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The Boob
08-29-2014, 11:01 AM
well yeah good offense beats good defense, so the best dancers will certainly defeat these guys' bad defense. what I'm saying is I've never been ATM guy and I've gotten sat on by some awesome performers whose offer to keep going was very tempting. Tempting, but I never totally lost it or abandoned the spending plan, which is a sign that these ATM guys are going in without a plan. Or they've got different wiring in their brains so that lapdances cause them to blow a fuse so to speak.
rickdugan
08-29-2014, 01:31 PM
What about the people who aren't wasted on booze who still get trapped into an ATM situation?
I think there's a 2nd kind of intoxication at play here.
Some people can't handle their liquor, and some can't handle their lapdances without being reduced into a moronic state where they're really helpless instead of just turned on, and they can't keep a lid on the spending anymore because they're past the point of no return (they no longer have that shutdown ability that lets the rest of us snap back to reality when we've reached our spending limit).
Or people aren't as aware of the fact that they're in a crotch fight for their wallet, so it takes them a while to catch on to how they're being taken for more of a ride than they intended.
well yeah good offense beats good defense, so the best dancers will certainly defeat these guys' bad defense. what I'm saying is I've never been ATM guy and I've gotten sat on by some awesome performers whose offer to keep going was very tempting. Tempting, but I never totally lost it or abandoned the spending plan, which is a sign that these ATM guys are going in without a plan. Or they've got different wiring in their brains so that lapdances cause them to blow a fuse so to speak.
I guess I'm not really sure where this is going. What about them? If a guy has these types of issues then he shouldn't be in a strip club. Dancers cannot be expected to read minds or to babysit grown men. If a grown man buys a dance and then chooses to keep going, then unless he is obviously fucked up, the dancer has to assume that he knows what he is doing. And if he overpays at the ATM, then that is on him too.
The Boob
08-29-2014, 07:35 PM
This is supposed to go somewhere? I wasn't told we'd raised our expectations like that. Uh,
gimme a minute,
...
okay:
let's say that I was aiming for Greater Awareness, for the sake of any lurking ATM'ers? That sounds purposeful. Yes. That's what it was all about.
where is this going. [ -----> ] If a guy has these types of issues then he shouldn't be in a strip club.