View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
SweetJulia
09-04-2015, 09:12 PM
Awesome-I have a five inch hole in my tire. When I had roadside assistance come out, discovered my car doesn't come with a spare tire.
Glamourmilf
09-04-2015, 09:20 PM
A friend just arrived in town for the weekend - first time she's ever visited me here. After taking an almost hour-long shower, she's taken a phone call from a friend she can see and talk to any time back home and decided now was a good time to fill her in on everything that's been going on in her life for the past 6 months... She was like "Oh, I have to take this." Still on the phone for the past 20 minutes right in front of me just chatting about inane details. Really? You can't say "Hey, I have so much to fill you in on but I'm visiting another friend this weekend. Can I call you Sunday?" I don't understand my generation's concept of what would be "rude" and what, apparently, isn't.
How rude and inconsiderate! I would kick her ass to the curb, but that's just me.
I've had my share of shitty houseguests, including many family members.
No mas!
Serena-Shields
09-05-2015, 11:36 AM
My dog is limping-UGH. I think he might've stepped on something while I was sleeping or maybe got bit by a bug, but he's favoring his right-front leg. Every time I try to fiddle around with him and look between his toes and whatnot he gets all growly and shit. He's a rescue pitt and even though that was like six years ago, he's still pretty nervous not to mention old, and while he's normally a sweetheart he does NOT like being touched there right now.
My brother is all like ''Let him figure it out on his own or he'll bite you'', ''Pitts have the highest jaw pressure of most dogs'' (which is a rumor lmao they're actually VERY average and I doubt he'd bite me despite the snapping) But I am NOT that kind of person. If you're that hesitant with a horse, they either get worse or they end up with a really shitty attitude. But horses are (apparently) smarter than my dog right now because I've never seen an injured horse that didn't accept help. I've taken an Appendix mare with a puncture wound inside the house for treatment and that sucker just stood there while we're fiddling around with a hole in her side. Plus I'd rather get fucking bit than have it turn out to be something seriously wrong with him.
I've taken a fair share of kicks and bites in my time- an old-ass dog with a thorn in his paw is nothing. The only reason I'm leaving him alone for now is because I don't want to make him even more nervous. In a few hours, if he's still limping, I'm going in there with tweezers. Bite me, sucker.
absolutelyadorable
09-05-2015, 12:44 PM
^^ lmao awww poor baby
absolutelyadorable
09-05-2015, 12:51 PM
My petty annoyance for the day: all this women bashing that goes on on social media..more specifically, the general theme of men being these poor, misunderstood angels and women being evil, manipulative cunts. Of course, when I tried to point this out to a facebook friend of mine, I'm "justifying the bullshit" and "spinning the situation." Maybe I'll mail him some preparation H for the butthurt..?
curvydancer25
09-05-2015, 04:30 PM
If I'm on my computer, minding my business, looking at whatever I'm looking at...it could be anything from clothes to hair to youtube or my camming/video sites or whatever the fuck I'm looking at...and you (boyfriend) come hover over me to act like you want a kiss when I know you just wanna see what I'm doing on MY computer, and you get mad when I shut it, why are you throwing a fucking fit if you "say" you don't care what I'm doing, then accuse me of cheating just because I shut it and don't want you all in my business. Everything isn't meant for you to know. I give you your privacy when you're on your computer so give me mine. Everyone deserves their right to their privacy in a relationship. Do you think I deserve a better guy than you and you're that insecure? II'm not a cheater. Stop acting like a fucking child just because you don't know everything I'm doing on MY computer. I don't need my boyfriend to see all the girly stuff I like to look at or everything I do that involves my webcam job. Give me my fucking space. Thanks.
tuesdaymarie
09-05-2015, 04:47 PM
My neighbor two doors down is super trashy and horrible. Her pitbull had several puppies, and they already had three or four dogs. So they have around ten dogs now, and the pups fit through the fence. They've been getting in the yard between us since they were born, and now they're making their way into our yard. I love animals and don't blame the pups, but they're not very friendly. I don't ever let my cats out, but I shouldn't have to worry about stepping outside and having several aggressive pitbulls in my yard. They're not full grown, but they're strong, and if five were to attack, that would be bad. Plus the people next to us have a tiny, old, half-blind Yorkie whom the pups could tear apart. I've seen the neighbor hit the pups and scream at them, and she does nothing to deter them from barking/acting aggressive toward people and dogs who pass by along the lake behind us. How can someone own a dog with as much stigma as a pitbull and NOT train them? She's a horrible human being. I considered calling the SPCA when I saw her hitting them, but seeing as they're half pit, I'm afraid they'll just be euthanized as soon as they're picked up :(
Aniela
09-05-2015, 05:32 PM
My neighbor two doors down is super trashy and horrible. Her pitbull had several puppies, and they already had three or four dogs. So they have around ten dogs now, and the pups fit through the fence. They've been getting in the yard between us since they were born, and now they're making their way into our yard. I love animals and don't blame the pups, but they're not very friendly. I don't ever let my cats out, but I shouldn't have to worry about stepping outside and having several aggressive pitbulls in my yard. They're not full grown, but they're strong, and if five were to attack, that would be bad. Plus the people next to us have a tiny, old, half-blind Yorkie whom the pups could tear apart. I've seen the neighbor hit the pups and scream at them, and she does nothing to deter them from barking/acting aggressive toward people and dogs who pass by along the lake behind us. How can someone own a dog with as much stigma as a pitbull and NOT train them? She's a horrible human being. I considered calling the SPCA when I saw her hitting them, but seeing as they're half pit, I'm afraid they'll just be euthanized as soon as they're picked up :(
If you can do so, record her nxt time she starts screaming at them & hitting them. Take the video to the police (bc animal abuse IS a crime) & contact a pitbull-friendly rescue. Nearly every breed out there has a following, & I think that the stigma surrounding pitbulls & related breeds would actually make their breeds' rescue organisations easier to find. Kinda like the anti-choice wackos w/ their 'You have options!!!!' taglines … except actually trying to help, & not wackos :)
My bitch today is Styrofoam. You would not believe How. Much. Goddamn. Styrofoam has been in these huge shipments for my job the last few days. & not even in 'peanut' form that you can actually save & re-use … noooooooooooo … gotta be those huge-ass boxes w/ the mould inside that you break open to find whatever the item is. Can't sufficently break them down so we go thru large rubbish bags like nobody's business & single-handedly fill the dumpster to overflowing w/ all of this crap. So ugly, messy, wasteful & environmentally-unfriendly. :no:
Genoveve
09-05-2015, 07:29 PM
The landlord drama continues. So the guy gets here fix the oven and sees that the landlord destroyed a line that carries gas to one of the burners so now the brand new oven already needs parts replaced thanks to him. The guy is about to convert the oven and the landlady starts talking about how she's going to just have a replacement oven sent so she won't need to order parts to fix the broken one. So the guy was like 'Well do you want me to not work on this one since you're talking about getting another oven?' I was like NOOOOOO because in my head I'm thinking the landlady is not going to be able to do an oven exchange since the reason it's not working is because her husband twisted the gas line 180 degrees with a wrench(which btw when I saw that being done I was like 'Uh are you sure that's okay?' and he said it was lol). I suggested she just pay the guy that was here to set up the rest of the oven because I can live with one burner not working, I never use more than 2 at a time anyway. But she insisted she could get a brand new oven. She did go back down to the store and apparently a new one is coming after the weekend, she's pretty senile though and I have no idea what she told them. I'm hoping they don't get here, inspect the fucked up oven and go 'Why didn't you tell us you damaged it??' I told the landlords that all 3 of us will say it looked like that when it got here LOL, 3 witnesses is pretty good I figure. Such a circus.
Serena-Shields
09-05-2015, 11:11 PM
Can't decide if I want to work tomorrow or not! If I do, I'll have to wash my hair two days in a row because my birthday is Monday (hollaaa) and I want to have perfect, freshly washed hair when I go out. But if I DON'T work, that'll mean four days off cam because on Tuesday I have my birthday present coming (a 400$ doll I'd worked my ASS off to pay for) so I definitely will be too preoccupied to work.
I mean I don't HAVE to work, I've been doing really well with my spending lately not to mention how good this week was, but ugh. I hate not working, but I'll also hate working.
AND my dog is still limping and he's snapped at me about a thousand times today.
kaninchen
09-06-2015, 03:13 AM
Tonight was my worst shift money-wise of the whole summer. I was the lowest earner for the first time in my dancing career! Then I ate way too much fast food. Finally, as I was getting home, I curbed out on my neighbor's porch (it has a weird concrete foundation that joins my driveway) with this ungodly loud noise. I hadn't even been drinking!
Just really was not my night. Omfg. At least it's over!
wednesday86
09-06-2015, 04:12 PM
Every single guy I met yesterday, even the ones that paid me, pissed me off. It's been a long time since I've felt that bitter toward customers.
Selina M
09-06-2015, 08:44 PM
My horse is such a little prissy pony. I love him dearly, but Oh my God he's become so fragile since I moved him. I swear the environment must have something to do with it.
Last time I rode him he stepped wrong (shitty arena!) and must have jacked up his hind foot; he straight laid down with me on his back and then hobbled back to the barn. He got a week off and has only been worked gently twice this week. Then earlier this week, I found a big ass lump on his neck, which apparently drained itself out and left a crusty skin patch. Tonight I found a second one that is even bigger on his shoulder. I'm hoping it's just a nasty bee sting reaction or something. I refuse to vax for most things (too many bad side effect risks), so then I get paranoid about West Nile every time he gets a mosquito bite. And then on top of this, he's always arguing with his neighbor and gets some new scrape on his pretty face every week :(
I can't wait to go home where he doesn't constantly smack himself up, and where my mom doesn't look at me like I'm crazy for keeping a close eye on every little thing.
xStacey
09-07-2015, 11:22 AM
I'm scheduled for an x-ray tomorrow and I have to be on a liquid diet all day today, cannot eat any solid food. I am hungry and starving. I don't have any energy to study or clean the apartment. I'm so hungry I don't even want to watch TV, I just want the day to be over already and sleep it off. Cannot consume anything with milk, can only consume clear soup, juice, soda, water.
Genoveve
09-07-2015, 03:24 PM
Who the hell doesn't offer free shipping for orders over $75 these days? Victoria's Secret that's who. :grumpy:
xStacey
09-07-2015, 07:18 PM
Wow, the custie I've been ignoring who's been texting and calling me multiple times every single day just sent me this message "My favourite asian slut". :O Did he think he would be more likely to get a reply after this? This is why I hate young 20 years old guys.
Tsepmet1
09-08-2015, 11:08 AM
tmi....
michele11
09-08-2015, 01:28 PM
WTF. I have four packages coming! I saw the mailman in my subdivision when I got home over an hour ago. I want my packages! I probably won't like any of it but still...
MissAdriana
09-08-2015, 02:44 PM
When your neighbourhood has YARD SALES every weekend, sat AND sun, starting at 6 or 7 am I get to wake up to "YARD SALE!!!!!!!!" being screamed after working a late night. It's been going on all summer, and still is. I want my peaceful sleep. Weird yard sale freaks!!
Selina M
09-08-2015, 03:17 PM
Some people on this board are apparently incapable of handling their own life. If you have to be spoonfed on how to be an adult you should not be a sex worker.
Genoveve
09-08-2015, 09:48 PM
It irks me when women who are genetically blessed talk about how inner beauty is what really matters and what makes a woman the most attractive. And when genetically blessed women condemn cosmetic surgery because they say we should all be completely thrilled with what we were born with. I don't have any issue with anyone who is anti plastic surgery or anything but it's annoying when it comes from someone who is extremely conventionally attractive and has never had to deal with extreme physical insecurities. And yeah they might say something like 'That's not true I was an ugly duckling when I was younger and bullied mercilessly, I know how it feels!' But like, you ended up growing into a fucking swan so......
Vyanka
09-09-2015, 12:32 AM
It irks me when women who are genetically blessed talk about how inner beauty is what really matters and what makes a woman the most attractive. And when genetically blessed women condemn cosmetic surgery because they say we should all be completely thrilled with what we were born with. I don't have any issue with anyone who is anti plastic surgery or anything but it's annoying when it comes from someone who is extremely conventionally attractive and has never had to deal with extreme physical insecurities. And yeah they might say something like 'That's not true I was an ugly duckling when I was younger and bullied mercilessly, I know how it feels!' But like, you ended up growing into a fucking swan so......
Natural natzies. I wanna tell them to mind their own business.
I'm so mad I didn't listen to my gut to stay home. Wtf was I thinking going in after ldw. Tonight was horrid. I'm tired. Not going in til next week. Bunch of clowns tonight. Ugh.
Serena-Shields
09-09-2015, 02:49 PM
I am NOT feeling good today. My head is on-off hurting, I feel like I have no energy/like I haven't eaten even though I JUST ate. I think my brother got me sick or something. I'm supposed to work today because I haven't worked since Friday, but I'm like dying. I'm already made up and ready for work so I'm going to at least give it an hour and if I don't feel better I'll just clean the house and take a nap and work the weekend.
I HATE getting sick. I haven't been ill for like eight months. Yuck.
wednesday86
09-10-2015, 09:17 AM
I don't know why it annoys me but this girl in my class...going on about how random things we're studying are "Cool!" and "Awesome!" We're talking about Gregor Mendel and his pea experiments, like basic shit from high school, not anything exciting...And she purposely mispronounces words trying to be cute, and talks and talks and talks and is over the top bubbly and hyper. I know she's a lot younger than I am but it really irritates me. STFU
Serena-Shields
09-10-2015, 11:16 AM
I JUST GOT A MOTHER FUCKING CHARGEBACK.
One of my regulars on Skyprivate just did a chargeback for over 300$ in shows. Half of that is from one show that we already did, the other half for a show in advance.
I don't even have all of that money anymore. When it's taken out of my account I will go negative.
LAST fucking time I ever allow pre-pay.
Naida
09-10-2015, 01:09 PM
I don't know why it annoys me but this girl in my class...going on about how random things we're studying are "Cool!" and "Awesome!" We're talking about Gregor Mendel and his pea experiments, like basic shit from high school, not anything exciting...And she purposely mispronounces words trying to be cute, and talks and talks and talks and is over the top bubbly and hyper. I know she's a lot younger than I am but it really irritates me. STFU
Omg, I hated shit like that when I was in college. I freely admit I was one of those over-excitable students, but I waited til I was at home to do that shit. Pretending to be dumb while attending uni is like screaming "I'm the reason your tuition is so high," in my opinion.
My annoyance today is basically everything other than my boyfriend. My friend is damn near a hypochondriac. A previous lover makes a point of constantly reminding me of his feelings and how he waited too long to decide he wants me. I've left work owing house the last two nights because of the financial aftermath from LDW. It's hard finding a vanilla job when I'm working nights. I'm feeling super fucking fat lately and different imperfections like my skin and teeth are really bothering me. I'm dying for the solitude of my own place, which nowhere here will consider me for without vanilla pay stubs.
I'm just feeling like fuck life right now.
lynn2009
09-10-2015, 02:30 PM
My cousin is a real estate agent and such a pushy pain in the ass I'm actually considering being a dick back to him and making future family functions awkward.
Aniela
09-10-2015, 07:27 PM
Bitching abt old age here. I am back doing pushups again -- girl pushups cuz Îve been a slacker & gotta build back up, but it's a start -- & it just pisses me off to hear/feel my left shoulder & elbow going all Rice Krispies every time I break 90 degrees. They don't hurt, just kinda feel funny, but it's like a broken record saying regardless of my actual chronological age -- & no, I don't think 29 is old -- I'm getting fkng old.
Same thing w/ my left hip when I do leg lifts or similar exercises. I feel the joint pop n grind, & not in a sexy way. I know the shoulder & elbow are just tendinitis, I guess it's the same in the hip. Fkng orthopaedic wear'n'tear :(
Selina M
09-10-2015, 09:19 PM
Yes manager, I HAD thought of talking to people to sell dances. Have you considered that it's deader than fuck in here? Literally 2 customers (who are not buying dances) and barflies watching the game.
No, I did not approach the couple who came in, none of us did because we DONT LIKE COUPLES.
I'm one of two girls who have more than $5 in their purse, and he's gonna give me advice. Fuck off dude.
kaninchen
09-10-2015, 10:02 PM
Bitching abt old age here. I am back doing pushups again -- girl pushups cuz Îve been a slacker & gotta build back up, but it's a start -- & it just pisses me off to hear/feel my left shoulder & elbow going all Rice Krispies every time I break 90 degrees. They don't hurt, just kinda feel funny, but it's like a broken record saying regardless of my actual chronological age -- & no, I don't think 29 is old -- I'm getting fkng old.
Same thing w/ my left hip when I do leg lifts or similar exercises. I feel the joint pop n grind, & not in a sexy way. I know the shoulder & elbow are just tendinitis, I guess it's the same in the hip. Fkng orthopaedic wear'n'tear :(
Samesies girl. You should've heard me at the gym today. I sounded like someone was microwaving popcorn.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-11-2015, 12:16 PM
Stupid rant- the older couple who run a used furniture store I shop at didn't open on time today. Me and one other person got tired of waiting and left. I'm sure the store owners don't need the money, but it is slightly annoying to not get a chance to see what was available...
TL ; DR- older people really don't give a shoot
Aniela
09-11-2015, 03:38 PM
Speed-up-slow-down-speed-up-slow-down drivers. Go drive off a cliff already. Not all of the poor sods you've got tailing you are on holiday, sm of us are there bc we actually work for a living.
The dumb broad at work today 'I HAVE to have a hat, & it's GOTTA have a wide brim on it … I have, like, TONS of them at home but I forgot to bring one … but all of yours are, like, $25 & I don't wanna pay that much … I SHOULDN'T HAVE to pay that much for a freakin' hat in a place that's hotter than Hades … ::sigh:: I *guess* I'll come back here if I don't find anything cheaper … it's really crappy of y'all to charge so much for a hat in this climate … so, what's the best you can do for me? ::snaps fingers repeatedly:: Gimme sm incentive here … nope, not local … ugh, not military … you gotta have smtg better for me than that, baby girl, c'mon now' Think you're on fire bitch? Go fk yourself w/ a nice thick branch of live fire coral. Goddamn I wish I could have said that to this slag.
lynn2009
09-11-2015, 05:53 PM
No one takes my dental insurance and it's pissing me off
Selina M
09-11-2015, 08:45 PM
Now I'm sick with whatever sinus cold deal my fiancé has, and my right leg hurts SO bad. I think I need a chiropractor... this happens on my left side a lot but now it's on the right and a lot worse.
xStacey
09-12-2015, 10:06 AM
Wow, the custie I've been ignoring who's been texting and calling me multiple times every single day just sent me this message "My favourite asian slut". :O Did he think he would be more likely to get a reply after this? This is why I hate young 20 years old guys.
He's still calling every single day and just texted "Answer when I talk to you!". I want to stop receiving his calls and text messages but I'm not sure it's possible to block someone with the Nextplus application :/
Aniela
09-12-2015, 08:07 PM
Being unable to complete my evening crossword puzzles tonite by four clues in the first, & One. Freakin. Letter. in the second.
Rebuilding core & esp upper-body strength, w/o the phenomenal fun times of pole workouts. Lead me not into temptation … but getting it all back is such a pain in the ass. But that's what I get for being a slacker ::shrug:: ::kicks self::
simone87
09-13-2015, 10:04 AM
my youngest sister who is about to turn 21 is turning into one of those nauseating basic bitches who thinks they're soo hot and spend hours on these contrived, calculated photos of themselves every 5 minutes. the kind of girl where you can't just go to the beach and have fun without them seeing it as a photo op in their little bikini! ug. she's also turning mean, i guess she thinks she's hot enough to be one of those stereotypical mean girls you used to have to put up with in high school. she's also judgmental and hypocritical of all her friends and complains when THEY post sex selfies. she's only allowed to do that! *barf*
i'm already annoyed with her for receiving the pampered/privileged childhood and life that i was never given by my own parents, and this is just driving me up a wall.
Selina M
09-13-2015, 11:43 AM
I just can't anymore with apartments. I just got a bill from the water company; they tried to take a payment out of a closed bank account, so they're hitting me with a $25 returned check fee, plus $7 late charge, and sent me a scary note about "notifying your property manager that you may be in violation of your lease".
I'd be willing to bet $20 that I get a phone call bitching from the finance witch about it; never mind that all the legitimate water charges are paid; I'm not paying that shit.
I'm about 5 seconds away from transferring my lease to some poor sucker and bailing. Then I can avoid the 'final walk through' and associated bullcrap they'll try to charge me for. I hate this fucking place now. The best part is that they're advertising on craigslist every day; I want to write corporate a letter and be like "FYI I was gonna renew my lease but not since the window and car episodes; you lost $8000 in rent money over a $90 bill and your staff having no backbones. Good job!"
Aniela
09-13-2015, 02:37 PM
I just can't anymore with apartments. I just got a bill from the water company; they tried to take a payment out of a closed bank account, so they're hitting me with a $25 returned check fee, plus $7 late charge, and sent me a scary note about "notifying your property manager that you may be in violation of your lease".
I'd be willing to bet $20 that I get a phone call bitching from the finance witch about it; never mind that all the legitimate water charges are paid; I'm not paying that shit.
I'm about 5 seconds away from transferring my lease to some poor sucker and bailing. Then I can avoid the 'final walk through' and associated bullcrap they'll try to charge me for. I hate this fucking place now. The best part is that they're advertising on craigslist every day; I want to write corporate a letter and be like "FYI I was gonna renew my lease but not since the window and car episodes; you lost $8000 in rent money over a $90 bill and your staff having no backbones. Good job!"
I say write that letter to corporate, & leave full reviews of the staff's performance on as many review sites as you can.
I agree that apartments are such a crapshoot under the best circumstances ... but the second shit starts going wrong, goddamn does it suck that they always try to screw the tenant nine ways to Sunday. Any chance the 'poor sucker' you pawn it off on could work out to be one of the shitty staff from your current club? }:D
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-14-2015, 11:48 AM
My cousin is a real estate agent and such a pushy pain in the ass I'm actually considering being a dick back to him and making future family functions awkward.
Oh my God it's funny you posted this- I had an arguement with my aunt yesterday about the same thing. I think it takes a certain type of personality to excel in sales.
kaninchen
09-14-2015, 12:34 PM
Last night at the grocery store, a man was hitting on me really obnoxiously ("Are you single? Do you wanna be?") and I'm mad at myself for not tearing him a new one. I had had a great day so I was in a good mood and felt inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt at first. All I wound up saying was "I have to get going" when I should have told him to get the fuck away from me.
How backwards is it that I almost wish I had been grumpy so I wouldn't have had a problem telling him to go kill himself? I hate how my own pleasant state of mind makes me so nice to people who don't deserve it.
This happens all the time at the grocery store too, and I already go out of my way to shop at the one in the nice side of town. What else do I have to do to avoid these rude-ass thirsty-ass motherfuckers? I need a bro disguise so I can run errands un-harassed. Omg. Ugh!
Legz541
09-14-2015, 01:47 PM
I'm FINALLY in a place that would allow me to leave for extended periods of time to travel dance. I'm so painfully bored with my home club and the few others in my area aren't even worth working at. The earnings ceiling is very low. I've done literally HOURS and HOURS of research on here, TUSCL, Yelp, etc and still have no damn idea where I want to go. Ugh!
A second thing, reading about all these clubs that do $10 dances. I feel for you girls that have to do that. That's ridiculous.
SnuffleUffleGrass
09-15-2015, 07:49 AM
my youngest sister who is about to turn 21 is turning into one of those nauseating basic bitches who thinks they're soo hot and spend hours on these contrived, calculated photos of themselves every 5 minutes. the kind of girl where you can't just go to the beach and have fun without them seeing it as a photo op in their little bikini! ug. she's also turning mean, i guess she thinks she's hot enough to be one of those stereotypical mean girls you used to have to put up with in high school. she's also judgmental and hypocritical of all her friends and complains when THEY post sex selfies. she's only allowed to do that! *barf*
i'm already annoyed with her for receiving the pampered/privileged childhood and life that i was never given by my own parents, and this is just driving me up a wall.
I worked with a girl like this at my old job and I grew to loathe her (& most everyone else felt the same way.) I think at that age some girls have to go through a rotten phase to learn lessons. IMO when a guy she likes calls her out on her BS she will change. It's sick but a lot of these girls are only gonna improve if the aim of their ambitions TELLS them that he thinks that act is unappealing and unladylike.
audrey_k
09-15-2015, 10:43 AM
I hate dealing with office politics-- I miss working at a club and not having to speak to anyone or give a shit about what they were doing. I hate having to deal with people's pettiness, disorganization and need to blame things on others and make up excuses. I got promoted three weeks into starting my position and the person above me, who had decided to resign a month in a couple months due to needing to relocate, felt it was so unfair that she decided to resign a month and a half earlier because she had to "work harder for so much longer." I think it was more about her feeling left out now that I have joined the team, and she's always been like this as she apparently threw a fit when someone else was promoted six months ago and she wasn't and demanded to get the same promotion-- but now she is making life extremely difficult as I'm trying to take over all her tasks-- basically refusing to explain anything to me, do her job when asked, being extremely defensive, and then going through periods of super fake-niceness. If things go well I have the possibility of taking over her job completely and getting another promotion in Jan, but she's making that as difficult as possible, and dealing with her leaves me exhausted everyday; I'll be happy when she's gone.
I also wish there was some way to make people NOT be able to view your Facebook photos. I posted a bunch of photos from a wedding I went to and my boyfriend's psycho ex girlfriend, who I'm not friends with but is friends with my boyfriend and a lot of his friends whom I tagged, went online and liked basically everything that I'm NOT in. Can you be any more obvious? You like him and hate me. One of my exes liked some photos as well but half of them had my boyfriend in them. They've been broken up for almost four years at this point but I know she still harbors feelings for him, she's always texting him about random crap that has nothing to do with him-- and he doesn't even see it which makes it so much more annoying.
shanna dior
09-15-2015, 01:59 PM
I also wish there was some way to make people NOT be able to view your Facebook photos.
You can! Well, you have to do it for each album, but there is a way to make it so photos are visible to everyone but x person: https://www.facebook.com/help/215496745135618?sr=3&query=How%20to%20block%20people%20from%20seeing%20 my%20pictures&sid=2qrqWxEIfTdfpnvge
You could also just block her, and then she can't see anything you do on Facebook.
audrey_k
09-16-2015, 12:18 AM
^even if my photos pop up in the one of her friend's feeds? We're not friends and my profile is friends-only but I guess they popped up in my boyfriend's/ten other of his friends she's friends with on Facebook.
Aurora_Sunset
09-16-2015, 11:34 AM
I hate when friends who met their current bf at 18/19 years old and have been with the same person for almost 10 years try to give me dating advice and adamantly tell me that I "need to just keep putting myself out there!" Do you even know what "keep putting yourself out there" means? Have you ever truly experienced that? Especially as an adult? If any of them broke up and had to start "putting themselves out there" as an adult in a world full of other adults with now-widely-varied dating/personal histories that they didn't grow up with, they'd probably freak out and keel over and die from depression within a month...
When I want advice about keeping together a LTR, yes, I will defer to their wisdom. But they know absolutely jackshit about the dating world.
I know I've ranted about this before, so I won't go any further lol
wednesday86
09-16-2015, 12:17 PM
Jesus I have to hide every nurse I know off my fb newfeed now because they're all shitting their panties over The View comments. I looked up the video and was like "really? that's what you're getting all worked up about?" they called some girl's stethoscope a DOCTOR'S stethoscope!!! OMG!!!!!!!! My aunt who's a nurse is freaking the fuck out, posting tons of memes about it and "boycott the View!" Jesus fucking christ. *UNFOLLOW*
wednesday86
09-16-2015, 12:21 PM
I hate when friends who met their current bf at 18/19 years old and have been with the same person for almost 10 years try to give me dating advice and adamantly tell me that I "need to just keep putting myself out there!" Do you even know what "keep putting yourself out there" means? Have you ever truly experienced that? Especially as an adult? If any of them broke up and had to start "putting themselves out there" as an adult in a world full of other adults with now-widely-varied dating/personal histories that they didn't grow up with, they'd probably freak out and keel over and die from depression within a month...
When I want advice about keeping together a LTR, yes, I will defer to their wisdom. But they know absolutely jackshit about the dating world.
I know I've ranted about this before, so I won't go any further lol
Ha! I think it's funny that all the people who got married when I did the first time and then judged me HARD when I left my first husband are now all getting divorced. Out of our entire little circle I only know one couple who is still together that got married 9-10 years ago...and they have a terrible relationship.
Glamourmilf
09-16-2015, 12:39 PM
I hate when friends who met their current bf at 18/19 years old and have been with the same person for almost 10 years try to give me dating advice and adamantly tell me that I "need to just keep putting myself out there!" Do you even know what "keep putting yourself out there" means? Have you ever truly experienced that? Especially as an adult? If any of them broke up and had to start "putting themselves out there" as an adult in a world full of other adults with now-widely-varied dating/personal histories that they didn't grow up with, they'd probably freak out and keel over and die from depression within a month...
When I want advice about keeping together a LTR, yes, I will defer to their wisdom. But they know absolutely jackshit about the dating world.
I know I've ranted about this before, so I won't go any further lol
It is so annoying, isn't it? it's one thing that makes me pissy also.
Esp. when I meet new people at a social gathering, etc. That question of .."Are You married? Do You have a Boyfriend?"
I quickly tell them I've ad 2 husbands and that's enough for me...I'm done.
It's when they come back with, "But dear, you really shouldn't be alone, You should be with someone to grow old with"
Oh, just STFU!