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MaryElizabeth
10-31-2019, 05:20 PM
I got this guy and just went with it: "Oh thank you officer, I'm so glad to speak to you -can I ask you a few questions about site policy? When I am describing sucking can I....If someone wants to talk about incest can I pretend to be an Aunt? Sir, is it ok for me to describe swallowing?

He's a guys with unmet power needs who is basically the bottom of the barrel in his life. I just said yes sir / officer a few times and we had a nice chat. In the end blew tons of smoke up his ass, thanked him profusely for the call and took his twenty dollars. No one from any of the companies is going to actually call you and check up on what you are doing.


Quote Originally Posted by NotANewGyal View Post
Ok do they usually call the phone line as a “routine,” check? They grilled me for not saying hello fast enough...ew.(

Midwest-Mistress
10-31-2019, 07:00 PM
Anyone else having the same issue we had months ago when they first updated the site?

The call I just had isn't listed in account history & no money in my balance :(

I had the same issue today when I took a call this morning I messaged support & The call log was updated along with my balance in under an hour. Haven't had a problem since.

Kristen_Krystal
10-31-2019, 07:26 PM
Hey, just wanted to say hello and a happy week end to everybody! Lots of $$$$$$ and happyness!

I just PM'd you ;)

Let me know of you didn't get it & I'll send again.

ep2002
11-01-2019, 09:40 AM
TTM. The profile was called Smoothe.

I legit wait one to a few seconds. That’s it.

I’m on Chrome.

I’m happy to be making money on this site now but the bugs are mighty lol.

Yes, that is a TTM CS rep.

So that was just recently?

Yeh, I know. I've lost a lot of money due to all the site issues. I'm on Chrome too, but really need to switch to Brave soon. I have on my other computer.

Many girls have left due to all the issues.


I got this guy and just went with it: "Oh thank you officer, I'm so glad to speak to you -can I ask you a few questions about site policy? When I am describing sucking can I....If someone wants to talk about incest can I pretend to be an Aunt? Sir, is it ok for me to describe swallowing?

He's a guys with unmet power needs who is basically the bottom of the barrel in his life. I just said yes sir / officer a few times and we had a nice chat. In the end blew tons of smoke up his ass, thanked him profusely for the call and took his twenty dollars. No one from any of the companies is going to actually call you and check up on what you are doing.

LOL, thanks for making me laugh, but she's right, she was called from someone at TTM. :(

izshadow
11-02-2019, 09:17 AM
TTM is not going to call your paid sex line. They will call you like a normal person from their customer service number. I talk to them all the time via phone when I have issues. Either by me calling them or them calling me. Its some dude just wanting to get his rocks off by pretending to be someone he isnt.

SuperPookie
11-02-2019, 10:34 AM
^^^ This. I've talked to them several times and they always called me directly from customer service.

Ginnyyy
11-02-2019, 12:17 PM
If we re talking about Smoothe or however was it called, it s the member acc operated by CS. When I was new and pestering the support with bug related issues or any other question, I d set up a call with them at a preferred hour and then they d called either my personal number or from their member account (if the glitch was relating to a bug on the site and we need it to check it in real time)

It was always a girl rep from support calling me after I sent a bug-related e-mail and the calls were payed.

I did not get any lewd call from them so far, just when I inquired their assistance in the past.

ep2002
11-04-2019, 05:09 AM
TTM is not going to call your paid sex line. They will call you like a normal person from their customer service number. I talk to them all the time via phone when I have issues. Either by me calling them or them calling me. Its some dude just wanting to get his rocks off by pretending to be someone he isnt.


^^^ This. I've talked to them several times and they always called me directly from customer service.

Just b/c you haven't experienced it, doesn't mean others haven't.

I'll repeat again, Smooth is from CS & they do sometimes call you on your line from their test account.

But she wasn't saying they were testing her account, she was saying they were checking up on her :( Unless I misunderstood.

izshadow
11-05-2019, 10:58 AM
I was making $2/$3 hundred a week religiously for a long time. Then just like that, it has become near impossible to make $100 and now, I'm stuck at $18 and cant even make a buck on the damn chat line and you need to make $50 to be paid out. This might be my first time not getting money deposited in to my bank account on Friday. It was like a switch was literally flipped a couple months ago and its been a downhill spiral with them ever since.

Ginnyyy
11-05-2019, 11:15 AM
Iz, there is still longer than half a day until the period ends and you re gonna get that half hour call or get swamped in texts to get you over the minimum. Fingers crossed =^_^=
Minimum is $100 for me, as I get payments in my SEPA bank account.

ep2002
11-05-2019, 11:30 AM
I was making $2/$3 hundred a week religiously for a long time. Then just like that, it has become near impossible to make $100 and now, I'm stuck at $18 and cant even make a buck on the damn chat line and you need to make $50 to be paid out. This might be my first time not getting money deposited in to my bank account on Friday. It was like a switch was literally flipped a couple months ago and its been a downhill spiral with them ever since.

Sorry to hear.

I was doing well for 3-4 weeks in a row (I don't make as much as you did though) & then this week was dead. I am still trying to make the $50 min.

I hope you make it.

izshadow
11-05-2019, 11:32 AM
Iz, there is still longer than half a day until the period ends and you re gonna get that half hour call or get swamped in texts to get you over the minimum. Fingers crossed =^_^=
Minimum is $100 for me, as I get payments in my SEPA bank account.

Thank you for the positivity in to the universe! I'm on the chat line now with some interest so fingers crossed. I hate payout minimums.

ep2002
11-05-2019, 11:32 AM
So anyone who's both on TTM & Cougar.

It's supposed to be that when you log onto webchat that turns it on on the other site too, but it's not doing that for me. Even if it looks like it does, when I refresh the age I'm not turned on.

I already reported it, but it's been probably close to a month now.

Anyone else having this issue?

I'm on Chrome.

Thanks

Ginnyyy
11-05-2019, 11:44 AM
Yes, I turn on webchat on TTM, it s on CG too but when I turn it off from TTM as I m not available for webchat anymore and I come back to turn it on on TTM, there is no webchat active on CG (you can see it by refreshing CG, as you just wrote).

I don t keep the CG tab open and I don t use webchat there but when I did, I d have to turn on webchat on TTM and on Cg separately.

Yeah, I noticed, it looks like it s turned on on CG but when you refresh you see that it s actually not so you have to do it separately. For me, it works great this way cause I don t wanna use webchat on CG and fill my screen with every tab for every possible indie site I m on. I just go on Cougars quickly when I get a call from there.

AngelaLeeTS
11-05-2019, 01:46 PM
I just like to know how many connection minutes should i earn before i am able to use all their features in my talk to me account

Hope someone here can shed some light

Thank you

Ginnyyy
11-05-2019, 09:19 PM
1.3. All new Talkers on TalkToMe.com are required to use the Talk-Chat line for up to 30 days and complete 300 connected conversation minutes before a profile can go through the final screening process and be displayed on TalkToMe.com. The final screening process may include an assessment call to ensure that you are a candidate that matches our needs.

https://www.talktome.com/talker-policy/

izshadow
11-05-2019, 09:58 PM
I didnt even hit payout this week. First time ever with them.

SuperPookie
11-06-2019, 07:27 AM
I didnt even hit payout this week. First time ever with them.

I did make payout but currently for this month I'm at 14.38 :(. I haven't had numbers like that on TTM since I was very new.

BFX
11-06-2019, 11:42 PM
Slow and bad month for me too. I saw the new feature with credit for the clients. To whom we suppose to give them and how?

izshadow
11-06-2019, 11:43 PM
Slow and bad month for me too. I saw the new feature with credit for the clients. To whom we suppose to give them and how?

I'm not handing out free minutes. Screw that. I'm ignoring that "new feature" completely.

Ginnyyy
11-07-2019, 03:47 AM
The feature is not ready yet, so it seems. I saw the pop up letting us know it s gonna be available soon. I presume it s free minutes that when given to clients, they can use them on anyone at any rate just as on NiteFlirt?

I suspect an avalanche of messages from new guys or once in a blue moon/3minutes callers asking for those.

Midwest-Mistress
11-07-2019, 06:47 AM
Lol that's what the first time package is for if they want a cheap call. I can't wait to give my repeat clients free minuets what a lovely incentive. I don't attract beggars but regulars.... I'm excited. ;D I can't wait for them to update the site completely and also add that updated skype feature!

Spemily
11-07-2019, 08:25 AM
I presume it s free minutes that when given to clients, they can use them on anyone at any rate just as on NiteFlirt?

Only the three free minutes that guys get when they sign up for NiteFlirt can be used on anyone on the site. Free minutes sent out by flirts can only be used to call the flirt who sent them.

Kristen_Krystal
11-07-2019, 05:39 PM
I quite like the idea of being able to give some free minutes. I'll be only giving mine out to my regular callers that call me fairly regular & spend a decent amount of time. I'm going to hand them out as little Christmas presents to them.

I wonder how it will work when we have used up our free $10 - I wonder if we will get another $ 10 like every month?

ep2002
11-08-2019, 09:18 AM
Yes, I turn on webchat on TTM, it s on CG too but when I turn it off from TTM as I m not available for webchat anymore and I come back to turn it on on TTM, there is no webchat active on CG (you can see it by refreshing CG, as you just wrote).

I don t keep the CG tab open and I don t use webchat there but when I did, I d have to turn on webchat on TTM and on Cg separately.

Yeah, I noticed, it looks like it s turned on on CG but when you refresh you see that it s actually not so you have to do it separately. For me, it works great this way cause I don t wanna use webchat on CG and fill my screen with every tab for every possible indie site I m on. I just go on Cougars quickly when I get a call from there.

Right, my point is, they claim it's supposed to turn it on (just like voice, texting, etc.) on both sites simutaneously.

It's good to know I am not the only one.


Slow and bad month for me too. I saw the new feature with credit for the clients. To whom we suppose to give them and how?

My questions exactly.


I quite like the idea of being able to give some free minutes. I'll be only giving mine out to my regular callers that call me fairly regular & spend a decent amount of time. I'm going to hand them out as little Christmas presents to them.

I wonder how it will work when we have used up our free $10 - I wonder if we will get another $ 10 like every month?


Good question.

And just so you all know, it's available on Cougar, but tells me nothing on how to use it LOL

Midwest-Mistress
11-08-2019, 09:40 AM
This month has been better for me my first week than the last two months had been, strangely... I've also added 3 new girls to the rotation, holidays are coming up and I can feel that money $$$$ rolling in, positive vibes. ~

ep2002
11-08-2019, 01:08 PM
FYI...

Text Now may start to be an issue.

I've been getting captcha BS notices every few texts so I reached out to them to find out what's going on.

I didn't know you can't use them for biz & they've stepped up their security algorythm.

She listed the reasons why my texts would be flagged & I told her I don't send out links (it's rare) & I don't send out the same message over & over again (obviously), but I may use the same words with guys like Hi bb, cum, etc., but that's not in every text.

I don't know what I'm going to do if they stop allowing me to text. :(

Ginnyyy
11-08-2019, 01:55 PM
I use TextPlus.

Kristen_Krystal
11-08-2019, 03:18 PM
This month has been better for me my first week than the last two months had been, strangely... I've also added 3 new girls to the rotation, holidays are coming up and I can feel that money $$$$ rolling in, positive vibes. ~

Yes, this month so far has been better than the last two months - lets hope it keeps on getter better :)

ep2002
11-09-2019, 10:30 AM
I use TextPlus.

I'll have to e-mai them, but it looks like it's only for cell phones. I use it on my real computer.

Thanks


Yes, this month so far has been better than the last two months - lets hope it keeps on getter better :)

Lucky you. I haven't had any calls in days & I see there's TONS of girls who look like they are under 18 on the site now. I've never seen them before. Just from the one I looked at, they must be all from EU.

Kristen_Krystal
11-09-2019, 05:22 PM
I don't really look at other listings when I'm online so I haven't noticed any increase in the "age play " type listings. I remember seeing them when I first joined, so they've always been there. I've no idea how popular that fantasy is - I've got a feeling it's probably not popular enough to sustain a huge increase in that type of fantasy scenario.

They do tend to lean towards the more kinky type customer on there though. I get a lot of guys asking for JOI on there & I just struggle with it myself - Maybe try making a JOI type listing if you've not already got one & try log in on at different times. I'm in the UK & I notice some times are much better for me than others.

It has been quieter overall for sure - it's just this month my listings have seemed to have gone back to normal.

Midwest-Mistress
11-09-2019, 05:52 PM
I don't really look at other listings when I'm online so I haven't noticed any increase in the "age play " type listings. I remember seeing them when I first joined, so they've always been there. I've no idea how popular that fantasy is - I've got a feeling it's probably not popular enough to sustain a huge increase in that type of fantasy scenario.
I don't either, it's not like niteflirt where I can kind of get an idea of how long the account has been on- if I'm lurking lol; I've never noticed more than 5-6 pages with active callers at a time. The rest look like they're mostly from SA.


They do tend to lean towards the more kinky type customer on there though. I get a lot of guys asking for JOI on there & I just struggle with it myself - Maybe try making a JOI type listing if you've not already got one & try log in on at different times. I'm in the UK & I notice some times are much better for me than others.

Right now I only have my Age play line on, I'm working on some Domme Specific lines so I can sharpen my sklls as I do get random Domme calls on my content characters sub listing. I mainly work 12 am -7 am EST (5am-12 pm GMT)... I've noticed the evenings & late nights have been slow - for said line; but the morning plentiful guys always wanna call at 6-7 am lol. I get a lot of American guys, never really bagged UK Clients but that's my target audience tbh especially on cam.

Kristen_Krystal
11-09-2019, 06:17 PM
I find 11 pm till the early hours UK time to be usually the best & early afternoons UK time can be quite good when all the guys are waking up in the US.

My guys tend to be mainly in US & Canada, but I get them from all over - Russia - India - Germany - Uk - Australia - South Africa - New Zealand. The Russian Guy was funny, he couldn't understand I word I said & he ended up being on the phone for about 20 mins. They call from all over ;)

I don't think Femdom goes down all that well on TTM - I do have a Femdom listing & I find it does better as a very sensual Dom. I think NF is the place for hardcore Dom.

My Milfy/Slutty one's tend to go down best for me on there & when I use my own selfies.

I've tried making listings using stock images & they make nothing & when I've tried using pro pictures of myself they just don't seem to attract as my fuzzy little selfies do. I think amateur pictures go down better than professional pictures. I've noticed this on both all sites that I work on.

Midwest-Mistress
11-09-2019, 07:09 PM
I find 11 pm till the early hours UK time to be usually the best & early afternoons UK time can be quite good when all the guys are waking up in the US.

My guys tend to be mainly in US & Canada, but I get them from all over - Russia - India - Germany - Uk - Australia - South Africa - New Zealand. The Russian Guy was funny, he couldn't understand I word I said & he ended up being on the phone for about 20 mins. They call from all over ;)
Lol it's funny you mention the russian dude because I'm about to make a russian cougar and I know little to nothing about it so hopefully no one will ask any cultural questions, if they do I'll say I'm first gen American Russian lol. ;D


I don't think Femdom goes down all that well on TTM - I do have a Femdom listing & I find it does better as a very sensual Dom. I think NF is the place for hardcore Dom.

Yes! I've noticed the same! Luckily I'm good at sensual domination - just JOI is iffy depending f the client gives me hints about his triggers. I'm working on manifesting sensual clients with my own image but, guys want me to be loud, mean and bitchy to them on TTM & NF. :O Let's try it again, if it doesn't work out I'll only be logging on when I'm extremely pissed lol.


My Milfy/Slutty one's tend to go down best for me on there & when I use my own selfies.
I've tried making listings using stock images & they make nothing & when I've tried using pro pictures of myself they just don't seem to attract as my fuzzy little selfies do. I think amateur pictures go down better than professional pictures. I've noticed this on both all sites that I work on.

Really? Hmmmm well I do heavy edits and create graphic designs for my listings with my stock images. There must be some truth to this as majority of the profiles I've seen only has one image on it and the majority are old and fuzzy, or some random fetish cartoon art from the web when I do lurk lol.

ep2002
11-09-2019, 10:02 PM
I don't really look at other listings when I'm online so I haven't noticed any increase in the "age play " type listings. I remember seeing them when I first joined, so they've always been there. I've no idea how popular that fantasy is - I've got a feeling it's probably not popular enough to sustain a huge increase in that type of fantasy scenario.

They do tend to lean towards the more kinky type customer on there though. I get a lot of guys asking for JOI on there & I just struggle with it myself - Maybe try making a JOI type listing if you've not already got one & try log in on at different times. I'm in the UK & I notice some times are much better for me than others.

It has been quieter overall for sure - it's just this month my listings have seemed to have gone back to normal.

I don't stare at them either, but I happened to notice them yesterday when I went to make sure I was showing up, b/c the site has had HUGE problems showing me as online when I click on webchat. This is ever since they tweaked their site several months ago.

It's a problem every once in a while.

There's always younger looking girls there, but never that look THAT young. Some looked like they were 12 or thereabouts.

I already offer JOI, but it's listed with everything else I do in my profiles.

Unfortunately I'm not really good at coming up with characters & spending hours coming up with all these different ways of portraying myself. LOL

I'm on the same general times I'm always on & I can't just change my schedule b/c if I'm not feeling well I can only log in when I'm up & awake.

It's just I noticed a HUGE drop last week & now this week compared to the previous 3 weeks.

Thanks :)

Kristen_Krystal
11-10-2019, 05:13 PM
I know you what you mean about some of the really young looking listings - I just clocked one when I logged on earlier - They'll have their own type of clients though :/

I too often find it hard finding inspiration for new characters. Sometimes one will just randomly pop into my head & sometimes get inspired by people that I read about in my local new papers ;)

I often try out new characters they just flop, but you've just got try to keep on evolving & look where the gaps in the market are & try & fill it.

I've already got my next character though out & I've no idea how well she'll go down. I've two characters one using a stock image & the other myself.

I did notice last night the oldest listing on TTM that used to my most popular only had to faves in her list & the others had a lot more in comparison so it's time to think retiring her now to start afresh. This is it - as soon as think about retiring her she gets busy again but at one time that listing would show a lot of contacts online & for some reason they've all disappeared.

Kristen_Krystal
11-10-2019, 05:50 PM
With regard to the more taboo & hardcore topics, this only going to get worse before it gets better if we as providers/producers don't change direction. We are in the driving seat & we are in full control of what they get to see & talk about online. How many times do we get asked about what turns us on? Because often than not, it's what we, as women like/want which drives men & if it wasn't that way, women would stop reproducing with them.

We should never let the customer/men dictate what we do.

Everything comes full circle eventually & I think that time is near. Every taboo has nearly been exhausted, there's no-where left to go. I'm noticing a small increase in guys looking for a much more sensual expierence. Last night I had a guy wanting me to make love to him with my strapon & I've had a few recently asking me to tell them that I love them, that sort of scenario & I genuinely think that some guys now are starting to get bored of all this crude sex that's dominating everything online at the moment & starting to crave a more softer GFE again ;)

Midwest-Mistress
11-10-2019, 08:14 PM
With regard to the more taboo & hardcore topics, this only going to get worse before it gets better if we as providers/producers don't change direction. We are in the driving seat & we are in full control of what they get to see & talk about online. How many times do we get asked about what turns us on? Because often than not, it's what we, as women like/want which drives men & if it wasn't that way, women would stop reproducing with them.

We should never let the customer/men dictate what we do.

Everything comes full circle eventually & I think that time is near. Every taboo has nearly been exhausted, there's no-where left to go. I'm noticing a small increase in guys looking for a much more sensual expierence. Last night I had a guy wanting me to make love to him with my strapon & I've had a few recently asking me to tell them that I love them, that sort of scenario & I genuinely think that some guys now are starting to get bored of all this crude sex that's dominating everything online at the moment & starting to crave a more softer GFE again ;)

You're got damn right, preach! I have to manifest what it is I want, thats why I laugh when girls talk about "stealing customers"- especially when it comes to prices. No Sarah having a .99/min line isn't going to bring us all to hell. ::) Because in reality it's like dating, clients still need some compatibility to make money flow from those wallets $$$$. I have two lines but my higher one always attracts guys first, because they know that $$ better service and energy 9/10.

I have a client that called one of my content characters but we've gotten close to where he knows who he's really talking to lol. Nothing wildly specific but I just love it cause he likes to RP and many of his role plays is actually how I want to conduct myself as a Domme. I'll start sitting and manifesting more experiences by invoking that energy I felt with him and let it multiply lol.

Growlerpussy
11-11-2019, 01:13 AM
"No Sarah having a .99/min line isn't going to bring us all to hell. "

Thats so true. When there were times with no traffic I used to lower my price drastically. And yes, I got plenty of calls. But most of them stayed not even a minute and 8 out of 10 didnt leave 5 stars or even worse only one with a very bad review.
That never happened when my rate was over 1.99. And the calls lasted at least more than 5 minutes.

The real dark taboo lovers are a pain in the ass, the wishes are getting sicker and sicker. I don't know how many of them I blocked already.
And when I'm near my pc when someone calls, and I can see on their profile that they leave 0 or 1 stars most of the time for other girls, I'll tell them and hang up before the 30 seconds. And of course they're getting blocked too.
A few years back I always wanted to challenge it "Oh, I will be so good that he will leave me 5 stars!", but its to stressful and they actually wont leave them no matter how good you are.

And then they're the guys who play tricks. Trying to get over the 30 seconds, even if you push them to let you know what they're into. After the 30 seconds they come up with a very sick underage fantasy. When you tell them that you won't do it.... another 1 star and bad review is on the way.

Ginnyyy
11-11-2019, 08:46 AM
@GrowlerPussy, for those type of callers with bad ratings, I press 2 so I won t take their call- it doesn t count as a missed call as I m still having 100% answered calls. I hung up on callers that I don t hear well at all and in a few occasions even if I hung up, it took another few seconds for the call in my dashboard to actually end and charged them, therefore for the callers I m not interested in, I just press 2. I have 0 on my block list cause if they d see they re blocked, they d just call from another account.

I d like that when we block a specific user (and the block should be per IP, not per his member acc), to completely disappear off the TTM pages and their favorites, history etc. It would be very discreet, instead of them getting the pop up message that they re being blocked by this Talker.

NotANewGyal
11-11-2019, 10:41 AM
With regard to the more taboo & hardcore topics, this only going to get worse before it gets better if we as providers/producers don't change direction. We are in the driving seat & we are in full control of what they get to see & talk about online. How many times do we get asked about what turns us on? Because often than not, it's what we, as women like/want which drives men & if it wasn't that way, women would stop reproducing with them.

We should never let the customer/men dictate what we do.

Everything comes full circle eventually & I think that time is near. Every taboo has nearly been exhausted, there's no-where left to go. I'm noticing a small increase in guys looking for a much more sensual expierence. Last night I had a guy wanting me to make love to him with my strapon & I've had a few recently asking me to tell them that I love them, that sort of scenario & I genuinely think that some guys now are starting to get bored of all this crude sex that's dominating everything online at the moment & starting to crave a more softer GFE again ;)

I agree.

I frequently have customers on PSO, cam, and with clips that are looking for a sensual GFE type woman, even if they want a "domme." Like they don't want crude and harsh sex, and tbh I prefer the sensual GFE stuff. It's just my personality so maybe I give off those vibes too.

Even in my clips, they are more sexy then shocking fetish stuff.

Midwest-Mistress
11-11-2019, 11:32 AM
Is it just me or does anyone else notice the subtle shifts and changes? I think I'm just now starting to see it? like today I'm looking at my account history and the icons for text, chat, calls, etc. are now on the left side. And the lines inbetween the transactions changed. Just me? lol

Midwest-Mistress
11-11-2019, 01:23 PM
Also, this is rare - for me but... What do y'all charge these dudes who want to just message their fantasy back and forth all day? Like idk how this dude ended up in my auric field of clientele! The first time I messaged him I thought he was like the regular set of dudes I attract that just want a message or two (Which I charge) to get a feel to see if I have the right idea about a call and then they'll call me.... This dude hasn't and I don't think he will?? Not yet? What should I charge per message if I'm writing a full detailed paragraph per message? I haven't used chat since last winter it was annoying tf outta me I'll be starting again this week though cause I'm upping my rates lol.

Blue-Velvet
11-12-2019, 10:51 AM
Also, this is rare - for me but... What do y'all charge these dudes who want to just message their fantasy back and forth all day? Like idk how this dude ended up in my auric field of clientele! The first time I messaged him I thought he was like the regular set of dudes I attract that just want a message or two (Which I charge) to get a feel to see if I have the right idea about a call and then they'll call me.... This dude hasn't and I don't think he will?? Not yet? What should I charge per message if I'm writing a full detailed paragraph per message? I haven't used chat since last winter it was annoying tf outta me I'll be starting again this week though cause I'm upping my rates lol.

Look at how long it takes you to write that reply and use your phone rate as a reference point. Did it take a minute? Charge your per-minute rate. I get guys who want to do the back and forth on messages and it annoys the shit out of me.

Midwest-Mistress
11-13-2019, 09:28 AM
Are we able to get an Increase on our Skype Rates? I'm not comfortable with charging 3.99 for a session only to get 30ish% of that :bitelip:. I think I'm going to message them today, because I want to be ready for when this new plug-in drops. I want at least charge a rate I'd make the same $ like off of Niteflirts Percentage. I'm thinking about asking for a PPM phone increase as well, I'd be making 1.39 if I charged minimum 1.99 on Niteflirt and 3.99 on here ain't cutting it lol.

ep2002
11-13-2019, 12:26 PM
I've already got my next character though out & I've no idea how well she'll go down. I've two characters one using a stock image & the other myself.

I did notice last night the oldest listing on TTM that used to my most popular only had to faves in her list & the others had a lot more in comparison so it's time to think retiring her now to start afresh. This is it - as soon as think about retiring her she gets busy again but at one time that listing would show a lot of contacts online & for some reason they've all disappeared.

Yeh I don't use fake pics, only my own :)

Where do you look at your favs? I only look at my profile like they see it & it tells me there how many have faved me.

In the contacts I can't tell.


With regard to the more taboo & hardcore topics, this only going to get worse before it gets better if we as providers/producers don't change direction. We are in the driving seat & we are in full control of what they get to see & talk about online. How many times do we get asked about what turns us on? Because often than not, it's what we, as women like/want which drives men & if it wasn't that way, women would stop reproducing with them.

We should never let the customer/men dictate what we do.

Everything comes full circle eventually & I think that time is near. Every taboo has nearly been exhausted, there's no-where left to go. I'm noticing a small increase in guys looking for a much more sensual expierence. Last night I had a guy wanting me to make love to him with my strapon & I've had a few recently asking me to tell them that I love them, that sort of scenario & I genuinely think that some guys now are starting to get bored of all this crude sex that's dominating everything online at the moment & starting to crave a more softer GFE again ;)

I'm the opposite to you. I can't do romantic with kissing & hugging & the GFE, although I've managed to do it via messages, but it's still hard for me.

I am nice & very down to earth & certainly not crude until they start wanting me to be (this is not me as a person, I had to learn how to do that when I started working as a webcam model), but whenever a guy wants to be romantic with me & wants to know what I want, it just turns me totally right off.

I've only had 2-3 times in the last 5 years want that thank gawd b/c I just don't know how to respond & my wall goes up LOL

I can only get emotionally & romantically invested in someone if I like them as a person & I would have to get to know them first & 95% of the guys on here would never be my type.

So even to tell him what I want is me having to lie a lot & lying just doesn't come naturally to me.


Look at how long it takes you to write that reply and use your phone rate as a reference point. Did it take a minute? Charge your per-minute rate. I get guys who want to do the back and forth on messages and it annoys the shit out of me.


Yeh I don't like them either. I've started to charge around $1.25-1.75.

For me it's not just about how long it takes for me to write, but how much he's written that takes a long time to read.

I had one asshole who started comoplaining b/c I was charging him more than 25 cents, & he wanted to be friends so I shouldn't charge him, then he started calling me names, etc. I had to block him & he did this a few times over the course of a year on 2 of my profiles before I finally blocked him.

He wrote literally at least 10-15 mins worth of reading time.

If I had to charge based on my per min rate LOL, I would have had to charge him $10-15 & you can't even charge that much on a message.

At one point I got them to increase it b/c I got pissed off since a guy wanted me to do a custom pic & I was going to charge him $10. I had to wait 2-3 months before they fixed it & I could change that amount & by that time he was gone.

Kristen_Krystal
11-13-2019, 05:06 PM
Are we able to get an Increase on our Skype Rates? I'm not comfortable with charging 3.99 for a session only to get 30ish% of that :bitelip:. I think I'm going to message them today, because I want to be ready for when this new plug-in drops. I want at least charge a rate I'd make the same $ like off of Niteflirts Percentage. I'm thinking about asking for a PPM phone increase as well, I'd be making 1.39 if I charged minimum 1.99 on Niteflirt and 3.99 on here ain't cutting it lol.

Emailing them & asking them to increase your rate is always worth a try.

When the new plugin is ready I'm going to be sticking with my original rate that I had set at 3.33 a min for topless & lingerie & if they want to see me fully nude & or play with toys then I'm going to ask them to tip whilst in session & I will put all my tip rates on my profile & do it that way because like Susie said a $1 is only worth around 70p in the UK.

ep2002
11-13-2019, 05:19 PM
Wow is that all they're paying now?

That is sickening. That is less than £1 per minute gbp my cut. NEVER would i even do phone for that let alone cam.

Scam artists.

You can raise the per min. rate, but it's the percentage they give us that's terrible.

And you can't even get more for texting, so when I text, on average I make around $6-7/hour even if it's steady texting.

Midwest-Mistress
11-13-2019, 05:46 PM
Emailing them & asking them to increase your rate is always worth a try.

When the new plugin is ready I'm going to be sticking with my original rate that I had set at 3.33 a min for topless & lingerie & if they want to see me fully nude & or play with toys then I'm going to ask them to tip whilst in session & I will put all my tip rates on my profile & do it that way because like Susie said a $1 is only worth around 70p in the UK.

I e-mailed them and they sent the request to the higher ups lol. How would they tip? Just like regular bonus's? I did the math and if I want it at 3.99/min NF rate I gotta tax 6.99/min 💀.... Are we allowed to give clients outside info? I'm thinking about sending my website link or making it a post (in the post section that no one ever reads). I'd happily direct them to my Unblur/ Indie Bill page and just do a skype show like that, Because I want to AT LEAST charge and get $4-5.99/min.

Midwest-Mistress
11-13-2019, 05:47 PM
Wow is that all they're paying now?

That is sickening. That is less than £1 per minute gbp my cut. NEVER would i even do phone for that let alone cam.

Scam artists.
Well, I actually have gotten two commission increases this year and get 45%, but a lot of girls only get 30%... I e-mailed them in February & November, & it makes a hugeeee difference! Like instead of getting .09 per message received I get .11 now & it adds up quicker.

but this is my main site since Taboo is my specialty. I'm just now trying to get back on NF, because I actually know what I'm doing this time around but... Too many rules lol.