View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
LilLadyLux
04-24-2016, 05:59 PM
Run. /\
athenalovelace
04-24-2016, 09:22 PM
Getting super close to going off on my roommate. Not does she say shit like "I think everyone who colors their hair bright colors is damaged" to me...a girl who has has pink and purple hair but not long after we had this discussion re: me leaving my retail side job.
"We're getting a new manager and essentially new group and it's going to be awful"
"Oh no! she's going to make you do your job."
"Bitch, sit the fuck down. I consistently make top sales. I DO my job."
"Whatever. I'm a retail manager so you won't get any sympathy from me. If I were your manager I'd have already fired you."
I'm so ready for my bestie to move here so I can gtfo.
Aurora_Sunset
04-25-2016, 10:15 AM
I'm sick of people blaming an inability to get ahold of them, or to get ahold of anyone else when they're supposed to, on their "shitty phones" or their phone dying/being off all day. Sure, I'm not attached at the hip to my phone either and shit happens, and sometimes people can't get to you right away. It's not the end of the world. But you can't just drop off the face of the planet for days on end without warning, or not respond to people who you knew were waiting on you, and claim some hippy-dippy "Oh I just don't pay that much attention to my phone, man." You're a fucking adult in functioning society. You need to have a way for people to contact you or to contact the people that you're supposed to. If it's not your phone, then get a computer and check email or facebook regularly. People rely on being able to communicate with you in a timely manner when they were supposed to be able to. Stop being so self-centered.
The worst is "Oh my phone was out of minutes" when they knew damn well you were waiting on them for something. I know that you were around other people who own phones. It doesn't cost you any minutes to pull up my phone number on the screen. Put it into someone else's phone and call or text me. It's not that's complicated, and I'm sure they won't mind loaning you their phone for 2 minutes to make a call.
miss.a.p1600
04-25-2016, 03:53 PM
Saw an ugly woman at the grocery story with a bad attitude yelling at what I think was her daughter. Surprisingly the girl was cute and looked like she was mixed race. I felt so bad for that girl that she has a sucky mom. I hope that woman was just having a bad day and doesn't abuse her kid all the time. Why have kids if you're just going to abuse them?
22lligm
04-25-2016, 06:11 PM
I drunk texted this guy the other night and deleted the convo so I wouldn't have to read what I said lol but I texted him today saying sorry I was drunk ignore me, and he responds with 'If you want to hook up or hangout then do it. But you are overthinking it and just straight trippin. I know I'm an attractive dude. You don't need to be embarrassed." Um What?? I just texted you when I was drunk lol get over yourself.
Okay every one of my petty annoyance posts are about men lol I'm having the worse luck in that department. I should just go back to being celibate for a while lol.
chanzep
04-27-2016, 06:29 PM
Mosquitos please stop eating me alive!, glad I'm not dancing with all these ugly bites!.
whirlerz
04-27-2016, 08:16 PM
Mosquitos please stop eating me alive!, glad I'm not dancing with all these ugly bites!.
Put some tea tree oil on 'em. Also, there's prods called 'Ditch the Itch' there's a soap & a cream they work good.
Velveteen.Rabbit
04-27-2016, 11:39 PM
I'm only attracted to long hair.
Glamourmilf
04-28-2016, 10:37 AM
I'm only attracted to long hair.
Who ARE You? My sister from another Mister?:D
SweetJulia
04-28-2016, 12:13 PM
This asshole client hacked into my email and sent every person in my contact list a redirect to his email and a request to send him money. I'm like beyond pissed. Oh, and now that email won't reload cuz I stupidly went to basic mail and don't have the option to go back.
Vyanka
04-29-2016, 02:59 AM
This week has been eh, that I only did one vip this week. I got stuck on the floor. Man oh man. My ass and thighs hurt from all the lapdancing!!
LilLadyLux
04-29-2016, 07:52 AM
@Julia that's awful! I'm not fresh savey at all but I hope you find a way to story this out workout affecting business!
kaninchen
04-29-2016, 11:52 AM
Okay, so this is literally the MOST petty of all my petty annoyances to date. I'm going to be in France this summer and I have the opportunity to spend a few days in an actual historical monastery in a beautiful, remote nature preserve but I don't wanna because I don't like another person who will be there. I seriously need to :chillpill omg
Aurora_Sunset
04-29-2016, 06:13 PM
Being an attractive woman looking back over pictures of every single guy friend you used to have: "Dammit dude, I liked hanging out with you, why'd you have to get weird and disappear?"
Cashmere Star
04-29-2016, 09:53 PM
Can't wait for my shoulder/pect injury to go away (been over half a year now) so I can get my damn boob job already. :/
BabyWillow
04-30-2016, 12:20 AM
I don't feel like this is petty just yet, and I'm still rather upset about it. A strip broke on one of my shoes, but I was taking them home to fix them, but I set them on the pool table when I was paying my house fees at the end of the night. While they were on the table, another dancer apparently was told by an intoxicated patron that I told him he could have the shoes??? And she let him take them! They were so beautiful and since I have just 6 more shifts before I'm done, there's no point in buying a new pair considering I'm nearly 6 feet without heels, and I'll never have another reason to wear beautiful heels ever again!!! 😭44825 RIP
Aurora_Sunset
04-30-2016, 06:26 AM
Twice now, I've gone out of my way to pick out and buy a really cool birthday present for my "best friend." Can't really call her that anymore, because both times now, shortly after her birthday, she has pretty much disappeared out of my life. The first time, I ended up tossing her present after it sat on my desk for almost 2 years because I assumed I would never be able to give it to her because I never saw her. Just bought her something else even cooler this month since she reappeared last month and spent a few weeks acting like I was her best friend in the world again - but now, the past 2 weekends, she's made plans with me, and then the day of ignored my texts and phone calls and left me sitting around waiting to hear from her all day, until finally texting me in the evening with a proclamation that it was too late now and "BS" has been holding her up, without so much as a lame "Sorry" in front of her vague, probably worthless, excuse.
It's one thing to lose a flaky friend. But it's so sad to buy her these things that I know she'd love and then have them sitting around every single day for me to look at and know I'll never give it to her. At this point, I'm thinking of just mailing it to her (cuz I really don't want to waste the money on throwing this one away) and then letting her drift out of my life after that. Complete the project, get it out of my space, and then stop worrying about what happens after.
miss.a.p1600
04-30-2016, 06:41 AM
I'm so tired of my extended family members trying to "reach out" and meet with me. No and no. You only want to meet with me to complain about how I've been avoiding you and to run guilt trips. Well I avoid you all for a reason. I don't like guilt trips and I don't like negative unsupportive people who whine all the time and secretly hate me.
I don't know how to tell these people in a tactful way that just because you are family and share dna does not mean I am committed to you. I don't care if I came out your vagina or your sperm was used to create me (I'm seriously wondering if I was adopted) or if you gave me a million dollars in the past. If you're negative I will avoid you like the plague.
LilLadyLux
04-30-2016, 08:06 AM
Lol there's no tactful way to say, but keep your boundaries. Just Because their family doesn't give then the right to hurt you repeatedly.
Glamourmilf
04-30-2016, 10:05 AM
I don't feel like this is petty just yet, and I'm still rather upset about it. A strip broke on one of my shoes, but I was taking them home to fix them, but I set them on the pool table when I was paying my house fees at the end of the night. While they were on the table, another dancer apparently was told by an intoxicated patron that I told him he could have the shoes??? And she let him take them! They were so beautiful and since I have just 6 more shifts before I'm done, there's no point in buying a new pair considering I'm nearly 6 feet without heels, and I'll never have another reason to wear beautiful heels ever again!!! 44825 RIP
That's f.cked up! Those are pretty shoes.
It takes me forever to throw out dance/cam shoes. I've been known to put them (shoes that are beyond repair), on my dresser and just look at them, until I can part with them.
SnuffleUffleGrass
04-30-2016, 10:20 AM
I don't feel like this is petty just yet, and I'm still rather upset about it. A strip broke on one of my shoes, but I was taking them home to fix them, but I set them on the pool table when I was paying my house fees at the end of the night. While they were on the table, another dancer apparently was told by an intoxicated patron that I told him he could have the shoes??? And she let him take them! They were so beautiful and since I have just 6 more shifts before I'm done, there's no point in buying a new pair considering I'm nearly 6 feet without heels, and I'll never have another reason to wear beautiful heels ever again!!! 44825 RIP
Awww that sucks. My ex lost a new $300 leather jacket by leaving it on a chair in bar when he was drunk & a sharp eyed thief tricked a waitress into giving it to him. I've always held onto anything of mine pretty hard in any bar.
Tsepmet1
04-30-2016, 11:06 AM
The past two weeks have been rough.
My PTSD stems from a "hell on earth" childhood, and the person who really made me feel loved and cared for when I was little died last week. Then I found out at the funeral that my sister, whom I absolutely adore, had "come out" and no one even fucking told me. It was a mess. It got to the point that my husband had to physically remove me from the room because it was obvious that I was about to lose my goddamn mind.
The week before that was my birthday.
I have flight anxiety, and on the way back from the funeral, we flew through a thunderstorm and experienced major turbulence with "loss of altitude". The woman behind me was screaming and the flight attendant wouldn't give her water because she had cash and not a credit card. Never fly Spirit. We only flew them because it was an emergency. My husband and I had to buy this poor woman who was OBVIOUSLY in distress to the point that she was choking a damn bottle of water.
I have to take another flight to Baltimore in a few weeks because my orthodontist decided that I'm not anywhere close to done with treatment that was supposed to be finished in December and I'm dreading it. However, maybe I'll head to Scores and make some money. Money was always good there for me despite the jackasses who work there.
Oh, and I fucked up my math and underpaid $7k to the IRS last year.
I'm just going to go crawl under a rock now.
KaraLynn
04-30-2016, 11:54 AM
I hate "owners friends" this fucking prick thought being the owners friend meant he could touch my vagina, try to shove his tongue down my throat, and rent me out of the club for a few hours.
Get the fuck out of Here.
Velveteen.Rabbit
04-30-2016, 01:39 PM
"People want to see you do good, but never better than them" lolllll boy is that true
Velveteen.Rabbit
04-30-2016, 06:19 PM
Who ARE You? My sister from another Mister?:D
I'm sure you must know lol
Selina M
05-01-2016, 02:29 AM
It's like 2:30 am and I'm sitting here hella nervous, because SO has been out at some work get-together, and telling me he has a ride home. These people all get completely trashed. It makes me super fucking nervous when one drives him home.
I'm trying to be patient with this whole I-Have-Friends-Now thing but this stuff gives me anxiety, and he just doesn't get it because he's so laid-back.
Also, this computer charger. Srsly. The dog spilled beer on it months ago and it's never been quite the same :/
lynn2009
05-01-2016, 10:12 AM
So I woke up Friday morning and getting ready for work my apartment was noticeably and uncomfortably cold. It's continued to be cold all weekend even though it is May now and I figured it was the property management being dicks but I finally called emergency maintenance today playing dumb and requesting the heat be turned back on since it's been a max of fifty degrees for three days now and they say the heat is turned off for the season and there's nothing they can do. I was pissed and proceeded to turn on the oven to 400 and leave the door open and search the internet for tenant rights and found one link that looked promising so I sent an email to the governor's office. And I don't care if this is overreacting it's fucking cold outside and I want the fucking basic amenities that are already fucking paid for. Assholes. I'm tired of renters constantly getting shat on.
whirlerz
05-01-2016, 10:28 AM
Aww, Big Hugs to Lynn & Glammie..
When's ur Bday, mine's 5/21
& yea, the 'season's over in April for apt heat, I remember that well..if you're ever in the market for a heater, get a Vornado, they're a bit pricey, but they heat well, evenly, & energy efficient
& Glam that SUCKS I HATE that ass
whirlerz
05-01-2016, 12:59 PM
Ok, anyone else sick of hearing Kelly Ripa whine? I mean, yea the network should've been more considerate, but bitch please companies are like that & worse..get over it!
I mean, hello, some people don't even have a job?
I'd lmao if they got rid of her too, or at least put someone in there to challenge her.
22lligm
05-01-2016, 01:42 PM
Omg my last shift was so annoying and making me feel so over dancing again. I find out that this group of girls I thought were just good hustlers all have the same pimp. I know it doesn't affect me but I'm so tired of working around prostitutes and girls with pimps! Why can't everyone just be normal and go to work for themselves without doing extras and go home? I stay focused on myself at work but when I find out these things it makes me so over the club and being around all of that. Plus I also did a room with another dancer who kept trying to push me into doing extras because our customer 'expected it' when he ended up just really liking me and was happy with just talking and drinking (which should always be the case but clearly isn't for the "dancers" I work with).
I feel dumb because I just quit my vanilla job and went back to dancing like a month ago and now I'm already over dancing again. Dancing is still a million times better than waitressing tho so I just need to work earlier shifts or something to stay away from the crazy nonsense of night shift. Or maybe I just need to stop being nice and completely ignore my coworkers.
I just really want to go to grad school already!
xStacey
05-02-2016, 07:20 AM
I booked a well-needed massage for this morning but I was so exhausted I couldn't wake up. I called to cancel my reservation and they wanted to charge me 100% for the 90 mins, which is around $160, was able to bring it to 50% instead but still really frustrating. Don't even know when I'll have time to schedule another appointment.
Aurora_Sunset
05-02-2016, 08:32 AM
I HATE when people say they "don't care, you pick" in response to dinner plans, and then shoot down every suggestion I make. I swear this happens 99% of the time I try to make plans with people. They absolutely refuse to even give an opinion. I'll be like "Well, is there anything that you're absolutely not in the mood for, or you just ate, or you don't like, or that gives you heartburn?" And they're like "I don't care, I don't care, whatever, just pick something."
45 minutes, 10 suggestions from me, and 10 vetoes from them later, they're still sitting there obstinately refusing to contribute anything to the decision-making process and irritatedly ordering me to "just pick something" as though I'm the fucking reason we aren't eating yet. The worst is when they shoot down several suggestions on the basis that the places are "too expensive," and then ultimately end up agreeing to something that's just as, if not more expensive...
This happens just as much with my male friends as it does my female friends too, so it's not just a stereotypically "girl" thing.
Elektra Luxx
05-02-2016, 10:36 AM
I HATE when people say they "don't care, you pick" in response to dinner plans, and then shoot down every suggestion I make. I swear this happens 99% of the time I try to make plans with people. They absolutely refuse to even give an opinion. I'll be like "Well, is there anything that you're absolutely not in the mood for, or you just ate, or you don't like, or that gives you heartburn?" And they're like "I don't care, I don't care, whatever, just pick something."
45 minutes, 10 suggestions from me, and 10 vetoes from them later, they're still sitting there obstinately refusing to contribute anything to the decision-making process and irritatedly ordering me to "just pick something" as though I'm the fucking reason we aren't eating yet. The worst is when they shoot down several suggestions on the basis that the places are "too expensive," and then ultimately end up agreeing to something that's just as, if not more expensive...
This happens just as much with my male friends as it does my female friends too, so it's not just a stereotypically "girl" thing.
This is my deal-breaker when deciding if I'm going to continue dating a guy. I don't want to be with someone who is all wishy-washy. It a real turn on for me when a guy has the confidence to make all the plans and stick to them. I'm a real wimp IRL and if I can punk him that's a complete turn off. When I'm working, I'm in control, so in my personal life, I want a guy who takes charge.
I can't get out the bed again today. I'm so lonely and in need of attention and didn't realize it until that sorry excuse for a human walked back in my life. Life was great the day before he came around smh. Now I feel stupid and alone.
Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2016, 06:39 AM
This is my deal-breaker when deciding if I'm going to continue dating a guy. I don't want to be with someone who is all wishy-washy. It a real turn on for me when a guy has the confidence to make all the plans and stick to them. I'm a real wimp IRL and if I can punk him that's a complete turn off. When I'm working, I'm in control, so in my personal life, I want a guy who takes charge.
I honestly don't mind being in charge of the decision. If someone else wants to decide, cool, but if they truly don't care, fine, I will totally pick a place. Happy to. Just don't tell me that it's my responsibility to pick and then be a giant pain in the ass about everything I pick! Don't say you don't care if you clearly do...
carmen_b
05-03-2016, 11:05 AM
This is one of my BIGGEST peeves and everyone knows it ! Haha. It is so bad, that it's to the point now where I just pick what I want and the day / time and include it ALL in the invites I send ! :) I absolutely HATE back and forth. It's such a time sucker. It's just a meal .... a chance to sit / relax / visit . I doesn't have to be perfect. Just pick quickly ! Ha. I always need to the know the neighboorhood a day ahead anyway so I can plan work things around being in the same hood.
I HATE when people say they "don't care, you pick" in response to dinner plans, and then shoot down every suggestion I make. I swear this happens 99% of the time I try to make plans with people. They absolutely refuse to even give an opinion. I'll be like "Well, is there anything that you're absolutely not in the mood for, or you just ate, or you don't like, or that gives you heartburn?" And they're like "I don't care, I don't care, whatever, just pick something."
45 minutes, 10 suggestions from me, and 10 vetoes from them later, they're still sitting there obstinately refusing to contribute anything to the decision-making process and irritatedly ordering me to "just pick something" as though I'm the fucking reason we aren't eating yet. The worst is when they shoot down several suggestions on the basis that the places are "too expensive," and then ultimately end up agreeing to something that's just as, if not more expensive...
This happens just as much with my male friends as it does my female friends too, so it's not just a stereotypically "girl" thing.
Velveteen.Rabbit
05-03-2016, 11:48 AM
Okay so I know I wrote something similar to this recently, but I'm absolutely shocked at how people judge others based on occupation.
I knew it happened, but I didn't know it was this bad! I guess I had more faith in humanity to not stereotype people and get to know them instead? Or at least to actively choose to have no opinion if you aren't willing to get to know them. I also have a knack for literally all gossip about myself getting back to me and some of it I'm like wtf lol. What is wrong with people?
I also have found that it makes people really uncomfortable when you change occupations because it basically tells the other person's narrow-minded brain that the personality narrative they created about you (largely based upon occupation aka adult work) was incorrect, and their ego can't handle it. So instead of acknowledging this and moving on, they decide to hate you for no reason instead.
Velveteen.Rabbit
05-03-2016, 11:53 AM
I honestly don't mind being in charge of the decision. If someone else wants to decide, cool, but if they truly don't care, fine, I will totally pick a place. Happy to. Just don't tell me that it's my responsibility to pick and then be a giant pain in the ass about everything I pick! Don't say you don't care if you clearly do...
Omg I hate that though! It depends on the person because some get pissy when they tell you to pick and it's something they don't like. And others really don't care. But too many of them secretly care and then act passive aggressive. This is a trait almost exclusive to women or effimimate men because I've encountered it hundreds of times but never will a non-effimimate man.
Genoveve
05-03-2016, 02:34 PM
I honestly don't mind being in charge of the decision. If someone else wants to decide, cool, but if they truly don't care, fine, I will totally pick a place. Happy to. Just don't tell me that it's my responsibility to pick and then be a giant pain in the ass about everything I pick! Don't say you don't care if you clearly do...
Heehee I feel bad, I was guilty of doing this to my ex all the time. I guess it's because I didn't know what I wanted, but I did know what I DIDN'T want. I don't do it now that I'm older and get that it annoys the shit out of basically everyone though.
My pissy annoyance is when people can't text in a paragraph and need to send a separate text for every sentence. It's mostly the noise of my phone going off a bunch of times in a row that drives me nuts though, maybe I should just keep my volume off.
lynn2009
05-03-2016, 02:51 PM
My pissy annoyance is when people can't text in a paragraph and need to send a separate text for every sentence. It's mostly the noise of my phone going off a bunch of times in a row that drives me nuts though, maybe I should just keep my volume off.
I got the app go SMS to prevent this. You can block whoever does this and it'll notify you when they send one message but not the pile that follows the first one.
Serena-Shields
05-03-2016, 02:55 PM
So my mother is moving back in four days from today.
AND SHE NEVER FUCKING TOLD ME.
She comes in today, tearing the house apart trying to move the bags and shit I have from renovating my room, complaining that they need to go away. I filed TEN of those giant bags re-doing my room, and I can only fit one in the garbage can (unless I have other garbage, then they don't fit at all) so I'm taking my sweet ass time throwing them out especially since it's only like...clothing and broken down boxes and not like a rotting bag of food.
What's her response to, say, FIVE bags in the living room and a plethora of amazon boxes from my brother?
''I'm going to be homeless, I can't live with these bags''
I told her to get the fuck over it, I'm working and she can complain later. I cannot stand my mother.
whirlerz
05-03-2016, 03:07 PM
Can u donate the clothes, to get rid of 'em? :)
Selina M
05-03-2016, 03:29 PM
Taking a final online, accidentally clicked a bookmarked tab, Blackboard locked me out and said I'd finished the exam. On the first question. Argh.
At least the TA isn't arguing about resetting it *thumbs up*
Tsepmet1
05-03-2016, 04:58 PM
"Click here for models similar to the current model"
BULLSHIT. I AM PERFECTION AND NO ONE COMPARES.
Aurora_Sunset
05-03-2016, 08:37 PM
I assume I must be PMSing because the rage I feel for the fact that three separate obstacles prevented me from getting a Coke, which is all I've been craving all damn day, is completely out of proportion with the severity of the situation. (I ended up with Pepsi. I didn't fucking WANT Pepsi.) #firstworldwomanlyproblems
Selina M
05-04-2016, 01:29 AM
I am just DONE with today. Just spent 1.5 hours putting together a bookcase, and then (I think this is what happened) the screws just snapped off inside part of it. I suppose that's what I get for a $25 bookcase from Target, but still, argh.
miss.a.p1600
05-04-2016, 06:16 AM
I assume I must be PMSing because the rage I feel for the fact that three separate obstacles prevented me from getting a Coke, which is all I've been craving all damn day, is completely out of proportion with the severity of the situation. (I ended up with Pepsi. I didn't fucking WANT Pepsi.) #firstworldwomanlyproblems
I made a thread a few weeks ago about how I was craving coke lol! I feel your pain cause Pepsi is just not as good. I quit drinking cokes for years but when I wanted one I had to have it. Sadly I end up bingeing and drinking coke for days but I'm back to water and tea and coffee now.
I'd be a full on addict if coke had cocaine in it like the old days.
Aurora_Sunset
05-04-2016, 08:11 AM
I made a thread a few weeks ago about how I was craving coke lol! I feel your pain cause Pepsi is just not as good. I quit drinking comes for years but when I wanted one I had to have it. Sadly I end up bingeing and drinking coke for days but I'm back to water and tea and coffee now.
I'd be a full on addict if coke had cocaine in it like the old days.
Right!? I rarely drink soda anymore either. I avoid having it in the house. If I want it that badly, I have to make myself go out and buy a single one. But when I crave Coke, I crave it until I get one.
whirlerz
05-04-2016, 09:22 AM
Well, where do I start? The front desk called me, they're (the town I'm in) are doing room inspections..so I was trying to straighten up a bit, my room's not bad really tho. I had these 3 little containers of creamer for the coffee, & I put them down somewhere & now Idk where, ugh.
Also, they're all busy now, so the coffee's not out yet, that I want to have to eat w/my danish.
I need to get my ass up & out to go to my storage, instead of eyeballing Bebe (just bought a top from there recently btw) & tumblr.
I'm drinking an awful green juice to punish myself & be healthy. :)
miss.a.p1600
05-04-2016, 09:25 AM
^^^why does it have to taste awful and punish you? Can you blend in some fruit/fruit juice with your green juice?
My petty annoyance is mothers day is coming up and I do not feel like hanging out with extended family members. *sigh* I must be the worlds worst family member but I don't like family events that I feel obligated to go to.....................