View Full Version : The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
LeilaB
12-31-2021, 07:10 AM
Ahhhh yeah. I'm finally getting back on after some well deserved time off & your success is PUMPING ME UP! YESSSSSSSS!
I hope you enjoyed your time off and now you are back with new energy. We all need to take time off sometimes so as not to burn out. Good luck sis get that cash!! :*
Miss_ShaSha
12-31-2021, 08:19 AM
OMFG Leila SISTER!!! Because of your post I got on and FUCK...WHALE. GTFO and in 40 min I've exceeded low goal. THANK YOU!!!
Ladies, if you're not on you won't know what potential is there. I was about to stay off til Sun. Damn, the Universe has been kind. I figured I'd ask for $50 GOLD just to see what I could get away with and he did it twice! Haha. Ask these men! ASK!!!
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LeilaB
12-31-2021, 08:58 AM
Yaaaay Sha!!! Congrats, it's amazing! <3
I did the 6 hours and made $236, I'm so happy now! I have to log off now, as I have 2 hours to get ready for the house party: put aside the cam stuff, clean the room and make snacks.
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Miss_ShaSha
12-31-2021, 09:14 AM
Yaaaay Sha!!! Congrats, it's amazing! <3
I did the 6 hours and made $236, I'm so happy now! I have to log off now, as I have 2 hours to get ready for the house party: put aside the cam stuff, clean the room and make snacks.
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OMFG way to sell it lil sis!!! Well deserved and this makes me so happy. Enjoy. Happy New Year!!!
MissAdriana
12-31-2021, 09:33 AM
Back on the schedule today after losing my mind in grief from losing over a years worth of content
PSA: BACK UP YOUR CONTENT, ALL of your content. Twice. Even external hard drives can fail
Aiming for 8 hours today. Happy New Year everyone !!
Miss_ShaSha
12-31-2021, 10:27 AM
Back on the schedule today after losing my mind in grief from losing over a years worth of content
PSA: BACK UP YOUR CONTENT, ALL of your content. Twice. Even external hard drives can fail
Aiming for 8 hours today. Happy New Year everyone !!
OMFG I woulda shit a brick. You are ride or die!!! Kudos for getting past it and getting the fuck on!!!
Happy New Year!!!
Miss_ShaSha
12-31-2021, 11:29 AM
Well HOLY FUCK! It's a good thing I even got on and had the confidence to stay on despite sitting in a dead room for more than 1.5 hrs. A member came in, asked a couple questions, and I suggested EXCL. He made a comment about how expensive I am. I said "You gotta pay for quality. Everyone knows that." He said "So you'll give me quality?" I said "Perhaps take a look at my tags and comments to make your decision."
Well, he went EXCL and proceeded to tip almost $300 GOLD. That show blew my fuckin mind. Sisters, you don't know what you'll get unless you ask for it. I just kept encouraging him to make the vibe go full blast with tips more than $20 GOLD. He obliged.
ASK THESE FELLAS!!!
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MissAdriana
12-31-2021, 04:47 PM
GO AHEAD SHA GO GO !!
Maybe you'll end up with a contest bonus after all !
As for me I had to leave early I can not deal with the mean nature of the users today neverending blastings of hate comments. I need more that 5 dollar an hour to deal with that
Ladies,best wishes to you in 2022! Hope,we all achieve satisfaction and fullfill our goals.
Lets be dedicated to our dreams and continue support ourselves here. I believe, this year will be special!
Miss_ShaSha
01-01-2022, 03:46 AM
GO AHEAD SHA GO GO !!
Maybe you'll end up with a contest bonus after all !
As for me I had to leave early I can not deal with the mean nature of the users today neverending blastings of hate comments. I need more that 5 dollar an hour to deal with that
I'm not even in the top 750 lololll Shit, I'm just tryna pay my bills. Hell, I made shit on xmas. I was kinda irritated and couldn't deal with the bullshit. I didn't even STFO. I hear ya sister. Some days are total shit tho and there's no need to sit for shit :D
Cutie101
01-01-2022, 09:41 PM
Happy new year!!! I did read all the posts in the past 2 days, I just want to congratulate everyone for everything you did lately. I am super proud of you! Small or big steps, they did count and you DID something towards being a better and richer camgirl. 2022 will be such a breeze, now that you know what you have to do, in order to get your dreams come true!
As in for me, back on the STFO wagon. I wanted to also take today off, but period comes in a few days so i will take 3 days off then.
10 hours, there we go!
Edit: 8 hours and I had an outstanding day. Spoiled me wanted to take the rest of the day off, to make it up for the days when i did stfo whole shift to barely make my goal, but I said NO! This is what helped me destroy my progress back in the day. I'd work like crazy and once things started to go well, i'd become spoiled and log off early. Not anymore. STFO for 2 more hours. Schedule is schedule!!
Ended at 10 hours and 30 ish minutes. Right when the timer was showing 9 hours and 57 minutes, someone took me to private for 30 minutes. Soooo... yeah. STFO till the very last minute, you never know what happens!
Teddy_Bear
01-02-2022, 12:41 PM
I'm a huge believer in STFO but I'm terrible at following my own advice. I quit when it's quiet and I quit when I've hit daily goal... well no more.
I'm committing to 200hrs minimum this month working 10hrs a day 5 days a week every week. Starting this week I got a late start and my tech let me down at the beginning of my shift but I'm still aiming for 6hrs today with 4 down and counting... I'm very happy I didn't quit at the 2hr mark like I wanted to as I've earned 7x what I had at that time since.
Has it been tough? You bet but failure is not an option this year.
UPDATE: I managed my 6hrs and that's my first 10hrs done for this week in the past 24hrs I'm very proud of myself and I hit high goal, this STFO is working so far.
Cutie101
01-02-2022, 09:07 PM
Teddyyyyy, good to see you back here!!! And yes, same with you, I needed a huge willpower to not log off yesterday after hitting my goal.
I wanted to say that LATELY I am dragging myself out of bed and feel like shit when I wake up, but I realize this is my everyday story, I don't think there has been a day where I was motivated to wake up and start work like a breeze, after my first week lol. That was almost 4 months ago. LMAO!
So, my whole STFO existence is miserable overall, not feeling like it, waking up and cursing, but still turning the shower on and jumping in, cursing again, then cursing onto my way to the camming place.
The only day when I wanna twerk is when money reach my bank account. My goooosh what a pretty feeling. It erases the whole misery for that month lololol.
Anyway... back on cam, 10 hours as usual. I wanna sleep, eat, play on console, watch netflix, do ANYTHING else but this... oh well. I liked my december earnings, can't repeat the experience without STFO.
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~Carmen~
01-02-2022, 11:27 PM
I concur! It's really nice to see you back Teddy. I always enjoy your posts.
I'm proud of myself for STFO, despite my face being messed up from my fall last night.
~Carmen~
01-02-2022, 11:41 PM
I'm a huge believer in STFO but I'm terrible at following my own advice. I quit when it's quiet and I quit when I've hit daily goal... well no more.
I'm committing to 200hrs minimum this month working 10hrs a day 5 days a week every week. Starting this week I got a late start and my tech let me down at the beginning of my shift but I'm still aiming for 6hrs today with 4 down and counting... I'm very happy I didn't quit at the 2hr mark like I wanted to as I've earned 7x what I had at that time since.
Has it been tough? You bet but failure is not an option this year.
UPDATE: I managed my 6hrs and that's my first 10hrs done for this week in the past 24hrs I'm very proud of myself and I hit high goal, this STFO is working so far.
Good job! It's very hard not to give up sometimes but 99% of the time you will be glad you stayed.
Teddy_Bear
01-03-2022, 10:24 AM
Thanks Cutie and Carmen it's great to be back. I've been camming this whole time and check the forum most days but haven't had as much time to post as a few years ago.
Definitely feeling like Cutie today and running so late but it's not about what time you start it's about what time you finish. Stuffing my face with some lunch and then logging on for 10hrs today. Woke up to $50 my cut in vid sales so I'm pumped to get started today.
UPDATE: I can only do 4hrs today now because family have decided to crash my party uninvited but still managed low goal thank god
Good luck ladies!
ravenskyy
01-03-2022, 11:23 AM
I was wondering why it was so slow today, and then I remembered that today is the last day of the New Years contest. Lol I was feeling kinda down for a minute but now I'm feeling MUCH better! Thank goodness that it's the last day.
naomi_doll
01-03-2022, 12:44 PM
How often do you guys take breaks in a 10+ hour shift? My therapist wants me to take breaks to clear my head but since she doesn't cam, she doesn't really have a realistic idea of how often to do that. Would love to hear some ideas!
Esixxx
01-03-2022, 01:04 PM
I concur! It's really nice to see you back Teddy. I always enjoy your posts.
I'm proud of myself for STFO, despite my face being messed up from my fall last night.
You have tits of steel!
Teddy_Bear
01-03-2022, 02:18 PM
How often do you guys take breaks in a 10+ hour shift? My therapist wants me to take breaks to clear my head but since she doesn't cam, she doesn't really have a realistic idea of how often to do that. Would love to hear some ideas!
I don't take breaks unless I haven't eaten in which case I'll take an hour for myself but unfortunately for me if I log off that normally means I won't return until the next day.
naomi_doll
01-03-2022, 02:26 PM
I don't take breaks unless I haven't eaten in which case I'll take an hour for myself but unfortunately for me if I log off that normally means I won't return until the next day.
Thats my big fear too, that I won't make it back on! She said I should set an alarm and keep flexing that self disipline muscle. I'll at least try and see how it makes me feel. Thank you!
Genoveve
01-03-2022, 02:46 PM
3 hour goal today. I think 3 hours is going to be my new 4 hours.
ETA did not succeed, after I wrote that I realized I was really not in the mood to log on and figured I'd at least aim for an hour but I only made it 45 min. I was busy at first because I had an old big spender return, but he started talking about incestuous stuff so of course I had to ban him and then after that it was 15 minutes with no pvt or exclus so I logged off. Not very much traffic and no regs. Tomorrow is another day.
kamiliam
01-03-2022, 05:47 PM
New Years contest
Part one-8hrs = #191*
Part two-16.5=#24
STFO isn’t the only difference between the two contests but certainly helped me out. Prizes kinda blow now.
* put in a solid second shift in part 1, but Thursday night I put in 2.5 hours on/off not committed to really working. Truthfully might have been better if I took the whole night off instead.
Still nice start to 2022
~Carmen~
01-03-2022, 05:49 PM
You have tits of steel!
Ha! Thanks :). I got sympathy tits. I mean tips.
bigbum
01-03-2022, 06:23 PM
New Years contest
Part one-8hrs = #191*
Part two-16.5=#24
STFO isn’t the only difference between the two contests but certainly helped me out. Prizes kinda blow now.
* put in a solid second shift in part 1, but Thursday night I put in 2.5 hours on/off not committed to really working. Truthfully might have been better if I took the whole night off instead.
Still nice start to 2022
congrats for ranking in both contests!
kamiliam
01-03-2022, 06:49 PM
I concur! It's really nice to see you back Teddy. I always enjoy your posts.
I'm proud of myself for STFO, despite my face being messed up from my fall last night.
How are you feeling after the fall? Did you get someone to clear the ice? Rain took care of ours thank goodness
~Carmen~
01-03-2022, 07:17 PM
How are you feeling after the fall? Did you get someone to clear the ice? Rain took care of ours thank goodness
I'm feeling pretty good. Surprisingly, my face doesn't hurt that much. It looks worse than it feels. They are very good at putting salt down to melt the ice, but this was at 1am. We had more freezing rain since they had last salted. Thank you for asking about me!
I'm glad the rain cleared your ice. Today was above freezing so most of ours melted too.
Cutie101
01-03-2022, 09:52 PM
How often do you guys take breaks in a 10+ hour shift? My therapist wants me to take breaks to clear my head but since she doesn't cam, she doesn't really have a realistic idea of how often to do that. Would love to hear some ideas!
I try to take as little breaks as possible. I don't like to dread trough the whole day with my work, so I only take short 2-5 minutes breaks to go and pee, 20 minutes to have my breakfast and another 20-30 minutes at lunch, to eat. But because I try to squeeze a 10 hour shift in a 11- 11:30 hours in total.
In the begining, when I started this crazy work regimen, i would dread the work trough the whole day, taking me more than 13 hours to reach my 10 hours streamed, because i would take 20-30 minutes here and there to relax my mind, as it was a shock for me to work so much. So, it took me almost a month to learn to ditch the breaks and just do my hours and get done with it asap. But I couldn't have done it right away, I had to work on my discipline and get used to it. Also, shorter breaks leave me more time to sleep and extra time to maybe workout and relax a little after work.
Small steps!
All you can do is practice and take your time to figure what fits you, my style may not be suiting you, so defintiely try to find what works best for you. Splitting the shift in 2 can also be an option, 5+ 5 hours and rest in between, as time as you have a fixed schedule. Or 6+4, etc... Try, experiment, see how you feel best!
Cutie101
01-03-2022, 09:56 PM
New day! Uh oh, i fucking forgot I am getting my 50% bonus from livejasmin, today is the last day of the pay period in there and woohooo!!! I'm getting 50% of what I made! Fuck YEAH!!!!! Too bad they only run this type of bonus contest only around xmas time, it would be amazing if they did it every 3 months, at least. Damnit :)))
As for today, I only procrastinated 10 minutes in bed, after waking up (usually would take me 30 min). I took a quick read on the forum, to open my eyes and jumped on my spinning bike, did a lazy pedaling for 25 minutes. Worked better than coffee. Showered, got my food ready, got to my camming place, put makeup on and came on cam.
Yesterday I also did some meal prepping, so I have food today and tomorow.
Putting 10 hours as usual. Bleh :))
Edit: 6.5 hours and I was lucky with a reg that made my goal, otherwise it's been DEAD as a graveyard. So dead that I even had time to make my grocery list and establish what I want to meal prep for the next 4 days. Heck I even scrolled reddit and meal prepping sites lolololol. Oh well... STFO! And thanking the camgods for the regs. Regs that i made by stfo-ing also lol.
LetsGetHazey
01-03-2022, 11:22 PM
Hey hey and happy new year:) I had some unforeseen family errands on the first and am dealing with some uterine interference so I was just proud I GTFO the past two days lol
I wanted to tell my STFO story for today though in hopes it'll inspire others:) The first time I got bummed and thought eww slow, a new tipper dropped $10 to tell me he's been watching the past half hour and couldn't believe I was so hot sitting there and tipped his other $10. Then half an hour later when I was thinking eh slow, the next new guy to tip $10 also said he'd been watching for awhile and wanted to show appreciation than later tipped $50 just to make me smile. I think it also plays into the LOA thread as I keep a post it by the screen "every time I want to log off, a reason to stay on comes". Just wanted to share my reason to stay on today: you never know who's watching and just seconds away from showing their appreciation.
Hope you all are having a happy new year so far and hitting your goals<3 Thank you all so much for sharing
nattyfetish
01-04-2022, 04:15 AM
Hey hey and happy new year:) I had some unforeseen family errands on the first and am dealing with some uterine interference so I was just proud I GTFO the past two days lol
I wanted to tell my STFO story for today though in hopes it'll inspire others:) The first time I got bummed and thought eww slow, a new tipper dropped $10 to tell me he's been watching the past half hour and couldn't believe I was so hot sitting there and tipped his other $10. Then half an hour later when I was thinking eh slow, the next new guy to tip $10 also said he'd been watching for awhile and wanted to show appreciation than later tipped $50 just to make me smile. I think it also plays into the LOA thread as I keep a post it by the screen "every time I want to log off, a reason to stay on comes". Just wanted to share my reason to stay on today: you never know who's watching and just seconds away from showing their appreciation.
Hope you all are having a happy new year so far and hitting your goals<3 Thank you all so much for sharing
Belive me , they are always watching ! I am not sure if other websites have guests BUT in livejasmin's case, members sometimes don't evan bother to log in and just watch as a guest. It was not just once when I had a member join me in pvt and tell me he has been watching me since forever and finally found the moment to take me private ! So evan if it is dead, staying the fuck on helps (you are there, you are online, you are seen).
Cutie101
01-04-2022, 04:18 AM
belive me , they are always watching ! I am not sure if other websites have guests BUT in livejasmin's case, members sometimes don't evan bother to log in and just watch as a guest. It was not just once when I had a member join me in pvt and tell me he has been watching me since forever and finally found the moment to take me private ! So evan if it is dead, staying the fuck on helps (you are there, you are online, you are seen).
Fucking truth!! Same here, I see a member taking me out of nowhere in private, I thought I never seen him before, but he lurked as a guest and observed me for days or even weeks.
Some don't have money/ circumstances to spend now and they come back later. We gotta be there regardless.
Also, wanted to add that I made new regs by having customers, literally abandoning some initial favorite models, because they always switch their schedule or barely log in. They were like "it's so refreshing to come online and see you here, I often wonder who's gonna be on since they are so unpredictable, but in your case, I am certain you are here, even if I don't check the site before getting home".
This says A LOT about the power of STFO.
Vlodina
01-04-2022, 02:39 PM
Had a bad few days in my personal life and today is my first day online this year. So that's not a great start to the year is it? Fucking men. At least now I have more time to make the monies. I'm 6 hours and 20 minutes in. Think I'm going to go and eat something soon, then come on for another hour or two! Have I been rewarded for CTFO and STFO? So so lol
Genoveve
01-04-2022, 02:40 PM
3 hour goal today again.
Welp going to have to do it at night. I did ten minutes and I haven't seen such low traffic since back weeks ago with the two really brutal contests.
freyasnecklace
01-04-2022, 02:47 PM
First half of shift went really good. I’m speaking into existence that tonight’s shift is going to kill it! We are all going to swim in money. 56402
pippapippa
01-04-2022, 05:38 PM
3 hour goal today again.
Welp going to have to do it at night. I did ten minutes and I haven't seen such low traffic since back weeks ago with the two really brutal contests.
Thought I was going to be online a long time today and it’s awful on here.
Genoveve
01-04-2022, 08:45 PM
^^Well I didn't end up coming back online to finish the rest of my hours, I just am coming back to see a regular and that's it. I have to get back to logging on early.
freyasnecklace
01-04-2022, 09:32 PM
Got back on for second half of shift and 74$ in 1.5, so I logged off because SM was glitchy, slow, and it seemed to be hour of the fuckwads. I think I’ll get on an hour earlier tomorrow. Total: $25 MV $431 SM (4.5 hrs)
Cutie101
01-04-2022, 09:58 PM
I forgot to update my yesterday. Finished at 10 hours. Extraordinary slow if it wasn't my regs, I literally sat in a complete deadness for 10 hours and glad i sticked out by the end, because 30 minutes before logging off, one of them saw me online when he woke up and decided he also wants to spend his morning with me. Doubled my goal.
But in between... oh my GOOOOOOOOOOD!!!!!
Anyway! New 10 hours shift. Some of my regs vanished or announced they are super busy this week and they won't be able to make it. I am nervous and stressed because it's been dead without them, but I STFO and hunt for some good spenders, maybe make new regs, maybe already vanished whales are coming back around... anything can happen!
Edit: finished at 12 hours streamed. After a good morning, i literally sat in freechat for almost 7 hours, making like $15. Then I had a 3 hours pvt with a new member and another 2 hours pvt with a reg that saw me online lol. STFOOOOOO! Off to sleep woohoo!
Teddy_Bear
01-04-2022, 11:48 PM
I'm online and ready to thrash out this 10hrs today with my first hour just completed. Traffic is weird they are like buses this morning!
LetsGetHazey
01-05-2022, 01:30 AM
lol - My first initial draft was - oof. today is kind of annoying but it's still better than other jobs. Logged off because some guy asked if I was bored yet after awhile of no tips like lmaoooo yes cigarette break time
proceeded to make 80% of goal within 30 mins of returning post cigarette, and then exceeded goal x3 with a guy who likes long private shows.
I have really enjoyed rereading the first few pages of this thread from 2014 to copy and paste inspirational quotes to put on my wall, and find it keeps me smiling while I'm waiting for conversation in the chatroom. Thank you all, hope your days are/were amazing<3
Vlodina
01-05-2022, 02:07 AM
This won't seem like much to some of you hardcore folks, but yesterday I streamed for EIGHT WHOLE HOURS! I had the day to myself and wanted to prove I could do longer hours. I wasn't as pleased that I only made $210 in that time and that it was pretty dead, but right now that's less important to me. Hours plus consistency make money in the long run. Still Xmas school holidays here at the moment so can't do many hours most days but I'm going to get dead serious from the 10th, I need to sort out my shit this year!
Cutie101
01-05-2022, 02:27 AM
This won't seem like much to some of you hardcore folks, but yesterday I streamed for EIGHT WHOLE HOURS! I had the day to myself and wanted to prove I could do longer hours. I wasn't as pleased that I only made $210 in that time and that it was pretty dead, but right now that's less important to me. Hours plus consistency make money in the long run. Still Xmas school holidays here at the moment so can't do many hours most days but I'm going to get dead serious from the 10th, I need to sort out my shit this year!
We all started from little hours! Every step is important, especially at the end of the month it will show! And yes, sometimes it's fucking slow, i still have days when I make $50 in 10 hours... it's just camming ;D;D
Don't judge the day, judge the month overall, that's when your progress will show. Take your time and do your best, sometimes it can do more harm than good, to start hardcore when you weren't used to it (or weren't used anymore).
Also, it's good to not compare yourself too much with us, because we all have different lifestyles. I don't have kids, it's easy for me to pull these hours, when when I will have, I'm not gonna be able to do more than 6-8 hours either. Do your best, stop procrastinating where you can and that's it. Be a better version of YOURSELF 8)
Vlodina
01-05-2022, 02:39 AM
Haha indeed, there's no chance that I can do 8+ hours a day every day. But I can realistically do 30 hours a week comfortably, with a full day off. It's just a case of getting on with it. December was my best month in years. Not that I got luckier, or better at my job, but because I was actually online. The annoying thing is that I can't be as consistent as I'd like, as the days that my ex has our kid vary, but I can't do anything about that.
freyasnecklace
01-05-2022, 11:59 AM
Feel like guys are throwing dimes at me today. Pray to cam goddesses for a whale
MissAdriana
01-05-2022, 12:09 PM
I got up early and did my 8 hrs but it was a not great day. Good luck freya hope you get your whale
emkato
01-05-2022, 01:21 PM
today is def tough on SM. very few models online but still barely any traffic. a whale would def be a game changer because Staying TFO is hard af today!
~*~good vibes~*~
freyasnecklace
01-05-2022, 01:36 PM
Short Break. 204$ and around 4.5 hours. Lots of little breaks to try to reset my anger at these 1-5 minute guys
emkato
01-05-2022, 01:43 PM
Short Break. 204$ and around 4.5 hours. Lots of little breaks to try to reset my anger at these 1-5 minute guys
I just hit 3 hours and I am only at $32. embarrassing to admit. :( so far, worst day ive had in a while.
emkato
01-05-2022, 02:12 PM
funny how after I express I'm having a bad day on here, I get a show immediately after. wasn't a whale by any means but its a start! whatchu trying to tell me universe?? to complain more?? jk I wouldn't do that to yall lol
STFO!