View Full Version : need some advice on implants... increasing size?
tempest666
09-19-2014, 02:39 PM
They look awesome but damn that surgical bra was brutal on your skin hon!
audrey_k
09-19-2014, 03:17 PM
^I know, I took it off for a couple hours before I took this pic so no redness, that thing pinches my skin and shows with all my damn tops. Can't wait to take it off.
I'm supposed to keep it on for a month, do you think taking it off 2-4 days early is a big deal?
tempest666
09-19-2014, 04:25 PM
Probably not, but for something that you paid that much money for I'd err on the side of caution and follow your PS instructions. Or call him/her to be safe.
Melonie
09-20-2014, 06:17 AM
I have to admit though, I do regret, at this point anyway, going as big as I did. I think I would have been happier with smaller implants in the 400/420 range. I'm hoping as the swelling goes down and they continue dropping I'll be more pleased with the size.
they don't look as big as they did a few weeks ago, I wore a sweater one day and even my guy was like, wow, your boobs are HUGE, he says they don't look as big anymore. I think it's partly getting used the change in shape of my body, going from having a very boyish figure to suddenly having a more Marilyn Monroe shape is really weird
Indeed, as mentioned before you embarked on this 'journey', there always seems to be a period during the first few weeks post-op where the combined effects of swelling, 'collarbone' implant position, the 'size shock' of actually having sizeable boobs for the first time in your life, etc. combine to create 'I went too big' fears. Ironically, it also seems to be the case that, after a few more weeks post-op, swelling disappearing, implants dropping, getting used to your new 'proportions' etc. cause those fears to be dispelled. In fact, more than a few girls reach the conclusion that 'I didn't go big enough'. The point, of course, is to reserve judgement for at least the first 3 months, because it usually takes that long for things to actually start approaching a 'new normal' in terms of size, shape, position etc.
Also, +1 on 'they look awesome' !!!
audrey_k
09-25-2014, 07:44 AM
So I went to a department store here this week cause I can start wearing regular bras in a couple days but it's cheaper to order online, and got myself measured-- she said I was a 30DD. She said if I wanted to shop at somewhere like Victoria's Secret where they don't make less than 32 to go with the 32DD. WTF? I feel like my boobs are WAY bigger than that, 525ccs???
Are they still just sitting up super high or do you think she fucked up?
shanna dior
09-25-2014, 12:20 PM
If you want VS bras, measure yourself using their guide specifically: https://www.victoriassecret.com/bras/how-to-measure-bras
Melonie
09-25-2014, 12:48 PM
WTF? I feel like my boobs are WAY bigger than that, 525ccs???
I wound up with full D's / smallish DD's with my first set of 500cc implants, starting from a big B cup. Given that yours are high profile, full DD's sounds about right.
While some dep't store bra fittings can be in error, generally speaking the tape measure isn't susceptible to 'subjective' impressions about size. A couple of measurements and a simple equation equals bra band and cup size.
audrey_k
09-25-2014, 04:45 PM
I guess I'm just surprised, I thought for sure I would be an E or an F...
22lligm
09-25-2014, 10:39 PM
I was just measured at around a 34DD at VS and I got 550/595 cc. I was hoping they would be at least a DD so I'm happy haha. Your incisions look really good btw I'm dealing with a right incision that is literally taking forever to heal and it's starting to get really irritating. Really inconvenient!
audrey_k
09-26-2014, 04:34 AM
^yeah, I can barely see mine, partly because of the placement, he did a good job. I just wish my boobs would soften, they're still so hard!
You can probably put make up on yours?
audrey_k
09-26-2014, 12:01 PM
Her sizing was totally wrong!
I went to a more upscale department store today to buy a couple and I'm a 30F, I could squeeze into a 30E. That's what I thought!
charlie61
09-26-2014, 12:13 PM
How have they been looking lately?
audrey_k
09-26-2014, 12:41 PM
^I haven't noticed much of a difference in them this week... my guy swears they feel softer to him, but they still feel reeeeally hard to me, and they're still sitting waaay up there and come out with quite a pop. I am excited to start wearing regular bras though!
kissykins
09-26-2014, 04:06 PM
Her sizing was totally wrong!
I went to a more upscale department store today to buy a couple and I'm a 30F, I could squeeze into a 30E. That's what I thought!
Probably the single best piece of bra advice I've ever gotten was. "Go to a small boutique bra / lingerie shop and have the little old lady that has been fitting for 35 years fit you. Try and buy a few styles from there, you'll pay more. Then make a point of memorizing how the perfect fitting bras feel and sit on your body, then use that as a guide to everything else you buy in the future."
Your size will go up and down as you lose and gain weight. All brands and styles fit a little differently, so don't get stuck on the numbers learning how a bra is supposed to fit will help you always look and feel your best. Best to go and visit Betsy at the bra shop!
newb2
09-26-2014, 09:32 PM
Audrey you should go to bravissimo
they are the best for D+ bras and fittings
audrey_k
09-26-2014, 10:47 PM
^thanks! I went to Selfridges today and had three brands to pick from, Freya, Panache and Fantasie. I bought one from each, they're nice but the underwear with these bras is not sexy, it seems like once the sizes get bigger the sexiness goes away, and if I'm going to spend $65 on a bra I want to buy the matching underwear... and they don't make xs. Just because someone has big boobs doesn't mean they have hips....
audrey_k
09-26-2014, 10:57 PM
I really like Ewa Bien bras, I'm going to order a few when I get back to work-- http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B00KRGFD72/ref=ox_sc_sfl_title_3?ie=UTF8&psc=1&smid=A2W67KEEYF41HG
I'm kind of disappointed I can't shop at VS anymore though as 90% of my work clothes come from there...
audrey_k
09-27-2014, 07:09 PM
I saw my first client this evening, he's a regular and I needed some cash.
He was NOT into my boobs at all, he told me he was really surprised that I went 'so large' and repeated a couple times that he wasn't expecting me to go with such a 'fake' look.
Now I'm nervous to go back to work!
Nikki_Fox
09-27-2014, 07:37 PM
Is okay love he will probably get over it - if not dont sweat it you will pick up many more to replace him
chanzep
09-27-2014, 08:00 PM
At the club will be the opposite effect, guys will love a American girl with big titts.
audrey_k
09-28-2014, 09:16 AM
Thanks ladies. It really wasn't what I needed to hear because the last 4/5 days I have been feeling not so great about them.
I'm just having a lot of doubts about the size, feeling like I went way too big... I knew there was no way I was a DD when she measured me, and it totally freaked me out when I measured at a 30F. I felt like a DD might be too big before the surgery, and now I'm 2 sizes up from that! And my bff's dad, who is going to do my nose this Christmas, just made kind of an odd comment, he said he had never examined me so I should feel confident with what the PS did, but that he was surprised, knowing my size, that he had chosen to go over 400cc (I was asking him if there was any way to remove ccs post surgery and he said no). My boyfriend was really anti big boobs before I went and actually suggested that I go with a C, and I have never seen someone flip so quickly, and good god I cannot walk down the street without having men stare at me to the point it was really awkward when my step dad/mum were here, so I have gotten a good a response from them... but I am not feeling super jazzed about them at the moment. What is also really bothering me is how high up they are, I feel like when I look at other people's pics post-op they are much lower than mine are. Mine are still VERY close to the collar bone. I was really bad about wearing the strap across my boobs and now I'm worried I may have done something to them! When I wear clothes I feel like they look great, but when I wear a bra or am naked I honestly kind of hate them right now.
Here's a pic;
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tantra4
09-28-2014, 03:15 PM
I think you'll feel better and better about them as time goes on. I bet some of the negativity you got from that client was a reflection of your own doubts. When you're recovered from the surgery and start rocking your big new boobs, I bet others will think they look great too. Also, couldn't you just wear a cami if you're with someone who hates implants?
Melonie
09-28-2014, 03:37 PM
^^^ obviously, the 'strap' was designed to provide downward pressure to 'encourage' your implants to move downward. That will happen via gravity alone, but may take a little longer.
In regard to trying to 'evaluate' your new size, please keep in perspective that your 'evidence' so far is based on the opinions of just two people, your 'special' customer, and your current boyfriend. I would definitely reserve judgment until, A. your implants have more of a chance to 'drop', B. you are able to market the 'new you' to a wide range of strip club and escort customers, and C. your 'customer base' adjusts accordingly.
audrey_k
09-28-2014, 04:35 PM
^it's not their opinions that matter, it's mine-- and he basically just parroted back to me what I've been thinking all week, 'I went too big.'
I think you'll feel better and better about them as time goes on. I bet some of the negativity you got from that client was a reflection of your own doubts. When you're recovered from the surgery and start rocking your big new boobs, I bet others will think they look great too. Also, couldn't you just wear a cami if you're with someone who hates implants?
Not really, they want me naked as an escort, lol! I'm just hoping most of my customers will stick in my bf's category. The good news is, even though he doesn't like the implants, apparently I'm good enough at my job that it's not a breaking factor as he's already booked again. So hopefully my personally and other features will keep the clients that aren't crazy about my new additions.
HallelujahHopkins
09-28-2014, 06:39 PM
The good news is, even though he doesn't like the implants, apparently I'm good enough at my job that it's not a breaking factor as he's already booked again. So hopefully my personally and other features will keep the clients that aren't crazy about my new additions.
Hahaha- well that's the ultimate test then right? They can be whiny snots if they like but you've created an irresistible brand with meticulous care for quality. I trust you're going to use the same attention to detail when marketing your 'upgrade', you just need time to adjust after spending so much energy playing up a completely different image. I can't wait to see your next post in one of the photo threads because I'm sure whatever gown or teddy you've tediously selected and tailored will be a whole new level of confident and gorgeous elegance.
Also, you lost an aspect of yourself- I think all of us have probably cried after chopping off long hair, or doubted the first tattoo- it's good to have a little time to miss your old body, it worked hard for you, worked its tits off and did a damn good job ;p...but now you have a kitten and a new pair of puppies to work into your daily life and hopefully love. (sorry for the weird metaphors...can't tell if sentimental or really creepy :/) Anyway I'm really impressed that you did this whole thing with so much organization and forethought, plus dealt with that much pain and gore. It seemed like a much harder executive decision than most CEO's ever make in a career.
cairalis
09-29-2014, 02:01 AM
I think there has been amazing progress since your first pic and its not even been that long! I am just wondering if the push up bra isnt going to make it harder for gravity working in your favour? Do you wear a bra like that all day now? Or just for work?
Also: what a dickhead your customer making a comment like that. Why would he say that? People can be so thoughtless.
audrey_k
09-29-2014, 08:55 AM
^it was one of those weird back-handed compliments, like "well I'm sure other men will like because you have that Barbie look now, but I just thought you were more naturally beautiful before."
They told me I can wear whatever bra, I usually just wear a sports bra but non-underwires bras aren't super comfortable for me they feel weird.
tempest666
09-29-2014, 02:48 PM
Tell your client I said not to be such a "Natural Nazi!"
Your tits are going to take awhile to D&F. I had Frankenboobs till about 6 months post-op. When the stacks start coming in you'll learn to love them. Trust me on that.
audrey_k
09-29-2014, 03:04 PM
^do you feel like the Frankenboobs hurt your money at work or guys didn't notice just as long as they were big?
tempest666
09-29-2014, 03:12 PM
Eh one guy called me "Torpedo tits" and I laughed and said "I'd rather have 'torpedo tits' than fried eggs." But overall nobody gave a shit. When it was safe for them to be touched I charged an arm and a leg for the privilege.
lol1337a
09-29-2014, 04:21 PM
Don't worry, they look like what most people would call a D or DD. I think you and your customers will be very happy with them when they D&F. I know how hard waiting is but it gets so much easier as they approach a normal position.
SimoneGray
09-30-2014, 12:32 AM
So I've been researching different procedures and I came across an aesthetic treatment that basically involves injecting tissue fillers into your boobs to make them bigger. This lasts for about 3 years or so and is said to be safer than implants for people who are highly active.
Has anyone has experience with this? Is it safe?
Melonie
09-30-2014, 03:23 AM
^^^ from the info I have seen, the 'jury is still out' regarding the actual effectiveness, and potential complications, of breast filler injections.
From UK Health Centre ...
(snip)"many women that have used the Macrolane injections in their breasts have complained of them becoming hard and having several lumps develop after the first few days after the treatment, and at times their breasts have become uneven due to one breast reacting better to the gel than the other. A firm massage can be used to help break up the lumps of the gel within the breast tissue; however the final end product of the Macrolane injections is then not always of the same standard.
There have also been more sinister reports of the Macrolane treatment for example, the needle could indeed perforate the chest wall if not inserted correctly, or the gel could create a capsular contraction which is an extremely painful side effect in which the immune system within the body can reject the Macrolane gel which can then leave the breasts painful, hard and with palpable lumps.
Finally, with the effects of the Macrolane injections not being very long lasting with only an estimate of the enhancement lasting up to 12-18 months, many argue that Macrolane breast enhancement leaves the patient in a more vulnerable situation than that of a person who only has to go through one intrusive operation i.e. breast implants.(snip)
tantra4
09-30-2014, 08:59 AM
Audrey, how's the sensitivity of your breasts after the surgery? That's one thing I'd hate to lose.
audrey_k
09-30-2014, 11:43 AM
I'm not a great person to ask because I honestly hate having my boobs touched, even in my personal life, so if I lose sensation in them it would make me very happy as my boyfriend could play with them again without me snapping at him! With that said, I haven't noticed any loss of sensation as they've become more healed, I mean definitely in the beginning they felt numb and whatnot, but I think a couple months down the line there won't be any difference.
You might ask one of the other ladies who are more healed, Melonie would know!
charlie61
09-30-2014, 12:12 PM
I'm not a great person to ask because I honestly hate having my boobs touched, even in my personal life, so if I lose sensation in them it would make me very happy as my boyfriend could play with them again without me snapping at him! With that said, I haven't noticed any loss of sensation as they've become more healed, I mean definitely in the beginning they felt numb and whatnot, but I think a couple months down the line there won't be any difference.
Do you feel that working in high-contact clubs led to you hating having your boobs touched? I've worked in medium-contact clubs before where the boobs-in-face routine was de rigueur, and ever since then, I absolutely can't stand having mine touched. As in, if I accidentally brush my nipple up against something (even something as innocuous as a book or table corner), I experience an irrational flash of anger. And I haven't worked consistently in years!
audrey_k
09-30-2014, 01:33 PM
^I think it's definitely part of it. Before stripping I was never one of those people who loves having their boobs touched/licked/sucked whatever, but it wasn't something that bothered me or made me uncomfortable or I felt strongly against. Now it's to the point where I've actually had escorting clients give me negative reviews because I can't hide how uncomfortable and disgusting it feels to me. I'm a little more OK with it with my bf, but more than like 5-7 seconds and I'll push even him away. The club I worked at in LA was very high contact, and guys touching your boobs was just part of the routine. I was always fending off tongues and mouths as even though I never allowed it, guys would just go for it pretty frequently, to the point of fighting them off at times. So I think anytime someone goes for them, all that boundary-pushing behavior that made me feel so gross/violated at times comes back to me.
tantra4
09-30-2014, 03:08 PM
I've never had to fend off unwelcome contact (not a stripper), but my nipples always felt ticklish and overly sensitive. That was up until my first time with a girl. I'm not sure what she did, but OMG! She turned my ticklishness into something amazing. Now my breasts are the most sensitive part of me. It's not exactly a sexy feeling. More like being drenched in love. And I do mean drenched!
audrey_k
09-30-2014, 06:30 PM
So when I was feeling myself up today to see how soft my boobs are, I noticed how hard my incisions feel... is that normal?
charlie61
09-30-2014, 07:10 PM
So when I was feeling myself up today to see how soft my boobs are, I noticed how hard my incisions feel... is that normal?
Yes; scar tissue is made of fibrous connective tissue. If the scars are fully healed (covered), you can help keep the tissue pliable by gently massaging it with oils / lotion (e.g. vitamin e oil). That will keep the scars from pulling on the surrounding skin and will facilitate healing / fading.
lol1337a
10-01-2014, 01:22 AM
Charlie, my nipples were an erogenous zone until I worked in clubs where boob touching was the norm. I always stated my boundaries but all it took was a few customers who didn't respect them for my skin to crawl anytime even I touched them. It's much better post BA, but I sometimes feel outraged that my job, which is the only reason I got a boob job, destroyed my enjoyment of my own body to the extent that I'm grateful for numbness.
audrey_k
10-02-2014, 11:16 AM
If you want VS bras, measure yourself using their guide specifically: https://www.victoriassecret.com/bras/how-to-measure-bras
I'm so confused now... according to this link, I'm a 32D. But the bras I'm wearing right now are 30Fs??? Ugh, why is bra sizing so fucking complicated?
If I can actually fit into a 32D/32DD I will be over the moon, as I love VS bras for work.
newb2
10-02-2014, 11:35 AM
I'm so confused now... according to this link, I'm a 32D. But the bras I'm wearing right now are 30Fs??? Ugh, why is bra sizing so fucking complicated?
If I can actually fit into a 32D/32DD I will be over the moon, as I love VS bras for work.
vs do 'vanity sizing' so what size they say you are will only be for vs bras
Melonie
10-02-2014, 12:14 PM
But overall nobody gave a shit. When it was safe for them to be touched I charged an arm and a leg for the privilege.
Same in my case !!!
I haven't noticed any loss of sensation as they've become more healed, I mean definitely in the beginning they felt numb and whatnot, but I think a couple months down the line there won't be any difference.
You might ask one of the other ladies who are more healed, Melonie would know!
Unfortunately, this appears to be very individualized. If the doctor happens to cut through nerve endings as part of the BA surgery, sensitivity can be lost. If the implants wind up stretching the breast skin a lot ... thus moving nerve endings closer to the skin surface ... sensitivity can be increased. My own experience has been that while I lost sensitivity for a couple of months post BA, it always came back.
If I can actually fit into a 32D/32DD I will be over the moon, as I love VS bras for work.
Indeed VS is alleged to use 'vanity' sizing. My advice would be to pony up for one VS bra in 32DD and find out for yourself how it actually fits.
Besides the 'vanity' sizing issue ( i.e bra manufacturers deliberately shrinking the cup material to create the impression that the buyer's cup size is bigger than it actually is ), when it comes to implants there is a new variable regarding the 'shape' of the augmented breasts. The basic bra size equation assumes a 100% 'natural' breast shape. When high profile implants are involved, it's possible to get a larger measurement over the point of the breasts which have the greatest forward projection, but the girl may not have the same amount of 'natural' breast fullness to go along with that measurement ( thus she won't actually fill the cups ).
In my own case, the measuring tape says I need a 34K cup. But I have so much 'side boob' ( = low profile implants ) that I actually need a 34M cup to avoid having my boobs pushed up to my collarbone !!!. Of course I wound up having to invest in a couple of custom bras to find this out the 'hard way'. See the video below at the 4 minute mark for my K cup bra !
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xzv921_melonie-charms-tv-french_shortfilms
audrey_k
10-02-2014, 12:33 PM
^thanks! I did some more research and it looks like the sizing is off because I'm measuring at a 30 band, 36 bust-- but VS doesn't make 30 band, so I would to increase to a 32. Their sizing is pretty uncomplicated, 4 inch difference = D, 5 inch difference = DD. So technically I would be a DDD/E in their sizing since I have the 6 inch difference. So I guess I will just go to VS next week and try on some bras to see if I can fit into a 32DD.
shanna dior
10-02-2014, 12:42 PM
vs do 'vanity sizing' so what size they say you are will only be for vs bras
That's why you should always measure yourself per the directions of the retailer you want to shop at! Same case with shoes and clothing, just that bras have a much wider size spectrum.
Melonie
10-02-2014, 01:07 PM
36 bust with a 32 band would be a 4" difference, thus a D cup.
audrey_k
10-03-2014, 05:44 AM
^yeah the actual difference between my band and bust is not 4"... it's actual more like 7" because I measure truthfully at 29-36, I just round up to a 30 band. So I'll have to see if increasing in band size will allow me to decrease in cup size.
I have strange measurements!
newb2
10-03-2014, 06:49 AM
^ if you do that you will not get the proper support and end up with back problems
kissykins
10-03-2014, 08:07 AM
This goes back to what I said before.
Don't trust the numbers, learn what a proper fitting bra feels and looks like on you. The size will change by brand and even style. Then your body will change a little too all the time. Finding well fitting bras can be a pain, but when you find ones that fit RIGHT, OMFG.
The experienced old ladies in bra shops are always your best bet for a fitting. I swear by those gals.