audritwo
11-18-2014, 06:35 PM
No one said get a real job, because camming IS a real job. Why I posted a link to a thread mentioning lots of work at home, because I wanted to give you more options. If you want to work in education, this would be your safest bet.
Listen to us. Everyone was genuine, especially Sam. You aren't the first to create a "Newbie needs advice thread."
SW is a wonderful community filled with brilliant, straightforward, sexy, and nonjudgmental girls who are eager to help one another. I honestly don't know how long I would of lasted if I wasn't given the advice, encouragement, and friendship I've received on this forum.
Snowy0Star
11-18-2014, 06:38 PM
I honestly don't know how long I would of lasted if I wasn't given the advice, encouragement, and friendship I've received on this forum.
i honestly dont think i would have TBH XD
Nikki_Fox
11-18-2014, 06:38 PM
It is better to be
fully aware
fully aware
fully aware
than to be one of the hundreds of threads from ladies going oh shit oh shit oh shit because they didnt know better or didnt think it through
believe me - it came from a place of love bb :grouphug: if you do go forward you will be so glad to have these ladies in your corner
ivybunny
11-19-2014, 02:38 AM
With the exception of fibbing my ass off about all the little details, hell to the yasss.
Love it<3
holly-.anne,
Here are two simple steps to help you get started:
1. Go to https://www.streamatemodels.com
2. Click on 'Get Started Now!'
69. You should cam as if you were already outed and give zero fucks!
Now, OP, I realize that if this isn't a troll message, you must be really frustrated. I was very much in your position 3-6 months ago. But SW is not the place to lash out. You're here to ask for help, we're here to help you, and while I understand you might feel attacked, you are not. In order for you to receive help, it's best if you make it easiest on the community. After being on the forums for such a short time, I don't even think any of the ladies were being particularly mean - it's hard when month after month you see so many repeat threads not to immediately facepalm and possibly snark. We're intelligent ladies who put ourselves out there sexually for legions of horny idiots. Our natural reaction often is to sass since we've had to develop thick skins and a way to entertain ourselves. So it's important to do your best to read the awesome threads that are up on here, yes, but it's particularly difficult for people to take your question seriously when it's phrased very vaguely. So breathe, it's okay, there are a ton of us happy to offer our help as long as you stop countering supposed "attacks" and ask specific questions. (Most of us would be much happier if you did a search first, too.) Questions on SM? What the prerequisite equipment might be? We're more than happy to answer. (well. kinda.)
Just make sure to formulate specific questions and you'll be fine.
Second, I will say as someone VERY much in your position not too long ago, I would agree with what has been said above. Investing in lighting, curtains, a webcam, VPN, a hardcore antivirus, etc was expensive. I didn't eat for weeks. I also invested in a french press and vitamins and makeup which, while not absolutely necessary, were essential for me to get the energy to do this. I looked into stripping but given the fact that I don't have a car, I was terrified of being followed home. If you have the look though, or you can find a halfway decent club who doesn't mind minorities/alt (if that's what you are, as I am), DO THAT INSTEAD. I used to be a very well-paid private tutor/public teacher and I had to say goodbye to that career path forever. FOREVER. As well as a bunch of other career paths I don't give a fuck about, and removed a large swath of people from my dating pool (really career-minded business ladder climbing types and future politicians) which I don't give a fuck about either.
Keep these in mind, and if you don't mind being recognized as you said earlier, stick to stripping, at least til you aren't quite so broke and then reconsider your options.