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Percy
01-07-2023, 04:17 PM
I "Just stayed the fuck on" on my phone and I am at 1,498.00 for the month. For PSO work dispatch, not bad.

tsarina
01-07-2023, 05:05 PM
Seeing my placement and earnings continue to improve on Streamate week after week is motivating me to stay the fuck on all weekend. Spring semester starts this Monday for me, so that's another reason to work my butt off until then.

Seductive_Brit
01-08-2023, 05:40 AM
So update in the end I did 7 hours 45 minutes yesterday. I was so overwhelmed and happy, to have squeezed a 30 hour working week into 4 days and actually hit the target of £1000 (about $1240). Honestly didn't think I could do it and haven't done that many hours in one go in a long time.Was utterly exhausted but so motivated by the confirmation that the more work I put in, the more I earn, so utterly empowering. Back on it today and aiming for 8 hours as I got up earlier. Honestly it's been non stop this morning but with shorter shows and I'm grateful but it's been domme heavy as well with hordes of people peeping in normal privates. So a bit mentally and physically draining. Almost 4 hours in smashed the mid goal. I want to try and stay for 6 before taking a break but I also havent really eaten. Will at least try to get to 5 and see how I feel.

I will say this, I had a week and half off and I always tend to do ok when I come back after disappearing, so I just hope this trend continues! Good luck everyone!

Cutie101
01-08-2023, 11:07 AM
Weekends kinda suck lately, especially fridays and saturdays.
Let's hope Sunday is better.

LoveDove
01-09-2023, 06:02 AM
Gonna try 8 hours for the first time today! I'm a bit nervous but excited to see how it goes.
Happy Monday everyone!!

VVV
01-09-2023, 08:06 AM
grrrr only 100 on streamate today, but i worked outdoor lol and made more money than usual. Lately mondays are not the best for me

Cutie101
01-09-2023, 10:38 AM
Putting 10 hours today. I missed working long hours.

SashaMalone
01-09-2023, 10:46 AM
I’m tired. Logged out at 3am and it’s going on 12pm here. 3 hours of sleep. Do I dare try to be super woman? Hmmm

Cutie101
01-09-2023, 12:06 PM
I’m tired. Logged out at 3am and it’s going on 12pm here. 3 hours of sleep. Do I dare try to be super woman? Hmmm

I'd say to rest well, because 8 hours of cam when you're rested and at your best, are way more productive than 12 hours but tired. I can function with 5-6 hours of sleep, maybe 3-4 days in a row, then I have to sleep. I'd work with only 3 hours of sleep if I had a super deadline to meet, but for a regular cam day? Hell naw!
You know better, tho, so do what you think it's best! Just take care, please! Hugs!

SashaMalone
01-09-2023, 02:50 PM
I got up and did 2 hrs. It’s slow and I don’t have the energy to wrestle with them right now. Still beat a blank lol

VVV
01-10-2023, 06:39 AM
I got up and did 2 hrs. It’s slow and I don’t have the energy to wrestle with them right now. Still beat a blank lol
ohhh i m at 200 so far so dead! on SM a disaster
tomorrow i m off, well i guess doing escorting something helps.

Cutie101
01-10-2023, 12:06 PM
Yesterday was extraordinary. Let's see what today brings! 8 hours!

emotionalrescue
01-10-2023, 06:05 PM
Been slacking hard this last week, so much so that I should put myself in the corner of shame. I'm gonna stfo today for at least 7 hours, no excuses. Let it be fruitful!

Cutie101
01-11-2023, 12:02 PM
Reached my goal yesterday. 8 hours again, today.
I have been working for 10 days in a row, but for some reason, I feel good and don't need any break for now. I don't even feel tired. It's been a while since I felt this good, so I will keep going. Seems that 8-9 hours is my sweet spot.
Also, period came and I have no pain. I usually have months when I can barely get out of bed and months when I have no issues. This is one of those lucky months, so I didn't take any break. Altough, I am waiting to see if the next 2-3 days will be fine. If I don't feel good, I will take the days off.

izshadow
01-11-2023, 02:58 PM
Two hours in, still sitting at zero. Tryinggggggggggggggggggggggg!!!!! Took a quick break to grab a snack and now I'm back on.....

SashaMalone
01-11-2023, 02:59 PM
I’m a mom, got adhd and bipolar but I want to make a statement for the black girls with also mental illnesses. If I can do it no one should have an excuse.

RetroGhetto
01-11-2023, 04:25 PM
Hey Sasha where do you cam? I’m back this week after a break, really need to turn my life around financially and leave a shitty relationship. Also a mum of 1 here. Any feedback or suggestions, I would be very grateful! My dream is a house in the country. UK girl here. Sorry if I’m on the wrong thread, you’re all so inspirational!

Cutie101
01-11-2023, 04:30 PM
Sasha, you have our support! You can do it!!

izshadow
01-11-2023, 11:41 PM
Made zero this afternoon, took a break, regrouped, came back on..... made my goal within two hours and no longer have to worry about the rent check bouncing! I am staying on! Have more bills coming due but man, that rent check had me so stressed out I was on edge all day today. Now we wait.... come on cam gods! Keep them coming!

Night seems to be nicer to me then day. Which sucks. I rather work the afternoons but oh well. I just need to discipline myself and redo things to work nights instead.

emotionalrescue
01-12-2023, 12:02 AM
Today started like a charm. Had multiple people in my private at the same time which hasn’t happened in a while. Hit my daily goal in 2h but I’m still gonna stay on for a super good pay day.

emkato
01-12-2023, 10:33 AM
ever since the new year began I have had some really shitty stuff going on and my mental health is suffering so I havent cammed barely at all. I did cam yesterday and I'm online today too and its so so bad. I was doing pretty well before the new year and now its like the universe is saying "fuck you, you don't deserve money" which is just affecting my already piss poor mental health and anxiety even worse.

I just want to lay in bed and cry.

Trying my best to stay tfo and read this thread for motivation xo

edit: I am burning some sage, smoking a fatty, and I'm gonna find something funny to watch on YouTube. I cannot afford to log off. Im trying so hard to be positive lol its a struggle

emkato
01-12-2023, 05:53 PM
Update: did my hours and barely made my low goal, but its better than nothing at all. Tomorrow is a new day!

izshadow
01-12-2023, 09:31 PM
Made zero this afternoon so here I am back again tonight. Going to shoot for another 3/4 hours. Killer migraine and I feel sick due to STFO last night and this afternoon. Stress is getting to me but fingers crossed for a successful shift.

freya_jade_
01-13-2023, 12:01 AM
Something I have noticed: The first hour of being online every single day is always THEE most painful. Like the "holy shit, I'd rather be doing anything but this right now" hour. Once I've made it past the first hour, I realize "Wow, this isn't so bad" and am more likely to stay the FUCK on! ;D

I just gotta tell myself over and over again, once I make it past the first hour, I'll be fine! And I've made it past the first hour tonight! :party: I can do this!

naughtybabe1
01-13-2023, 12:06 AM
with my placement all fuked up i'm going to pull a 12 hr shift just to make my goal. sooooo sloowwww....kill me now

freya_jade_
01-13-2023, 03:26 AM
with my placement all fuked up i'm going to pull a 12 hr shift just to make my goal. sooooo sloowwww....kill me now

YEA, what the hell is going on with SM placement recently?! I went from row 1-3 to like 5-13 in the past few weeks!!! It's not affecting my income TOO much, but still WHAT?!

emkato
01-13-2023, 06:44 AM
I got up earlier than usual today despite being tired af. I am not getting my hopes up that traffic will improve but at least I'm showing the fuck up to stay the fuck on. happy Friday!

izshadow
01-13-2023, 11:11 PM
Two hours in sitting at zero, its so freaking dead on SM and the temps are dropping. I'm freezing, even with the heat on. I don't know how much longer I can hang in there tonight. I might have to toss in the towel and hope the day is better.

emotionalrescue
01-13-2023, 11:26 PM
Bit of a rough start for me also, although I just 20 min in. Let’s give it a few more hours before throwing the towel.

izshadow
01-13-2023, 11:42 PM
Bit of a rough start for me also, although I just 20 min in. Let’s give it a few more hours before throwing the towel.

I just had a show with tipping, finally! But he got booted by SM and has to contact them. Super sad as he would have kept going. But I'll hang in for a bit more! Maybe this popped a cherry for tonight!

SashaMalone
01-14-2023, 08:17 AM
I just did 15hrs & 27mins live =)

Cutie101
01-14-2023, 01:50 PM
Had 2 days off, time to work again 10 days in a row. I only put 6 hours today, but tomorow I put 10.

@Sasha!! well done, how did it go?

giuseppezanottis
01-14-2023, 07:22 PM
determined to STFO for seven hours a night every night...as long as it takes...to rebuild my following and get back to earning $2,000 a week minimum and then maybe i can enjoy my weekends again, lol. i'm switching up my hustle completely coming from a token site, but i had a great first month on SM when i joined back in the spring, and i'm convinced i can do it again. i just shouldn't have taken such a long break - my earnings have halved!

but the only reason i was so successful on a token site for years was because of my extreme dedication and consistency. i did it once, and i can do it again. these men want ME and if i'm not online, they can't spend their money on me. :) wishing us all luck with this contest next week.

Cutie101
01-16-2023, 01:12 PM
Yesterday sucked. Today seems to suck again... let's see what happens. 6 hours left.

kortneykay
01-16-2023, 01:26 PM
Did a long session w a reg yesterday. Finished in half the time, still got paid. Today SP rocked. Few hundred but a day late and dollar short. Why spend all the money today and not yesterday before cut off? Guess its because it's Monday where Men watch porn the most. And I hate when you're chillin and these guys want pvts. You tell them wait a few and run back in your cam room to turn on the lights and they find someone faster and cheaper and you can see it reflected in their credits. Guess I should stay ready. ;D

freya_jade_
01-17-2023, 02:23 AM
Omg you guys, the "just stay the fuck on" mentality I've adapted since frequenting this thread has been changing my LIFE. I am really a huge baby who ragequits all the time with everything. Like if things aren't good right away I just get discouraged so easily and then start to spiral and catastrophize that things will never get better. It's a huge character flaw of mine that I know I've needed to work on for a while. It manifests with just about every aspect of my life, but ESPECIALLY with cam/online SW stuff in general.

It used to be that I would get online, be on for about 20 minutes, and if things were not good RIGHT away I would log off and feel really awful and discouraged. This thread and everyone here have really inspired me to stay on and stick with it, and I've been seeing AMAZING results! Something I've noticed with Streamate in particular is that when I first get online, my placement and traffic are not that great, and they tend to take a few minutes to adjust. Once I'm on for a few minute things tend to balance out, and then once I make it past the first hour I'm usually making enough money to feel good. After a few hours I've noticed that my hourly income tends to average out to my expected average even if things were horrible at the start of my stream. I just NEED to stay on, because once I make it past that first hour everything is usually great!

Sorry for the long spiel here, but I just really needed to say that this has been a huge revelation for me. It's been better for my income, but also amazing for my self-esteem to see myself actually sticking with things consistently when that's something I've always struggled with. So, cheers to that! :beer2:

camgirl91
01-17-2023, 09:58 AM
Omg you guys, the "just stay the fuck on" mentality I've adapted since frequenting this thread has been changing my LIFE. I am really a huge baby who ragequits all the time with everything. Like if things aren't good right away I just get discouraged so easily and then start to spiral and catastrophize that things will never get better. It's a huge character flaw of mine that I know I've needed to work on for a while. It manifests with just about every aspect of my life, but ESPECIALLY with cam/online SW stuff in general.

It used to be that I would get online, be on for about 20 minutes, and if things were not good RIGHT away I would log off and feel really awful and discouraged. This thread and everyone here have really inspired me to stay on and stick with it, and I've been seeing AMAZING results! Something I've noticed with Streamate in particular is that when I first get online, my placement and traffic are not that great, and they tend to take a few minutes to adjust. Once I'm on for a few minute things tend to balance out, and then once I make it past the first hour I'm usually making enough money to feel good. After a few hours I've noticed that my hourly income tends to average out to my expected average even if things were horrible at the start of my stream. I just NEED to stay on, because once I make it past that first hour everything is usually great!

Sorry for the long spiel here, but I just really needed to say that this has been a huge revelation for me. It's been better for my income, but also amazing for my self-esteem to see myself actually sticking with things consistently when that's something I've always struggled with. So, cheers to that! :beer2:
Thank you so much for this post!!!! I relate to this soooo much. I am exactly the same. The first time I went on livejasmin I went two hours with zero shows. Not even a dollar tip. I came off in tears thinking it’s cause I was so ugly or something. I don’t look at it logically and realise its probably because i am brand new and I haven’t got a following yet. I am going to give it another go.

im in the uk so can’t do sextpanther as it’s only USA and Canada girls at the min. Can’t wait for the day when they broaden it!

Seductive_Brit
01-17-2023, 11:23 AM
I’m a mom, got adhd and bipolar but I want to make a statement for the black girls with also mental illnesses. If I can do it no one should have an excuse.

You are very inspirational Sasha. You're right, if there is anything that this thread teaches us is to persist and overcome.


ever since the new year began I have had some really shitty stuff going on and my mental health is suffering so I havent cammed barely at all. I did cam yesterday and I'm online today too and its so so bad. I was doing pretty well before the new year and now its like the universe is saying "fuck you, you don't deserve money" which is just affecting my already piss poor mental health and anxiety even worse.

I just want to lay in bed and cry.

Trying my best to stay tfo and read this thread for motivation xo

edit: I am burning some sage, smoking a fatty, and I'm gonna find something funny to watch on YouTube. I cannot afford to log off. Im trying so hard to be positive lol its a struggle

I am so sorry to hear you've been feeling this way emkato. I think we've all felt like this at one point or another in our camming journey. It's so hard when stuff is going on in our personal lives too because this job is so affected by our mood and mentality. It's like when I posted here 2 weeks back and had an amazing 4 days. But then the following week, was only saved by the Sunday and then was slow. This week has been absolutely dire. But I am not getting discouraged. It is really important to remember how inconsistent this work can be, you can't control that and it is NOT your fault. What you CAN control is the number of hours you put in, the energy and effort you put in. I am no less pretty, capable or exciting than I was 2 weeks ago. I approach it with the attitude that every minute spent online is an investment, that every person who sees me will come back and spend money. Every one who does spend money I will try to rinse as much as I possibly can from them. It WILL turn around I promise you. Just do your hours. And if you don't manage it today, do it tomorrow. I smile knowing how there's always money around the corner. It takes ONE good show to save a day. And it always turns around, it never stays like that endlessly. Self care is important so do your best to look after yourself, feed yourself, make your outlook as positive as you can and don't forget that thoughts are not facts and that feelings are temporary. And a slump is always temporary. You got this! Always here if you want to message or reach out. Also, don't compare yourself, a good day for someone else might be a bad day for you and vice versa. Take every win you get as a win! You got this girl.


Omg you guys, the "just stay the fuck on" mentality I've adapted since frequenting this thread has been changing my LIFE. I am really a huge baby who ragequits all the time with everything. Like if things aren't good right away I just get discouraged so easily and then start to spiral and catastrophize that things will never get better. It's a huge character flaw of mine that I know I've needed to work on for a while. It manifests with just about every aspect of my life, but ESPECIALLY with cam/online SW stuff in general.

It used to be that I would get online, be on for about 20 minutes, and if things were not good RIGHT away I would log off and feel really awful and discouraged. This thread and everyone here have really inspired me to stay on and stick with it, and I've been seeing AMAZING results! Something I've noticed with Streamate in particular is that when I first get online, my placement and traffic are not that great, and they tend to take a few minutes to adjust. Once I'm on for a few minute things tend to balance out, and then once I make it past the first hour I'm usually making enough money to feel good. After a few hours I've noticed that my hourly income tends to average out to my expected average even if things were horrible at the start of my stream. I just NEED to stay on, because once I make it past that first hour everything is usually great!

Sorry for the long spiel here, but I just really needed to say that this has been a huge revelation for me. It's been better for my income, but also amazing for my self-esteem to see myself actually sticking with things consistently when that's something I've always struggled with. So, cheers to that! :beer2:

Aw Freya I thought that post was so uplifting. Well done!!!! You should be super proud of yourself, that's amazing :).

I myself am just getting through this contest week, and then I'm away for a little bit. 3 and a quarter hours in 92 dollars. Gonna stay for a minimum of 4 hours and then see how I feel. It's my time of month as well. I stick to my rule of staying on whilst I've got at least 20 dollars an hour for a maximum of 6 hours (obviously I stay longer when the average is higher), so if I hit 100 I will try to make it 5 hours. Good luck everybody! Don't be disheartened by contest week. We got this!

Cutie101
01-17-2023, 12:02 PM
Thank you so much for this post!!!! I relate to this soooo much. I am exactly the same. The first time I went on livejasmin I went two hours with zero shows. Not even a dollar tip. I came off in tears thinking it’s cause I was so ugly or something. I don’t look at it logically and realise its probably because i am brand new and I haven’t got a following yet. I am going to give it another go.

im in the uk so can’t do sextpanther as it’s only USA and Canada girls at the min. Can’t wait for the day when they broaden it!

I am on livejasmin and all i have to tell you is to take a look at this post of mine from last year: https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197329-The-quot-Just-stay-the-fuck-on-quot-thread&p=3249259&viewfull=1#post3249259 This is what it pretty much takes to become succesful on Jasmin. You need long hours, at least 160 per month. And now they implemented some rules to follow, that traffic score thing. It's crazy, they used to implement it only for contests but now it's for every day! I need to prepare some teasers haha. Anyway, good luck!

Cutie101
01-17-2023, 12:04 PM
Welcome, freya_jade! I am sure you will succeed if you become disciplined!!

As in for me, 8 hours today. This week started dead but, hopefully it will get better!

Seductive_Brit
01-17-2023, 01:16 PM
Update I did manage to hit 5 hours and 166 dollars, which it least brings me to a more reasonable hourly of 33 dollars. Phew. Starting all over again tomorrow!

Percy
01-17-2023, 08:59 PM
Jan 1 through Jan 15 I stayed the fuck on. I took calls while in bed while waking up, I would take some during the day and my nights. I worked hard. 8-12 hr days but I ended up with $2,332 and I can pay my taxes, my cc bills off and my doctor bills with this one check. Thank you winter! Again if people don't know i'm an ex cam girl turned dispatch PSO so I feel accomplished. When i was a cam girl if i did 12 hr days, I would have about 10K but also look like a zombie lol

izshadow
01-17-2023, 09:51 PM
Jan 1 through Jan 15 I stayed the fuck on. I took calls while in bed while waking up, I would take some during the day and my nights. I worked hard. 8-12 hr days but I ended up with $2,332 and I can pay my taxes, my cc bills off and my doctor bills with this one check. Thank you winter! Again if people don't know i'm an ex cam girl turned dispatch PSO so I feel accomplished. When i was a cam girl if i did 12 hr days, I would have about 10K but also look like a zombie lol

Is your company hiring? I'm with a dispatch company to, on top of TTM and NF. The dispatch company pays well but not that good! The phone doesn't ring like it used to....

emotionalrescue
01-18-2023, 11:45 PM
Not really in the mood to be on today, but I’m determined to put at least 30h by the end of the week, so I’m just staying the fuck on. I’ve been dealing with a lot in my personal life and it’s made me slack hard again. So, no other choice than to stfo on now.

Makeup done and 2 coffees in me, let’s get it!

LoveDove
01-19-2023, 06:25 AM
I've found that focusing more on the hours I put in VS the amount I make has helped so much! Instead of stressing about how I haven't made $x amount yet, I just try to get my hours and the money comes in anyways. Super grateful I was able to shift my mindset.

BrookeRide
01-19-2023, 11:31 AM
Jan 1 through Jan 15 I stayed the fuck on. I took calls while in bed while waking up, I would take some during the day and my nights. I worked hard. 8-12 hr days but I ended up with $2,332 and I can pay my taxes, my cc bills off and my doctor bills with this one check. Thank you winter! Again if people don't know i'm an ex cam girl turned dispatch PSO so I feel accomplished. When i was a cam girl if i did 12 hr days, I would have about 10K but also look like a zombie lol

hi there can I ask where are you doing yout pso dispatching threw? im on phone whiper but never get any calls. I have applied for a few other companys but i get back there hot hiering in the state of WA. Thanks again. If your dont wana share its ok i'll understand

Cutie101
01-19-2023, 06:16 PM
Damn, this week is slow. STFO but I wished I was taking the week off, I mean, I can't predict slow times, but something tells me it will pick up right when I take the days off, lol.

Percy
01-19-2023, 06:26 PM
Damn, this week is slow. STFO but I wished I was taking the week off, I mean, I can't predict slow times, but something tells me it will pick up right when I take the days off, lol.

I have noticed on my end, slow and annoying callers with no tips. I think they spent all their Christmas money around Christmas and are broke AF now. I have even had beggars..on the phone. Funny how cam and phone seems to have similar slow times.

I am pretty sure I am logging off early tonight. Tomorrow is payday, I can hit up a Friday..day and evening. I have better things to do. Plus, I am so tired of staying on. My check was pretty big last pay period but I was so tired, I am not doing that again. 8 hrs a day...what I get is what I get is my old rule and sticking to it.


hi there can I ask where are you doing yout pso dispatching threw? im on phone whiper but never get any calls. I have applied for a few other companys but i get back there hot hiering in the state of WA. Thanks again. If your dont wana share its ok i'll understand

I am not going to say what it is. The industry is smaller than cam and so, there are a lot of reasons. All I can say is apply to as many as you can and find one that works for you. It took me a long time to find one I liked. It is not easy, though. Long hours and sometimes I have nightmares. I do no taboos because that's where I found the money. So this week, I had a guy in my texts talking to me about death. And not from the point of someone who just lost a loved one (I get those calls too). I had to say NO NO I don't think that's a good idea in your FANTASY lets do this instead.

Guy is a regular...and so..I had a nightmare last night that he found me because is it a fantasy? Probably but still, out of all the ones I hear, those disturb me the most. So, keep trying, Lip Service was a good one I liked years ago. I have been looking for a second one as a back up and I cannot get anyone else to hire me and I have experience!

BrookeRide
01-19-2023, 08:00 PM
aos was the best one ive ever worked for but they dont hier out of wa state

Percy
01-19-2023, 10:43 PM
Did a long session w a reg yesterday. Finished in half the time, still got paid. Today SP rocked. Few hundred but a day late and dollar short. Why spend all the money today and not yesterday before cut off? Guess its because it's Monday where Men watch porn the most. And I hate when you're chillin and these guys want pvts. You tell them wait a few and run back in your cam room to turn on the lights and they find someone faster and cheaper and you can see it reflected in their credits. Guess I should stay ready. ;D
Don't people need a life, though. We do not live for them. If I logged in every time a man requested I would never get sleep and hurt my sanity and health. They can't wait, they are too horny. But usually a nice reg will give you time because they are not an idiot. That has been my experience.

Mondays are paydays, so are Fridays. Mondays are some of my biggest earnings, and Tuesdays then Fridays.