View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
KaraLynn
02-03-2016, 04:51 PM
Rain and headaches :(
SweetJulia
02-03-2016, 05:02 PM
Rent the landlord doesn't deserve.
Glamourmilf
02-03-2016, 06:53 PM
Glam-I'm glad it made you laugh! Because, you know, when we are busy being professional dancers/strippers, we all TOTALLY have our big, huge, pink feather boas with us! That's how we make our money, don'cha know!
Yeah, this 'boa' thing made me lol so hard, cause I could just picture a bunch of bored housewives going home and trying this with their husbands.
If anything, it would work AGAINST them. The hubbys would instantly be reminded of how much they miss the SC. Ha! Ha!
They probably would be making a mental note to revisit one as soon as possible.;D
carmen_b
02-03-2016, 09:20 PM
PayPal and their verification - ugh. I got a new PayPal for a 2nd arm of my vanilla business ( different name and brand than my other business ) . I need it active NOW and it's been " holding " the funds for a week . I finally think I've got the thing verified.
It seems like there has to be a an easier way to do this ? :/
God, PayPal seems so dated but I am EXHAUSTED and don't think I have the mental capacity to set up anything else to run cards !
miss.a.p1600
02-04-2016, 02:17 AM
I can't sleep, my sleep schedule is out of whack, my mind races at night thinking about the people who are trying to sabotage my life, I have many haters who want to see me fail (sadly some of these people are so Called friends and family).
I wish I could ditch some of these family members who I know are deep down haters trying to fake like they really care. I tried to establish boundaries, they keep disrespecting my boundaries, and they run guilt trips and try to make me look like the bad guy when I assert myself. I'm moving so I won't have to deal with them anymore.
I wish I could have normal family and supportive friends who don't gossip about me and secretly want to see me fail.
whirlerz
02-04-2016, 09:06 AM
I love YOU, Miss P! I can relate tho.
My complaint: allergies. :(
Glamourmilf
02-04-2016, 10:47 AM
Pissed that I'm always relying on checks. Now the cam sites aren't paying. I really miss getting cash in hand.
Have been regretting getting so deep into camming, and pso.
I'm pissed, but more sad about how these companies treat us all.:'(
DonaDiabla
02-04-2016, 12:34 PM
Glamourmilf,
I am sorry about how the pso companies are treating you. I only work one dispatch company now because I just could not stand how a lot of small pso companies want to act. You have to deal with tons of bullshit like bitchy bosses, catty dispatchers, insufferable clients, low call volumes, and other crap now. On top of that, some bitchy bosses with threaten to blacklist you over some bullshit. Platforms and direct-dial are more better because you can control the type of clients you want.But you still have to wait for checks some times :)
Pissed that I'm always relying on checks. Now the cam sites aren't paying. I really miss getting cash in hand.
Have been regretting getting so deep into camming, and pso.
I'm pissed, but more sad about how these companies treat us all.:'(
Glamourmilf
02-04-2016, 01:01 PM
Glamourmilf,
I am sorry about how the pso companies are treating you. I only work one dispatch company now because I just could not stand how a lot of small pso companies want to act. You have to deal with tons of bullshit like bitchy bosses, catty dispatchers, insufferable clients, low call volumes, and other crap now. On top of that, some bitchy bosses with threaten to blacklist you over some bullshit. Platforms and direct-dial are more better because you can control the type of clients you want.But you still have to wait for checks some times :)
Thank You. I knew if ANYONE understood this, You would.
I'm sooo tired of logging in, just to have fake people call, and hang up quickly, JUST to lower my hold time.:-[
Or when the company is low on models, so they message me in the wee hours, begging me to log in. Bitch, I was JUST logged in for 15 hours!
xStacey
02-04-2016, 04:54 PM
There's a summer class I really wanted to register for, registration started at 11:30, I had a morning class that usually ends at 11:30 but today it ended at 11:00 so I took the subway to go to a nice cafe to study, tried to register 45 mins later at 12:15 but the class was already closed because it was full, ugh. It was the only class I wanted to take when it's 30 degree outside from 7 to 10 p.m twice a week, now there's only boring mandatory classes that are open. I spoke to a classmate and apparently it was already full when she tried registering at 11:31, so I don't feel as guilty lol. People in law are so intense. I will make sure I register for the classes I want the second registration starts for the next Fall and Winter semester whoa.
Aurora_Sunset
02-04-2016, 06:37 PM
I have a lot of female friends who live off of their boyfriends and don't even seem grateful or empathetic about it. Like, I get it. If you're legitimately having a hard time finding a job, dealing with some personal shit, or trying to attain another dream/schooling, and it would be easier and good for you to not have to work for awhile, by all means, take advantage of that if you can. That's what being in a partnership is about. But within reason.
When they've hit a certain point, they always come to me complaining about how their bf is being "so mean to them" out of resentment for paying all the bills. And at that point, they're my friend and I want to be on their side, but a part of even me just wants to scream at the phone: "GET A JOB, BITCH."
I really just want to shake some of these girls when they give excuse after excuse and ask "Where would you be if you didn't have a boyfriend right now?" Would you really 100% not be capable of working and be on the streets right now because *Excuse A, Excuse B blah blah blah*, or would you suck it up, get off your ass, and start pulling your weight to keep a roof over your head and food in your stomach? The thing is, if the situation was reversed and their bf had been a deadbeat with tons of excuses who was just living off a woman for a year, there'd be no end of grief about what a selfish, user loser he is... I don't want my friends' boyfriends to be dicks to them about the situation... buuuut.... I can absolutely see where they're coming from.
I don't think they realize how frustrating this especially is when they're complaining to a single woman, who has never even had a bf who would be capable of taking care of her in an emergency, and literally turned to prostitution the week before I was evicted.*
*For note: As anyone probably knows, I'd already been a stripper and had been thinking about escorting for a long time, so it's not like my story is as sad and broken as it seems when I declare that I "turned to prostitution before being evicted," but that is technically a true story, and I like sounding dramatic lol
carmen_b
02-04-2016, 08:38 PM
^ Not to mention they get BORED from not working and become SO needy that it ends up turning the bf off !
These situations are such disasters usually after while. At least work part time !
This is the same thing that has gotten me into some trouble with military spouses around here. These ladies sit around and BITCH all day. Ill keep it short haha but it's very irritating when I'm listening to these gripes AS IM hustling my guts out everyday in the same area they are complaining about.
Glamourmilf
02-05-2016, 10:53 AM
Pissed that the temperature goes first from 90, down to 30 degrees.( back in December)
Now its gone from 30 up to 90.:hot::cold:
Weather, You piss me off! Pick a number, stay there!
Or do a gradual temperature change.
My body doesn't know how it should feel!
chanzep
02-05-2016, 01:21 PM
Glam-I'm glad it made you laugh! Because, you know, when we are busy being professional dancers/strippers, we all TOTALLY have our big, huge, pink feather boas with us! That's how we make our money, don'cha know!
This is soo funny!
Serena-Shields
02-05-2016, 01:52 PM
Migraine G O A W A Y
I haven't had an actual migraine since I was seventeen, and today I wake up like half my head has been smashed in with a hammer.
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MyButter
02-07-2016, 09:40 AM
This area is teeming with fanatic animal rescue people, and it becomes so exhausting sometimes. Don't get me wrong, being concerned about animal welfare is great, but these people jump to all sorts of conclusions, spread crazy misinformation (like saying an animal is stick thin when it isn't) and then go on these harassment excursions and 99 percent of the time it turns out that "Everythings OK!" Ugh.
xStacey
02-07-2016, 10:16 AM
Toxic relationships... Enough said.
wednesday86
02-08-2016, 01:49 PM
My stupid bitch aunt posted some bullshit on fb today that really pissed me off...Something about how college tuition shouldn't be made free or the cost reduced because "students should work hard to get scholarships like I did and my sons did."
Yeah easy for you to say when you come from an extremely privileged family. Way to ignore every other demographic that's at a disadvantage due to the current system (Most Americans.) I guess they're just shit out of luck if their grades aren't high enough for a full ride and they don't qualify for any other financial assistance....and stop acting like you did it "all on your own" when I know good and fucking well that your Daddy is rich and he helped you pay for that degree.
Oh and what has she done with her degree that she (supposedly) earned "by the sweat of her brow"? She promptly married a rich guy, shat out some kids, got fat and has been sitting on her ass ever since. Good thing all your hard earned scholarships paid off! I could understand staying home when your kids are little but your kids have been grown for a while now and you're still sitting at home...........? What an ignorant cunt. I don't care if she's family or not. Unfriended. BYE!
SnuffleUffleGrass
02-08-2016, 06:32 PM
I'm pissed at my ex (I left him last fall.) He told me recently he is going to use his tax return money to help pay off a credit card he ran up to $7 K. If he had let me strip when we were together he probably would not have needed to run up the card like that! & I've noticed ever time I let a boyfriend take care of me it never works out financially. I am pissed I worked shit jobs to keep him happy. He wasted my time. I should have left sooner.
Legz541
02-09-2016, 02:29 AM
Self tanner and my need to use it. Something about the scent of every type I've ever tried always gives me at least a small headache. This is usually just a short-lived, small annoyance a couple times a week BUT I've had a migraine trying to come on for the last 2 days. I work tomorrow but there's no way I can risk a migraine and not being able to work at all (mine are BAD). I don't want to go to work pasty white damn it! I like UV tanning but did it A LOT in my teens and early 20's and now days am paranoid about wrinkles.
DonaDiabla
02-09-2016, 03:04 AM
I have learned that bullfighting and sugaring do not mixed :(
wednesday86
02-09-2016, 09:46 AM
Rolling my eyes at the new barbies....PC culture gone wild. It's going to be a logistical nightmare, and what kind of message would you send to your kid if you got them "curvy Barbie?"
"Here sweetie. It's a doll that looks just like you!" Body image issues solved amirite?
Makes me glad I have a boy who so far isn't interested in dolls...If he does ever want to play with barbies he's only getting the standard/classic barbies. I'm not buying 4 different fucking sizes of clothes.
Genoveve
02-09-2016, 02:17 PM
^^^Tbh I think that overweight girls will still want the classic Barbies, I think they're going to want to have dolls that look the most stereotypically pretty and glamorous.
whirlerz
02-09-2016, 06:24 PM
Today I was in Whole Foods (I know/:O) I like their salad bar..
I usually get some hot/cold foods, a beverage, & a cookie or two for a late lunch/light dinn.
So I go by the cookies, there's a bin of 'international varieties' by the bakery area.
Some weird ass bitch w/ugly ass moon boots (btw there was like 1/8 of an in. of snow::)) starts bitching out this poor counter lady, cause, (wait for it) there's crumbs in front of the bins!!!
Noooooo!
I guess if you wear ugly-ass mismatch winter wear, it torques ur ass or something??
22lligm
02-09-2016, 06:46 PM
I gave this guy my number last week and he's been texting me with good morning texts, update texts ('hows your day going?') and goodnight texts EVERY SINGLE DAY! No I am not 16 so no this is not cute to me. It is ridiculously annoying. I finally just stopped responding and earlier he sends me 'you ok..?' and a couple hours after 'hope you're okay..' OMG. Like what I must be in the hospital or dead because I'm not responding to your pointless texts.
Thank god you can block numbers on iPhones.
Glamourmilf
02-10-2016, 12:00 AM
I gave this guy my number last week and he's been texting me with good morning texts, update texts ('hows your day going?') and goodnight texts EVERY SINGLE DAY! No I am not 16 so no this is not cute to me. It is ridiculously annoying. I finally just stopped responding and earlier he sends me 'you ok..?' and a couple hours after 'hope you're okay..' OMG. Like what I must be in the hospital or dead because I'm not responding to your pointless texts.
Thank god you can block numbers on iPhones.
OMG! Is this the same guy who was blowing up my phone, yet I only met him one time? Ugh! So annoying.
miss.a.p1600
02-10-2016, 12:08 AM
Im so pissed Apple cut out their free radio and now charging for it.
Fuck them then.
Im using Amazon Music, its better anyway.
wednesday86
02-10-2016, 07:02 AM
^^^Tbh I think that overweight girls will still want the classic Barbies, I think they're going to want to have dolls that look the most stereotypically pretty and glamorous.
Exactly...they're not going to want to play with "chubby Barbie" especially if all her friends have "skinny Barbie." I read an article on a test group of children playing with them and the little girls were making fun of curvy barbie and didn't want her.. I always thought barbie was over the top glamorous not supposed to represent a "real woman." At no point in my childhood did I look in the mirror and think "omg why don't I look like Barbie?!" Anyway, where's chubby, bearded, tatted up Ken? That's what most American guys look like (where I live anyway) but I don't see Mattel doing anything about that. Haha
SweetJulia
02-10-2016, 10:14 AM
Tons of snow today, the only day of the week I was supposed to go all over the place. Know what? If anyone I cancel plans with gives me shit, they can go fuck themselves. I'm irreplaceable, the world needs all of its' hot girls and I refuse to endanger myself to do non-emergency stuff. I'm gonna eat junk food, watch Netflix, and make a chart of how many people make fun of me for my apprehension of driving in a few inches of snow vs the ones who've wrecked their cars driving in a few inches of snow.
whirlerz
02-10-2016, 10:23 AM
Right!^
I'm just thinking of this, only replace snow, w/frigid cold..
&, I'm fasting today, for Lent. We'll see how that goes..
& Mr wonderful hasn't answered my last text, o well.::)
Glamourmilf
02-10-2016, 11:08 AM
Tons of snow today, the only day of the week I was supposed to go all over the place. Know what? If anyone I cancel plans with gives me shit, they can go fuck themselves. I'm irreplaceable, the world needs all of its' hot girls and I refuse to endanger myself to do non-emergency stuff. I'm gonna eat junk food, watch Netflix, and make a chart of how many people make fun of me for my apprehension of driving in a few inches of snow vs the ones who've wrecked their cars driving in a few inches of snow.
Good plan. OR, You ladies can come hang out with me by my pool. We could do a camathon.
Oh, wait, you might not want to. There's no shade out there, and it's gonna be 90 degrees today. Ugh!
SweetJulia
02-10-2016, 12:11 PM
Good plan. OR, You ladies can come hang out with me by my pool. We could do a camathon.
Oh, wait, you might not want to. There's no shade out there, and it's gonna be 90 degrees today. Ugh!
I'll drive, I get great mileage lol. Oh and I went down to see how much snow I'd have to clean off and it's like every fucking dog in this city is peeing in front of my building. Know what? I've been here ten years, I'm gonna do that, too :)
Aurora_Sunset
02-10-2016, 12:36 PM
Got woken up an hour and a half early, before dawn today, by a friend calling. I purposely ignored it.
I feel bad, but I've jumped out of bed and scrambled/canceled my plans to help her out so many times, and she seems to have some "last minute, omg the sky is falling, drop everything you have to do to accommodate my life" emergency several times a week. There has to come a point where she just figures out how to handle shit herself. And you know what? When I didn't answer, she did. I'm sure I'll have to hear allll about it the next time I see her, but ya know... other people have lives, and we can't just keep shuffling them around to make the life that she chose for herself easier on her.
baer45
02-10-2016, 02:44 PM
What do I have? I had bad salad.
miss.a.p1600
02-10-2016, 05:33 PM
Im just really annoyed. I tell the kid exactly what to do and what do I get? A kid that doesn't fucking listen and as a result mistakes happen and the kid starts whinning. I feel like if I were the boss of a corporation and the kid was my employee - sorry but the kid would be fired. I have to keep repeating myself (thus wasting my time) and I don't like kids acting like whinny cry babies.
Its pissing me off that I was so responsible and mature at this age and the kid is not. I knew how to cook, iron, clean after myself, laundry, organize, made good grades, and wake up to my alarm. My mom threatened me and beat my ass if I didn't do these things and I quickly fell in line. Which is a good thing in this instance.
But with the kid I have to follow behind, remind the kid of the same shit constantly, repeat myself over and over again. I just want to scream!!!!
carmen_b
02-10-2016, 07:00 PM
We had to get a new clause in our contract written up by the lawyer today at my day job for ...... weather. Lol .
This nut who booked an outdoor event last month has been a pest complaining of the wind on the day ! If she hadn't been such a cheap ass and booked a venue , there would have been no wind.
What a nightmare . Just when I thought I had thought of everything they would do that would be problematic, someone surprises me !
This is why I want out of the business sometimes. People can be such weirdos and I can't afford ( yet ) to pay someone else to deal with them when they are. I'm glad I've cut back but I'm not fully out yet because I need the funds at least a few more months.
whirlerz
02-10-2016, 07:11 PM
I bought a laptop cooling station, & it's supposed to have another cord, that's t/b purchased separately, I find this out on the instructions INSIDE the box..couldn't they state this outside the box?
Glamourmilf
02-10-2016, 07:55 PM
I'll drive, I get great mileage lol. Oh and I went down to see how much snow I'd have to clean off and it's like every fucking dog in this city is peeing in front of my building. Know what? I've been here ten years, I'm gonna do that, too :)
Come on out here! It's gonna be over 90 for another week. #WinterHeatwave
Genoveve
02-10-2016, 11:00 PM
So I splurged and ordered this $130 sports bra that I was in love with. It arrived today, looks great on me and fits perfectly. Was wearing it on cam(because it's basically too sexy to be worn for anything else) and the pads in it were sticking out and looking ugly. I go grab scissors to cut the pads out because they were completely sewn in and I absentmindedly start cutting at the FRONT of the bra. So now the top outer layer has a pretty big rip in it and very visibly in the front. I kind of want to buy another one but $130 is not cheap, and that's before taxes and s&h. Also I tend to be over my new pieces very quickly so it's pretty silly for someone like me to spend so much when I know I wouldn't give a shit about it in 3 days anyway. It's not like I was ever going to actually wear it to a gym and the tear is fine for camming. But still how annoying.
Glamourmilf
02-10-2016, 11:44 PM
I bought a laptop cooling station, & it's supposed to have another cord, that's t/b purchased separately, I find this out on the instructions INSIDE the box..couldn't they state this outside the box?
My cooling pad had the cord attached. That sounds like a ripoff.
Glamourmilf
02-11-2016, 01:50 AM
While in the bank, I was denied 100 dollar bills, because the bitchy teller says she doesn't have enough, and needs to mix it up.
Huh? Glam confused. How can a bank not have hundreds? It was only 6 that I needed.
Am I missing something?
JGB2009
02-11-2016, 02:09 AM
While in the bank, I was denied 100 dollar bills, because the bitchy teller says she doesn't have enough, and needs to mix it up.
Huh? Glam confused. How can a bank not have hundreds? It was only 6 that I needed.
Am I missing something?
Sounds like she was being lazy
Vyanka
02-11-2016, 02:17 AM
Damn it. Should've gone to dinner with my new custie, but my other new custie wasn't sure if he was showing up today or tomorrow. When it rains, it pours....Didn't see any of them tonight, and tonight sucked. Grrr. I noticed, every ash Wednesday the clientele(at least where I'm at) frikkin sux. Forgot about Ash Wednesday.
Vyanka
02-11-2016, 02:32 AM
^^^Tbh I think that overweight girls will still want the classic Barbies, I think they're going to want to have dolls that look the most stereotypically pretty and glamorous.
I thought this too. My friend says classic Barbie is too sexualized for a child's doll. New Barbie is appropriate. Ehhhh. I never thought classic Barbie as sex. Bc as a kid i did not know wtf was sex.
Glamourmilf
02-11-2016, 03:50 AM
Sounds like she was being lazy
Ikr? That's what I thought too. I mean, banks are where they keep the money, isn't it?
It's not like I asked for $600 in pennies! Geesh!
xStacey
02-11-2016, 09:56 PM
My wallet was stolen last week, today I spilled water on my laptop and it wouldn't open. I am freaking out a little because in law the teachers don't give any powerpoints, and students have to write down everything the teacher say. I spent countless of hours summarizing my notes, incorporating my readings ect because exams are open book. My last back-up was 2-3 days ago, might seem like nothing but I was working 10-14 hrs on it every single day and mid-terms are next week, I still don't have anything printed out!!! Without my laptop I cannot study or do anything at all because all my notes are in there!!!!!
I wiped off the water and just put my laptop in rice, hopefully it'll work soon.... But I don't have the luxury to not study for 2-3 days, I seriously think I'm just gonna buy a new laptop tomorrow afternoon and return it after 2 days if my computer survives.
Vyanka
02-12-2016, 03:38 AM
After tonight, I wanna crawl up in a hole and just die. I've dealt with pos, but never a monster. Omg.
:-/
tuesdaymarie
02-12-2016, 08:24 AM
My wallet was stolen last week, today I spilled water on my laptop and it wouldn't open. I am freaking out a little because in law the teachers don't give any powerpoints, and students have to write down everything the teacher say. I spent countless of hours summarizing my notes, incorporating my readings ect because exams are open book. My last back-up was 2-3 days ago, might seem like nothing but I was working 10-14 hrs on it every single day and mid-terms are next week, I still don't have anything printed out!!! Without my laptop I cannot study or do anything at all because all my notes are in there!!!!!
I wiped off the water and just put my laptop in rice, hopefully it'll work soon.... But I don't have the luxury to not study for 2-3 days, I seriously think I'm just gonna buy a new laptop tomorrow afternoon and return it after 2 days if my computer survives.
Most stores have strict policies and/or fees associated with laptop returns. :/ You need to leave your laptop off for as long as possible. If you turn it on before all of the water has evaporated, it'll fry and be useless. If you already turned it on and it won't work, or if it was on when the water hit it... Well, you're probably SOL. I know it's not any help right now, but I'd really recommend keeping all of your notes stored in your Google drive, or just typing them up as Google docs to begin with. Using Google docs has saved me a lot of heartache writing on aging laptops.
Aurora_Sunset
02-12-2016, 08:59 AM
I'm getting tired of people who don't even know my dating history trying to pontificate and "explain" to me why my dating life is the way it is. Like, people who have only been in my life for the past year or 2, never even knew my last bf, never knew me when I was still trying to date after first starting escorting - we get on the topic of my love life (or lack thereof) and suddenly they're a fucking expert on "Well, you do this and that, and this is how you approach things, so this is obviously why you're getting this result."
I'm sorry, were you there during this guy, or that guy, or the guy after, or the guy before all of this other stuff? No. No idea how I used to go about dating when I was still pursuing dating. And when I try to explain my past to them, they don't even let me finish: "Well, I'm just saying that I've seen you do this." You haven't seen me do jack shit. I don't air my romantic or sexual life all over the place, so even if something was going on, it wouldn't be happening in front of you, so how could you possibly know?
I think the latest person to pull this on me is referring to the one time I refused to give a guy my number when she was pushing me to do so - because I did not think he was flirting with me - and I was right. He was married with a kid. It wasn't because I was like "oh em gee, I sooo like this guy, but I'm sooo scared to give him my number - nooooooo." It was because I was like "Eh, he's cute, but I'm really not getting a flirting vibe from him, so fuck it." That's a far cry from "refusing to ever be remotely vulnerable," which is what I was accused of, and which super pissed me off because I'm always the first one to be vulnerable with someone I actually like, even if I tell myself I shouldn't be. How would they possibly know that about the private moments I've shared with men, especially if they cut me off when I'm trying to tell them the story?
ScarletKitten
02-12-2016, 11:03 PM
I do not like getting up at 8am for work. I am NOT a morning person by any means. It makes me want to say "fuck it, I'll just be a stripper forever." I really need to order those stripper shoes ASAP, the vanilla world is already getting to me. Thank fuck this job is only temporary/ seasonal.