View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
MistressX
12-12-2015, 11:24 PM
lol I have 3... Soon to be 4...
Hi my name is Xav and I'm a hearsaholic.
:D
Selina M
12-13-2015, 12:12 AM
Summary of my evening:
1) Got dressed while growing steadily more irritated that I couldn't wear nice clothes like an adult since it was a stupid ugly sweater party. Got in truck. Immediately changed mind and felt increasing sense of dread the farther we drove (introverts know what I mean). Determined I would rather be home watching Christmas movies.
2) Walked in the party. 20 year old little harpie that's been trying to get with my SO did not like the "don't fuck with me, I don't wanna be here" attitude I gave off. Successfully killed her vibe. SO walked into kitchen 10 feet ahead of me. Group of people standing awkwardly around bottles of alcohol. Seriously, worst "party" ever. Introduced himself. Failed to introduce me.
3) PMS + introvert won out. Did not give two fucks what anyone thought and said in front of them all "Give me your keys, I'm going home". He followed me out; I bitched him out for not introducing me and making me thus not seem important to him, that he's too old for these stupid college-y parties, it's disrespectful that he was going to go with or without me, regardless of my feelings about the little sorority bitches who live there, etc. Told him to take a fucking cab home.
I don't know why not being introduced pissed me off so bad but it did. It seemed to speak volumes.
Elektra Luxx
12-13-2015, 01:23 AM
I don't know why not being introduced pissed me off so bad but it did. It seemed to speak volumes.
I would be very offended if an SO didn't introduce me.
Cashmere Star
12-13-2015, 05:10 AM
I would be very offended if an SO didn't introduce me.
I agree, he's your SO so I think you're justified for being PO'd.
QueenBitch
12-13-2015, 05:35 AM
The other day I took Jimmy out to the grocery store. Normally it doesnt bother me but that "ew omfg" look when someone sees my hearse just ticked me off. Add to that the huffing and mumbling under one's breath as they pass me on the street like I am some kind of monster or the antichrist.. usually old people or hispanic women.. Sometimes it gets to me! I have even had people do the sign of the cross at me or my coach. Hearsicution is a real thing and I hate it!
ETA: I have had people tell me to leave their apartment complex, out front of their house or business "you cant park that there", I have had people key my poor baby and leave nasty notes under my windshield wipers, I have had people put bags of dog poop on the cowl of the car, etc. People like to call parking enforcement or any number of city agencies to report you. Oh and dont even get me started on HOA's.. lol its all too much sometimes. But I have to remember that I love them and I put up with it because of that.
people are disgusting and seem to have no more boundaries as soon as you look different or do something different that they don't understand.
MistressX
12-13-2015, 12:17 PM
people are disgusting and seem to have no more boundaries as soon as you look different or do something different that they don't understand.
Yes! This is so true. It's like as soon as I roll around to [insert event here] I am a justifiable target. Now having said that, most people are too cowardly to say stuff to my face. I usually get curious questions and sometimes questions from people who have a little snarkyness about them at the beginning, but once I explain to them what this is all about, they usually get genuinely interested and I end up changing their minds. I have had people discriminate against me due to the car (I have been asked to leave may car shows) and other stuff, and usually nasty remarks are on the down low or in passing, but rarely up in my face. People are just too scared.
I bought and frequently wear this shirt lol
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xStacey
12-13-2015, 12:38 PM
I am tired of my classmates asking me for favors. A girl asked me for 20 hours of recordings (and would sometimes say, oh I am so sorry I messed up the dates and it's actually the other recording I need, not that one, can you upload it please), keeps asking for my notes and I tried helping but I'm really fed up. She just texted me and asked how my studying is going, I figured she needed something again so I didn't reply, she asked right after can you send me the answers to questions we did at the beginning of Foundation of law class (that's about 6-7 classes of notes hmmm....) I just ignored.
It's so annoying, and whenever I help them with something they always say thank you so much if you need anything in the future I will be here. The problem is, I don't usually need any help and if there's something I don't understand I'd rather ask the teacher directly, and my marks are better than theirs so I am not sure how they could help me. lol
Selina M
12-13-2015, 01:44 PM
^ Oh my God those are the WORST, I was in a class like that where you basically had to record the teacher's lectures to pass. People would not show up for a week at a time and then email blast like "can someone send me the lectures?" No! Why should you get to ride the coattails of the people who actually went to class?
I bet if you ever need something they won't have it anyway, so that's not even a nice offer but just lip service.
Cashmere Star
12-13-2015, 01:52 PM
^^yeah don't help them. Unless they're the kind to try to compensate by helping you in some tangible way (not "oh let me know if you need help too" when they know you're smarter). Otherwise, the kind of people who only take take take ironically look down at you and treat you like shit once you try to help them, and then suddenly when you don't help them, they think you're some evil bitch. Those kind of people have no sense of gratitude or personal integrity. How do I know this? mmmmhm. :s
whirlerz
12-13-2015, 04:34 PM
So..there's a '28 day law' for hotels..except not every place enforces it, applies it to everyone? Meaning, you have to check out after 28 continuous days, then after 3 days of being gone you can check bk in?
Pretty sure there's @ least a couple ppl that have been here for literally years w/o doing that..
Honestly the mgr here doesn't like me, sounds petty but I swear I've never done anything to her..the other day I was sitting in the lobby w/another lady, we both talk to the one desk guy..
This mgr comes in, waves the girl that's sitting right next to me, then shoots me a look..:O
Today I'm texting my friend, & I get a call on my room phone, asking when I'm checking out..? WT actual fuck? I paid til Mon, & the girl told me she was told to call my room & ask??
I got scared, cause I thought for a second maybe I was wrong, but no. That's really fucked up>:(
22lligm
12-13-2015, 08:39 PM
I am so tired of my ex telling me how much he misses me and wants to be with me. I know he's trying really hard to get at random girls on social media and dating sites lol. I told him before I knew what he was doing and he just gave me this sob story about how lonely he is. But come on now you can't just be single and not talking to anyone for even five minutes?? His priorities are all fucked up and this just confirms why I don't want to be with him at all anymore. I am out here alone in a new city worrying about myself, not crying about how lonely I am and going out of my way to find a new guy to date. He needs to take his ass somewhere else because I'm over it.
absolutelyadorable
12-13-2015, 10:45 PM
So my phone speaker is messed up.........not even working with the headphones with the little mic.....and I do PSO. Do you SEE my issue here?! FML FML FML I guess I'll see if my voip phone is good enough to work with. Dammit. I guess I can get by on texting/fb/skype for now for family and friends but SHIT. When is baby Jesus gonna get his license so he can take this wheel????
Cashmere Star
12-14-2015, 03:15 AM
Only made $200 this week. :( Is this a seasonal/winter thing?
absolutelyadorable
12-14-2015, 12:50 PM
On one of the threads, a dipshit blue decided to put in his (uncalled for) 2 cents and it was just........why, bro, why. One of the pinks has complained about him more than once, and while I'm generally one to give everyone a fair chance, I'm starting to see her point. Smh.
baer45
12-14-2015, 01:03 PM
Only made $200 this week. :( Is this a seasonal/winter thing?
I'll get better.
baer45
12-14-2015, 01:20 PM
So..there's a '28 day law' for hotels..except not every place enforces it, applies it to everyone? Meaning, you have to check out after 28 continuous days, then after 3 days of being gone you can check bk in?
Pretty sure there's @ least a couple ppl that have been here for literally years w/o doing that..
Honestly the mgr here doesn't like me, sounds petty but I swear I've never done anything to her..the other day I was sitting in the lobby w/another lady, we both talk to the one desk guy..
This mgr comes in, waves the girl that's sitting right next to me, then shoots me a look..:O
Today I'm texting my friend, & I get a call on my room phone, asking when I'm checking out..? WT actual fuck? I paid til Mon, & the girl told me she was told to call my room & ask??
I got scared, cause I thought for a second maybe I was wrong, but no. That's really fucked up>:(
I believe it's because someone hates you and made things difficult for you. I carry two driver licenses with me. The second driver license belongs to a friend of mine. She's a junkie, i believe I have mentioned about her here before. She lost her license and got a copy from DMV. Then she found the original one. Anyway, I always pay cash for the hotel cost. I check out every 14 days and switch to "other" license for a few days. In your case, I recommend making at least one friend at front desk...you can just call that person everytime you need to check in.
MistressX
12-14-2015, 01:38 PM
Oh how I really love it when my hearse club shuns the fuck out of me. Like I don't know what's going on.. Nobody invites me to anything anymore. This club is so drama ridden and cliquey it's ridiculous. And some of the members are SO fuckin juvenile. Like we are in high school again.. I have never done anything mean or bad to anyone and all I get is shit. So fuck them and I'll just play with my hearses all by myself and they can go to hell!
lynn2009
12-14-2015, 04:26 PM
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kaninchen
12-14-2015, 08:00 PM
I went to a Mexican place for lunch and they didn't have horchata. Like, they don't even serve it. At all. How are you gonna have Mexican food and no aguas frescas?! I was like:
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xStacey
12-14-2015, 10:51 PM
I am tired of my classmates asking me for favors. A girl asked me for 20 hours of recordings (and would sometimes say, oh I am so sorry I messed up the dates and it's actually the other recording I need, not that one, can you upload it please), keeps asking for my notes and I tried helping but I'm really fed up. She just texted me and asked how my studying is going, I figured she needed something again so I didn't reply, she asked right after can you send me the answers to questions we did at the beginning of Foundation of law class (that's about 6-7 classes of notes hmmm....) I just ignored.
It's so annoying, and whenever I help them with something they always say thank you so much if you need anything in the future I will be here. The problem is, I don't usually need any help and if there's something I don't understand I'd rather ask the teacher directly, and my marks are better than theirs so I am not sure how they could help me. lol
So two days later, she did not get the message that my silence means that I don't want to give her 6 classes worth of notes. She's been spamming my inbox and leaving messages on my Facebook wall, it's almost harassment. She says "I don't understand my notes and the recordings are too confusing", okay and you just expect me to give you the notes I spent hours on like that because we're "friends"?
I always had suspicions that she's only talking to me because she knows my marks are above average, she's constantly asking for favors, notes, recordings and there was one exam I had an A+ for and the group average was low and she had no shame at all asking for my exam manuscript (which I did not give her)!! I had doubts but when on that day she asked me for my notes for every class since the mid-term exam, not just one or two, it was just a little too much. She could always ask someone else, might not be as good as mine but too bad, lol I don't like being used.
Funny thing is, at the beginning of the semester she often asked me for my notes for that same class, the answers to questions we did at the beginning of each class, they all ended up being in the exam. Knowing how important they were, I don't understand why she did not bother writing down anything? I got 95% for the mid-term and thought she probably got around the same but she only got 87% and used most of my notes lol, probably won't be as good for her final (we're graded on a curve so 87% would have been an A in another program but because the group average was very high for that class 82%, the exam was easy her mark is worth at best B+ so it's not that good).
It was a priviledge that I helped her but now she thinks it's a right she has. lol
MistressX
12-15-2015, 12:04 AM
Because shes a slacker that uses people to try and coast through life.. Tell her like it is. Tell her to stop harassing you and that she should have done the shit herself. You're not her nanny
Marina Starr
12-15-2015, 06:29 AM
I was at Starbucks this morning, saw a homeless man so I said 'Hi, good morning!'. He just looked at me and refused to acknowledge my friendly gesture.
I find it so beyond rude! So being the petty bitch that I am, I told him some people are so rude. No wonder they're homeless! #notsorry
Cashmere Star
12-15-2015, 09:03 AM
fucking blurb I need the book by tomorrow and you still haven't finished printing the book yet? On your website it says it should be printed in a week! I PAID FOR EXPEDITED SHIPPING, which is $17 fucking dollars to guarantee that it comes at least within 2 weeks. It's been 2 weeks and it should've been here by TODAY and you still haven't finished printing the book. And you're not responding to my emails? augh fuck! FUCK!
I am trying to get the book shipped to my favorite author fml girls ugh fuck this I am thinking of getting it printed at kinko's or something :( :( :(
Genoveve
12-15-2015, 09:52 AM
I was at Starbucks this morning, saw a homeless man so I said 'Hi, good morning!'. He just looked at me and refused to acknowledge my friendly gesture.
I find it so beyond rude! So being the petty bitch that I am, I told him some people are so rude. No wonder they're homeless! #notsorry
Wait, you're upset that a homeless person wasn't cheerful enough for you?
ETA this initially annoyed me but now it doesn't because after all this IS the "pissy" and "petty" thread and I know I have plenty of first world annoyances too.
simone87
12-15-2015, 10:01 AM
last week a prospective regular told me he definitely wanted a champagne room, and that he came in every monday and wanted to see me. i asked around and he comes there all the time and spends, so i made plans for babysitting, and went in. didn't show. and not only that, but a bruins game was on so i left the club with 100 bucks!! i just want to pinch off his little bald pin head right now.
BambiCutie
12-15-2015, 10:06 AM
Stupid phone alarm never went off and ended up sleeping in yet again..apparently my settings decided to mute all sound notifications, G thanks! :grumpy:
Also, being homeless I am sure there is nothing to be happy about..but that irritates the crap out of me too when people just completely ignore kind gestures, almost like they deserve it regardless. For example one time I bought this man a cheeseburger and he just stared at me and said, "I want money, not food!" ungrateful..
Marina Starr
12-15-2015, 10:23 AM
I got upset because I was SHUNNED. Not because he wasn't cheerful. You need to reread!
Wait, you're upset that a homeless person wasn't cheerful enough for you?
Genoveve
12-15-2015, 10:25 AM
^^Well I know you *perceived* it as being shunned, I read that you got no response.
Ignore list time anyway.
Marina Starr
12-15-2015, 10:27 AM
I don't know why it would annoy you because I have the right to my feelings. That was MY EXPERIENCE that doesn't need your opinion.
Wait, you're upset that a homeless person wasn't cheerful enough for you?
ETA this initially annoyed me but now it doesn't because after all this IS the "pissy" and "petty" thread and I know I have plenty of first world annoyances too.
Marina Starr
12-15-2015, 10:31 AM
Very smart and good call on YOUR part!
^^Well I know you *perceived* it as being shunned, I read that you got no response.
Ignore list time anyway.
absolutelyadorable
12-15-2015, 10:33 AM
Nobody likes to reach out just to get their hand slapped down.......
whirlerz
12-15-2015, 11:56 AM
Well Im @ the salon, hair processing..I get up to look @ products, leaving a couple magazines, my purse, etc. Some lady grabs the the mag I was reading..I mean it was open to a page..?
She looks right @ me..really? Wow, just wow
Glamourmilf
12-15-2015, 11:57 AM
Yeah, I don't fuck with homeless people. Esp. With what happened to that NCIS actress Pauley Perrette recently. (And she even has an organization to help the homeless). I guess he didn't get the memo.
Most have mental issues, and will cut a bitch just for looking in their direction.
A million years ago, when they asked me for money, I would say, "Oh wow, I was JUST going to ask YOU for money!" ( most of them pulled out change and offered it to me.)
Nowadays they are too bold, and scare the crap outta me, because they are too agressive. My last upscale apt. Was surrounded by them. They would sleep propped up against the building, and piss on it. Security just shrugged their shoulders.
I recently have come this close to being homeless, so I do know that sense of anger and hopelessness that they feel, because I felt it too.
Marina Starr
12-15-2015, 12:52 PM
What does all this have anything to do with common courtesy though?
Yeah, I don't fuck with homeless people. Esp. With what happened to that NCIS actress Pauley Perrette recently. (And she even has an organization to help the homeless). I guess he didn't get the memo.
Most have mental issues, and will cut a bitch just for looking in their direction.
A million years ago, when they asked me for money, I would say, "Oh wow, I was JUST going to ask YOU for money!" ( most of them pulled out change and offered it to me.)
Nowadays they are too bold, and scare the crap outta me, because they are too agressive. My last upscale apt. Was surrounded by them. They would sleep propped up against the building, and piss on it. Security just shrugged their shoulders.
I recently have come this close to being homeless, so I do know that sense of anger and hopelessness that they feel, because I felt it too.
simone87
12-15-2015, 01:26 PM
well, any one of us could be homeless at any time, some of these ppl have been through unimaginable tragedy, and already face ridiculous stigma as it is. i understand marina feeling hurt though. end thread jack
kaninchen
12-15-2015, 01:34 PM
What does all this have anything to do with common courtesy though?
Is it really a common courtesy issue though? It sucks when you reach out to someone and they don't reciprocate, so I understand feeling bummed that you said good morning and he didn't respond. But he's not there for your entertainment, just like women aren't obligated to smile for strange men on the street. For all you know he could have been deaf, sick, injured, or otherwise just too miserable to return your greeting. I really don't think it's fair to lash out at him because he failed to respond in the way you wanted.
Marina Starr
12-15-2015, 01:50 PM
I didn't see or thought of him as any kind of entertainment. I saw a human being. So I don't know why you'd say that?
For ME it was a common courtesy issue. You were not there so you can't speak on his behalf or how I've EXPERIENCED him. You didn't see his demeanor when all I did was extended a kind gesture.
I lashed out in the heat of the moment and came here to let it out to get it off my conscience because THIS is the thread for pissy and petty shit.
Have you not write anything in this thread that could be deem as unfair by others? I'm sure you have, we all have. Do you see me policing your right to post them? NO!
Is it really a common courtesy issue though? It sucks when you reach out to someone and they don't reciprocate, so I understand feeling bummed that you said good morning and he didn't respond. But he's not there for your entertainment, just like women aren't obligated to smile for strange men on the street. For all you know he could have been deaf, sick, injured, or otherwise just too miserable to return your greeting. I really don't think it's fair to lash out at him because he failed to respond in the way you wanted.
kaninchen
12-15-2015, 02:00 PM
I didn't see or thought of him as any kind of entertainment. I saw a human being. So I don't know why you'd say that?
For ME it was a common courtesy issue. You were not there so you can't speak on his behalf or how I've EXPERIENCED him. You didn't see his demeanor when all I did was extended a kind gesture.
I lashed out in the heat of the moment and came here to let it out to get it off my conscience because THIS is the thread for pissy and petty shit.
Have you not write anything in this thread that could be deem as unfair by others? I'm sure you have, we all have. Do you see me policing your right to post them? NO!
You're right, I can't speak to your experience nor can I speak on his behalf. All I can say is, if you saw a human being and not entertainment, then why not respect his desire to be left alone? And that it's not a kind gesture if it comes with strings attached. That's all. Peace!
Marina Starr
12-15-2015, 02:07 PM
I did leave him alone but I had to let him know his hostility towards me was not okay.
I posted MY EXPERIENCE. I didn't ask for your opinion on if what I did was fair. An experience is NOT an opinion so you don't get to agree or disagree with it, LOL. Now peace and dismissed!
You're right, I can't speak to your experience nor can I speak on his behalf. All I can say is, if you saw a human being and not entertainment, then why not respect his desire to be left alone? And that it's not a kind gesture if it comes with strings attached. That's all. Peace!
culitos
12-15-2015, 03:12 PM
I called my nail salon and was told to come in 4:30 to get my nails done, and it only took her half an hour to start doing my nails ::)
22lligm
12-15-2015, 03:23 PM
:chillpill
Genoveve
12-15-2015, 03:30 PM
Omg my landlord saga continues. I've written before about how my landlady's cooking and kitchen hygiene has taken a turn for the worst and that I have to throw out whatever cooking she brings me over. I feel so bad wasting the food but at the same time it makes her so happy to give it to me that I don't want to crush her dreams. Today she was making enchiladas and she had me over to see the process.....then I had to eat one in front of her. I knew it was coming. The meat filling had all kinds of fatty pieces mixed in with it, I hate meat fat and always trim the shit out of my meat. I know some dishes have all kinds of meat parts left in it on purpose but I've never had enchiladas like that, I don't know if it's because I've never had real enchiladas or if hers just suck. Fortunately I've gone through all kinds of crazy nutrition phases where I was able to train myself to eat disgusting things so I downed that entire nasty enchilada like it was nothing but man, you can't say I'm not a trooper.
BambiCutie
12-15-2015, 03:31 PM
Last minute holiday shopping, this cunt behind me almost hit my car going around me as I was turning in a turn only lane going down a one way street..oh how I would love to shove a pointy Christmas tree up her impatient ugly, moist asshole! She then hugged someone's car and ran a red light..nice.. Why are people such fucking pricks the week before the holiday? Smile some, your face will sag less as you age..
Aurora_Sunset
12-15-2015, 05:52 PM
I can't find my favorite stripper heels! I've had them since before I started and love them to death. It's not as though I currently dance though so there hasn't been any reason for them to leave my apartment, aside from when my family visits, I usually pack away anything having anything to remotely do with sex work. However, the last time they were in town, they weren't staying with me, so I barely hid anything, the things I hid, pulled out again already, and I even rechecked other "hiding spots." All my other shoes and outfits are accounted for but not my red heels. :( Where the hell could they have possibly gone?
MistressX
12-15-2015, 06:14 PM
Where I live is like an old german guy who built everything on the property.. And there are several places around the property that people live. I live with my BFF, and another dude. We also have a random dude who lives in the room next to me but doesnt share our kitchen. Anyway this fuckin guy is SO CREEPY! Like creeper to the max. I know he listens at the wall when I cam. He's so fuckin annoying too.. Loud music, banging around his room all hours of the night. I hope he gets thrown out soon because he's always late on the rent. I wish I could afford to rent his room, I would make it into a dungeon/cam room!
whirlerz
12-15-2015, 08:09 PM
So, I'
[email protected] a decent hotel..booked thru bookings.com, bc they give a lower rate on there. Iwas so exhausted, I didn't see I got overcharged by 40.00
I call booking's cs & tell them, they were supposed to talk to talk to the mgr. They said they advertised that rate on booking's zit
site, so Idk
Pissed cause I coulda used that $ today towards my hair & nails, I paid cash so Idk
Selina M
12-16-2015, 05:43 AM
I'm really stressing out about money right now because of Christmas. Not being able to work for 2 weeks of Nov bc of car wreck, then Thanksgiving weekend, plus having to take off 9 days this month to study for finals, really fucked my finances up.
Shit would be manageable if I wasn't worried the insurance isn't going to pick up the whole rental tab, which will hit me with a bill equal to a 2nd car payment. They are still refusing to acknowledge my requests to pay for the full-size car. I told them, I am terrified to drive anything smaller, esp. after getting slammed into by an SUV. My car was full-sized itself. That's what they're supposed to give me. They're just not answering phones or emails. I guess I'm gonna have to threaten to sue the other driver in small claims, where their lawyers can't go.
wednesday86
12-16-2015, 02:16 PM
Trying to sell some things on craigslist and these people are unfuckingbelievable. Bitch emails me about a poster I'm selling for $15...expects me to drive an HOUR to her city....for $15......?! Are you out of your fucking mind bitch?!!!!That wouldn't even cover my gas to get there!
Then this other chick wants to buy some baby gates from me for $20 but wants me to meet her 20 minutes away close her to place...The ad clearly says to come pick it up. No I am not driving all the way across fucking town as far as possible away from my house to deliver this shit to you for $20. Get off your lazy ass and come get it if you want it. I'm about to just take this crap to Goodwill and be done with it. This is more trouble than it's worth.
carmen_b
12-16-2015, 02:20 PM
My vanilla business is VERY busy during the holidays which should be good but it's just kind of driving me crazy.
I had a vendor complicate a job in the last few days ( she wanted to get this permit that NO ONE gets .... we all usually just pretend we don't know about it and carry on ). Man .... I just hate her now. She's never coming back. A simple job turned into a paperwork hassle . I have NO IDEA how I drew the " go completely by the book " person out of a whole bunch of options ! Ugh.
There's more but I'll stop there. Grrr .
I told my bf yesterday that I was done and was closing the business . At the time I 100% meant it ... I'm not going to do anything drastic though . I'm just going to start carefully tracking how I feel about things along with the earnings in the next 3-4 weeks to get a better idea if I have had it or if I want to carry on .
Aurora_Sunset
12-16-2015, 03:48 PM
I don't understand health insurance... I went through so much crap last year to get Humana coverage, and after only 2 months, they jacked my price up $60 more a month... Now they're cancelling my coverage in 2016. I already waited just a bit too long to get new coverage, so now I'll have a gap in January until Anthem kicks in in February. I also don't know how the "extras" actually work... I currently pay a bit extra each month for dental, vision, and accident. The dental is technically through Humana but the other two are two different companies. I don't know if they'll automatically end when my Humana does? I would assume so since the tiny amount I pay toward them seems dependent on me already paying so much for the standard coverage. But I don't actually know, and now I'm just hoping for the best...
I don't actually know how to adult... I just like to throw money at things until they work. This is why I need to become a millionaire, stat.