View Full Version : Feeling pissy today. Petty annoyances, what do you have?
Selina M
07-04-2016, 03:24 PM
The first thing occurs to me about horses is the ridiculous expenses (medical bills, horse shoes, boarding fee or endless chores). How do you keep up with all that?
It's not THAT bad in states that are 'cowboy' areas. NV, NM, TX etc are all ok.
When I had him at home his food was only about $120/month. He doesn't wear shoes so trimming his feet is $40 every 2 months.
It's a bit more to board him but I also don't board at show barns, they want like $350-$500 to stall him. He's in a bigger pen with pasture turnout so the sun dries out the poo and they tramp it down into dirt again; hence there's no stall mucking, so no hired help, so they charge much less.
I don't think I could handle bringing him anywhere east of Texas though, the board is as much as rent out that way.
Oh, and vet bills... pray nothing major happens. I can handle wounds that don't need stitches, foot abcesses, etc. Even a nasty wound that needs stitches is generally <$500. Anything really major like colic or broken bones is unfortunately cut-and-dry in that you will probably have to put them down. I'm a bit overly careful with him in that respect.
whirlerz
07-04-2016, 03:27 PM
I LOVE HORSES!!! & yep, mega expen$ive here :(
Selina M
07-04-2016, 08:30 PM
I love these dogs to pieces, but the one is just ridiculous on holidays with fireworks. From like 8pm to 11pm, he's basically trying to climb inside me. It's too hot for this.
Right now he's laying behind me on the couch, hyperventilating, after his attempt to become a canine scarf around my neck didn't work. I feel so bad for him but nothing helps. Calming stuff doesn't work, he won't let me put cotton in his ears, he won't stay under a blanket or anything. I'm gonna have to get him legit sedatives from the vet next time there's fireworks.
Edit: Oh my God it's midnight, and the downstairs neighbors are now lighting sparklers off right outside our building. I JUST had him calm. Now I'm in for another hour of him panicking. PUT YOUR KIDS TO BED, and go inside, motherfuckers! I even went Grumpy Old Lady and called the cops, and they said "Since they live there it's ok even though it's a public sidewalk". Wtf.
JenniferNorth
07-05-2016, 05:26 AM
^ For real, my Chihuahua does that too! My husband and I had a real issue on our hands last night-fireworks going off of course (we live in a small town, so you could totally hear the town fireworks) and the dog was upset. I hope he feels better today (your dog that is-mine can have the memory of a goldfish). I'm sure the stupid people in my building will be setting off fireworks tonight, anyways...
So I want to complain about my in-laws if I can...so husbands Grandma has been giving me a lot of her old jewelry, which was very kind of her, and I never expected it. Last time we went she offered me a watch. I was like, well no, I don't wear fancy watches (I'm actually going to list a Gucci watch I brought years ago on Etsy, because it's not practical for me). She was like, oh but I'll get it appraised and you can sell it if you guys need the money. I said ok. Asked her about it yesterday. "Oh, I changed my mind, decided to keep it." Um, okay. Thanks...? I get it was never mine to begin with, but I was going to sell it and use the money for stuff. It's just a little annoying, making a big deal of giving it to me, and then not. Hardly anyone wears watches these days, at least from what I have seen. I guess it was worth $1,000, so I don't know. Whatever, just annoyed.
Also, my BIL was in such a mood yesterday. He's been out of prison for a year now, doing legit work, but is frustrated by it and wants to go back to what he was doing before....He was in a mood last time we went over to visit, and I feel bad for my SIL, if she has to put up with his bad moods like this, or if it's just when we visit Grandma or what. I feel like saying "Dude, however shit was 10-15 years ago? SO NOT the way it is today. It sucks, but it's true." I don't know where he thinks this "fabulous life" is or whatever, most people budget, make lifestyle changes (IE don't go out and party every night! Summer is the best time to just hang with friends or even just be outdoors by yourself).
Ughhh. Oh well, on to a new day!
Aurora_Sunset
07-06-2016, 09:19 AM
It finally randomly came out in class yesterday that I'm mostly vegetarian, and of course, I was instantly subjected to the shitty "lectures" about it. The first thing out of this girl's mouth was "There's no nutritional value in a vegetarian diet." I was just like "Uhh... ok..."
I don't know if she meant that vegetarians have no nutrients in their body? Because that's just... blatantly untrue. If she was making the argument that a vegetarian diet is no more inherently healthy than a meat-eating diet, then yeah, sure. If you're talking about a vegetarian who just eats cheese pizza and french fries, then yeah, they're probably less healthy than someone who eats turkey sandwiches. But they're no more unhealthy than someone who eats meat and just eats... pepperoni pizza and bacon-loaded french fries... like... obviously. You can make that argument when comparing any two diets. But if you give a shit about your nutrients and health, you'll find a way to be healthy regardless of diet. Then I had to hear the lecture on soy fucking up your estrogen - like I've never heard that before... I don't consume vast quantities of soy. I swear, when people hear vegetarian, the only thing that pops into their head is tofu - as though that's the only place I go to get protein. -_- You know what else fucks with your estrogen? Birth control. But I bet almost every woman that's given me the soy lecture is on birth control.
Then someone asked why I eat eggs (because I had mentioned them in a recipe earlier), and I said most vegetarians eat eggs. They're considered vegetarian - just not vegan. Which started mocking comments about how people can't keep up with all this "new age hippie shit, made up lingo." Like... Idk, maybe it's just me, but I feel like the distinction between vegetarian (eats eggs, drinks milk, just doesn't eat meat) and vegan (doesn't consume animal products period) has been around for awhile.
This is seriously one of my biggest pet peeves - people ranting about how "annoying" vegetarians are about their diet, when every time it's even come out that I don't eat meat, it's usually after months of knowing me, because someone specifically asked something that led to that revelation - and that's all I fucking say: "I don't eat meat." And then the next 15 minutes of conversation is everyone else bashing vegetarians while I just sit there... ya know - NOT in any way proselytizing my viewpoint or bashing them... like everyone claims we do. I get beat up way more often for my decision to just not eat something than I've ever even seen a fellow vegetarian give anyone grief over their decision to eat a steak. I swear the "offense" is all in their defensive heads, kinda like how people go batshit defending alcohol whenever someone simply says they don't drink - as though their action (or inaction) in and of itself is a diss on them. Like, calm your tits. Sometimes people's decisions about what to put into their bodies or not truly isn't about anyone but themselves.
Aurora_Sunset
07-06-2016, 10:05 AM
Alright, one more, cuz people have been weirdly irritating this week and I can't get their voices out of my head.
The other day, a friend asked me about my grad program and was like "You're just getting the certificate? Are you going to go on to get the master's?" And I said probably not, it doesn't really seem necessary for what I want to do. And she was like "Yeah, but... I mean, I feel like as long you're doing it anyway, you may as well get the real degree."
Ok, first of all, it IS a "real" degree - I'm just not taking it as far as a master's level. And secondly, oh really? I "may as well?" Like spending an extra 2 years going to school part time, almost 10,000 extra dollars, writing a thesis, and spending my time dicking around in an internship is just... a minor "blip" in terms of my schedule and plans? You gonna go to class for me? You gonna give me the money? You gonna write my thesis for me? You gonna go do some stupid internship for me? This is someone who took 7 years to finish her undergrad and doesn't even need to pay back her loans now (I still have 13K left on my undergrad loans)... I feel like I don't need some shit from her about how I "may as well get the real degree while I'm at it (wtf?)" in terms of expensive, time-consuming grad school which I am already not enjoying.
baer45
07-06-2016, 10:39 AM
Alright, one more, cuz people have been weirdly irritating this week and I can't get their voices out of my head.
The other day, a friend asked me about my grad program and was like "You're just getting the certificate? Are you going to go on to get the master's?" And I said probably not, it doesn't really seem necessary for what I want to do. And she was like "Yeah, but... I mean, I feel like as long you're doing it anyway, you may as well get the real degree."
Ok, first of all, it IS a "real" degree - I'm just not taking it as far as a master's level. And secondly, oh really? I "may as well?" Like spending an extra 2 years going to school part time, almost 10,000 extra dollars, writing a thesis, and spending my time dicking around in an internship is just... a minor "blip" in terms of my schedule and plans? You gonna go to class for me? You gonna give me the money? You gonna write my thesis for me? You gonna go do some stupid internship for me? This is someone who took 7 years to finish her undergrad... I feel like I don't need some shit from her about how I "may as well get the real degree while I'm at" in terms of expensive, time-consuming grad school which I am already not enjoying.
Hahahahah, real degree. It's not too real for me.
lynn2009
07-06-2016, 02:56 PM
Alright, one more, cuz people have been weirdly irritating this week and I can't get their voices out of my head.
The other day, a friend asked me about my grad program and was like "You're just getting the certificate? Are you going to go on to get the master's?" And I said probably not, it doesn't really seem necessary for what I want to do. And she was like "Yeah, but... I mean, I feel like as long you're doing it anyway, you may as well get the real degree."
Ok, first of all, it IS a "real" degree - I'm just not taking it as far as a master's level. And secondly, oh really? I "may as well?" Like spending an extra 2 years going to school part time, almost 10,000 extra dollars, writing a thesis, and spending my time dicking around in an internship is just... a minor "blip" in terms of my schedule and plans? You gonna go to class for me? You gonna give me the money? You gonna write my thesis for me? You gonna go do some stupid internship for me? This is someone who took 7 years to finish her undergrad and doesn't even need to pay back her loans now (I still have 13K left on my undergrad loans)... I feel like I don't need some shit from her about how I "may as well get the real degree while I'm at it (wtf?)" in terms of expensive, time-consuming grad school which I am already not enjoying.
Someone in the industry I'm moving into suggested I stay with the certificate since once switched you'll be entry level again anyway. That's totally what I would do if my tuition weren't covered in full plus I can't leave my current employer sooner than three years or so anyway because I've already done a lot of job hopping. People are idiots.
JenniferNorth
07-06-2016, 06:59 PM
I am ((HUGGING)) you right now. I have been vegetarian since 2007, and I deal with so much harassment. It's not even funny how many people are offended by MY diet, MY choice, and I don't even shove vegan literature in their faces! About the only thing I do is insist my meat eating and hunter husband buy from local farmers, where the animals were allowed to have a more natural life. Seriously, it makes me sad the amount of abuse vegetarians get. Yes, people take it WAAAAAAY too personally, which I don't get. Why would you care what someone else does that does NOT negatively affect you, the meat-eater?
I feel your pain!
xStacey
07-06-2016, 10:56 PM
Why do I get so many sugar daddy offers when I am not looking, but not when I am looking ? lol
I have two good clients who keep insisting on taking me out but I really don't have time lately, so I keep leading them on and they keep asking, I keep refusing, they start begging...
DonaDiabla
07-07-2016, 02:04 PM
Things that piss me off this week:
Guys who want me not to wear makeup in my custom videos. Seriously, why are you playing fashion police? You know, you could just buy girl next door videos.Also, you need to pay me extra not to wear makeup on camera.
Fake ass instagram finsubs trying to message and get offended after I ask for a tribute off the bat. Seriously, why would I talk to broke ass loser on Instagram?
Velveteen.Rabbit
07-07-2016, 08:51 PM
This is me! Ugh it's so annoying. Like I could care less what other people eat. All I know is that I don't support poor factory farm conditions (i.e. 99.99999% of farms Bc they make profit cutting corners), I never really liked the taste of meat, and I get TONS of protein from beans/nuts/greens probably moreso than the average female meat eater. It's really dumb.
OMG there was this one Sexworker who would always be super creepy and send me photos of uncooked meat and make jabs about how people who don't eat meat how their brain is less developed. So creepy lol. Like why do you care? I think it has to be a form of insecurity or jealous when people do that TBH
It finally randomly came out in class yesterday that I'm mostly vegetarian, and of course, I was instantly subjected to the shitty "lectures" about it. The first thing out of this girl's mouth was "There's no nutritional value in a vegetarian diet." I was just like "Uhh... ok..."
I don't know if she meant that vegetarians have no nutrients in their body? Because that's just... blatantly untrue. If she was making the argument that a vegetarian diet is no more inherently healthy than a meat-eating diet, then yeah, sure. If you're talking about a vegetarian who just eats cheese pizza and french fries, then yeah, they're probably less healthy than someone who eats turkey sandwiches. But they're no more unhealthy than someone who eats meat and just eats... pepperoni pizza and bacon-loaded french fries... like... obviously. You can make that argument when comparing any two diets. But if you give a shit about your nutrients and health, you'll find a way to be healthy regardless of diet. Then I had to hear the lecture on soy fucking up your estrogen - like I've never heard that before... I don't consume vast quantities of soy. I swear, when people hear vegetarian, the only thing that pops into their head is tofu - as though that's the only place I go to get protein. -_- You know what else fucks with your estrogen? Birth control. But I bet almost every woman that's given me the soy lecture is on birth control.
Then someone asked why I eat eggs (because I had mentioned them in a recipe earlier), and I said most vegetarians eat eggs. They're considered vegetarian - just not vegan. Which started mocking comments about how people can't keep up with all this "new age hippie shit, made up lingo." Like... Idk, maybe it's just me, but I feel like the distinction between vegetarian (eats eggs, drinks milk, just doesn't eat meat) and vegan (doesn't consume animal products period) has been around for awhile.
This is seriously one of my biggest pet peeves - people ranting about how "annoying" vegetarians are about their diet, when every time it's even come out that I don't eat meat, it's usually after months of knowing me, because someone specifically asked something that led to that revelation - and that's all I fucking say: "I don't eat meat." And then the next 15 minutes of conversation is everyone else bashing vegetarians while I just sit there... ya know - NOT in any way proselytizing my viewpoint or bashing them... like everyone claims we do. I get beat up way more often for my decision to just not eat something than I've ever even seen a fellow vegetarian give anyone grief over their decision to eat a steak. I swear the "offense" is all in their defensive heads, kinda like how people go batshit defending alcohol whenever someone simply says they don't drink - as though their action (or inaction) in and of itself is a diss on them. Like, calm your tits. Sometimes people's decisions about what to put into their bodies or not truly isn't about anyone but themselves.
Velveteen.Rabbit
07-07-2016, 08:53 PM
Why do I get so many sugar daddy offers when I am not looking, but not when I am looking ? lol
I have two good clients who keep insisting on taking me out but I really don't have time lately, so I keep leading them on and they keep asking, I keep refusing, they start begging...
Because they feel better about themselves when they know the girl doesn't need them or the money. I've heard that so many times before!
Aurora_Sunset
07-08-2016, 06:24 AM
Why is it so damn difficult to get someone's shitty fake profile taken off of facebook? This woman specifically created a fake profile for the express purpose of writing nasty shit about her ex husband and my friend and send people (including me) harassing messages about how my friend is a homewrecking cunt blah blah blah. I initially tried to report it as fake and... it doesn't even get reported! It's just like "You can block her." Thanks, facebook.... So I tried reporting it a different way and it's still frikin' up...
You know damn well that had I reported a picture of a woman breastfeeding, that shit would be removed in less than 24 hours... -_-
carmen_b
07-08-2016, 06:31 PM
I realized that I needed to follow this up because he COMPLETELY made up for it ( food / coffee / bedroom extravagance ). Haha.
Of all the things going right in the new city / new house .... something is going wrong.
First .... the recap of how I messed up a little :
We moved into a new place and I admit I didn't do as much as I should have with the house . I fully admit I got caught up in business stuff and stress . He put most of the house together and I bought a bedroom set yesterday kind of " evening " the effort.
The problem :
We had a talk after a few days of constant nit picking about the house and I admitted I messed up and haven't done what I should have to fully contribute ( I do financially, I slacked on keeping things nice looking in the house ).
The nutshell is that we are just at such an un-comfy spot . I assumed the picking would stop today after the talk and lashed out BADLY when it didn't . My partner is now hiding out from me. I just want to not derail that day or the coffee date we had planned but I will NOT be picked at especially when I agreed I messed up and made a promise to fix it and I will make good on the promise.
A large reason I'm sensitive the nit-picking is that was a main contributor for me leaving my only other long term relationship. Over about a year , I started to hate my ex and eventually just bailed dramatically ( moving a town away and soon after 3,000 miles away) . I don't want the same fate for us.
baer45
07-08-2016, 09:57 PM
I forgot to buy lottery ticket. Now someone in Indiana has won/
rareaspasia
07-09-2016, 02:04 PM
My car battery died right after my waxing appointment today. And of course it's in winter park in a really nice area full of businesses that won't let you hang out inside in the ac. So as I'm waiting for triple a to show up guys in luxury cars are slowing down to stare at me in my shorts and tank top. Finally this ugly fuck pulls over and while blatantly staring at my legs and tits asks me if I need help. Clearly being a peeve. I'm thinking, it is humid as fuck and 111 degrees with the heat index, I am sweating like a whore in church and I just got my asshole waxed. You can fuck right off before I end you with my bottle of post waxing soothing lotion. Wtf is up with creepers trying to take advantage of women? But all I said was no, and stared at him until he sheepishly got in his Lexus and drove off.
miss.a.p1600
07-09-2016, 03:45 PM
FML....just fml *sigh*
Selina M
07-10-2016, 03:57 AM
WOW.
It's 3:30 and I hear fireworks going off. It's the same kids I called the cops on earlier today (they're lighting them off next to bushes and I've watched them stomp out a fire already). I keep an eye out through the window and they go literally 1 foot behind my car, directly underneath a tree. Um, NO. I went out on my balcony and just said "That's my car, could you please not?"
"Shut the fuck up, or I'll really do something to your car, bitch."
Holy shit, I wish I knew whose kids they were. What is the MATTER with kids these days?!
miss.a.p1600
07-10-2016, 09:05 AM
I'm hungry but I'm fresh out of waffle mix and syrup. Now I must forage for food. Fml
whirlerz
07-10-2016, 10:18 AM
I forgot to buy lottery ticket. Now someone in Indiana has won/
Yea. I almost forgot, I had to get off the tollway, & get one..I lost too.:(:(
My car battery died right after my waxing appointment today. And of course it's in winter park in a really nice area full of businesses that won't let you hang out inside in the ac. So as I'm waiting for triple a to show up guys in luxury cars are slowing down to stare at me in my shorts and tank top. Finally this ugly fuck pulls over and while blatantly staring at my legs and tits asks me if I need help. Clearly being a peeve. I'm thinking, it is humid as fuck and 111 degrees with the heat index, I am sweating like a whore in church and I just got my asshole waxed. You can fuck right off before I end you with my bottle of post waxing soothing lotion. Wtf is up with creepers trying to take advantage of women? But all I said was no, and stared at him until he sheepishly got in his Lexus and drove off.
What a fuckin' D*k
WOW.
It's 3:30 and I hear fireworks going off. It's the same kids I called the cops on earlier today (they're lighting them off next to bushes and I've watched them stomp out a fire already). I keep an eye out through the window and they go literally 1 foot behind my car, directly underneath a tree. Um, NO. I went out on my balcony and just said "That's my car, could you please not?"
"Shut the fuck up, or I'll really do something to your car, bitch."
Holy shit, I wish I knew whose kids they were. What is the MATTER with kids these days?!
Yes, they are spoiled, @ best if not spoiled but ignored.^ That wd extreme piss me off
I'm hungry but I'm fresh out of waffle mix and syrup. Now I must forage for food. Fml
Ms P! I feel you, I bought a little cheese danish (a fav) yesterday for this morn. I HATE not having breakfast food, I bought a bunch of stuff the other day too. Y'all try the Evol egg white on flatbread, w/kale/goat cheese, sounds weird but they're super good.
Me
Feelin' blah & down, I spent lotta time @ my storage yesterday but got little done..
I went to a mfc party for the Chicago Sexcon Fri nite, & today's the last day of Sexcon, I can get in free, if I park by my storage, I can get an Uber for about 10. ea way..but Idk if I feel like going..
Also, I mainly put my plants outside when I'm @ my storage, they're my babies, & the one yucca isn't growing. :(
Aurora_Sunset
07-10-2016, 01:31 PM
I am massively hungover, apparently did some stupid embarrassing shit last night, managed to burn a pretty noticeable hole in the borrowed shirt that I wear for clinicals, spent almost $30 on pizza delivery from a place I don't normally order from and it sucks, I have 2/3 of a paper to finish writing by midnight but any position that is comfortable enough to write a paper is also comfortable enough to start closing my eyes and passing out, and this next week is gonna suck soooo hard with school stuff and I'm already starting off not being motivated to do any prep work the day before the madness starts.
I am so put together...
miss.a.p1600
07-10-2016, 02:59 PM
I don't feel like doing jack sh*t today.
I ignored this guys calls because I know he's going to talk incessantly and ask me to meet up and I don't feel like making an effort. Fml!
Aurora_Sunset
07-11-2016, 06:07 PM
Alright, sorry if this is TMI, but I hate when my schedule is thrown off (getting up earlier than normal, having to be somewhere all day), because my poop schedule gets thrown off. I end up just not pooping for like 3 days until my body readjusts. It happens every time I travel for instance, and it's happening this week with having to be up early and in class all day. I already feel constipated and uncomfortable.
Also, the dude I lost my v-card to and who hasn't contacted me in YEARS (and why would I want him to?) randomly fucking messaged me tonight. I debated responding for a couple hours, finally did, and he's... giving me nothing to fucking go on. Said he just wants to reconnect with old friends, but barely talking unless I squeeze info out of him with multiple questions. Dude, I'm not the one who decided to dig up the fucking past. Why bother contacting me if you're gonna sit silently on the other side of your computer?
We had a rabbit like you
07-11-2016, 06:50 PM
^yes im dealing w the same thing, I cannot STAND being constipated I cannot start my day til I've gotten it outta my system..literally. Unless I drink a ton of oil or milk or magnesia or smthg strong like that I won't go..prunes and coffee don't cut it. Tmi I know. I'm so gross
miss.a.p1600
07-11-2016, 08:30 PM
Ugh!!!!! I think the dude is pissed because I told him I was too busy to hang out. Giving me one word text replies and hasn't called me. Whatever this is bullsh*t. I can't help my p*ssy requires advanced reservations, there's a long wait time and there's no guarantee you'll get in.
This is why I stayed single for so
[email protected] long.
I'm sexually frustrated and I don't have time to figure this sh*t out.
I'm just going to masturbate and go to sleep.
Just fml!
JenniferNorth
07-11-2016, 08:34 PM
It has been 90 today. I wore capris and one of those exercise bra tops, so my midriff was showing, along with my hip dermal and naval piercing. I took the dog out potty. Some woman driving down the street actually turned and gaped at me, while giving a bitch face.
Yes, I know. I look like a whore. Have a nice day, cunt.
Fucking small town people.
xStacey
07-11-2016, 08:37 PM
Ok seriously, I rarely text anyone first, why do people keep texting me to make plans and then when I reply they ignore for 1-2 days ?
And there's one friend I haven't seen in years who knows I always plan my days and weeks in advance but he always texts to hang out last minute and I am never available. So I try to give them another day the same week he replies oh I am not sure and then texts me another day to hang out the same day and again, I am unavailable. On days or weeks I say I will be free, he never texts to hang out and during my exam weeks he wants to hang out. Whatever.
I am such a loner I rarely initiate making plans with anyone, and I've been so busy the last year I'm really enjoying my time alone the last couple of days. It's just annoying when I do make an effort to be available to people who want to see me, they act like this. Is it really that difficult replying that day would work (or not) when you're the one who asked me to hang out ? And the other friend who keeps trying to make plans on days I clearly won't be available, then get frustrated because I am not available.
xStacey
07-12-2016, 12:45 AM
So many promoters on forums and reviews sites about plastic surgeons and plastic surgery clinics, it's sometimes difficult to tell if someone is a promoter ugh. One of them had 720 posts before he was banned.
22lligm
07-12-2016, 08:52 AM
My first world problems today..
My laptop is too slow to use so I have to use my phone for SW, which is never fun. I wish there was an app that made it easier.
And my skin is getting so congested from sweating so much at work. Like WHY is it so warm in the strip club?? A naked girl should not be so sweaty! My skin is so sensitive and I'm trying to work everyday this week so no Bueno.
lynn2009
07-12-2016, 09:46 AM
My first world problems today..
My laptop is too slow to use so I have to use my phone for SW, which is never fun. I wish there was an app that made it easier.
There is a general forum app but it's 3-4 dollars a month. Every now and then the option to download the app will pop up for me.
baer45
07-12-2016, 12:32 PM
Whatever this is bullsh*t. I can't help my p*ssy requires advanced reservations, there's a long wait time and there's no guarantee you'll get in.
Just fml!
haha, you crack me up.
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miss.a.p1600
07-12-2016, 01:21 PM
^^^^^Bahahahaha
This is classic!!!
I'm crying laughing right now.
xStacey
07-12-2016, 03:23 PM
Libraries with security guard whose only job is to stop people with a cup of coffee from entering.
xStacey
07-12-2016, 03:28 PM
It has been 90 today. I wore capris and one of those exercise bra tops, so my midriff was showing, along with my hip dermal and naval piercing. I took the dog out potty. Some woman driving down the street actually turned and gaped at me, while giving a bitch face.
Yes, I know. I look like a whore. Have a nice day, cunt.
Fucking small town people.
Haha some people are like that even in big cities unfortunately. I went out for my birthday, it was a Tuesday night and I rarely dress up anymore but for my night out I wore a bandage dress with a low V-cut but the dress stopped below my knees, hair down and red lipstick. I had a lot of mean stares from women and people talking shit, such as oh my god it's a Tuesday, one woman was with her husband and said what?! is that a joke ?! lol I am tiny with low body fat so when I wear something revealing it is pretty obvious my DD's aren't natural. My date found it funny there was a 13 years old teenage boy with his father who kept looking at me but when my date saw, the guy looked away lol.
Selina M
07-12-2016, 03:58 PM
Haha some people are like that even in big cities unfortunately. .
Can confirm. It's literally 115* here. I wear shorts and crop tops because it's hot as fuck, not to show off... yet still lots of looks from older ladies. I don't know why women have to hate so hard on each other.
Mine: My legs are so long that any dress meant to be knee-length still a) hits a bit too far above it, b) looks short as hell anyway just because of my legs. If I had to buy actual professional wear, I'd be relegated to pants and those awful tight pencil skirts, cuz all the cute dresses are like that.
lynn2009
07-12-2016, 07:33 PM
I hate when guys are awkward or bad at online dating. Like, can we please just get coffee and see if there's chemistry and move on with our lives?
miss.a.p1600
07-12-2016, 10:29 PM
^^^^yes girl! I'm struggling with that sh*t right now.
When this little online dating thing I've trapped myself into with this guy - I'm going back to being a gold digger first then I'll worry about love later.
This guy is pissing me off. He's complained that I don't call him, I don't show him affection, I allegedly stood him up, said I was immature, too mysterious, I have no passion, said I was starting to age, said I don't have enough life experience. Like if you think this then why the f*ck should we continue?!?
Im trying to figure out my exit plan cause I need someone richer anyways.
Aurora_Sunset
07-13-2016, 04:23 PM
Sooo, I'm on campus this week, and during lunch break today, I went to the food court. I'm always the first one there, and my classmates usually see me and join me. Today, I decided I wanted to sit outside cuz it was actually nice out today (not too hot) with a nice breeze. I passed some classmates on my way out of the food court and was like "oh hey, I was gonna sit outside today. Wanna join me?" And they were all like "oh, yeah, sure!" So I told them I'd be right out there. Well, I guess they changed their minds? Cuz I ate my entire lunch, sat out there a bit longer, and no one joined me. So, I guess, fuck me then? The really shitty part is, the way the food court wall/window is set up, I can't see in to the huge wall-window into the inside due to glare, but I'm SURE they fucking could see me sitting out there, and no one could even come out and tell me that they decided it was too hot or something and they were eating inside? Thanks, assholes.
THEN, the program director had invited everyone out to drinks after class tonight (since we're all just starting the program). Half the class was just blatantly like "ehh, no, I'm tired" after class tonight and left to go back to their hotels. I was like "well, I don't want to stand this up, I'm going." I went to the bar... and not only were NONE of my classmates there, but neither was the fucking director. Stood up twice in one day. Wtf?
And the thing that really REALLY gets me about all this? Our goddamn degree is in Philanthropic Studies.... these are alllll people who claim to care about others and want to help the world... But they don't even have the fucking decency to keep lunch/drink plans with their classmates? UHHHHHH....What fucking universe am I in???
JenniferNorth
07-13-2016, 08:25 PM
^ That is...really saying something. Although I will be frank with you, I earned an MBA with a focus in non-profit management. Yeah. My classmates ended up being some of the rudest people ever. And this was in fucking business school. Not undergrad! I also worked for a non-profit and again, some of the worst people, back-biting, nosy, rude. I was working there during my divorce, and I just tried to keep it on the DL, because when I told them, they couldn't even be bothered to be the tiniest bit understanding. I wish I could say something like "Oh, it will get better", but I have not had positive experiences. If I ever do non-profit work, I'll just start my own dog and cat rescue.
My pissy problem today is that I am on day one of bleeding (and not dying, as my husband always says), and I am tired as fuck. Which sucks, since I need to work. Also, I guess pest control people are coming to the apartment tomorrow. My notice? A note taped on the door this morning.
Vyanka
07-14-2016, 09:16 AM
Stupid host fucked us over on our vip tip on purpose just bc his feelings got hurt by the customer. Are you serious?! I had a great customer who was gonna tip us (3 girls) generously no problem, but the stupid host said no bc he already spent too much. I wanna bang my head against the wall.
chloemay
07-14-2016, 11:25 AM
Neighbor who I dislike (she and her boyfriend have nasty, loud outdoor fights at least once a week, just gross people) knocking and knocking on my door, driving my dog nuts. I didn't answer, but stuck my "Working- Do Not Disturb" sign on the door as soon as she left. Guess I'm going to have to remember to do that daily now.
chanzep
07-14-2016, 05:23 PM
So annoyed, I hate the fact that I have to rely on others right now, and then they let me down and make me feel shit. 1 favour is all I ask you say yes then don't come thru grr.
baer45
07-14-2016, 06:28 PM
Nice, I was there. Very beautiful place.
lynn2009
07-15-2016, 08:24 AM
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Cashmere Star
07-15-2016, 04:21 PM
Was gonna go in to dance today, but my period hit and it's painful. It hasn't been painful in months. I think it might be the new supplement I started. :(
I don't know if I want to go in tomorrow either now.
We had a rabbit like you
07-15-2016, 05:08 PM
Not really petty but real pissy..
My stupid MacBook pro is not gunna make it I don't think, iMovie isnt working right. I'm taking it to the Apple store and if not then I'll have to buy one in order to cam/clip and make money. I don't have a lotta time either, the skinnier I get the more I start to show.
My stupid ass regular told me he would take me to dinner and give me money and now he's saying just dinner after I already turned another reg down. NO FUCK YOU ASSHOLE .you can give me money for seeing you or go screw. I'm walking a fine line cause he's very sensitive and I don't have a lotta options right now w quitting the club soon but that makes me angry. I need money now and I don't need fucking dinner.
My husband now feels "uncomfortable" having sex w me even though I'm skinnier than I've been in years, blonder, and more fake tanned. He says it's creepy cuz there's a baby in there.
Still fighting w my sister, the only one who can help me w clips/camming and I want to crawl in a hole. I feel like I have 0 support
JenniferNorth
07-15-2016, 07:41 PM
((HUGS we had a rabbit like you))
I wish I could offer more than hugs, but today was a day where I wanted to quit my life, but I can't.
Today my bitch is money issues. Basically atm we are living hand to mouth. I bitched to my mom about why the burden always seems to fall on me. And then today my husband tells me he wants to enroll in police academy and become a cop...and I'm just over here like....okay...
I mean, kudos, at least he's planning for a career and not just crap job to crap job. But I feel like being a cop comes with it's own set of worries.
In short, I feel like I'm going crazy.
In the meantime, I am hating juggling all these eggs, feeling like I have no time for my daughter, and hobbies? What are those?
chanzep
07-15-2016, 08:08 PM
^hope you feel better.
My hubby is upsetting me so much right now, makes me think back to like 11 years ago when I was a newbie and had a horrible boyfriend . I remember crying in the toilet at work then I got ready and had my best night ever at the time and it was a crappy Monday in JanuAry and I made bank and drank a lot of champagne. Don't have that option now. Oh those were the days!
JenniferNorth
07-15-2016, 08:33 PM
^ Thank you!
I would totally be your drinking buddy right now. Bad day to best night ever-that's a damn good Cinderella story! (Side note I wish I had stripped 11 years ago. I don't know why I put up with shit jobs as long as I did...oh wait yes, I was married to my ex and we had an "image" to maintain.)
I'm sorry about your hubby. I always try to think "this too shall pass" and remember that things always look better in the morning.