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miss.a.p1600
06-12-2016, 02:44 PM
Sales people asking "can I help you with anything"?

I wish I can say "as a matter of fact, no you cannot because I just want to shop in peace and quiet without you eyeballing me and mentally stalking me around the store. if I want your help I'll signal you over or ask."

miss.a.p1600
06-13-2016, 01:09 PM
Made a mistake and came to get license plate renewed mid afternoon. FML. Line long as f*ck and why are there 5 employees but only 3 of them working?!? Why are people talking so [email protected] loud and asking all these mf'ing questions holding up the lines? Ask your questions by phone before you come in then when you're at the counter, just pay and leave ...... Fuuuuuuuck! Should have did this sh*t online.

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-13-2016, 01:26 PM
Day 13 of being on antibiotics lol

Aurora_Sunset
06-13-2016, 07:41 PM
Sitting at bar by myself, waiting for my friend, this dude just came up to me and his pickup line was pointing at the floor and saying "Hey, you dropped your smile."

Ok, points for having a new spin on the same shit, but really, douche? I literally had my phone right in front of me, obviously texting. The fuck am I supposed to be smiling at?

Genoveve
06-13-2016, 07:53 PM
^^OMGGGGGGGGG. I'm working on being a better person..........but I think I would have gone Naomi and thrown my phone at him.

miss.a.p1600
06-13-2016, 08:31 PM
Sitting at bar by myself, waiting for my friend, this dude just came up to me and his pickup line was pointing at the floor and saying "Hey, you dropped your smile."

Ok, points for having a new spin on the same shit, but really, douche? I literally had my phone right in front of me, obviously texting. The fuck am I supposed to be smiling at?

Lol!!! People kill me cause they'll be like you need to "smile" and I want to be like how psychotic would I look walking around smiling all [email protected] day? So I give a fake smile just so they'll stfu.

On another note that's cool you went to the bar solo before your friend got there. I need to meet more eligible men, or heck maybe even women, because seem to have lost my female cajones. I'm just going to do it though. I'm gonna spruce up and head to an upscale bar/lounge and discreetly hustle for a sugar daddy. If that doesn't work I'll try an upcoming upscale gala/event.

Which brings me to my next annoyance, I am in need of male affection and even some d*ck so I can finally end this celibacy..........but ain't a d*ck in sight

*sigh*

carmen_b
06-14-2016, 12:14 AM
^ It'll work ! Just attend high end events and it'll cut out a bunch of weirdos and basically screen for you. :)

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-14-2016, 09:15 AM
Okay I am annoyed at how liberally people throw around the word "friend" in big cities. People throw around everything very liberally in big cities and take absolutely nothing serious TBH now that I think about it. But anyway, and you hung out twice at a show and talked for 6 minutes, added each other on Facebook, and now you named drop them in person as your "friend" at least twice a week.

I mean I guess you can call that a friend, but isnt that more like someone you haven't been around enough to even call an acquaintance yet? Am I missing something?

I swear the meanings of words have changed in the span of like 5 years. No one takes anything seriously anymore and you can even give yourself a career title now without even actually doing it and people don't question it. What a weird, weird world.

LilLadyLux
06-14-2016, 10:29 AM
Fuck that guy. The only "poor male behavior" I see is guys thinking that a woman's delicate sexuality defines her value in a relationship. If my body is the only thing that's "special" to someone in a relationship, they're the worst kind of man and can take a hike.

Personally, I feel that sex in my personal life is far more special because of the fact that I've done it professionally. If everyone else has to pay to play and only gets the "fake persona," wouldn't that make you feel more special that I'm willing to sleep with you for free, just because I like you, and *most of all* that you get to see my real personality. My vagina is not the special part of a relationship - that's beyond insulting. Being willing to be real with someone when everyone else gets the purely physical act - that's special.

I think tool-boy is the one who doesn't understand what makes relationships special.

This well be my response if I'm ever presented with that bull again. Written soo succinctly!!

Vyanka
06-14-2016, 11:15 AM
I'm getting tired of stupid customers telling me i look like gf material. I'm going to have to trashy up my look a bit. Do not want to resemble a fkn gf/housewife itc. Lol. Wtf man. Not too much, bc I do get lucky w older clientele who love my look. I already fake tan. I need to find good clip in extensions and maybe put in lip filler, and get long fake nails. Idk what else to do to NOT look like a girl you want to bring home to mom. Ugh. No.

Aurora_Sunset
06-15-2016, 05:30 AM
At the very beginning of the month, a friend asked to borrow several hundred dollars, which I agreed to under the condition that she could pay me back by June 15th (today). She originally said she could pay me back by the 10th, then changed to saying that she'd talked to her mom who was just going to send me a check for the money right away so I would have it sooner and she would just pay her mom back later. Gave her my address to text to her mom right away. Great.

All week long, I've been checking... no check in the mail. It's not like I absolutely need it, but yes, it would be helpful for the next week or two after I pay taxes today. Early this morning, I got a text from my friend, "I'm sorry, I thought my mom had already mailed the check. I can transfer the money today if you need."

I'm not mad at her. But wtf is up with her mom? Why hasn't she even mailed the damn thing yet, considering the fact that she was supposed to do so 2 fucking weeks ago?

kaninchen
06-15-2016, 02:36 PM
I've been so angry about Orlando and I've been dealing with it by over-exercising. Now I'm extremely sore everywhere and I think I hurt my calf by doing 100 flights on the stairmaster three days in a row. I wish I were better at managing my emotions.

baer45
06-16-2016, 12:36 PM
Gloomy weather in Venice.

chanzep
06-16-2016, 05:04 PM
I hate the fact that my cow workers are trying to be competitive at my vanilla job its weird we get paid hourly and the politics too its such a waste of energy to me, plus they worked there for years and aint managers, I wouldn't even want to work my way up its just more hassle for a dollar more, I cant wait to go to school and have a focus, gonna waitress again too.

whirlerz
06-17-2016, 11:23 AM
It was glommy here yesterday, but a welcome relief frm the heat.

Well. I'm [email protected] myself really..after swearing off talking to my 'neighbor' I started bk talking him like a complete jackass..
I was just trying to help & be nice, & he quickly escalated to screaming @ me. >:(I know he"s got some mental /physical issues but I don't need his or any BS. So, I got an extra pr headphones, gonna utilze the 1 cup coffee mkr I have as well as the bk entrance to avoid his ass.
Fuck all that, seriously!

whirlerz
06-17-2016, 01:33 PM
Yea, on top of rhat^, almost had a serious accident, as some Ahole decided to stop across 3 lanes of traffic on a very busy st. Almost had a heart attack!

DonaDiabla
06-17-2016, 01:43 PM
Guys who want me to dominated them for free ;) Get a lifestyle domme for that.

Nyla19
06-17-2016, 03:18 PM
I rarely beep where I live but 2 different terrible drivers pulled out ahead of me about an hour apart. I beeped at both because I almost plowed into both of them. And the second was a guy and he gave me the finger. Even though he almost caused a huge accident and so I beeped at him because I had to slam on my brakes. The worst drivers ever now!

whirlerz
06-17-2016, 03:27 PM
Yea. ^ Must be the full moon, I mean, I came down rhis one busy st past the airport , felt like I was in a Mad Max road fuckin' rally :(>:(

rareaspasia
06-17-2016, 05:04 PM
I have a coworker who is totally attention whoring over the shootings here. She manages to make every conversion about her to the point of interrupting me when I was trying to ask someone how one of the survivors i know was doing to talk about herself and it's like, you don't even know him! I fucking want to slap her.

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-17-2016, 09:11 PM
Sales people asking "can I help you with anything"?

I wish I can say "as a matter of fact, no you cannot because I just want to shop in peace and quiet without you eyeballing me and mentally stalking me around the store. if I want your help I'll signal you over or ask."
I actually avoid some stores where they act like this. I just like to be anonymous and I hate attention

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-17-2016, 09:13 PM
I have a coworker who is totally attention whoring over the shootings here. She manages to make every conversion about her to the point of interrupting me when I was trying to ask someone how one of the survivors i know was doing to talk about herself and it's like, you don't even know him! I fucking want to slap her.

This is my ultimate pet peeve. I can't stand the narcissists and histrionics that need everything to be all about them. I've seen those types literally interrupt people telling a story only to tell a nearly identical story but in a way where they assume theirs is far more important or relevant. Hate it

rareaspasia
06-18-2016, 12:30 AM
This is my ultimate pet peeve. I can't stand the narcissists and histrionics that need everything to be all about them. I've seen those types literally interrupt people telling a story only to tell a nearly identical story but in a way where they assume theirs is far more important or relevant. Hate it

Yessssss. That is exactly what she does. I secretly hate her so much because she's like that all the time but she has no clue because I'm her manager and I'm too professional to show it. She's just an awful fucking person. She also tries to tell me how to my job which is ludicrous, like, you fucking managed an at&t store for a little while and you are unbelieveably lazy while I have ten years of experience in our industry as well as 6 years of supervising experience in that same industry but you know how to do my job better? And everyone likes working with me but thinks you're incompetent and annoying because you never shut up and are amazingly self centered? Please, bitch, please. Get the fuck out of here with your dumb ass.

Selina M
06-18-2016, 04:58 AM
I am REALLY trying to be cool about him having friends for the first time in 5 years but I'm starting to hate this kid my bf is hanging out with. This kid is like 21 and he's latched onto him for dear life. Like, he wants to hang out literally every single night and even when bf tells him he's hanging out with me, he still blows his phone up.
The other night there was apparently this exchange multiple times: "Bro I'll see you tomorrow" "No man, it's Selina & I's day" "BRO I'll see you TOMORROW". Fuck the fuck off!
It's to the point where I'm making jokes about "are you sure he's not gay for you" & cringing when I hear his name. He always needs a fucking ride home too. Motherfucker, guess what your new buddy did when he had no car? He took the bus & his bike, or Uber.... you can do that shit too.

So we've been trying to adjust our schedules (he works the closing shift now & then wants to go out for a bit, while I have issues sleeping with him not here). I've been trying to go to bed at my normal earlier time, and letting him just wake me up briefly when he comes in a couple hours later, everybody's happy then.

But nooooo, I woke up at 5 am, because I must have felt that he wasn't home, and I found that he'd texted me hours before, saying this little shit needs a ride to work early and he's just staying over there and taking him... So I had to get up and put clothes on and take the dogs out (because that's his job when he gets home). Now I'm wide awake after like 2 hours of sleep, and having to waste my Ativan to get back to sleep, since I have to work this afternoon. Ironically he prefaced the text with "Don't be mad, but..." No, too late.

Fuck this shit. I've been patient as fuck. I am fine with the Sunday night poker and the Wednesday afternoon jam sessions, but this kid I am starting to wish would move away or get fired.

baer45
06-18-2016, 07:59 AM
Oaky. My friends and I went from Florence to Siena by train. We purchased three tickets (€ 27 in total)and the train was clean and great. This conductor came and told us we need to scan the ticket at station machine before boarding the train. Although we showed the creditcard receipt that we just purchased it. He insisted to fine us, €60 each. In the back of the ticket said it needs to be validated but everything else is in Italian. No one told or showed us any information about that. I negotiatde it down to €10 each. And later we learned This did not just happen to us. We talked with two couples from uk and three guys from Austria at platform. They all paid €60 fine for each. This really felt like They are stealing money from foreigners.

miss.a.p1600
06-18-2016, 06:06 PM
Pissed because a lovely dinner was blemished after a "friend" got offended after I have her a real compliment that was genuine. Well know I know to never give this bitch any compliments again.

Now that that dinner is over. I feel lonely and wish I had somewhere to go or someone important to meet.

rareaspasia
06-19-2016, 02:22 PM
I just got a Brazilian and my cooch looks porn star beautiful and I just want want to have dirty, raunchy sex and my partner is sick. And I can't find any good porn. And I'm stuck at work and I'm so fucking horny.

Vyanka
06-20-2016, 09:30 AM
I just got a Brazilian and my cooch looks porn star beautiful and I just want want to have dirty, raunchy sex and my partner is sick. And I can't find any good porn. And I'm stuck at work and I'm so fucking horny.

Well, I like anything by Manuel Ferrara.... he does the ladies well. Lol.

My pissy annoyance of the day - I've decided who I want to di my 3rd (& hopefully final) breast aug with, but that fucker is booked until the end of October. Starting peak season. Fucking A! I dont want to take off the good months. Was hoping to do it in shitty ass month of August.

I hope someone cancels. I'm on the list in case someone does. If not, I'll compromise and do it in April. This sucks. Kinda puts a halt on my ending stripping year.

Second rant - my old SD came back into my life but I can't stand him now. Lol. Fuck, I can't. I just regret cutting him off sooner back then bc I knew for a fact I could've gotten a car out of him. He was good financially, but needy and draining as fkn hell. Time to find a new guy.....

***Stripper problems***

miss.a.p1600
06-20-2016, 12:48 PM
lol I posted in another thread that he is one of my favorite male porn stars. His costars always have real orgasms or squirt while fucking him.

What I wouldn't give to be in porn for a day. I'd definitely arrange to have him as my co star.

I've also been planning to snag a SD or a rich boyfriend but I am trying to tackle this social anxiety. :(

Vyanka
06-20-2016, 01:48 PM
lol I posted in another thread that he is one of my favorite male porn stars. His costars always have real orgasms or squirt while fucking him.

What I wouldn't give to be in porn for a day. I'd definitely arrange to have him as my co star.

I've also been planning to snag a SD or a rich boyfriend but I am trying to tackle this social anxiety. :(

I would pay a lot for one night. Hate to admit it, but I would. Lmaooo

Aurora_Sunset
06-20-2016, 02:21 PM
I hate livejournal's deletion rules. If you don't log in for 60 days, they officially delete your account, and you can't get it back, but nor can you create a new account with the same name you used to have ("You can't use the same name as a deleted account, even though that account can never be activated again no matter what you do" - wtf?). 60 days is just not a lot of time. When I have free time to write and be a part of fan communities, yes, I like to wander back to LJ - but sometimes I go 6 months - year where I just don't have the time to worry about the damn site. I published quite a bit on there in the past, but since I, ya know, have a life sometimes, I can just never access that stuff on there again. Ok, makes total sense... -_-

kaninchen
06-20-2016, 02:30 PM
^ Really??? My livejournal from high school is still up and fine even though I might only log in to reminisce once a year or so. Now I'm scared all my embarrassing memories are going to be deleted.

whirlerz
06-20-2016, 02:36 PM
Yea, speakin' of sd's, I'm seeing mine tomorrow..I cut & am gonna stay that way, to once a wk only! I told him it's cause of the new meds I'm on (it's not) so..I hate that he's so ignorant he won't order anything but coffee @ the restaurant (I started having our meets @ Starbucks cause of that) tomorrow I'm ordering his ass a bagel whether he likes it or not! He always tries to push me to order a take out, & I don't want to, esp in this weather. He tips the waitress good, but come on!
& I had like 2 POT's lined up on S/A, but ugh, I don't/haven't felt like contacting them.
I really want, like Ms P a hot guy that will spoil me,have hot times w/ & just keep the reg sd for the other stuff

wish
06-20-2016, 03:19 PM
I'm in my feelings today because I was off from work all weekend. Came back to work today and had not one client and on top of that nobody called to tell me I can stay my ass at home smdh

Aurora_Sunset
06-20-2016, 03:52 PM
^ Really??? My livejournal from high school is still up and fine even though I might only log in to reminisce once a year or so. Now I'm scared all my embarrassing memories are going to be deleted.

Well, shit, I don't know why they did it to me then. It says my account has been purged and the FAQ says it happens after 60 days of inactivity and there's no way to restore it. :(

miss.a.p1600
06-20-2016, 05:08 PM
I would pay a lot for one night. Hate to admit it, but I would. Lmaooo

Shiiiiit that guy has talent. I'd pay him too.

I saw one film with him and he was doing some serious multitasking. He was kissing the woman's neck, squeezing her boobs with one hand, massaging her clit with the other hand, and fucking her with his penis all at the same time. I was like damn! I need a guy who can do That.

My petty annoyance is more guys should learn some tips from Manuel but they'll probably be watching and learning from garbage porn.

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-20-2016, 09:05 PM
I'm concerned with how often I need to take antibiotics but there's no way to avoid it. I have and take the fancy probiotics and I eat relatively well. It's annoying because I just had what became a 16 day cycle (3 diff antibiotics til one worked) and had to get off a med I'm taking because they were concerned it was making the antibiotics not very effective. Now I'm back on but I can't keep like doing this. It's so annoying.

SweetJulia
06-21-2016, 07:58 AM
I had a trainee phlebotomist for my blood donation today. Stabbed the fuck out of my vein from a weird angle, and now it's super sore. I kept telling her it was fine cuz she was obviously nervous and I used to donate plasma all the time so it's not like I've never had a shitty stick before. At least she hit the vein. But shit...
I've done phlebotomy before, she likely blew through a vein . It's gonna swell and bruise, if it hasn't already. My annoyance: it's hot as hell and I have to run around all day. It's so obnoxious. Whenever I do my makeup flawlessly, it melts within twenty minutes. Like, why even bother? So tempted to just buy some sunglasses and call it a day, but I have to embrace my hotness .

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-21-2016, 09:25 AM
I hate livejournal's deletion rules. If you don't log in for 60 days, they officially delete your account, and you can't get it back, but nor can you create a new account with the same name you used to have ("You can't use the same name as a deleted account, even though that account can never be activated again no matter what you do" - wtf?). 60 days is just not a lot of time. When I have free time to write and be a part of fan communities, yes, I like to wander back to LJ - but sometimes I go 6 months - year where I just don't have the time to worry about the damn site. I published quite a bit on there in the past, but since I, ya know, have a life sometimes, I can just never access that stuff on there again. Ok, makes total sense... -_-

I still have mine, 14 years later. I write in it a few times per year. Everything is private now.

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-21-2016, 09:31 AM
I was thinking about sex appeal today. I was originally attracted to adult work because I wanted a job where I could play a character, specifically a sex kitten. I loved the idea of Jessica rabbit, holly would from cool world, Jessica Alba in sin city, Barbie pornstars, etc. But toward the end of my time camming (having previously danced too), I just hated the fact that I was being sexualized 24/7. I think a lot of us go through that.

So I started dressing down, pretty sloppy, unless I was going to a specific event. I just hated the idea of being sexualized non-stop, it was so exhausting. Having quit cam/dancing 6 months ago, I'm finally starting to feel okay with dressing up in cute tight clothes again for running errands. It's nice because when I do, I actually meet potential dates and friends that I have things in common with while out and about. I think that gross over-sexualized feeling is finally going away.

TheOutlier
06-21-2016, 10:31 AM
Friend (I guess, sorta) tried to set me up with a guy. By "set-up" I mean told him I'm single and gave him my social media info. (I'm not remotely looking for anybody)

Dude flat out goes into talking about how he'd love to serve me and heavily hinting he's a sub. (I literally only said "hello")

I want to kick her ass so bad, not only am I not looking, submissive males disgust me outside of work. So now I feel grossed out and annoyed.

Selina M
06-22-2016, 06:58 PM
4 part annoyance!

1)This is really gross to admit, but we have a fly infestation. Like, a bad one. It's my fault, I always leave the door open so the dogs can come/go from the balcony. I never really thought about bugs, it's really never been a thing. It was like 3 or 4 of them when SO finally pointed out it was from that, but I guess it was too late and they started breeding *bleck*
2) Now I have this bag trap up that smells nasty, whatever they put in to attract them is disgusting. I had to buy another candle just to negate it, and it's still detectable.
3) I hung up those sticky ribbons, accidentally touched one, and now I can't get the glue off my nails. It says to use paint thinner to remove, ffs! I don't want to ruin my beautiful acrylics :(
4) I got a bit overzealous in my fly-hunting, didn't pay attention, and leaned down into a sticky ribbon... the whole thing got tangled in my hair. FUCKING NASTY.

Damn you, insect kingdom.

whirlerz
06-22-2016, 08:09 PM
4 part annoyance!

1)This is really gross to admit, but we have a fly infestation. Like, a bad one. It's my fault, I always leave the door open so the dogs can come/go from the balcony. I never really thought about bugs, it's really never been a thing. It was like 3 or 4 of them when SO finally pointed out it was from that, but I guess it was too late and they started breeding *bleck*
2) Now I have this bag trap up that smells nasty, whatever they put in to attract them is disgusting. I had to buy another candle just to negate it, and it's still detectable.
3) I hung up those sticky ribbons, accidentally touched one, and now I can't get the glue off my nails. It says to use paint thinner to remove, ffs! I don't want to ruin my beautiful acrylics :(
4) I got a bit overzealous in my fly-hunting, didn't pay attention, and leaned down into a sticky ribbon... the whole thing got tangled in my hair. FUCKING NASTY.

Damn you, insect kingdom.

OMG, I would DIE! UGH!
Would one of those electronic bug zappers help?

miss.a.p1600
06-24-2016, 05:16 AM
4 part annoyance!

1)This is really gross to admit, but we have a fly infestation. Like, a bad one. It's my fault, I always leave the door open so the dogs can come/go from the balcony. I never really thought about bugs, it's really never been a thing. It was like 3 or 4 of them when SO finally pointed out it was from that, but I guess it was too late and they started breeding *bleck*
2) Now I have this bag trap up that smells nasty, whatever they put in to attract them is disgusting. I had to buy another candle just to negate it, and it's still detectable.
3) I hung up those sticky ribbons, accidentally touched one, and now I can't get the glue off my nails. It says to use paint thinner to remove, ffs! I don't want to ruin my beautiful acrylics :(
4) I got a bit overzealous in my fly-hunting, didn't pay attention, and leaned down into a sticky ribbon... the whole thing got tangled in my hair. FUCKING NASTY.

Damn you, insect kingdom.

Raid (for flying insects) kills them within a couple seconds. I had flies coming in like they had mated or something and every few days there were new ones. Well as soon as I declared my mission to reclaim my space and all insects will die I sprayed the flies with raid and they pretty much died instantly. The smell from the spray is tolerable but I raised the windows to help ventilate anyways.

All else fails - insect bombs will literally kill any and all insects in your house hidden or visible.

Aurora_Sunset
06-24-2016, 06:00 AM
I hate when people around you act completely cool and "nonjudgmental" about your life choices, and then when you go to make a change, suddenly they let loose dissing your past actions and making it very obvious that they never actually approved. Like all my friends acted so cool about it when I first started stripping, but the second I quit my first club, everyone was like "Oh, good, you don't work there anymore." Part of it may have been from the "icky" reputation the SC here has (completely unwarranted, btw), but still.

Now that I'm training for a new career, everyone who acted "nonjudgmental" about escorting is suddenly going off on tangents about how great it is that I'm moving on to something better, and some are even making wild jumps and assumptions about me moving to a better city - like, whoa... ok, I know I complain about wanting to move a lot, but shit, it's not because there's anything wrong with where I live... it's just because I hate to feel stagnant. And as far as escorting goes... I'm not quitting yet... I won't be making that much money at a new vanilla job just yet.

One friend even asked me if I was going to stop doing "bad" things now that I had to look for a job. She was referring to me smoking weed. This is the bitch who takes me to see her stepfather, the pot dealer, every time I see her! She's the one who hooks me up with weed! And suddenly, she's all like "Oh good, you aren't gonna do that bad stuff anymore."

Just because I change things up, either out of choice or necessity, does not mean I'm ditching my old actions out of remorse or disgust for my past actions... I'm not "leaving it all behind me" - I'm just ready for something else. It does not sit well with me to have all these people who acted "supportive" for years to suddenly talk shit about all my past actions, as though 1) they never supported me at all, and 2) they assume that me choosing to do something new must mean that I agree with their shit-talking about my "past life." No... no.... still stand by my decisions and have no issue with them. But thanks for making it clear that you always thought I was "ruining my life" or something.

miss.a.p1600
06-24-2016, 06:25 AM
^^^^girl I couple quadruple like your post.

I noticed when I was on path for the vanilla career - everyone worshiped the ground I walked on, respected me, and even gave me money lol!

Now that they know i quit the vanilla corporate world their perception has changed and it's like damn! I could be a freaking serial killer but if I have a vanilla job it's like oh forget your personal life or any flaws because your job slaving for some pompous ceo makes you respectable and important.

I've faced all kinds of slick emotional abuse and judgement for my desire to work on my own. Oh and I haven't even told them about the stripping - these people would try to stage an intervention, convert me to the most strict religion, perform an exorcism, and stone me.

Makes no damn sense.

MyRealNameIsWeird
06-24-2016, 07:25 AM
4 part annoyance!

1)This is really gross to admit, but we have a fly infestation. Like, a bad one. It's my fault, I always leave the door open so the dogs can come/go from the balcony. I never really thought about bugs, it's really never been a thing. It was like 3 or 4 of them when SO finally pointed out it was from that, but I guess it was too late and they started breeding *bleck*
2) Now I have this bag trap up that smells nasty, whatever they put in to attract them is disgusting. I had to buy another candle just to negate it, and it's still detectable.
3) I hung up those sticky ribbons, accidentally touched one, and now I can't get the glue off my nails. It says to use paint thinner to remove, ffs! I don't want to ruin my beautiful acrylics :(
4) I got a bit overzealous in my fly-hunting, didn't pay attention, and leaned down into a sticky ribbon... the whole thing got tangled in my hair. FUCKING NASTY.

Damn you, insect kingdom.

I literally hoover up big flies. We get them from time to time when it's warm because cat and dog and garden and lots of food prep. So plenty of smells to draw them in. Got a few sticky strips up near windows, because they smash into them most at evening when the light gets low and they try to fly out. But largely, if I spot more than one, I just get a hoover.

whirlerz
06-24-2016, 04:24 PM
Yea so *warning*, another sd rant, sorry, nobody to talk to bout this..
I mean, yea he helps me, but. gives me to the exact penny (almost) of what I need. I kinda outsmarted him a bit, cause I HAVE to keep up my health insurance espsince I just got on this medicine.
Also, I nvr said this before, but more than once (& once in -15 weather, other time I came super close to getting busted sleeping in pkg lot) I had to go live in my car..just last yr I had twice to hurriedly check out of my motel, drag all my shit to my storage, & go stay in this shitty airbnb camper, cause he made me wait tli the last second to give me barely enuf $.
I tried to get another sd, & it's too much right now, I still keep up my S/A acct, Im going to get my ass bk in camming, & I think w the meds helping I'll be ok to dance, if any sc wi have me..
Also, he's beyond ignorant [email protected] an obese guy today, I told him immediately to stop. Last wk he was chucking over a girl in his hs that got pregnant OMG UGH!
Sorry so long, Im just crying in my storage looking @ old pics, my mom wd NEVER want this, my parents gone & no fam that cares (except u guys) thanks for reading & love u all
W

Aurora_Sunset
06-24-2016, 05:24 PM
So, this dude was kinda dating a good friend of mine for awhile. Things didn't work out cuz he kinda acted like a douche, as far as I heard the story. A few weeks ago, he added me on facebook. I added him, then asked my friend if she even still spoke to him. She said no. So when he messaged me, I was polite, but distant. He asked if it was weird that he was reaching out to me that way, and I said honestly, yes. We've never met. We've never spoken. We don't even live in the same city. Dude dated my friend for awhile and now they don't speak... yes, it's weird.

He ended up saying that he would leave it up to me, and if I wanted to talk to him, I could message him the next day, and if he didn't hear from me, he'd assume I wasn't interested. I didn't message him.

Guess who keeps trying to message me? Hmmm... so much for "leaving it up to me" and taking the hint that I'm not interested if I don't message him...

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-24-2016, 06:01 PM
I hate when people around you act completely cool and "nonjudgmental" about your life choices, and then when you go to make a change, suddenly they let loose dissing your past actions and making it very obvious that they never actually approved. Like all my friends acted so cool about it when I first started stripping, but the second I quit my first club, everyone was like "Oh, good, you don't work there anymore." Part of it may have been from the "icky" reputation the SC here has (completely unwarranted, btw), but still.

Now that I'm training for a new career, everyone who acted "nonjudgmental" about escorting is suddenly going off on tangents about how great it is that I'm moving on to something better, and some are even making wild jumps and assumptions about me moving to a better city - like, whoa... ok, I know I complain about wanting to move a lot, but shit, it's not because there's anything wrong with where I live... it's just because I hate to feel stagnant. And as far as escorting goes... I'm not quitting yet... I won't be making that much money at a new vanilla job just yet.

One friend even asked me if I was going to stop doing "bad" things now that I had to look for a job. She was referring to me smoking weed. This is the bitch who takes me to see her stepfather, the pot dealer, every time I see her! She's the one who hooks me up with weed! And suddenly, she's all like "Oh good, you aren't gonna do that bad stuff anymore."

Just because I change things up, either out of choice or necessity, does not mean I'm ditching my old actions out of remorse or disgust for my past actions... I'm not "leaving it all behind me" - I'm just ready for something else. It does not sit well with me to have all these people who acted "supportive" for years to suddenly talk shit about all my past actions, as though 1) they never supported me at all, and 2) they assume that me choosing to do something new must mean that I agree with their shit-talking about my "past life." No... no.... still stand by my decisions and have no issue with them. But thanks for making it clear that you always thought I was "ruining my life" or something.

This happened to me. But mostly with guys. When I quit cam and basically said I was almost completely retiring from adult work (I only pro domme now on the DL). I was shocked because literally everyone acted non-judgmental before but really they all secretly cared and told me after I quit.

On cam/domming people would stereotype me as slutty, mean, evil (domme stereotype lol), etc etc and then they all 180d when I started with nursing and stereotyped me as caring, thoughtful, and kind. Lmao I can't. Like I didn't change at all, I'm still the same person!