because he physically can't. Well he was working on an outlet of mine because I've noticed when certain high-powered things are plugged in that it gets really hot(fire hazard). He was working on it off and on for the last 2 days and it still wasn't fixed, so today he comes to hopefully finish it and I decided to be his assistant because it would make things go faster. Sure enough within an hour HE'S the assistant and I'M actually rewiring my bedroom with my jewelry-making tools(I felt like they were doing a better job than his tools). We busted our asses for hours and then replaced the circuit breaker only for it to still not work. So I have no power in my bedroom till Tuesday when an electrician comes and actually fixes it. Btw my oven is broken and my brand new refrigerator is leaking although luckily we stopped the leak till we can get the new part we need.
Selina M
08-28-2015, 05:44 PM
^ The tenancy law says they are not allowed to have lease clauses that waive their duty to keep the building habitable, which is what I feel the 'glass clause' is doing. I need a legit lawyer to look at this.
I feel like they have me by the balls, because fiancé is technically not supposed to be here, so I'm afraid to start a legit fight because they could go after me for that.