View Full Version : When Custie Enters Prvt., and tells You to "Hurry Up!"~Your Suggestions
Camigirl
12-11-2013, 09:08 AM
^^Agreed Shana I have huge fibroids, so dildoing hurts- Even a finger is painful.
I have been doing a lot of thinking about this from the guy's perspective, and wonder if dildos are even needed. just IMO.
I mean, if the tables were reversed, and I was paying for a show from a guy, wouldn't it be like watching him stick his dick into a flesh light?
I have had success in the past when the custie can see my spread va-ja-jay, and let them imagine how he's thrusting in and out. They never complained, when I just do lots of dirty talk to get them off.
I hate, hate, hate dildos. I always say that because I do. I also have a Fibroid, it has been shrinking due to my Bio Identical Progesterone now. Still they can hurt, they make me itch (Latex ones or cheapos) they suck. I see many performers making bank with just an Hitachi cum show. Fingers for me are easy, because I control the feel with them. Dildos, suck.
Sexy Shana
12-12-2013, 09:10 AM
I feel for you guys w fibroids, but regardless even w/o, my pussy can't take serious thrusting for long periods and even lube doesn't help @ times.
On dils, I splurge on high quality, my bod is worth it! I now only use silicone, glass & stainless steel.
Sexy Shana
12-12-2013, 09:11 AM
I feel for you guys w fibroids, but regardless even w/o, my pussy can't take serious thrusting for long periods and even lube doesn't help @ times.
On dils, I splurge on high quality, my bod is worth it! I now only use silicone, glass & stainless steel, but still.....
TheBrownFox
12-12-2013, 11:13 AM
I don't even use my dildo unless the guy requests it. I wish more guys would request the vibrator over the dildo, but understandably most guys wanna see in-and-out penetration, so they're gonna request the dildo.
I think my favorite kind of private show is:
-modeling different pairs of panties
-striptease
-foot fetish with an up close shot of my feet and wrinkled soles
Camigirl
12-12-2013, 01:08 PM
I feel for you guys w fibroids, but regardless even w/o, my pussy can't take serious thrusting for long periods and even lube doesn't help @ times.
On dils, I splurge on high quality, my bod is worth it! I now only use silicone, glass & stainless steel, but still.....
Yea glass is the best, quality counts there. I still am not big on penetration on cam. I try to get around it doing other stuff, usually works, but there is always that one guy.
Glamourmilf
12-12-2013, 04:05 PM
I had a repeat I haven't seen in a while last night, that after about 20 straight minutes, watching me use the dildo I would prefer to use because it's silicone and under 5 inches. in doggy style, ask-"Do You have anything bigger?" AARGGHH! I pulled one out because this custie stays so long in exclusive, but I couldn't do any more shows after him. Ouchy, my Coochie! I guess in his case my smaller dildo wasn't doing it for him, and he couldn't get off.
Tbean
12-12-2013, 05:43 PM
If I'm in a mood I'll just leave the session and log off lmao I just can't stand that shit...
anonymous camgirl
12-13-2013, 07:28 AM
I have done that before.. LONG time ago I had a 45 min show straight dildoing.. I was so annoyed and irritated I got angry and pushed the button the computer to shut down with my foot....lol 45 mins of fucking yourself?? was he for real?
If I'm in a mood I'll just leave the session and log off lmao I just can't stand that shit...
TheBrownFox
12-13-2013, 08:14 AM
I have done that before.. LONG time ago I had a 45 min show straight dildoing.. I was so annoyed and irritated I got angry and pushed the button the computer to shut down with my foot....lol 45 mins of fucking yourself?? was he for real?
I agree. Using a dildo for 45 minutes is way too long, and guys who expect cam girls to do it for that long need to get real! Same goes for guys doing a 30-minute Skype session (I avoid calling it "Skype show" cuz some knucklehead will think that means an actual 30-min dildo show...lol). In my mind, a 30-minute Skype session would be me and the guy chatting, me stripping naked, me using oil, and then me using a dildo for 10 minutes tops. I am not using a dildo longer than 10 minutes.
Also, I noticed that some guys will jerk off very slowly. I'm talking moving slowly as a snail. I don't understand it...lol. How in the world can you cum moving as slowly as a snail??? If I had a dick, I'd be jerking it faster than that...believe that. :P
justanothercamgirl
12-13-2013, 09:22 AM
Thanks so much for starting this thread! I actually struggle with this issue too.
Glamourmilf
12-13-2013, 10:00 AM
I agree with Your point of view with asking why I just didn't end the long session. I would have if my goal was to make even a grand in a week camming, but the thought of having to go sit in free chat again, was not what I was in the mood for. "A bird in the hand... as the saying goes". My expense are over $6000 per month, so onward I go. My 3 jobs need to cover my goals, so, until I can figure out where I want to move to lessen the financial burden, that's my life, and welcome to it.
Magical_Hoohah
12-16-2013, 06:56 PM
My suggestion is to send them my way, because most of the time it feels like *I'm* rushing the custie, lol! Obviously I need to go find the threads about how to slow down a private. The typical private for me goes something like, "Hi, how are you? What would you like to get up to today?" (yes, it's a pun) "Sooo... If you want me to keep my clothes on, please say so now, because otherwise I'm getting naked." *my clothes come off in the fastest possible manner* "Ok, let me show you my favorite dildo..."
Yeah, not good, I know. But IRL I actually am more comfortable being nude, and I really do like to skip the foreplay and just get to the harder, faster, poundy part, which makes me perfect for the minute men. It doesn't make good business sense on my part, though.
Obviously I don't have any advice about pushy custies, but I have noticed that a bit of sea sponge can really help protect my cervix. I don't get a period because of my birth control, so I use the sponge solely to avoid bruising. Hopefully that's a bit helpful!
SarahTime
12-16-2013, 07:16 PM
My suggestion is to send them my way, because most of the time it feels like *I'm* rushing the custie, lol! Obviously I need to go find the threads about how to slow down a private. The typical private for me goes something like, "Hi, how are you? What would you like to get up to today?" (yes, it's a pun) "Sooo... If you want me to keep my clothes on, please say so now, because otherwise I'm getting naked." *my clothes come off in the fastest possible manner* "Ok, let me show you my favorite dildo..."
Yeah, not good, I know. But IRL I actually am more comfortable being nude, and I really do like to skip the foreplay and just get to the harder, faster, poundy part, which makes me perfect for the minute men. It doesn't make good business sense on my part, though.
Obviously I don't have any advice about pushy custies, but I have noticed that a bit of sea sponge can really help protect my cervix. I don't get a period because of my birth control, so I use the sponge solely to avoid bruising. Hopefully that's a bit helpful!
You must really have a "magical hoohah" to be able to do that! lol :)
Magical_Hoohah
12-16-2013, 07:57 PM
LOL! It's kind of a long running joke with my husband. I think I'm just one of those statistically rare women that only gets off on penetration. Some guys seem to think it's a supernatural power or something, lol. On the flip side, my SN could have been "clit that makes even Hitachi feel sexually incompetent," but that's way too long and not as fun.
SophieL
12-16-2013, 09:20 PM
I quit doing anything below the belt in pvt a few months ago. Mainly because of the 30 sec peepers and it was too uncomfortable to put a dildo in me as much as I was. I have vulvodynia so anything in me can be irritating if not done correctly. I state it clearly on my room topic that full nudity is only in excl... yet they fail to read and ask for that. And yes, some want it instantly. Nothing is instant anymore thanks to their lack of manners and ignorance.
Glamourmilf
12-17-2013, 09:17 AM
^^Well put Sohiel! I'm happy to report, that since I'm only doing exclusives, the dildo rarely comes out.
Taboo_Teen
12-17-2013, 09:25 AM
Id go slower :D Rome wasn't build in a day its worth the wait.
Glamourmilf
12-17-2013, 10:00 AM
^^Exactly! The worst guys are the ones who, when I ask them what they want, and they reply-"BB, anything you want to do that pleasures you. I just want to see You come." Yeah, right!!! I've only had 1 exclusive, who really did want that, and stayed long enough for me to finish, but I'm pretty sure he was taping me. Oh, well.
JamaicanAliesha
12-17-2013, 02:39 PM
THAT IS IT.
I REFUSE to get naked the first 30 seconds of PRVT, & I am letting them know before hand!! I set it as a room topic.
The first minute or so is teasing/flashes, & THEN I will get down to business!!
I say no more 30 second peepers!!
SoloDesire
12-17-2013, 05:58 PM
Oh yeah! I take at least 2 minutes before I'm completely naked in private. If they keep telling me to do something I ignore them...If they want to order me around they should have tried to pull that shit in exclusive, they'd get a better response. I will take requests if I feel like doing them, but otherwise they are gonna have to wait til I'm good and ready. I keep my private prices affordable for that reason...they don't get to order me around for $3.99.
Sexy Shana
12-19-2013, 08:29 AM
LOL! It's kind of a long running joke with my husband. I think I'm just one of those statistically rare women that only gets off on penetration. Some guys seem to think it's a supernatural power or something, lol. On the flip side, my SN could have been "clit that makes even Hitachi feel sexually incompetent," but that's way too long and not as fun.
Wow! I can get off w just penetration and I do w my bf but my Hitachi is my go to toy for a trembling orgasm. Only prob is my clit can get sore from the intensity of the Hitachi and I never use the 2nd (higher) speed.
TheBrownFox
12-19-2013, 09:45 PM
THAT IS IT.
I REFUSE to get naked the first 30 seconds of PRVT, & I am letting them know before hand!! I set it as a room topic.
The first minute or so is teasing/flashes, & THEN I will get down to business!!
I say no more 30 second peepers!!
Not even just that, but for the random guys who've never tipped you before who suddenly want a private...they should unhide their tokens (that way, if they only have like 100 tokens total, you'll see). And make it clear that you expect them to have a minimum of x tokens for private. If this is MFC we're talking about, I know a lot of models on there require guys to spend a minimum of 300 or 400 tokens in private. And the guys who bail after only spending 100 tokens in private (that ain't even 2 minutes!) get banned.
Sexy Shana
12-20-2013, 09:01 AM
I had a repeat I haven't seen in a while last night, that after about 20 straight minutes, watching me use the dildo I would prefer to use because it's silicone and under 5 inches. in doggy style, ask-"Do You have anything bigger?" AARGGHH! I pulled one out because this custie stays so long in exclusive, but I couldn't do any more shows after him. Ouchy, my Coochie! I guess in his case my smaller dildo wasn't doing it for him, and he couldn't get off.
When this happens, guys always seem to want bigger, ha,ha, I focus on his cock and can usually talk him into an orgasm.
Can't afford to abuse my vag.....