View Full Version : Why is traffic so wishy washy? ON STREAMATE
temptingmodel
08-04-2014, 12:25 PM
You should, you have nice boobies
lol the Award for the best funny!
One day I will get perks... lol when Im 77 with new bewbs. :)
JaneBurgess
08-04-2014, 12:26 PM
Girl you are sexy as fuck. You might not think so but you are.
lol the Award for the best funny!
One day I will get perks... lol when Im 77 with new bewbs. :)
MsHennessy
08-04-2014, 12:36 PM
I know everyone has different views on what is acceptable for them earning-wise, hustles-wise, etc.
But, I'm sorry...when you're sitting on cam (consistently, mind you) bawling your eyes out asking everyone for hand outs... That's not okay. Sorry, I've watched a few people on cam that I'm honestly waiting for them to slice their wrists on camera because of the way they were acting. Seriously, it's ridiculous. I think that's a terrible disconcerting way to "hustle". Honestly, I don't even know if the person is using that as a way to hustle, or is actually in dire need of medication or what... Anyway, lol, that's what I meant in my comment about smacking a ho.
"Giiiirl, you gots to get it together!"
Rosemary Rabbit
08-04-2014, 02:45 PM
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RedAlice
08-04-2014, 03:48 PM
Nah, I'm not worried about people complaining about toplessness. It's irrelevant. I think what tipped the boat here was blaming me for her child not getting enough food.
THIS.
People can like and dislike whatever the hell they want, but trying to shame and blame each other? Some of the things which were said about topless cammers over the last couple of pages were pretty disgraceful and downright untrue.
I see something on cam I don't like? I leave, and go look at someone I admire. And then I leave tips for/join the GSs of people I admire. We should be raising each other up. It's hard enough as it is.
temptingmodel
08-04-2014, 04:03 PM
DEMAND a tip or block him, verbalize it. works wonders to demand your worth.
If you dont tip 4 tit then block his azz
Again, I asked another guy, "so why specifically do you want to see my boobs for free when there are plenty of free boobs everywhere else.?"
Booblover says: "Because, I LIKE YOU."
justanothercamgirl
08-04-2014, 07:21 PM
I know everyone has different views on what is acceptable for them earning-wise, hustles-wise, etc.
But, I'm sorry...when you're sitting on cam (consistently, mind you) bawling your eyes out asking everyone for hand outs... That's not okay. Sorry, I've watched a few people on cam that I'm honestly waiting for them to slice their wrists on camera because of the way they were acting. Seriously, it's ridiculous. I think that's a terrible disconcerting way to "hustle". Honestly, I don't even know if the person is using that as a way to hustle, or is actually in dire need of medication or what... Anyway, lol, that's what I meant in my comment about smacking a ho.
"Giiiirl, you gots to get it together!"
Ah, but that is such a slippery slope.
You find that hustle 'disconcerting' and other people find camgirls who have their boobs out in free chat 'disconcerting'. Where does it all end?
The best answer is to just let girls hustle the way they wanna hustle. Have faith in the fact that if a camgirl has a hustle that you hate and it really isn't making her any money; then she isn't going to be a camgirl for much longer. ;)
1pandoradesire
08-04-2014, 07:57 PM
Wow, I was kinda being sarcastic about having my tits out in free chat due to pms. I have only sat topless a few times, one day I was in a good mood and celebrated "titty tuesday". I didnt just sit there, it was more like flashing now and then but having the cam only on my face. I didnt mean to start a war, or to take food off anyones table. I just was trying to point out acording to the site rules performers have that right and that choice. I understand frustration as this business can be very fickle, but when it comes right down to it, attitude is what matters most. I personally do not do gold shows, I have only done one, but I do not have issue with the models who do them or the ones who do the $0.00 gold shows, that is their hook, their hustle. I was just trying to make light of negative comments by talking pms and being a nudist... geeze. If you feel like the rules to the site are not condusive to your business then perhaps you should petition them or go to a site like Livejasmin.
temptingmodel
08-04-2014, 08:19 PM
when guys with certain things in their name
Butt, booty, thigh, boobs,foot, SMOKE <---- that is a big freebie I was fucking up with
I will instantly hand cover or put out the smoke, smoke lovers get tons of free shows without us knowing it.
off topic
I often wonder how these guys hold a nut back in public the feet and smoke guys. Check this man out...
I just laughed and then just ignored him. He went away on his own. Don't like showing my boobs for tips because we only get 1/3 of the gold tip and everyone else who did not tip gets to see them as well.
JaneBurgess
08-04-2014, 11:29 PM
WTF? That guy is seriously fucked up
when guys with certain things in their name
Butt, booty, thigh, boobs,foot, SMOKE <---- that is a big freebie I was fucking up with
I will instantly hand cover or put out the smoke, smoke lovers get tons of free shows without us knowing it.
off topic
I often wonder how these guys hold a nut back in public the feet and smoke guys. Check this man out... http://www.sunnewsnetwork.ca/sunnews/world/archives/2014/04/20140411-093134.html
Airrrie2
08-06-2014, 10:51 AM
You know what? I've thought about it. You're right. I'm cock blocking, is basically what I'm doing, however unintentional, that's exactly what I'm doing.
Some may say, "well she has to show her tits because ^ insert any one of the stereotypical negative comments we've heard along the way ^ here. It may or may not be true. It's not for me or anyone else to judge. Perhaps I didn't really look inside myself for why it bothers me so much before responding to OP the way I did but also I wonder how much of the return response isn't other performers looking at other models of a different hustle the same way I am viewing women who bare their breasts? We're all judging each other and pointing fingers at each other for all of the different forms of hustle mentioned in this thread. I have opened my eyes a little bit. I think what it boils down to is sitting down with yourself, and making the decision of who you want to be your clientele and who your are trying to attract to your chat room.
I can see I have several notifications in my box that I haven't read yet. I hesitate to open my messages at this point LOL.
JaneBurgess
08-06-2014, 05:31 PM
Don't feel bad, this debate has been going on for years and I doubt will ever die. Every cam performer has to do what they are comfortable with and what makes them money.
You know what? I've thought about it. You're right. I'm cock blocking, is basically what I'm doing, however unintentional, that's exactly what I'm doing.
Some may say, "well she has to show her tits because ^ insert any one of the stereotypical negative comments we've heard along the way ^ here. It may or may not be true. It's not for me or anyone else to judge. Perhaps I didn't really look inside myself for why it bothers me so much before responding to OP the way I did but also I wonder how much of the return response isn't other performers looking at other models of a different hustle the same way I am viewing women who bare their breasts? We're all judging each other and pointing fingers at each other for all of the different forms of hustle mentioned in this thread. I have opened my eyes a little bit. I think what it boils down to is sitting down with yourself, and making the decision of who you want to be your clientele and who your are trying to attract to your chat room.
I can see I have several notifications in my box that I haven't read yet. I hesitate to open my messages at this point LOL.
justanothercamgirl
08-06-2014, 05:36 PM
You know what? I've thought about it. You're right. I'm cock blocking, is basically what I'm doing, however unintentional, that's exactly what I'm doing.
Some may say, "well she has to show her tits because ^ insert any one of the stereotypical negative comments we've heard along the way ^ here. It may or may not be true. It's not for me or anyone else to judge. Perhaps I didn't really look inside myself for why it bothers me so much before responding to OP the way I did but also I wonder how much of the return response isn't other performers looking at other models of a different hustle the same way I am viewing women who bare their breasts? We're all judging each other and pointing fingers at each other for all of the different forms of hustle mentioned in this thread. I have opened my eyes a little bit. I think what it boils down to is sitting down with yourself, and making the decision of who you want to be your clientele and who your are trying to attract to your chat room.
I can see I have several notifications in my box that I haven't read yet. I hesitate to open my messages at this point LOL.
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AngelMari
08-07-2014, 04:56 PM
I've noticed since this update thing, white screen/new dashboard/ etc. That people aren't really in the same placement on pages. I haven't been having any problems with my room/same cash flow etc, things are just same ole for me, probably could've killed this week if I could get my ass to sit there longer than an hour and a half. I can't see where I'm at but some women are on page two-three that were previously on page one and I'm seeing some folks I've never seen before on page one (they ain't new either)... Could be the reason why so many folks have been getting the shaft this last week or so.
Airrrie2
08-14-2014, 06:48 AM
Maybe it's just a summer slow. Who knows.
Angeliqua
08-14-2014, 07:24 AM
I think everyone has to do what works best for them. I never went topless for free chat at SM, but I have lowered my rates a time or two. IMO, I have my own kids to feed and if lowering my rates for a few hours means feeding my kids, then so be it. Each site is it's own beast. On MFC, I did topless in free chats many times, that's when I made the best money on the site. It really differs not only by the site and the performer, sometimes even the day of the week. If something is not working out for someone, then try something new. That pertains to everything in life, not just camming. Blaming someone else is counterproductive. I am not trying to be mean or offend, but this has been my personal experience.
Busygirl
08-14-2014, 11:11 AM
I made half of what I usually make in twice as much time. I sweat for every penny lately. Not easy.
1pandoradesire
04-21-2015, 06:22 PM
While I appreciate where you are coming from, we have zero ability to change what big box sites do and only have the ability to control all factors of our career if we go indy.
To paraphrase Eckhart Tolle, "To complain is always nonacceptance of what is. Leave the situation or accept it. All else is madness."
Going thru some old threads... this was just what I needed.... Thanks!