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whirlerz
05-04-2016, 09:53 AM
Well, it's low sugar for one, it's vitamin rich (so the label says) Trying to keep the sugar level down somewhat
Also, adding to my list, I need to go get money orders for bills

baer45
05-04-2016, 11:08 AM
Couple of days ago someone rear-end my Nissan Murano. Today I received a call from the repair shop and told me they have my insurance company's approval and ready to put on the new "after-market bumper" and some other parts. I had trouble to understand why they only use after-market bumper in this case. The price difference between OEM and after-market parts is only $80. I request them to put my car repair on hold.

I went online and found out that according to state "Consumer Affairs and Business Regulation" part 5,
If the repair of the damaged part impairs the operational safety of the auto, the insurance company will pay to replace it with an OEM part. For non-safety parts, unless your claim occurs during the first 20,000 miles on the auto's odometer, you are not entitled to OEM parts. For autos with more than 20,000 miles, state regulation allows for the replacement of damaged parts with used, reconditioned or after-market parts. You can insist on OEM parts, but you will have to pay the difference in cost.

I also found out the "FEDERAL MOTOR VEHICLE SAFETY STANDARDS AND REGULATIONS" identifies bumper is part of the safety standard.

Then I called my insurance adjuster and told him about my findings. He first claimed that the insurance principle is to restore my cars’ before accident condition and not to make it better. But I had OEM part before and I don't want aftermarket part. I asked him to approve my car would be $80 better with the oem installed and request a federal vehicle document to show the after-market part is exactly the same as oem parts. I also asked him to locate the part on my policy which goes against my state Consumer Affairs and Business Regulation. (Unless a bumper is not operational safety part... ) Well, he said he’s busy at the time and will get back to me on that. Ya, right…

Yes, at the end I got him to approve the expense of an OEM bumper. But boy, insurance company certainly tried to pull a fast one on me.

Tsepmet1
05-04-2016, 02:58 PM
I got purse shamed today. WTF? How is this a thing? It's a clean, leather, well-made purse by a well-known designer... it's just not a $1500 bag.

I never saw the point. I buy a nicely constructed bag made of nice leather, that I like, will be able to match my outfits and isn't trendy (so I can carry it year round). I then carry it until I see no more use to carry it. I'm not into buying a new designer bag every season. Some people do, and that's cool, do yo thang, but really?

I just don't need this right now. It's like big things are piling on top of small things and I feel like I'll explode.

The worst of it was that I was at the salon because I thought I might do something nice for myself after everything I've been through lately. It's just a fucking purse and I only carry the damn thing because where else am I going to put my umbrella and panic medication. :(

whirlerz
05-04-2016, 03:18 PM
I got purse shamed today. WTF? How is this a thing? It's a clean, leather, well-made purse by a well-known designer... it's just not a $1500 bag.

I never saw the point. I buy a nicely constructed bag made of nice leather, that I like, will be able to match my outfits and isn't trendy (so I can carry it year round). I then carry it until I see no more use to carry it. I'm not into buying a new designer bag every season. Some people do, and that's cool, do yo thang, but really?

I just don't need this right now. It's like big things are piling on top of small things and I feel like I'll explode.

The worst of it was that I was at the salon because I thought I might do something nice for myself after everything I've been through lately. It's just a fucking purse and I only carry the damn thing because where else am I going to put my umbrella and panic medication. :(

Aww, FUCK THEM!^ I'm the same way, actually, I don't even carry leather anymore..I have a large (tote really) blk purse, it has umbrella pockets & yea I carry a lot of stuff. I also recently bought a bucket style bag, I really like those too (non leather also). I got a fake fur keychain (I don't believe in real fur). Purse snobbery, lmao, people don't have better things to do? I think those Chanel purses are ugly af, I don't care how much they cost. Btw, in the cheapie clothing store I shop (where I bought above purses) I see a fair amt of women that look/dress upscale, have fancy purses & drive nice cars so..

Also..I go in this little record store, they have these free monthly music news mags..I guess the owner doesn't like me, or the fact that I don't/haven't bought anything, but he has such an asshole attitude. I said hi to him twice, & he didn't say a word. Fuck him too. I like his little white scottie (which needs grooming) way better than him, but didn't see the dog today.

Tsepmet1
05-04-2016, 03:21 PM
Aww, FUCK THEM!^ I'm the same way, actually, I don't even carry leather anymore..I have a large (tote really) blk purse, it has umbrella pockets & yea I carry a lot of stuff. I also recently bought a bucket style bag, I really like those too (non leather also). I got a fake fur keychain (I don't believe in real fur). Purse snobbery, lmao, people don't have better things to do? Btw, in the cheapie clothing store I shop (where I bought above purses) I see a fair amt of women that look/dress upscale, have fancy purses & drive nice cars so..

Maybe I'm overreacting. I just really wanted to feel special and spoiled since I've been so fragile and broken lately. The whole appointment was a mess (the service turned out great, but the technicians were bitches), and why purse shame me when I just spent an ungodly amount of money on something ridiculous and tipped you really well?

I know. I just need to let it go. *breathing exercises*

carmen_b
05-04-2016, 04:13 PM
I'm annoyed with myself.
I had this idea to get " caught up " with errands at work and life and then I got a call for a last minute job at work and of course took it , billed it at regular rate like a dumb ass.
Now .... Knee deep into the job .... obviously we should charging a short notice premium. It is obvious beyond obvious now.
I feel like I undercharged by 20% .
Lesson learned. The speed needed deserves a premium.

whirlerz
05-04-2016, 04:24 PM
Maybe I'm overreacting. I just really wanted to feel special and spoiled since I've been so fragile and broken lately. The whole appointment was a mess (the service turned out great, but the technicians were bitches), and why purse shame me when I just spent an ungodly amount of money on something ridiculous and tipped you really well?

I know. I just need to let it go. *breathing exercises*

Naw, I wouldn't have tip well @ all, that freakin' rude! & they work there? I thought it was some B's that were customers. To me, that's personal insecurity, you gotta carry a certain purse, F that.

Elektra Luxx
05-04-2016, 04:58 PM
I got purse shamed today. WTF? How is this a thing? It's a clean, leather, well-made purse by a well-known designer... it's just not a $1500 bag.

I never saw the point. I buy a nicely constructed bag made of nice leather, that I like, will be able to match my outfits and isn't trendy (so I can carry it year round). I then carry it until I see no more use to carry it. I'm not into buying a new designer bag every season. Some people do, and that's cool, do yo thang, but really?

I have a couple of designer purses, but I got them as gifts. I don't see the point either. Of course, some people don't see the purpose of buying high-end computer parts like I do.

whirlerz
05-04-2016, 05:06 PM
I have a couple of designer purses, but I got them as gifts. I don't see the point either. Of course, some people don't see the purpose of buying high-end computer parts like I do.

Well, now that's something that's important tho!^

Here's something else: Again, I got denied for my prescription claim. I didn't even read the letters, I don't wanna hear it. Insurance co.'s suck, & drug co's are thieves. So there.

Elektra Luxx
05-04-2016, 05:12 PM
I made a thread a few weeks ago about how I was craving coke lol! I feel your pain cause Pepsi is just not as good. I quit drinking cokes for years but when I wanted one I had to have it. Sadly I end up bingeing and drinking coke for days but I'm back to water and tea and coffee now.

I'd be a full on addict if coke had cocaine in it like the old days.


Right!? I rarely drink soda anymore either. I avoid having it in the house. If I want it that badly, I have to make myself go out and buy a single one. But when I crave Coke, I crave it until I get one.

Oh god, I love Coke!!! I could drink Coke everyday. I can't keep sodas in the house. If it's around I will drink it. I got a Soda Stream just to make fizzy water and I dilute regular Coke by half (sometimes by just a third) and it still tastes good to me. As a treat, I'll slowly drink a cold Coke with lots of ice.

But if you watch your weight, stay away from Sodas or any high sugar drinks.

baer45
05-04-2016, 06:43 PM
I have a couple of designer purses, but I got them as gifts. I don't see the point either. Of course, some people don't see the purpose of buying high-end computer parts like I do.

I have two hermes bags. I don't use them too often. One of them is locked in my gun safe.

baer45
05-04-2016, 06:45 PM
Oh god, I love Coke!!! .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lypj5YO-Irc

miss.a.p1600
05-04-2016, 07:06 PM
Well, it's low sugar for one, it's vitamin rich (so the label says) Trying to keep the sugar level down somewhat
Also, adding to my list, I need to go get money orders for bills

Well if you ever change your mind, just know if you have sugar, the sugar from fruit is better for your health than the refined table sugar. And you could even try fruits / juices with low sugar (http://www.healthextremist.com/10-low-sugar-fruits-you-shouldnt-go-without/) that have less than 12 grams of sugar (like papayas, kiwi, guava, blueberries, etc.)

My petty annoyance is that its freaking cold in May. WTF?!?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lypj5YO-Irc

Bahaha baer, I posted that video a while back when electra inquired about 'cocaine' ---- that song pretty much sums it up (and makes me laugh while I'm bouncing to the beat)


But if you watch your weight, stay away from Sodas or any high sugar drinks. Yes! The 16 oz. has 52 grams of sugar! This is white processed sugar - the worst kind. So definitely drink in moderation.

Elektra Luxx
05-04-2016, 07:54 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lypj5YO-Irc

Unfortunately, I was in a self-destructive frame of mind and I did "coke" twice to excess.

baer45
05-05-2016, 08:38 AM
Was I dreamming or not? I swear miss.a.p had replied to Elx and stated we all had some sort of risky experiments when we were young. And I agreed with her. Weird, it's gone.

Velveteen.Rabbit
05-05-2016, 11:27 AM
I got purse shamed today. WTF? How is this a thing? It's a clean, leather, well-made purse by a well-known designer... it's just not a $1500 bag.

I never saw the point. I buy a nicely constructed bag made of nice leather, that I like, will be able to match my outfits and isn't trendy (so I can carry it year round). I then carry it until I see no more use to carry it. I'm not into buying a new designer bag every season. Some people do, and that's cool, do yo thang, but really?

I just don't need this right now. It's like big things are piling on top of small things and I feel like I'll explode.

The worst of it was that I was at the salon because I thought I might do something nice for myself after everything I've been through lately. It's just a fucking purse and I only carry the damn thing because where else am I going to put my umbrella and panic medication. :(

People are so dumb. Also, you can buy vintage designer bags for like $50-$100 so how is it even a status symbol lol. I can't with people's brains. I'd rather invest $1500 in books or traveling than a mediocre overpriced purse everyone has.

KaraLynn
05-05-2016, 11:38 AM
All of them.

Elektra Luxx
05-05-2016, 01:27 PM
I have two hermes bags. I don't use them too often. One of them is locked in my gun safe.

OMG!!!!!! I just looked up Hermes Bags. $21,000.00 for a purse!!!!!!! Why?!!!!! That's more than what I'm paying for my car!!!!

carmen_b
05-05-2016, 01:43 PM
TS :
Was it salon staff doing the shaming ?
If so, I would have asked for a manager and said LOUDLY how I was really looking forward to this visit / was now uncomfortable ect. Ect.

miss.a.p1600
05-05-2016, 03:05 PM
Was I dreamming or not? I swear miss.a.p had replied to Elx and stated we all had some sort of risky experiments when we were young. And I agreed with her. Weird, it's gone.

I did say that. I deleted cause I'm indecisive sometimes. Basically like I'm sure a good majority of people have experimented - especially young people bc when you're young you can afford to learn by trial and error.

And elektra was wise to stay in control and not let external things like 'cocaine' completely take over ones life.

baer45
05-05-2016, 03:17 PM
OMG!!!!!! I just looked up Hermes Bags. $21,000.00 for a purse!!!!!!! Why?!!!!! That's more than what I'm paying for my car!!!!

;D it's rich people's toy. The one I stored in my gun safe is a hermes Etoupe kelly 35cm. it's pretty but I don' t get to use it at all (twice maybe). I bought it from a client. His wife has 14 hermes bags and she already has the same bag /same color. He showed me the receipt and everything. it was purchased in new york a year ago (2013) but it's never been used. The receipt showed $9k+, I bought it for $4k. Someone in purse forum told me that bag's value has already increased by 10%-15%. ;D

baer45
05-05-2016, 03:20 PM
I did say that. I deleted cause I'm indecisive sometimes. Basically like I'm sure a good majority of people have experimented - especially young people bc when you're young you can afford to learn by trial and error.

And elektra was wise to stay in control and not let external things like 'cocaine' completely take over ones life.

Oh good, I was afraid I have alzheimer's disease ;D

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-05-2016, 03:35 PM
Okay so I know I wrote something similar to this recently, but I'm absolutely shocked at how people judge others based on occupation.
I knew it happened, but I didn't know it was this bad! I guess I had more faith in humanity to not stereotype people and get to know them instead? Or at least to actively choose to have no opinion if you aren't willing to get to know them. I also have a knack for literally all gossip about myself getting back to me and some of it I'm like wtf lol. What is wrong with people?

I also have found that it makes people really uncomfortable when you change occupations because it basically tells the other person's narrow-minded brain that the personality narrative they created about you (largely based upon occupation aka adult work) was incorrect, and their ego can't handle it. So instead of acknowledging this and moving on, they decide to hate you for no reason instead.

lol in my family the motto for this is "Not everyone can be a winner."

SnuffleUffleGrass
05-05-2016, 04:46 PM
People are so dumb. Also, you can buy vintage designer bags for like $50-$100 so how is it even a status symbol lol. I can't with people's brains. I'd rather invest $1500 in books or traveling than a mediocre overpriced purse everyone has.

I got most of my pricey bags 2ndhand. I do love my Coach tote. (I'm the same person who accidentally put $800 cash through the wash so yeah having a secure bag to put my pay in is very very meaningful.)

Genoveve
05-05-2016, 06:17 PM
I think I may be the only person who loves Coke and Pepsi equally. And I grew up in a household where we were only allowed to have Pepsi stocked(Dad was a Pepsi ADDICT).

My pissy annoyance is gross food. I had a sandwich at Starbucks the other day because a friend told me it was amazing and it was disgusting, which is my fault because I know Starbucks isn't exactly known for its food. Then today I got some cannolis from an Italian place that I was next to out of desperation and not only were the cannolis not good, which I was expecting because I have yet to find good cannolis in SoCal, but they were so bad that I ate one and threw the rest away. I have a HUGE sweet tooth and will chow down on even the shittiest desserts so if I put a pastry in the trash you know it's BAD. The filling had NO flavor. Wtf???

Aurora_Sunset
05-05-2016, 07:14 PM
Ordered a customized Mother's Day song/video off fiverr, and am extremely disappointed. Not only is the video super out of sync with the audio, but I specifically paid extra for the ability to send them 5 pictures that I wanted included in the video - he didn't even acknowledge that, just made the video without them. So I paid for an extra service that I didn't receive. He also delivers the "customized message," which I obviously meant to be said in a upbeat voice, in a really inappropriate tone and it just comes off super awkward.

I know it's not like things off fiverr are super expensive so thankfully I didn't waste a ton of money on this customized gift, but still... This seller has 100% 5 star ratings too, so... wtf?

Elektra Luxx
05-05-2016, 07:51 PM
;D it's rich people's toy. The one I stored in my gun safe is a hermes Etoupe kelly 35cm. it's pretty but I don' t get to use it at all (twice maybe). I bought it from a client. His wife has 14 hermes bags and she already has the same bag /same color. He showed me the receipt and everything. it was purchased in new york a year ago (2013) but it's never been used. The receipt showed $9k+, I bought it for $4k. Someone in purse forum told me that bag's value has already increased by 10%-15%. ;D

I have an MK purse that's maybe $350.00 and I thought it was a status symbol. Pfft.

Elektra Luxx
05-05-2016, 07:55 PM
I can't stand grocery store stalkers. I was shopping for a few things and I kept running in to the same 3 guys in every aisle.

baer45
05-05-2016, 08:06 PM
I an MK purse that's maybe $350.00 and I thought it was a status symbol. Pfft.

Use hermes bags as Status symbol is a stupid concept. Most people won't recognize hermes bag not to mention its price. Those bags are pretty and they worth a lot when the demand is high. The price is ridiculous for what it was made from. I bought it because I was stupid and impulsive. Now, I am keeping it because the price is raising. I could sell it any day for more than double of what I paid.

thatgingercamgirl
05-05-2016, 09:39 PM
I can't stand grocery store stalkers. I was shopping for a few things and I kept running in to the same 3 guys in every aisle.

I really don't understand why guys seem to think that grocery stores are a great place to hit on/stalk women. I hate shopping, I have my best bitch face on, so why the eff are you following me? I swear it happens more in grocery stores than anywhere else for me.

BabyWillow
05-06-2016, 12:13 AM
Someone stole all my plants. Over 100 worth of them from outside my apartment. :,( was going to take them to my parents tomorrow <\3

Aurora_Sunset
05-06-2016, 06:31 AM
Any sort of male (or sometimes, female) response to my disinterest in their sexual advances with a condescending proclamation that I'm "shy."

Friend of friend on facebook trying to randomly talk dirty to me: *I don't respond*
"Awww, you're so shy! It's adorable."

Client: "Send more pictures."
"I don't have any more other than what's online."
"Take one for me? lol"
"No, sorry, I don't do that."
"Aww, no need to be shy! I don't care if you don't have makeup or anything right now."

Female strip club patron: *pulls out her tits without asking* "Come on! Feel them!"
"No thanks."
"Awww, you're so SHY! AHAHAHA"

Random fuckboi: "Wanna go back to my place?"
"No thanks."
"Aww, you shy!"
"No, not shy, just don't think it's appropriate right now."
"Aw, it's ok! You so shy, you so shy. It's alright."

NO. I am not shy - I am UNCOMFORTABLE WITH YOUR SEXUAL ADVANCES AND DISREGARD FOR MY PERSONAL BOUNDARIES. Can people just not fucking comprehend that level? If I made it explicitly clear in a blunt way, I'd be accused of being a bitch. But being straightforward without the bitchy tone or expletives apparently = shy....

Men: "Why don't women just say what they mean?"
We do - you just apparently can't process words that you weren't wanting to hear, so you make up your own fucking translations.

JGB2009
05-06-2016, 01:23 PM
I can't stand grocery store stalkers. I was shopping for a few things and I kept running in to the same 3 guys in every aisle.

Reminds me of yesterday when I wanted to go in the store but I refused to go inside because the weirdo inside the store kept breaking his neck to look at me while I was my car. Needless to say no one got my business. That put me in such a bad mood. Such rudeness!!!!!

ScarletKitten
05-06-2016, 01:54 PM
Any sort of male (or sometimes, female) response to my disinterest in their sexual advances with a condescending proclamation that I'm "shy."

Friend of friend on facebook trying to randomly talk dirty to me: *I don't respond*
"Awww, you're so shy! It's adorable."

Client: "Send more pictures."
"I don't have any more other than what's online."
"Take one for me? lol"
"No, sorry, I don't do that."
"Aww, no need to be shy! I don't care if you don't have makeup or anything right now."

Female strip club patron: *pulls out her tits without asking* "Come on! Feel them!"
"No thanks."
"Awww, you're so SHY! AHAHAHA"

Random fuckboi: "Wanna go back to my place?"
"No thanks."
"Aww, you shy!"
"No, not shy, just don't think it's appropriate right now."
"Aw, it's ok! You so shy, you so shy. It's alright."

NO. I am not shy - I am UNCOMFORTABLE WITH YOUR SEXUAL ADVANCES AND DISREGARD FOR MY PERSONAL BOUNDARIES. Can people just not fucking comprehend that level? If I made it explicitly clear in a blunt way, I'd be accused of being a bitch. But being straightforward without the bitchy tone or expletives apparently = shy....

Men: "Why don't women just say what they mean?"
We do - you just apparently can't process words that you weren't wanting to hear, so you make up your own fucking translations.

EXACTLY. Girl, preach. I am annoyed by this bullshit too. That is why I would rather just be a bitch now and say, "No douchebag, I ain't shy. I just don't wanna fuck you."

hahahahahaha. Gotta put these men in their damn places. My days of being nice to men like that are over.

whirlerz
05-06-2016, 03:47 PM
I saw the mgr's hubs of a place I'd prev [email protected] love their dog & she loves me too
I ask him about her,he said to come bk in about 20 - 30 min, I come bk & he just brought her in..he goes,"sorry"? Wtf , he couldn't bring the damn dog out for 5 min so I could play w/her & give her her cookie I bought? So pissed :(

Selina M
05-06-2016, 07:04 PM
Ummmmmm how can you post final grades without putting the final exam scores online? Everyone in this class is complaining that they scored well on the final but it's not reflecting in their posted grades. I'm not happy about this.

Cashmere Star
05-07-2016, 11:07 PM
Two more weeks before finals is over. I miss stripping. I can't wait to go back to stripping.

Aurora_Sunset
05-08-2016, 06:42 AM
I almost put this in confessions because I'm not angry about it, but I do realize it's very petty, so...

It kinda hurts my feelings to be left out of my friend's family's accomplishments and celebrations when I was a big contributing factor to them. I've loaned them thousands of dollars to avoid eviction (money that they weren't even comfortable asking from family that's better off than me), I took a week off and paid for half the trip to visit her husband when he graduated in another state and they were low on money, and I've given many hours and multiple days a week to free babysitting for the past year so that she could finish classes and finally graduate college when they stopped being able to afford a babysitter. Obviously, I didn't do all these things so I could win a medal or be showered with praise, but... when it comes time to take graduation pictures... is it silly to be hurt that I stand off to the side while they do multiple combinations of every other family picture and I'm not asked to be in one as a good friend? I know I'm not "family," but considering that I've given more time, energy, and money than a lot of their actual family members to help them stay afloat and accomplish these big goals... I feel... used?... not even being acknowledged.

As though, if I wasn't a single sex worker who was able to pretzel my life and finances around to help them out the past year, I wouldn't even have had any utility to them as a friend... Yes, I realize that ultimately graduation was their struggle and accomplishment, and I'm proud of them. But is it silly to feel bad when they bring me along to these events just to help them out with the logistics, and then take all these pictures with everyone else but me and then post "thank you to my family for being so wonderful and supportive through these tough times"? Like, you can't even throw the words "and friends" in there after family and include me in a single picture as though I was a part of the process (because I very much was)?

I know it's not about me. Which is why I would never say anything. But it makes me feel used, unappreciated, and sad. Like... I don't have my own family to support so I kinda adopted/was adopted into theirs and put just as much effort and sacrifice as any relative... but then I'm still not really a part of anything.

miss.a.p1600
05-08-2016, 07:02 AM
^^^^Damn that's messed up. Hopefully they just weren't thinking clearly and not intentionally trying to exclude you. But you know what they say - when you loan money often times it's more like a monetary gift because very few people actually pay back their family and friends. I would have just boldly and loudly been like "alright now let's get a pic with everyone!" And handed the camera to a third party while I jumped in.

*sigh* I woke up ready to f*ck but I have no one worthy of f*cking right now. And the person that instantly came to mind was the douchebag ex. Ugh! Why must I mentally torture myself thinking about him sexually? I need a new object of affection and I really need to end this celibacy. Almost make me want to set myself up as a sugar baby or escort so I can play and get paid.

Aurora_Sunset
05-08-2016, 07:18 AM
^^^^Damn that's messed up. Hopefully they just weren't thinking clearly and not intentionally trying to exclude you.

Yeah, I mean, I don't think it was intentional. I'm also no stranger to the psychology behind people no longer wanting to associate with the help/people they received when they were down on their luck once they're doing better again, because it makes them feel bad and they don't want to be reminded of it. I think it's more just a subconscious thing of "I accomplished this thing and don't want to remember that it wouldn't have happened without other people 'taking pity on me'." Or something like that. It's crappy, but I've seen it happen a lot, and I... "get it," I guess.

miss.a.p1600
05-08-2016, 08:17 AM
Interesting point of view now I don't think I would have said much (at least not at that moment) if I were you in that situation then.

I just realized I have another petty annoyance. Well I should be grateful on Mother's Day but I am not. I feel like I have to mingle with my extended family members and they're going to be trying to analyze me and maybe drill me with questions as to why I don't spend a lot of time with them or communicate with them as much. Now I'm going to have to be fake. I would rather not hang out with these people. I hope they act normal and don't annoy me.

Vyanka
05-08-2016, 09:47 PM
I'm so upset some little asshole jerk bullied my 11 yr old niece at school and made her cry. This little twerp's parents better teach him how to respect ppl, especially females. My niece has an exotic look, so he called her a black bitch. He didn't get any type of punishment in school either. Like wtf. My brother had to go to the school and INSISTED that child needed some punishment. He got suspended. Yay.

I can only imagine things like this getting worse if the orange one gets elected, bc putting down minorities and women is ok. I'm afraid if this assholes wins too. Sorry about the minor political poo, but it is just a scary thought.

Elektra Luxx
05-08-2016, 10:01 PM
I can only imagine things like this getting worse if the orange one gets elected, bc putting down minorities is ok.

"The orange one?" Trump?

Vyanka
05-08-2016, 10:06 PM
"The orange one?" Trump?

None other than...

Velveteen.Rabbit
05-08-2016, 11:16 PM
My eyes are so dry for no reason.

ScarletKitten
05-09-2016, 12:47 AM
UGH. I just can't with men anymore.

Aurora_Sunset
05-09-2016, 05:38 AM
Getting real tired of chasing my voice teacher around, and I haven't even started lessons yet. It took me a month (after already paying the site she works through) to get ahold of her to even start scheduling. When I picked a day and time that was free on the calendar she sent me, she was like "Well, I do work another job where the hours change sometimes, so I'll let you know before the weekend if next Tuesday will work or not."

Hello, Monday morning and no confirmation...

Sure I can always email her again, but it's really obnoxious and unprofessional to have to chase around the person you're paying. I used to have to do the same thing for sometimes months with my old hairdresser.

miss.a.p1600
05-09-2016, 05:56 AM
Sometimes I feel really lazy like I don't feel like doing anything but staying in bed, reading, eating and watching reality shows when I should be hustling/working or maybe even dating.

BabyWillow
05-09-2016, 06:35 AM
My eyes are so dry for no reason.

Mine are too because the Canadian wildfires' smoke is traveling all the way down through the Midwest! Our graduation was outside and my eyes were watering so bad everyone thought I was just really emotional about graduating haha

Glamourmilf
05-09-2016, 08:58 AM
I'm so upset some little asshole jerk bullied my 11 yr old niece at school and made her cry. This little twerp's parents better teach him how to respect ppl, especially females. My niece has an exotic look, so he called her a black bitch. He didn't get any type of punishment in school either. Like wtf. My brother had to go to the school and INSISTED that child needed some punishment. He got suspended. Yay.

I can only imagine things like this getting worse if the orange one gets elected, bc putting down minorities and women is ok. I'm afraid if this assholes wins too. Sorry about the minor political poo, but it is just a scary thought.

Lol at " the orange one"!
I fear for all women should he be elected.
#GlamIsGettingAPassport just in case.