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carmen_b
06-25-2016, 02:11 PM
^ Another one of the MANY reasons I was always closeted ! Sex work is SO exhausting and dealing the reactions is a whole other layer I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR. ;/
Of all the problems lying caused me, I don't regret it since " fading " from the industry has been easier this way.

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-25-2016, 03:25 PM
^ Another one of the MANY reasons I was always closeted ! Sex work is SO exhausting and dealing the reactions is a whole other layer I DON'T HAVE TIME FOR. ;/
Of all the problems lying caused me, I don't regret it since " fading " from the industry has been easier this way.
Yeah like I gave no shits who knew, I just got tired of having to explain and defend things, and it still not being enough. I feel like most sexworkers are in that boat. At least half of the population, including people you know and trust, will assume you're slutty, desperate, dumb, wealthy and generous, crazy, or mentally ill when they find out you do any kind of sexwork lol. I swear, it's not worth even talking about to people because they aren't worth that emotional energy you must dish out in order to defend yourself whether verbally or through actions/daily life choices.

Aurora_Sunset
06-26-2016, 09:04 AM
3 people IN A ROW now have posted that video about cat "wine" made out of catnip on my facebook...

Yes, I have cats. I drink. Ha ha.

I know people can't be expected to keep tabs on the intricacies of my facebook, but really? 3 in a row all right on top of each other? Pay attention. How many times am I supposed to act like it's so hilarious and I've never seen it before? The same thing happened with that "wine bottle workout" video...

carmen_b
06-26-2016, 09:16 AM
Yes! I told ONE FRIEND who reacted badly ( but I trusted to not tell ) and after it , I just decided to be LOW key and ultra discreet only. It's just way too much time to explain everything !
We live in a society where it seems like EVERY life choice is accepted EXCEPT sex work .... it's just too much effort to be involved in the " sex workers are normal people " movement ( to me ). I think the more taboo the industry is, the better. I know everyone has varying views and some ladies don't want to be closeted / lying all the time which I always completely understand.

Yeah like I gave no shits who knew, I just got tired of having to explain and defend things, and it still not being enough. I feel like most sexworkers are in that boat. At least half of the population, including people you know and trust, will assume you're slutty, desperate, dumb, wealthy and generous, crazy, or mentally ill when they find out you do any kind of sexwork lol. I swear, it's not worth even talking about to people because they aren't worth that emotional energy you must dish out in order to defend yourself whether verbally or through actions/daily life choices.

Velveteen.Rabbit
06-26-2016, 01:27 PM
Yes! I told ONE FRIEND who reacted badly ( but I trusted to not tell ) and after it , I just decided to be LOW key and ultra discreet only. It's just way too much time to explain everything !
We live in a society where it seems like EVERY life choice is accepted EXCEPT sex work .... it's just too much effort to be involved in the " sex workers are normal people " movement ( to me ). I think the more taboo the industry is, the better but I know everyone has varying views and some ladies don't want to be closeted / lying all the time which I always completely understand.

Same. That movement isn't worth the effort because all you do is out yourself (why else would you care?) and then have to deal with people who refuse to change their minds. I mean I guess if you were getting paid to do it at a job it would be okay, but sexworkers have no group lobbying for their human rights.

Even telling other sexworkers I didn't want to be apart of the pro-Sexworker power movement, I made a lot of them dislike me. Even sexworkers in that scene can't handle when other sexworkers don't want to be apart of the movement!

This is why I like spending time with my nursing friends. They are so stable (albeit sometimes sheltered) and we still can talk plastic surgery and beauty because it's a medical treatment so they're open to the idea. It's like someone took all the things I liked about being around sexworkers and left all the bad things behind. This is a generalization but has been true so far for me.

Aurora_Sunset
06-26-2016, 02:50 PM
Fuck Windows 10. I didn't want that shit.

"Everything's just like you left it!" Oh really, Windows? Then why doesn't ANYTHING I have to attach using a USB cable work properly anymore? The printer half-works and then aborts printing halfway through a project, fucking it all up. And it won't even recognize my phone anymore so I can attach it and transfer photos. I've literally spent 2 hours doing everything I can possibly find on the subject to fix it, and nothing. Everything worked just fine until it forced me to update. Fuck your shit, Windows 10. Fuck your shit.

lynn2009
06-26-2016, 07:52 PM
I have no idea why Wawa is so popular. The first time I got food there they dumped liquid cheese all over my burrito bowl so it was 50% cheese and 50% beans and I also got hot chocolate at the same time and the high school moron who gave it to me didn't bother to switch out the lid when shit spilled all over it. That was a few weeks ago and I went again last night because there's not anywhere else open so late and my sandwich was ok - then tonight I go again and get a veggie quesadilla and get it home to find there's chicken in it and they won't reverse the credit card charge over the phone. For fucks sake how hard is this.

Genoveve
06-26-2016, 10:38 PM
^^Omg I'm from the east coast and haven't had Wawa in years but I loved their subs and I still crave them all the time. And the Wawa store smell is so nostalgic and heavenly to me. My pissy annoyance is that there's no Wawas here lol. I used to love their turkey and mashed potato platters too but I'm not sure if I would eat that now.......... Oh hell I probably would.

miss.a.p1600
06-27-2016, 08:13 AM
People who can barely take care of themselves but yet they have a pet?!? I didn't know if I should call the police or animal rights service when I saw a bum on the corner begging for money and she had the nerve to have a pet??? And I bet any change she got was going straight to the crack dealer and not to feed the pet.

No hoe. Your pet is better off fending for itself in the wild than living in captivity with your broke azz.

MyRealNameIsWeird
06-27-2016, 08:50 AM
People who can barely take care of themselves but yet they have a pet?!? I didn't know if I should call the police or animal rights service when I saw a bum on the corner begging for money and she had the nerve to have a pet??? And I bet any change she got was going straight to the crack dealer and not to feed the pet.

No hoe. Your pet is better off fending for itself in the wild than living in captivity with your broke azz.

FWIW, I actually used to know a few buskers, squatters and rough sleepers. Well, a lot of them, actually. And those that had pets have always been great with their animals. Usually they had them from before homelessness and couldn't bear to part with them so long as they could keep them safe. Which they did: kept them fed, got them doggie jackets in the Winter, made sure the pet was allowed before accepting shelter. There was this Anarchist squat that had a few community dogs because their owners felt bad about the dog sleeping rough, so the dog lived in the squat even when there was no room for the owner.

I think the destitute are another group of people, a bit like sex workers, that are misunderstood by those on the outside. Many homeless people DO have mental issues or addiction issues. But in some areas there just aren't enough shelters. Many people working on the streets have nowhere to go at the end of the day. But not everyone begging, panhandling or busking is homeless: just as many live in shelters, hostels, spare rooms and squats. When you actually live among them and find yourself staring down the barrel of homelessness and relying on a charity to find you a house... well, you find out that most destitute people are OK. Not amazing, giving, loving souls or anything. Just human like the rest of us.

baer45
06-27-2016, 11:07 AM
People who can barely take care of themselves but yet they have a pet?!? I didn't know if I should call the police or animal rights service when I saw a bum on the corner begging for money and she had the nerve to have a pet??? And I bet any change she got was going straight to the crack dealer and not to feed the pet.

No hoe. Your pet is better off fending for itself in the wild than living in captivity with your broke azz.

I was traveling in New Orleans in 2013. There were so many beggars on the street have dogs. I talked with one local folk. He told me the reason those bums have dog is that cops won't arrest them. Cops are less likely to take care the dog when they lock up the street bums. I felt instantly angry towards these people. Not able to take care the pets is one thing, using them as get away cards from the regulations is pretty low.

Vyanka
06-27-2016, 12:53 PM
Seriously....so the old SD is throwing shit in my face on how much he's spent on me. Ummmm, I never asked him to....he offered! So then don't hang out with my expensive ass. Lol!

whirlerz
06-27-2016, 01:16 PM
Seriously....so the old SD is throwing shit in my face on how much he's spent on me. Ummmm, I never asked him to....he offered! So then don't hang out with my expensive ass. Lol!

Ikr? They say/do annoying shit all the time tho..tell him yea, whatch done 4 me lately?

So..this guy @ the storage, talking on his phone, tried to make ME move outta His way, when I'm carrying stuff??
Fuck outa here>:(

Vyanka
06-27-2016, 01:47 PM
Ikr? They say/do annoying shit all the time tho..tell him yea, whatch done 4 me lately?

So..this guy @ the storage, talking on his phone, tried to make ME move outta His way, when I'm carrying stuff??
Fuck outa here>:(

Bc shit doesn't go their way. On to the next dumb sucker. :)

rareaspasia
06-29-2016, 12:27 AM
It's been like two weeks now and still no sex because my partner is STILL sick. My vagina might actually fall off. Our eleventh anniversary is on the fourth of July and so help me god he needs to be healthy by then because this girl right here needs some fireworks in her panties. It doesn't even need to be amazing sex at this point, I'm past the point of being picky. Masturbation isn't cutting it.

KikiGem
06-29-2016, 01:42 AM
I feel like I should be paid for 99% of my interactions with dudes. They are, for the most part so lame and I can only tolerate it with the soothing effects of receiving all their cash. God they take so much energy every day anyway!

And what's up with this trend, every hotel I stay at there's a guy who won't leave me alone. Like the one at the new place watching me carry stuff in. Then pouncing on me at the first opportunity. Then asking me to be ready to go get a beer- in an hour. Really? You expect me to drop all my plans for the evening , stop what I'm doing right now to get ready to go have a fucking beer with your ass?

Still better than the last guy- knocking on my door all hours of the might, waking me up, even when it was obvious my lights were off- just to see if I wanted to drive to walmart with him or drink a beer or shit like that. Inconsiderate asshole- I got the manager to tell him to leave me alone which I'm sure embarrassed the fuck out of him. It was well deserved.

It's just getting so ridiculous and I'm at a loss for solutions. I just want some goddamn peace

Aurora_Sunset
06-29-2016, 09:51 AM
I feel like I should be paid for 99% of my interactions with dudes. They are, for the most part so lame and I can only tolerate it with the soothing effects of receiving all their cash. God they take so much energy every day anyway!

And what's up with this trend, every hotel I stay at there's a guy who won't leave me alone. Like the one at the new place watching me carry stuff in. Then pouncing on me at the first opportunity. Then asking me to be ready to go get a beer- in an hour. Really? You expect me to drop all my plans for the evening , stop what I'm doing right now to get ready to go have a fucking beer with your ass?

Still better than the last guy- knocking on my door all hours of the might, waking me up, even when it was obvious my lights were off- just to see if I wanted to drive to walmart with him or drink a beer or shit like that. Inconsiderate asshole- I got the manager to tell him to leave me alone which I'm sure embarrassed the fuck out of him. It was well deserved.



Yes.

The last time I went to a hotel, this construction worker literally did a stop and "elevator eyes" on me as I was walking past to the elevator. He was in the hallway when I left the room too and followed me down, trying to hit on me and get me to go out with him later. I even pulled the "I have a boyfriend" thing and he STILL wouldn't fucking leave me alone. I told him I wasn't comfortable giving him my number, but I would take his, and if I wanted to "hang out," I'd hit him up. He took my phone to punch it in... and called himself so that he had my number. SO MANY GUYS DO THAT. WTF!? I just said I wasn't comfortable giving you my number. You're not fucking sneaky. I SEE you doing it, and now I'm just gonna block you. Good job pissing me right the fuck off. Right before I blocked his number after I got home, the first text he sent me was "What's your name again? I forgot, sorry!" Yeah, in the 10 minutes you were literally blocking my exit, you couldn't be bothered to remember the name that you harassed out of me... Winning points all around, loser.

Aurora_Sunset
06-29-2016, 09:55 AM
My pissy annoyance is that I have a client who is older (like 70s) and has ED issues. He can usually cum eventually but doesn't actually get hard. He's always apologizing and saying that he's sorry that he can't give me what I "really want." AKA: a "good fucking" with a dick. I don't even know how to handle it. Like, honestly, dude, I don't care. Even in my personal life, sure, being fucked hard is an occasional desire but I don't orgasm vaginally so it truly doesn't matter all that much to me. But his entire "fantasy version" of me is this wild young nympho who loves dick so much that that's the reason why I escort. I can't win. If I tell him I don't give a shit if he's able to fuck me because it doesn't do anything for me anyway, I destroy his fantasy of me, but if I cater to his fantasy, he feels bad for not being able to get a hard-on...

In addition to this, he's always asking if I've met any new guys or girls and then wanting me to "bring them along." Like... what does this dude think my life is? Yeah, sure, I'm just out there every weekend picking up new girls who want to tag along and eat each other out in front of a 70 year old dude they've never met, and guys who want to fuck me in front of an old dude.... Right... that totally happens to me all the time. ::)

For a few months, his thing was taking pictures every time I went to see him. Now he's bored of that, so he's asking if there's any particular kind of "fun" I want to have. Come on, dude... this is supposed to be about what you want to do. I don't give a shit. I'll just show up and do whatever you want.

carmen_b
06-29-2016, 10:56 AM
OMG , this is so me ! I stay at many hotels for both day job and dancing ( previously ) and the reason I'm there is to DE-STRESS . I could go on and on with similar stories so mostly I just hide out.

Before I did sex work, I will admit to hooking up ( just making out because I can not get into casual sex at all even when I've tried ) with a couple handsome business travelers so it DOES happen. I think guys like stepping outside their normal lives on the business trips ( and I do too but it mostly applies when I'm single ). It's just that all that ended when I started sex work ! No ones gets any attention for free anymore . :/
I feel like I should be paid for 99% of my interactions with dudes. They are, for the most part so lame and I can only tolerate it with the soothing effects of receiving all their cash. God they take so much energy every day anyway!

And what's up with this trend, every hotel I stay at there's a guy who won't leave me alone. Like the one at the new place watching me carry stuff in. Then pouncing on me at the first opportunity. Then asking me to be ready to go get a beer- in an hour. Really? You expect me to drop all my plans for the evening , stop what I'm doing right now to get ready to go have a fucking beer with your ass?

Still better than the last guy- knocking on my door all hours of the might, waking me up, even when it was obvious my lights were off- just to see if I wanted to drive to walmart with him or drink a beer or shit like that. Inconsiderate asshole- I got the manager to tell him to leave me alone which I'm sure embarrassed the fuck out of him. It was well deserved.

It's just getting so ridiculous and I'm at a loss for solutions. I just want some goddamn peace

KikiGem
06-29-2016, 02:56 PM
Yes, yes yes! De-stress. It seriously wore on me when I had to worry about falling asleep because what if that asshole comes knocking again. He even ignored my do not disturb signs. I just don't understand how you can be so delusional.

Aurora - men are so weird like that. more ways they're just delusional. Even as a stripper many of them think that I do it because I just loooove grinding on boners. In my case this actually helps me but I still don't understand why they really truly believe it?

MyRealNameIsWeird
06-30-2016, 11:54 AM
I was traveling in New Orleans in 2013. There were so many beggars on the street have dogs. I talked with one local folk. He told me the reason those bums have dog is that cops won't arrest them. Cops are less likely to take care the dog when they lock up the street bums. I felt instantly angry towards these people. Not able to take care the pets is one thing, using them as get away cards from the regulations is pretty low.

That's pretty awful. Here the RSPCA will collect an animal if you are arrested, home or no home, so no excuse. Sure some people in the UK would do it too if it gave them a getout. :/

MyRealNameIsWeird
06-30-2016, 11:57 AM
Seriously....so the old SD is throwing shit in my face on how much he's spent on me. Ummmm, I never asked him to....he offered! So then don't hang out with my expensive ass. Lol!

It's like the guy at the bar who insists on buying you a drink. You can even flash a wedding ring and say up front "you will get nothing out of this, but if you're not an ass I'll buy you a drink back". They still figure that accepting their money is a sex contract. My husband's response is "be clear they won't get anything, take their money if they insist, stay safe, try and get something for me while they're being generous".

MyRealNameIsWeird
06-30-2016, 12:04 PM
My petty annoyance: bipolar and pregnant means a 25% chance of postnatal depression and a 25% chance of psychosis. So I figured I struck lucky when a load of my symptoms eased off in the first few weeks. Nope. Bipolar back in full force and my night time hallucinations are at times making me reconsider whether I want hubby on night shifts. I need someone to protect me from the fluorescent geometric shapes and shady gremlins right now...

Right now it is just a petty annoyance because it's no worse than it has been in the past and not daily -just a little more comon-, it's at night only and I can still tell they aren't real. But if it gets any worse I need to inform my antenatal team and the idea I could be out cold on psychosis meds or in a ward during the most beautiful stages of pregnancy and the time I should spend with the baby... the very thought is enraging and terrifying me.

Aurora_Sunset
07-01-2016, 08:53 AM
I'm getting sick of being downgraded on my grad papers for not including information that I wasn't asked for, or just... completely bullshit reasons. I took the hit on the last paper because I knew it was not my best work, but one of the criticisms was that I didn't provide specific numbers for things - which was never asked for.

Now, I just got my most recent paper back, which I thought I did really well on, and I got the same exact grade as my shit paper! Why? Because "I should have used more examples from the reading" which... is just absolute fucking nonsense, because I used 20 citations from the reading in a 4 page paper, and every single thing I talked about was directly related to the readings, which I quoted and cited to make it clear that I was talking about them. Like, literally, my paper was just summarizing and doing compare/contrast on the readings. How is that not using enough examples from the readings!? And then "the paper would have benefited from your opinion on which viewpoint you agree with." Again... the assignment didn't ask for that. Nowhere on the prompts did it ask for me to say which one I agreed with - only to compare, contrast, and point out which issues were addressed in one reading and not in the other. If you don't ask for my opinion, I'm not going to jarringly add it to an otherwise purely academic paper.

Now I remember why I was hesitant to go back to school for so long. Shit like this.

carmen_b
07-01-2016, 11:43 AM
Of all the things going right in the new city / new house .... something is going wrong.

First .... the recap of how I messed up a little :
We moved into a new place and I admit I didn't do as much as I should have with the house . I fully admit I got caught up in business stuff and stress . He put most of the house together and I bought a bedroom set yesterday kind of " evening " the effort.

The problem :
We had a talk after a few days of constant nit picking about the house and I admitted I messed up and haven't done what I should have to fully contribute ( I do financially, I slacked on keeping things nice looking in the house ).

The nutshell is that we are just at such an un-comfy spot . I assumed the picking would stop today after the talk and lashed out BADLY when it didn't . My partner is now hiding out from me. I just want to not derail that day or the coffee date we had planned but I will NOT be picked at especially when I agreed I messed up and made a promise to fix it and I will make good on the promise.

A large reason I'm sensitive the nit-picking is that was a main contributor for me leaving my only other long term relationship. Over about a year , I started to hate my ex and eventually just bailed dramatically ( moving a town away and soon after 3,000 miles away) . I don't want the same fate for us.

JenniferNorth
07-01-2016, 07:10 PM
So I am doing online English teaching, and I got approved for PalFish. Come to find out after being on that app for only a day, it is SUPER competitive to get students, and it is basically like camming in many ways (too many people, REALLY having to market market MARKET yourself, teachers pretty much giving it away for low rates of pay). It makes me annoyed and depressed. Like, it doesn't matter if its adult work or not, there are a LOT more overflooded markets (adult, teaching English, ever Fiverr is differnt now than it was a 9 months ago). Like holy hell. My husband and I need to find new hustles. Maybe I should focus on writing snuff erotica, or something.

I saw via some comments on FB that husband's cousin (who I HATE) got a job. I guess she needed some work done on her back, and because she's done massage therapy, got offered a job "with benefit and free adjustments lol". Haha I know I sound like such a cunt right now, but whatever. How does that dumb bitch get things handed to her. IDK, long story, but she just annoys me. She is adopted and gets things handed to her by her bio mom, plus her parents and it's "oh poor her". Meanwhile, I have a friend who has three kids, worked her ass off, and is an inspiration to me as a human being. Never bitches about "oh poor me", always so positive.

I'm also ruminating on husband's ex, and thinking about if he still loves her, and sometimes I think about bailing on our marriage. I remember when he was first dating me, he mentioned how he'd always love her etc, and then when I confronted him about her he was like "I actually think she died according to a friend of mine". I couldn't find anything on that, but I also could not find anything on another friend who I KNOW passed away last year, so go figure. I know I sound like all kinds of crazy right now. Part of it is due to hormones, unresolved relationship issues from the first marriage, and feeling lost. I've been looking at counseling, because I feel like at a bare min., I need it. I need to not ruminate, and I need to focus more on me, and less on people I cannot stand.

Thanks for letting me babble and get shit off my chest. I know I need to have a real talk with my husband again. Bleh.

carmen_b
07-02-2016, 09:04 AM
^ Don't be too jealous of your massage therapist cousin .... I've done in legitimately and it's a pretty exhausting way to make a living. Due to how exhausting it was , I " transitioned " into a doing it in a not so legitimate way ( outcalls / bikini / topless / nude ) mostly just because I was tired a lot .
It can be done .... but it definitely " pulls " a lot of energy from the provider.

Best of luck finding your new hustles . I get that way too ( feeling down ) because it seems like things just SHOULD be easier sometimes!

xStacey
07-02-2016, 01:47 PM
So mad I ordered a dress last Wednesday from my favorite store for my birthday next Tuesday. Usually they process orders pretty quickly and ship fast so I would have received it in time. I actually went to the store in person because I really needed it as soon as possible before placing the order online, but the sales person told me they will only receive it in two weeks. By Friday, my order still hasn't shipped, which was actually surprising... I e-mailed them to ask to cancel a previous order I made, received a confirmation e-mail.

And then I wake up today and received another e-mail they said they canceled my Wednesday order as I requested and I wouldn't be charged!!! What the hell?! I never asked to cancel my order for the birthday dress!!!! I placed another order today and sent them an e-mail. I'll call them Monday morning at 7 a.m (they open at that time) to ask them to offer me 1-day express shipping and process my order as soon as possible so I could receive my dress in time for Tuesday. Hopefully it'll work out. Grrrr

whirlerz
07-02-2016, 07:16 PM
I went outside to look @ a gorj sunset..I had to cut thru a business park parking lot, on the way back a truck driver saw me, & honked once, ok I just ignorned him..then he starts continuously honking..Fuck outta here.

miss.a.p1600
07-03-2016, 06:39 AM
I'm pissed because I'm sexually frustrated. I am okay with pleasing myself and sometimes I'd actually rather please myself because I'm more efficient than a guy. But right now I'd rather have a guy. I opened my online dating profile again and excited about the male attention. Guys flooding my inbox, saying my photos are pretty etc. I better get some dates or I'm going to be pissed. I'm horny and I want some orgasmic peen, or tongue will do, and I want money. These fuckers better not waste my time messaging all cotdamn day.

JenniferNorth
07-03-2016, 07:17 AM
Carmen_B, I know you are right! I think it's just the benefits part that annoyed me, more so than the actual job. I'm like "what kind of benefits, bitch?" Even the vanilla stuff I do, it doesn't offer benefits. I guess that's okay, because I don't like holding traditional vanilla jobs. I would just like to not be on Medicaid, and get treated like an actual human being at the dentist etc.

Which leads me to today's pissy annoyance...finding insurance for my family. Husband and I need extensive dental work. I need a root canal, and a deep cleaning. He needs all kinds of work, and could benefit from an implant. I looked at "normal people insurance" ie paying out of pocket etc. I would not be allowed to use benefits for a root canal, implants, and many other things for 6 months!!! WTF!!! But...but I am paying out of pocket, yes??? I thought the insurance reform or whatever was supposed to make getting the work you need done easier. So I am just annoyed by that, because I would like to take care of this crap. Ugh.

My pets need vet visits and no doubt dentals, as well. I love my babies and make sure they eat well, get taken care of, it's just like ohmyhell, I should have started dancing or something a loooong time ago, because the cost of healthcare keeps going up.

I am stressed about fininshing for TEFL for a WAH I have not yet started. It's due soon (they only give you a month to do it) and I'm just over here trying to juggle.

miss.a.p1600
07-03-2016, 08:48 AM
Drove all the way to the nicest pool glad it's not a lot of people and no kids (this piss in the pool yuk!) but I forgot to charge my cell phone and I didn't bring any magazines. Fuuuuuuuck - I guess I'm just going to have to close my eyes and use my imagination and enjoy the sun.

whirlerz
07-03-2016, 08:49 AM
Carmen_B, I know you are right! I think it's just the benefits part that annoyed me, more so than the actual job. I'm like "what kind of benefits, bitch?" Even the vanilla stuff I do, it doesn't offer benefits. I guess that's okay, because I don't like holding traditional vanilla jobs. I would just like to not be on Medicaid, and get treated like an actual human being at the dentist etc.

Which leads me to today's pissy annoyance...finding insurance for my family. Husband and I need extensive dental work. I need a root canal, and a deep cleaning. He needs all kinds of work, and could benefit from an implant. I looked at "normal people insurance" ie paying out of pocket etc. I would not be allowed to use benefits for a root canal, implants, and many other things for 6 months!!! WTF!!! But...but I am paying out of pocket, yes??? I thought the insurance reform or whatever was supposed to make getting the work you need done easier. So I am just annoyed by that, because I would like to take care of this crap. Ugh.

My pets need vet visits and no doubt dentals, as well. I love my babies and make sure they eat well, get taken care of, it's just like ohmyhell, I should have started dancing or something a loooong time ago, because the cost of healthcare keeps going up.

I am stressed about fininshing for TEFL for a WAH I have not yet started. It's due soon (they only give you a month to do it) and I'm just over here trying to juggle.

Go sign up for Spirit Dental! securitylife.com, it's very good, I have it, also the hygenist @ my dental office has it. 866-619-6095, Mon - Fri 8am - 5pm EST
& I might as well throw in my health care, which's Harkin, you have unlimited visits (if you use their clinics, they're brand new co. under United Health, but they're separate.) Only in IL & Ga. harkinhealth.com
I got some med/therapy I needed, after being denied from Blue Cross.

whirlerz
07-03-2016, 09:22 AM
Ok..
So, freakin' Ulta, they have some birthday program which they copied off Sephora..I'm a platinium member, big deal but they never sent me my email for the gift. They sent me some coupon for some friggin' hairspray which I don't need/want/nvr claimed. I'd thought maybe they discontinued the program but..
Now, I got their new sale flyer, & they're talking about Urban Decay eyeshadow gift, well I want that! I'm calling their ass Tues, & they better cough it up & my points they fucked up too..I've been on the phone w/them umpteen times already, I can't change it myself I tried, & the store's useless.
I think I'll email them now, just to give a heads up & be annoying. :)

JenniferNorth
07-03-2016, 10:32 AM
Ooh I feel you on that! Get your freebies, girl!

I logged into Huggies, to find out they did away with reward points. I can now only get points if I scan a receipt. They won't even take gift receipts! I just threw a ton of codes away, that I had been meaning to get to, but never did.

Thank you for the links for dental and health!

Vyanka
07-03-2016, 12:46 PM
Seriously. I'm so hating where I live. It's far as fuck from work. It became ghetto out of no where. Not so long ago 2 thugs tried to break into my house. Now i got some fkn roaches creeping up out of no where.... I haven't seen one since I moved here in the last 4 years. Fkn gross. I can't. I gotta go now. It is an old house tho, but still.... they bother me more than the stupid thugs. LOL

miss.a.p1600
07-03-2016, 01:39 PM
^^^^omg I feel ya. Some of My neighbors are trashballs, they litter like they have no clue what a trash can is, and its like they too dumb to know that trash lingering around equals roaches.

I loathe people who litter, ruin the earths beauty, and contribute to overgrowth of roaches.

And a handful of them look ghetto and low class so I'm like woah I gotta move soon too. For the most part it's quiet and safe but I stay reporting if anyone acts suspicious or gets too loud.

As soon as I move I refuse to have neighbors in sight. I'm getting a nicer bigger place with at least 4-5 acres so I won't have to see or hear any annoying neighbors.

whirlerz
07-03-2016, 01:47 PM
Vyanka, put down some baking soda it burns their feet..
I had 1 in my rm couple mo ago, they spray & I got roach motels but nvr saw any since. Can u ask landlord to spray?
I pick up plastic bottles here that the lazy asses throw down to recycle

Damn fly buzzon aroind I cant get. We need rain bad!

KaraLynn
07-03-2016, 02:08 PM
My husband is a "recovering" alcoholic. He relapses every now and then. It's more of a worry than a "pissy annoyance" One of my close friends just lost one of her best friends since high school to a heroin overdose and is suffering. I don't know what else to do for either of them besides be there for them and be supportive but I still feel like there's more I should be doing and I haven't figured out what. I just wish there was a magic button I could press to make it all go away for them.

Vyanka
07-03-2016, 02:09 PM
Vyanka, put down some baking soda it burns their feet..
I had 1 in my rm couple mo ago, they spray & I got roach motels but nvr saw any since. Can u ask landlord to spray?
I pick up plastic bottles here that the lazy asses throw down to recycle

Damn fly buzzon aroind I cant get. We need rain bad!

Oh, I know about the BS. I've mentioned it here before plenty of times. Lol. I just ran out and gotta go buy some. Plus make catnip tea to spray. I did the BS when I first moved in, bc I saw a few and they never came back up until now. Once this wknd is over, I'm going to ask the land lady to open the basement for me.... bc I'm going to make some boric acid cookies for the critters. I still want to gtfo of that house tho. Ugh.

Funny, I'm scared of bugs instead thugs.

miss.a.p1600
07-03-2016, 02:15 PM
I feel bored and lazy and all I want to do is lay on the couch, read stripperweb, and eat potato chips when I should be working. Fml.

JenniferNorth
07-03-2016, 02:18 PM
As soon as I move I refuse to have neighbors in sight. I'm getting a nicer bigger place with at least 4-5 acres so I won't have to see or hear any annoying neighbors.

Yessssssssss!!!! I told my husband next year we are required to move to kambumfuk nowhere. Our only concern is the internet (not having cable internet...I've had dish and it can be so slow). But I still DGAF. My last neighbor was a sex offender. My annoying neighbor here took off for fourth of July weekend, so it's very quiet. I also hate litter, and feel you on the damn roaches. Roach hotels until you move? I've used those.

Serena-Shields
07-03-2016, 02:51 PM
People watching shows that I'm watching, on MY netflix, and then fucking up my episode spot. And then binge watching that show in the living room until four in the morning.

God, I cannot wait to get out of here.

Aurora_Sunset
07-03-2016, 03:41 PM
A regular of mine, who has already been pissing me off lately, wanted to do a day trip to some caverns soon. Ok - I told him last week that I was free on the 10th. He was like "Sounds good, see you on the 10th."

Today, the 3rd, he starts texting me at 9:30 this morning, saying he called the caverns to see what conditions were like with the rain, they're still fine, blah blah blah, he'll be there to pick me up at 10:15.... I was on my way somewhere else and pulled over and texted him back "You're talking about today? I thought we said the 10th." He claimed that we said the 10th as a "backup" but never confirmed. That's absolute horseshit, because I can literally pull up the online conversation where I never said ANYTHING other than that I was free on the 10th and he said he will see me on the 10th. So I was like "I'm sorry. I thought I made it clear that I was saying I was free to do this on the 10th only."

His response? "That's ok. I'll swing by anyway, and we'll talk brunch or something."

I told him no, I'm not even in town, but... ya fucking know what? Even if I wasn't out of town... even if I was home... if I did not say that I was free to hang out with him today... I am NOT FREE TO HANG OUT WITH HIM TODAY. Seriously, WTF? I may have had homework, I may have had a paper to write, maybe I was sleeping in, maybe I had company, maybe I had to be somewhere later that morning and didn't have time to hang out with him. If I did not say we could do something today - no... NO... you will not just fucking show up at my home anyway and assume I'll fucking drop what I'm doing to go to goddam brunch with you. Are you absolutely dicking me?

I think I'm going to cancel this little trip and drop him entirely. Like, where the FUCK do you get off? Unacceptable. Apparently, I have not made it clear to his ass that he is a CLIENT, not a freakin' gal pal who can show up on my doorstep for random-ass brunch plans. Nuh-uh.

Selina M
07-03-2016, 05:52 PM
I wanted to go ride Brat Prince today, but I know the barn owners were having a big BBQ. It started at noon and I'm calculating if everyone will be drunk and passed out by then, or if they'll be drunk and partying still.

They're really nice, great people but I've been making excuses and dodging their BBQs on Sundays for over a year. Horse time is 'me' time. I just don't have the energy to be introduced to 20 strangers. I kind of can't wait to move to a barn that is all business and doesn't throw these things. My last barn did little parties sometimes, but it was for boarders only so we all knew each other.

Cashmere Star
07-03-2016, 07:13 PM
I haven't danced in a very long time and I am going to be going back soon. I am scared to just walk in, is that usual? Or do I call the manager ahead of time to let him know I am coming back? I havent been texting any of the other dancers either.

I am also so out of shape after my injury, I am going back to the gym too. ugh. I feel so lazy and ugly.

I am starting all over again. At least I got some new costumes to dance in.

miss.a.p1600
07-04-2016, 12:02 AM
Im pissed because I have no appetite and I feel really sad. I've though about asking for pharmaceuticals but I don't want to feel "weak" and I'm not all the way sure if I'm at the point where I really need them.. *sigh*

whirlerz
07-04-2016, 12:30 PM
Aww, sorry Ms P ! I hear ya, but I don't think it's wrak @ all tp ask for help,,
Meanwhile, there's 7Cups, online counselors, also onlineconsolingcollege.com too

Me: have to redye hair today:( some dpotd didnt take &
I used too light a color :(

baer45
07-04-2016, 12:47 PM
I wanted to go ride Brat Prince today, but I know the barn owners were having a big BBQ. It started at noon and I'm calculating if everyone will be drunk and passed out by then, or if they'll be drunk and partying still.

They're really nice, great people but I've been making excuses and dodging their BBQs on Sundays for over a year. Horse time is 'me' time. I just don't have the energy to be introduced to 20 strangers. I kind of can't wait to move to a barn that is all business and doesn't throw these things. My last barn did little parties sometimes, but it was for boarders only so we all knew each other.

The first thing occurs to me about horses is the ridiculous expenses (medical bills, horse shoes, boarding fee or endless chores). How do you keep up with all that?

whirlerz
07-04-2016, 02:41 PM
Yea, so Sally's Beauty SUCKS!!!
Had to get that out..sorry.
Anyway, I dyed my hair yesterday & it came out a little light ( I do root touchups only) I went in the one Sally's by me, & they were out of the color I wanted/needed. I asked the lady to call the other store, & ask for the right color, we looked @ the dyes together & she called & had the person hold it for me.
I went there, bought it, came home..it's the WRONG fucking color. (Yea I should've checked :() I called the store I got it from, & I was angry but not yelling..she tried to say the lady @ the other store told her that was the color & the store was open til 6pm so I could return it, blah blah. Mind you, I've had probs w/this same person, she's lazy & doesn't want to help.
When I was in the store I put the stuff aside @ the register that I was returning then went bk, cause AGAIN she put aside the WRONG DYE 2nd time (when I called I asked specifically for the color I wanted)
Then when I was in the bk looking I said, "Can someone help me"? cause they weren't getting off their ass anytime soon to help, even though I'd already said I couldn't read the label due to not having my glasses with..
When she came bk, I said "SORRY to bother you" & when she when bk by the register I heard her call me an asshole. There was also I believe a mgr working too.
On top of all THAT, I didn't bring my receipt, & they owed me like .11 cents but couldn't process the transaction unless I spent more $???
So yea, I will def be an asshole I already called cust svc, (I knew they wouldnt be in but hoped I could leave mssg) their email doesn't work, so yea I will be an asshole & I'm fucking done w/Sally's>:(
Edit: I found the receipt so, all the shit's going bk tomorrow ($30.00 worth)
& no, they didn't say 'thank you', good bye, have a nice day, none of that either.