View Full Version : Ideas For Camming While During 'That Time Of Month'
JessRyan
05-07-2018, 07:59 AM
When I first started camming this was a big worry for me. But only for maybe the first year...then I found that the longer I cammed, the less I worried about camming on my period. First the jade and pearl sea sponge is super easy to use. I had no problem camming and using toys as usual with a sponge inside. I became more confident, and worried less. Now it's business as usual for me. I use the sea sponge, and watched instructional videos on youtube.
SaraLaughs
05-07-2018, 10:45 AM
TBH, if you don't have that heavy of a flow, and you're confident in the strength of your pelvic floor muscles, I find an OB Superslim works fine for camming/penetration while you're on your period. I push it up all the way to my cervix and it soaks up all the blood.
SweetLilyRaven
07-13-2018, 11:15 AM
I know this has been covered in many newbie threads, but since those threads are 100s of pages long and I'd go blind from reading them all for the info I'm looking for, I figured I'd start a new thread on this specific topic...if that's alright.
I just got my period...they're heavy for the first half, and manageable for the second half. I use sea sponge tampons, and never had any luck using the cup. I've cammed on and off for five years now and I've always abstained from camming during shark week. However, my finances are in a huge mess (thanks, ex husband!!) and I find myself needing to do some serious camming for the next few months without pausing for a week at a time. I do have other baskets (PSO, sexting, freelance writing) but I rake in the big $$ with camming.
How do you all make it work, even on heavy flow days? Any tips or tricks or links to other threads that cover this stuff specifically would be hugely appreciated!! :-*
minniesoporno
07-13-2018, 11:53 AM
Track your period.
Birth control pills for me was a way I could control exactly when I wanted my period so it gave time to work more.
now I enjoy getting it as it gives me time to refresh and recharge.
You could work during it. but I suggest not doing it. the days you don't have it work more. then take that time off.
kortneykay
07-13-2018, 01:38 PM
I have dysmonorea and just plug it up, avoid using toys or light toy play and pop some pain pills and log in.
Scorpio Girl
07-13-2018, 02:13 PM
My first day is super heavy. I just use the sea sponges and have never had a problem even when using toys. I take ibuprofen for the cramps.
anonamiss
07-13-2018, 02:49 PM
Are you on birth control? If you're on a monophasic pill you can safely continue taking them during the "placebo week" to effectively skip your period. https://www.bedsider.org/features/290-a-quick-guide-to-skipping-periods-with-birth-control
I've been on the shot for years and don't have to deal with periods at all. I occasionally get a bit hormonal around the times I need a new shot (4 times a year), but other than that, it doesn't get in the way of camming at all.
Serena113
07-13-2018, 03:03 PM
You should be able to work with a sponge in as log as it's not a heavy day. Just be careful and try to avoid using toys as much as you can. Tell them you're in the mood to give a sloppy bj or feeling kinky and want to have some fun with fetishes or just stick to using a vibrator.
SweetLilyRaven
07-13-2018, 03:40 PM
I got my tubes tied right after the divorce, mostly because birth control hormones made me a hormonal mess. I wish I could use them because I was so easily able to plan my periods around special events. I have a period tracker app that I've been using for years, but I'm hitting a very early pre-menopause, which means that my cycles are alllll fucked up. One month, it's 26 days, the next 89 days, the next 14 days. The cramps aren't that bad, but when my heavy days hit, I can go through a sponge in an hour...and the few times I've tried to enjoy myself/have sex with a partner, the results look like a chainsaw massacre. I'd prefer not to traumatize my custies!! I have tried doing the "anything but penetration" shows, but it makes me a lot less money over shark week, vs. the other weeks. I guess I was just looking for a silver bullet that would make them disappear - I swear, my uterus and I don't have a good working relationship!
WendiStarr
07-13-2018, 03:53 PM
I always did so bad earnings-wise camming during period week that I didn't bother any more. I have heavy periods and just feel tired and so unsexy and crybabyish during. I had tried toy bj shows and shower shows but wasn't successful. I just read the part about the hormonal mess. Otherwise I was going to say ask your doctor about norethisterone. It can keep your period away for a while. I've used it before for 2 months before and it was such a relief. Vitex is a natural supplement that can help rebalance your hormones. It might help you. I'm sorry I couldn't be of more help.
Procrasturbator
07-13-2018, 05:33 PM
Are you able to use traditional tampons? I've never used sponges and my period's on the light/medium side but I use cotton tampons (pushed up inside of me/across the cervix) for 8 hours with no problems so I'd think they'd last more than an hour even with a heavy flow.
Serena113
07-13-2018, 06:38 PM
I forgot to mention nettle tea! I read somewhere on the interwebz that nettle tea can shorten or lighten periods. I looked into it, but didn't see any studies on it. However, nettle does contain some minerals that are depleted during shark week, so I gave it a try. I had a little more energy and it did seem to make my period shorter and lighter. I've only tried it this last period, so couldn't tell if that was a fluke or it works. But the it seemed effective enough that I'll do it again next shark week to make sure it wasn't a fluke.
SaraLaughs
07-13-2018, 07:22 PM
I use OB tampons pretty much exclusively and when I cam on my period I basically squat in the bathroom, insert it and then use my fingers to push it so it lies sideways against my cervix. Sometimes I'll lube up a dildo just to make sure it's COMPLETELY up there. When it's time to take it out I squat again and use kegels+fingers to fish it out.
I'm sure a sea sponge would work just as well BUT this is an option if you're like me and just like sticking to what you know.
TheBrownFox
07-14-2018, 06:11 AM
Since I don’t use tampons or softcups like many do (I wear pads), I just put a dark blue towel down. I don’t do penetration shows anymore anyway. If the guy in exclusive requests something like “Can you spread your pussy lips for me?,” I can usually pull off a quick “pussy lips spread” for a couple seconds without any fucking blood coming out. I think you can usually feel it when the blood is about to come out. That’s why having that dark towel under me is great, and I can always quickly pat myself with it when I need to.
Heaviest, crampiest days I may not even get on cam if I’m in too much pain.
But with this new job during the week (I’m often too tired to cam...plus need to be in bed early anyway), I kind of feel like I HAVE to get some camming in over the weekend (heavy flow or not, since I barely have time/energy for it during the week.
I am sorry for your situation, i had a similar situation myself, it was impossible to cam during the extreme heavy flow days, i kept going like this for 3 years not able to cam for days til i went for a biopsy and total hysterectomy last year, my uterus was damaged & at risk for endometrial cancer so i took it out right away.
I by default had heavy flows since age of 13 so it was even more difficult when the flow increased in the last years, i was thinking i was going into menopause or so but it was way too early for that (i am 43 now).
After the surgery docs said my ovaries were full of small cysts and looked not functional, the uterus had two small fibroids beside the hyperplasia that caused my extreme heavy bleeding. I am healthy now, been 1.5 years since surgery and i am soo happy to be period free!
During the heavy periods i used internal tampons, the biggest size but that was not enough for me, i was able to cam just at the beginning and the end of my bleeding and imagine, lately i was bleeding for 7-8-10 days in a row, i had severe anemia cause of it.
My advice for any woman with these heavy periods is, check on ur uterus just to make sure you ok.
Dont cam if u cant, money are not worth risking ur health and well being. All the best!
SuperPookie
07-15-2018, 08:17 AM
I use a tampon and just trim the string short and push it up there good lol. Use dark bedding and if you do your angles right you won't have to insert a toy beyond like an inch (be careful with this as you don't want to play hunt the tampon after your shift lol) Also if he asks you to spread clench your vagina like you're doing kegals so he can't see inside as far and if you have any dark toys have them be the go to.
DeepThoughts
07-16-2018, 05:02 PM
I had to stop the pill because Im TTC and for the first time in over 20 years Im getting real periods! I forgot what they are like, ugh. Amazing how many guys dont really need to see that much though. I use a black dildo, dark towels and sea sponge, a big sea sponge or those sponges for your period ( I dont know what they are called, I buy them from amazon). I always show the toy going in but then I have my camera just a little to high so when i lay flat you dont really see much anymore and i do a lot of dirty talking!
HOWEVER! I have my eye on this thing called the Instead Softcup! I ordered some last month but they didnt arrive and amazon (spain) refunded my money so I was checking them out on amazon.co.uk and .de and I also came across this thing called the ziggy cup. Now apparently (I read good reviews) You can have this thing in during heavy flows and have full on sex with out leaks! I really want to try it so I think Im going to order it to have for my next period (im on mine right now so Its a month away) and I can do a review here if anyone is interested.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Instead-Hour-Feminine-Protection-Cup/dp/B000X29GY6/ref=sr_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1531785305&sr=8-2&keywords=instead+softcup
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Intimina-Ziggy-Cup-Extra-Thin-Menstrual/dp/B079JYJBF2/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?ie=UTF8&qid=1531785305&sr=8-1-spons&keywords=instead+softcup&psc=1
Those are links to the products. I see your in UK so same amazon as me but for all the American side ladies I know its an american product so I wonder if anyone has ever tried it for camming? Anyone heard of these things? I read on line reviews and heard good things except that they might get stuck (Not a problem for me I can find anything in there). Would love some feed back here though.
^^^ I had (still have) the silicone menstrual cup (they do the same thing, collect blood ) and is of no use if you have a heavy flow, that thing is filling up with blood right away, anything u push inside and press on it with (toys) will make the blood come out right away, no matter how good the reviews and what they advertise just imagine u have a balloon full of blood inside u and if u touch it u blow it.
Plus is getting very messy to remove it when it's filled with blood, i used it at the beginning and end of my extremely heavy periods, in rest it was of no use for me but again, i was bleeding a lot and the thing will fill up right away.