View Full Version : The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
FloridaSunDoll
11-09-2021, 09:12 AM
Last night was deader than dead for me. I also had a head ache and a big ole case of “I don’t feel like working.” I sat for a few hours for hardly any $$$ and was struggling to STFO. Even my husband was trying to convince me to just take the night off. But I did STFO for my goal hours and I ended up making my high goal. Back at it for another 10 hrs today!
LeilaB
11-09-2021, 09:27 AM
I'm just catching up on the thread and know I will really need it in the coming months. It's been super tough the past week, this was the first day since Friday I've been able to come on from which time I came down ill with a very sore throat and chesty cough (not covid luckily) and I am recovering but still pretty ill, this morning I wake up with what looks like an infection in one eye. The guy I was seeing and falling for effectively dumped me, whilst claiming only to want to slow things down and all after a sexual tryst that didn't go well, though admittedly we knew we weren't really compatible from the start. Doesn't stop your heart breaking knowing the facts though does it? Had bad things happening to friends who I've been very worried about and trying to help. Honestly feeling like a pile of poo with everything combined and THEN. For anyone from the UK filing for a full year of self employment for the first time. Did not realise they make you pay not just your taxes for the year but also your taxes for the next year in advance! I started panicking thinking there goes my savings because last year I was still in full time employment with this as a sidehustle for some of it. I was full on panicking but told myself to take a deep breath and I just found myself thinking of you amazing inspirational ladies and that the next few months I will have to cut down on expenses and STFO, but I CAN regain my savings and I WILL survive. I thought if these girls can do it so can I.
With me feeling physically ill and emotionally drained I am simply making myself do shifts of 30 minutes then taking breaks because that's all my body can handle at the minute, but I will keep doing so for as long as I can and keep the faith that I will get better and the luck will change for me and those loved ones in my life. First shift of 30 minutes earned zero but it's ok, I must persevere. There seems to be something weird going in the air, or something to do with energy, I don't know what, I can only hope it's the build up for a huge positive step forward. Wishing all you ladies luck and sending love.
Girl, I'm so sorry to hear all the struggle you are going through. I hope you get better soon from the illness, and the guy...I understand you, being dumped hurts a lot even though you may knew from the beginning that you wouldn't be a good match. But a year from now it won't mean shit, I remember I always told this to myself when I was sad because of a guy. It's a cliche, but it's true.
It's hard to STFO with this mood, and it's a good idea to take breaks when you feel like that, these guys can't see on you that you have problems. Put on the fake smile and keep going! You are a strong woman, YOU can do it! It's been kinda slow these days, but can never know when a whale swins by. Working hard may helps you distract yourself a bit until you get better. I'm rooting for you xx
waogtrain
11-09-2021, 09:58 AM
Damn, you ladies are such an inspiration. I'm proud of myself if I log 3 hours on a slow day. Couldn't really sleep last night so I'm running on fumes but trying to log 2 hours this morning, cook, hopefully nap, and log 2-3 more hours tonight. Good luck today everyone!
LeilaB
11-09-2021, 10:11 AM
I was just about to post that I had been eating shit for 3 hours with about $20, then 2 regs saved my ass in 15 mins lol :D $105 now, and I STFO!
4 hours and I'm getting close to high goal, $132. I take a break soon and make dinner, but I'll be back!
DeliveryLadyx
11-09-2021, 10:28 AM
Seductive_brit, take things easy, after a roll of bad luck always the sun rises!
I went out after 5 hours without having low goal yet and am back now again for 3 more hours, am not going to put in 10 h today. just too slow.... just can't :).
minibagel
11-09-2021, 10:33 AM
i lasted 55 mins last night... as a test, i decided to start my shift SHOWING MY FACE and i got no traffic. no potentials and not a single member came in for minutes. that's how i know something is fcked up at the core of the site (at least for me). i must have taken like 5 breaks total lol because nobody, i mean nobody came in.
site placement glitch is still glitching merrily away. i noticed a girl who is usually close to me, usually first spot when she is on, and she was 4 rows beneath me last night. i am counting my blessings with avn & indie. would love for sm to go back to normal pls.
DeliveryLadyx
11-09-2021, 10:38 AM
by the way, I stayed 2 days nearly with the option not to have non logged on traffic, but got so slow I thought is just me because of the option to I am visible again on the main page. But is just the site slow, is not me. I can see the placement is different on chrome, dunno how is on safari as i have no mac, on edge browser looks more accurate.
Esixxx
11-09-2021, 10:46 AM
by the way, I stayed 2 days nearly with the option not to have non logged on traffic, but got so slow I thought is just me because of the option to I am visible again on the main page. But is just the site slow, is not me. I can see the placement is different on chrome, dunno how is on safari as i have no mac, on edge browser looks more accurate.
What do you mean by the option of non logged on traffic?
waogtrain
11-09-2021, 10:52 AM
Welp, 2 hours down and $15. Time to eat a strong edible, make a big pot of soup, and hopefully nap with a full belly to be able to get back on this evening.
minibagel
11-09-2021, 11:00 AM
I can see the placement is different on chrome, dunno how is on safari as i have no mac, on edge browser looks more accurate.
you're right, chrome looks accurate rn! OMG so then there is hope that more than ZERO ppl per minute will enter my room tonight!! gosh how totally exciting! last time site placement was glitching a couple months ago or whenever it was, it didn't really affect me. because it was accurate on one browser and wrong on another. the past week it was busted on all browsers for me.
edit: safari looks kinda accurate on desktop but inaccurate on phone?? firefox still messed up. i will try again tonight to pretend that i still have geoblock so i don't keep checking obsessively to see if i am even showing online. i feel like milton waddams when he was moved down to the basement.
DeliveryLadyx
11-09-2021, 11:14 AM
What do you mean by the option of non logged on traffic?
Replied to you on discord stripperweb :) because i am clueless how to add pics here lol
Seductive_Brit
11-09-2021, 11:57 AM
Girl, I'm so sorry to hear all the struggle you are going through. I hope you get better soon from the illness, and the guy...I understand you, being dumped hurts a lot even though you may knew from the beginning that you wouldn't be a good match. But a year from now it won't mean shit, I remember I always told this to myself when I was sad because of a guy. It's a cliche, but it's true.
It's hard to STFO with this mood, and it's a good idea to take breaks when you feel like that, these guys can't see on you that you have problems. Put on the fake smile and keep going! You are a strong woman, YOU can do it! It's been kinda slow these days, but can never know when a whale swins by. Working hard may helps you distract yourself a bit until you get better. I'm rooting for you xx
Thanks Leila, you have no idea just how much that meant to me. You're such a wonderful soul and truly inspiring. Thank you so much! I mean about the not caring a year from now, hopefully, I met him at my sports club so I will be seeing him again, but things stopped early enough that I think you're right it's actually probably the universe protecting me as I was catching feelings. Plus the last conversation we had was super positive. It's just been ghost town since and that truly sucks especially with everything else that's been happening. As you say I'll pull through. I do not have the time to be dating now anyway, gotta focus on making that money back, getting and staying healthy and thriving! Plus actually now getting back on I realise I'm relieved of the guilt I had so that will make work way more easy and enjoyable. Sending love and positive vibes! We got this!
Seductive_Brit
11-09-2021, 12:08 PM
Seductive_brit, take things easy, after a roll of bad luck always the sun rises!
I went out after 5 hours without having low goal yet and am back now again for 3 more hours, am not going to put in 10 h today. just too slow.... just can't :).
Thank you so much for the support and positivity! Yeah in that vein I can't regret the days I missed to rest, my body needed it badly and is still continuing just to struggle through. Got to ride the wave and know when it's worth it :)
CopperColoredLips
11-09-2021, 01:40 PM
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OK not ten hours but still happy.
Trying for a second shift as soon as the lawn mower outside stops going lol
CopperColoredLips
11-09-2021, 01:42 PM
Welp, 2 hours down and $15. Time to eat a strong edible, make a big pot of soup, and hopefully nap with a full belly to be able to get back on this evening.
I bet you'll have lots of gold on your next shift youve definitely got this 🙂
CopperColoredLips
11-09-2021, 01:43 PM
Last night was deader than dead for me. I also had a head ache and a big ole case of “I don’t feel like working.” I sat for a few hours for hardly any $$$ and was struggling to STFO. Even my husband was trying to convince me to just take the night off. But I did STFO for my goal hours and I ended up making my high goal. Back at it for another 10 hrs today!
So glad you made high goal that's awesome! Good luck in the next shift too
Cutie101
11-09-2021, 09:45 PM
I was full on panicking but told myself to take a deep breath and I just found myself thinking of you amazing inspirational ladies and that the next few months I will have to cut down on expenses and STFO, but I CAN regain my savings and I WILL survive. I thought if these girls can do it so can I.
Omg, I am sorry to hear you get trough all of that! But yes, YOU CAN DO IT! You will be able to rise and shine, but YOU are the one who must do it. Putting yourself on the first place will help you heal faster, rise faster, shine brighter. Loving yourself, working for yourself, treating yourself, putting yourself first is the most powerful tool for you to be happy and healthy, so start doing that from now. Everytime if you feel negative emotions because of someone else, think about YOURSELF and allow yourself to refuse feeling bad. Heart break is a bitch, but you can fight that bitch. Go online and shine. Once the money will start rolling, you will feel better. Go get RICH!
thanks cutie! i ended up staying on and tripled my low goal. going back at it again today :)
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeehheeeeeeeeeeeeeee! I told you!!! STFO brings the DOUGH!
Last night was deader than dead for me. I also had a head ache and a big ole case of “I don’t feel like working.” I sat for a few hours for hardly any $$$ and was struggling to STFO. Even my husband was trying to convince me to just take the night off. But I did STFO for my goal hours and I ended up making my high goal. Back at it for another 10 hrs today!
Omg you were just like me! I am glad I didn't take the day off. You rock!! Yasssss!!!
OK not ten hours but still happy.
Trying for a second shift as soon as the lawn mower outside stops going lol
That's great for 6 hours woohoooo!!! You did STFO! Well done!
Cutie101
11-09-2021, 09:55 PM
Girls. Fuck. I slept 14 hours. FOURTEEEEEEEEEEEN HOURS!!!! I was this close to take the day off, thinking I am logging too late for work, but fuck it, I came online.
Putting 8 hours (10 with breaks). Yesterday I skipped my workout and I feel bad for it, but today I won't anymore.
It's wednesday morning, wednesdays are shit for me, but I hope I make my low goal. I am trying to shake off the negative feelings from my subcoscious. Maybe I should put the same amount of hours I slept, into work, lol.
It's a new pay period on Jasmin, which means it did reset back at 30%. Hopefully I make it to 50% within a week, so i have one more week to enjoy. Secretly hoping for 60% hehehe! But that means I must make $4k my cut, in a week... I will use LOA maybe i manifest some whales haha.
PS: I am proud and happy to see this thread filling with more and more hustlers joining the challenge. I recently read some statistics, saying that 70% of those who join camming, are giving up, because they don't see the money coming quick enough. Staying the fuck on is a sacrifice, yes. We join this job to have freedom, but that freedom should also come after a lot of work. Yes, I might work hard 3-4 months, but who will afford a 2 week vacation at a 5 stars resort? Me! I stay locked in the house for 4 months, but who will have a hot car? ME! I stay locked in the house for 4 months, but who will have the debt paid? ME!. Who will afford to take 1-2 months off, because she will have enough savings to not care? ME!
There's tons of competition, more and more girls online, but WE are there to collect the $$ others leave it behind, when they finish their shift too early "because it's slow" :)). We are there, patiently waiting, because we have something they don't: PATIENCE and determination to STFO.
In the begining is hard, even me, after almost 2 months since I started this challenge with myself, I feel like logging off when I see 4-5 hours passed and I made only $10. But I remember that yesterday and almost every day was the same and I ended up making at least my low goal, because I did STFO trough all the deadness. The only obstacle is the mind. The more we let the mind know that this is "normal", the less our minds will bitch and will accept that STFO and slowness is a norm, it's ok and it doesn't matter if it's slow or good, we STFO regardless. End of story :))))
minibagel
11-10-2021, 01:29 AM
hallefreakinglujah placement is back to normal and traffic was back to my normal hot/cold again and not just 100% cold... had all the ingredients of a normal shift complete with trolls and stupid messages in messenger which is all i ever wanted. i can work with this, i cannot work with nothing. tomorrow i will sit properly and do a 3-4hr shift :cutie:
Seductive_Brit
11-10-2021, 02:42 AM
The only obstacle is the mind. The more we let the mind know that this is "normal", the less our minds will bitch and will accept that STFO and slowness is a norm, it's ok and it doesn't matter if it's slow or good, we STFO regardless. End of story :))))
Thanks Cutie so much for your supportive words. I am starting to recover from my illness properly today so that will deffo help to improve my mental strength regarding everything else. Woke up and journalled which was also a good, positive start to my day. Your words are so inspirational and really do help to keep me going when things are difficult so thank you so much!
Cutie101
11-10-2021, 03:00 AM
Thanks Cutie so much for your supportive words. I am starting to recover from my illness properly today so that will deffo help to improve my mental strength regarding everything else. Woke up and journalled which was also a good, positive start to my day. Your words are so inspirational and really do help to keep me going when things are difficult so thank you so much!
Hey, I am really happy it helps! Take your time and recover and slowly build your hours. Rather than trying to start right with long hours and not be ok, build it slowly so you get to a full schedule in 1-2 weeks.
I used to abandon and quit everything when things were difficult or slow and I am know that the only guilty was the mind and the mindset. I didn't have a winner mentality. It wasn't the traffic, the way I look, what I do. I just didn't have the winner mentality. Instead of keep pushing trough hell, I was waiting for hell to get over. Then I realized hell will never get over, it always be slow and it's the norm and the normal path to become succesful. I have been reading posts since 2010 and even back then it was same issue "omg it's so sloooow, camming will dieeee!!" :))))) I guess I discovered the secret... or better said... the obvious, lol.
Speaking of today, it was same scenario like yesterday: I made $15 in 5 hours, then it suddenly picked up and made my low goal, then it died again. I was really debating to log off, knowing wednesday is my worst earning day and I was thinking I won't even make my low goal, butmy mind was like "fuck it, you stay the fuck on!!". And a new client that discovered me 3 days ago, came back today during his work break and saw me online, so he stopped at me and made my low goal. So I notice I slowly build up regulars.
Miss_ShaSha
11-10-2021, 03:07 AM
I was full on panicking but told myself to take a deep breath and I just found myself thinking of you amazing inspirational ladies and that the next few months I will have to cut down on expenses and STFO, but I CAN regain my savings and I WILL survive. I thought if these girls can do it so can I.
With me feeling physically ill and emotionally drained I am simply making myself do shifts of 30 minutes then taking breaks because that's all my body can handle at the minute, but I will keep doing so for as long as I can and keep the faith that I will get better and the luck will change for me and those loved ones in my life. First shift of 30 minutes earned zero but it's ok, I must persevere. There seems to be something weird going in the air, or something to do with energy, I don't know what, I can only hope it's the build up for a huge positive step forward. Wishing all you ladies luck and sending love.
Yes, it sucks, & yes you'll be ok. You're stronger than you think you are.
Short shifts, break, then go again is smart.
Sending healing vibes :goodvibes:hug::heartbeat
Cutie101
11-10-2021, 06:16 AM
It's wednesday morning, wednesdays are shit for me, but I hope I make my low goal. I am trying to shake off the negative feelings from my subcoscious. Maybe I should put the same amount of hours I slept, into work, lol.
Apparently, "wednesdays are shit" is a myth when you STFO. Made my low goal. Took me 9 hours, but I made it! Gonna stay for 2 more hours, maybe I make some more :D
PS: Weird to say "low goal" when this used to be my mid- high goal a few weeks ago. But I did get brave and started considering it "low goal", since this is the amount that sends me to sleep, all satisfied :)))
Miss_ShaSha
11-10-2021, 08:16 AM
Apparently, "wednesdays are shit" is a myth when you STFO. Made my low goal. Took me 9 hours, but I made it! Gonna stay for 2 more hours, maybe I make some more :D
PS: Weird to say "low goal" when this used to be my mid- high goal a few weeks ago. But I did get brave and started considering it "low goal", since this is the amount that sends me to sleep, all satisfied :)))
Yessssss!
Miss_ShaSha
11-10-2021, 08:18 AM
Well, this week has been pretty bad. No regs and no real money so far. I think this week is a wash. It's a good thing I did well last week, cause I'm not gonna stay on that much longer.
$0 in 1.5 hrs and I'm just not feelin it. Gonna stay 1 more hour then bounce.
naomi_doll
11-10-2021, 09:22 AM
Girls. Fuck. I slept 14 hours. FOURTEEEEEEEEEEEN HOURS!!!! I was this close to take the day off, thinking I am logging too late for work, but fuck it, I came online.
Putting 8 hours (10 with breaks). Yesterday I skipped my workout and I feel bad for it, but today I won't anymore.
It's wednesday morning, wednesdays are shit for me, but I hope I make my low goal. I am trying to shake off the negative feelings from my subcoscious. Maybe I should put the same amount of hours I slept, into work, lol.
It's a new pay period on Jasmin, which means it did reset back at 30%. Hopefully I make it to 50% within a week, so i have one more week to enjoy. Secretly hoping for 60% hehehe! But that means I must make $4k my cut, in a week... I will use LOA maybe i manifest some whales haha.
PS: I am proud and happy to see this thread filling with more and more hustlers joining the challenge. I recently read some statistics, saying that 70% of those who join camming, are giving up, because they don't see the money coming quick enough. Staying the fuck on is a sacrifice, yes. We join this job to have freedom, but that freedom should also come after a lot of work. Yes, I might work hard 3-4 months, but who will afford a 2 week vacation at a 5 stars resort? Me! I stay locked in the house for 4 months, but who will have a hot car? ME! I stay locked in the house for 4 months, but who will have the debt paid? ME!. Who will afford to take 1-2 months off, because she will have enough savings to not care? ME!
There's tons of competition, more and more girls online, but WE are there to collect the $$ others leave it behind, when they finish their shift too early "because it's slow" :)). We are there, patiently waiting, because we have something they don't: PATIENCE and determination to STFO.
In the begining is hard, even me, after almost 2 months since I started this challenge with myself, I feel like logging off when I see 4-5 hours passed and I made only $10. But I remember that yesterday and almost every day was the same and I ended up making at least my low goal, because I did STFO trough all the deadness. The only obstacle is the mind. The more we let the mind know that this is "normal", the less our minds will bitch and will accept that STFO and slowness is a norm, it's ok and it doesn't matter if it's slow or good, we STFO regardless. End of story :))))
This is a weird question, but do you have a set schedule or do you just hop on whenever you wake up? How do you determine to stay on for 8 hours some days and 12 other days? I'm overthinking my schedule, when in reality I just need to either toughen up and get on at the times people are recommending to me, or toughen up and put myself in front of the camera as soon as I get up.
LeilaB
11-10-2021, 09:24 AM
It's not a regular Wednesday, and in a positive way. In 2 hours, I'm at $110, the traffic is good, and looks like these guys wanna spend WTF
UPDATE:
I did it! I just finished, and after 4,5 hours I reached $150 - my new high goal. Yayaaayyy :goodvibes
waogtrain
11-10-2021, 10:56 AM
Welp, 2 hours down and $15. Time to eat a strong edible, make a big pot of soup, and hopefully nap with a full belly to be able to get back on this evening.
Ended yesterday with $78 in 4 hours. Not what I was hoping for but I'm not complaining given how slow it was. Today is a new day!
Miss_ShaSha
11-10-2021, 11:07 AM
It's not a regular Wednesday, and in a positive way. In 2 hours, I'm at $110, the traffic is good, and looks like these guys wanna spend WTF
Holy fuck...gettin it!!!
Marina Starr
11-10-2021, 03:56 PM
Some days the most upsetting and discouraging thing with staying the fuck on is when only spenders are the ones experiencing glitches and connection issues.
Freeloaders, timewasters, trolls etc have no problems.
https://i.ibb.co/f4vJkXL/b0300c1685c2f395f884123b2b0bed50.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
Esixxx
11-11-2021, 03:52 AM
Some days the most upsetting and discouraging thing with staying the fuck on is when only spenders are the ones experiencing glitches and connection issues.
Freeloaders, timewasters, trolls etc have no problems.
https://i.ibb.co/f4vJkXL/b0300c1685c2f395f884123b2b0bed50.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
Had that issue yesterday on my afternoon shift.
An old regular was peristent though and so was I lol.
Told him to clear his history and log back on. I asked him what browser he was on and switched to Chrome. This week has been bonkers.
Marina Starr
11-11-2021, 08:10 AM
Did that work?
Had that issue yesterday on my afternoon shift.
An old regular was peristent though and so was I lol.
Told him to clear his history and log back on. I asked him what browser he was on and switched to Chrome. This week has been bonkers.
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2021, 08:26 AM
I'm the fuck on. I'm posting here cause I GTFO and that's an accomplishment. I dunno how long I'll be on, but fuck I SHOWED UP!
Esixxx
11-11-2021, 08:28 AM
Did that work?
Eventually it did. It took 3 times.
First time he sent his cam- he said my picture was blurry- on my end my stats were "excellent". Told him to clear out his history and log back on. He did so and restarted his computer.
Second attempt- He said my screen was black- I asked him what browser he was using- he said Chrome- I was using Edge.
Final attempt I was on Chrome, we went exclusive that time he did not send his cam. He got his happy ending and I made my money for the day :)
They had to be working on updates on the site yesterday afternoon- because yesterday morning the site was behaving normally. The afternoon shift I had to persevere through it.
roseforarose
11-11-2021, 08:35 AM
I wasn't planning to STFO at all this week, but today is slow as hell so I guess I am! 1 hour down I'll do 3-4 more and hopefully earn something
LeilaB
11-11-2021, 08:37 AM
Today I woke up with a sore throat and I have a light fever now. In addition, I have my period. But I don't feel bad enough to just rest all day long in the bed, so I GTFO! I don't have a fancy makeup on, and maybe I can't do 100%, but I'm here, and that is what matters. I will be happy for every $ today.
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2021, 10:04 AM
Right now I'm really just fuckin with the trolls. In almost 2 hrs I've made $47 and that's shit...but fuckin with these trolls is REALLY making my day. I'm in bitch mode upgraded 2.0
I wonder if I'll get a show for strippin these fucks of their masculinity. Let's see what I'm capable of.
STFO heheheeee.
LeilaB
11-11-2021, 10:32 AM
Right now I'm really just fuckin with the trolls. In almost 2 hrs I've made $47 and that's shit...but fuckin with these trolls is REALLY making my day. I'm in bitch mode upgraded 2.0
I wonder if I'll get a show for strippin these fucks of their masculinity. Let's see what I'm capable of.
STFO heheheeee.
At least it's not boring! Rather trolls than the deadness lol :D
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2021, 10:37 AM
At least it's not boring! Rather trolls than the deadness lol :D
Hahahaaa true dat. I'm on for 24 min then I'm out. I hope you make some good money today...and like you said: anything is ok since you're sick. Feel better soon lil sis :)
Marina Starr
11-11-2021, 11:24 AM
The most effective way to stay the fuck on is JUST stay the fuck on!
LeilaB
11-11-2021, 11:27 AM
Hahahaaa true dat. I'm on for 24 min then I'm out. I hope you make some good money today...and like you said: anything is ok since you're sick. Feel better soon lil sis :)
Thank you, bestie! It's much better than I expected, I made 85$ on SM +Skyprivate in only 1,5 hours, but I feel like being online is draining my energy, and I'm getting worse. :( I can't STFO today, I do 1 more hour somehow, then just go to sleep. It's a missed opportunity, but I just can't do this :(
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2021, 01:37 PM
Thank you, bestie! It's much better than I expected, I made 85$ on SM +Skyprivate in only 1,5 hours, but I feel like being online is draining my energy, and I'm getting worse. :( I can't STFO today, I do 1 more hour somehow, then just go to sleep. It's a missed opportunity, but I just can't do this :(
Well that's some good shit sister!!! Rest. Rest will be good. The guys will still be here when you get back :)
minibagel
11-11-2021, 02:25 PM
i need a vicious, brutal domme to SCREAM at me to stfo tonight. shake me by the shoulders, bitch slap me and make me cry. seems like the only way to snap me out of this lazy princess mood
Cutie101
11-11-2021, 07:38 PM
This is a weird question, but do you have a set schedule or do you just hop on whenever you wake up? How do you determine to stay on for 8 hours some days and 12 other days? I'm overthinking my schedule, when in reality I just need to either toughen up and get on at the times people are recommending to me, or toughen up and put myself in front of the camera as soon as I get up.
For now, I just hop on whenever I wake up and try to put a minimum of 8 hours. The time online I decide to stay on, depends on how tired I feel and if I have other things to do, where I am with the hours for the month (if I am behind the schedule I'll put 12 hours), if it's weekend i am putting more hours because it's busier so will be more money to be made, etc.
I tried to have a fixed schedule and can't seem to work on it. I do log in within my regular streaming hours, but not at a fixed hours, it can go up to 4 hours delay. But I am putting at least 8 hours from the moment I log in. I am lucky with the Jasmin timer, because it counts in real time the exact amount of time streamed, so it helps me not log out untill the timer shows at least 8:00:00 :))))
PS: Really trying to get a fixed schedule also, I am trying my best to login within a 2 hours delay, because a huge delay can cause a loss in regular members, who can only come at certain times due to work/ family, etc.
But for this month I am determined to just put 200 hours online. Working one step at a time.
Cutie101
11-11-2021, 07:41 PM
Yesterday I was off, my first day off in 14 days. I wanted to be today off as well, because I am really sleepy, but decided to get on cam, because period is here and maybe I will feel bad in the heavy flow days and will want to take the day off, then. Got a huge and strong coffee and here I go! Probably putting 8 hours today. I wanted to put 10, but I can't. I will get some good sleep later and tomorow I definitely put 10-12 because it's weekend and gotta milk the $$$!
Edit: 8 hours and didn't even make my low goal. what the fuck man!!! what the FUCK!!! After such a great week, even a great wednesday, today was supposed to be heaven! I'm out of here. FUCK! Tomorow better be worth it, ugh!
LeilaB
11-12-2021, 05:46 AM
Yesterday I made over high goal in 5 hours, even though I felt and looked like shit. I was so happy, I had no expectations for that shift!
I've been on for 2 hours today, and $5 lool. Only in and outs, and 3-5 potentials... I'll be back later today, hopefully it's gonna be better!
Marina Starr
11-12-2021, 07:24 AM
Isn't it wonderful when we remove the demand for reaching goal actually increases likelihood of meeting and surpassing it?
There's no such thing as looking like shit on cam, lol. Even if you think so they will still go 'mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm' 'so sexy mmmmmmm' 'so hot bb'
Yesterday I made over high goal in 5 hours, even though I felt and looked like shit. I was so happy, I had no expectations for that shift!
I've been on for 2 hours today, and $5 lool. Only in and outs, and 3-5 potentials... I'll be back later today, hopefully it's gonna be better!
Marina Starr
11-12-2021, 07:45 AM
What I find so helpful when it comes to staying the fuck on is keeping track of how many hours I've been on and what I've only made when I feel like logging the fuck off compare to how much $$$ I ended up making because I persevered and stayed the fuck on. Even if I only ended up with $200 a week for staying the fuck on, it's still is $200 x 4 weeks = $800 a month that I didn't have. A lot of times perseverance pays off.
It is truly an eye-opener! Seeing is believe because numbers don't lie and this thread proves it all the time.
Merriam-webster defines per·se·ver·ance as:
'Persistence in hoeing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving success.'
LeilaB
11-12-2021, 09:24 AM
Isn't it wonderful when we remove the demand for reaching goal actually increases likelihood of meeting and surpassing it?
There's no such thing as looking like shit on cam, lol. Even if you think so they will still go 'mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm' 'so sexy mmmmmmm' 'so hot bb'
Haha you're right! Guys were acting the same, they don't care about the red nose or the missing makeup when they're wanking their cocks lol :D
I usually have expectations when I go online, like "at least $50" "at least the amount to reach $400 until Thursday" etc. But when I go online without any demand for reaching an amount and I still reach goals feels much better, it's like a gift :)
Seductive_Brit
11-12-2021, 12:10 PM
Hey, I am really happy it helps! Take your time and recover and slowly build your hours. Rather than trying to start right with long hours and not be ok, build it slowly so you get to a full schedule in 1-2 weeks.
I used to abandon and quit everything when things were difficult or slow and I am know that the only guilty was the mind and the mindset. I didn't have a winner mentality.
Speaking of today, it was same scenario like yesterday: I made $15 in 5 hours, then it suddenly picked up and made my low goal, then it died again. I was really debating to log off, knowing wednesday is my worst earning day and I was thinking I won't even make my low goal, butmy mind was like "fuck it, you stay the fuck on!!". And a new client that discovered me 3 days ago, came back today during his work break and saw me online, so he stopped at me and made my low goal. So I notice I slowly build up regulars.
Thanks so much Cutie! Yes I've been trying now the doable target of 5 hours a day and your post has motivated me to finish the 1.75 hours I have left today! Even if it is slow I know it's worth just getting to a point of keeping those consistent hours. I got more or less officially diagnosed with ADHD this week and hope to start treatment, I think this will really help me and also as it's so expensive, lol, it's motivation to make more money too. Made some lovely new regulars recently. One who tips constantly in free chat, paid chat and offline, and gave me this gem of a compliment: I must say, your personality seals the deal for me. If I could give 10 stars I would. Keep going ladies!
Yes, it sucks, & yes you'll be ok. You're stronger than you think you are.
Short shifts, break, then go again is smart.
Sending healing vibes :goodvibes:hug::heartbeat
Thanks Sha! Means a lot. It's getting better, seeing the back end of illness now, had a nice walk today chatting to family and hoping to start doing proper exercise again next week, just being healthier in all areas really.