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starcraft
08-08-2014, 11:54 AM
liek right now i felt like the only way to escape from this fukcing camming nightmare is to kill myself. either i would quit, i would sty in street and famine. i work, i still will have be in the industry forever whats the fucking point then.

AnnabelLow
08-08-2014, 11:57 AM
because i dealed with being in a studio. well, okay, whatever, anyway.... thanks.... you helped me deicide.. im worthless. i cant even do a camming. im only fucking nerd with great brains to solve equations, but yeah... i just should die.... i am even bad at camming.... so whats the point anywayz. can i delete my threads and acc??

Where did any girl here say that you're worthless? Or that you should die? Or that you shouldn't be a camgirl? Please point me to that post, because I didn't see it. All I saw were concerned ladies taking time out of their days to provide you with advice. Throwing a temper tantrum when you don't like what you hear just proves to us that you probably are too naïve to be here.

There. Now it's been said. Stop camming before you get yourself killed. Now you can tantrum with some actual truth behind your rash declarations.

You need to grow up, sweetie. Life's a dildo-wielding bitch who fucks us all every now and then. You're not always going to hear what you want to.

AnnabelLow
08-08-2014, 12:03 PM
stupid double posts.

starcraft
08-08-2014, 12:03 PM
from facts- i wont be able to work as engineer( well, thats my dream job and im studing for that).. i dont have any friends( except that guy), i avoid everyone, i forgot about my family long time ago, never had a bf... i have even never had sex... maybe i believe that all people are like me. maybe its naive... so i destrpyed my possible future... so whats the pint of living then? i dont want to only exsist my whole life just to get money.... i want help for people, make something useful, something that would change earth in a good way... but i wont even be able to do that...

AnnabelLow
08-08-2014, 12:05 PM
Sorry. Another double post, since I wasn't certain my first went through. Though a double dose of reality would suit in this regard.

JaceyLynn
08-08-2014, 12:07 PM
Sorry. Another double post, since I wasn't certain my first went through. Though a double dose of reality would suit in this regard.


It does that to me also, instead of posting and being lead back to the thread, the text box stays there with all the text so you push post again thinking the first didnt go through when it did. I just have to scroll down and see if my post is there. I get the "The following errors occurred with your submission This forum requires that you wait 30 seconds between posts. Please try again in 30 seconds." error message any time I post.

AnnabelLow
08-08-2014, 12:08 PM
from facts- i wont be able to work as engineer( well, thats my dream job and im studing for that).. i dont have any friends( except that guy), i avoid everyone, i forgot about my family long time ago, never had a bf... i have even never had sex... maybe i believe that all people are like me. maybe its naive... so i destrpyed my possible future... so whats the pint of living then? i dont want to only exsist my whole life just to get money.... i want help for people, make something useful, something that would change earth in a good way... but i wont even be able to do that...

Wingardium Leviosa!

Somebody knock this troll the fuck out, please.

JasmineFox
08-08-2014, 12:08 PM
from facts- i wont be able to work as engineer( well, thats my dream job and im studing for that).. i dont have any friends( except that guy), i avoid everyone, i forgot about my family long time ago, never had a bf... i have even never had sex... maybe i believe that all people are like me. maybe its naive... so i destrpyed my possible future... so whats the pint of living then? i dont want to only exsist my whole life just to get money.... i want help for people, make something useful, something that would change earth in a good way... but i wont even be able to do that... You have to research behind what it is you're signing yourself up for before taking a giant leap into something. There are pros and cons to everything you do and though your future might be slightly difficult (I have no clue.) It doesn't mean you should take your life. I hope you get better. "Wingardium Leviosa!" Freakin epic!

AnnabelLow
08-08-2014, 12:11 PM
It does that to me also, instead of posting and being lead back to the thread, the text box stays there with all the text so you push post again thinking the first didnt go through when it did. I just have to scroll down and see if my post is there. I get the "The following errors occurred with your submission This forum requires that you wait 30 seconds between posts. Please try again in 30 seconds." error message any time I post.

Exactly. I get the same error. I just assume it went through and do what you do. Check.

starcraft
08-08-2014, 12:12 PM
yeah, and i even get called troll:(( since one girl already said she saw me online!

starcraft
08-08-2014, 12:18 PM
can i delete threads i posted and how?

JaceyLynn
08-08-2014, 12:19 PM
You are acting like a troll. You came on here asking for advice and instead of actually reading it you are just contradicting everything anyone is saying to you, which is just a waste of time. Just because we give you advice does not mean you have to take it but since you did come here asking for it, it would be nice to take the time to read and acknowledge it might be nice. Most of the girls are speaking from personal experiences and I think most of us have been there and done that and that's why we can offer some information and advice. There is no ill will meant at all.

starcraft
08-08-2014, 12:20 PM
can i delete threads i posted and how??

JasmineFox
08-08-2014, 12:21 PM
I think the reason why you are coming off as a troll is because you're not taking into consideration what people are saying, that and the posts are kind of confusing You can still live a life after camming, I am sure it is not impossible and you could run a business from home doing something else if you wanted to..it can be a future investment. Also, I am not sure because I am still a fresh newbie but..I believe you can delete posts and edit threads. (Not really sure though.)

starcraft
08-08-2014, 12:25 PM
yeah, but i dont want that kind of life... i dont want have business.. i want work in a company when i have my place and i do my best to provide best quality i can. thats what i want. if after camming business from home is the only way- id rather kill myself now... thats not what i wanted. i am camming just to get through studying. but if studying is wasteless... and i already messed my life.... forever...and will never be able do something i love( not like now, i do something i hate)...

JaceyLynn
08-08-2014, 12:30 PM
I do not think anyone said that is your only option after something like this. There are plenty of camgirls, web models, pornstars, etc. that have moved into regular jobs. And I know more than a handful that have a vanilla day job and also do camming. It can be done.

IvyRose
08-08-2014, 12:35 PM
Starcraft its not that black and white... You can keep doing youre study and get your job.
Hopefully they wont find out about your cammingpast, if they do they might not care and keep you at youre job. Dont assume the worst case scenario... It might you get fired - than you can start again in another company, but maybe it will never come that far.

Only thing we all are afraid off bec of the things you shared is that you are not carefull enough with proecting youreself and your identity.

You knew this was a risk, but you had to take it. As you state it, it was either camming and providing for youreself or being on the streets. You should be proud of youreself you are supporting your study and getting youre own money for food.
Keep studying so you can achieve what you want

starcraft
08-08-2014, 12:43 PM
i didnt... actually, i didnt now where im going... but i was in another job they threathen fire me( manager got fired himsef for disagreements with employees).. but i was afraid stay with no money and i was in 12 grade then... so found first adverbt called and got a job. first few weeks noone even asked me to get naked there... onyl chats chats chats in private.. then i got superb regular and never had any privates with anyone else for like 3 months ... he found girl and only then i saw what kind of job it is... people started to ask me get naked ect... i though " omg, what the heck".. inever opened sm page till then, only sm models page... so i didnt know much....
i shared my details before. now i dont. i dont share country or city or name or phone or fb or any kind of that... when i actually got what was this all about..

starcraft
08-08-2014, 12:49 PM
they didnt say me what is camming about, they call it web modeling. they said i will onyl have to chat with people. i didnt have computer and only pour nokia 3310. so couldnt check what was all about... it was summer then ...

JaceyLynn
08-08-2014, 12:53 PM
Well at this point, whats done is done. You can either quit camming all together and try to find another job, you can continue on camming as you are (with the studio) and see if you get more comfortable with the being naked part and not making so much money, or another option if you are comfortable with getting naked, if you can, leave the studio and join the websites for yourself so you can keep all of your percentage. I have not read through this thread yet but I am sure it has wonderful information on the subject. https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?160099-How-to-sign-up-for-sites-directly-to-earn-more-%28aka-avoid-studios%29

starcraft
08-08-2014, 01:00 PM
jacey, when i work with studio there is one good thing - i get payments without saying it was paid by streamate. i get paiments with bunch of numbers. they like write " deposit to card by batch"and merchant are only numbers. but im not sure if its good.

JaceyLynn
08-08-2014, 01:07 PM
I havent worked for streamate so I cannot say what their payout says, but I guess at this point since you are camming you now have to figure out whether or not having the anonymous payouts for lower money or making more money and not having them be so anonymous is worth it or not. Good luck with it all.

Melonie
08-08-2014, 03:14 PM
i wont be able to work as engineer( well, thats my dream job and im studing for that)..

Nobody here ever said this !!! What WAS said was that certain future employers may have a problem with applicants who have an 'adult' industry background.

To be clear, if you get your degree and pass the test, a history of 'adult' work will not prevent you from getting your Professional Engineer's license because 'adult' work is not illegal. Once you have that license, you can hang out your own 'shingle' and do consulting / project work. It's possible that 'sensitive' clients might choose not to hire you, but plenty of others are likely to. Of course, some of those other clients may expect you to make yourself available on nights and weekends, may expect you to travel for work at specific 'sites', etc.

In regard to working as an 'employee', it's possible that 'high profile' corporations, companies involved in defense contracting etc. may choose not to hire you. But there are lots of other companies who would be extremely happy to hire a qualified engineer ... and particularly one with an American passport who speaks English as their primary language. Of course, those other companies may be offering positions in Alaskan oil fields, rural Texas towns etc.

starcraft
08-08-2014, 03:26 PM
Well, not interested in comming to states,more attracted europe or australia. well, lets hope for best.. just got sooo upset atm so wrote some silly things bcs im a "moody waterfall". hehe. thaaaaanks for replies.

Sam38g
08-08-2014, 03:52 PM
When you ask for advice, you take it in & think everything threw.

You keep defending as if you are being attacked. Thing with advice is you may not like hearing it. Truth can hurt, but lying to yourself is even worst.

Europe does NOT view camming or porn the same way American's do.

If you do not have friends, then you NEED to go out & be social. Make friends with people you go to school with, in the future they will be your co-workers.

You don't seem to have the social skills that is needed, which many young people today seem to lack. Take a class or read some books on how to network & how to make new friends. At this point, by reading all your post here, you lack those skills.

Get off the computer, phone and web & go interact with real people in real life.

Sam

TheBrownFox
08-08-2014, 06:24 PM
Exactly. I get the same error. I just assume it went through and do what you do. Check.
That's been an error on here for quite some time, because I get it EVERY time I post too. It is extremely annoying.

starcraft
08-12-2014, 12:12 PM
yeah, thats exactly the same thing i feel right now. I just saw one Ukrainian looking one by one to my classmate ;o she even have a dot on her face in the same place, just like her. her eyes are the same color. everything, like idential twins.... thats... thats just teriffic...

JaceyLynn
08-12-2014, 12:40 PM
It is probably her, camming is more common then I know I'd like to think it is lol. I can admit to looking at some of my neighbors, classmates, or even people in stores and wondering which ones are online making money :)

Busygirl
08-12-2014, 02:14 PM
There's no future after camming, there will be always camming, unless you do better with something else first.

Busygirl
08-12-2014, 02:49 PM
I,m just saying it will always be with you, it will influence future life decisions, career decisions, everything. Just ask those women who gave up future political aspirations, everything that involves in being popular in a non porn field, when they started camming. It will never go away. You might get out of it for something thats better for you financially, emotionally, but it will always influence the future decisions you will make.

Busygirl
08-12-2014, 03:17 PM
I didn't mean it literally. And for a lot of us it makes more sense staying in it, then cut the career short and do something else.

DonaDiabla
08-12-2014, 06:24 PM
You can have a career after camming and other sex work. There are tons of sex workers who held mainstream careers including those in the entertainment industry. Currently, I am freelancing with different adult and mainstream companies...helping them with marketing and other different things. Plus, I do custom horror and taboo adult stories for many high paying European clients. In addition, I am working on having a long term commercial real estate career as well. However, I started networking with different people in different industries because I wanted something more than just sex work. I would network with people both online and in-person. Plus I would volunteer with various organizations including those helping orphans and helping non-violent offenders such as ex-drug dealers and victims of human trafficking gain life skills.

DonaDiabla
08-12-2014, 06:26 PM
Not true about journalism...you can get "puff" pieces to write about such as music and fashion articles. Plus you can always because investigative journalist for several different media outlets. You can always become a journalist if you network,write, and submit to the right people :)



Of course camming cannot be erased from our minds. When you choose something like this you know you give up on future political aspirations and major popularity in a field, journalism. I guess every girl knows that. But that doesn't mean that there's no future after camming. :)

Busygirl
08-12-2014, 06:34 PM
You still do adult related of course, but whomever asked here and some want nothing to do after they are done with it, and hoping it never existed.

DonaDiabla
08-12-2014, 06:43 PM
I also deal with plenty of mainstream clients including real estate agents, entertainment lawyers, and etc.... Plus I just talked about having a career in commercial real estate as well. I was just stating it could be done without one feeling sorry themselves. But I just happen to enjoy working in the adult industry. To me...the OP is just complaining about doing something else but feels pressured into doing adult work. I never had such pressure because I had different types of jobs. You can get out of the adult industry and have a normal high-paying mainstream job.



You still do adult related of course, but whomever asked here and some want nothing to do after they are done with it, and hoping it never existed.

GlamourRouge
08-12-2014, 06:57 PM
You can have a career after sexwork if you are your own boss because no one can fire you. Professional licenses are iffy though.

Actual employment with an employer means there will always be a moderate risk of you being fired. If you aren't prepared to lose your job at any time, your life would be destroyed pretty quickly, so maybe a large cash safety net is in order.

Busygirl
08-12-2014, 08:37 PM
We are all talking about the same thing just saying it differently :)

anonymous camgirl
08-13-2014, 06:45 AM
I KNOW a cam site that uses face recognition.. cam contacts. because they told me so!... One day they suspended me because they thought I was someone else due to facial recognition.


Melonie,

My honest opinion is that facial recon will never be available to the large public or to firms and even if it would be there are many people that might look similar to you. Nope.. I really don't think that's going to happen.