Incantatious
11-27-2013, 03:13 AM
Is a man calling other women for phone/cam sex considered cheating?
Totally depends on the couple.
Me camming isn't considering cheating in my relationship: I'm nor emotionally nor sexually connected to my clients. They see mah vag, they see mah titties, but guys just jerking it to my stream isn't cheating to us. Cheating to us is emotional or sexual connection to other people, none of which occurs between me and my clients from me. My clients can feel sexually and emotionally towards me, but I'm not feeling anything toward them. If he were sexually connecting to other women via webcamming, then yas, I would consider it cheating.
For those of you in relationships how would you feel if he did so? Its the people requesting for extreme age play that gets to me the most.
These are seemingly well to do men wanting to wank over fucking kids.:(
Oh woah wha? Not sure where the sudden fetish thing came up there. But being as you brought it up I guess I'll tell you my take:
Unless otherwise stated, the guys who masturbate over children are paedophiles. The guys who masturbate over grown, legal, consenting women doing some age roleplay i.e. dressing up in a Schoolgirl outfit are.. guys masturbating over grown women in a Schoolgirl outfit, lol. But this is another topic entirely, and one that never really ends well on this here forum.
The long and short of that is: If you're not comfortable with it, then doooooooooon't do it! :) You've no obligation to do it whatsoever. Age play is against many a camsite policy anyway.
I dont want to even think about the day I tell a future partner about what I do and for some of you whos boyfriends accept it, good on you. Having said that however if I was to enter a serious relationship I would stop camming. I just wouldnt feel comfortable.
This is one of the things you have to consider when you enter into camming. If it's such a hot issue for you, perhaps you should reconsider this whole thing entirely. If you decide to cam, but carry around this guilt with you about it, just know that there may well come a day where you enter into a relationship with a man, it's all wonderful, but then one day he's surfing the net and he stumbles across a clip of you with your legs open, oooing and aahing for the cam.. O.O You'll need to think about how to explain that one away if you actually want to keep your past a secret.
I also feel that men who don't mind their women/wives selling themselves (which is exactly what youre're doing) is either because of financial reasons or have a certain outlook on women in general.
1. LMFAO. Uhh.. no? It is not "exactly" what I am doing, at all. From sex worker to sex worker, can we just clear this one right the hell up? (http://titsandsass.com/the-language-of-selling-yourself/)
2. There are men who just don't see women showing their vag on cam as something to be upset about. That doesn't mean they secretly harbor some horrible resentment and turmoil about dudes online seeing their ladies titties... Nor does it mean these men have some particular outlook on women either, unless you mean these men actually see women as independent human beings who possess their own bodies. In which case, nothing necessarily bad about that.
I'm not saying that you dont find genuine men who simply see it as a vocation but the amount of girls I speak to telling me how theyre supporting their bfs or doing it to keep their family afloat makes me wonder if partners are putting their financial stability before their true feelings.
I understand the above views are rather controversial but they're mine. You dont have to agree but you should respect them :-*
Also the amount of husbands that call saying how much they hate their wives, or that shes too fat, too ugly as I type theres a man who emailed saying how he has a fantasy of raping his wife because she doesnt sleep with him anymore.
Its deplorable.
Its really worrying how many people are dissatisfied with their sex lives. What if such was to happen to me? God.
Guys come onto camsites for fantasy play. Fantasy. Not reality.
And now, if I may - Here's a study on a common fantasy many women have. (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19085605)
We don't know wtf a clients reality is, or how it matches up with this fetish thoughts. Nor really should we. If we are to do that, then whilst you're at it, take literally the many women who frequently like to fantasize about rape. It's just as illogical.
I know youre probably thinking why do you care this is how you make your money but still. I am a woman, and hopefully a future wife and mother before I am a webcam model.
I'm not thinking that at all. I'm just hoping you make the right decision about camming for your life, your future husband, your future children and future life.
Totally depends on the couple.
Me camming isn't considering cheating in my relationship: I'm nor emotionally nor sexually connected to my clients. They see mah vag, they see mah titties, but guys just jerking it to my stream isn't cheating to us. Cheating to us is emotional or sexual connection to other people, none of which occurs between me and my clients from me. My clients can feel sexually and emotionally towards me, but I'm not feeling anything toward them. If he were sexually connecting to other women via webcamming, then yas, I would consider it cheating.
For those of you in relationships how would you feel if he did so? Its the people requesting for extreme age play that gets to me the most.
These are seemingly well to do men wanting to wank over fucking kids.:(
Oh woah wha? Not sure where the sudden fetish thing came up there. But being as you brought it up I guess I'll tell you my take:
Unless otherwise stated, the guys who masturbate over children are paedophiles. The guys who masturbate over grown, legal, consenting women doing some age roleplay i.e. dressing up in a Schoolgirl outfit are.. guys masturbating over grown women in a Schoolgirl outfit, lol. But this is another topic entirely, and one that never really ends well on this here forum.
The long and short of that is: If you're not comfortable with it, then doooooooooon't do it! :) You've no obligation to do it whatsoever. Age play is against many a camsite policy anyway.
I dont want to even think about the day I tell a future partner about what I do and for some of you whos boyfriends accept it, good on you. Having said that however if I was to enter a serious relationship I would stop camming. I just wouldnt feel comfortable.
This is one of the things you have to consider when you enter into camming. If it's such a hot issue for you, perhaps you should reconsider this whole thing entirely. If you decide to cam, but carry around this guilt with you about it, just know that there may well come a day where you enter into a relationship with a man, it's all wonderful, but then one day he's surfing the net and he stumbles across a clip of you with your legs open, oooing and aahing for the cam.. O.O You'll need to think about how to explain that one away if you actually want to keep your past a secret.
I also feel that men who don't mind their women/wives selling themselves (which is exactly what youre're doing) is either because of financial reasons or have a certain outlook on women in general.
1. LMFAO. Uhh.. no? It is not "exactly" what I am doing, at all. From sex worker to sex worker, can we just clear this one right the hell up? (http://titsandsass.com/the-language-of-selling-yourself/)
2. There are men who just don't see women showing their vag on cam as something to be upset about. That doesn't mean they secretly harbor some horrible resentment and turmoil about dudes online seeing their ladies titties... Nor does it mean these men have some particular outlook on women either, unless you mean these men actually see women as independent human beings who possess their own bodies. In which case, nothing necessarily bad about that.
I'm not saying that you dont find genuine men who simply see it as a vocation but the amount of girls I speak to telling me how theyre supporting their bfs or doing it to keep their family afloat makes me wonder if partners are putting their financial stability before their true feelings.
I understand the above views are rather controversial but they're mine. You dont have to agree but you should respect them :-*
Also the amount of husbands that call saying how much they hate their wives, or that shes too fat, too ugly as I type theres a man who emailed saying how he has a fantasy of raping his wife because she doesnt sleep with him anymore.
Its deplorable.
Its really worrying how many people are dissatisfied with their sex lives. What if such was to happen to me? God.
Guys come onto camsites for fantasy play. Fantasy. Not reality.
And now, if I may - Here's a study on a common fantasy many women have. (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19085605)
We don't know wtf a clients reality is, or how it matches up with this fetish thoughts. Nor really should we. If we are to do that, then whilst you're at it, take literally the many women who frequently like to fantasize about rape. It's just as illogical.
I know youre probably thinking why do you care this is how you make your money but still. I am a woman, and hopefully a future wife and mother before I am a webcam model.
I'm not thinking that at all. I'm just hoping you make the right decision about camming for your life, your future husband, your future children and future life.