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Melonie
10-03-2014, 08:26 AM
+1 on the little old ladies at custom bra shops !!! Of course, with my bustline, I don't have much of a choice !

audrey_k
10-03-2014, 09:33 AM
^ if you do that you will not get the proper support and end up with back problems

The only reason I would do it would be to fit into VS bras for work, because that's my favorite place to shop for work clothes. I'm having a really hard time finding work clothes in my size, since I'm too small elsewhere to wear a medium but my boobs are too big for a small, and most places that make 30Fs don't sell very sexy lingerie.

charlie61
10-05-2014, 01:20 PM
How's it going audrey?!

bacardi14
10-05-2014, 08:20 PM
Your size might continue changing as you heal too. My muscle were so tight that I think it took about a year for them to really stop changing (dropping, etc). The bigger sizes def. can be uglier, but if you wanna just wear VS at work then I don't think it would matter that they're the wrong size. Just wear the ugly well fitted bras outside of work. I've bought bras that were like 36D or C just because I wanted that particular bra to decorate with rhinestones for Carnival festival. It does hurt my back if I wear for too long though. More than if I just wore no bra lol

charlotte.
10-06-2014, 07:20 PM
if you really love vs so much and still need much more support than the closest size you can find there, get a cup that fits you perfectly like a 38d and just take the band in. thats something you wouldnt even need a professional tailor for if you didnt want to splurge on something temporarily or if you wanted to get 20 new bras. i take the band in all the time because vs elastic is horrible and even their 32s are too big on me half the time brand new.

alternatively a year down the line you could get 20 vs bras professionally tailored for pretty cheap since its a bulk order.

in a year when your boobs have mostly settled get some agent provocateur. they come in small band sizes that are actually accurate and large cups. you may not be able to find those sizes in stores. i have a couple in a 30 and 32 band and they are very well made. easiest way ro stand out when everyone else is wearing the same vs bra too.

audrey_k
10-07-2014, 03:30 PM
They have shrunk a bit, I've had to adjust the straps on my 30F bras as they've been getting looser and the band is falling, so I guess there was still some swelling gone, if I was to go bra shopping again I would probably do a 30E instead.

All my clients this week have really liked them tho, I had two regulars today and both said that they looked natural on me and not too large for my frame and that they thought they looked great, so I've had a better reception this week!

kissykins
10-07-2014, 04:50 PM
Awesome! Looks like you'll be losing even fewer natural nazis than you thought. Think of all the new potential regulars you'll get, now that you're in the big boob club$$$$

LexiConn
10-08-2014, 09:54 PM
So excited for you!

SamanthaSugar
10-10-2014, 03:24 PM
I'm a Cam girl and I just had an implant exchange on Wed and I'm still really sore. To any of you Cam Ladies out there how long did you wait until you got back on Cam?

SimoneGray
10-10-2014, 05:00 PM
^^ thank you for asking this, haha, was just about to post to that effect. Need to know how long I'll be out for as well if I do implants.

audrey_k
10-12-2014, 04:00 PM
I think it depends on what your PS says about wearing the support bra-- mine was pretty intense about me wearing it day and night for 30 days, so I guess you could do short cam sessions and take it off if they feel it's OK? I posted weekly pics in the thread so I mean you can see how mine looked, cause it's also when you're comfortable being seen by men! I wouldn't have wanted a camera on me at 3 weeks, I don't even want a camera on me at 6 weeks.

Melonie
10-14-2014, 08:52 AM
^^^ again, there is a big difference between recovery time for a first time BA, and recovery time for a redo / implant exchange. The latter is far less stressful on body tissues.

audrey_k
10-15-2014, 06:35 AM
^sorry missed the re-do part!

audrey_k
10-24-2014, 06:27 AM
thought I'd post an updated pic!
http://i602.photobucket.com/albums/tt108/missus_mia/2months.jpg (http://s602.photobucket.com/user/missus_mia/media/2months.jpg.html)
I had my first post surgery check up with my PS this week-- it's been almost two months-- and he said everything looked great, they're just taking a while to heal as they are still super hard and haven't dropped much. I'm a big worried about them dropping, since they still look so ridiculous high to me and I feel like they won't drop as low as everyone's else's seem to. I also asked him about depleting some of the implants, but he said he didn't overfill them at all so I'm stuck with what I have.

I go back and forth about how I feel about the size, sometimes I like them (mostly with clothes I think they look good, no clothes if another story) other times I think they look ridiculous-- what is no fun is clothes shopping. Because my body is a 2 at the moment, but the these giants balls of silicone I have on my chest are more like a 6/8, so besides having to throw out my entire closet, it took me weeks just to find a Halloween costume that would fit me. That's beyond the problem of actually finding things that look GOOD on me-- I can't wear anything baggy because it just hangs out and makes me look about 20 lbs heavier, and have to be careful about anything low-cut as its just like BAM. I do love having bigger boobs, I just want to kick myself when I look back on pre-surgery for going so big.

shanna dior
10-24-2014, 12:16 PM
^That bra is beyond pretty. Please tell me where you got it!

lol1337a
10-24-2014, 03:53 PM
The only clothes that consistently work for me now are stretchy shirts/dresses in a size or two smaller than my boobs. Wrap dresses are good too. That bra is gorgeous and you're definitely making a ton of progress.

audrey_k
10-25-2014, 09:21 AM
^yeah, I can't buy anything that isn't stretchy-- that was how I found a Halloween costume, took me two weeks! I ordered a couple cause I couldn't find anything in the shops, but my boobs were just bursting out of the fitted ones. I've found one brand that I love, PattyBoutik, it's cheap and they seem to cater to women with big breasts and a small figure. I have some dresses and a bunch of tops from them, you can buy it on Amazon-- I'm obsessed with them.
My problem is, my waist is 25/26 and my hips are 33/34, but then my boobs are 37. So my bottom measurments are like 2-4 sizes smaller than my boobs. If I had bigger hips it would be easier to find clothes.

The bra is by Fantasie, I bought it at a department store so you find it anywhere. I have the one in the pic and then one on black/silver, I love it!

Melonie
10-25-2014, 11:06 AM
^^^ even at 2 months post-op, it's likely that your implants will still go through a bunch of changes ... and especially so given that yours have been 'slow' to drop.

On a more pragmatic note, how have they affected your earnings potential so far ?

audrey_k
10-26-2014, 10:01 AM
^to be honest I haven't noticed any difference whatsoever, but I'm not exactly doing all I should to market them. I'm not working in an SC and I think my earnings would have doubled from what they were before if I were to go back, but it doesn't seem to make a huge difference with escorting. The thing is though I wasn't sure how much longer I would be escorting so I haven't invested money in new photos yet so the ones on my profile are my old ones, it just says in my info that my size has increased. So might make a difference if I posted some selfies! I just know that my professional photos fit with the image I'm trying to portray as an escort so I'm nervous to switch to selfies. I did add one photo just so people could see so we'll see if that helps! Cause business has been slow since I got back.

kissykins
10-26-2014, 11:02 AM
If I remember right you advertise on adultwork right? One work around to ghetto photos on there is to post an intro video. With those basic minimum production is a good thing. If you don't want to show your face don't. Just say hi this is ..... how do like my new tatas, book me. with a shot of your torso. Should help business. Maybe add busty or big boobed or something to your intro/topic line.

Melonie
10-26-2014, 11:20 AM
to be honest I haven't noticed any difference whatsoever, but I'm not exactly doing all I should to market them. I'm not working in an SC and I think my earnings would have doubled from what they were before if I were to go back, but it doesn't seem to make a huge difference with escorting. The thing is though I wasn't sure how much longer I would be escorting so I haven't invested money in new photos yet so the ones on my profile are my old ones

Are you planning to return to strip club work any time soon ? If so, the results may affect your future outlook in regard to escorting.

PS that new bra is absolutely adorable, and your new boobs certainly don't come across as outlandishly big. Of course, my own sense of 'proportion' isn't exactly average !!!

audrey_k
10-27-2014, 05:04 PM
Posting a selfie did the trick-- I wonder if not seeing a visual of my new boobs was making guys think they looked awful and afraid to book, because my calls have been horrible low the last couple weeks and I hit my all time high today, not including tours-- 83 inquiries. I just wish I had more motivation to work. I do one appointment lately and I feel exhausted and done for the day, just totally wasting these new boobs! I've been this way ever since I got back.

Nikki_Fox
10-27-2014, 08:20 PM
everyone is different in how they bounce back - I am very susceptible to the effects of pain pills - i absolutely hate them - you may be having some left over depression from the amount you took - and it is an emotional adjustment too - dont be so hard on your self - you will get back when you are ready --- or not --- you can always come back to the adult industry - it never leaves

lol1337a
10-27-2014, 09:11 PM
I'm going through the same thing, audrey. I think for me it was getting out of the habit of working, then feeling anxiety whenever I thought of going back to the club, and procrastinating. I was really productive for a month but then burnt out fast about a month ago, so it's happened more than once post-surgery.

Another factor was going through a mini depression after running out of pain pills. I never had to go the rehab route but spent a summer abusing them a long time ago, so it was triggering to say the least. It's a constant struggle not to go that route all over again since unfortunately I know a guy!

At the risk of projecting, I think we'll both do better once we really cement the habit of being productive again (whether in the sex industry or not) and get over any residual opiate-related brain chemistry fluctuations.

goodcbc1986
10-27-2014, 10:23 PM
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Melonie
10-28-2014, 07:52 AM
Posting a selfie did the trick-- I wonder if not seeing a visual of my new boobs was making guys think they looked awful and afraid to book, because my calls have been horrible low the last couple weeks and I hit my all time high today, not including tours-- 83 inquiries

if you're going to stick with escorting, I was going to suggest ponying up for a new set of 'professional' pics. But with that sort of a response from just a run-of-the-mill 'selfie', you may not need to worry about how 'professional' your pics are. I guess this officially retires any worries that you'd lose customers after getting good sized implants !!!



I just wish I had more motivation to work. I do one appointment lately and I feel exhausted and done for the day, just totally wasting these new boobs!

This makes possible an 'alternative' approach. Pony up for a new set of 'professional' pics. Then double your rates ... counting on the fact that at least one or two of those 83 new inquiries aren't going to balk at your higher price !!! Result will be same earnings but only 1/2 the 'work' !!!

kissykins
10-28-2014, 08:21 AM
^^Agree completely.

audrey_k
10-29-2014, 06:40 AM
if you're going to stick with escorting, I was going to suggest ponying up for a new set of 'professional' pics. But with that sort of a response from just a run-of-the-mill 'selfie', you may not need to worry about how 'professional' your pics are. I guess this officially retires any worries that you'd lose customers after getting good sized implants !!!






This makes possible an 'alternative' approach. Pony up for a new set of 'professional' pics. Then double your rates ... counting on the fact that at least one or two of those 83 new inquiries aren't going to balk at your higher price !!! Result will be same earnings but only 1/2 the 'work' !!!

Yeah, it's just a big commitment financially-- about $600-- so I've been holding off. I don't think I'm going to stick with escorting long enough for it to be worthwhile, it'll be two more weeks max, if I do decide to stick with working in sex industry I'll transition to dancing where I know my earnings are going to 3x as high as they were before, the big-breasted-American-girl thing mixed with how much British men love huge fake boobs = lots of money for me! But I definitely need to take some more selfies and post them up, I think maybe a mixture of professional and selfie pics might be better since that way they know it's me in the pics.

I haven't had any negative comments since I went back from anyone and I have been reviewed twice now on a forum and both men said positive things about my boobs, that they were very "in their face" but that the size and feel was great and they didn't look too big on my frame. I have only two clients who had said negative things, one who just isn't that into them but has continued to see me anyway, and then one who keeps complaining that they don't "feel like natural breasts." Sorry dude 2 months later they are still healing! He's become so irritating anyway for other reasons I've dropped him, so it doesn't matter much.

Melonie
10-29-2014, 11:59 AM
^^^ agreed that if you're going to 'retire' from escorting within a few weeks that investing in another professional grade photo shoot isn't worth it. Hopefully your increased 'marketability' in UK strip clubs will fill the financial 'void'. Dancing will definitely be easier on you and on your boobs than escorting ... in more ways than one !!!

Nikki_Fox
11-05-2014, 07:33 PM
Good editing can work wonders for your selfies

audrey_k
11-06-2014, 09:19 PM
^I have four more days of work left at this point so it doesn't matter much. God I can't wait to be done with escorting.

Melonie
11-07-2014, 04:25 AM
Best of luck upon returning to the clubs. Please keep us posted !!!

charlie61
11-27-2014, 12:20 AM
Any updates?! :)

audrey_k
11-27-2014, 08:46 AM
^I was gonna update yesterday actually but got distracted with all this Thanksgiving stuff!

I'm actually a bit concerned about my implants right now and am trying to get another appointment with my PS, not the easiest thing to do since he's in Brussels. I say him a month ago and had him do a full exam and he said everything was fine. But my breasts feels REALLY sore when I wake up in the morning... I've tried sleeping with a bra and without and it doesn't make a difference, and have tried sleeping on my back and my side, no difference. The other thing is there's a big difference between how much my left boob has dropped in the past month and how much my right boob has dropped. :-[