View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
SweetJulia
01-28-2016, 04:33 PM
I have to go across town to help my car-less mother stock up on cat food and litter. There's two ways to get there: one involves going an extra thirty miles abd leaving the county and the other is basically going through the hood the whole way til I get to her city. Not to mention getting gas-filling up cuz I hate this, being in freezing temperatures, and hearing her tell me how thin I am. All before a four hour camming shift. I usually try to relax/meditate/etc. beforehand, so begging and insults don't bug me as much. Plus, I'm trying to sign up on another site, solely because they used to offer a guaranteed hourly rate of so many dollars for so many hours. Then, I skimmed through that site's official thread and saw another girl say they offered her something different. So, I asked if they were still having the original hourly bonus, if they had a new one, etc.. Cuz it's not one known for being super busy. The site rep, who totally knows, told me to email her instead of taking two seconds to answer. Obviously, the answer will majorly affect how much I'm on and if I even finish signing up. Why can't I just get an answer? In other news, I'm still in pain and have a bruise covered, swollen knee from pole class, which was also over a week ago. I noticed they start with awkward, unflattering moves that are either taught too quickly or slowly, so you look inexperienced, no matter what. I danced for five years before transitioning out and have a pole at home. I know what I'm doing.
miss.a.p1600
01-28-2016, 05:05 PM
The kid wants me to run to Walgreens for something about some homework. Well I'm tired as fuck and I don't feel like getting back out in the cold. I'm really tired of schools these days making you do and buy all this extra shit. I wish I had an errand runner who could I could call up right now to do this for me.
Plus I just started my period and I'm in pain! My ovaries are cramping, my back hurts and I have a headache.
Fml.
BambiCutie
01-28-2016, 05:33 PM
Oh..I am on a roll this week with life throwing darts one after another! (Thank you mother nature..) Floors were stained and soaked with water, rare items ruined, bf's dog roaming in the neighborhood due to the gate being wide open..all caused by a tree. Then I get the pleasure of walking over to the neighbor's house tomorrow morning to apologies since they have kids..fucking happy happy, joy joy!
Aurora_Sunset
01-28-2016, 09:23 PM
The way an escort's profile is set up on TER is so dumb. I didn't get to fill in any of my information myself - the first guy to review me did and it just stays that way... I guess forever?
Right now my hair color, age, and cup size are inaccurate, they put that I smoke in my personal life (as in like, 3-4 cigarettes a year when I'm drunk? sure, maybe?), and there's a bunch of questions where they responded "Don't Know" to... I've had a bunch of new guys say "Oh, I saw on TER that you don't do ____" after the fact, and I'm like "uhh... Yes, I do, you could've asked for it" and they're all disappointed.
I get that they want an "honest" profile based on someone who's seen me, but the fact that they never allow anything to change, or by the provider herself who knows the accurate info, is really fucking stupid.
Aurora_Sunset
01-28-2016, 11:42 PM
Also, I hate that I don't have more friends that are just up at odd hours of the night. I know people who are, but not people I want to talk to. I want people who are introverted like me, and just chilling, watching TV and drinking casually, but have nothing to get up early for so they're night owls. No one in my life is like that anymore. :(
chanzep
01-29-2016, 01:23 AM
^me too, moving countries and quitting dancing means the few people I do know in my time zone are early birds in bed midnight the latest. even on here seems quiet.
BambiCutie
01-29-2016, 12:16 PM
No toilet in the house, have to fill the bowl because the tank is empty and the handle useless with piss sitting since this morning. (the pipe is also broken..) Mind you its not my urine..I've been peeing in a cup and found its been strangely useful..fast, convenient, not wasting water or having to sit on a toilet seat and make sure to sterilize each time. -No fucks here, #2 though is a problem in the making..
kaninchen
01-29-2016, 12:44 PM
Why on earth would an MRA join SW? :yuck:
chanzep
01-29-2016, 04:45 PM
So my stomach has been flat all week, last night I eat spaghetti squash and now im bloated and windy grr on the day my hubby back from his trip.
baer45
01-29-2016, 08:49 PM
I had two clients tonight and all of them canceled the appointment. Damn it.
Glamourmilf
01-29-2016, 08:56 PM
Why on earth would an MRA join SW? :yuck:
What or who is MRA?
whirlerz
01-29-2016, 09:10 PM
Well, I finally found this tanning/laundrymat combo place, it's open 6 am - 12m, but..it's doesn't have spray tanning? What tanning place now doesn't have that?:(
wednesday86
01-29-2016, 09:29 PM
I remember when George Takei used to post funny memes and cute puns all the time...Now it's nothing but click bait. Pretty sure I got some virus from trying to look t one of those "articles." Why is the internet all stupid now?
Glamourmilf
01-30-2016, 09:59 AM
Well, I finally found this tanning/laundrymat combo place, it's open 6 am - 12m, but..it's doesn't have spray tanning? What tanning place now doesn't have that?:(
Do they have spray tanners that make house calls? I know they do in the city i used to live in.
Aurora_Sunset
01-30-2016, 10:03 AM
I was supposed to go to a beerfest today about an hour and a half away, but I don't think I'm going. I bought the ticket and committed to doing some side work up there tomorrow morning as well, under the assumption that I could make some escort appointments and social things work this weekend, and would be getting a hotel, thus being able to safely take an Uber to and from the event, and would already be up there tomorrow morning.
But everything else fell through, and I don't want to drive all the way up there and have trouble getting home after drinking. And I still have to now drive all the way up there early on a Sunday morning tomorrow for the side gig. Paying for a hotel anyway, even though I wouldn't be using that hotel for any other reason, wouldn't be worth the money I'm making.
The best thing to do would be bite the bullet, waste the ticket, and just stay home today. I'm annoyed that not one thing could've come through to make things work. If I'd even gotten one appointment, or hell, gotten one friend to make concrete, exciting plans, I would've considered it worth it for me to stay up there tonight. Though I guess that's what I get for basing my plans on other people.
whirlerz
01-30-2016, 10:10 AM
Do they have spray tanners that make house calls? I know they do in the city i used to live in.
They do! I actually texted one yesterday (they prefer texting) & I texted the wrong # it took awhile til the wrong # let me know, so I just said forget about it!
I have a ton of tanning stuff @ home, incl. the instant bronzer St Tropez, I just thought it'd be cool to get two things done together, & those are great hrs for me, early to late.
Glamourmilf
01-30-2016, 10:22 AM
They do! I actually texted one yesterday (they prefer texting) & I texted the wrong # it took awhile til the wrong # let me know, so I just said forget about it!
I have a ton of tanning stuff @ home, incl. the instant bronzer St Tropez, I just thought it'd be cool to get two things done together, & those are great hrs for me, early to late.
Ah, I see. I also like the idea of those convenient hours. Plus getting 2 things done at once has always been appealing to me.
kaninchen
01-30-2016, 12:39 PM
What or who is MRA?
MRAs are men's rights activists, guys who think that men are oppressed by women because rape is a crime and women can vote now, or whatever. I forget which thread it was in, but some guy mentioned that he's one.
carmen_b
01-30-2016, 12:52 PM
I feel like the business I own is pulling everything good out of my body ( energy , strength , ect.) !
I have officially turned my advertising OFF with Google and am now on a break from it somewhat ( I'm committed to a few customers a month for about 6 months already
I've given myself permission to run it " lightly " in the next 4-6 weeks and see if it benefits my mental health . I also had a conversation with myself where I've allowed myself to give it up ENTIRELY if that's what I feel is right in 4-8 weeks .
Obviously , this is going to cost quite a bit financially but I will make the money another time and take care of myself RIGHT NOW.
Vyanka
01-30-2016, 02:28 PM
I'll never stop complaining about cheaps. God, I cannot stand penny pinching cheap folks. Not saying money should be thrown down the drain either, but recognize cheap too. Please. It's an aweful, embarrassing trait.
Ex. A dollar for a bartender give you 2 cocktails. A 50 dollar tab at a diner, just 2 bucks. Stinginess hurts my brain like sandpaper scraping it. I cannot grasp it. Lol. Must be my Gemini trait...we tend to be generous.
Glamourmilf
01-30-2016, 03:03 PM
MRAs are men's rights activists, guys who think that men are oppressed by women because rape is a crime and women can vote now, or whatever. I forget which thread it was in, but some guy mentioned that he's one.
Good God! They sound like horrible men.
tuesdaymarie
01-30-2016, 05:09 PM
Ughhhhh I cannot wait for my work contract to end. I am so tired of working normal hours and being forced to interact with people on our common off days. I nearly went into bitchy introvert rage mode on multiple strangers today. A 9-5 is so overrated.
lynn2009
01-30-2016, 05:37 PM
I think I've outgrown the married guy I was seeing infrequently for a couple of years and he doesn't like me now that I'm not emotionally needy all over him all the time.
xStacey
01-30-2016, 09:02 PM
Am I the only one who's pissed for always seeing girls posting pictures with quotes such as "smart is the new sexy" "half her beauty is her brain" like they have something to prove? Girl, looks and intelligence are not mutually exclusive, you are not the only one who has both, and people who are very smart usually don't feel the need to advertise it on social media.
ScarletKitten
01-30-2016, 10:58 PM
Sooo annoyed by my bf's friends. They are so boring. omg. I feel so drained....its like they expect me to entertain them or some shit. I just can't. I shut down after a while. One of them thinks I'm a bitch, even though I try my best to be nice to him. WTF? He's such an idiot asshole, and a twisted pervert too. I can't stand him. The other friend is okay, but holy fuck...they are both boring as hell. I wanted to just run away into solitude. I can't stand socializing anymore. I think I'm socially broken. And also, I hate men. Fuck men. Just use them for their cocks and bank accounts, its all they're good for. lol. Not even that sometimes! I'm so horrible. Thanks for letting me vent, SW. I love you.
xStacey
01-31-2016, 08:24 PM
I lost my wallet or someone stole it from me.
Aurora_Sunset
02-01-2016, 07:50 AM
Why do people have to complicate the simplest of fucking tasks? A mystery shopping website I've been using for years overhauled their entire website when the first one looked and worked just fine to me. Now they've sent back a survey I tried to submit yesterday, sending me 2 emails telling me they "need more information" and at the top of the survey in the website, it says "Needs clarification." But NOWHERE on the page does it have any notes on what the fuck they need fixed. On the old site, their notes on what they want to know would have been directly on the page next to the question and included in the email they sent to notify me. All I need is whatever simple notes they put that they want fixed, and they exist in some other fucking realm somewhere on this website.... WHY? It would take me probably 30 seconds to throw some bullshit sentence in there to clarify whatever they're apparently confused about, if I only knew what they wanted!
SweetJulia
02-01-2016, 08:10 AM
^Oh, my uncle did that when he first moved to this country. He was submitting the paperwork over and over, actually started graying right around that time. My annoyances: it's thirty degrees colder than it was yesterday, had to get cat food and hide from a news crew-who wants to be seen at nine in the morning with no make up on?, and am working so early today. Sigh. So I can take a pole class where they teach the most unflattering moves and overcomplicate them. It's an ass shake, it's not rocket science. Oh, and you're not cool and liberated for taking the class if you spend the whole time making fun of strippers, who don't usually make most of their money dancing way too quickly, fully clothed, on stage.
Aurora_Sunset
02-01-2016, 11:58 AM
So I can take a pole class where they teach the most unflattering moves and overcomplicate them. It's an ass shake, it's not rocket science. Oh, and you're not cool and liberated for taking the class if you spend the whole time making fun of strippers, who don't usually make most of their money dancing way too quickly, fully clothed, on stage.
Exactly. ::)
I'm actually astounded at the amount of girls who can't pick up on a simple ass-shake. The "sexy pole" class I went to a couple weeks ago, the instructor taught several ass shakes/twerks during warmup that I already knew how to do, but most of the girls struggled so hardcore with them. When we were performing and freestyling in groups at the end, I automatically went into several ass shakes and noticed people being like "Whoa! You're like... professional level" and then giving each other side eyes like "Wha? What's with this girl?" Apparently, it's not as easy as I think it is lol Almost outted myself with the ability to shake my ass properly.
KaraLynn
02-01-2016, 03:13 PM
Reading through room to rent ads is a stress factor in itself.
"You must be in this age range. You must be in this occupation. You must be this kind of person" etc etc
I get you have to be picky about who lives in your house but some of these things are ridiculous.
What is this, rooms for rent or love connection?
Aurora_Sunset
02-01-2016, 03:45 PM
Dude complains that I don't respond to his missed phone calls where he leaves no message indicating that he actually wants a call back.
I message him with a specific question - I see that he saw it 24 hours ago - no response...
Dude makes vague, guilt-trippy statements about how I don't reach out/talk to him/see him enough. Never actually offers concrete plans of his own or an update on his ridiculous work schedule.
I give him several specific days this week I'm totally free and say we should hang out on one of them - no response...
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KaraLynn
02-01-2016, 03:56 PM
Exactly. ::)
I'm actually astounded at the amount of girls who can't pick up on a simple ass-shake. The "sexy pole" class I went to a couple weeks ago, the instructor taught several ass shakes/twerks during warmup that I already knew how to do, but most of the girls struggled so hardcore with them. When we were performing and freestyling in groups at the end, I automatically went into several ass shakes and noticed people being like "Whoa! You're like... professional level" and then giving each other side eyes like "Wha? What's with this girl?" Apparently, it's not as easy as I think it is lol Almost outted myself with the ability to shake my ass properly.
haha I noticed this last time I took a pole class. This was an "exotic pole" class so they focused on more floor stuff than pole. The girls were seriously struggling with body waves and simple floor moves I taught myself just dancing for awhile. I didn't think they were very hard either but I think a lot of the women who take these classes really are bored housewives or "professional" women who have no prior dance experience so it was probably rocket science to them.
carmen_b
02-01-2016, 05:22 PM
NOISE!
We live next to an intersection, the coffee shop close to me is ALWAYS NOISY, the bf was playing a LOUD pod cast .
God ...... shut the hell up everyone ! Off to go hide .............
I'm so grateful for the botanical garden and library ( which still aren't safe .... I swear to God the moms with toddlers seek me out wherever I am ).
simone87
02-01-2016, 08:52 PM
Was just about to put on self tanner and put my hair in rollers for work tomorrow when I asked myself why tf I'm putting in so much effort for a bunch of leering morons who smell like armpits and demand 20 dollar hand jobs. Like they give a fuck what my hair looks like. I'm just feeling so done with stripping right about now..hoping it will pass :(
JenniferNorth
02-01-2016, 09:18 PM
((HUGS Simone))
I am annoyed because, like Julia, I had to buy cat food, and hate walmart. My daughter is teething. I had to file my state taxes manually, because turbo tax wanted close to $80 (I had to get deluxe because I file 1099s). I have to go to the Dr. in the AM.
I refuse to take pole classes, although I love pole. It's women who can't dance, and would piss themselves if they had to do a private dance ever, or knew what it entailed.
SweetJulia
02-01-2016, 09:24 PM
Please tell me how I have allergies in the middle of the winter. Actually, don't. Just pass me the remote and some benadryl.
Legz541
02-01-2016, 11:40 PM
Was just about to put on self tanner and put my hair in rollers for work tomorrow when I asked myself why tf I'm putting in so much effort for a bunch of leering morons who smell like armpits and demand 20 dollar hand jobs. Like they give a fuck what my hair looks like. I'm just feeling so done with stripping right about now..hoping it will pass :(
^This is exactly me right now. What I was thinking while looking for any spots I might have missed with the tanner. No makeup, mismatched, flip flop wearing, HJ girls are the latest and greatest at my club lately. Yes, I'm a grumpy, bitter bitch about it.
Aurora_Sunset
02-02-2016, 07:49 AM
Alright, I'm officially over this older guy trying to hit on me. We met a couple months ago, and he made it very clear in the short amount of time that we talked that he was an older guy, with money, who has apparently had younger girlfriends and funded their vacations and stuff. I don't know if he actually considers himself a "sugar daddy" but I figured why not see if I can get a few things out of him?
All he does is blow up my facebook with messages about how much he works (trying to impress me with his job?), invites me to see old, local bands play and goes on and on about how he knows them and their girlfriends ask him to dance all the time because he's such a good dancer, and simultaneously calls me every sickening "cute" name in the book while saying shit like "you make me wish I was a younger man" (dude, if you're gonna hit on me, don't also be trying to act like you're too old me for me - I'm not going to play the "Oh no, I love older guys" game). Dude obviously is not a sugar-daddy type - he's just an old guy who thinks he can impress any young girl with his vague money, compliments, and "connections." Sorry, honey, but you didn't realize you were talking to a sex worker...
I'm also about to officially drop one of my regulars. I won't even go into that rant now (though I probably will when I finally get rid of him for good), but I just can't with him anymore.
Entitled men are just not my thing lately.
carmen_b
02-02-2016, 11:53 AM
^ Yes .... if he really had the funds for a sugar baby and was actually as busy as he says, he'd be ultra smooth and invite you out for a NICE meal well in advance ( at least 4-7 days ahead ).
Aurora_Sunset
02-02-2016, 05:30 PM
I told myself I was going to be done posting in here for awhile cuz I've been a big whiner lately but... a photographer came to take pictures of my pole class last night, used one of my pictures as the cover image on an article in the student paper, and that picture is terrible. I know I was actually doing well last night, but the one she used of me is a moment where my foot didn't connect properly so it's not in the right place, I'm not even paying attention to my back leg while I'm trying to fix the front leg, so that's all wonky, and overall, my form is just awful in this fucking picture...
I know it's not like people who aren't polers are going to know anything is wrong with my form, but really? She couldn't take a picture during one of the 20 times I nailed that spin?
I only take heart in the fact that all the other pictures further down the article are just as awkward. I blame shitty student photographers.
Elektra Luxx
02-02-2016, 06:51 PM
I told myself I was going to be done posting in here for awhile cuz I've been a big whiner lately....
You're not whiny at all, I really enjoy reading your posts. :)
SweetJulia
02-02-2016, 06:59 PM
I told myself I was going to be done posting in here for awhile cuz I've been a big whiner lately but... a photographer came to take pictures of my pole class last night, used one of my pictures as the cover image on an article in the student paper, and that picture is terrible. I know I was actually doing well last night, but the one she used of me is a moment where my foot didn't connect properly so it's not in the right place, I'm not even paying attention to my back leg while I'm trying to fix the front leg, so that's all wonky, and overall, my form is just awful in this fucking picture...
I know it's not like people who aren't polers are going to know anything is wrong with my form, but really? She couldn't take a picture during one of the 20 times I nailed that spin?
I only take heart in the fact that all the other pictures further down the article are just as awkward. I blame shitty student photographers.
Oh, bad photographers.make everyone loom like shit. Honestly, I would have said no unless there was compensation, you're more generous than me.
Glamourmilf
02-02-2016, 07:05 PM
St. Patrick's Day decorations are up in the stores already, and It's not even Valentine's Day yet! I can't take it!!:faint: Lol!
The stores DO have some really cool, tacky St. Paddys Day Shit though.
wednesday86
02-03-2016, 08:44 AM
Over political correctness demanded everywhere, all the time, and the eagerness of people to get offended over anything/everything is starting to drive me up the fucking wall. I guess that's the culture we live in now but it's annoying as fuck.
JenniferNorth
02-03-2016, 09:18 AM
Sweetjulia, I saw your post a couple days back about the pole dancing class you are in. Girl, you are a better person than me for being able to put up with those people!
Like seven years ago, when I was still married to husband #1, his cousin went to one of these "naughty dance classes" for her mom and friends for her bachelorette party. They all learned how to chair dance (with feather boas??!), and at the end, the cousin performed on a blow up man doll, with no shoes/heels, giving him a "chair dance". I remember laughing my ass off so hard and thinking how lame, and suburban wife it was. And this was WAAAAY before I got into adult stuff (didn't set foot in the industry until I met husband #2 and we started dating). Also funny, because ex-hubs cousins do boudoir photography, and I've seen some of their pictures. I just laugh at how it's "oooh I'm being sexy". If these women knew how we've had to dance on various types of men (and I'm sure we've done it better, I know my customers always said I was an awesome private dancer), and seen some of our pictures (my current husband has a ton of hustler style shots of me), they would piss themselves.
Sorry for the threadjack that's my petty annoyance, and your post made me think of these women, and just how annoying/lame they are. I plan on getting a pole again, but I so want to avoid pole class. If I have to put up with any suburban housewives, I'll shoot someone!
Glamourmilf
02-03-2016, 09:35 AM
Sweetjulia, I saw your post a couple days back about the pole dancing class you are in. Girl, you are a better person than me for being able to put up with those people!
Like seven years ago, when I was still married to husband #1, his cousin went to one of these "naughty dance classes" for her mom and friends for her bachelorette party. They all learned how to chair dance (with feather boas??!),!
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: thank you for this! Made my morning!
simone87
02-03-2016, 11:37 AM
When you answer someone's question and then somebody after you says the exact same thing , maybe in even less detail, and everyone's all "oh really??" And gives them a bunch of likes lmao. See it happen to newbies all the time
JenniferNorth
02-03-2016, 11:39 AM
Glam-I'm glad it made you laugh! Because, you know, when we are busy being professional dancers/strippers, we all TOTALLY have our big, huge, pink feather boas with us! That's how we make our money, don'cha know!
Vyanka
02-03-2016, 01:58 PM
Last night I was on a roll. Doing vips back to back since early. Was banking. Unfortunately, l had to leave early due to some irritated eye infection. The lights were making me cry. Grrr. Bad timing.
Genoveve
02-03-2016, 04:32 PM
Stupid comments on social media. I posted a pic of my favorite book on instagram, commented about how it's my favorite and the only book I will read over and over again and some dude in the comments asks "Is it good?" WTF do you think I'm going to say; 'No, it's my favorite and I read it repeatedly because it sucks.' ???