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Teddy_Bear
01-13-2022, 03:44 PM
STFO worked for me today! 8hrs but I hit my goal and traffic was much better. Apologies everyone if I've been a bit of a Debbie Downer so far this month. Things seem to have turned a corner though and I've reached goal the past 2 days.

I'm glad I didn't rage quit and stop trying for the week, that was the old Teddy lol.

laurielegs
01-13-2022, 03:48 PM
You know when someone is depressed they are not always seeing things as they are.

Laura, I've been where you are. I didn't have insurance and couldn't really get the help I needed so I had to handle it myself to try to make enough to survive. My depression did show on cam. I hope you can get some help though. Would be well worth trying to find treatment.

Maybe this will help you or someone else that reads. One thing I did during the worst of my depression was pretend I was an actress hired to play the part of a sultry camgirl. I know a lot advise to "be yourself" but I was a depressed frustrated mess so I couldn't . Allowing my depression to show was a boner killer for sure. I still use that to get on cam and keep going when I'm upset about something, just being an actress and playing a part. Also helps me to deal with trolls. They aren't responding to me. I'm just an actress, an image on a screen.

You can't blame Streamate totally because there are still lots of cam hosts pulling in major money. It could be though that another site may work better for you. I'm registered on most of the major sites. I work a lot of sites because I enjoy staying busy so I splitcam and keep adding sites when its slow until money starts coming in.
I'm not young and cute. I'm old, have a chronic illness and low on energy so I feel like if I can do it most can too. I slap on a cute wig and lots of makeup and play the part of a sultry hot older woman and the money does come in. Also I'm amazed at how much difference raising my price has made. I enjoy it much more because the customers are better quality. It takes a lot of experimenting but it's amazing when you find something that works.

baileyhawke
01-13-2022, 04:09 PM
You’ve got to get some new baskets for them eggs! Shit, stripping will get you cash quick if you can be seductive and work a room. Apply to a few sites, make 3 short clips, apply to a vanilla job— that’s another way to stfo— just keep going even if it is finding more avenues of money.

This really is the best advice--sign up to new sites, take some pictures, record some clips, record some audios. The content you make is gold, when you get started on new sites you have that content ready and waiting to be uploaded, for those new customers on those new sites to buy. An empty room on one site does not mean your workday has to be fruitless.

Burnout and depression are real, ugly beasts, but you have the choice to make your day productive. This is an industry forum--we all make the choice to get on, stay on, and do stuff that makes us money. If SM isn't serving you and isn't bringing you money, make the choice to try more sites, make more content, and do something that actually serves you.

Venting and complaining about your lack of earnings and baiting about account deletions and bans might blow off a little steam in the moment but it doesn't address the actual issue at hand--it doesn't serve you, taking action and committing to doing new things will.

freyasnecklace
01-13-2022, 04:45 PM
I decided to log the fuck off and make a clip. I really love the clip, so hopefully it was a good time investment. Going to get back on tonight.

whirlerz
01-13-2022, 05:03 PM
Laura, I've been where you are. I didn't have insurance and couldn't really get the help I needed so I had to handle it myself to try to make enough to survive. My depression did show on cam. I hope you can get some help though. Would be well worth trying to find treatment.

Maybe this will help you or someone else that reads. One thing I did during the worst of my depression was pretend I was an actress hired to play the part of a sultry camgirl. I know a lot advise to "be yourself" but I was a depressed frustrated mess so I couldn't . Allowing my depression to show was a boner killer for sure. I still use that to get on cam and keep going when I'm upset about something, just being an actress and playing a part. Also helps me to deal with trolls. They aren't responding to me. I'm just an actress, an image on a screen.

You can't blame Streamate totally because there are still lots of cam hosts pulling in major money. It could be though that another site may work better for you. I'm registered on most of the major sites. I work a lot of sites because I enjoy staying busy so I splitcam and keep adding sites when its slow until money starts coming in.
I'm not young and cute. I'm old, have a chronic illness and low on energy so I feel like if I can do it most can too. I slap on a cute wig and lots of makeup and play the part of a sultry hot older woman and the money does come in. Also I'm amazed at how much difference raising my price has made. I enjoy it much more because the customers are better quality. It takes a lot of experimenting but it's amazing when you find something that works.

Great advice,vI been wanting to raise for some time now, also I'm waiting on 1 approval, going to try some other sites..

I'm finally doing better after many years of on & off and, updating my computer & cam using a wired connection

Marina Starr
01-13-2022, 05:11 PM
I've always found your posts motivating!

I also have the bad habit of stop trying for the week if I have a slow start but I've been working on it.


STFO worked for me today! 8hrs but I hit my goal and traffic was much better. Apologies everyone if I've been a bit of a Debbie Downer so far this month. Things seem to have turned a corner though and I've reached goal the past 2 days.

I'm glad I didn't rage quit and stop trying for the week, that was the old Teddy lol.

ravenskyy
01-13-2022, 05:52 PM
I definitely had to get off of SM today, but I'm dealing with covid, so I'm low energy and feeling like complete garbage. It sucks to be doing so poorly right now. All my sites are dead and my regulars are being cheap asf. I can't quit though, because I will lose everything if I do. And I won't give up, because that's not me.

I'm just going to do what I can for now, make what I can, and try to find reasons to smile. I definitely empathize with you Laura. Please just take a break from the forum, SM and don't be so hard on yourself. Treat yourself to some ice cream and a nap, if possible.

Cutie101
01-13-2022, 09:10 PM
New day, took me 30 minutes extra to put makeup on because I made the mistake to let youtube play. Never again, lol.

Anyway, 10 hours as usual. Yesterday I only managed to put 9 hours because it was super slow and I took longer breaks. Oh, well :)))

Edit: Surpassed my goal in the first 30 minutes thanks to a reg, of course. Why the fuck any new decent member would start spending in my first 3 hours online?!?!

https://media.giphy.com/media/79Me16Kc5zCBW/giphy.gif

Anyway, I was super tempted to log off and take the day off, but I'll sit for 9 more hours. Meanwhile, I had enough of the "Exclusive model" badge on Jasmin. It does absolutely nothing, so I removed it and opened SM, CB and MFC again 8)8)

Teddy_Bear
01-14-2022, 03:12 AM
I've always found your posts motivating!

I also have the bad habit of stop trying for the week if I have a slow start but I've been working on it.

Thank you Marina. I thought my posts were slipping into annoying territory what with how slow January started for me. I suppose everyone has the right to rant or vent occasionally.

Hope you are smashing that 10hr goal this week :)

Vlodina
01-14-2022, 07:07 AM
Such a shite week for me. But I kept coming back for more! Today is looking like a pretty sexy day so far yay and I've finally reached my minimum goal for the week.
My hourly average is shocking, I've done 29 hours! And I'll be working later today, and will fit in a couple of hours tomorrow. Glad I persevered!

MissAdriana
01-14-2022, 08:58 AM
I definitely had to get off of SM today, but I'm dealing with covid, so I'm low energy and feeling like complete garbage.

Get well soon hun! Can't wait to see you back and better than ever

STFO hasn't really paid off for me so big the last couple weeks but the bills are all paid so I wont complain!!!

Marina Starr
01-14-2022, 09:17 AM
Stayed the fuck on and happy with what I made this week. I'll make eggplant parmesan. Comfort food is good for hoes!

Teddy_Bear
01-14-2022, 10:02 AM
2hrs into a 6hr shift or 8hrs if I can stay longer tonight and so far i can't complain, back to my usual hourly and not one reg in sight that's always a good sign.

UPDATE: 4.5hrs in and it slowed way down so much so I'm still $30 away from goal, which we all know means $100 away when you work Streamate. It started so well... another 1.5hrs to go.

Final Update: I didn't hit goal because traffic just fell off a cliff but I did do my hours, I'm proud of myself for STFO for $0 that last hour. New day tomorrow!

freyasnecklace
01-14-2022, 12:24 PM
About to get on and stay on 5-9 hrs. My mind is re-set and I’m going to be less bothered by any hang ups I have with RP and Fetish rules on SM— because guess what, Freya? Just stay the hell away from borderline problem shows. Then I’ll get rid I’of questionable custies and have the safe ones left! I’m also going to just sail along with the slower traffic. Usually, if I stfo, I still make a nice check— even if it’s on my low goal side.

Positive Attitude makes for good streaming vibes. Today I’m also going to make a good LJ pic and get ready to have them as an alternative or main site. I think I might bid on CMD (old) because I’m getting decent secondary cash there. MV has been slower for me, so I’m going to make SM safe clips for both sites because I get more sales on SM. My clip was rejected their yesterday because I think it was too close to CNC (it had a gooning/mesmerize vibe and they flagged it as non-consensual… fyi in case anyone does those).

Hope everyone hits their goals this week <3

freyasnecklace
01-14-2022, 02:43 PM
Hour 1: Slow. $44 isn’t horrible though
Hour 2: $100 split between CMD, indie, SM
Hour 5: made ~ $400 total, and I’m done. Money seems great right now, but I’ve got a minor family emergency.

Week total is almost $1300. Last week was 1600, so maybe I can beat it tomorrow.

Genoveve
01-14-2022, 03:27 PM
My goal was 4 hours but it is so dead I think I'm going to have to shorten it to 3. My first 90 minutes weren't amazing but they were steady, but then in the last thirty minutes my traffic completely died and I don't think I made anything in the last twenty, so for two hours total I ended up doing shitty. I took like a thirty minute break, just came back on to do my last hour and it is still completely dead.

waogtrain
01-14-2022, 03:36 PM
Sunday and Monday were great for me. Tuesday and Wednesday lowered my morale. Took yesterday off to recharge and am actually excited to get back on cam today. Figured I'd rather give myself time off this week than get burnt out especially considering that I want to reach the 25 hours goal next week and will most likely be feeling the burn out then.

Genoveve
01-14-2022, 04:33 PM
I just got lucky. I was trying to do my last hour and it was so dead, in the first 20 minutes I only had one guy go pvt for a minute(which means in a total of like 40 minutes that's all I did). I suspected there were issues because my last couple shows were REALLY short and no one was communicative in them, I was 2.5 hours in and only had like $130 which is crazy because I cannot remember the last time I did three hours and didn't make over $200. But then someone went exclusive and had zero issues and then I had a little rush so at 3 hours I hit $209. I might end up going for my last 4th hour because I'm about to bake a chicken and it's gotta sit in the oven for over 90 minutes, and I got nothing else to do for that time but wait. :hungry:

Vlodina
01-14-2022, 05:07 PM
7.55 hours today and $419. Thank fuck considering my week until today!
32.5 hours for the week and sitting at $916
Maybe manage 3 hours tomorrow, 4 if I'm really lucky time wise.

Genoveve
01-14-2022, 05:42 PM
Well my chicken is in the oven and I'm back online but it's dead AF. Giving it 10-15 min and if it doesn't get busy I am bouncing.

kamiliam
01-14-2022, 05:53 PM
^i just did. Was gonna start my hopefully 5+ hours tonight to finish up the week, but will start in a bit now. Giving up on hour goal for this week but after tonight should hit 22 hours. I’m at low $ goal without tonight and so the advice I should probably take is that is an incentive to stfo and ride it out without pressure. But I plan on 30+ next week even if I am sucking in the contest, so I’ll go with the 5.


Did 4 hours, but I made half my money in the last 1.5 hour so there’s that.

Genoveve
01-14-2022, 06:10 PM
Well I gave it 30 min and it was dead AF, I did two short exclu and that's it so in 3.5 hours I'm at $226 which is my worst shift in a long time. So most likely if I had done 4 hours I would have made under $300 and I cannot remember the last time that has happened. Not looking forward to the contest that's for sure, but at least I have no pressure to hit the hours goal because the bonus is so small.

ETA ended up doing another half hour to hit 4 out of boredom. Was hoping that it would be one of those miraculous times where a random dude shows up and tips a lot of money for no reason but no such luck, ended up with $267. Possibly the worst 4 hour shift I have had since like 2019. Grateful to have at least made over $250 though.

Cutie101
01-14-2022, 09:09 PM
Yesterday I bailed after only 4 hours. Apparently this week, despite my 3 days off, I was a little out of focus and been a naughty girl lol. Still finishing the week at 50 hours, which is not bad. Tomorow I am off, today I am gonna do the full 10 hours because it's Saturday and saturdays are usually good. We'll see...
But next week, no more excuses, full 60 hours!

kortneykay
01-14-2022, 11:20 PM
This is what staying the **** on has done for me this week. 56462 the reason I feel slighted is because they did the same thing when I joined a studio years ago. All of my favourites were missing until last week I'm on Page Six or seven when I'm live and I'm back down to four stars so I'm going to have to work very hard but putting in so many hours and not getting any money is a waste of time. SM have shadow banned me again basically.

nattyfetish
01-15-2022, 04:27 AM
Well I gave it 30 min and it was dead AF, I did two short exclu and that's it so in 3.5 hours I'm at $226 which is my worst shift in a long time. So most likely if I had done 4 hours I would have made under $300 and I cannot remember the last time that has happened. Not looking forward to the contest that's for sure, but at least I have no pressure to hit the hours goal because the bonus is so small.

ETA ended up doing another half hour to hit 4 out of boredom. Was hoping that it would be one of those miraculous times where a random dude shows up and tips a lot of money for no reason but no such luck, ended up with $267. Possibly the worst 4 hour shift I have had since like 2019. Grateful to have at least made over $250 though.

wow, you do realise 250 in 4 h it is actually damn good for most girls? be proud, shit happens, there are good and bad days ! I sometimes stay on 8 h for 250 dollars and other times i do them in 1 h ! This is what happenswhen you stfo, some hopurs are inevitable dead, like in any shop - there are rush hours and dead ones ! hahaha

you can do it ! tomorrow will be better !

Cutie101
01-15-2022, 04:36 AM
wow, you do realise 250 in 4 h it is actually damn good for most girls? be proud, shit happens, there are good and bad days ! I sometimes stay on 8 h for 250 dollars and other times i do them in 1 h ! This is what happenswhen you stfo, some hopurs are inevitable dead, like in any shop - there are rush hours and dead ones ! hahaha

you can do it ! tomorrow will be better !

True, if I'd make $250- $300 in 4 hours... like knowing for sure I login and make it, I'd be woahahahaha!!! I would have a LIFE 8)
This is a really good amount for such a short time, I mean.. yes. Woah!
Btw Genoveve, considering how good you are, I'd stay more if I were you. You can easily do $1k days if you STFO for longer! :O

Miss_ShaSha
01-15-2022, 06:17 AM
After healing for so long from a cold I'm ready to GTFO & STFO. I'm behind on a bill & want to make enough this week to cover it then STFO next week to get ahead.

Gonna shower, wait for heater to warm up the apt, then go go goooooo. Kk Sha, let's do this!!!

UPDATE:

2h 8m and it's very slow. I've made $59 and I'm grateful AF! While I still feel pretty poor, most of the symptoms are gone. So glad I'm mostly better. STFO til 12pm CST.

UPDATE:

3 hrs and I've made what I need to for that bill. Gonna break then maybe get back on. I feel pretty poor, but one of my regs said I look amazing. Haha, that's so weird. I feel like shit :D

freyasnecklace
01-15-2022, 06:56 AM
After healing for so long from a cold I'm ready to GTFO & STFO. I'm behind on a bill & want to make enough this week to cover it then STFO next week to get ahead.

Gonna shower, wait for heater to warm up the apt, then go go goooooo. Kk Sha, let's do this!!!

Glad you’re feeling better!! Get that money ShaSha and cutie.

I’m about to get ready and On. There is a crazy wind storm where I’m at, though. Power might go off.

Cutie101
01-15-2022, 07:00 AM
After healing for so long from a cold I'm ready to GTFO & STFO. I'm behind on a bill & want to make enough this week to cover it then STFO next week to get ahead.

Gonna shower, wait for heater to warm up the apt, then go go goooooo. Kk Sha, let's do this!!!

Honestly, you didn't miss absolutely anything. It was a super slow week. Totally grateful for my regs otherwise... damn :))



Glad you’re feeling better!! Get that money ShaSha and cutie.

I’m about to get ready and On. There is a crazy wind storm where I’m at, though. Power might go off.

Oh, I hope the power doesn't go off tho and you get those $$$!!

Miss_ShaSha
01-15-2022, 07:11 AM
Glad you’re feeling better!! Get that money ShaSha and cutie.

I’m about to get ready and On. There is a crazy wind storm where I’m at, though. Power might go off.

Thanks. I tested negative for COVID then got sick. It was real bad since I live alone. Glad to be back.

Yeah, just got a report from my energy provider that a possible power outage may occur. Let's hope we are spared.


Honestly, you didn't miss absolutely anything. It was a super slow week. Totally grateful for my regs otherwise... damn :))


Oh, I hope the power doesn't go off tho and you get those $$$!!

Phew, that's comforting to know. Your STFO powers are phenomenal.

LeilaB
01-15-2022, 08:03 AM
After healing for so long from a cold I'm ready to GTFO & STFO. I'm behind on a bill & want to make enough this week to cover it then STFO next week to get ahead.

Gonna shower, wait for heater to warm up the apt, then go go goooooo. Kk Sha, let's do this!!!

I'm happy to learn that you're well already! I just remembered this morning what might be with you as I haven't seen posts from you lately. Good luck sister, your foot slaves must have been missing you!! <3

Miss_ShaSha
01-15-2022, 08:19 AM
I'm happy to learn that you're well already! I just remembered this morning what might be with you as I haven't seen posts from you lately. Good luck sister, your foot slaves must have been missing you!! <3

Thank you lil sis! I sure hope they come by :) Let's do this!!!

MissAdriana
01-15-2022, 09:02 AM
I'm at $226 which is my worst shift in a long time.

You are doing amazing sweetie. Worst shift since 2019 is great obviously you are only getting better with time!

I'm in for 10...well I'm going to do 10 hrs. I'm going to. I swear. LOL so long as nothing happens.. No I'm doing it ...hope it goes fast

minibagel
01-15-2022, 11:42 AM
Don’t feel too bad. I have great placement. And have no traffic and can’t make anything either. I sat 2 hours and made $7. So sometimes a great placement doesn’t help either.

i have great placement too and it's been slow for sure this week, you are not alone! big hugs. also are you checking your stream to make sure you are showing as online? i have gotten the offline screen glitch a few times which is prob the worst glitch of all time


*
11.5 hrs so far this week, maybe i'll get to 12-13 before cut off.

freyasnecklace
01-15-2022, 12:26 PM
I had a WHALEEEEEEE!!!!! And now I finally hit 2k across two platforms for this week just in tiiime. I could cry. Thanks crazy fetish dude. Now I can stop and get ready for my son's 9th bday party!

56465

Miss_ShaSha
01-15-2022, 01:10 PM
I had a WHALEEEEEEE!!!!! And now I finally hit 2k across two platforms for this week just in tiiime. I could cry. Thanks crazy fetish dude. Now I can stop and get ready for my son's 9th bday party!

56465

HOLY SHIT! That hourly hahahaaa RAD! Enjoy the day. YAY!!!!

Genoveve
01-15-2022, 03:08 PM
wow, you do realise 250 in 4 h it is actually damn good for most girls? be proud, shit happens, there are good and bad days ! I sometimes stay on 8 h for 250 dollars and other times i do them in 1 h ! This is what happenswhen you stfo, some hopurs are inevitable dead, like in any shop - there are rush hours and dead ones ! hahaha

you can do it ! tomorrow will be better !

Tbh I'm happy any time I average over $50/hr because that's the lowest money I could average while still being able to live comfortably on part time hours. However I also think that some ego and entitlement can be healthy for the attraction of abundance.


Btw Genoveve, considering how good you are, I'd stay more if I were you. You can easily do $1k days if you STFO for longer! :O

I would burn out quickly. The busier it is, the less time I can stay online for because it's very draining. When I have days where I'm constantly in and out of pvt/exclu the max I can stay on is like 3 hours because it is so draining(unless I drank a ton of espresso or something). Camming--at least the way I do it--requires a lot of mental energy because it's performing, it's non-stop improv, and I can only be 'on' for so long. It's not something that can be mindlessly done on autopilot.

Genoveve
01-15-2022, 04:20 PM
I did 3 hours today, I wanted to do 4 but the first 3 were busy and now I'm tired AND I have to go drive across town to feed my mom's dogs. MAYBE I can do one more later so I will feel accomplished. Saturday days went from being my least favorite shift to my most favorite.

Vlodina
01-15-2022, 05:14 PM
Midnight and I'm done for the week!
35.79 hours this week, I am proud of myself, especially as several days were completely awful.
$339 today for 3.5 hours (don't get my 4+ hour gold star in my journal, but such is life at the weekend). But that ruins my streak of 6 days with a star haha

liquidsilk
01-15-2022, 06:10 PM
I want a journal with gold stars now :(

freyasnecklace
01-15-2022, 06:21 PM
Now, I’m thinking I should gold star cam journal too. I have a spreadsheet and like 3 progress checking apps haha. I like constantly watching my time/money/ and customers increase or decrease. Seeing what is the popular theme for the day. Anyone notice they get rushes of the same sort of show? Like it links the moon cycle or some shit.

liquidsilk
01-15-2022, 06:41 PM
56467

Lusia
01-15-2022, 07:08 PM
Hello girls!
Just wanna say thank you for everyone contributing positively to this thread, it has really helped me keep my sanity and stay online more. This week has been by far my worst week ever, with days where I made like $50-$70 in 4 hours online. I'd be seriously depressed if it wasn't for this thread.

Currently on 6.5 hours with $68, Jesussss... I miss making $200 in 3-4 hours... I can't remember last time i made $500 in a shift.

I'm gonna STFO this whole week, my goal is $1500 and hope to get something nice from the contest too.

Seems it's already picking up a bit as the new week started on SM.
8 hours and $167, I'll try to STFO 2 more hours. Can't believe how hard I have to work for my money right now, but I'm not giving up!


LE: Finished the shift with 10 hours online and $265. Funny how I said I miss making $200 in 4 hours and that's what I made once the new week officially started. Haha :D Cool, logging off grateful and proud. It's not much but it's honest work LOL

kortneykay
01-15-2022, 07:09 PM
I think each of us have good and bad days, some have big or small goals. As someone who joined in 2013 it's factually evident that the sites (am and all) have lost significant amounts of money and traffic. A $400 day used to take mere hours. We used to do camathons weekly and make more than that. To me its the goals and not how long it took. It's the 35% at 13 years and watching things fizzle and sitting 8h for $20 total when it used to net you $500-700 for me.

Vlodina
01-16-2022, 12:58 AM
I want a journal with gold stars now :(

Work gold stars, and colourful holographic exercise stars!!
56468

laurielegs
01-16-2022, 01:01 AM
This is what staying the **** on has done for me this week. 56462 the reason I feel slighted is because they did the same thing when I joined a studio years ago. All of my favourites were missing until last week I'm on Page Six or seven when I'm live and I'm back down to four stars so I'm going to have to work very hard but putting in so many hours and not getting any money is a waste of time. SM have shadow banned me again basically.

I was focusing on clips awhile back and I had the same thing happen when my ratings dropped to 4 stars. I had a few 5 star ratings but not enough to bring it back up.

I was way on the back pages of the site where I couldn't be seen unless someone was searching for my exact name. Once I finally got 5 stars again I got my placement and traffic back.

I'm guessing that's a big part of the issue. It's so annoying because I had to harass every single guy to rate me and so few did and it seemed to take forever. I hope it picks up so you can get those stars back.

~Carmen~
01-16-2022, 01:04 AM
Work gold stars, and colourful holographic exercise stars!!
56468

Love that!! I'm going to get a journal and some stars too. I love that it's old fashioned and not electronic.

nattyfetish
01-16-2022, 02:22 AM
Tbh I'm happy any time I average over $50/hr because that's the lowest money I could average while still being able to live comfortably on part time hours. However I also think that some ego and entitlement can be healthy for the attraction of abundance.



I would burn out quickly. The busier it is, the less time I can stay online for because it's very draining. When I have days where I'm constantly in and out of pvt/exclu the max I can stay on is like 3 hours because it is so draining(unless I drank a ton of espresso or something). Camming--at least the way I do it--requires a lot of mental energy because it's performing, it's non-stop improv, and I can only be 'on' for so long. It's not something that can be mindlessly done on autopilot.

Oh ofc, we should always aim for more ! I was just trying to cheer you up as it could always be worse. You rock for beeing able to pull out constantly more than 250$ per 4 h shift!

I am aware of how mentally draining it is. I work in fetish and most of the work is mental fuckery. The regulars i hate the most are the ones that don't make me move my ass for a second but drain my mental powers with their way of beeing.
You could try upping your prices, that could either go 2 ways: you do more money in 4 h OR you can stay on longer (with free chat breaks) but catch bigger whales. Back to back privates do drain you in the long run TOUGH they give me an adrenaline rush when they happen to me (for me it's let's say once or twice per week in a 7h shift lol).

You know you the best so I am sure you do the best possible for yourself.

NOWWWW I try to convince my ass to go online, I am 30 minutes late already LOL ! OK OK , there we go, I will do 6 h and half today as yesterday i did 7 h and a half ( i try to mentain my 7 h per day goal and than little by little go to 8h per day).

~Carmen~
01-16-2022, 02:23 AM
Work gold stars, and colourful holographic exercise stars!!
56468

I'm also ordering these pens. I can't wait to start!

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07HHSBPS4/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?smid=A1QV98I53HBWJ&psc=1

Vlodina
01-16-2022, 02:31 AM
[QUOTE=~Carmen~;3264945]I'm also ordering these pens. I can't wait to start!

[url]https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07HHSBPS4/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?smid=A1QV98I53HBWJ&p
Hope it works for you. I like seeing all the stars that I've earned. If do 8 hours then I get two. Haha!