View Full Version : The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
Miss_ShaSha
02-18-2019, 05:36 PM
STFO ladies even when it really slows down. I was sitting at the same income for 5.5 hours and was about to log off and meditate. Just before I was ready to log off a regular came through and bought an exclusive block session that got me to goal. Holy shit...THANK YOU LOLOL if I would have logged out for the night, which I may have just done after the meditation, I wouldn't have met goal. STFO!!!
Miss_ShaSha
02-18-2019, 06:38 PM
Procrastination has been a VERY big enemy to me, in the last month. I need mental power and discipline again.
And probably throw off the TV and uninstall Candy Crush.
Sounds like a good plan. Fun games get my attention also.
Glamourmilf
02-18-2019, 11:21 PM
The first hour was freakishly slow. I've never experienced that.
Took a break, then hopped back on.
Thankfully the traffic and spenders were there too.
I took Sunday off, so I knew I needed to stay on tonight.
It paid off.
ggminx
02-18-2019, 11:56 PM
deleted my vanilla social media stuff. my discipline is is shit right now! if i just have that discipline, financial position changes in just a couple days! don't know why i keep falling back in the same rut of not logging on or taking skype shows. sometimes i guess it's easy to get lax like that when you know people will throw money at you when you are on...need to take advantage and have something to show for it!
Miss_ShaSha
02-19-2019, 05:57 AM
I got 8 hrs sleep last night despite waking up 2 hours earlier. I feel ok. I'm having morning coffee while listening to & repeating self-kindness affirmations. I need to get the fuck on earlier to use my time wisely. I didn't meet goal last week, so I need to meet goal this week. Getting the fuck on earlier will only help. My intention today is to just stay positive.
PixiieGirl
02-19-2019, 06:16 AM
Im still ill but theres only so many days I can justify taking off. Drinking my tea with honey to soothe my throat then getting the fuck on
Cutie101
02-19-2019, 03:14 PM
You're right girls, is so easy to fall into procrastination. Because you're like "oh I am watching this Tv show 5 more minutes, I better watch it while I do my makeup".. and then u realise it takes u 45 minutes to put foundation, 2 eyeshadows, 1 stroke of eyeliner, false lashes and lipstick. Thing that takes me 15 min tops if I am focused.
Then you take a dinner break and play candy crush and you keep leveling up and of course, instead of eating in 15 minutes, it takes you another 45 minutes.
And so on. I admit I lost my discipline and it sucks because I am banking like crazy when I do that.
No biggie, I am already starting to get back into it. I just need to NOT turn on the TV under any circumstance :)))
AND SLEEPING. I will buy an alarm clock. And put it in the opposite corner of the room. To wake the fuck up.
This thread should be called WAKE THE FUCK UP, actually. I always sleep 1-2 extra hours because... self employed life.
Ginnyyy
02-19-2019, 06:31 PM
I ve had shifts averaging 12-15hs online lately and yesterday went offline with 4digits earnings, hoping to many more as that to come again and staying TF on. I am now shocked at how little hours I was staying before. It makes me laugh :))
Cutie101
02-19-2019, 07:04 PM
I ve had shifts averaging 12-15hs online lately and yesterday went offline with 4digits earnings, hoping to many more as that to come again and staying TF on. I am now shocked at how little hours I was staying before. It makes me laugh :))
YASSS!!! 15 hours!! NICE NICE NICE!!!
chomiak
02-19-2019, 07:18 PM
How do you find the patience? I can’t sit there and talk for 12-15 hours. I did 8 hours a few times and was so mentally exhausted I could have slept for 2 days haha! Kudos to you though. I’m literally in awe over your dedication and hard work. Send me a lil of that, would you??! Xo
Cutie101
02-19-2019, 07:21 PM
Woah, don’t know how those posted twice like that...
You click on "edit" and then delete it :))).
Cutie101
02-19-2019, 07:23 PM
How do you find the patience? I can’t sit there and talk for 12-15 hours. I did 8 hours a few times and was so mentally exhausted I could have slept for 2 days haha! Kudos to you though. I’m literally in awe over your dedication and hard work. Send me a lil of that, would you??! Xo
It's not about patience... I mean it is, but it's also the mental will, to be able to push trough shifts like that. The will to sacrifice, to put yourself ahead a few months financially. Or even a few years, if you commit to this for a longer time. Like, when others will struggle to pay their bills, you will afford to login whenever you want, because you worked smart.
I am also pushing myself mentally to get back to 12 hours shifts, because maaan... the money at the end of the month are true blessing :)) It's such a nice feeling to end the next month and still have money saved and also money left to spend from the previous month :))))
Cutie101
02-19-2019, 07:29 PM
Also, think about those poor workers from Amazon or other factories, who are standing inhuman hours, wearing diapers for a spit of a salary.
And we can't look pretty in front of a webcam, in the comfort of our homes, 12 hours a day for thousands of dollars?
Actually, what I said, made me realise that it's actually true. That's it. 12 hr shift tomorow.
Ginnyyy
02-19-2019, 07:53 PM
Not sacrificing anything, I simply have nothing else to do cause no hobbies in the winter :)) I also don t move a finger whilst I m in freechat, maybe my feet, I stay on my belly or ass and don t tease, just with my eyelashes :)) It s not making me consume lots of psychical energy at all and in private I m not that bouncy on a dildo.
This is not the best way to entice your viewers, in case a newbie stumbles across this post, don t do that.
Miss_ShaSha
02-19-2019, 08:47 PM
Not sacrificing anything, I simply have nothing else to do cause no hobbies in the winter :)) I also don t move a finger whilst I m in freechat, maybe my feet, I stay on my belly or ass and don t tease, just with my eyelashes :)) It s not making me consume lots of psychical energy at all and in private I m not that bouncy on a dildo.
This is not the best way to entice your viewers, in case a newbie stumbles across this post, don t do that.
I hear this. I stick to a 9-5 schedule so I can include lots of self care. Sleep schedule has to remain tight to keep me well mentally as does social interaction & regular training on the bike. But if I could pull this off I would. Much respect.
Cutie101
02-19-2019, 10:20 PM
Not sacrificing anything, I simply have nothing else to do cause no hobbies in the winter :)) I also don t move a finger whilst I m in freechat, maybe my feet, I stay on my belly or ass and don t tease, just with my eyelashes :)) It s not making me consume lots of psychical energy at all and in private I m not that bouncy on a dildo.
This is not the best way to entice your viewers, in case a newbie stumbles across this post, don t do that.
True that, well.. when pulling lots of hours, conserving the energy is important! Kudos girl, keep posting here to motivate us!
Luck you, I have lots of hobbies so i sacrifice a shit ton of stuff :)))))))))))))))))
NotANewGyal
02-20-2019, 12:14 AM
Been dancing but my body needs ba breaaaak. Will be staying tf on SM tomorrow, and filming a custom.
As much as I complain about camming, I'm grateful they I can stay the fuck on when I don't want to dance.
NotANewGyal
02-20-2019, 12:16 AM
Also, think about those poor workers from Amazon or other factories, who are standing inhuman hours, wearing diapers for a spit of a salary.
And we can't look pretty in front of a webcam, in the comfort of our homes, 12 hours a day for thousands of dollars?
Actually, what I said, made me realise that it's actually true. That's it. 12 hr shift tomorow.
This is a good perspective! I must remember this when I'm online.
Miss_ShaSha
02-20-2019, 11:03 AM
I just got on. I had to take a Spinning class then get groceries, so I'm on later. But fuck, I'm on. & I have to be on 6 days this week. I've got 3 more days then hopefully I meet the new income goal I've set for myself.
PixiieGirl
02-20-2019, 11:14 AM
Very nearly took the day off SM cause I’m /still/ under the weather - got on tho let’s hope it’s a good shift
Miss_ShaSha
02-20-2019, 12:29 PM
Also, think about those poor workers from Amazon or other factories, who are standing inhuman hours, wearing diapers for a spit of a salary.
And we can't look pretty in front of a webcam, in the comfort of our homes, 12 hours a day for thousands of dollars?
Actually, what I said, made me realise that it's actually true. That's it. 12 hr shift tomorow.
I'm going to keep this in mind. It's super slow right now, but I still make more than someone in a third world country dying for a break. I'm gonna STFO!!!
Miss_ShaSha
02-20-2019, 12:39 PM
Very nearly took the day off SM cause I’m /still/ under the weather - got on tho let’s hope it’s a good shift
Drinking tea is a good idea. I think you mentioned that. I started to feel clogged up last night, so I'm drinking sooooo much water today and will eat fruits. I hope you feel better soon. Good on you for logging on. The last cold I had, had me blowing my nose every 30 min to an hour. Guys were like "are you ok" LOLOL
sweetandnaughty
02-20-2019, 12:42 PM
Yep I'm doing the 12-15 hours a day now thru end of month. I'm doing it in 3 hrs blocks. Take a break and repeat. Only doing it in hours I think fast traffic will be around and break on slower hours. I'm also back at doing PSO on all of my PSO sites which I love. So the way I'm looking at it is 15 hrs of Pao while having big box site on in the Background. Maybe just a different POV will cure my procrastinating. I'll let u know the results.
innocentindian
02-20-2019, 01:13 PM
I swear Staying The Fuck On is like black magic! I go through a 2 - 3 hour stretch with no earnings, not even a single tip, when a guy swoops in right before I log off and saves the day. It's UNREAL how staying the fuck on just works!
Ginnyyy
02-21-2019, 09:04 AM
... social interaction & regular training on the bike.
I have the days off for that. 2days are just fine. I m too spoiled to work more than 5days in a row and I rarely pull in 6. Makes my blood pressure rise (smoker, coffee drinker here).
Miss_ShaSha
02-21-2019, 10:12 AM
I just got on 30 min ago. I took an hour long Spinning class then had to cook and shower. I just changed my schedule so I can take SPIN every morning now before getting on cam. I did NOT want to log on. Yesterday for 6 hours I made $4.81. I haven't had a day like that in so long that it had me shook.
I started feeling like today would be a repeat, but I thought "what if" up thoughts. Like "what if today is so busy it makes up for yesterday." And so far it's been good. A nice exclusive with one of my favorite foot guys. Gonna stay on this bitch ahahahaaaaa.
PixiieGirl
02-21-2019, 10:49 AM
I just got on 30 min ago. I took an hour long Spinning class then had to cook and shower. I just changed my schedule so I can take SPIN every morning now before getting on cam. I did NOT want to log on. Yesterday for 6 hours I made $4.81. I haven't had a day like that in so long that it had me shook.
I started feeling like today would be a repeat, but I thought "what if" up thoughts. Like "what if today is so busy it makes up for yesterday." And so far it's been good. A nice exclusive with one of my favorite foot guys. Gonna stay on this bitch ahahahaaaaa.
this has motivated me to get on, feeling in the grips of depression today but what if I miss out on good money by taking the day off? SM time
Miss_ShaSha
02-21-2019, 11:20 AM
this has motivated me to get on, feeling in the grips of depression today but what if I miss out on good money by taking the day off? SM time
It's haaaaard to stay positive when you're having a depressing day. I've been on now for an hour and a half and still just one show. So I started feeling a bit down...then decided I HAVE to raise my vibration. I put on some favorite music, pulled up a google doc, and typed out about 5 minutes worth of gratitude.
I hear you. I have those days too. I'm glad you're getting on. If you can at least eat healthy and drink half your body weight in ounces of water a day...it'll help.
PixiieGirl
02-21-2019, 11:29 AM
It's haaaaard to stay positive when you're having a depressing day. I've been on now for an hour and a half and still just one show. So I started feeling a bit down...then decided I HAVE to raise my vibration. I put on some favorite music, pulled up a google doc, and typed out about 5 minutes worth of gratitude.
I hear you. I have those days too. I'm glad you're getting on. If you can at least eat healthy and drink half your body weight in ounces of water a day...it'll help.
Tea and water will see me through, might treat myself to wine after my shift as a well done lol
Miss_ShaSha
02-21-2019, 12:50 PM
Tea and water will see me through, might treat myself to wine after my shift as a well done lol
Right on! Tea and water are great to improve my mood. I hear you on that wine tho...I'm going out for happy hour and I've only had 607 calories so far so I can eat a nice dinner & drink 2 glasses of wine.
Hey, how's your shift going?
PixiieGirl
02-21-2019, 01:07 PM
Right on! Tea and water are great to improve my mood. I hear you on that wine tho...I'm going out for happy hour and I've only had 607 calories so far so I can eat a nice dinner & drink 2 glasses of wine.
Hey, how's your shift going?
Totally awful tbh full of guys making me think they’re about to go pvt then leaving lmao
How about you?
SapphireXO
02-21-2019, 01:29 PM
Forced myself to be available today for shows. 3 hours in...
innocentindian
02-21-2019, 01:53 PM
End of the month slowness always gets me >__>
That Aesop fable of the ant and grasshopper always comes to mind during the slow times. Work hard during the month and you'll have enough to get you by during the slow times :)
Miss_ShaSha
02-21-2019, 02:07 PM
Totally awful tbh �� full of guys making me think they’re about to go pvt then leaving lmao
How about you?
Oh girl, I wish I could say the same. I'm not even getting conversation just ins & outs. Hahahaaa but when that happens & income is low for the day it's a challenge to keep my face ok lolol.
I'm 3.5 hrs in & only one show...but Monday was worse & I stayed the fuck on & made goal. I'm taking a lunch break then I'll be back at it.
Miss_ShaSha
02-21-2019, 03:30 PM
^^Right on.
Well, I'm glad I stayed the fuck on cause after 4 hours sitting on $14 from just one show, two foot boys came through and engaged in exclusive sessions plus a nice gold tip that got me to low goal. & legit...after $4 yesterday with 6 hours on I was about to stay off cause my feelings were hurt LOL After I did a 15 min positive affirmations session I forced myself to get back on. It paid off to stay on after the terrible start today. I can go to happy hour...happy.
Miss_ShaSha
02-22-2019, 07:40 AM
I'm going to get on cam earlier than scheduled as I'm not taking a Spinning class today (just going to eat 1,500 calories). I'm having coffee while listening to and repeating wealth and abundance affirmations. Today's intention is to remain positive and repeat abundance affirmations. But I seriously have to get the fuck on & make this money.
Miss_ShaSha
02-22-2019, 12:28 PM
Bet: getting the fuck on works even on days where it doesn't seem to work. Legit: on days where I didn't even make low goal I was still raising my vibration and staying consistent. What I gathered from those super slow days was I wasn't engaging in the abundance mindset enough. So I began to.
Yesterday I went full force on wealth and abundance thoughts and visualized good things for myself; this AM I hit wealth and abundance affirmations hard then add in the mental strength to get the fuck on and stay the fuck on & you've got meeting goals. I've made high goal & I still have about 4 hours left.
Keep getting the fuck on even when your spirits are low. Try to stay positive and do what you can. It pays off.
MissAdriana
02-22-2019, 12:39 PM
I've made high goal & I still have about 4 hours left.
Wow congrats! Love your dedication!! Do you like reading during work? Search neville goddard books for some excellent LOA lessons
Miss_ShaSha
02-22-2019, 01:32 PM
Wow congrats! Love your dedication!! Do you like reading during work? Search neville goddard books for some excellent LOA lessons
Thanks!!! I'll look into them :)
Edit: just got The Law and Other Essays on Manifestation. I'll be reading it the rest of my shift. & I do read every shift! :)
PixiieGirl
02-22-2019, 01:46 PM
Bet: getting the fuck on works even on days where it doesn't seem to work. Legit: on days where I didn't even make low goal I was still raising my vibration and staying consistent. What I gathered from those super slow days was I wasn't engaging in the abundance mindset enough. So I began to.
Yesterday I went full force on wealth and abundance thoughts and visualized good things for myself; this AM I hit wealth and abundance affirmations hard then add in the mental strength to get the fuck on and stay the fuck on & you've got meeting goals. I've made high goal & I still have about 4 hours left.
Keep getting the fuck on even when your spirits are low. Try to stay positive and do what you can. It pays off.
gratz lovely! Ive taken today off to work on my vanilla business (well, skype is on but not a peep there lol) but hell yeah tomorrow Im gonna get the fuck on and make my goal :D
youre really inspiring
Miss_ShaSha
02-22-2019, 03:10 PM
gratz lovely! Ive taken today off to work on my vanilla business (well, skype is on but not a peep there lol) but hell yeah tomorrow Im gonna get the fuck on and make my goal :D
youre really inspiring
Yessss! Keeping busy :) girl, I appreciate that. I read the stay the fuck on thread for inspiration & it helps! I'm glad I can assist. I'm taking my last break. I'm listening to binaural betas then I'm getting the fuck back on.
I'll see you tomorrow. I have to make my new weekly income goal. & tomorrow will be the day to get me to it. Hope you profit today from your Vanilla Business!!!
SapphireXO
02-22-2019, 04:03 PM
Forced myself on. Errands took WAY longer than expected + traffic. Going on even if it's just for an hour.
Miss_ShaSha
02-22-2019, 04:14 PM
Forced myself on. Errands took WAY longer than expected + traffic. Going on even if it's just for an hour.
Yesssss! This is why you're banking.
I got back on. I haven't had any shows, but a few men have favorited me and I'm going to keep a positive frame of mind and say "they'll be back".
Miss_ShaSha
02-23-2019, 07:31 AM
I think the cold has finally hit me. I've been feeling a little strange nasally for about 3 days, and last night I was up coughing. I only got 7.5 hrs sleep when I usually get 9. I do NOT want to cam, but I got the fuck on 15 min ago to try and pull a 9 hr shift. I HAVE to make new weekly goal.
Intention is to stay positive and hydrated. I have a hot date at the local comedy club with SO. I wanna celebrate by having a great day on cam.
Miss_ShaSha
02-23-2019, 11:32 AM
So I've coughed a little, but I'm staying hydrated: 64 ounces water so far. I'm on point with calories too: 647 for breakfast & lunch which leaves me with 903 for the comedy club. Yayeeyayee haha.
Almost done with lunch break. I've hit old weekly goal, but I'm getting back on to hopefully hit new weekly goal. Gonna stick it out today: 5 more hours.
NotANewGyal
02-24-2019, 02:31 AM
Been at the club so I haven't by camming. Will have to cam at least 20 hours this week, starting now.
Miss_ShaSha
02-24-2019, 09:44 AM
Been at the club so I haven't by camming. Will have to cam at least 20 hours this week, starting now.
Not a bad reason to be off cam :)
Miss_ShaSha
02-24-2019, 09:47 AM
Date with SO was awesome & I slept over at his place. The weather is killer and he wanted to hike the local preserve, but I cannot miss out on this money. Sundays are my busiest days. So I gotta get on cam soon. I'm already 45 min late. Fuck! No excuses, getting on after a quick shower.
Intention today is to make high goal and stay positive. I can do this.
NotANewGyal
02-24-2019, 02:14 PM
Not a bad reason to be off cam :)
Yes it was a nice change of pace!
Miss_ShaSha
02-24-2019, 04:53 PM
My intention today was to stay positive and meet high goal. Within 15 min of logging on I had 2 shows totalling $34 and I thought "yes, at this rate I'll surpass goal in a couple hours". Wrong, I was sitting on that $34 for almost 6 hours. I took 3 breaks today because my mood kept dropping and one goal was to keep my vibration up. Seriously, I wanted to call it a fuckin day cause in the last 2 hours, legit: about 20 ins & outs (no convo). That was it. Terrible traffic. I almost posted in Camming Sucks. Then I looked through my old posts where I stayed the fuck on and thought "a big fish can't be caught if you take your boat home".
STFO works! 10 min before my shift was over and new fella entered my room. We have meditation in common. Anyhow his long private got me to surpass high goal. For real...I'm so very grateful! STFO :)