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Djoser
08-11-2014, 06:43 AM
I totally understand that. I'm sure you will look great, too. The picture above is stunning as you already are.

I was just posting my honest opinion as a 15 year industry veteran about what actually looks natural, and what doesn't.

bacardi14
08-11-2014, 08:23 AM
None of those look even remotely natural, except the first perhaps--but she has much larger hips than you do and is clearly the 'voluptuous' type. Whereas you appear to be clearly the 'athletic' type, and that size (in the first picture) would not look at all 'natural' on you either. For your build the C would be ideal, IMO.

I've seen maybe 1 out of every 50-75 BAs that really looked 'natural', if not even less. And I am talking about women I knew before the BAs. I know a lot of 'civilian' women who are flat chested get very small implants and look very natural, but not usually in the clubs.

Honestly you have a CLEAR body type preference based on your posts that consistently have a negative tone towards implants and butts that won't crush walnuts. Let's be clear, many guys like the "teen" or "barely legal" look but let's call it what it is. I won't put it down, because I used to have that kind of body and it was great. It got tons of attention, but in my case (and from the way ladies talk here) there is a clear preference for the way I (or they) look now, and (for me) this is among people in day to day life (and many of them have seen my tits naked too), not even those going to strip clubs for a fantasy (which many times involves more of an extreme version of the female ideal (big tits small waist round perky butt). I am several inches shorter than Audrey, and while I have more of the body type of the girl with the wider hips, I'm still freaking small at a size zero and I have size E tits. Trying to convince tons of girls on stripper web not to go above a certain size is just setting them up for failure and disappointment in my opinion. You don't know more about bra sizes than us no matter how many years you have under your belt as a strip club DJ. You're undeniably biased based on what you like. And you will notice I was one of the ones supporting smaller implants in this thread, but not that small. Your work in the strip club for 15 years has more likely skewed what you see, versus making it universal truth on what most women should look like to bank or what most men like in and outside the club. Yeah, I've never stripped but what I've experienced as a female for 20 something years in a small body with no implants, and several years with implants aligns much more with what these other girls are saying and completely goes against most of what you consider "ideal". Most guys don't live around strippers like you do, and they are much much less likely to so closely examine which tits look real and which ones look too big and which ones are unnatural on which frame. If the tits are soft and have movement and don't ripple and have a somewhat natural slope most guys can't fucking determine for sure if they're fake. They're just happy to see big hot tits on a fit body.

I haven't been that impressed with some of the surgeons work I've seen at BA, garter, and teasers myself but that doesn't mean some larger boob jobs don't look awesome on small girls.

charlie61
08-11-2014, 10:41 AM
Let's be clear, many guys like the "teen" or "barely legal" look but let's call it what it is.

I know this probably isn't what you meant, but I reacted badly to the implication that small-chested girls look like teenagers, and that men who like small-chested women are usually into the 'barely legal' look.

That said, this is not a thread on big breasts vs. small breasts, so let's stay on topic (i.e. Audrey's BA).

DreamsInDigital
08-11-2014, 11:14 AM
For people who say you are going to want to go bigger, they're probably right. I wasn't dancing yet when I had mine done, I was just flat up top with a bigger butt for my frame, so I wanted to be proportional. Now that I'm dancing though, I tend to go to work and get "boob envy," and think, gosh, I wish I had gone bigger.

My honest opinion is to just forget about whatever cup size you think you wish you could be, and bring in the pictures you have instead. Then you can say to the doctor, "I want proportions like this," and he will be able to choose what he thinks is best for you to achieve the result you want. This is what I did, and my results are exactly what I was hoping for. My doctor and I never decided on CCs or anything beforehand.

audrey_k
08-11-2014, 12:22 PM
I totally understand that. I'm sure you will look great, too. The picture above is stunning as you already are.

I was just posting my honest opinion as a 15 year industry veteran about what actually looks natural, and what doesn't.

I appreciate your input. :-)

bacardi14
08-11-2014, 12:22 PM
I know this probably isn't what you meant, but I reacted badly to the implication that small-chested girls look like teenagers, and that men who like small-chested women are usually into the 'barely legal' look.

That said, this is not a thread on big breasts vs. small breasts, so let's stay on topic (i.e. Audrey's BA).

Sorry but that was not my intention at all. I meant it in a good way and I still admire small chested girls and the athletic or youthful look (and I believe this doesn't automatically correlate to breast size anyway, it just so happens that smaller breasts seem to be more common on smaller women, or younger women for various reasons like child birth or establishing the funds for implants later on if desired). Honestly I loved my body when I had a small chest and my decision to get implants wasn't based on the idea that I would be "better" but just "different". I was ready for a change and to have something I had always been curious about.

I admit I reacted negatively to a trend I've noticed of Djoser perpetuating the idea that the smallest body parts are somehow preferred and basically trying to discourage women from getting breast implants when they are obviously set on them. He's very opinionated, which is fine, but don't speak as if you are the expert on our bodies and how other men view them and react to them simply based on what you've noticed as a DJ because you have X years of experience. Esp because what was true 10-15 years ago is rarely the same at the present time (the "type" of body that is "in style" changes constantly anyway and everyone likes something different). I am not trying to skinny shame anyone here since I've been skinny shamed my entire life. I'm pushing 30 and have never grown out of a size 0... I gained and been having to lose 20 lbs recently because of some outside issues but that is another story.

I know it is slightly off topic, but at the same time I felt it was relevant especially because I was just shocked at how off based his advice to Audrey seemed to be.

and yes, I admit that was a blatant rant and I am not really trying to pass it off as something else. lol

audrey_k
08-11-2014, 03:55 PM
^in his defense, I have made quite a stink in this thread about wanting to look natural-- but 5 pages of posts later, what I want is something in-between natural and fake. I'm definitely not going to go with a C, with all the time and pain and money I'm investing in this I don't want my clients to not notice that I'm getting a BA, but I didn't end up showing my PS the pictures he's quoting, I showed him slightly smaller breasts.

However I agree with you 100%, bigger boobs = easier, bigger money. You can make bank as a flat-chested girl, I've been doing it for five years, but it requires a lot more effort than just walking up to a table with big boobs does and I'm burned out on talking to people. And there are a lot of customers that come to strip clubs to see the stereotypical hot girl, with big boobs and blonde hair. I've spent so much of my time as a stripper being fixated on being skinny, but I've met so many top-earners who are definitely on the voluptuous side. But I also have clients who are obsessed with the fact that I'm on the skinny side and have natural boobs, I have seen a few customers come into London clubs and tell the host that they want girls sent to them but they have to natural.

At the end of the day the most important thing is your hustle and how you approach customers! I don't think either one is a definite money maker.

tempest666
08-12-2014, 01:35 AM
I've seen small tits bank but everything else is usually in proportion. Also they usually have killer faces.

Djoser
08-12-2014, 02:22 AM
Bacardi, this idea that men don't know what natural breasts look like, versus the larger implants, is a massive underestimation of by far most men's ability to judge these things. I've seen plenty of drunk horny idiots in the clubs over the years who didn't have a clue, of course--and wouldn't have cared anyway. Doesn't make it universal.

As far as bias. By far the prevailing bias I have seen on SW for the last 10 years has been in favor of BAs, not against them. So if a very few people maintain a position that most BAs are unnecessary or overrated, why the outrage?


Doesn't mean Audrey wanted or needed to hear that none of those pictures looked natural. And this is a stripper support forum, which takes precedence over any other factors. So I am out of it.


Yeah, I've never stripped...

Though not without pointing out that a non-industry member who has never stripped has no more business coming off from any sort of assumed preferential position here--due to being female--than an industry veteran of 15 years.

Audrey will do whatever she wants regardless of what I think or post, or any other man for that matter--which is as it should be. She will look fabulous and will rule her world--of that I have no doubt.

bacardi14
08-12-2014, 08:47 AM
^in his defense, I have made quite a stink in this thread about wanting to look natural-- but 5 pages of posts later, what I want is something in-between natural and fake. I'm definitely not going to go with a C, with all the time and pain and money I'm investing in this I don't want my clients to not notice that I'm getting a BA, but I didn't end up showing my PS the pictures he's quoting, I showed him slightly smaller breasts.

However I agree with you 100%, bigger boobs = easier, bigger money. You can make bank as a flat-chested girl, I've been doing it for five years, but it requires a lot more effort than just walking up to a table with big boobs does and I'm burned out on talking to people. And there are a lot of customers that come to strip clubs to see the stereotypical hot girl, with big boobs and blonde hair. I've spent so much of my time as a stripper being fixated on being skinny, but I've met so many top-earners who are definitely on the voluptuous side. But I also have clients who are obsessed with the fact that I'm on the skinny side and have natural boobs, I have seen a few customers come into London clubs and tell the host that they want girls sent to them but they have to natural.

At the end of the day the most important thing is your hustle and how you approach customers! I don't think either one is a definite money maker.

I completely agree and I get why you did emphasize natural so much. I just think I have a better idea of the thought process when girls say they want "natural" implants versus what guys think. Of course no one would be having this discussion if all implants looked exactly like natural boobs, but once we've gotten this deep into the decision to have surgery, I think we are very aware of what is possible with surgery and what is not. That is the issue that I have with his comments. He seems to take the "natural" thing very strictly/literally, and while I like to think he is genuinely trying to help, sometimes I just don't understand the need to frequently point out the fact that he doesn't think any implants really look natural and he basically dislikes 99% of all BAs. Most of us know how he feels about that, which is fine, but it gets to the point where I feel like, ok man, we know you think all our tits look fakie fake and we were better off with our small naturals. lol We get it.

From what I gather from years of reading and researching this stuff (and going through it myself), it seems like a lot of us want noticeably bigger boobs that still "sit" like smaller naturals. We just don't want them to be super obvious, and want it to be questionable whether or not we had implants. Obviously if someone wants no one to ever ever ever question the authenticity of their breasts, then by all means stay as small as possible, but that's not what most of us are going to shell out thousands of dollars for. If you post pictures of what you like, and Djoser doesn't think they look completely natural, well that's fine but that's what you want, and if your surgeon gives you that and you're happy then who cares how we define "natural".


Bacardi, this idea that men don't know what natural breasts look like, versus the larger implants, is a massive underestimation of by far most men's ability to judge these things. I've seen plenty of drunk horny idiots in the clubs over the years who didn't have a clue, of course--and wouldn't have cared anyway. Doesn't make it universal.

As far as bias. By far the prevailing bias I have seen on SW for the last 10 years has been in favor of BAs, not against them. So if a very few people maintain a position that most BAs are unnecessary or overrated, why the outrage?


Doesn't mean Audrey wanted or needed to hear that none of those pictures looked natural. And this is a stripper support forum, which takes precedence over any other factors. So I am out of it.



Though not without pointing out that a non-industry member who has never stripped has no more business coming off from any sort of assumed preferential position here--due to being female--than an industry veteran of 15 years.

Audrey will do whatever she wants regardless of what I think or post, or any other man for that matter--which is as it should be. She will look fabulous and will rule her world--of that I have no doubt.

I'm not massively underestimating men's ability to judge, I'm really careful in my posts not to use absolute terms like "all guys, every time, never" etc. What I said was that many guys don't as carefully examine or critique BAs like you do since they're not in the business. Do they have 'real v fake' debates with their friends, obviously. Then I said that if they are very well done implants, lots of guys won't know FOR SURE if they're fake... I didn't say they can't ever tell the difference. There is just a question in their mind about it.

Also, I don't appreciate you trying to undermine my knowledge on the topic of implants and actually living with breasts on my body just because you work in a club and you assume I'm a non-industry member. If you take that term literally, that is just not accurate since all I've said was that I have never DANCED.

I also don't think you're realizing how this subject has less to do with the industry and more to do with having boobs. I know more about that than you do.

I always defer to the veterans on topics I don't know much about, like hustle hut, auditions, club politics, etc. This is body business, and you don't have a leg up on every discussion just because they're in a stripper forum and you work in a club.

Djoser
08-12-2014, 09:12 PM
I was going to stay out of it completely--and I do hate it when people say they are done but come BACK anyway lol.

But I hear you on all counts, I see exactly where you are coming from, even if we disagree about some things. And I had to laugh at this part:


...but it gets to the point where I feel like, ok man, we know you think all our tits look fakie fake and we were better off with our small naturals. lol We get it.

:D


I see all the many 'pro' comments so throw in the 'con's sometimes. But I can understand how you had the reaction you did.

Also, of course you know far more than I ever will about what it's like to have implants. Pretending otherwise would be absurd.

Though I have heard a lot of guys get implants in the pectoral and calf muscles! They obviously try not to let people know about it, either. I suppose I might be a great candidate for one calf implant as I favor one leg after an old motorcycle accident--that foot doesn't work quite right--the left calf is smaller as a result. If I were to come back in another life as a dancer, I'd probably get it done. But anyway we are way the fuck off topic again now, sorry to all for that...

Vyanka
08-13-2014, 02:43 AM
Imo, natural looking implants have a lot to do with good skin elasticity and doctor's skill of course. I've seen girls who have gone up one cup size and look fake. I've seen an A cup go some where in the D range size and came out looking like big naturals. I would try to find pics of girls with your stats,(height and weight) body frame, with the boobs you like.

audrey_k
08-16-2014, 08:14 PM
My surgery is a week and a few days away! I'm so excited. Although I'm not sure what I'm more excited about at this point, taking the time off or getting my boobs done.... burn out does not even begin to describe how I feel right now, I haven't had a day off in over two weeks now. I have to see a minimum of 3 clients a day every single day up until the surgery to get my boobs done and move into a new place. I just look at pictures of big boobs and the flat I'm in the process of signing a lease on right before an appointment and afterward... and think about both during. I was thinking it would be really boring and hard not to work while I was recovering? Nothing sounds better. I think I'm actually going to push it to 6 weeks for escorting as well as stripping (was planning on going back to stripping 6-7 weeks after and escorting 4 originally) just because I have never felt burned out the way I do right now, I am fucking exhausted and not in good shape. Time off, a new place, and my boobs has ended up costing me a little over $20,000, it's insane... I don't know what I was thinking scheduling them at the same time. Luckily the guy (well one of them) I'm seeing right now has offered to help move all my shit into storage and then move it into my new place since I told him I can't lift anything after the surgery.

Some of my clients are changing their tune and getting more excited.... I have two clients that are trying to outbid each other to be the first ones to try out my new boobs when I come back (although the first person to try them out will be the guy I just started dating not a client!) and one of my clients posted in a thread about me on a 'punting' website that I'm getting my boobs done and the response was positive which made me feel a bit better. I had the MOST annoying client this week who asked me why I was taking time off and when I told him I was getting my boobs done he went on for about 10 minutes about how stupid that was and how ridiculous I was being and I shouldn't change, I don't think I've ever been so annoyed with a client before! I told him to fuck off and that it was none of his business what I decide to do with my body, I seriously don't understand the entitlement some of these men have!

Nikki_Fox
08-18-2014, 09:28 AM
^^^^ I think it is kinda like asking a man does my butt look big in these jeans - Is there really a correct response that a man can give regarding BA's ?? If he agrees he is saying you could use an improvement - if he says you shouldn't do it you are fine as you are then he is telling you what to do with your body - do what feels right for you - for any client you lose their is a whole new pool of clients who will greet you with open arms

Melonie
08-19-2014, 09:24 AM
Some of my clients are changing their tune and getting more excited.... I have two clients that are trying to outbid each other to be the first ones to try out my new boobs when I come back (although the first person to try them out will be the guy I just started dating not a client!) and one of my clients posted in a thread about me on a 'punting' website that I'm getting my boobs done and the response was positive which made me feel a bit better.


for any client you lose their is a whole new pool of clients who will greet you with open arms

I have to concur with NikkiFox on this one. As long as the resulting cup size remains in the first half of the alphabet, any customers lost because of a BA will be replaced many times over with new customers who prefer bigger boobs !!!

Granted that once you start talking about 'Circus Boobs', different rules apply. There's a high probability that lots of customers will be put off by 'mammoth mammaries'. However, they will be partially replaced by new fetish customers ... who are fewer in number, but who are willing to spend huge amounts of money. But this won't be an issue until you start measuring implant cc's in thousands not hundreds.

audrey_k
08-20-2014, 08:16 AM
Another questions for you ladies... at what point can I start buying lingerie? A few weeks after the surgery or do I need to wait longer?

charlotte.
08-20-2014, 08:28 AM
Another questions for you ladies... at what point can I start buying lingerie? A few weeks after the surgery or do I need to wait longer?

cheap bras like vs you can buy within weeks after surgery because they are so stretchy and basic that you most likely won't change sizes. i would wait 6 months to buy bras that are better structured like la perla, elle macpherson, agent provocateur. youll need to get some well fitting supportive bras for exercise etc but your size, shape, and needs will change over 6 months-2 yrs so just get used to monthly bra shopping and dont get more than 1 at a time.

Melonie
08-20-2014, 08:31 AM
^^^ depends on a number of factors ... how big the implants were, implant profile ( high profile will require more skin stretching time ), how much initial swelling was present, type of implant placement, drop and fluff rate, etc. The 4 week point is generally pretty safe in regard to new boobs being 'somewhat close' to their final size ... close enough to risk buying some reasonably affordable 'dep't store' bras etc.

But I agree with Charlotte that, where expensive / custom made stuff is concerned, I wouldn't think about investing money any earlier than 3 months at the very least. In my own case, I didn't wait and bought several J cup bras about 4 weeks after my last re-do. But by the 3 month point I actually needed a K cup, and by the 6 month point I needed an M cup ! Thus I spent well over $1000 on custom bras that I couldn't actually wear for very long.

http://farm2.staticflickr.com/1137/1516553552_3fcb15802f.jpg

^^^ However, even though I couldn't continue to wear them for very long, those undersized bras did come in handy for photo shoots, so not a total loss !!!

audrey_k
08-20-2014, 08:45 AM
My plan was to order stuff from Yandy at the 3 week/4 week mark and buy a few cheap ones here, I just need to have stuff to wear when I go back to work! Dunno what I'm gonna do about gowns though, will have to just buy a cheap one I guess.

Melonie
08-20-2014, 08:48 AM
^^^ keep in mind that gowns can be 'altered' ... where bras cannot.

audrey_k
08-20-2014, 09:31 AM
^I think I have one gown I can get away with wearing, but no bras! I'll probably just spend a hundred or so on cheap stuff from Yandy.

audrey_k
08-21-2014, 08:08 AM
Have less than a week left with my little boobies! Gonna miss em!

Melonie
08-21-2014, 09:10 AM
^^^ doubtful that you will 'miss' your B cups. More likely you'll regret not going for a BA sooner !!!

lol1337a
08-21-2014, 12:42 PM
The gowns you already have might still fit after surgery. I wouldn't be surprised if some looked even better! Kamala gowns were designed with implants in mind.

Also, I feel you on the savings hit because I planned my BA right before a vacation and a move. Not to mention it was just two months after tax season. Rationally I know it was worth it to get it all over now with so I could reap the benefits of my new boobs during the busy season this year, but it's hard to look at my savings! It looks like my choice will pay off in the long run though, and I bet yours will too.

Melonie
08-23-2014, 03:38 AM
Rationally I know it was worth it to get it all over now with so I could reap the benefits of my new boobs during the busy season this year, but it's hard to look at my savings! It looks like my choice will pay off in the long run though, and I bet yours will too

Truthfully, after seeing literally hundreds of girls involved in our 'business' get BA's, I can't think of a single case where their earnings didn't grow right along with their cup size. And beyond that, the more their cup size grew, the more their earnings grew as well !!!

Also, if working in a seasonal market, it obviously makes a ton of sense to 'lose' the time / earnings involved in getting / recovering from the BA at the point in the season where earnings potential is likely to be at its lowest point.

In terms of savings account balances, think of it as 'borrowing' money to make a capital investment which will increase future earnings ... thus 'pay for itself' rather quickly. However, in point of fact, you're not incurring any actual new debt ... just reducing cash reserves.

audrey_k
08-23-2014, 09:07 AM
I think I will miss them a little bit! Not that I'll miss being smaller, I'll just miss them cause they're a part of me! I feel like Alice in Wonderland, I'm so scared of them being too small but then I'm also scared of them being too big...

How swollen will my boobs be on week 4? My mum is coming to visit me, surprise visit, and I'm already really nervous about her seeing my boobs, I don't want them to be huge and giant when she comes...

Amira702
08-23-2014, 10:13 AM
I think I will miss them a little bit! Not that I'll miss being smaller, I'll just miss them cause they're a part of me! I feel like Alice in Wonderland, I'm so scared of them being too small but then I'm also scared of them being too big...

How swollen will my boobs be on week 4? My mum is coming to visit me, surprise visit, and I'm already really nervous about her seeing my boobs, I don't want them to be huge and giant when she comes...

I feel like at 4 weeks, I was still wearing sports bras so no one could really tell I got my boobs done. I've never felt that mine looked too big, hopefully it will be the same for you.

22lligm
08-23-2014, 10:46 PM
I think I will miss them a little bit! Not that I'll miss being smaller, I'll just miss them cause they're a part of me! I feel like Alice in Wonderland, I'm so scared of them being too small but then I'm also scared of them being too big...

How swollen will my boobs be on week 4? My mum is coming to visit me, surprise visit, and I'm already really nervous about her seeing my boobs, I don't want them to be huge and giant when she comes...

I just got my boobs done a week ago and I almost got the feeling of I miss my old boobs but I was looking at them and I thought "they're still the same boobs just plumper!" So I don't think you'll miss them. They look exactly the same just bigger! And I was freaking out about being too big or too small beforehand too. I really don't think you can go too big if you're thin like me though. My surgeon made it clear that safety was more important than size and that he would go as big as he could with it being safe for my body. He kept saying I'm narrow and thin and he doesn't know how big I can go. He said he would start with 400cc and "try to go to 500" (I told him I wanted 550 cc or more) and I woke up after surgery with 545/595cc!! They're literally the perfect size for me (I'm tall) even though I'm thin. And clearly my body would allow that size safely if that's what he chose. I mean unless you're going to a sketchy surgeon who says "I'll make it fit" I don't think you could go too big, since your body might not even allow a really big implant anyway (any bigger than I got might've made me top heavy). I'm just really happy I told him to go as big as he could with it being safe because any smaller might've been too small and any bigger might've been too big!

Good luck though I hope your recovery isn't too bad!! I'm 8 days post op and I feel 100% back to normal and fine. I even forget I have boobs sometimes! There's just some soreness and tenderness sometimes when I'm being too active. And that's with no pain killers I'm sure it would be less if I took some tylenol extra strength more often.

audrey_k
08-24-2014, 06:00 PM
^that's good to hear! I was talking to another escort saying I plan to go back to working in 4-6 weeks and she said that was crazy and I have to take off a full two months to go back, but surely 6 weeks would be enough...

I hit my savings goal for the surgery today which is SUCH a fucking relief... and started moving my shit out of my shitty incall flat, god I cannot wait to move into my own nice one bedroom apartment with my new boobs! Three more days...Now it feels like this is actually going to happen!

Melonie
08-25-2014, 08:50 AM
^^^ first of all, Audrey_K, congrats on having reached your financial goal in the proverbial 'nick of time'. I had complete faith that you would, of course !!!

I'll also echo what 22lligm just pointed out, that there's extremely little reason to be concerned about winding up 'too big' ... but a fair amount of reason to be concerned about winding up 'too small'.

bacardi14
08-25-2014, 10:12 AM
I do actually miss my old boobs sometimes! Not that I regret implants at all, but I miss them in a nostalgic kind of way. Kind of like an old car you loved, but it was time for a change. They were nice and I could wear certain things I can't now BUT the new things I could never wear before implants make up for it.
Also, most of my clothes still fit me (like 95% at least). There are a few items that don't fit like any dresses or tank tops w triangles tops or underwire, and some bathingsuits that fit me really good w smaller boobs. Other bathingsuits that were a little big look good now.

Djoser, I get what you're saying, I can just get passionate about some things and really bitch about it. I have to walk away and leave it alone for a while.
And I could totally see some guys getting calf implants and not wanting anyone to know. I've seen this more from non-dancers w implants, but I've met some girls who were absolutely petrified that someone might realize their breasts aren't real. Even boyfriends! I kind of felt like they interpreted small breasts to be a deformity or something :( I think that is a whole other ball game when choosing implants.

audrey_k
08-25-2014, 05:06 PM
^^^ first of all, Audrey_K, congrats on having reached your financial goal in the proverbial 'nick of time'. I had complete faith that you would, of course !!!

I'll also echo what 22lligm just pointed out, that there's extremely little reason to be concerned about winding up 'too big' ... but a fair amount of reason to be concerned about winding up 'too small'.

Thanks! My goal unfortunately has to increase by almost 40% to cover the 4 months rent + deposit for my new place, but the boobs and my own flat were definitely worth it! And so is the 6 week break...

Two more days, I am so excited! I think what I'm going to do is just step back and leave in my PS hands, he's seen my pics so hopefully I get what I want!

Melonie
08-26-2014, 06:15 AM
^^^ sounds like a good plan. I would just mention to your doctor before surgery that erring on the big side is better than erring on the small side.

audrey_k
08-28-2014, 12:36 PM
So I got them done tis morning... if there are typos I apologize but it hurts to type!

I was a little freaked out when I woke up because we had discussed 450/475 CCs, moderate plus, and I woke up with 525 high profile, and they're so big for my frame he and to give me a special bra! Which is very weird btw and doesn't cover my nipples, are they all like that? It's gonna be lots of sweaters for the next 30 days as he says I have to wear it for a full month. I asked him why he did that and he said that the moderate plius wouldn't fit on my frame and the 525 was what he needed to get to DD, which annoyed me a bit because I told him to err on the smaller side with the DD as I was still going back and forth in my mind. I think it's partly the guy I've been seeing has been telling me he thinks a DD will be too big on me-- he hasn't been unsupporive or anything as I've been totally on the fence about it-- although now that I have the DD he sounds kind of secretly excited. But they seem absolutely GIANT to me, but I know they're swollen and I feel like that's what a lot of you ladies have and yours look great so hopefully it will be fine. When I woke up I had no pain but I felt like I couldn't breathe-- now I can breathe, but fuck I am in soooo much pain. I packed way too much shit so I'm throwing everything out that is heavy and not worth more than $75 to try and make my bag lighter on the trip back tomorrow, which I am DREADING as I barely even lay down-- it took me a half hour to get my pants off and put on a new set of underwear. And I'll definitely be sleeping upright as it's WAY too painful to lie full down on my back, standing up and walking around is the least painful, so I've been doing a lot of that which I hope is OK?

To be honest though now I'm sort of glad he went big as this is the worst pain I've ever been in so it better be worth it! And even though they're swollen and hard, the shape of big boobs on my body... so sexy I love it! I feel like I have some curves now!

My clients are so sweet though, they've all been sending me messages asking me how the surgery went and if I'm feeling OK... there might be some self-interest there as I think some of them just want to know how big my boobs went so they can fantasize for the next months but it's still nice....

I'll post some pics for you ladies early next week!

chanzep
08-28-2014, 01:44 PM
Congrats!, Im sure they won't look too big once they settle, plus have you not noticed how big titts rule here, I swear there are girls who had BA's who I always used to look forward to working with before they got them done because I would always do well because I was slimmer and better looking, once they got there very good boob jobs I found it hard to compete with the same girls, this was in a,place guys always used to praise my real boobs!,guys would still be like your the best looking here then get a dance with the big boobs!, I hope you feel better, your deffo fit the California girl stero type British guys have with your new boobs x

Melonie
08-28-2014, 02:13 PM
Congrats +1.

First point ... don't make ANY judgments regarding the size / shape of the swollen, touching your chin, post-op breasts you're looking at right now. They'll change a lot in the next two weeks.

Second point ... yeah it's amazing how many guys ( BF's , customers, doesn't matter ) who said that big boobs weren't their 'thing' suddenly develop a 'thing' once those big boobs are staring back at them !!!

Third point ... if you are already having 'sexy' thoughts, just imagine what's waiting 4 weeks from now !!!

Fourth point ... 525cc implants aren't really 'big' ... they temporarily appear 'big' right now compared to the size of your natural breasts, but this 'size shock factor' will pass very quickly.

Standing up and walking around is actually a GOOD thing ... because it improves circulation thus promotes the healing process.

However, be VERY careful about putting any 'stress' on your upper body ... and that includes lugging around a heavy bag. DO NOT attempt to lift / shove a bag into a carry-on compartment !!!!! DO NOT attempt to shove / tug on a bag placed under a seat !!!! Check everything except your purse, and let the porters / cabbies do the lifting and shoving !!!

audrey_k
08-28-2014, 02:25 PM
^thanks Mel, yeah it hurts just to reposition myself in bed. I'm hoping my big boobs will attract someone to carry and move my bags for me at the station!!

Melonie
08-28-2014, 02:26 PM
^^^ no worries in that department ... just wear a tight sweater and some 'skinny' jeans!!! Think of your new boobs as 'batteries' ... which have now got much more 'power' than your old boobs ever had LOL.

22lligm
08-28-2014, 11:07 PM
I agree that the size shock factor will go down! It's been two weeks since my surgery and I honestly forget I have them, and I got 545/595! Congrats on the surgery and I bet you they're gona look soo good!! I've been looking at so many pictures on Real Self and I've never found a larger implant that looks bad it's always the small ones that look bad to me. Just from what I've seen. And I agree all the money and pain during recovery you might as well go big or go home! And I would just trust your surgeon and he probably made the best choice. You should post a pic later on when you're feeling better! Mine are dropping and I'm hoping they fluff up a little because they don't feel very big to me.

And I also agree you should not do anything too strenuous tomorrow!! Make someone else carry your bag and don't lift your arms up. My surgeon calls it "T rex arms" and I had to be like that for a week. Good luck on your travels I hope it isn't too difficult!!

audrey_k
08-28-2014, 11:19 PM
^I so envy you being at two weeks I wish I could skip to them! The pain today is making yesterday look like a walk in the park!!! I wish I had traveled back yesterday instead.

audrey_k
08-29-2014, 12:11 AM
So I've pushed my travel date back to tomorrow, as I just can't travel today.

audrey_k
08-29-2014, 01:47 AM
How much better were you ladies on day 3?

I don't have much money in my account-- it's all in a safe back in my bedroom-- so I could only afford to extend the trip to Sunday, so that would be day 3 since I got them done yesterday morning. Right now I can't get out of bed I have to roll and it hurts to breathe, will it be a lot better then?

lol1337a
08-29-2014, 02:32 AM
You might just be unlucky in regards to pain tolerance for this surgery. What meds are you on? Maybe ask your Dr if they can bump you up to a higher mg in the short term if you're already on the good stuff (any sort of oxy rather than hydrocodone), and if you're on something weaker a day's worth of something stronger? Day one was a breeze compared to two and three for me personally, and days four-six were when I saw the most rapid improvement. Congrats on your surgery, BTW! I'm sure you'll be delighted with your results in the next few weeks. Don't worry about the size. Mine are 450s and the absolute bare minimum of what would have been worth it to me.

Melonie
08-29-2014, 03:50 AM
^^^ agreed that the day of the surgery, and maybe into the first day post-op, the anesthesia used during your surgery will still be in your system helping to ease the pain. Day two is usually the worst, as the anesthesia 'leftovers' will have left your system by then leaving just the pain-killer pills you were prescribed to relieve the pain.

However, for many girls, and certainly for myself, the prescription pain meds create many additional problems ( nausea, constipation / cramps ) in exchange for relieving the pain. So I only took the prescription pain meds when I really needed to. And even then, I would cut the pills in half to keep the dosage low.

By day three, the pain usually 'turns the corner' ... and at this point I typically stopped taking prescription pain meds altogether and switched to extra strength Tylenol.

Day 4 to 6 typically sees a marked reduction in pain with each passing day. As such, I could get away with taking the Tylenol first thing in the morning and and an hour before going to sleep. I could also think about doing some 'normal' things for a couple of hours at a time at least ... while being extremely careful not to stress my upper body !!!

By day 7 I was typically able to stop taking the Tylenol altogether and start to do 'normal' things again.

audrey_k
08-29-2014, 04:36 AM
I'm on Morphine, a 500mg, and I'm also taking over the counter pain meds. I got the morphine from my doctor in the UK as my PS doesn't prescribe Oxy or anything like that. I could bump it up to
600 mg I guess, but that shit makes me soooo naeseous.

I guess technically Sunday will actually be day 4 since I got it done Thursday morning-- I think the pain is really bad partly because the implant is big on my frame.

Yea, I was thinking of going off the morphine around day 6. How did you ladies get out of bed without putting a ton of pressure on your body?

audrey_k
08-29-2014, 07:04 AM
I think it's partly the guy I've been seeing has been telling me he thinks a DD will be too big on me-- he hasn't been unsupporive or anything as I've been totally on the fence about it-- although now that I have the DD he sounds kind of secretly excited.

Yep, the man who was so worried about them being too big and thought the operation was silly has now asked me for pictures 4 times ::) and it's not even 5pm yet. It's ridiculous how quick they flipflop!

bacardi14
08-29-2014, 09:04 AM
Congrats!!! Super excited to see how they turned out!

I really hope you feel better soon! You can't really listen to other people regarding pain/healing time since everyone is different. I was like you and had a ton of pain and discomfort. It was nothing like what everyone said. I think some of us have tight muscles and skin and it just squeezes them bitches like a vice. Lol
Things will get better though. At least you prob. won't have boob greed! I know I NEVER want to have another BA unless it's medically necessary. I bet yours look perfect the first time around : D

Melonie
08-29-2014, 09:11 AM
I'm on Morphine, a 500mg, and I'm also taking over the counter pain meds. I got the morphine from my doctor in the UK as my PS doesn't prescribe Oxy or anything like that. I could bump it up to 600 mg I guess, but that shit makes me soooo naeseous.

If you are having nausea issues, I wouldn't recommend increasing the dosage. I would also recommend tapering off the prescription pain meds as quickly as you can manage it. If you'll be done travelling Sunday night, that would be a great time to stop the prescription pain meds and try to get along with the over the counter stuff.

In regard to the over the counter pain meds, hopefully you mean Tylenol ( acetaminophen ). Advil ( ibuprofen ) and aspirin can both increase probability of post-op bleeding.



I guess technically Sunday will actually be day 4 since I got it done Thursday morning-- I think the pain is really bad partly because the implant is big on my frame.

Yes ... you should be 'turning the corner' on pain tomorrow.



I think some of us have tight muscles and skin and it just squeezes them bitches like a vice.

As to the cause of pain, that has a lot to do with the number of nerve endings which the PS did or did not cut ( more pain now means more breast sensation forever ), the amount of muscle tissue the PS had to cut ( the better 'shape' you were in, the tighter the muscle tissue thus more pain ), and to some degree the amount of breast skin stretch ( as you mentioned, B to DD requires more stretching than B to D ).


. How did you ladies get out of bed without putting a ton of pressure on your body?

use stomach and leg muscles instead of arms !!!



the man who was so worried about them being too big and thought the operation was silly has now asked me for pictures 4 times and it's not even 5pm yet. It's ridiculous how quick they flipflop!

Indeed you now have an awesome amount of 'power' in 'dem big ol' titties !

Vyanka
08-29-2014, 10:00 AM
Also, stack some pillows on your bed so it can be easier to get up. Don't sleep completely flat.

22lligm
08-30-2014, 11:36 AM
I had my boyfriend literally lift me up completely the first few days. After that I swung myself up using some leg action since even flexing my ab muscles made my boobs hurt a lot. I'm sorry you're having a hard time recovering though! I think you should be okay tomorrow too maybe bring a lot of fluids with you to sip on for the nausea and take everything slow.

And I'll add to the fact guys who said they weren't boob guys love my boobs already and I'm only talking about my "vanilla" job since I haven't gone back to the club yet. One of our delivery drivers at my restaurant kept telling me not to do it and he's a leg guy and he hates big fake boobs and the first day back that I see him his face is bright red and he can't stop smiling and giggling and staring at my chest!! I was thinking "oh yeah not a big boob guy huh?" haha guys are idiots!

I hope everything goes okay on your travels audrey keep us posted!