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jeffb
12-22-2013, 01:59 PM
So...I was wondering if you guys have ever been to a strip club where they did extras (sex)?

I myself have!

Years back me and a friend went to this great strip club here in Southern California one 4th of July. And this club is fully nude and the dancers are all very pretty, college aged 18-25, tanned, fit. And they also do all-nude full-contact couch dances in a back room for $50 - 3 songs. So my friend and I go there, it was early afternoon. I get the first girl. Go up to the stage, she dances and strips, I give her a $10 tip. And this girl was very hot...a blondie. She comes over to my table after she gets done dancing on stage. We talk some and I agree to one of those couch dances in the back. And let me tell you they are totally worth it. The dancer gets full nude, you lay back on the couch and you get a full view of everything! I ended up spending about $150. But my friend is the guy who got lucky!!!! ;D I come out of the back room from my couch dances. And my friend gets the next girl, a brunette. So they go back into the back room to have there "fun". And he also ends up spending $150. But he just didn't get a couch dance. He got something extra. I won't say exactlly what they did but it was definitely something sexual. He told me all about it later on. And he was extra lucky too because he also got the strippers phone number. He called her up a few days later. She wanted to hang out with him but he couldn't do it because he did have a wife and kid at the time.

Kellydancer
12-22-2013, 02:15 PM
Sure most dancers have worked in clubs where extras have occurred, either approved by management or management didn't know. I worked in a club where I assumed extras were going on since they had private rooms.

simone87
12-22-2013, 02:18 PM
uhhh LOL. yeah, of course..? haha this reminds me of a gleeful little school boy who just realized that some strip clubs have..*whispers* extras!! and its unfortunate, because that's what escorts are for, not something to be gleeful about.

Djoser
12-22-2013, 02:22 PM
I have worked in a couple stripclubs where it went on all the time, and a couple moe where it went on some of the time, and a couple more where it went on only when the girl giving the dance was dumb enough to risk getting fired.

Believe me, the latter clubs are by far the best to work in. Though the former clubs were good for some crazy stories! :D

Anyway I am moving this to StripClubJunkies, it fits better there.

Tsepmet1
12-22-2013, 02:23 PM
Why are you bragging about your friend cheating on his wife? Your friend sounds like a douchebag.

Edit: Bah. Now that the thread is being moved, I'm going to be eaten alive on the blue side for my comment.

Kellydancer
12-22-2013, 02:24 PM
Did you know some clubs have a *gasp* a stripper pole? Yeah that one really surprised me, but not as much as the one where strippers dance on a stage. That one really shocked me because I just assumed they sat in chairs all night dressed in tuxedos and playing chess.

yoda57us
12-22-2013, 11:36 PM
So...I was wondering if you guys have ever been to a strip club where they did extras (sex)?

I myself have!


Extras? You mean like....sex? GET OUT OF TOWN! REALLY??

OK, I kid. Just about every club I've been in for the past ten years has had girls who offer extras. To be honest, after so many years of clubbing in places where extras are rampant I've actually started to get a bit bored with it all. Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm as horny as any red blooded guy but sex is supposed to be something exciting and fun that happens between two people. Going into a booth just to have a girl get me off doesn't hold the thrill it once did.

I spent most of yesterday afternoon with a fairly clean dancer who works in one of the dirtiest clubs in Providence RI. She is actually HOPING that the police will raid her club and clean out all of the dirty girls so that she can go back to making money without having to tell guys all afternoon that she won't blow them or let them finger her for $25 a song. I left that club after doing a half hour VIP with said hottie and having a great time. She's beautiful, smells great (Dolce & Gabbana Red is like crack to me when a Brazilian woman puts a few drops between her breasts and on the back of her neck) and she is SENSUAL. It's 30 minutes of foreplay with no climax but it is so much more fun than looking over a girl's shoulder watching out for the bouncer while she gives you a bj. Again, in the interest of full disclosure I'll admit that I've had some pretty amazing BJ's from women who just happen to be exotic dancers. It's just more fun when you are on neutral territory and there is no timer running.

I left the dirty club in RI and headed to a theoretically "clean" club in Massachusetts for my evening entertainment. I spent a few hours chatting and an hour in VIP laughing squeezing and teasing with a woman who is easily one of the three or four most beautiful dancers that I've known in my 25 odd years of strip clubbing...and I've known some real beauties! The CR's in this club are known to be fairly dirty as long as the right people get tipped to insure privacy. This lady made it very clear when we met that she had never gone over to the "dark side" with a customer and didn't plan to. Now there are plenty of hot strippers at this club who would do just about anything X rated in the CR for the same money I pay my fave to provide R rated merriment. None of those girls nearly are as much fun to spend time with as my sensual friend. The fact is most heavy extras girls are just going through the motions and getting guys off. There's nothing wrong with that and if it's what you are looking for it's certainly available in lots of places.

Yeah, I've been to a club where they did extras (sex).

yoda57us
12-22-2013, 11:38 PM
Why are you bragging about your friend cheating on his wife? Your friend sounds like a douchebag.

Edit: Bah. Now that the thread is being moved, I'm going to be eaten alive on the blue side for my comment.

Nah!:-X

Cheo_D
12-23-2013, 10:25 AM
It's not that easy to avoid hitting a club where extras happen if you go to enough different ones, but you can if you do your research. However it doesn't mean that you will necessarily notice right away when you're at a place extras may be found, IF everyone's careful about it. You may be at an ostensibly clean, well-regulated joint where a couple of girls cross the line when they can get away with it (e.g. one otherwise very respectable NYC location I found myself at).

Some other places take a little more laissez faire approach and those who want clean fun do their thing, those who want to go dirty do theirs, but the management essentially says: "let us pretend we never heard of it." AND then there are those where you'd definitely get a clear, up front, no ambiguities offer and quote, with the "club handshake" delivered INSIDE your pants out in view of all, such as the now-defunct New Orleans Little Darlings (that being one of the reasons it's now defunct, I mean even in Corruption City you don't rub the authorities' face in it).

kimbe
12-26-2013, 02:06 PM
Oh yeah, very common for sure! And definitely most common in high class VIP-rooms, don't think I've been to one without extra's... Usually a blowjob to finish off a guy, rarely real sex. Occationally you could get away with a handjob.
And this is where the $ is - which is why I gave up dancing a couple of years ago. I felt I more and more did the job of a prostitute. During my 3-4 years I clearly noticed a change so if you wanted the $ you really had to give the extra's.

arielbriel
12-29-2013, 02:07 PM
Yes, of course.

Dandelaware
01-05-2014, 01:54 PM
Yes, probably. I've never been to the VIP room and the dancers don't talk much. But I'm pretty sure there are handjobs at least.

SashaDoll
01-05-2014, 05:17 PM
It happens more than anyone thinks! It's not really a bad thing as long as its taken OTC!

Golden_Rule
01-26-2014, 02:25 PM
You know... I don't think I've ever bashed a newbie, and I am not going to start now, but this has got to be one of the most overdone thread topics on SW. Why can't you use the search function and you'd find ALL the threads that have previously asked this question? Please.

yoda57us
01-26-2014, 03:33 PM
You know... I don't think I've ever bashed a newbie, and I am not going to start now, but this has got to be one of the most overdone thread topics on SW. Why can't you use the search function and you'd find ALL the threads that have previously asked this question? Please.

LOL, I'm guessing it's because the question was rhetorical. Our intrepid newbie was looking for an excuse to tell his story. No harm done as far as I'm concerned. I agree however that the search function is a great tool if you are actually looking for information....

Tourdefranzia
06-05-2014, 12:30 PM
Extras are always available. It's just a lot more expensive in some places than others. I've never worked in a club that didn't have at least one extras girl, even clubs that are know for being very clean.

Ike Turner
03-18-2015, 11:38 AM
Is there any other reason to go to a strip club LOL.

EastCoastDancer01
03-18-2015, 06:36 PM
I worked at 2 clubs where all they did was extras. It sucked. The guys were cheap and disrespectful and the girls I worked with were nasty, drugged up whores. Some of them would do it for free or for cheap and the guys became used to that and expected all girls to be cheap. It's no fun competing with cheap whores! And its even worse having to do dirty work for disgusting men. I will never work at a place like that again!

Ike Turner
03-19-2015, 05:52 AM
It's no walk in the park dealing with expensive whores either.

stevenj
12-15-2015, 09:59 AM
I worked at 2 clubs where all they did was extras. It sucked. The guys were cheap and disrespectful and the girls I worked with were nasty, drugged up whores. Some of them would do it for free or for cheap and the guys became used to that and expected all girls to be cheap. It's no fun competing with cheap whores! And its even worse having to do dirty work for disgusting men. I will never work at a place like that again!

NJ? west orange?

Golden_Rule
12-29-2015, 01:55 AM
NJ? west orange?

The only place in West Orange was Show Offs and that has been closed for over a decade. When it closed the manager was running another of the owner's places in Jefferson. It's changed hands and is called "Club 15" now.

You have places all around it, like "Rah-Rah's, "VIP" and "Redwood" in Orange, but not in West Orange proper.