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redvelvette
01-20-2023, 03:31 AM
When I am making money I wish I had the discipline to stfo as long as I do when I'm not making money.

I set 2 goals for myself each night, for time and income, whichever comes last. I really only follow the money goal though. If I make my income goal 1 hour before I'm supposed to log off I tend to log off early anyway. But on nights like tonight I'm already over my time goal and I'm sitting here drinking coffee and getting ready to log on for a couple more hours until I make my money. No dollar left behind!

I'd be further ahead in life if I had that kind of attitude every night. Thank you guys for constantly being here to nudge me in the right direction though. Reminding me that sfto can be life changing. Some day soon I hope.... that is my goal.

EDIT: well I ended up exceeding my time and income goal, so I'm patting myself on the back. This morning was much better for me than last night. It was good to keep hammering away at the goal. I will try to keep motivated to stick to my goal tonight too. Stfo until 3:30am whether or not I already made my money.

EDIT 2: I did it. I stayed on until 3:42 tonight. It was a bit of a cheat because I got a 60 minute block session at 2:45, but I'll still count it. Oh my goodness this week has been rough for me. Even with that block I earned 1/3 of my low goal. I sat for HOURS tonight and did around 20 minutes of work. Fingers crossed things go back to normal after the contest ends tomorrow. I don't have it in me to stay on any longer through this and reach my money goal. I'm with BoleynModels so as far as I'm concerned the work week ended this morning and I'm hoping next week will be a better one.

emotionalrescue
01-20-2023, 05:13 AM
When I am making money I wish I had the discipline to stfo as long as I do when I'm not making money.

I set 2 goals for myself each night, for time and income, whichever comes last. I really only follow the money goal though. If I make my income goal 1 hour before I'm supposed to log off I tend to log off early anyway. But on nights like tonight I'm already over my time goal and I'm sitting here drinking coffee and getting ready to log on for a couple more hours until I make my money. No dollar left behind!

I'd be further ahead in life if I had that kind of attitude every night. Thank you guys for constantly being here to nudge me in the right direction though. Reminding me that sfto can be life changing. Some day soon I hope.... that is my goal.


I suffer from the same condition. I am so tempted to bail if I make my goal fast. But, I shouldn’t, I should just stay and make extra. I try to balance that out now by allowing myself to bail only on certain days. It’s gotten better, but I definitely still need to work on it.

The never ending quest for a healthy work life balance.

camgirl91
01-23-2023, 09:39 AM
I am so Unbelievably sad to log in here today and find out stripperweb is closing. I’m taken aback at how upset I feel tbh! This thread in particular is where I log in every single time I cam. This site has been a constant for me for so long. What am I going to do without it ??

Cutie101… big bum… redcandy… and so many more of you! your posts have inspired me so much over the years, and also to keep me level headed as I tend to panic whilst having a slow period - something I struggle with massively. I just want you thank you all. I will miss following all your journeys…
Pls let me know where you all plan on posting when this site closes. Man I just feel sooooooo sad for real lol. I need to grieve hahaha

emkato
01-23-2023, 11:36 AM
I am so Unbelievably sad to log in here today and find out stripperweb is closing. I’m taken aback at how upset I feel tbh! This thread in particular is where I log in every single time I cam. This site has been a constant for me for so long. What am I going to do without it ??

Cutie101… big bum… redcandy… and so many more of you! your posts have inspired me so much over the years, and also to keep me level headed as I tend to panic whilst having a slow period - something I struggle with massively. I just want you thank you all. I will miss following all your journeys…
Pls let me know where you all plan on posting when this site closes. Man I just feel sooooooo sad for real lol. I need to grieve hahaha

Wow, I don't even know what to say. This website has years and years of amazing discourse and useful information, not only that but we are a community of people who rely on this website as a safe haven to discuss sex work in a productive way. I wonder, is anything going to be archived? Or is everything just going to be *poof*...gone on February 1st? Ugh

I know I wasn't the most active poster in this specific thread, but I always came back to it and read through all the posts. I even told myself I would start posting in this thread more to hold myself accountable :/

I'm going to make an account on the AmberCuties website, i probably won't use the same username because i want a change but hopefully we can find eachother again and possibly recreate this STFO thread over there? I'm just so bummed out rn

SashaMalone
01-23-2023, 11:50 AM
I didn’t see any announcement on this. Where is it

RetroGhetto
01-23-2023, 12:09 PM
This is horrific. There's a new thread 'Save Stripperweb'. Have a look there and see if we can contribute to save the site. Shocked that there wasn't a poll or earlier announcement

redvelvette
01-23-2023, 12:15 PM
I didn’t see any announcement on this. Where is it

At the top of the screen where it says “Stripperweb is closing!”

Cutie101
01-23-2023, 05:14 PM
I have no words to describe how I feel about the whole situation. I mean I did have a shit ton of words to spew on the main thread about stripperweb closing.
Damn.
Anyway, i did put only 6 hours today. Last week has been terribly slow.

honeybirdette
01-24-2023, 04:28 AM
fuck. i just heard the news and i am soooo gutted right now. i don't have any real life friends any more - we all drifted apart after school/college and since i work doing camming from home, its not like i ever meet anyone either, and even if i do, once they find out what i do for work they just judge me for that anyways.

thats why this forum is so important to me, both for work and social too. i cant tell you how sad i feel. i feel like crying. this is so unfair

honeybirdette
01-24-2023, 04:30 AM
trying to save as much info as i can on this stay the fuck on thread and also camming rocks right now - my two favorite threads.
where are you guys planning on relocating? i need the motivation, i need to hold myself accountable... i cant do it alone lol

redvelvette
01-24-2023, 07:21 AM
I'm already on ambercutie and the streamate discord. They're not the same but maybe with stripperweb closing it will change the vibe of ambercutie and make it more active. They don't have threads like this, which is too bad because I find this so motivating. Even reading years old posts helps my mindset.

What I love about this forum is that it's active with serious business women. Ambercutie is 90% "my account was closed on chaturbate/stripchat please help" on the what's new page, and the streamate discord & reddit are mostly newbies asking newbie questions. There's definitely a place for all that but I love that this forum has so many active threads for experienced cam models, strippers, escorts, etc. There's just nothing like it out there.


My week starts tonight. I'm just going for income goals this week. If this week is like last week I will need to exceed my normal hours to reach my income goals anyway.

emkato
01-24-2023, 11:00 AM
I'm already on ambercutie and the streamate discord.

How do I gain access to the stremaate discord? Do I need an invite? Id love to be on there if I can

camgirl91
01-24-2023, 11:11 AM
Can I join too? Thnx

EllePurrs
01-24-2023, 11:14 AM
How do I gain access to the stremaate discord? Do I need an invite? Id love to be on there if I can

Go to the model Support section and search Discord to find the link. I think they require you to do it that way to link your model name.

But they're a bit... the employees can be a bit... something? They don't really like to hear a lot of feedback. :'-)

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-24-2023, 11:36 AM
Go to the model Support section and search Discord to find the link. I think they require you to do it that way to link your model name.

But they're a bit... the employees can be a bit... something? They don't really like to hear a lot of feedback. :'-)

I just reopened my backup forum while I try to figure out what's going on with this site? I'm working on it but I'm gonna focus on what I can control at the moment. It'll have the same vibe as here but better and far more advanced. You can take a look at it in my signature. The permanent name will go back to Cammodelweb in a few weeks. Despite the name it's open for all people. I even have subforums and topics already set up. All female mods from SW are welcome to join. Once I've worked out the kinks I add potentially two more to help out the site.

emkato
01-24-2023, 12:16 PM
Go to the model Support section and search Discord to find the link. I think they require you to do it that way to link your model name.

But they're a bit... the employees can be a bit... something? They don't really like to hear a lot of feedback. :'-)

I feel so dumb but I cannot seem to find the models support section? lol

EllePurrs
01-24-2023, 12:23 PM
I feel so dumb but I cannot seem to find the models support section? lol

https://streamatehelp.com/

Oh, I guess it's advertised right there under the search bar. I didn't notice before LOL. ^___^

emkato
01-24-2023, 12:32 PM
https://streamatehelp.com/

Oh, I guess it's advertised right there under the search bar. I didn't notice before LOL. ^___^

thanks! I was searching for model support here on StripperWeb, not Streamate. thats why I was confused, my bad lol

izshadow
01-24-2023, 09:59 PM
Is Discord hard to learn? I don't have it, I'm super tech challenged. I'm so gutted to. Literally all I have is my dog, my horse and you guys. I don't have real life friends and you guys keep me going.... I just... I feel sick.

Esixxx
01-25-2023, 12:15 AM
Is Discord hard to learn? I don't have it, I'm super tech challenged. I'm so gutted to. Literally all I have is my dog, my horse and you guys. I don't have real life friends and you guys keep me going.... I just... I feel sick.

It's not too hard to learn.

Hugs! I understand- as far as social interaction/ connection this place is pretty much it.

redvelvette
01-25-2023, 04:22 AM
Is Discord hard to learn? I don't have it, I'm super tech challenged. I'm so gutted to. Literally all I have is my dog, my horse and you guys. I don't have real life friends and you guys keep me going.... I just... I feel sick.

It's basically a group chat app. It has its own little quirks to learn, but you can get started just chatting and learn as you go. I would join the camgirlproblems discord from reddit first if you're new. They don't require verification, so it's easy to just agree to the terms and get started. If you're a streamate model that's a good one to start with too. I find verifying the most confusing part a lot of the time because sometimes there aren't any mods online or they take a while to get back to you. But once you get the hang of discord in general those things will become easier. It seems like the adult industry discord servers all have a lot of the same members and moderators so you'll get to know people pretty well.

HoneyMachado
01-25-2023, 11:22 AM
ambercutie has too many dudes

laurielegs
01-25-2023, 01:17 PM
ambercutie has too many dudes

That's one of the thing I really get annoyed with. I would rather deal with a sex worker only board. No males unless they are actually in the industry.

VVV
01-26-2023, 01:26 AM
damnn thursday ... bad mood bc of a client. want just to talk LOL i kicked off politely but anyway is slow for me! how for you all?
just joint ACutie and i guess i need time to feel comfortable on it. everywhere is slow

Swampwitch
01-26-2023, 03:59 AM
That's one of the thing I really get annoyed with. I would rather deal with a sex worker only board. No males unless they are actually in the industry.

The models only area has the better parts of the forum! I get being put off by the public portion of it, that indeed has a lot of dudes posting.
But if you verify for one of the major streaming site subforums (stripchat, streamate, mfc and cb) you also get access to the rest of the models only sections, with a diverse range of topics.
Verification requirements are pretty straightforward and in my humble opinion the forum isn't too bad, albeit a bit "slow" lately.


_____

On a different note, sitting on streamate and practicing "staying the fuck on" because it is quiet slow right now sighs.

emkato
01-26-2023, 09:13 AM
ambercutie has too many dudes

fr.. seems like another way for dudes to be able to talk to models without having to pay for it because its "just a discussion board so I shouldn't have to pay models for their time, right?" I read through some stuff and there seems to be some decent info and conversations happening but the sausage fest a red flag to me.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-26-2023, 09:20 AM
fr.. seems like another way for dudes to be able to talk to models without having to pay for it because its "just a discussion board so I shouldn't have to pay models for their time, right?" I read through some stuff and there seems to be some decent info and conversations happening but the sausage fest a red flag to me.

Hey there! I've already set up an entire Verified section over on the backup site. The Mchat room is also accessible. Yall should go sign up and then let me know its you here on SW. After that I can give you special access to those forums. Same vibes, less misogyny.

http://shitguyssaytocamgirls.com/viewtopic.php?f=17&t=182

emkato
01-26-2023, 09:33 AM
Hey there! I've already set up an entire Verified section over on the backup site. The Mchat room is also accessible. Yall should go sign up and then let me know its you here on SW. After that I can give you special access to those forums. Same vibes, less misogyny.

http://shitguyssaytocamgirls.com/viewtopic.php?f=17&t=182

I just signed up after typing up my last post ;D

my new username on there is westworlds_host. I wanted it to match my discord and reddit usernames so I changed it.