View Full Version : Advice needed! Developing strong feelings for a customer...
Coffee
11-18-2014, 04:27 AM
This happened to me too. Well when i was new i had this customer who always come in my room and talk to me. He has such a good sense of humor that i always feel good talking to him although he never take me in prvt.
He is well known by other models for being that funny guy but yeah he never took any of them in prvt. But then i felt like he is manipulating me so i got angry and banned him.
then the very first customer i said "i love you" to was someone like that too. He never prvt me but i love talking to him. I never saw him on cam though, then i asked him to send me a pic of him and when he did i was so disappointed i banned him that very same day that i said "i love you" to him.
Then there was another one. This last one... it took me a year before i completely erase my feelings to him. I really think i did fell for him. But it only broke my heart... I envy you but anyways i hope you two last and be happy :D
audritwo
11-18-2014, 07:08 AM
To spare those hurt feelings, have you tried not letting yourself get too close to internet randos? Especially not paying ones. I don't mind hanging out and shooting the shit, but it just seems super odd for a camgirl to get close to someone who has never dropped a dime on them.
How long have you been camming?
Coffee
11-18-2014, 07:23 AM
To spare those hurt feelings, have you tried not letting yourself get too close to internet randos? Especially not paying ones. I don't mind hanging out and shooting the shit, but it just seems super odd for a camgirl to get close to someone who has never dropped a dime on them.
How long have you been camming?Oh it happened to me when i was still new in camming. Like a week or two after i started camming haha. Yeah it's weird but after those it never happened again.
Sam38g
11-18-2014, 08:40 AM
You never know where you will find love.
Got to risk big to win big.
Now, girls falling for guys who are funny BUT never spend money on them on cam. LMAO REALLY come on.... Guy will say anything to get what they want.
I dont give the time of day to a man who is in free chat & declares his love for me but NEVER spends a dime. AS IF!
It isn't a relationship until he changes his facebook status to "in a relationship (your name here). When he declares it to the world. When you meet his parents & friends. Until then it all could be a head game.
Sam
seicento
11-18-2014, 12:36 PM
My feelings are turned on when they spend on me and off when they don`t spend on me.Is like I feel I could love them when they spend a satisfactory amount you know.
I was attached to a customer at some point,a paying one of course but will never happen again.They are on cam sites for a reason ,let`s never forget that and in the end they are all alike.
Regarding the non paying ones no matter how funny they are,if they don`t take you private they don`t care about you.The "I respect you too much to take you private " or "I don`t take you private because I don`t want to be like other members and I want to show you that I care about you" guys make my ban list longer.Yes,some of them will say anything to get what they want,sometimes they just want chat but oh well,thats why we have facebook,right?Go there and chat not on cam sites.And if they care,they must spend.Bills need to be paid.