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Elektra Luxx
04-09-2016, 10:23 AM
I try and I try and I try to multi-task and it becomes very frustrating and overwhelming because I CAN NOT DO IT! I can only do one thing at a time. I just need to learn to budget my time better.

whirlerz
04-09-2016, 06:25 PM
Well, I got my hair & nails done yesterday..pedicure only. I got this light gold polish put on (not glitter). So, it's nice, but it came out too light..I decided to get some polish @ Sallys & go over it, I like the color to be rich & deep looking, I put an extra coat on, on top of what they do + more top coat.
Well, I go to buy the polish, & it's that gel shit, which requires a different base & topcoat, which I didn't know (& it didn't matter in the salon) but I didn't want to buy it, I don't really pollish my nails @ home, I do once in a while.
So bleh I was going to get a glitter polish on clearance, but I hate having extra shit so I didn't.
I bought it tho, sat in the car awhile, went bk in & return it. However, upon returning it, I found a mini lipstick in a color I've been looking for, which's nice.
Bleh, tho it's bugging me this color. :(

Glamourmilf
04-09-2016, 08:26 PM
One of my gay friends called to make plans for my upcoming birthday in a few weeks.
When I told him what I'd like to do, he agreed. But then suggested we go to the local gay bar after.
I tell him NO! I'm not interested in gay karaoke night, or a drag show,(already spend way too much dressing guys up in women's clothes at work). Theres 2 tacky gay bars that are in his town, that are soo depressing.
He brings it up twice even though I said no.
Why,oh why, do All roads lead back to gay bars? Go cruise on your own time! I'm not ruining my bday this year like it was ruined last year.:-\
My bday is a huge trigger for me anyway because it's the day my daddy died a few years ago.
After getting stood up and cancelled on last year, I'm just gonna work. Like it's just another day.

SweetJulia
04-10-2016, 09:26 AM
^Awww, I'm sorry :( My grandfather got put on hospice on my birthday and died a few days later in 2014. My complaint:I'm freezing, this corneal abrasion shit is the worst when I first wake up, and my cat woke me up purring really loud by my head.

Aurora_Sunset
04-10-2016, 10:20 AM
It was my friend's birthday yesterday. I called her and said she and the guy friend she was hanging out with were welcome to come down and hang out with me and that they could crash at my place since they live an hour away. She said she'd think about it and talk to her friend and let me know. This was at about 6:30. At 9:45, she texted me that she was NOT coming down and just going to stay in her town and would rather come down some other weekend when we would have more time to hang out.

This morning, I woke up to a voicemail left at 2am - her shittily saying "So, you said so-and-so and I could come over and I've been standing outside your door knocking for 30 minutes now and you're not answering. So now I have drive allll the way back home. Thanks."

What...the...fuck? I checked my phone and there are absolutely NO texts, phone calls, missed calls, facebook messages or any level of communication or even attempted communication between the text with her saying she WASN'T coming down and the pissy voicemail at 2am...

I attempted to call her but her phone is either off or dead, so I left my own voicemail saying I was sitting here trying to figure out why the hell I woke up to that shitty voicemail, and asking if she was just super drunk or wtf was going through her mind that she would show up at my place at 1:30 in the morning with no warning after specifically saying she wasn't coming down. I'm really crossing my fingers that she was just drunk and stupid and will call me later to apologize, cuz this is next-level bizarre, even for her.

Glamourmilf
04-10-2016, 10:27 AM
It was my friend's birthday yesterday. I called her and said she and the guy friend she was hanging out with were welcome to come down and hang out with me and that they could crash at my place since they live an hour away. She said she'd think about it and talk to her friend and let me know. This was at about 6:30. At 9:45, she texted me that she was NOT coming down and just going to stay in her town and would rather come down some other weekend when we would have more time to hang out.

This morning, I woke up to a voicemail left at 2am - her shittily saying "So, you said so-and-so and I could come over and I've been standing outside your door knocking for 30 minutes now and you're not answering. So now I have drive allll the way back home. Thanks."

What...the...fuck? I checked my phone and there are absolutely NO texts, phone calls, missed calls, facebook messages or any level of communication or even attempted communication between the text with her saying she WASN'T coming down and the pissy voicemail at 2am...

I attempted to call her but her phone is either off or dead, so I left my own voicemail saying I was sitting here trying to figure out why the hell I woke up to that shitty voicemail, and asking if she was just super drunk or wtf was going through her mind that she would show up at my place at 1:30 in the morning with no warning after specifically saying she wasn't coming down. I'm really crossing my fingers that she was just drunk and stupid and will call me later to apologize, cuz this is next-level bizarre, even for her.

What the actual fuck?
All I can say is, whatever she took to make all memory evaporate, I'd like some please.

22lligm
04-10-2016, 04:32 PM
Really annoyed that the ONE guy I meet out here who I actually liked is a dick. I already don't know many people out here and haven't dated anyone since I broke up with my long term ex. I feel like this guy judges the shit out of me and when we hungout the other night he said something about me being a stripper and I said I'm not 'JUST a stripper' & said something about being a student too and he says 'are you in school right now'? And not in a curious way but a rude way of saying 'yes you are just a stripper'. He was also making comments on how he wants to sell his truck and get a 'maserati' (right.. lol) and said something about how I'm weird for not doing much on my days off (because he's constantly going places and hanging out with people.. I'm very impressed). I think his lame gold chain bracelet with matching gold ring should have been a red flag.

I need to go out more and meet some new people lol.

Glamourmilf
04-10-2016, 10:44 PM
I was in San Diego today visiting a very ill friend.
I stopped at the supermarket, and felt so safe being there, vs the scary ghetto I now live in.
I was stopped on my way out by an old lady trying to get signatures for petitions.
All of a sudden this obviously mentally diranged guy starts shouting a few feet away from us.
This woman starts yelling at him to be quiet..Omg! She's got balls! People as crazy as that guy usually pull out a weapon, where I live.
All hell breaks loose, just like I knew it might.
I high tail it back to my car, and get the hell out of there.
All I can think is that saying, " Wherever you go, there you are". I've been in such fear lately. It's the main thing on my mind.
It's the northern part of San Diego too. Like the bedroom community. Great. A lot has changed since I lived there back in 2001.:'(

Aurora_Sunset
04-11-2016, 08:16 AM
Just found out due to new zoning laws and construction on the south side of town, the only strip club in town (and my first club) will probably be shut down and demolished in the near future. And there's a reason they were the only club to exist here - because of already existing zoning laws. I'd like to say that most of the girls there were college girls who can get another job, but realistically, I worked with a lot of girls with chronic health problems or single moms who really relied on being able to strip on a flexible schedule. Once they shut down, they'll either have to commute to the next nearest city over an hour away or turn to escorting, probably undercharging like everyone else here and flooding the market. The city is also already apparently starting to crack down on prostitution, so getting an influx of desperate new girls is just gonna make them even more hyper-aware and aggressive about it. I also am ok friends still with a couple of the bartenders and managers who were legitimately good guys and been there forever. I'm sad that they'll be forced out of job in an industry where we need more good SC staff...

The thing that really kills me about all this though, is the fact that one of the things being constructed in that zone is a new business being put in place by friends of mine. I've been supporting the fuck out of them for 3 years, not realizing that they were getting in on rezoning that area. It's not like it's entirely their fault - new shit would be going up there regardless - and I don't want to make some pissy stand against them vs. my stripper sisters, but it feels weird to keep cheering them on knowing that their new success is gonna hurt my industry so much.

Aurora_Sunset
04-12-2016, 07:03 AM
I don't know why this bugs me so much, but ever since I started re-taking pole classes, everyone and their mother constantly sends me pole dance videos on facebook. Like, ok, yeah, it's cool... but pole dancing isn't my identity the way it is with these pole athletes who have never been strippers. For me, it's like, yeah, I want to get back into it because it was fun and it's good strength-training and I miss being able to do those tricks, but it's just something I do for me in my free time, and I'm not obsessed with following "pole stars" all over instagram and youtube or anything.

Maybe the reason it bothers me is because nobody ever thought much of my pole dancing when I was actually a professional dancer. I was taking private lessons on-and-off then too... and learning new stuff at work all the time. Things I could actually apply to something other than taking selfies in my own living room. I was actually far more advanced back then than I am now that I've lost all my strength and am building back up from square one. Why does nobody seem to remember those years of my life? What, just because I'm doing it in a studio with other people now, it's suddenly legit and I must want to watch ALL the pole videos cuz I'm "serious" about it now? I was actually far more serious and into it back then because I could do it in front of people on a near-daily basis. Makes no sense.

Also: (totally unrelated) I've been trying all morning to call a nearby university to set up an appointment with an adviser to get more info on their graduate programs. And I'm just constantly getting the answering machine. It's past 11am on a Tuesday during the academic year... how the fuck is no one around to take calls?

carmen_b
04-12-2016, 10:27 AM
Ugh, I'm just so damn tired and there's so much to do. We are staying in this city awhile and I'm dying to find a clean clean clean sublet that I don't have to furnish. If I could just get started here without having to put a house together that would be best. I'm dying to get back into my regular work routine!

DonaDiabla
04-12-2016, 11:10 AM
Some guy brought a psychic reading from my Etsy store a year ago. Now, this guy demands a refund after a year. Sorry all sales are final, dick!::)

Glamourmilf
04-12-2016, 12:01 PM
Some guy brought a psychic reading from my Etsy store a year ago. Now, this guy demands a refund after a year. Sorry all sales are final, dick!::)

Seriously? Why? Because some things u told him never happened?
What a pita customer!

wednesday86
04-12-2016, 02:03 PM
Our ass clown neighbors keep throwing their cigarette butts over the fence into the back yard where my kid plays every day. Every day there are more and he likes to pick the dandelions and collect sticks and leaves so I'm always afraid he's gonna pick one up. I got fed up today so I put on plastic gloves and threw them all back over their fence into their yard. I spent a good half hour just looking through the grass, finding more, tossing them over. Fuck you people. You know that giant blue thing you put out on the street every Friday? It's called a TRASH CAN dumb asses.

DonaDiabla
04-12-2016, 03:57 PM
Actually, he told me that he lost his job and he was trying to get all of his money back from everyone to pay his mortgage. He was hitting up everyone including paypal and Walmart. "shakes head"



Seriously? Why? Because some things u told him never happened?
What a pita customer!

Genoveve
04-12-2016, 04:04 PM
Our ass clown neighbors keep throwing their cigarette butts over the fence into the back yard where my kid plays every day. Every day there are more and he likes to pick the dandelions and collect sticks and leaves so I'm always afraid he's gonna pick one up. I got fed up today so I put on plastic gloves and threw them all back over their fence into their yard. I spent a good half hour just looking through the grass, finding more, tossing them over. Fuck you people. You know that giant blue thing you put out on the street every Friday? It's called a TRASH CAN dumb asses.

Good for you. Once I put a bunch of my neighbor's dog's shit on the stairs to his front door.

Glamourmilf
04-12-2016, 05:48 PM
Actually, he told me that he lost his job and he was trying to get all of his money back from everyone to pay his mortgage. He was hitting up everyone including paypal and Walmart. "shakes head"

Good grief. That's even worse. Smh:loco:

Velveteen.Rabbit
04-12-2016, 07:49 PM
I feel bad for other people for being so close minded. I mean in reality I don't care, but there's just so many of them. The amount of people that make comments about the men I date is pretty high considering I'm just a rando.

I've never really been into white guys, mostly boring Americans, which just so happen to be white. I like Jewish ones I guess, but they have culture. I love culture. I find brown skin more attractive. I'm pale as hell but I'm also mixed race, mixed with a lot of things and half euro white. But anyway, every time I'm with someone brown be it a black guy, East Indian, or Latino, someone always freaks the fuck out and calls me a racist white bitch at some point. Or accuses me of fetishizing their culture. Sorry b but I did a DNA test and I have every major racial group on my test with Moroccan, northern India, and Native American being a big recent %. It's so fucking annoying. Like I'm not fetishizing anything, I just can't with boring guys. Just because I appear white to some people doesn't make me racist either so bye bye. Most of my family was the equivalent to mixed race Roma/Romani (but I won't say specifically what) with regards to my DNA and mother's upbringing so clearly this has been in my DNA long before I put 2 and 2 together. Everyone can fuck off now, tata.

Glamourmilf
04-12-2016, 08:50 PM
I've never really been into white guys, mostly boring Americans, which just so happen to be white.

Ugh! Who is? Not me.
"The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice." Yum yum.:flirt::thumbsup::yummy:

wednesday86
04-12-2016, 09:53 PM
I feel bad for other people for being so close minded. I mean in reality I don't care, but there's just so many of them. The amount of people that make comments about the men I date is pretty high considering I'm just a rando.

I've never really been into white guys, mostly boring Americans, which just so happen to be white. I like Jewish ones I guess, but they have culture. I love culture. I find brown skin more attractive. I'm pale as hell but I'm also mixed race, mixed with a lot of things and half euro white. But anyway, every time I'm with someone brown be it a black guy, East Indian, or Latino, someone always freaks the fuck out and calls me a racist white bitch at some point. Or accuses me of fetishizing their culture. Sorry b but I did a DNA test and I have every major racial group on my test with Moroccan, northern India, and Native American being a big recent %. It's so fucking annoying. Like I'm not fetishizing anything, I just can't with boring guys. Just because I appear white to some people doesn't make me racist either so bye bye. Most of my family was the equivalent to mixed race Roma/Romani (but I won't say specifically what) with regards to my DNA and mother's upbringing so clearly this has been in my DNA long before I put 2 and 2 together. Everyone can fuck off now, tata.

Who's making the comments? I have an all out Asian fetish but I've only heard ignorant comments from jealous (usually drunk) white men about me and my husband/ex boyfriends. The Asian guys I've been with never thought I was racist, and they insisted on me learning about their culture (if they were from overseas) and learning their language, etc. I mostly just cared about the cuteness and the hotness. The culture is interesting but that's not why I'm into them. That's just what I'm attracted to.

Aurora_Sunset
04-13-2016, 09:07 AM
Just... everything about my facebook newsfeed this morning.

The wife of a dude I used to work with, who I used to think was cool, (the dude, not the wife, I'm not even friends with her - it just showed up in my feed cuz she tagged him in it) - posting this long ass status about "To the girl who let him go, thank you. Thank you for walking out of his life, thank you for giving me the opportunity to love him and really keep him and make him happy. Thank you for hurting him, cuz I will do all the things that you failed to do - blah blah blah - I will take care of the man that you failed to appreciate - blah blah blah - I will be the partner that you failed to become for him... blah blah blah" - it goes on and on and ON like this. Barf. Get over yourself. Why does your relationship have to be defined by the fact that you're "better" than a woman that broke up with him for her own reasons years ago?

Then my dumbass cousin who internet-talks like she's from the ghetto (whitest bitch ever IRL) talking about her divorce finally going through and "No more bullshit LIES 2FACED ppl n GAMES. Starting OVER wit my babies n I'm GOOD! Shits sad cuz dis isn't wat I wanted to happened but it's for da best." Then asking if anyone knows who can cover up the tattoo on her neck with his name on it... Btw, this is the second name-neck tattoo of an ex that she's trying to get rid of. Get a fucking clue already...

And then all the comments from their dumbass friends: "Aww you guys are so cute!" (and not at all dysfunctional?), or "Yeah, you go girl! You deserve so much better!" (even though you're a certified idiot who has never grown up and continues to have a new kid with a different guy literally every other year?). Hmmm...

wednesday86
04-13-2016, 11:11 AM
*looks for part time dinky night job*

*sees part time dinky night job on Indeed*

*start to apply*

UPLOAD YOUR RESUME, COVER LETTER AND PROFESSIONAL REFERENCES. MUST HAVE 5 YEARS DINKY PART TIME JOB EXPERIENCE. MUST HAVE BACHELOR'S DEGREE IN MINIMUM WAGE PART TIME JOB SCIENCE. NEW GRADS NEED NOT APPLY.

Yep now I remember why I started stripping.

Velveteen.Rabbit
04-13-2016, 01:26 PM
Who's making the comments? I have an all out Asian fetish but I've only heard ignorant comments from jealous (usually drunk) white men about me and my husband/ex boyfriends. The Asian guys I've been with never thought I was racist, and they insisted on me learning about their culture (if they were from overseas) and learning their language, etc. I mostly just cared about the cuteness and the hotness. The culture is interesting but that's not why I'm into them. That's just what I'm attracted to.

People I don't care about lol, but there's a lot of them. It's usually people I'm not close with that are either close with the guy or like friends of friends who make comments to my friends about it. Even on SW years ago when I said the last 3 guys I dated were black (well, half black half white) multiple girls accused me of fetishizing the dominance of black men and being "part of the problem" lol. Last I checked, I have only ever dated really effinimate men. I was just talking to a friend about how I find beta males to be so hot they just never commit. Then alpha males beg to date but I don't find their dominance attractive, and I'm usually bored by them. I have such a strong masculine energy in a very feminized body that I want my polar opposite. It's not usually a white guy.

Even if I were to say I'm attracted to the culture, they'd still call it "part of the problem" or whatever. There are a lot of very progressive or liberal-appearing people that cannot handle interracial dating to this day. They see it as some sort of cultural appropriation or fetishization and not because you actually like the person or have a few types. And this is in California so I can't even imagine what it's like elsewhere.

Velveteen.Rabbit
04-13-2016, 01:34 PM
I feel bad for other people for being so close minded. I mean in reality I don't care, but there's just so many of them. The amount of people that make comments about the men I date is pretty high considering I'm just a rando.

I've never really been into white guys, mostly boring Americans, which just so happen to be white. I like Jewish ones I guess, but they have culture. I love culture. I find brown skin more attractive. I'm pale as hell but I'm also mixed race, mixed with a lot of things and half euro white. But anyway, every time I'm with someone brown be it a black guy, East Indian, or Latino, someone always freaks the fuck out and calls me a racist white bitch at some point. Or accuses me of fetishizing their culture. Sorry b but I did a DNA test and I have every major racial group on my test with Moroccan, northern India, and Native American being a big recent %. It's so fucking annoying. Like I'm not fetishizing anything, I just can't with boring guys. Just because I appear white to some people doesn't make me racist either so bye bye. Most of my family was the equivalent to mixed race Roma/Romani (but I won't say specifically what) with regards to my DNA and mother's upbringing so clearly this has been in my DNA long before I put 2 and 2 together. Everyone can fuck off now, tata.

Speaking of these fuckboy/fuckgirls, it's over with the guy who sits next to me in one of my classes, before it even started. We met up to go on a date and I guess he felt emasculated or angry or something, but he kept implying things about my upbringing and then talking about how his was the opposite and I'd never understand. Not in like a sad way, but in like a hostile way. Implying how I don't deserve my quality of life and degree and assuming my parents pay for my stuff. He knows my domme/nursing jobs so what is wrong with him? Use your brain.

I fucking hate when people do this! He told me I'm too much of a princess with white privilege that needs to get everything she wants. Umm no? I am low maitenence, I appear white but am basically half, and my life has been anything but princess. He just started talking about how he grew up really hard in a poor area and how I'd never understand. Bitch. Are you serious? Lol I had the same life but just because I'm well groomed with light skin and come off intelligent, I guess I certainly come from wealth right? And not 18 yrs in a project like in reality. I hate these people but it happens to me all the time. All because I got a recessive gene skin color, really?

It enrages me because there's no way to win. If I bring up the truth then they either think I'm lying or their ego/intuition refuses to admit it was completely wrong so they hate me anyway. Or they hate admitting that I struggled just as much as them but don't ever complain about it. I've worked my ass off for everything I've had and have been through tons of crazy things, 18y of poverty and lots of immediate family member deaths. But nope, I look white and well kept so I must have had it easy. What the fuck is wrong with people lol. I text him a bit long thing after I up and left and told him I was over us dating.

DonaDiabla
04-13-2016, 02:15 PM
You know what grinds my gears? Dudes on fiverr looking for skype shows and trying to use my facebook girlfriend gig to get them.

Cheap ass Dudes on fiverr particularly from Italy who think that my fiverr girlfriend gig will buy them skype shows. Now, only one got mad and tried to give me a bad review on fiverr until I told on him.Go back to reddit and search for chicks who want to do cheap cam shows. Also pay them with bitcoins. Do not use fiverr for that, morons. But I solved that problem by going upscale. :)

ScarletKitten
04-13-2016, 04:35 PM
There are a lot of very progressive or liberal-appearing people that cannot handle interracial dating to this day. They see it as some sort of cultural appropriation or fetishization and not because you actually like the person or have a few types.

I can't stand this kind of thinking. I don't understand why people get their panties in a bunch over cultural appropriation, which has nothing to do with dating. Cultural appropriation is about incorporating elements from another culture into your art or whatever. But people get mad over this for some reason. I don't get it. Also, it's none of people's business who others want to date.

Also, interracial mating is completely natural. Nature WANTS to mix genes, it is evolution, and it is inevitable.

You do you, girl. Fuck these people. lol

ETA: I read your other post. Man, that sucks about that guy. He sounds like a total ass wit. Maybe you dodged a bullet there. What a judgmental prick.

ETA again: If my post is too political, I'll delete it.

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-13-2016, 08:37 PM
I finally turned in my taxes & my refund is minus a penalty for letting my health insurance lapse. No big deal but it reminded me I have to get on the ball about getting a health plan.

KaraLynn
04-13-2016, 10:08 PM
I am visiting my friend and staying at her house. I've been entering through the backdoor because they don't have an extra key. The neighbors called the police and reported me for breaking in, so I had to deal with that lol.

miss.a.p1600
04-13-2016, 10:22 PM
Bingeing on junk food........and i just ate the last doughnut hole.......fuck, i could certainly polish off another dozen

ScarletKitten
04-14-2016, 01:11 AM
So I was just talking to my jazz musician friend tonight, and he was telling me about the time he fucked someone in a church parking lot. I got really jealous but I didn't let him know that. I just played it cool and was like, "cool whatever." But it threw off my vibe the entire night. I don't know what's wrong with me, I'm usually not the jealous type. And I have no right to be jealous anyway, that would be hypocritical of me. Plus, this was the past. He's not with anyone now. So why did I feel so jealous when he told me this? Like I don't wanna picture him fucking someone else. damnit!

Aurora_Sunset
04-14-2016, 06:33 AM
I never wanted to be the kind of person who only drinks bottled water. Most tap water is good enough that I consider it a waste of money - especially with how much I go through. But we've been hearing more and more that our tap water is one step above toxic and even the city is concerned and working on it. Gross. Dammit.

SweetJulia
04-14-2016, 06:49 AM
A friend of mine who whines about everything and I always hear her out kept shorting me while I was telling her how I got hit by a fucking semi two weeks ago. Guess it doesn't count if I have makeup on and don't look hurt. They're more or less replacing the car cuz it got smashed like a soda can and was struck an inch away from where I was sitting. I know it's not as serious as her kid eating the last instant oatmeal, but at least give me give minutes.

ScarletKitten
04-14-2016, 09:59 AM
I never wanted to be the kind of person who only drinks bottled water. Most tap water is good enough that I consider it a waste of money - especially with how much I go through. But we've been hearing more and more that our tap water is one step above toxic and even the city is concerned and working on it. Gross. Dammit.

Great. Is the entire U.S. water system completely fucked now?? First Flint, now the rest of the U.S. soon to follow? It's better not to drink tap anyway, because of the fluoride, which is a POISON. But ya know, the government is looking out for us, so don't worry. ::)

I want to get my own reverse osmosis system eventually. But those are expensive. It's sad that something as basic as water has to be a complicated thing in a supposedly "first world country". lol

Why am I even leaving Canada? Fuck.

miss cleo
04-14-2016, 10:28 AM
So called 'escort directories' stealing my fucking information and plastering them all over the fucking internet with 'details' like I'm available 24/7. You cunts are not helping me promote my fucking business you are criminals. I'm furious!!!!! L!

KaraLynn
04-14-2016, 12:08 PM
I know this comes with the territory, but I'm tired of the assumptions everybody seems to make about me because I work at a strip club. None of them apply to me, none.

Everything from refusing to believe me when I say I don't do drugs or have children, to assuming I'm lying when I say my husband treats me very well and has multiple jobs at a time and doesn't live off me. He has even supported ME so I could take a break from dancing. I understand there are dancers out there who fit the "my boyfriend beats me, supplies me with drugs and takes my money, oh and I'm pregnant with my tenth kid by him" stereotype, but assuming I'm lying about my life just because that's not my life story pisses me the fuck off.

Another example is I had to leave work early yesterday because I was sick, weak, and couldn't hold food down. As I was walking out the door customers were asking why I was leaving. I told the truth "I'm feeling sick and need to rest but I will be back this weekend" their responses were, "so where are you headed, a house party??? Do you want to go to a bar with me and drink" etc.

NO! NO! NO! I'm fucking sick and need to rest!

I understand them asking may have been harmless but I don't get why they assumed I wanted to go fucking party when I am sick. It's just been annoying me lately.

Velveteen.Rabbit
04-14-2016, 12:40 PM
I know this comes with the territory, but I'm tired of the assumptions everybody seems to make about me because I work at a strip club. None of them apply to me, none.

Everything from refusing to believe me when I say I don't do drugs or have children, to assuming I'm lying when I say my husband treats me very well and has multiple jobs at a time and doesn't live off me. He has even supported ME so I could take a break from dancing. I understand there are dancers out there who fit the "my boyfriend beats me, supplies me with drugs and takes my money, oh and I'm pregnant with my tenth kid by him" stereotype, but assuming I'm lying about my life just because that's not my life story pisses me the fuck off.

Another example is I had to leave work early yesterday because I was sick, weak, and couldn't hold food down. As I was walking out the door customers were asking why I was leaving. I told the truth "I'm feeling sick and need to rest but I will be back this weekend" their responses were, "so where are you headed, a house party??? Do you want to go to a bar with me and drink" etc.

NO! NO! NO! I'm fucking sick and need to rest!

I understand them asking may have been harmless but I don't get why they assumed I wanted to go fucking party when I am sick. It's just been annoying me lately.

Same. I'm really happy I have an exciting vanilla career now.

chanzep
04-15-2016, 01:44 PM
Started to work at a steakhouse, well I been training so far I hate it they keep making me do stupid tests all the time, and I don't think they make the money I want grr I'm ready to quit!

SnuffleUffleGrass
04-15-2016, 01:52 PM
Another example is I had to leave work early yesterday because I was sick, weak, and couldn't hold food down. As I was walking out the door customers were asking why I was leaving. I told the truth "I'm feeling sick and need to rest but I will be back this weekend" their responses were, "so where are you headed, a house party??? Do you want to go to a bar with me and drink" etc.

I understand them asking may have been harmless but I don't get why they assumed I wanted to go fucking party when I am sick. It's just been annoying me lately.

It's because some SC patrons are that pathetic & only see you as boner topping, not as a human with feelings & a life outside of the club. I watched a guy trying to gas up a hot blonde dancer with free shots b/c she was waiting for her ride home with her suitcase next to her...He was obviously hoping to sidetrack her to his place. (Joke was on him, that hottie is a Size 1 but can hold her liquor like a Russian guy.)

(Don't feel bad about being annoyed by people like that, they are the same types that would attack you if you got stuck in an alleyway with them. Not every person is a shining star of kindness and light.)

On a less tough note, most of the dancers I know beat all the stereotypes (Uni. degrees, husbands, kids, mortgages) but it's not good to brag about in the club. These days I think bragging about one's good fortune is more likely to invite predators into one's life than admirers ....

MyRealNameIsWeird
04-15-2016, 02:04 PM
People who can't shut up. Just lost 2h of perfectly good cam time to a phonecall. Urgh.

SweetJulia
04-15-2016, 03:42 PM
Traffic OMG! I almost got hit five times in ten minutes. Is it that hard to merge?

whirlerz
04-15-2016, 03:49 PM
Yea, today was bad here, b/c it was so nice outside, one of the 1st nice days. People were driving way worse than usual, I almost got hit by a huge bus cause he thought my green arrow to turn left was his green light..so scary!

Glamourmilf
04-15-2016, 05:14 PM
Started to work at a steakhouse, well I been training so far I hate it they keep making me do stupid tests all the time, and I don't think they make the money I want grr I'm ready to quit!

What kind of tests? Thanks in advance, because I was thinking of applying as a summer job. ( as a hostess,)

whirlerz
04-15-2016, 05:25 PM
I was thinking of applying @ a private golf club (they hire for spring/summer) More than that, I'd just like to go in there to check it out.

carmen_b
04-15-2016, 08:41 PM
Whew. It's been a rough one with the day job . :/
I seem to have spent endless energy chatting with customers ( 4 at last count ) in the last week and getting $0 closed for the week. Luckily, someone paid us ahead for a job is August and without them ( bless them ! ) , I would be showing $0 earned April 1-15 and about $600 earned tomorrow.
I just feel like it's such a mess and we have a customer who got something late from a vendor and is asking for an unfair amount back . I need to put a solid case together about the amount that IS fair. I really hate the stress and back and forth but asking for $600 back on an item that cost $250 ( she paid for multiple things in one transaction ) is just not fair.

GeezLouise
04-16-2016, 04:21 AM
I was on such a good streak. No junkfood, no Dr pepper just water, tea and coffee.
So, right now I have a can of Dr pepper, ate 2 cakes, toast with Nutella and will be having Burrito's for dinner.

I almost started twitching when I saw the shop was out of Fererro Rocher.

Aurora_Sunset
04-16-2016, 07:13 AM
When somebody says something really stupid on this site and my first reaction is to want to post about it in here cuz this is where I complain about everything... and then realizing I can't because they might read it + it's just inappropriate considering I'm a mod... So I'm like "Well, shit... where do I get this out of my system?"

I usually end up facebook messaging one of my good friends who knows I'm on this site but has no reason to be on it herself. She listens to my forum-drama, but I know deep-down she probably has no idea what I'm talking about and therefore can't really care lol

chanzep
04-16-2016, 08:41 AM
What kind of tests? Thanks in advance, because I was thinking of applying as a summer job. ( as a hostess,)

Well 1st test is the seating plan all the tables have non visible numbers so we can deliver the food too and so the hostess can seat people, also then they have seat numbers which are different for each aisle, then I did a hostess workshop, I have to know the whole menu off by heart and did a test describing each food item its a nightmare, I could not remember and have to take it again, then I have to learn their computer system, and I have a test to do on the bar? and more coming Im dreading it, maybe its just this chain but they expect all staff to know everything annoying.

miss.a.p1600
04-16-2016, 09:29 AM
I'm bored and hungry but I don't feel like cooking or getting out of bed.

I want to drop the kid off so I can have some alone time but I don't want to spend money on child care so default is one of my parental units who gets on my nerves to the tenth power. Fml!

I'd do anything for a nanny and a chef right about now.

LilLadyLux
04-16-2016, 10:08 AM
I don't have kids, but I want a nanny too. And a maid. And a cook. Rich husband anyone?

Aurora_Sunset
04-16-2016, 10:57 AM
My grandma constantly sends the most racist, anti-immigrant, and Islamaphoic email chains. Everyone talks about how uncomfortable it is behind her back, but it's one of those things that no one wants to "call grandma on" because it will start an irreversible family war.