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JoJoX
01-29-2014, 02:41 PM
You people are so Emo that is the only reason why some of you had bad experiences with group sex...I wouldn't have a 3sum with any of you! lmao

Kellydancer
01-29-2014, 02:44 PM
You people are so Emo that is the only reason why some of you had bad experiences with group sex...I wouldn't have a 3sum with any of you! lmao

Well threesomes aren't my thing so I wouldn't have a threesome with anyone here. Just too many issues to deal with that I don't see a purpose in me doing them. I can't share a man I love with others, but if others want to, go ahead.

BlondebombGA
01-29-2014, 06:28 PM
Oh - and while it Is a bit strange that he'd come out with that so fast, her explanation re their past conversations combined with the obviously casual nature of their involvement makes it perfectly understandable IMO. :shrug:

Lol...he comes out with it so fast, because he asks EVERY girl he f*cks that, hoping that someone will say yes. It's no different then guys who hit on girl after girl after girl after girl at the bar to take home that night, until someone finally says yes. It's a numbers game.

The fact that you have to find the other girl shows that he doesn't have a role call of bi chicks dying to screw girls with him. If you are bi, did you tell him that? If yes then he wants to use your connections for his fun time. You're a grown woman and your choices are yours, but for f*cks sake already with the needing to spice things up? I'd personally be a bit irritated. I have no doubt that you ARE amazing in bed, and beautiful etc., so just please read my first sentence again. If you are cool with that, then go...f*ck...have fun...be careful...and enjoy.

MellyMay
01-29-2014, 06:45 PM
GothBarbie, you're gonna do your thing. Do you, bb. Get some.

..... as is the nature of a forum, you posted something and you got replies. Clearly, you didn't like the replies. Why even post if you just wanted to have people agree with you?
I understand that you wanted to share and maybe even get some insight on it from others. But now you got that insight.... plz don't be offended or feel like everyone just wanted to shit all over what could potentially be a good thing...you never know. It could also be less than awesome, another thing you never know til after the fact.
I do genuinely believe that the girls here (emphasis on girls) only want good things for you and have such strong opinions because they/we don't want you to be hurt in the long run.

DonaDiabla
01-29-2014, 07:35 PM
I've never been into diamonds personally. Also, I don't usually waste my time with boy toys after I get what I want from them, expensive things don't mean shit to me, it's very sad that most women in this world value that more than anything. I'm happy with just being alive & well on my own , not worrying about things that are materialistic. I have & will always take care of ME, regardless if I want to be "wined & dined".The reason I posted this on here in the first place is bc I've never been asked to participate in a FFM threesome and I was just curious as to why a guy would ask such a thing when we barely know each other.... Geez excuse the fuck out of me! However, I'm glad to see that all the replies I'm getting here are nothing but negative remarks about me not respecting myself enough blah blah, He needs to buy me expensive jewelry wah- wah, etc. Please just take that shit somewhere else~

GothBarbie, I believe that you are going for the type of sexual experience you want :) I like Sam's approach because it sounds wonderful for me :) However, I do support your sexual freedom as an whole :) I believe that threesome both FFM and MFM is something that everyone can experience once :) But I am more partial to MFM threesomes but I was not trying to be negative at all. In fact, I think it is both Sam's way and you way are cool. But I do love money :) However, you are a sexual explorer and I find that to be great. I just like to have a boy toy that buys me something and we have a good time...that is all :) But you are more into the sexual adventure and the passion of the sexual experience :)

audrey_k
01-29-2014, 11:30 PM
GothBarbie, you're gonna do your thing. Do you, bb. Get some.

..... as is the nature of a forum, you posted something and you got replies. Clearly, you didn't like the replies. Why even post if you just wanted to have people agree with you?
I understand that you wanted to share and maybe even get some insight on it from others. But now you got that insight.... plz don't be offended or feel like everyone just wanted to shit all over what could potentially be a good thing...you never know. It could also be less than awesome, another thing you never know til after the fact.
I do genuinely believe that the girls here (emphasis on girls) only want good things for you and have such strong opinions because they/we don't want you to be hurt in the long run.

Have you been reading all the replies she's gotten? This thread has gone WAY off topic! She posted about threesomes and that somehow translated to people basically telling her she sucks in bed and is a cheap whore because she wants to just have fun with a guy and doesn't expect a diamond necklace or a relationship out of it. I don't think those were the kind of replies she was looking for! I'm all for free speech, but there's a difference between free speech and just being a fucking bitch. It's just mean to tell someone you don't even know that the reason a guy wants a threesome with them is because they're bad in bed, especially when you have NO evidence to back that statement up. Honestly this thread is just full of a bunch of replies that have NOTHING to with what she was talking about in the first place. It's just a bunch of girls coughing up their own insecurities. For me personally if I'm going to sleep with someone I have to have an emotional connection to them, but do I think that that applies to every woman? FUCK NO! And I think it's awesome that we have moved forward in society to a place where we don't label women as "sluts" just because they enjoy sex. STOP SLUT-SHAMING LADIES! It's not the 1950s anymore, women can have jobs and guess what they can have sex with whoever the fuck they want to as well!

And to the girls who seem to think that you have to be in a relationship with someone to have good sex or you must be getting something of monetary value in return... I feel bad for you ladies, I really do. I! if you really can't distinguish between real relationships and ones that you have in a strip club/on cam, that's just sad.

Alright, I'm out. Continue on hijacking her thread.

Trixia
01-29-2014, 11:41 PM
MMF 3some's are def more fun imo lol. They rarely happen though.

But then again those are all about me. Which is why I enjoy those ones way more lol.

Tell him you'll do his MFF fantasy after you have your MMF and see what he says lol.

Kellydancer
01-29-2014, 11:53 PM
Have you been reading all the replies she's gotten? This thread has gone WAY off topic! She posted about threesomes and that somehow translated to people basically telling her she sucks in bed and is a cheap whore because she wants to just have fun with a guy and doesn't expect a diamond necklace or a relationship out of it. I don't think those were the kind of replies she was looking for! I'm all for free speech, but there's a difference between free speech and just being a fucking bitch. It's just mean to tell someone you don't even know that the reason a guy wants a threesome with them is because they're bad in bed, especially when you have NO evidence to back that statement up. Honestly this thread is just full of a bunch of replies that have NOTHING to with what she was talking about in the first place. It's just a bunch of girls coughing up their own insecurities. For me personally if I'm going to sleep with someone I have to have an emotional connection to them, but do I think that that applies to every woman? FUCK NO! And I think it's awesome that we have moved forward in society to a place where we don't label women as "sluts" just because they enjoy sex. STOP SLUT-SHAMING LADIES! It's not the 1950s anymore, women can have jobs and guess what they can have sex with whoever the fuck they want to as well!

And to the girls who seem to think that you have to be in a relationship with someone to have good sex or you must be getting something of monetary value in return... I feel bad for you ladies, I really do. I! if you really can't distinguish between real relationships and ones that you have in a strip club/on cam, that's just sad.

Alright, I'm out. Continue on hijacking her thread.

I agree with most of what you posted, especially with the slut shaming. However whether we want to admit it or not, a woman often bears the responsibility of casual sex, whether it's pregnancy or getting disease. Many men abandon women they get pregnant, especially if it's a casual thing. It can happen in serious relationships too but more likely in FWB. I used to engage in more casual things when I was younger and they could be fun but so many left me with a feeling of "is that all there is?".

OliveJardin
01-30-2014, 12:39 AM
I'm glad to see that all the replies I'm getting here are nothing but negative remarks about me not respecting myself enough blah blah

^I don't think anyone thinks that at all, it's just that no one wants to see you get hurt. We are all a little "jaded" when it comes to men in general, so our first instinct is to assume the worst about this guy (or any when it comes to women and sex ::)).

DonaDiabla
01-30-2014, 12:54 AM
Have you been reading all the replies she's gotten? This thread has gone WAY off topic! She posted about threesomes and that somehow translated to people basically telling her she sucks in bed and is a cheap whore because she wants to just have fun with a guy and doesn't expect a diamond necklace or a relationship out of it. I don't think those were the kind of replies she was looking for! I'm all for free speech, but there's a difference between free speech and just being a fucking bitch. It's just mean to tell someone you don't even know that the reason a guy wants a threesome with them is because they're bad in bed, especially when you have NO evidence to back that statement up. Honestly this thread is just full of a bunch of replies that have NOTHING to with what she was talking about in the first place. It's just a bunch of girls coughing up their own insecurities. For me personally if I'm going to sleep with someone I have to have an emotional connection to them, but do I think that that applies to every woman? FUCK NO! And I think it's awesome that we have moved forward in society to a place where we don't label women as "sluts" just because they enjoy sex. STOP SLUT-SHAMING LADIES! It's not the 1950s anymore, women can have jobs and guess what they can have sex with whoever the fuck they want to as well!

And to the girls who seem to think that you have to be in a relationship with someone to have good sex or you must be getting something of monetary value in return... I feel bad for you ladies, I really do. I! if you really can't distinguish between real relationships and ones that you have in a strip club/on cam, that's just sad.

Alright, I'm out. Continue on hijacking her thread.

I agree with everything until the monetary value part. I am for whatever GothBarbie wants to do and I believe that is fun that she is having that type of sexual freedom. However, I believe that is rather prudish to think just because a woman wants monetary value in a relationship that it is not a real relationship. How come a woman can not have both fun with a man and have him give them gifts? I was quite excited about what Sam 38 say about diamonds and other luxury items....that I just caught up by it. As far as being insecure with oneself, I am quite secure with myself and the relationships that I had with men. I was agreeing with Sam 38's stand about having men give women money. I am not insecure nor shameful about my adoration of luxury and money. But I was not trying to take away from GothBarbie's posts nor did I think she was cheap. I just fell in love with Sam 38's words about luxury and men giving it to you. I am not sorry about enjoying money or diamonds or any luxury item :) That being said...the thread did go a different direction I must admit.

DonaDiabla
01-30-2014, 12:56 AM
^I don't think anyone thinks that at all, it's just no one wants to see you get hurt. We are all a little "jaded" when it comes to men in general, so our first instinct is to assume the worst about this guy (or any when it comes to women and sex ::)).

oh Olive, I have been jaded since the day I was born :) But I believe that GothBarbie respects herself and loves to be a sexual adventurer :)

BlondebombGA
01-30-2014, 01:08 AM
Have you been reading all the replies she's gotten? This thread has gone WAY off topic! She posted about threesomes and that somehow translated to people basically telling her she sucks in bed and is a cheap whore because she wants to just have fun with a guy and doesn't expect a diamond necklace or a relationship out of it. I don't think those were the kind of replies she was looking for! I'm all for free speech, but there's a difference between free speech and just being a fucking bitch. It's just mean to tell someone you don't even know that the reason a guy wants a threesome with them is because they're bad in bed, especially when you have NO evidence to back that statement up. Honestly this thread is just full of a bunch of replies that have NOTHING to with what she was talking about in the first place. It's just a bunch of girls coughing up their own insecurities. For me personally if I'm going to sleep with someone I have to have an emotional connection to them, but do I think that that applies to every woman? FUCK NO! And I think it's awesome that we have moved forward in society to a place where we don't label women as "sluts" just because they enjoy sex. STOP SLUT-SHAMING LADIES! It's not the 1950s anymore, women can have jobs and guess what they can have sex with whoever the fuck they want to as well!

And to the girls who seem to think that you have to be in a relationship with someone to have good sex or you must be getting something of monetary value in return... I feel bad for you ladies, I really do. I! if you really can't distinguish between real relationships and ones that you have in a strip club/on cam, that's just sad.

Alright, I'm out. Continue on hijacking her thread.

First I will preface this by saying I never made any judgement about her or her right to burn her bra and f*ck like the boys do or not respecting herself. I simply answered based on how she phrased her VERY 1st post...not the ones that came after the opinions on a forum (crazy right?) started coming in and everyone became defensive. Of course it has nothing to do with how you look or how well you f*ck OP. He is a young guy and loves pussy...he wants as much pussy as he can possibly get...therefore 3-somes are like a 2-for-1...The End.

Anyway, she said...

"asked me to do a threesome with him & said I could choose the girl... WTF?! I'm not really into girls and I've never had one except when I was 18 & it was a friend of mine. Is this shit normal???"

THESE are NOT the words of a woman who is gung-ho with drenched panties about having a 3-way with her fuck buddy and some chick who she will not be into.

"WTF???" = Ummm, wow that came out of left field and I don't get where it came from.

"I'm not really into girls" = I'm not into girls.

"Is this shit normal???" = Is this everyone else's experience or anyone else's? And generally "sh*t", in this context, is not a term used for something a person is looking fondly on or forward to.

The simple fact OP is you are in the power seat here. If nothing about this situation excites or intrigues you then don't do it! You are the holder of the pussy, and if he isn't cool with the fact that you don't particularly want to share his dick and get the privilege of a front row seat ...well then move on to the next one.

And like Olive said, I think a lot of us just don't want to see you have a negative experience, and are putting our personal spin on it. We are on a forum for strippers, camgirls, phone sex girls and escorts....so maybe chill with the claims of slut shaming and read what they are really saying. I mean come on...that's like members on a forum for car thieves calling each other criminals.

cherryblossomsinspring
01-30-2014, 01:21 AM
I agree with most of what you posted, especially with the slut shaming. However whether we want to admit it or not, a woman often bears the responsibility of casual sex, whether it's pregnancy or getting disease. Many men abandon women they get pregnant, especially if it's a casual thing. It can happen in serious relationships too but more likely in FWB. I used to engage in more casual things when I was younger and they could be fun but so many left me with a feeling of "is that all there is?".

Amen to that! That's why I addressed the "slut shaming" topic way before now because I just knew it was about to be said. The real people that shame sluts are the ones that sleep with them which is exactly what's being said. Women can choose to fly free but the man that may sleep with them are the ones that typically see them as "less". Which is in a sense why the guy broached this subject after umm 1 or 2 nights of sex max? If he had the respect that having sex "shouldn't change" he would have waited just a tad bit longer before rolling out the porn scrolls. It was also the response from the Op that signaled " He's going too far with things". If she started this out like "omg he wants to do a three some how do I go about meeting a woman for us???" then I would have responded differently.

Everyone was afraid he was abusing those umm "benefits" amongst friends. So people automatically started putting their foot down on her behalf. Since she's got it covered then she can continue on doing what she's doing. *shrugs*

roast
01-30-2014, 01:54 AM
Man, as someone who loves women - god... having sex with heterosexual "free spirits" is... not anywhere near the top of my "best of" sexual experiences. Like they gotta get trashed on a few wine coolers just to idly slap my mons pubis. Sweet baby jesus.

I wish sexual expectations were different and straight dudes giving each other blowjobs for a woman's pleasure was the norm. Id love that so much.

Could you imagine? Like a guy's wincing rite of passage, "Bro, she wants me to put my dick in another guys ass" "Whaaaaa girls are such dogs!" "I KNOW, then have him put his dick in my ass. all while she's DJing her vagina in the corner.....Like, I can do blowjobs I guess but a dick in my ass?" "Whew.... so, are you gonna do it?" "I mean, I can pick up some Fleet on my drive home I guess, Im just - kinda nervous" 'Well, youre a free spirit bro, so do what you gotta do. It isnt really that big of a deal" "True true. I think Ill go to the bar and size someone up" "Oh yea, you know how they dont want to find the dude - soooo typical" "I knowwwwww right" "OK, text me when you get there, work on that gag reflex in the meantime" "

roflmao thatd be great

cherryblossomsinspring
01-30-2014, 02:02 AM
^ I love you Roast!! AAGG that post had me dying!

BlondebombGA
01-30-2014, 03:05 AM
Man, as someone who loves women - god... having sex with heterosexual "free spirits" is... not anywhere near the top of my "best of" sexual experiences. Like they gotta get trashed on a few wine coolers just to idly slap my mons pubis. Sweet baby jesus.

Lol....some of my worst Roast. Soooo kills my horny. I've never understood girls who make it their thing to seduce straight girls. They kinda treat you like you're sticky.


"I mean, I can pick up some Fleet on my drive home I guess"

The makers of Fleet should pay you for how effortlessly you worked the brand name into this conversation. ROFL!

Almost Jaded
01-30-2014, 03:28 AM
Roast's post + the GIF in BlonbombGA's sig = win.

DesuvsDeath
01-30-2014, 11:22 AM
This is the second thread you've made about what was basically a one night stand. Sorry but if it is honestly just some "toy" you are having some fun with it is most definitely not coming through in any of your posts. It seems like you are way into him and the only reason you ever heard from him again after your one night stand was because he thinks he can get a lot more from you, hence this thread. If he is just some fuck buddy that you are having fun with then there really isn't much to talk about.
This is how I read the whole thing, too. The guy made all the typical promises guys do "Oh yeah, when you move up here I'll totally show you around and stuff!" when they think they'll never have to see a girl again... Blew her off the next night and didn't contact her again. She had to contact him repeatedly to get hm to hang out again and the first thing he does is try to get her to find them a girl to fuck.
It sounds like he's not very interested but thinks she's into him enough that he may as well see what he can get out of her.
Based on the fact that she admits she's not into girls but is willing to do this anyway for someone she claims to be using... it seems like he's right.... which is where you're getting responses like Sam38g's.
I don't mean that to say anything rude or insulting about GB... that's just how it's coming across.



It's somehow creepy to say I want to meet some interesting people IRL?
You great big ol' creeper, you. ;)

MellyMay
01-30-2014, 06:15 PM
Have you been reading all the replies she's gotten? This thread has gone WAY off topic! She posted about threesomes and that somehow translated to people basically telling her she sucks in bed and is a cheap whore because she wants to just have fun with a guy and doesn't expect a diamond necklace or a relationship out of it. I don't think those were the kind of replies she was looking for! I'm all for free speech, but there's a difference between free speech and just being a fucking bitch. It's just mean to tell someone you don't even know that the reason a guy wants a threesome with them is because they're bad in bed, especially when you have NO evidence to back that statement up. Honestly this thread is just full of a bunch of replies that have NOTHING to with what she was talking about in the first place. .

I was trying to be nice. :(

i also didn't want to insert my opinion of 3ways and such, so i didn't. (Pro, btw, but who cares, that also wasn't what the original post was about.)

I just want to distinguish that my saying that people might be saying things out of concern (whether it's misplaced or not) is ENTIRELY DIFFERENT from slut shaming. I find that as deplorable as you do.

But, again, I didn't want to make this post about me & I did, so, fail.
I just want the best for everyone. Apologies if it didn't translate that way.

Jade62013
01-30-2014, 08:18 PM
Girl, just do whatever the fuck you want, and if you end up getting hurt, pick yourself back up and learn from your mistakes. Is there any other way to live, anyhow? Don't let other people's regrets and priorities color your life. Letting a bunch of people on a forum decide for you what you want is as silly as letting a guy do it for you. Besides, 99.99% of people who "ask" for relationship advice don't want advice and don't want logic. 99.99% of the time when women bitch about problems in general, they don't want a solution, they just want to complain and feel like someone is listening. Nobody operates based on logic in relationships, emotion and impulse always wins, they just do whatever they were going to do anyway, and learning the hard way is usually the only (and best) way.

Flickdreams
01-30-2014, 11:23 PM
...and we all lived happily ever after. The end.

tempest666
02-01-2014, 05:52 PM
Well I hope they luck out. I will never have any luck. All I get are fat chicks, nasty old men, gay men that want to fuck him. If it is a hot chick she comes with a side of sausage. Is it too much to ask for a hot skinny goth chick with big knockers, long dark hair and all her teeth? >:(

xxxGothBarbie
02-01-2014, 06:31 PM
^ LMAO I <3 you!!!

xStitchesx
02-01-2014, 07:31 PM
Is it too much to ask for a hot skinny goth chick with big knockers, long dark hair and all her teeth? >:(

I'm a sucker for the goth chicks too!
sorry for the threadjack >,<

Optimist
02-02-2014, 01:55 AM
Alrighty, thread is cleaned up. Please don't go MMA on each other again.

Vyanka
02-11-2014, 01:14 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9J35Iry2doY&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Flickdreams
02-23-2014, 06:26 AM
^ hahha the old seasons the best seasons

Almost Jaded
02-23-2014, 11:53 AM
Well that was disturbingly pessimistic, lol.

threlayer
06-11-2014, 12:27 PM
Three ways in porn look really fun. What it's like in reality may be vastly different. I've been with two women twice; one was with bi-girls and that was the fun one; it was in a strip club with a pool and was known for extra extras. The two others were just with two women separately, not even at the same instant. Not as much fun.

1st_samurai
06-18-2014, 02:37 PM
He's already fucked at least a hundred different women. Routine sex is boring for him.