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Flickdreams
08-08-2015, 01:00 AM
^ Whoa! Rein it in Onamission! You're entitled to communicate how you feel but the SW rules ask you to not post derogatory posts (and certainly not name calling) about members. Heres the link: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/misc.php?do=vsarules

Keep the focus on the thread topic; how you feel about female customers not how you think someone else sounds like a "bitter old bitch" because her experience of dancing for female custies has been negative.





I have had good and bad female custies, handsy and respectful, hot and less so, gay, straight etc- I really don't avoid them at all but they are not usually my first mark- if the room isn't spending I will get a dance with a female custie (cause most dancers wont approach them) and generate interest from the other patrons (it greases the wheel for the next sale).

On the other hand, I have rarely had multiple dances from female customers- its usually a one off deal; unless they are gay; and then its on like Donkey Kong!

newb2
08-08-2015, 06:53 AM
Recently I've had myself and seen a lot of very good female customers (alone and as a couple) so I don't write them off straight away

Aniela
08-09-2015, 06:37 PM
Not all are bad...there's one that posted on here called Lopaw. I found out she posted some nice things about me on the review boards. I don't know her ties to the industry but odds are she's one of the cool ones.

I wouldn't call Lopaw 'one of the cool ones' -- based on sm of her SW posts I'd say she is as big an extras hound as any of the blues. That, along w/ sm of her comments elsewhere on the custie boards, tells me she really doesn't have a lot of respect for dancers in general.

EastCoastDancer01
08-09-2015, 07:21 PM
I'm not really a fan of female custies, but if they are cool and respectful and spend money, its all good. I've danced for girls like that and didnt have a problem with it. If they are nice and spending money they are entitled to have a good time. I just cant stand bitchy women who act like they are better than us or like they deserve special treatment. But in general, I only dance for girls if they ask me to. I'm polite, but I dont go out of my way for them.

4everresolutions
08-09-2015, 08:40 PM
The first chick I ever kissed was a female customer I made out with in a VIP booth....

She was a grade school teacher and super innocent and I don't know why the hell I did it but I was having an off night, and was super into the "Sweet little teacher getting lost in the club...' thing. Got wasted with her, made out for like 2 hours and got paid for it. I regret nothing.

Also had a couple amazing lesbian customers. Like, they were a couple and would come and see me together. Never danced for them though. They just paid me to sit there and chat....Not sure if they were hoping for some sort of OTC fantasy to happen or not.

It really depends on the woman. A lot of ladies can bring down the party-vibe of a club if they're pulling a bitchy-wanna-be-cool girlfriend act or if they're the nervous housewife type.

I think my personal bottom line would be "as long as the bitch pays...., I don't care if shes a muppet or human or Klingon".

Prettyglitter
08-10-2015, 07:35 AM
Sure they can, but not usually lol. As long as they help us make money and don't grope. I'm an awesome female customer based off the fact that I dance. It's hilarious to me because most girls ignore me but the ones that show me great customer service are well taken care of. Me and my friend spent over 800 dollars in the strip club two weekends ago and we would have dropped even more if we were actually ACKNOWLEDGED. I used that experience to realize that I I can't just make quick judgements on customers because you never know who does what or what kind of money they have.

SnuffleUffleGrass
08-10-2015, 05:03 PM
NO..............................

4everresolutions
08-10-2015, 07:04 PM
Sure they can, but not usually lol. As long as they help us make money and don't grope. I'm an awesome female customer based off the fact that I dance. It's hilarious to me because most girls ignore me but the ones that show me great customer service are well taken care of. Me and my friend spent over 800 dollars in the strip club two weekends ago and we would have dropped even more if we were actually ACKNOWLEDGED. I used that experience to realize that I I can't just make quick judgements on customers because you never know who does what or what kind of money they have.


Ugh. I hate it when female customers dance at a strip club. I feel like telling them to stop distracting my paying customers and go find a proper NightClub to shake your wannabe ass in.

Prettyglitter
08-11-2015, 08:34 AM
Ugh. I hate it when female customers dance at a strip club. I feel like telling them to stop distracting my paying customers and go find a proper NightClub to shake your wannabe ass in.

:O when I say dance, I don't mean I was in the in dancing lol. I mean I am already a stripper so I understand how to act appropriately in a strip club and i came there with the full intention of spending money. Speaking of dancing, last time I was at work this girl was twerking on her date and he was fingering her. I instantly went blind.

4everresolutions
08-11-2015, 04:56 PM
:O when I say dance, I don't mean I was in the in dancing lol. I mean I am already a stripper so I understand how to act appropriately in a strip club and i came there with the full intention of spending money. Speaking of dancing, last time I was at work this girl was twerking on her date and he was fingering her. I instantly went blind.

Oh! Gotcha. My blind rage towards female customers who treat a stripclub like a disco-tech had me misreading you all over the place.

As for the fingering...gross.

tempest666
08-11-2015, 05:05 PM
I think onamission is a disgruntled female custie. I don't know any strippers that derive a bulk of their income from civilian vagina.
If there are some ladies that make a viable income off the uterine sector my hat comes off to you. I don't have the patience to pander to the civilian vagina population. Maybe I'm missing out on a gold mine. I can't say. My experiences have been overwhelmingly negative.I'll stick with what I know.

rickdugan
08-11-2015, 05:50 PM
Most of the clubs I frequent still do not allow unaccompanied females, so most of what I see are girls who visit with their SOs. In fact, over the past few years it has been getting much more common. Now some of them seemed perfectly fine, but others were far and away the most obnoxious customers in the clubs on those nights.

Just a few nights ago I saw a woman downright molesting a girl on the stage, which I can assure you would have ended very badly if it was a guy doing it. Her SO was looking on from the bar with a shit eating grin on his face, but I'm sure the dancer wasn't nearly as thrilled about it as he was. And that is far from the first time I've seen that, along with plenty of hooting and cheering and a wide variety of other obnoxious behavior. Maybe some of them believe that they can do and say whatever they want to the dancers simply because they are women too? Idk. I won't pretend to understand what leads some of them to be like that, but after seeing enough of this stuff over the years I can't blame dancers who choose to avoid them.

whirlerz
08-12-2015, 09:44 AM
I can be, cause I AM. Just can't get to clubs, gotta have a chaperone. :(

Raziel
08-17-2015, 02:04 AM
Do they want to get onstage? For a minute, fine. Longer, i'm looking at my beer.

I'd rather see the professionals. Other than that, on my end, they're fine. Unless there's drama. Some crazy lady freaking out about the Dancer touching her BF is like a lighthouse, you can see it no matter where you are, it always becomes the topic of conversation. That's annoying. Otherwise i don't really notice.

Dakota Pink
08-22-2015, 03:12 PM
In all my years of dancing there have been a few fun females that obeyed the rules (and laws), got dances and tipped. Since I've always been a 'thick' girl and super flexible, they gravitate to me for some reason. I've been tipped very generously on stage by them mainly (which makes other guys tip me :) ) but usually only get one or two dances from them, even with their SO.

I've had girls steal my bras, slap me, pinch me, lick me and then not wear panties hoping I'd go down on her during a dance (ewww, stranger pussy... Not gonna happen with any human, PERIOD). I've had experiences ranging from horrid to awesome with women. I even had a mother bring in her son who was a special needs man, but he still had normal hormones and emotions, so she told me to just take him in a private room, it wasn't her scene but she loved her son and wanted him to be normal and have fun. That was a great mother and a strong woman and I made sure that her son got great dances (I'm not an extras girl but I did give all my best dance tricks for him b/c how cool is that!)

It really depends on how she acts, if she is alone or with other women, or her SO. I once danced for a blindfolded woman for her bachelorette party... She didn't know where she was and when they took the blindfold off it was not fun, rookie mistake, ugh. But sometimes when I just need a few minutes and I hate sitting in the DR, I'll find a couple, they buy me a drink and I'll take that time to just chill. Most of the time I'll get at least one dance off her/them and I can then go back to the rest of the room with a better attitude. So to answer your question, yes I've had fun with some women just like I've had fun with men. Just please, don't smell bad, PLEASE ALWAYS wear underwear, be polite, follow the rules and the laws and know I'm not going to go home with you, just like any man ITC. I've got my own man, I don't want yours and if I ever chose to be with a woman it will never be anyone I meet in the club.

nopantspolicy
09-21-2015, 05:09 PM
Yikes, I didn't realize queer girls would get so bad about this. Based on the responses, I feel really bad for anyone getting sexually assaulted by ladies at work. I guess they think its OK because, hey, they aren't creepy neckbearded old men? Still creepy...

tempest666
09-21-2015, 05:26 PM
What pisses me off isn't the groping so much as their feeling of entitlement.

Selina M
09-21-2015, 05:41 PM
Female customers sometimes THINK they're being 'fun' when their definition of 'fun' is irritating to the dancers. Case in point, a week ago on Couples Night (which I now refuse to work), 3 of them got thrown out because they would not sit their fat asses down and stop dancing up against the stage. They think they're being 'fun' by dancing along, when they're distracting guys from the girl on stage.

I've had ONE female customer I would love to see again, because she was cool as fuck. She was from Portland, astonished that dances were only $10, insisted on paying me $20 for a dance plus a $20 tip, and made sure she asked before she touched. Oh, and she smelled nice and wore actual clothes, like jeans and a tank top. Most women customers wear a mini dress with a plunging drape neckline or some such thing, trying to 'out-slut' the dancers... either that, or they wear no underwear. Wtf is it with the no underwear thing.

whirlerz
09-21-2015, 06:11 PM
Most women customers wear a mini dress with a plunging drape neckline or some such thing, trying to 'out-slut' the dancers... either that, or they wear no underwear. Wtf is it with the no underwear thing.

I don't get it either..I've heard of women doing this in regular clubs too, major UGH! I've also heard of movie stars not only doing it, but showing it off??:yikes::yuck: I'd never
Have some freakin' class!>:(

Selina M
09-21-2015, 07:50 PM
^ I don't get it either... I mean go ahead and go commando if you feel like it, that's fine, but don't do it in a place where you know a dancer may well rub against your uncovered lady bits. Blargh!

Candycups
09-21-2015, 09:38 PM
Seriously. Like, do you have any idea how many other bottomless ladies have sat their bare cooch right where yours now sits? Do you have any idea how many dudes might have slobbered all over the body of the dancer who is now possibly rubbing her body across your nether region?

That said, I've had a mixed bag. I've had so many pantyless ladies, I'm happily surprised when I look down and see a pair of bottoms. My default lady dance avoids their crotch entirely until it's confirmed beyond any doubt that it's covered by *something* at least. Even in those cases, though, if that's their worst offence, I don't mind too much. They usually come in with a dude, and the dance is more about putting on a show for him than actually focusing on her. Since I'm putting on a show, I charge more per dance and am usually tipped well on top. If I go somewhere private with her so it's not a show, it's usually to VIP anyway, in which case I'm definitely charging more per dance. So, I see female customers as easy money, provided they're not absurdly over the top/grabby/stupid. Everybody has their limits, and money can only pay for so much. I'd say probably 80% of the women I've danced for have been in the category above, with maybe a little under a quarter being respectable, pants-wearing, sitting-on-their-hands, keep-their-mouth-to-themselves, perfect customers.

SophiaUK
09-22-2015, 05:26 AM
I love when a straight girl gets bought a dance with me by her guy mates, and she's really not into it. I deliberately make the dance as sexual as possible, loads of eye contact etc., just to make it really awkward. Mwahahahaha! I am a bit evil.