View Full Version : Boob job with an innocent look?
22lligm
06-25-2014, 08:36 PM
I want to be a DD when mine are dropped and not swollen! I haven't thought about weight gain I just don't want to lose muscle. My surgery is in 7 weeks tho weeee
arielbriel
06-25-2014, 10:32 PM
800CC's is a lot for our club...
tempest666
06-26-2014, 12:33 AM
I'm gathering that NYC isn't big tit friendly. It is the home of Holly Golightly after all.
Melonie
06-26-2014, 11:06 AM
With a couple of exceptions ( i.e. Flashdancers ), dancers with seriously big tits will generally not do well in Manhattan clubs.
Vyanka
06-26-2014, 12:17 PM
As long as the body is in shape a girl should do well with what ever breast size and hustle. Every guy has his own type. ;)
lol1337a
06-26-2014, 11:24 PM
I'm actually at Flash and not Rick's now, ariel (no complaints there, I just wanted to try more than two Manhattan clubs in my time here). The hiring manager at Flash is really, really into small naturals now. It's almost never slow so obviously the customers are satisfied enough, but many of them remark that they'd like more variety. The good news is that my 425/450s will be comparatively big because of the manager's bias.
From what I've seen in the clubs, 800ccs could be pushing it on your typical size 0-2 dancer even in clubs where implants are more common. It's hard for me to tell because you just don't see it. Yours look great though, Tempest. It's too bad Scores has gotten awful publicity lately because I'm convinced you'd do well.
It's only been 2.5 weeks but I'm getting so greedy for cash. Can't wait until they look good from the side. How long did it take the augmented ladies here to look alright?
tempest666
06-26-2014, 11:49 PM
I had no choice. I was back in less than 2 weeks.
arielbriel
06-27-2014, 01:38 AM
Two weeks is fine to go back as long as your incisions are closed.
lol1337a
06-27-2014, 03:58 PM
I wish I had the balls to go back in with slight frankentits but I really don't. I'm just gonna have to try to be patient until they drop and fluff more.
audrey_k
06-27-2014, 04:13 PM
So jealous lol1337a... just reading through this thread makes me antsy to get mine done!
I have a question for you ladies about recovering from BA-- how long do you think I would need to take off from escorting? I'm getting Ds under the muscle. Unfortunately I'm just now beginning to save for surgery, and my goal was to have enough to pay my rent for the month and cover 6 weeks of living expenses and still have another $1000 in the bank (I know cutting it close with the savings but don't have a choice at the moment as things have been rough!)
The surgery with travel expenses is $5000 and then my expenses would be around $8,000 + the money to have in the bank so $9,000. At the moment I have only $1000 saved. If I can save $1000 each week then I will have enough, and I feel like that's do-able. But I would really rather NOT save all that money just to sit around for 6 weeks eating up savings!
Do you think it would be possible for me to start seeing maybe 4 escorting a clients a week two weeks after the surgery and then maybe 8 clients 3 weeks after the surgery and then go back to dancing in 5 weeks?? Even 4 escorting clients a week would cover all my expenses for the week. If I have some regulars by then I could always explain the situation to them and ask them to be gentle with me I guess? I just HAVE to get my BA at the end of August, if I don't get it then it means I have to take time off at the busiest time of the year or wait a whole other three months.
lol1337a
06-27-2014, 04:35 PM
I know how it is to want them ASAP, but I would definitely save more than $1k, or prepare yourself for credit card debt in the worst case. If you need another surgery due to complications any reputable Dr will waive his or her fee, but you'll still need to pay for OR and anesthesia, not to mention the additional recovery time. Even if you're complication free, starting with A's is different than starting with a B or C because you don't have much breast tissue to cover all the weird shit your implants and muscles will be doing early on. Maybe apply for care credit if they do that in the UK so you can pay it off over time and keep your all savings liquid for living expenses?
As far as time off from escorting goes, just ask your surgeon when you can resume sexual activity. I personally wouldn't feel comfortable doing anything but the gentlest sexual activity right now at 2.5 weeks (honestly I haven't even had sex with my bf yet, just a couple of slow BJs lol). I also couldn't imagine having sex with a customer if I escorted without wearing a bra or allowing customers to grab them, but I still have severe bruising on one breast, my areola incisions are pretty obvious, and everything's still super firm and kinda frankenboob. I'm also very self conscious, though. But if you think you could get away with wearing a sexy non-underwire bra on the job (I'm thinking something just made out of lace?) and being super gentle you could probably get back to it in a few weeks barring complications? Also keep in mind that you should avoid positions where you have to prop yourself up with your arms or anything that moves them around a ton because you don't want to enlarge the pockets. But I'm not a Dr or an escort so this is just my best guess.
lol1337a
06-27-2014, 05:06 PM
Also, here's a progression video that demonstrates just how long it can take for them to even start looking like boobs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kIUBs4iqNwA&has_verified=1
It could take much longer than you'd expect so definitely don't rely on returning to sex work very soon. I'm lucky that mine aren't that bad, but I think if I walked into the club right now regardless of scarring and bruising people would think "Too bad that stripper has a shitty boob job."
I also read that you have problems with bloating on another thread. Prepare for the worst bloating of your life after surgery! Mine went away in a week but you just never know.
audrey_k
06-27-2014, 06:32 PM
No, no care-credit... I can't even put the surgery on a credit card. I'm not getting them done in the UK, I'm getting them done in Belgium. It's a lot cheaper to get them done there and honestly they look better. I've gone a little crazy asking girls about who did their boobs, and I haven't met one girl who had a good boob job that got them done in the UK, the surgeons here seem to do them super fake. The PS I'm going with has been recommended to me a bunch of different people and I've seen three he's done and they look awesome.
I was originally planning on taking 6 weeks off after surgery because everyone has told me that going under the muscle requires a longer healing period and most of the girls I spoke to took that long, so I definitely wouldn't want to go back any sooner than that, but escorting is different. I'm actually a B not an A, had to get measured today and my boobies are a bit bigger than I thought! lol. But escorting is nothing physically compared to dancing... I mean, it's a lot of lying on your back!
Even if I took 4 weeks off completely and then went back to 8 appointments a week it would greatly help with what I have to save. I guess I could offer a pure BJ service or something and just wear an open baby-doll slip over my non-sexy bra or something.
I just don't know how the summer is going to go, right now if I decided to work my butt (or pussy I guess!) off and live as frugally as possible I could probability save $9,000 in a month as I'm getting so many requests for bookings right now I'm turning people down and don't even have time to pick up all my calls, it's been insane the last few days. And that would give me a whole other month to save more. But I don't know what the summer is like with escorting, if it's gonna get slow or not, how much my calls are gonna level off as my new-ness goes away (hopefully it will be replaced with reliable regulars....). I just don't want to lose three months of increased income, implants are huge in London.
Melonie
06-28-2014, 04:06 AM
Do you think it would be possible for me to start seeing maybe 4 escorting a clients a week two weeks after the surgery and then maybe 8 clients 3 weeks after the surgery and then go back to dancing in 5 weeks?? Even 4 escorting clients a week would cover all my expenses for the week. If I have some regulars by then I could always explain the situation to them and ask them to be gentle with me I guess?
The biggest post-op risk, of course, is that incompletely healed incisions might be broken open by 'rough handling' !!! Generally speaking, it takes at least 4 weeks for incisions to heal to the point of 75% 'strength', and up to 12 weeks for incisions to heal to the point of 100% 'strength'.
Even if I took 4 weeks off completely and then went back to 8 appointments a week it would greatly help with what I have to save.
Personally speaking, I wouldn't let anybody near new boobs for at least 4 weeks. Thus you're left making a judgement call in regard to how well you can 'manage' customer interaction with your new boobs prior to the 4 week point. However, after the 4 week point, odds are that you'll certainly be OK to resume 'normal' escort activities. You'll probably also be OK at clubs as well, as long as you can avoid strenuous upper body exertion ( like pole moves or 'levitation' during private dances ) and can avoid 'grabby' customers. As you yourself mentioned, you have the option of 'seeing how things go' with your escort clients at the 4 week point before making any decision about returning to the clubs.
I could probability save $9,000 in a month as I'm getting so many requests for bookings right now I'm turning people down and don't even have time to pick up all my calls, it's been insane the last few days. And that would give me a whole other month to save more. But I don't know what the summer is like with escorting, if it's gonna get slow or not, how much my calls are gonna level off as my new-ness goes away (hopefully it will be replaced with reliable regulars....). I just don't want to lose three months of increased income, implants are huge in London.
And besides the simple question of losing out on 3 months worth of increased income by 'postponing' your surgery date another 3 months, there is also a very real possibility that club 'seasonality' will create an even larger difference. Generally speaking, clubs in big northern cities with a large financial industry component ( like Manhattan and London ) tend to experience their 'slowest' times during the summer months ... as bankers, brokers, accountants etc. tend to schedule vacations in July and August, or at the very least want to get out of the city ASAP in favor of their 'country' house, a beach etc. Things tend to start picking up again in mid-September, as vacation season ends, as children go back to school, as financial market activities begin to pick up, etc. And clubs in big northern cities with a large financial industry component tend to be busiest in December and early January ... thanks to traditional 'Christmas' and "year end' bonus payments putting huge amounts of cash in customer pockets.
Thus the amount of potential club earnings that would be 'sacrificed' by being unable to dance during October and November, or even more so during December and January, is likely to be significantly higher than the potential club earnings 'sacrificed' during July and August. I can only assume that the same summer vacation / Christmas bonus issue will wind up applying to your escort clients as well.
Melonie
06-28-2014, 05:01 AM
The hiring manager at Flash is really, really into small naturals now. It's almost never slow so obviously the customers are satisfied enough, but many of them remark that they'd like more variety. The good news is that my 425/450s will be comparatively big because of the manager's bias.
Any time that CUSTOMERS are stating that the club is not fulfilling their 'desires', a dancer that can fill that niche is bound to bank. Historically speaking, Flash was always Manhattan's 'Mecca' for major mammaries ... so undoubtedly some portion of the club's customer base haven't changed their 'tastes'. As to the personal preferences of club managers taking precedence over the 'desires' of the club's customers, I've never understood that and never will ... but it does happen nonetheless.
audrey_k
06-28-2014, 10:06 AM
Thanks Melonie!
lol1337a
06-28-2014, 05:03 PM
Melonie, you would be shocked if you visited Flash today. Was Bobby a manager when you were there by any chance? He's the one who tried to talk me out of it. I'm just curious how much of his preferences are due to changing times vs personal taste. Not that it matters at this point! Off topic, but he's one of my favorite strip club managers.
I also want to add some observations about how men are treating me IRL now that my boobs look normal enough in a bra to wear form fitting clothing. I was told that they would increase harassment but they absolutely haven't. I'm harassed just as often, but now men approach me with fear! Awkward stuttering, trailing off.. it's almost delightful.
whirlerz
06-28-2014, 08:53 PM
What size did you end up going with?
lol1337a
06-28-2014, 10:55 PM
425 and 450ccs (I was asymmetric). Now I'm wearing a 32DD but measure a 30DDD. I look like a regular "D" though, nothing crazy. I'll never know my starting size since I always just wore 34A's. It didn't matter to me whether they fit because it's not like I needed the support. I was probably a 30C by sister size logic. Bra sizing is weird.
whirlerz
06-29-2014, 01:09 AM
Bra sizing is weird.
Tell me about it!
tempest666
06-29-2014, 01:55 AM
I went to Lord and Taylor and they came up with an odd measurement: 40B. ::)
Melonie
06-29-2014, 06:39 AM
Melonie, you would be shocked if you visited Flash today. Was Bobby a manager when you were there by any chance? He's the one who tried to talk me out of it. I'm just curious how much of his preferences are due to changing times vs personal taste
Indeed !!! I was shocked enough by the changes that had taken place at Flash between 1999 and 2006, which was the last time I was on their stage !!! And I know who Bobby is, but was never at Flash after he became a manager.
As to the 'marketing' versus 'manager's personal bias' question, damned if I know. Manhattan has always pushed a 'stylish, sophisticated, cultured' vibe ... which Flash traditionally did NOT follow, in favor of appealing to a 'different' sector of customers via porn star features, huge boob features, etc. With the feature business more or less dying, it's possible that Flash has lost it's former 'drawing power' thus is now attempting to compete directly with other Manhattan clubs via the same 'stylish sophisticated, cultured' vibe.
I also want to add some observations about how men are treating me IRL now that my boobs look normal enough in a bra to wear form fitting clothing. I was told that they would increase harassment but they absolutely haven't. I'm harassed just as often, but now men approach me with fear! Awkward stuttering, trailing off.. it's almost delightful.
Indeed bigger boobs do have a direct relationship to female 'power' ... which is also why they are so 'addictive'. Just wait until you pump yours up to 800cc !!! ' You're not worthy ... but give me all of your money anyhow "
whirlerz
06-29-2014, 09:08 AM
I went to Lord and Taylor and they came up with an odd measurement: 40B. ::)
Wut???^
I know I've been professionally measured, & my actual band measurement is 331/2..I took one of those size tests online & it said I should be a 32? Weird.
whirlerz
06-29-2014, 01:33 PM
Hey, OP, don't forget to post some pics, K?
lol1337a
06-29-2014, 02:03 PM
Ok.. I was gonna avoid posting until they healed more but here goes! I don't have much cleavage because of my wide sternum (not clavicle like I said earlier lol, I was just waking up) and the firmness of my muscles three weeks out. I can't wear push up bras or even shove them together yet, but I'm told that in the future it'll be fine. I'm also posting one of my right boob only because lefty is still way too bruised. Don't judge them harshly yet, they have a lot of healing left!
http://imgur.com/KRJKMjE
http://imgur.com/gtrD6Hx
http://imgur.com/4UBjeJe
(Attachments aren't working for me right now.)
simone87
06-29-2014, 02:41 PM
^ they are beautiful!! those are the kinds i want if i ever get them, they look natural and mesh well with your body (if that makes sense!)
whirlerz
06-29-2014, 02:48 PM
Wow, looks great already! You've a tiny waist so that's a big plustoo.
Melonie
06-30-2014, 06:23 PM
looks like you're off to a VERY good start !!!
22lligm
06-30-2014, 11:22 PM
congrats they look amazing!!
How tall are you?
lol1337a
06-30-2014, 11:27 PM
Thanks so much everyone! I was so nervous to post pics.
I'm 5'5" and 140ish. Currently 37-27-38.
22lligm
06-30-2014, 11:44 PM
We have the same measurements almost! I'm 5'8'' but my waist is 27 and my hips are 38. Woo holla to the hourglass shape :D lol (which boobs will create..)
lol1337a
07-01-2014, 12:00 AM
I'm sort of wishing I went with 475/500ccs now that the swelling is down, just like everyone predicted. You're thinking 600s right? Your height will eat up some of the cc's and will probably give you a perfect hourglass result I'll be a little jealous of. I know there's only a one inch difference between my boobs and hips, but it bothers me anyway! Everyone says I look like a hourglass now, even my harshest body critic (my mom), but I still know.
arielbriel
07-01-2014, 12:27 AM
They are gorgeous!!
Melonie
07-01-2014, 02:35 AM
I'm sort of wishing I went with 475/500ccs now that the swelling is down, just like everyone predicted. You're thinking 600s right? Your height will eat up some of the cc's and will probably give you a perfect hourglass result I'll be a little jealous of. I know there's only a one inch difference between my boobs and hips, but it bothers me anyway!
50cc really wouldn't have made much of a difference. Give it at least 3 months for them to settle and fluff.
22lligm
07-01-2014, 07:29 AM
I'm sort of wishing I went with 475/500ccs now that the swelling is down, just like everyone predicted. You're thinking 600s right? Your height will eat up some of the cc's and will probably give you a perfect hourglass result I'll be a little jealous of. I know there's only a one inch difference between my boobs and hips, but it bothers me anyway! Everyone says I look like a hourglass now, even my harshest body critic (my mom), but I still know.
Yeah that's why I'm thinking 550-600ccs for me because I'm tall. The 450 sizer literally didn't even look like anything on me! Yours will look even better though when they drop & fluff and it's probably a good size for your height too.
Vyanka
07-02-2014, 08:05 PM
I would wait six weeks to go back to work. Two weeks is too soon for someone who got unders for the first time. When I got mine done the 2nd time, I waited around 4-6 weeks to go back to the club.
lol1337a
07-08-2014, 01:12 PM
Here's some updated (bio oil covered) pics. They're finally starting to come along IMO. Still have more dropping/fluffing to do of course, but they've definitely started to because they're getting bigger again! And you know, they're not at my collarbones. They're becoming way more symmetrical too. It was pretty bad at one point.
22lligm
07-15-2014, 11:01 AM
They're looking good! How long has it been since you got them done now? My pre-op is next week and my surgery is only 4 weeks away. I'm getting a little nervous because I haven't saved up as much as I planned on so it looks like I'll be using my CareCredit card more than I was wanting to. But oh well.
arielbriel
07-16-2014, 01:50 PM
They look great!! How do they look in a gown ?
lol1337a
07-20-2014, 08:11 AM
Thanks! The pics I posted were at one month. I'm at six weeks currently and they look better every day. They jiggle too. I can't wait to go back to work this week! I'm thinking Tuesday.
I love how I look in literally all my gowns. I have something like nine of them but was only wearing three because I looked flat as a board in the others. I'm gonna try not to buy any more for a long time since I already have over $1500 worth of them and most are barely worn, but I can't wait to try new styles! I love deep V necklines but avoided them like the plague since they're not a good look for smaller chests. It's pretty obvious that stripper gowns are designed with fake tits in mind, lol.
Melonie
07-20-2014, 03:44 PM
I'm at six weeks currently and they look better every day. They jiggle too. I can't wait to go back to work this week! I'm thinking Tuesday.
Fantastic results !!! Keep us posted regarding how well your new 'additions' help you at the club when you return to work this week.
lol1337a
07-21-2014, 07:30 PM
Blech!! I had a deep stitch reject yesterday so now one part of my scar looks like shit. My PS said it wasn't a big deal but now I'm wondering if I'll be able to put makeup on it for work, and if the makeup will even stay put. Also worried that this might keep happening. Wish me luck ladies. I'm so money hungry and can't wait to hustle!
Melonie
07-22-2014, 02:50 AM
^^^ if part of your incision has 'reopened' due to the popped stitch, be VERY careful about attempting to use body makeup to cover it. The body makeup can trap germs ... and also cuts off oxygen exposure ... which can lead to a nasty infection. Discuss your situation fully with your doctor before doing this, please.
lol1337a
07-22-2014, 03:04 PM
The hole closed up today but the skin still seems too thin for me to trust it. Even if it's strong enough for makeup, I can imagine hundreds of scenarios where it could reopen and not only be exposed to bacteria laden makeup, but all the filth of the club. I guess another couple days of internet and Netflix won't kill me.
22lligm
07-31-2014, 03:39 PM
Did you go back to work yet lol1337a? I get mine done in 15 days and I was thinking I wouldn't go back to work for a long time but now I'm thinking I'll need to sooner. I just want to wait until they drop and fluff if it doesn't take too long!
lol1337a
07-31-2014, 04:08 PM
I auditioned at a new club and was hired but haven't started yet (had to deal with moving nonsense). Hopefully going in tomorrow! The scars are pretty much invisible with the help of makeup now.
22lligm
08-01-2014, 06:49 PM
Do you feel like they've dropped and look a little more natural now? Not completely natural obviously lol but not two melons stuck to your chest that are rock hard? Yeah I'm definitely going to need to go back to the clubs soon after I get mine done! Not what I expected :( but oh well I'm hoping they make it really easy for me to make money!
arielbriel
08-01-2014, 08:50 PM
Post pics !
22lligm
08-02-2014, 12:23 PM
Yes please do! And I actually think I'm planning to go back 3 months after my surgery.. which should be plenty of time for them to get a more natural look, right?
lol1337a
08-02-2014, 12:47 PM
They're shockingly jiggly and soft. You tell me if they look like melons on my chest since it's hard to assess myself (sometimes I feel like they look real enough, other times I panic and think they look like bolt ons). I feel close to 100% healed too! Definitely could do pole tricks if it weren't for the muscle distortion/if I hadn't given up the pole years ago. I do have a hint of bruising on lefty still -- you can definitely see it in the areola. But the entire breast was pretty much black and purple during the first week so I'm just grateful I don't look super disfigured anymore.