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Vlodina
01-28-2022, 09:33 AM
I don't have long on a Friday morning as school is only for 3.5 hours but I cammed for 2 hours and it was decent. Perhaps they got paid!

pippapippa
01-28-2022, 08:56 PM
Going to see if in some possible way I can make 810.66 in the next three days. I have plenty of time to put in hours on Saturday and Sunday. I made $228.46 in about 3 hours tonight so it’s possible but this week has either been nothing in hours or incredibly busy and I have no idea what the next few days hold. I’ll be on regardless.

Cutie101
01-28-2022, 09:44 PM
Back to push for the last 3 days of the month.
Man, this week has been such a lazy and procrastinating one. I finally broke down, after 4 months of pushing hard. I took yesterday off, wednesday and thursday I have put only 5 hours per shift. I was fortunate to make some good $$ in the first 3 hours and I said, fuck it... I will RELAX.

I am 25 hours away from my 200 hours goal. since I'll put 10 hours a day, in 3 days I'll reach it. As much as I wanted to end at 240 hours, I couldn't. Too tired. In february I will also take it easy. In the begining of the month I will be on period so I take 4 days off (next weekend), then I'll probably work for 2 weeks and the last week it will be a well deserved vacation (if all the restrictions are being lifted).

ravenskyy
01-29-2022, 01:03 AM
Night shift definitely isn't for me. I'm glad that I only have to do it once a week because I am making nooooo money on SM, during these night shifts. I made $400 on sextpanther though, so I guess I'm not mad lol but I need SM money so I can get my Boleyn Model bonus!!! Arghhh!

I'm staying on for one more hour and then I'm out! I might have to start working Saturday mornings. Ugh!

Teddy_Bear
01-29-2022, 10:46 AM
Well today I've earned double yesterday's total for 6hrs in my first 2hrs online. Yesterday was so painful and I had that QL glitch alllll day it wasn't ideal considering I was coming back from a 2 day break. Taking a quick break to eat and then back on for 4 more (hopefully busy and glitch free) hours.

Back online for my last 4hrs let's do this!

emkato
01-29-2022, 11:34 AM
Night shift definitely isn't for me. I'm glad that I only have to do it once a week because I am making nooooo money on SM, during these night shifts. I made $400 on sextpanther though, so I guess I'm not mad lol but I need SM money so I can get my Boleyn Model bonus!!! Arghhh!

I'm staying on for one more hour and then I'm out! I might have to start working Saturday mornings. Ugh!

I haven't used SP in a hot minute but a SM reg found me on there and wanted to chat and tip me on SP instead because he doesn't like how much of a percentage SM takes from their models (his words) and I've made almost $200 just from chatting with him alone the past 2 days. I've been getting a bunch of new contacts adding me as well so hopefully it will help boost us up when SM is slow!

Coolbeans
01-29-2022, 11:39 AM
Wow! I found this forum back in the day when I was dancing like 10 years ago and completely forgot about it!! I had to make a new account no idea what my old one was.

Well hello every one! I’m doing 12hr shifts for five days starting today. Not very optimistic about it considering I’ve made 100$ in the past 16hrs on Sm plus a little more on split camming another site. This week has been the slowest one yet for me! Not giving up I see dolla signs :))

emkato
01-29-2022, 11:42 AM
Wow! I found this forum back in the day when I was dancing like 10 years ago and completely forgot about it!! I had to make a new account no idea what my old one was.

Well hello every one! I’m doing 12hr shifts for five days starting today. Not very optimistic about it considering I’ve made 100$ in the past 16hrs on Sm plus a little more on split camming another site. This week has been the slowest one yet for me! Not giving up I see dolla signs :))

sorry if this seems so random but your username unlocked a memory for me! lol


https://youtu.be/TOUrLn1FFCA?t=22

Coolbeans
01-29-2022, 12:26 PM
Can honestly say I have never seen that in my life but it’s amazing ;D;D

pippapippa
01-29-2022, 03:41 PM
I’ve worked three hours so far and have made $40. Hopefully tonight and tomorrow are massive improvements

Teddy_Bear
01-29-2022, 08:23 PM
Finished my hours and I wanted to log off at the 5hr mark with my medium goal when at the 5hr 10min mark this happened...

56551 56552

I'm so glad I STFO I literally tripled my money and hit high goal! What an awesome end to the week :D

There's still money on Streamate ladies we have to log on to be there for it.

pippapippa
01-29-2022, 08:45 PM
Ended up making $205.47 in about 6.5 hours today, so I guess it could worse but it could certainly also be better. My last day shift was awful but I averaged About $47/hour tonight which I’m happy with. Probably not going to hit my goal but I generally do well on Sunday.

kortneykay
01-30-2022, 08:42 AM
I told myself I wanted an excellent $unday. I reluctantly updated my photos to see if i would get any interest and $400 so far in an hour with plenty of time all day/night with horny Indys.

freyasnecklace
01-30-2022, 08:59 AM
I’ve decided to change my schedule and start working Sundays. Since I have kids, I usually work vanilla hours. However, I make more in 2 hrs on Sunday and Monday evenings than the entirety of most Tuesday. Ha! So, I’m going to stfo this afternoon/evening.

Yesterday was good, btw. I had a short window to work—but I did it and added another $200 before the SM/CMD week ended.

Good luck with your stfo!

Cutie101
01-30-2022, 10:40 PM
Last day of the month, 9 hours left to put my 200 hours goal, so gonna complete it and say buh bye to January.

Snowgirl
01-30-2022, 11:52 PM
New week, new month and I'm so inspired by you girls! I want my income to be more stable for that I should be online every day. Even if I can't make yet 8-10 hours daily still I'm sure I can do 5 hours without days off all Feb, except 4 days for my period.
I need to train myself to be consistent, and maybe in some time I can do 8 hours daily. That's the plan, let's start it!

freyasnecklace
01-31-2022, 01:48 PM
Shift one: 3.5 hrs $274
Shit two: goal is 3 hrs and around the same amount
Edit: Goal met! $276 in 2.5. $540 ish for the day.

Good luck everyone

Snowgirl
02-01-2022, 01:23 AM
I went to bed yesterday at 8pm following Cutie's advice, so I woke up early today and full of energy. And I went online first thing in the morning, lately I needed a few hours before I go online. And I made my mid goal in 2 hours. Now I'm having a break for a breakfast and usually I wouldn't go back online. But from now I'll do my hours no matter what. I still make long breaks from to time but in time I hope to reduce them to min so I'll work more hours per day. For now my main goal is to go online every day and make my hours. I'm happy that I managed to do that today and excited how this Feb will go for me!

Cutie101
02-01-2022, 01:30 AM
I went to bed yesterday at 8pm following Cutie's advice, so I woke up early today and full of energy. And I went online first thing in the morning, lately I needed a few hours before I go online. And I made my mid goal in 2 hours. Now I'm having a break for a breakfast and usually I wouldn't go back online. But from now I'll do my hours no matter what. I still make long breaks from to time but in time I hope to reduce them to min so I'll work more hours per day. For now my main goal is to go online every day and make my hours. I'm happy that I managed to do that today and excited how this Feb will go for me!

Yey! The first step has been taken! It means you can do it!!! You got this and you'll have a succesful february!

Snowgirl
02-01-2022, 01:54 AM
Yey! The first step has been taken! It means you can do it!!! You got this and you'll have a succesful february!


Thank you so much Cutie! You motivated me a lot! If you can do consistently 10-12 hours then I can do at least 5 for the start. Consistency is on the first place for me now. And I know I can do it, every day! I post here to stay accountable.

Cutie101
02-01-2022, 02:21 AM
Yesterday: $340 in the first 6 hours
Today: $20 in the first 5 hours.

Yay for mondays! Gonna put 1 more hour, take a break and come back to conquer 4 more.

Edit: In my second shift, made an extra $240 from ONE SINGLE CLIENT.

The only fucking client. DEAD DEAD DEAD DEAD.

In 10 hours. Dafuuuck!! I'm outta here!

Vlodina
02-01-2022, 06:43 AM
I've been online for 2.5 hours and it is paaainful on SM. $3.18 on SM, about $50 from all sources. Bored... Aiming for 6 hours.

Update: 4.75 hours and up to $142. So that's quite an improvement. Going to log off at 5 hour mark as I have to go out and do some things, but I'll be back later for at least one hour. But that's too easy, so I should do at least another 2.

LeilaB
02-01-2022, 08:00 AM
Deadzone here too. I have a new account, but this time the new tag doesn't help with traffic. 3,5 more hours today to hit 6, let's just stick it out and hope for the best...

FloridaSunDoll
02-01-2022, 11:09 AM
More like get the fuck on, but this morning I naturally woke up a few hours earlier than normal and felt entirely rested. Instead of laying in bed wasting time scrolling my phone decided to just get up and go online. I’m still an hour an hour away from my normal schedule start time and I’ve already smashed my low goal for the day. Now time to STFO and go for my high goal!

kortneykay
02-01-2022, 11:49 AM
Waking up early and finishing my top goals daily by 1:00 PM makes me so happy I have JSTFO!

Genoveve
02-01-2022, 03:51 PM
I've been online for 2.5 hours and it is paaainful on SM. $3.18 on SM, about $50 from all sources. Bored... Aiming for 6 hours..

Tell me about it. I just got my first pvt at the 28 minute mark. Literally had $2 in earnings before that.

Vlodina
02-01-2022, 04:46 PM
I did 7.2 hours today and I was sure as hell not rewarded for it lol
Back on tomorrow for 6 hours.

waogtrain
02-01-2022, 07:06 PM
1.5 hours, $7. Just aiming for 3 hours a day for the rest of the week. If it picks up later in the week, I'll aim for 5 hours a day.

edit: $32 in 3 hours. back on for at least 3 hours tomorrow

Genoveve
02-01-2022, 07:11 PM
I managed to hit $352 in 3.5 hours, but I had to dip out on my last reg. He usually spends under an hour in pvt before he hits his limit but he must have raised it. He showed up a little over an hour into my shift which I thought would be perfect since in an hour I'd have to go collect my new cat, he did one pvt that was maybe 15 min long. Then came back for another and the pvt wouldn't end. Finally after an hour and 2 minutes I had to just cut the show because I officially had to leave. At one point a few minutes before I had to leave his cam froze and I was like FINALLY since that's what happens when a guy hits his limit, but no it unfroze and he kept going.

Cutie101
02-01-2022, 09:33 PM
10 hours today. Already had a good start... with a reg, of course. We'll see what happens thorought the day.
For now, putting my first 6 hours shift, then 3 hrs break, then put 4 more.

Edit: One of my super whale regs came back. YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. YEhehehehhe!!! Finally a happy happy day!

Snowgirl
02-02-2022, 03:10 AM
Ended up yesterday doing only 4 hours, had to do some things related to camming so I think it's not that bad. I try to improve my tech, decor, outfits, etc. Still I think I should do this hour on some day this week, so at the end of the week it will be 35 hours done.
Also because of that things I was doing yesterday I went to bed later than I supposed so I had a late start today.

Vlodina
02-02-2022, 06:41 AM
Just starting my 3rd hour. It's been awful, making fuck all on all sites. :(
Won't manage 6 hours today after getting up late (seems that I'm incapable of dragging myself out of bed when my kid isn't here) but I'll do 5 total. Just hope it gets better. :/

freyasnecklace
02-02-2022, 07:17 AM
Just starting my 3rd hour. It's been awful, making fuck all on all sites. :(
Won't manage 6 hours today after getting up late (seems that I'm incapable of dragging myself out of bed when my kid isn't here) but I'll do 5 total. Just hope it gets better. :/

I noticed that I make more money and stay on longer on my kid week (their dad and I are every other week). Apparently when structure isn’t required, I throw it out the window hahaha … sad. Need to fix that.

freyasnecklace
02-02-2022, 01:00 PM
My internet has been down all freaking day. So mad. They said a 2 hour outage. LIES. I’ll have to make up soooo many hours.

Edit : came on and then SM was all glitchy. Always like that around their day change. Made 80$ in over hour. Getting back on after dinner

Vlodina
02-02-2022, 05:00 PM
At 19 hours for the week and should fit in another 13.

Not convinced that I'm going to reach my current minimum weekly goal. My hourly is shocking mate.

waogtrain
02-02-2022, 07:43 PM
3 hours and $103. Made almost all of that in the first hour and it was very quiet after that. See you tomorrow Streamate.

freyasnecklace
02-02-2022, 07:52 PM
My internet has been down all freaking day. So mad. They said a 2 hour outage. LIES. I’ll have to make up soooo many hours.

Edit : came on and then SM was all glitchy. Always like that around their day change. Made 80$ in over hour. Getting back on after dinner

Got back On and did well. I've got even numbers between CMD and SM this week haha. I'm 1300/2000 goal. A few hundred cashapp/venmo and some MV.
5657256573

Seductive_Brit
02-03-2022, 02:28 AM
Hey guys, been meaning to post here again for a little bit but was catching up with the thread and feeling pretty drained at times. First off I saw a couple of you were ill, I hope you're feeling better and sending all the healing vibes! Very proud of everyone persevering, we can all inspire and be in solidarity with each other this way.

As you girls know the contest week was incredibly glitchy so despite working more hours naturally made way less. A positive to take from that is I had this asshole guy who seemed nice, took a show and my camera froze so I typed asking if he could see me and saying perhaps we should refresh. He left, didn't come back and gave me a 1 star rating. Now SM doesn't usually remove bad ratings for shows over 3 minutes but I want to let you know in case it's helpful to anyone that they did agree to remove it because it was clearly a fault of their site. (They were fully aware it seems that the glitches were sky high). That was a positive.

I have been down as I realised just how dire my financial situation is at the moment and thought of you all and the fact that I will need to start pulling up to 10 hour days just to get myself back on track. I thought to myself because of this thread and testimonies from ladies like Cutie and Sha that it is very much possible. I know during one of the contests I was able to do in split shifts, 7-9 hours a day, so I can do it again. I'm sorry for others also going through slow periods but it is good to know that we are all in the same boat, it's nothing against us personally, as we all know a knock to the confidence kills money making vibes. It's great here to see people go through slow periods and then all of a sudden have a great victory because they STFO. This is inspiring.

Something that happened last week that saved my week that I hope will give hope or inspo to others was the ultimate be online for them to find you lesson. I was determined to stick to my hours come what may despite it having been dead all week and had a whale supposedly from Dubai take me into private and dump the largest tip I've ever had of 425 gold because he liked me ($148 my cut) and came back for a proper exclusive show $88 my cut. My only whale of the week but it made a difference. I just remember that and think to myself, it only takes one good day, one whale, to make up for all the other bad days. But you have to show up .

Today I plan to start doing what I did before in that one good contest week which is start the day with a 4 hour shift then come back later and do as much as I can, ideally another 4 hour shift if I can. Wish me luck ladies, as I wish you luck!

Cutie101
02-03-2022, 02:51 AM
@Brit, I am sorry to hear you've been trough all that and in the same time, I am happy that you take responsibility of your own situation and do what you gotta do in order to improve it, instead of blaming external stuff. It shows you are an adult.
I am confident you can make it. Discipline is hard, I fucking know that. Today has been so slow, I made $6 in 5 hours and still got 5 more hours to go. Instead, I broke record after record at shooting bubbles, lol. It's quiet enough to be able to play some mini games while scanning the chat room for any possible client.
Yesterday I would have made $20 in 10 hours, if it wasn't my 2 regs. The first one came 2 minutes after I logged in, waiting for me to show up. He always comes at fixed hours and finds me at my fixed hours. And many of my regs or clients that didn't have money then, know when to find me. I did talk about that and I cannot stress enough about how important it is to have a stricted schedule.

Speaking of the 18-10 hours shifts, it's all about your mindset. No one and no inspiration and no matter how much I post here, will do it for you. YOU must do it. Every day. It's not easy to give up on whatever fun or distracting activities you have. But you are the only one that can improve your own financial situation by having some priorities.
All I can tell, from experience, is that malls, coffee shops, stores, etc. They are all there. They don't dissapear in time, they will still be there when you will go out to reward yourself after a week of hard work. Same with series, movies, vlogs, personal social media and other time wasters and money eaters that are keeping you in this circle of not having time for actual priorities, such as... being financially secured. All of these are sucking OUR money and it's not easy to cut this toxic circle of too much entertainment.

Besides, you can scroll on social media while being on cam, actually, to pass the time. That's what I do. When I wake up, I only use the phone a little to keep my eyes open, but I leave the forums, twitter and others for when I am on cam, since there are many quiet times during long shifts. You just have to be disciplined enough to bite your fingers and wait to get in front of pc and do this when it's quiet on cam, instead of doing it before work.

It fucking sucks when we sometimes sit on cam for nothing, but those are the times so we gotta hang trough.
You. Got. This!

Vlodina
02-03-2022, 03:06 AM
Got back On and did well. I've got even numbers between CMD and SM this week haha. I'm 1300/2000 goal. A few hundred cashapp/venmo and some MV.
5657256573

Are cashapp and venmo safe for us? I have been telling these guys on Skype to feck off lol.

What's your secret Freya? You seem to be consistently pulling in the big bucks with never a bad day while many of us are tearing our hair out at the lack of traffic.

Miss_ShaSha
02-03-2022, 04:00 AM
My only whale of the week but it made a difference. I just remember that and think to myself, it only takes one good day, one whale, to make up for all the other bad days. But you have to show up .


I'm sorry it's been so tough. You're not alone. It's been dead on SM for me 3 weeks now. I STFO last week 28 hrs and made a little over $300. This week? Wretched again.

It is true...you gotta show up. Well done with that whale. You did that...YOU got him to spend.

I know 40 hr weeks must be done sometimes and this month is no different. I'm almost at 20 hrs this week and plan to hit 40 by Sat.

I wish you the best of luck!!!

Cutie101
02-03-2022, 05:35 AM
7 hours at $6, then a reg came by and made me $130. 3 hours left and I am ouuuuttttt, offline for 4 days. YESSSSSSS!

Vlodina
02-03-2022, 07:13 AM
7 hours at $6, then a reg came by and made me $130. 3 hours left and I am ouuuuttttt, offline for 4 days. YESSSSSSS!
You're one hardcore lady to stay that long with such little reward. Thank goodness for that reg at the end!

Seductive_Brit
02-03-2022, 07:23 AM
Hey Sha and Cutie, thank you so much for your words of advice and encouragement. I really do appreciate it. It seems SM has been quiet for us all the past few weeks but that just means a big rush in the following weeks, if there's one thing I've learnt it's that this job comes in dips and waves, ups and downs. And frankly I appreciate more what I have than if it came easy because I know I worked hard for it.

I am feeling truly confident of sticking it through. Reading through the stalling thread gave me a fresh burst of inspiration and allowed me to draw out the shows I have gotten today. I surpassed the 4 hour goal so far and was determined to stay on until I got below a certain hourly average so that brings me now to have been on for 6 hours in a row! Been a while since I've done that. Have passed mid goal, going to take a break and should be on course (I hope) to reach high goal when I get back on later. Had shows that I genuinely enjoyed and was fully present for, seeing every new show as a challenge to stretch out as far as possible. Been splitting on other sites that only trickle in but every trickle counts.

Next week I'm on my period (I've skipped it for a while now and don't have a real reason to this time) so for hygiene reasons may not be able to stay so long, but I'm going to use my mooncup and do my best to persevere then be back full blast in the week following.

Vlodina
02-03-2022, 07:34 AM
Not quite 4 hours, did 3.65. When it's so dull I'm more prone to taking more little breaks, then accidentally hoover or hang up washing etc lol

$65 is better than nothing! Funnily, when it's really quiet I get more new favourites. I like to think that they'll be back to spoil me when they've got money and were just too skint today.

Back tonight for 2-2.5 hours.

At 78% of my minimum weekly goal. Fingers crossed I make it to that. Not really going to be happy with that but it's vaguely acceptable haha

freyasnecklace
02-03-2022, 07:38 AM
Are cashapp and venmo safe for us? I have been telling these guys on Skype to feck off lol.

What's your secret Freya? You seem to be consistently pulling in the big bucks with never a bad day while many of us are tearing our hair out at the lack of traffic.

I don’t trust that it is entirely safe. I have 5 year+ regulars that I use those forms of payment with. Tuesday I made $30 because I had a kid home from school. My screenshots were from this week- not daily. I get 1000-1700 weekly from stfo when I can. My schedule is not consistent, so I’ll split my shift sometimes. There have been weeks where everything went wrong and it was slow, so I made $400. I just can’t let that happen right now or I’ll lose my home. Extra motivation.

I use CMD, SM, and MV as my sites. The other important thing I have is incredibly fast internet upload speeds. I’ve been into fetish (real life) and online ho shit since 2004.

camgirl91
02-03-2022, 09:29 AM
I don’t trust that it is entirely safe. I have 5 year+ regulars that I use those forms of payment with. Tuesday I made $30 because I had a kid home from school. My screenshots were from this week- not daily. I get 1000-1700 weekly from stfo when I can. My schedule is not consistent, so I’ll split my shift sometimes. There have been weeks where everything went wrong and it was slow, so I made $400. I just can’t let that happen right now or I’ll lose my home. Extra motivation.

I use CMD, SM, and MV as my sites. The other important thing I have is incredibly fast internet upload speeds. I’ve been into fetish (real life) and online ho shit since 2004.
What is a good upload speed? Is 16 good enough. I’m stuck at the moment because I’m in an area where I can’t get much faster. Do u think that’s enough to be splitting sites or not?

freyasnecklace
02-03-2022, 09:43 AM
What is a good upload speed? Is 16 good enough. I’m stuck at the moment because I’m in an area where I can’t get much faster. Do u think that’s enough to be splitting sites or not?

I’m usually on my Wi-Fi with 30 mbps upload and my ping is 14 milliseconds. Generally, fast would be 20+ mbps and as low of a ping as you can get. You may want to have someone check your stream quality to check if it’s choppy! But, yeah you’re sort of limited to the type of internet you can get for live streaming. I’d recommend using sky private or Cam model directory, many vids, etc to do one on one shows as your secondary(maybe even primary!)

Seductive_Brit
02-03-2022, 12:11 PM
So after the 6 hours earlier, back on for another 2 hours.

Was super sad because I had a guy return who had a really amazing show with a few months back. My skirt is tartan, I really like the look, but I'm not emulating anything school girly and am totally against that as is of course the site. So when he said he really liked the skirt, I said thanks then he said school girl vibes I said not now or ever has it been school girl vibes and that I don't condone it in typing and explained verbally that I had to make sure I had that in writing because of rules etc. and he left. Part of STFO is rationalising and not letting these things kill your vibe so I told myself, first of all the safety of your account is more important than anything else so don't feel bad about being clear, secondly he could have left for any number of reasons, connection lost or people walking in so don't assume. He'll forget and be back. Just sad because I made 50 dollars my cut off him last time which is what I need to reach my high goal. Part of STFO is shaking it off.

Helps to write things down and rationalise them. Let's gooo, 1.5 hours left to hit 8 for the day, haven't done that much in a day since April last year. Proud of myself. Good luck to you all!!!

UPDATE: I did it, I stayed for 8 hours, surpassed high goal and was able to draw out two awesome shows with guys who I spent quite a bit of time discussing and coming up with puns with, a right laugh and left me feeling great. They were also understanding I didn't want to use toys this eve (I've showered already). I also used the advice of the stalling thread and chatted with someone who had only ever tipped before, he got a show (a short one but still). Win win. Staying on longer to hopefully hit $400.

UPDATE: Now at 8 hours 45 minutes had one of my regulars I haven't seen in a month come in, had a lovely, fun chatting and edging show with him. I've had fun this evening. I'm at $489 including all sites, I would love to hit $500. STFO works! Hustling and being true to yourself works. This isn't fluke or a random whale today this is hard work, regulars and yes some luck.

FINAL UPDATE: I did it, I worked 9.5 hours which is the most I've EVER done in a day. I also managed to end on $524 when I have rarely ever had a 500 day. My week is back on track. I'm a bit emotional and so thankful for the inspiration you girls have given me. Not every day will be like this. But enough will be I know it if I stick it out.

freyasnecklace
02-03-2022, 02:14 PM
So after the 6 hours earlier, back on for another 2 hours.

Was super sad because I had a guy return who had a really amazing show with a few months back. My skirt is tartan, I really like the look, but I'm not emulating anything school girly and am totally against that as is of course the site. So when he said he really liked the skirt, I said thanks then he said school girl vibes I said not now or ever has it been school girl vibes and that I don't condone it in typing and explained verbally that I had to make sure I had that in writing because of rules etc. and he left. Part of STFO is rationalising and not letting these things kill your vibe so I told myself, first of all the safety of your account is more important than anything else so don't feel bad about being clear, secondly he could have left for any number of reasons, connection lost or people walking in so don't assume. He'll forget and be back. Just sad because I made 50 dollars my cut off him last time which is what I need to reach my high goal. Part of STFO is shaking it off.

Helps to write things down and rationalise them. Let's gooo, 1.5 hours left to hit 8 for the day, haven't done that much in a day since April last year. Proud of myself. Good luck to you all!!!

Good for you for sticking with what makes YOU comfortable and saying what you needed to say!