AliceFun
12-22-2013, 06:29 AM
I had two ex bf's i met online, we got 'friends' 1st, talked for months, built a 'relationship' before even considering meeting, meeting became natural cause we felt we want each other for real soo bad. I was single, they were too and looking for a life partner.
Before meeting we knew soo much about each other, intimate details included and what we like about everything, there was a connection both times.
Thanks to the 1st guy i am now able to work at home cause we 'connected' when i was working a studio and had no pc or internet at home nor the funds to buy them or the knowledge to cam on my own. That guy teach me everything, bought me all equipment & accessories (all the sexy things to wear on cam lol, he was a real fetishist), set me up with everything i needed to start camming and was a real support in everything for about 5 years, he loved my son a lot and helped always like a good father.
He solved many tech issues from thousands of km away over the internet for me, he spoiled me & my son with gifts, we exchanged gifts with his mom, we wanted to marry, he was an amazing guy for the time that lasted.
We split up cause we could not be together due to personal issues with our families (me having a son in school here i did not wanted to leave alone plus a sick mom and him having an old disabled & sick mom as well he could not leave alone).
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain so it wore off at the end cause we both got frustrated, i decided i dont wanna wait any longer.
The 2nd relationship was with an older guy that played games with me so i left him when i found out things.
Just to let u know guys, i was given a lot of help & money by these 2 guys without me asking for a single cent.
They both fell in love with me telling me i am a special person they never met before. I fell in love the same way. I know, all guys will tell this to girls/ women but it has to be true for them to make a guy fly to a foreign EE country and spend a lot of money on a woman when they could have women close by.
When i talked about doing a mistake to meet cam customers i did not mean it was all a mistake, i mean i wont do it again cause i wont want to go thru a long time distance relationship difficulties or to leave my country again cause i felt i was living there but my soul and heart were at home and i was thinking always to my family and my son, it was impossible to relax there plus the guy was not what i expected to be including not actually supportive. (the 2nd one, i never visited the 1st one cause i could not get a visa to enter his country that time).
Anyway, nobody can tell u who to fall in love with, there is no guarantee about anything in life except death and taxes, if there are opportunities coming ur way dont be afraid to take them, i am talking in general.
Regarding the OP situation there is no clear info to work with & could not understand the real situation between them two, i think by telling her 'if u want to charge the guy expect he want sex even he is not telling u clear' or 'if u dont wanna have sex with him do not charge him for meeting u' is fair realistic advice but obviously she wants money for her time so she is not that naive lol...
My post is not for OP only to read but for anyone facing a similar situation, as a general matter u can stay away risks but u may miss opportunities or take the risk & u can win or loose, that's the life game.
U can also stay away risk and be hit by a car when crossing the street & die from it.
Best is to judge well, balance the risk with eventual benefit, play & be smart in everything u do.
I won and lost in life but i wont change the things i did cause at the moment i did them that was the way i judged & felt doing things.
I always said "better be sorry for what i did than be sorry for what i did not" (this is the translation of a proverb we have here, i hope u get it).
Peace xxx!
Before meeting we knew soo much about each other, intimate details included and what we like about everything, there was a connection both times.
Thanks to the 1st guy i am now able to work at home cause we 'connected' when i was working a studio and had no pc or internet at home nor the funds to buy them or the knowledge to cam on my own. That guy teach me everything, bought me all equipment & accessories (all the sexy things to wear on cam lol, he was a real fetishist), set me up with everything i needed to start camming and was a real support in everything for about 5 years, he loved my son a lot and helped always like a good father.
He solved many tech issues from thousands of km away over the internet for me, he spoiled me & my son with gifts, we exchanged gifts with his mom, we wanted to marry, he was an amazing guy for the time that lasted.
We split up cause we could not be together due to personal issues with our families (me having a son in school here i did not wanted to leave alone plus a sick mom and him having an old disabled & sick mom as well he could not leave alone).
Long distance relationships are difficult to maintain so it wore off at the end cause we both got frustrated, i decided i dont wanna wait any longer.
The 2nd relationship was with an older guy that played games with me so i left him when i found out things.
Just to let u know guys, i was given a lot of help & money by these 2 guys without me asking for a single cent.
They both fell in love with me telling me i am a special person they never met before. I fell in love the same way. I know, all guys will tell this to girls/ women but it has to be true for them to make a guy fly to a foreign EE country and spend a lot of money on a woman when they could have women close by.
When i talked about doing a mistake to meet cam customers i did not mean it was all a mistake, i mean i wont do it again cause i wont want to go thru a long time distance relationship difficulties or to leave my country again cause i felt i was living there but my soul and heart were at home and i was thinking always to my family and my son, it was impossible to relax there plus the guy was not what i expected to be including not actually supportive. (the 2nd one, i never visited the 1st one cause i could not get a visa to enter his country that time).
Anyway, nobody can tell u who to fall in love with, there is no guarantee about anything in life except death and taxes, if there are opportunities coming ur way dont be afraid to take them, i am talking in general.
Regarding the OP situation there is no clear info to work with & could not understand the real situation between them two, i think by telling her 'if u want to charge the guy expect he want sex even he is not telling u clear' or 'if u dont wanna have sex with him do not charge him for meeting u' is fair realistic advice but obviously she wants money for her time so she is not that naive lol...
My post is not for OP only to read but for anyone facing a similar situation, as a general matter u can stay away risks but u may miss opportunities or take the risk & u can win or loose, that's the life game.
U can also stay away risk and be hit by a car when crossing the street & die from it.
Best is to judge well, balance the risk with eventual benefit, play & be smart in everything u do.
I won and lost in life but i wont change the things i did cause at the moment i did them that was the way i judged & felt doing things.
I always said "better be sorry for what i did than be sorry for what i did not" (this is the translation of a proverb we have here, i hope u get it).
Peace xxx!