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MarvelGirl
06-23-2014, 07:23 PM
I'm glad that you already know about this stuff, MarvelGirl, but a lot of other people don't. I'm also glad that you aren't taking any new clients (thereby lowering your risk) -- that's a real luxury. Most girls aren't in that position and take many new clients every day just to get by thereby increasing their risk.

There is a lot of fear around this topic -- it makes people uncomfortable. Putting the facts out there is going help remove misinformation on the subject, of which there is a lot. Until today, did you know that getting the shot even *after* you've been exposed to the virus can help fight it? Or that Canada has already approved the shot for women up to 45? Do you care? Maybe someone who is reading this might actually get something out of it. I'm sorry that you see that as hitting you over the head with a sledgehammer.

As far as getting the shot, my clients LOVE it -- they feel safer and appreciate that I care enough about myself (hence them, too) to get it.

Why are you assuming I haven't had the shots? Also, why are you still assuming I'm ignorant about them?

This is exactly what I'm talking about. Judgment and shaming disguised as faux concern. Thanks but no thanks. I get enough of that shit from civilians. I really don't need it on here.

I know all the things you've posted here. I'm still making a different decision than you and that's ok. It doesn't make me stupid or ignorant or a bad person. Everyone takes risks in life and we all have different risks that we think are worthwhile that others would never chance. That's all completely ok.

lokikola
06-23-2014, 07:48 PM
Yet you immediately knew I was talking about you when I mentioned slut shaming, didn't you? If you didn't feel your comment was slut shaming, why did you pick that up and apply it to yourself? Don't worry, you don't have to admit it to me, just think about it. :)

Your comment was rude and judgmental. I already said that and I stand by it. You've addressed it multiple times already. I get that you're very pissed off at me. I don't care. I don't tolerate that type of bullshit. I especially don't tolerate it from other sex workers.

If you still have a problem with that, it's your problem and yours alone.
I'm the only person who disagreed and you made it pretty obvious. My comment may have came off that way but it wasn't the intent. You on the other hand are just an asshole, and that's a shittier place to be.
If you didn't care why reply? Because I had to explain and point out who the real asshole was here? Yes, that's precisely why. You want to defend yourself instead of admitting you overreacted.
You might think that I'm rude and all that, I'm actually not.... again you're talking about yourself. I don't tolerate your type of bullshit either, hence the response. Glad you got the point though.
You are only replying with more assumptions and excuses while I owned up to understanding how it could come off that way. You're just responding to defend yourself because you know damn well the only person being an asshole and throwing a fit over something that wasn't a big deal initially is you.

JudyO
06-23-2014, 08:16 PM
Why are you assuming I haven't had the shots? Also, why are you still assuming I'm ignorant about them?

This is exactly what I'm talking about. Judgment and shaming disguised as faux concern. Thanks but no thanks. I get enough of that shit from civilians. I really don't need it on here.

I know all the things you've posted here. I'm still making a different decision than you and that's ok. It doesn't make me stupid or ignorant or a bad person. Everyone takes risks in life and we all have different risks that we think are worthwhile that others would never chance. That's all completely ok.

How do I know? Well, I think it's obvious that anyone reading your comments would infer that you probably didn't. Besides, you admit it when you say "I'm still making a different decision than you and that's ok." What's that all about? Some totally unrelated subject we don't know about?

Your argument is pretty lame and holds no water, as it's IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU! You poor thing! Judgment and shaming! Quite frankly, I don't care about you, nor am I try to change your mind. You are personalizing the entire thing to be about you -- like we're out to get you!

You really enjoy pissing contests don't you, MarvelGirl? The only problem is that you're pissing in the wind.

Moxxy Minx
06-28-2014, 03:01 AM
It is not safe, but it is rather low risk.

I offer BBBJ as well and even CIM (but I do not swallow). I have discussed it with my Doctor and he told me that the probability of contracting hiv is practically zero and syphilis is very low. I have been doing it now for a year and my tests which I take every 4-6 weeks (because I also do porn) are clean. Of course I am vaccinated against HPV as far as possible. I also always wipe the cock with a disinfecting wipy before starting to suck it (and inspect it for any sores) and flush my mouth with a disinfecting mouth wash after taking the cum. It is important that you do not do BBBJ for a whileif u had bleeding gums or any injury in your mouth, but that should be obvious.

ava$
06-28-2014, 07:12 AM
Granted, the risk of getting HIV thru BBBJ is low and chlamydia/gonorrhea is treatable thru meds. HOWEVER, the risk of contracting HPV orally is a *huge* issue -- it causes throat/mouth cancers (just ask Michael Douglas). It's the same strain that gives you cervical cancer (for which the Gardasil vaccine was developed for). There are no symptoms for guys who are carriers -- YOU won't know till you start having problems with your throat maybe years later.

Bottom line: get your shot or use a condom, otherwise you'll be playing Russian roulette with this.

Last I heard these shots only cover a few strains of the hpv virus so even if u are vaccinated you can still get another strain.

JudyO
06-28-2014, 04:22 PM
To put things in perspective, the shot covers 70% of the most virulent strains for cancer (16 and 18 ), as well as 90% of those for genital warts (6 & 11). That's covering most of your bases and just about all of them for warts.

I had a dear friend who contracted HPV-induced colorectal cancer. She didn't think she need it as she was relatively monogamous -- her scumbag boyfriend gave it to her. She had a colostomy, countless chemo treatments, lost all her hair and still died. Right now, she'd be rolling over in her grave to get a Gardasil shot

Innax
06-28-2014, 10:46 PM
OMG! i'm getting the vaccine next next week i already made an appointment. I'm found there is a way to get oral hpv test. the name is: http://www.oraldna.com/oral-hpv-testing.html so i think i'm going to get tested every 2 month if it's possible.