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freyasnecklace
01-11-2022, 07:51 PM
It’s hard to believe but I started on CB. And last year in January on CB I made bank. Not to say I want to return there or it would be good, because I really don’t like token sites, with hundreds of freeloaders. That being said ….why is it so hard for members to get:

1. Talk to the model respectfully
2. Tip gold for requests
3. Go private to see more.

Porn is free. I always thought members went to cam sites for engagement with a live person. Yet the majority have no social skills and can’t even type 2 letters “hi”.

Camming is fun and a blast when members talk and tip. When they don’t it’s not.

Doesn’t seem a hard concept to me . But what do I know. I have cammed fulltime for 4 years and know nothing!

The climate is different, for sure. I started in 2004– def is not like that old cam life. I’ve heard good things about StripChat custies. I used to bank on CMD, but not so much now. Your anger is valid… guys definitely talk less. I call them out, and sometimes they “lol sorry bb “ me. Cam customers definitely have a fetish for it.

I wonder if you could bank on token sites yelling at men for being trash and smashing a dildo? I used to visit a model and tip her because she did intense humiliation all day up close on her lips while ball busting a fake cock. Hero. Haha

kortneykay
01-11-2022, 08:49 PM
The climate is different, for sure. I started in 2004– def is not like that old cam life. I’ve heard good things about StripChat custies. I used to bank on CMD, but not so much now. Your anger is valid… guys definitely talk less. I call them out, and sometimes they “lol sorry bb “ me. Cam customers definitely have a fetish for it.

I wonder if you could bank on token sites yelling at men for being trash and smashing a dildo? I used to visit a model and tip her because she did intense humiliation all day up close on her lips while ball busting a fake cock. Hero. Haha

I bet she made a killing. Genius.

Cutie101
01-12-2022, 12:10 AM
Putting only 7 hours today, I couldn't wake up, I wanted to sleep. So I slept.

Edit: 4 hours in and some regs came around. Goal reached and still having 3 more hours to go.

Vlodina
01-12-2022, 04:36 AM
After my worst shift in years yesterday, I could have never logged in ever again. Yet here I am, nearly 2 hours in and hoping to do at least 6 hours. Thankfuckfully it's been considerably better so far.

Marina Starr
01-12-2022, 05:12 AM
What's happening to this thread? It's getting depressing and discouraging.

There should be a separate thread entirely dedicated to quitting camming!

Cutie101
01-12-2022, 05:43 AM
I went through the same thing when I hit my 4th full time year of camming. Went from making $40-60/hr to $15-20, if I was lucky. It was heartbreaking for me. I remember one night, I'd pulled 10hrs and only made $157 (I remember the number because it hurt so much), I came off cam and cried. I had changed nothing, not my shift times etc, but somehow SM just didn't love me anymore. Things continued to get worse. So I took a break. I worked other cam sites, namely Chaturbate, on the side, and tried to bring what following I had, over there. That however was not feasible, and after two months of being very late on rent, I went back to SM, tail between my legs, figuring that if I had to stay on 10-12hrs a day, I'd still take that $150 daily. Things were as bad as you described here. I couldn't understand it at all.

One day I was watching Youtube and started messing around with my makeup, doing a completely different look. I decided to go on cam with it, because what the hell right, the dudes didn't seem to like me no matter what I did, so I had nothing to lose by going online with an elaborate look. Sitting there, I saw myself and realized it was the most effort I'd put into my look in MONTHS. I made a solid $25/hr that day, more than I had in a while. So I kept putting in a lot of effort on makeup. The next thing I realized was that my hair wasn't working for me. I got a wig. Boom, money increased again. Then I started wearing lingerie instead of the tank tops I wore then. Money increased again. Changed my background, same thing.

Since then (that was 2019), every time I feel things drop off, I either tweak my look (makeup is the most affordable way to do this, different looks attract different crowds), or just make sure that I am not slacking on the overall package I am bringing to cam. STFO works, yes, but if you are not working with the right tools, then you can STFO til the cows come home, it won't be enough. It also took me a long time to admit to myself that cam was sucking because I had stopped visually taking care of myself, and was rocking up to what is essentially a model job, looking thrown together.

I know it is super hard to want to put a ton of effort into your cam appearance when nothing is working out how you want it to, but its worth it, you have nothing to lose.

This is all from annecdotal evidence, namely my own experience, but there are a few things you can maybe try, to remedy this.

Also, and this is very important, this post isn't to image shame anyone. There is no standard way to look for cam. Going full glamour helped me specifically, but that's not to say its for everyone, however there is something to be said about looking polished, in whatever style you choose. STFO works, it really does, so much so that its like a magic bullet, but if its suddenly not working, there may be another issue, so just bear that in mind, and sometimes the solution isn't to STFO more, its to simply change a few other things and get back to STFO.


THISSS!!! You did speak my words. Appearence is important, also the cam room does atract a certain type of clients. Not saying to have the most luxurious background (I don't have), but a clean, decluttered and properly lit space, paired with a clean appearence on cam does WONDERS!
I see succesful models on the flirt category on Jasmin, they are not wearing any kind of makeup, but their hair is combed, has a clean appearence, their nails are done, their room (altough small, with just a sofa, a canvas on the wall and a lamp) is clean. And you just wanna talk to them, you feel good in that room.
I don't like clutter myself, too many items in a cam room can be tiring for the eye and for the mind.

And in the end, some good self talk about this job. There are tons of options to make money, I don't even stream on SM anymore, there is life outside this site and the fact that i was getting 25% (5% for daily pay and 5% because discrimination of living in Europe). When Jasmin was my enemy with their shit rules, I was able to survive without it for a year and when I came back I started to make more than I did before temporary quitting the site. When Ifriends, my main site, closed into my face in 2018, without a notice, I had to start all over again. Shit happened. I didn't quit. I followed the money.
We follow the money, being loyal to one site is beneficial as time as it brings the dough. If it gets slow despite all the efforts we put in, it's time to park our asses on new sites, or splitcam, we don't cry for ourselves when they definitely don't give a shit about us.

I am splitcamming, altough after 4 months Jasmin brings 80% of the income (in the begining it was only 30%), I am gonna drop splitcamming for January and adding one more site from February. Gonna decide which one.

freyasnecklace
01-12-2022, 06:45 AM
Getting up, coffee/food, work out, shower, and STFO!! Goal is the same 9 hrs or money goal. Let’s get it <3

Seductive_Brit
01-12-2022, 09:01 AM
I went through the same thing when I hit my 4th full time year of camming. Went from making $40-60/hr to $15-20, if I was lucky. It was heartbreaking for me. I remember one night, I'd pulled 10hrs and only made $157 (I remember the number because it hurt so much), I came off cam and cried. I had changed nothing, not my shift times etc, but somehow SM just didn't love me anymore. Things continued to get worse. So I took a break. I worked other cam sites, namely Chaturbate, on the side, and tried to bring what following I had, over there. That however was not feasible, and after two months of being very late on rent, I went back to SM, tail between my legs, figuring that if I had to stay on 10-12hrs a day, I'd still take that $150 daily. Things were as bad as you described here. I couldn't understand it at all.

One day I was watching Youtube and started messing around with my makeup, doing a completely different look. I decided to go on cam with it, because what the hell right, the dudes didn't seem to like me no matter what I did, so I had nothing to lose by going online with an elaborate look. Sitting there, I saw myself and realized it was the most effort I'd put into my look in MONTHS. I made a solid $25/hr that day, more than I had in a while. So I kept putting in a lot of effort on makeup. The next thing I realized was that my hair wasn't working for me. I got a wig. Boom, money increased again. Then I started wearing lingerie instead of the tank tops I wore then. Money increased again. Changed my background, same thing.

Since then (that was 2019), every time I feel things drop off, I either tweak my look (makeup is the most affordable way to do this, different looks attract different crowds), or just make sure that I am not slacking on the overall package I am bringing to cam. STFO works, yes, but if you are not working with the right tools, then you can STFO til the cows come home, it won't be enough. It also took me a long time to admit to myself that cam was sucking because I had stopped visually taking care of myself, and was rocking up to what is essentially a model job, looking thrown together.

I know it is super hard to want to put a ton of effort into your cam appearance when nothing is working out how you want it to, but its worth it, you have nothing to lose.

This is all from annecdotal evidence, namely my own experience, but there are a few things you can maybe try, to remedy this.

Also, and this is very important, this post isn't to image shame anyone. There is no standard way to look for cam. Going full glamour helped me specifically, but that's not to say its for everyone, however there is something to be said about looking polished, in whatever style you choose. STFO works, it really does, so much so that its like a magic bullet, but if its suddenly not working, there may be another issue, so just bear that in mind, and sometimes the solution isn't to STFO more, its to simply change a few other things and get back to STFO.

Thanks so much for sharing your story, this whole thread is so validating because we realise that a) we're not alone and that b) so many of us are going through or have already been through the same things. You've also inspired me in terms of upgrading my room and clothes at some point. I've made gradual upgrades as time has gone on (I started camming in 2019 which is mad to think but just completed a year and a bit of full time camming) and each change or upgrade has made a difference.



This is such an important thing, to change things up if something isn't working.

I did something similar, upgraded everything, better clothes and makeup, then raised my price almost double what I had before. I've found if I charge more I get way better quality customers and longer shows. The higher price helps keep the minute men away too.

So so right about the higher prices, I look back at the low rates I was on as new girl and cringe, I also cringe at how much I did in private (whereas now I only have one standard private show and anything specific is for exclusive)and my clients back then as you say were so much lower quality, I could realistically have been on my current rates since I upgraded my laptop and webcam.

Anyhoo today has been slow but steady as just made it past low goal. This morning the first hour it was snails pace and everyone was pissing me off so I took a break and a nice walk as it's a beautiful day today. Can get really cooped up in here so going outside when you can I think is good for clearing the head. And seconding Raven's comment about some dudes just sucking the fun out of it lol, guys who think you can and should cum on command looool. Luckily with higher rates and all specifics for exclusive don't get too many of those anymore.

ravenskyy
01-12-2022, 11:23 AM
So slow today. Hoping that I can stay on and make my goal. Just tested positive for covid, and I'm exhausted. I wish that I could sleep instead, but here I am. Bleh lol

FloridaSunDoll
01-12-2022, 01:46 PM
So slow today. Hoping that I can stay on and make my goal. Just tested positive for covid, and I'm exhausted. I wish that I could sleep instead, but here I am. Bleh lol

girl I feel you right now! take it easy on yourself and just do what your body can handle!

FloridaSunDoll
01-12-2022, 01:53 PM
Ugh I cant seem to catch a break lately. I was sick all weekend after my covid booster. Monday discovered I had a stomach bug. and yesterday had to have an emergency surgery for something else totally unexpected. I feel way better after the surgery but still quite tender. can't really spend more time offline after being sick all weekend. After a while mentally I start to feel like a dead beat. So I'm ready to STFO today while still listening to my body and find the balance between feeling productive and healing. Whoever said camming is easy can suck a spiked dick lol

freyasnecklace
01-12-2022, 03:00 PM
$100 until Goal stfo …

Genoveve
01-12-2022, 03:24 PM
One day I was watching Youtube and started messing around with my makeup, doing a completely different look. I decided to go on cam with it, because what the hell right, the dudes didn't seem to like me no matter what I did, so I had nothing to lose by going online with an elaborate look. Sitting there, I saw myself and realized it was the most effort I'd put into my look in MONTHS. I made a solid $25/hr that day, more than I had in a while. So I kept putting in a lot of effort on makeup. The next thing I realized was that my hair wasn't working for me. I got a wig. Boom, money increased again. Then I started wearing lingerie instead of the tank tops I wore then. Money increased again. Changed my background, same thing.

Since then (that was 2019), every time I feel things drop off, I either tweak my look (makeup is the most affordable way to do this, different looks attract different crowds), or just make sure that I am not slacking on the overall package I am bringing to cam. STFO works, yes, but if you are not working with the right tools, then you can STFO til the cows come home, it won't be enough. It also took me a long time to admit to myself that cam was sucking because I had stopped visually taking care of myself, and was rocking up to what is essentially a model job, looking thrown together.

I know it is super hard to want to put a ton of effort into your cam appearance when nothing is working out how you want it to, but its worth it, you have nothing to lose.

This is so true. I've always done good because of my figure, but once I started really paying attention to my hair, makeup and outfits my income became way more consistent.

andreaxchanel
01-12-2022, 03:48 PM
What's happening to this thread? It's getting depressing and discouraging.

There should be a separate thread entirely dedicated to quitting camming!

Really glad you spoke up about it. I had this exact thought earlier...I come to this thread for inspiration and it seems like it's getting filled with the complete opposite lately...kinda frustrating.

~Carmen~
01-12-2022, 03:53 PM
Really glad you spoke up about it. I had this exact thought earlier...I come to this thread for inspiration and it seems like it's getting filled with the complete opposite lately...kinda frustrating.

Marina is no shrinking violet, that's for sure.

I feel the same way. We all have bad days. Sometimes it's hard to go back and try again. You need a positive attitude for that. Maybe we need a "Stay the fuck off" thread.

Marina Starr
01-12-2022, 03:58 PM
I feel you! The opposite is fine in moderation but when it's non-stop I don't have the patience for that shit!


Really glad you spoke up about it. I had this exact thought earlier...I come to this thread for inspiration and it seems like it's getting filled with the complete opposite lately...kinda frustrating.

MissAdriana
01-12-2022, 04:01 PM
One day I was watching Youtube and started messing around with my makeup, doing a completely different look. I got a wig. Boom, money increased again. Then I started wearing lingerie instead of the tank tops I wore then. Money increased again. Changed my background, same thing.

100% same for me

If you are putting in the time and it's just not working - something needs to be changed. Either your computer/camera/mic/background or you.

I forget who said it but she said "men get bored- throw a wig on, make him think he fucking someone else"

freyasnecklace
01-12-2022, 04:05 PM
6hrs on and GOOOOOAAAALLLL. I seem to be hitting it in 5-7 hrs (400-500$$) using SM and CMD. CMD is slowly picking up for me. Today I did better, and got on earlier. A good custie on SM found me indie without me hinting. Yaaaasss more money.

Yeah, it got a little dark in this thread. I want to be there for the struggles and share love, but this thread is for motivation. Go get that cash.

Marina Starr
01-12-2022, 04:08 PM
No shit, sis!

There are hoes on here that have experienced my wrath first hand and I don't give a fuck, lmao!
On a side note, stayed the fuck on today and surpassed goal by $25 dollars.


Marina is no shrinking violet, that's for sure.

I feel the same way. We all have bad days. Sometimes it's hard to go back and try again. You need a positive attitude for that. Maybe we need a "Stay the fuck off" thread.

andreaxchanel
01-12-2022, 04:14 PM
I could say today was considered "slow" for me, I made $20+ in 5 hours, but I did take a month off so I'm not complaining. Oddly enough yesterday I had an old, and I mean haven't talked in years old reg reach out to me via snapchat and end up getting me to $150+ yesterday all off of a video lol. I'm happy and going back in tomorrow for my cam goal! In some way staying the fuck on years ago got me to a days goal in no time. Maybe today was life balancing out lol.

freyasnecklace
01-12-2022, 05:18 PM
I could say today was considered "slow" for me, I made $20+ in 5 hours, but I did take a month off so I'm not complaining. Oddly enough yesterday I had an old, and I mean haven't talked in years old reg reach out to me via snapchat and end up getting me to $150+ yesterday all off of a video lol. I'm happy and going back in tomorrow for my cam goal! In some way staying the fuck on years ago got me to a days goal in no time. Maybe today was life balancing out lol.

Hahaha I love that. Like his boner alert went off.

kortneykay
01-12-2022, 06:57 PM
After this morning's $50 shift, I'm going back in and will just STFO. I'm open to positively making bank tonight and beyond. No matter what happens, as long as I show up it's something.

Cutie101
01-12-2022, 08:44 PM
Putting 10 hours today, as usual. I hope my regs are coming around to save my ass, or I hope I make new regs and new clients today. Sometimes, in the middle of the deadness, miracles happen, lol.

Update: 7 hours and didn't reach my goal yet. I was lucky with a reg that brought me at 90% of it but nothing ever since. I also noticed today I took longer breaks than usual. It's been really slow and only the fact that my subconscious tells me that by the end of the month it will get back to normal, keeps me somehow positive and careless about this situation. Back in the day I would end up crying that I suck as a model, that camming is doomed, etc., but now I know it's not me, it's the traffic and it does pick up, then it goes down and so on. Sooo, STFO for 3 more hours!

~Carmen~
01-13-2022, 01:22 AM
No shit, sis!

There are hoes on here that have experienced my wrath first hand and I don't give a fuck, lmao!
On a side note, stayed the fuck on today and surpassed goal by $25 dollars.

Congrats on surpassing your goal sis! I surpassed mine tonight too. Power hoes;D



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LeilaB
01-13-2022, 05:50 AM
Is it only me or is it totally dead for anyone else? I had only 1 tipper in the last 2,5 hours, and in the last 30 mins only 5 people logged in the room...Until now I've got 3 hellos. It's strange and sooo boring! Anyways, STFO 8 hours today, it's tough af!

Seductive_Brit
01-13-2022, 05:54 AM
Ugh I cant seem to catch a break lately. I was sick all weekend after my covid booster. Monday discovered I had a stomach bug. and yesterday had to have an emergency surgery for something else totally unexpected. I feel way better after the surgery but still quite tender. can't really spend more time offline after being sick all weekend. After a while mentally I start to feel like a dead beat. So I'm ready to STFO today while still listening to my body and find the balance between feeling productive and healing. Whoever said camming is easy can suck a spiked dick lol

So sorry to hear you had to have surgery and wishing you a speedy recovery! Well done on STFO and finding that balance, it sure isn't easy.


So slow today. Hoping that I can stay on and make my goal. Just tested positive for covid, and I'm exhausted. I wish that I could sleep instead, but here I am. Bleh lol

Sorry to hear that you have Covid! Wish you a quick recovery and don't neglect your rest. When I had it it helped to break work up into shifts with a little rest in between :)

Cutie101
01-13-2022, 06:15 AM
Is it only me or is it totally dead for anyone else? I had only 1 tipper in the last 2,5 hours, and in the last 30 mins only 5 people logged in the room...Until now I've got 3 hellos. It's strange and sooo boring! Anyways, STFO 8 hours today, it's tough af!

It has been the whole week, on every site. Just January slowdown... hang in there, that's all you can do haha!8)

PS: it is boring, yes, I have been questioning my existence in freechat in the past days lol. But somehow made my goal, there's always a client here and there coming. Tuesday I was unlucky but other than that, there's been either a reg or a new client to save my ass :))

LeilaB
01-13-2022, 06:25 AM
It has been the whole week, on every site. Just January slowdown... hang in there, that's all you can do haha!8)

PS: it is boring, yes, I have been questioning my existence in freechat in the past days lol. But somehow made my goal, there's always a client here and there coming. Tuesday I was unlucky but other than that, there's been either a reg or a new client to save my ass :))

This is what is keeping me alive too this week: there MUST be someone to save the day, it's almost impossible not to reach at least low goal ($50 at my case) in 6-8 hours. This week I have to use the break button for a 'yawning break" way too much lol :D

Cutie101
01-13-2022, 06:26 AM
This is what is keeping me alive too this week: there MUST be someone to save the day, it's almost impossible not to reach at least low goal ($50 at my case) in 6-8 hours. This week I have to use the break button for a 'yawning break" way too much lol :D

Weren't you splitting with Jasmin? Did you give up on it already?

Vlodina
01-13-2022, 06:43 AM
I'm losing my damn mind this week, it's so quiet and I'm bored BUUUUT I've done 22 hours so far, go me! Getting a lot of new people favouriting me, guess they just don't have any money eh, hopefully they'll be back ready and loaded!

LeilaB
01-13-2022, 06:52 AM
Weren't you splitting with Jasmin? Did you give up on it already?

I was but, my i5 computer couldnt handle the 2 sites at the same time, and I had to stream in lower quality when splitting + I didn't like splitcamming at all, somehow I couldnt focus and I lost money on SM. It's my weakness. I had to choose between SM and Jasmin, and I didn't dare to give up SM. It's hard to leave a site that I already got used to even though there are a few things I hate about it....I made some money on jasmin and I think with time&hard work it could have worked out. I just wasn't brave enough to leave SM :(

Cutie101
01-13-2022, 07:03 AM
I was but, my i5 computer couldnt handle the 2 sites at the same time, and I had to stream in lower quality when splitting + I didn't like splitcamming at all, somehow I couldnt focus and I lost money on SM. It's my weakness. I had to choose between SM and Jasmin, and I didn't dare to give up SM. It's hard to leave a site that I already got used to even though there are a few things I hate about it....I made some money on jasmin and I think with time&hard work it could have worked out. I just wasn't brave enough to leave SM :(

I get it. Yeah you need a better pc to handle two sites, altough, if you have such a low goal for 5-6 hours, you definitely need a second site to split on. You're not losing any money by adding a second site, I feel you're losing money on not adding. Not sure how much focus you can lose when everywhere is a little slow :))) I mean, when it's busy I also stay on my main site, but when it's slow... I stream on as many as my pc can handle :))
I did split on 4 sites, for 4 months, until the begining of this week when I finally decided to work only on Jasmin till the end on January and see how it is. Altough is my bread and butter, I will add back some sites because it's really silent sometimes and i could use some extra $$. Usually when it's busy, i close the other sites and focus only on it, but when it's dead, i had many times when i made my goal on totally different sites than jasmin. But it was still money, you know? :))

But yeah, I get you have the slow pc thing, maybe in the future you can upgrade, to expand your $$ chances! It's totally worth it. In my oppinion, it's worthy to focus on only one site, when it brings the majority of the dough and you keep others as a background and extra change $$. But when you're just struggling to grow somehwere, nothing wrong with splitting and supplementing your income, especially when you put more than 4 hours a day on cam. In the begining, extra $50 from somewhere else really makes the difference for a goal of $50-$100 daily.

PS: I am talking from the perspective on a model who has never been able to make performance on one site, in order to leave everything else behind. When I used to do that, I wasn't making more than $500 per week. Ok, i wasn't putting the hours I do now, but still... as a growing model, I feel splitcamming is the best option there and any extra dollar is more than welcome.
For example, in october when i started putting the hours, I made $500 on MFC, $500 on chaturbate and $600 on streamate. Only because I kept them on. That's a nice $1600 extra for the month! It really adds up.
Sorry to bug you, I tend to get enthusiastic over this lol.

LeilaB
01-13-2022, 07:21 AM
I get it. Yeah you need a better pc to handle two sites, altough, if you have such a low goal for 5-6 hours, you definitely need a second site to split on. You're not losing any money by adding a second site, I feel you're losing money on not adding. Not sure how much focus you can lose when everywhere is a little slow :))) I mean, when it's busy I also stay on my main site, but when it's slow... I stream on as many as my pc can handle :))
I did split on 4 sites, for 4 months, until the begining of this week when I finally decided to work only on Jasmin till the end on January and see how it is. Altough is my bread and butter, I will add back some sites because it's really silent sometimes and i could use some extra $$. Usually when it's busy, i close the other sites and focus only on it, but when it's dead, i had many times when i made my goal on totally different sites than jasmin. But it was still money, you know? :))

But yeah, I get you have the slow pc thing, maybe in the future you can upgrade, to expand your $$ chances! It's totally worth it. In my oppinion, it's worthy to focus on only one site, when it brings the majority of the dough and you keep others as a background and extra change $$. But when you're just struggling to grow somehwere, nothing wrong with splitting and supplementing your income, especially when you put more than 4 hours a day on cam. In the begining, extra $50 from somewhere else really makes the difference for a goal of $50-$100 daily.

I upgraded from an old i3 laptop a few months ago, and of course I'll upgrade my pc in the future. I know, we have to invest into tech stuff to be more successful :) I think it was exhausting because of the new model tag. I had increased traffic mostly of freeloaders and time wasters, and I couldn't handle it :D It's never too late to get back on Jasmin, is it? :) Do you think it could work out without the new model status? I would get back this year when I have a better pc. Until then I stay with SM + Skyprivate in the background. But I really need that other egg in the basket. Thank you for your help, you're always so kind and helpful! xx

Cutie101
01-13-2022, 07:23 AM
I upgraded from an old i3 laptop a few months ago, and of course I'll upgrade my pc in the future. I know, we have to invest into tech stuff to be more successful :) I think it was exhausting because of the new model tag. I had increased traffic mostly of freeloaders and time wasters, and I couldn't handle it :D It's never too late to get back on Jasmin, is it? :) Do you think it could work out without the new model status? I would get back this year when I have a better pc. Until then I stay with SM + Skyprivate in the background. But I really need that other egg in the basket. Thank you for your help, you're always so kind and helpful! xx

Absolutely! I've had my account since 2016 and abandoned it for more than a year and before abandoning it I was putting maybe 50 hours a month in the months prior that. If you are consistent with the schedule and get a vibe toy for it, it's gonna pick up back again.

PS: There are many 1st page models on streamate that I also see on Jasmin or even on token sites... even they believe in splitcamming and not putting all the eggs in one basket :)) I look at their stats and splitting on 2 sites really boosts their income.

LeilaB
01-13-2022, 07:42 AM
Absolutely! I've had my account since 2016 and abandoned it for more than a year and before abandoning it I was putting maybe 50 hours a month in the months prior that. If you are consistent with the schedule and get a vibe toy for it, it's gonna pick up back again.

PS: There are many 1st page models on streamate that I also see on Jasmin or even on token sites... even they believe in splitcamming and not putting all the eggs in one basket :)) I look at their stats and splitting on 2 sites really boosts their income.

It's so amazing! I thought I "lost" that profile as I havent been online for like 5 months there, but it's good to know that i can return anytime. I'll just need the bluetooth adapter for the lush. Splitting only when it's slow could help sticking out these slow periods. I made $20 in 4 hours and another $15 on Skyprivate, it's like pulling teeth...

Edit: Lol you're not bugging me, I'm really thankful for every info you share about your hustle! You're so inspiring, I love reading your posts, you give so much positive energy! xx

Cutie101
01-13-2022, 07:46 AM
It's so amazing! I thought I "lost" that profile as I havent been online for like 5 months there, but it's good to know that i can return anytime. I'll just need the bluetooth adapter for the lush. Splitting only when it's slow could help sticking out these slow periods. I made $20 in 4 hours and another $15 on Skyprivate, it's like pulling teeth...

I made $67 in 10 hours, 2 days ago. Yesterday I would have made $30 if it wasn't for my regs and today maybe $5... in almost 9 hours now. And I am still $50 away from my goal, altough a reg came and made most of my money.
It is definitely pulling teeth, I am actually considering to come back to splitcamming from tomorow. I got myself the Exclusive Model badge on Jasmin and it does absolutely nothing, I saw no traffic increase, so yeah.
I get you.
As Dark Souls (a video game series) players like to say: "Hang in there, skeleton!" :)))

freyasnecklace
01-13-2022, 08:15 AM
Getting ready. I’m running late today. I’m going to need 350-450 today. I feel like today is the day I get that in 2 hours. ** repeats the mantra ** :)

Finally getting on after a long hunt for my missing jewel butt plug. Found it in my laundry.

Well, I’ve made $70 in two hours. Not phenomenal, but STFOOOOO bitches

MissAdriana
01-13-2022, 11:56 AM
Sorry didn’t want to be negative, but back trying again and sitting for up to 30 minutes with not a sole entering my chat room.

Hun this is the stay the fuck on thread not the sit for 60 minutes and leave thread. It takes a long time to build a following and a lot of hours. If you don't have the time I understand. I know it's hard sit online with nobody but if you do have the time you are holding yourself back by logging off. You won't make more money by logging off

For any ladies on SM this week sticking it out good luck ! The connection issues are rampant it seems like some of the guys aren't able to chat

I'm trying out stripchat again this week for fun, almost at my 8 hours... we'll see how it pays off

MsJess
01-13-2022, 12:03 PM
Sorry didn’t want to be negative, but back trying again and sitting for up to 30 minutes with not a sole entering my chat room.

Did you try gold shows? maybe 1 gold for 5 mins, teasing, maybe blow job with toy, that way you can show the guys you are good at what you do and they will come back for more :)

MsJess
01-13-2022, 12:04 PM
Staying on pays off after a while, I have been making money off my regs only, no new members, but I'm making money hehe
Need to stay on longer to attrack new guys tho!

LeilaB
01-13-2022, 12:06 PM
I logged in and made 1.75 in 1 hour. And ZERO a people entering the room. I guess it time to go back to a token site. At least I had traffic

It's one of those really bad days. In 6 hours, I had 3 full hours when I made nothing. Just sitting in the deadness. I'm at $38 now, but I do 2 more hrs to hit 8, then bye for today. :D
Working on token sites is a totally different hustle, but it's definitely worth trying if you are comfortable with that, and feeling stressed because of SM. Hopefully it works out for you, and we can hear about your success! xx

freyasnecklace
01-13-2022, 12:26 PM
113 in nearly 3 hrs. I mean, it is still more than min wage.

freyasnecklace
01-13-2022, 12:40 PM
I have stayed on for 3 hours and it hasn’t improved. How long am I suppose to sit with no traffic and no money. 10 hours. Then wasted 10 hours of my life I can never get back.

It’s not improving.

Would anyone sit longer when they have zero traffic just potentials for not even 1 gold. I mean it’s a total waste of time. I could do just about anything, including picking up cans for more money. It’s a waste of time and electricity.

GIRL. You are burnt out. SM is not working for you. Apply to new sites or a vanilla job. Anything but torturing yourself and also bringing down us.

I want success for you! You’ve got to get some new baskets for them eggs! Shit, stripping will get you cash quick if you can be seductive and work a room. Apply to a few sites, make 3 short clips, apply to a vanilla job— that’s another way to stfo— just keep going even if it is finding more avenues of money.

Genoveve
01-13-2022, 01:30 PM
But sorry I just can’t

Then don't. It's clearly not working for you. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.

Marina Starr
01-13-2022, 02:23 PM
https://i.ibb.co/7JxWvrg/NR5N.gif (https://imgbb.com/)

Genoveve
01-13-2022, 02:37 PM
So I guess I will just go on welfare.

I guess so.

LeilaB
01-13-2022, 02:55 PM
I did the planned 8 hours today. Made $48 on SM and $18 on Skyprivate, it was such a slow day, but at least I surpassed my low money goal and did 8 fuckin hours! I've never done 8 hours a day before, my max was 7,5. So eventually I'm proud of sticking it out. I'll be back tomorrow!

Marina Starr
01-13-2022, 03:23 PM
I find it sad that you thought what I posted was funny.


Glad u find it funny, I don’t think it’s funny

LeilaB
01-13-2022, 03:34 PM
Please ban me from this forum. I don’t need members laughing at my struggles. And

Nobody's laughting at you..Your posts are getting deleted but you still keep posting the same thing. I think nobody thinks what you're doing is funny, it is rather sad to see you are, as a grown woman, humiliating yourself with this behaviour. I really don't want to offend you with my words, but you've received a lot of helping posts, and ruining the morale here won't solve your problems.

Marina Starr
01-13-2022, 03:38 PM
I posted that gif of me being speechless and didn't know what to say anymore. I will just read and stop replying. My peace is worth more to me.


Nobody's laughting at you..Your posts are getting deleted but you still keep posting the same thing. I think nobody thinks what you're doing is funny, it is rather sad to see you are, as a grown woman, humiliating yourself with this behaviour. I really don't want to offend you with my words, but you've received a lot of helping posts, and ruining the morale here won't solve your problems.