View Full Version : The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 10:20 AM
2 hrs into an 8 hr shift on SM. Had one really great exclusive and my energy and vibe are way up.
I need the accountability of this thread as I usually just do 6 hrs. I need to stream 8 today.
6 hrs left. MUST. STAY. THE. FUCK. ON!!!
NitaBaby
09-29-2019, 10:31 AM
I am concerned .
Violethollywood
09-29-2019, 10:42 AM
IDK how any of yall make money on streammate. when i was doing it I couldt hardly make 25 bucks a WEEK. It was like if i wasnt flashing my vag, no one would stay and im not ugly by any means so idk lol. the only places where i have made anything wothwhile would be mfc or chaturbate and even then its small. the industry is just not what it used to be
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 10:47 AM
I am concerned .
I'm in an incredible mood, but girl...I'm starting to think I might need to stream 10 hrs today. I'm coming up on 3 hrs on SM and a sad $39.15
Sheesh! I'm all bubbly and shit. Not sure what to say right now.
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 10:52 AM
IDK how any of yall make money on streammate. when i was doing it I couldt hardly make 25 bucks a WEEK. It was like if i wasnt flashing my vag, no one would stay and im not ugly by any means so idk lol. the only places where i have made anything wothwhile would be mfc or chaturbate and even then its small. the industry is just not what it used to be
SM can be so tough! My last two weeks I streamed about 64 hrs total and made $300 less than I normally do a week. The summer slow down was a drag for me the first two weeks of June and the last two weeks of Sept.
But when I first started back up with SM I'd stream 30 hrs some weeks and barely make $250. It can be a beast of a bitch for some.
Yeah, I started camming in 2010 and back then it was pretty awesome. Just hop on for a couple hrs and make a couple hundred. Now? haha maybe in 6 hrs LOL.
NitaBaby
09-29-2019, 10:56 AM
i see what this is. i see what game we're about to play. #HUSTLEMODE3K ACTIVATED lol.
Holly_xoxo
09-29-2019, 10:59 AM
My work week starts tomorrow and I'll need this thread. Last week was awful. I got myself so riled up and anxious due to the deadness that I felt physically sick and my mood was just awful. I'm sure that stress was obvious by looking at me which didn't help matters. Ended up not even working the last two days of the pay period which does nothing but hurt my wallet.....sigh...
I'm not sure what to do to make this week go better but I for sure need to STFO
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 10:59 AM
i see what this is. i see what game we're about to play. #HUSTLEMODE3K ACTIVATED lol.
Hahahaaaaa POWER motherfuckin UP!!! You got this sis xoxo
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 11:06 AM
My work week starts tomorrow and I'll need this thread. Last week was awful. I got myself so riled up and anxious due to the deadness that I felt physically sick and my mood was just awful. I'm sure that stress was obvious by looking at me which didn't help matters. Ended up not even working the last two days of the pay period which does nothing but hurt my wallet.....sigh...
I'm not sure what to do to make this week go better but I for sure need to STFO
Sis, listen...my last two weeks I streamed my ass off and kept eating shit. I know how hard it is to get back on cam after streaming 6 to 8 hrs and earning $31. It hits me HARD.
But, legit, I've been falling asleep to positive affirmations of self-confidence, health, wealth, abundance, and prosperity which is miraculously great for my self-esteem.
I used to internalize bad days and my self-esteem would drop lower and lower with each bad shift. Now? I'm just like FUCK it's slow and I'm just not getting enough of the paying traffic I need instead of saying something like "I'm too fat" "I'm not pretty enough" or "I'm just too damn old".
Girl, sister, I hear you loud and clear. I've seen you on cam. You are beautiful and friendly. You got the right stuff. You just keep believing you got the right stuff and the good paying guys will show up. I just know!
You've made $1k before. I saw it in the $1k thread. You'll make it again. Best BELIEVE!!!
Holly_xoxo
09-29-2019, 11:19 AM
Sis, listen...my last two weeks I streamed my ass off and kept eating shit. I know how hard it is to get back on cam after streaming 6 to 8 hrs and earning $31. It hits me HARD.
But, legit, I've been falling asleep to positive affirmations of self-confidence, health, wealth, abundance, and prosperity which is miraculously great for my self-esteem.
I used to internalize bad days and my self-esteem would drop lower and lower with each bad shift. Now? I'm just like FUCK it's slow and I'm just not getting enough of the paying traffic I need instead of saying something like "I'm too fat" "I'm not pretty enough" or "I'm just too damn old".
Girl, sister, I hear you loud and clear. I've seen you on cam. You are beautiful and friendly. You got the right stuff. You just keep believing you got the right stuff and the good paying guys will show up. I just know!
You've made $1k before. I saw it in the $1k thread. You'll make it again. Best BELIEVE!!!
Damn, you hit me right in the feels :-* Thanks for saying all that. For the next few weeks I'll do the positive affirmations and meditations that you talk about. You're right about internalizing. Does no good and I'm sure it changes the vibe in the room. I'm not exuding confidence these days. My mood has been flat and nobody wants to buy that shit Lol
NitaBaby
09-29-2019, 12:22 PM
YESSSSS.... did my first successful gold show. Gahdamn that felt good.
I didn't even make goal but I learned from watching other girls that if you offer "pussy play @200" but only make it to like 100 then just do a bj shows and call it a day. Don't cancel (unless the pledges were just that low anyway). Goal was 175 but I made it to 100. You better believe I made that money with my clothes on lol.
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 12:24 PM
Logging the fuck back on after a good long break to clear negative energy and eat a suped up mega protein meal for all the energy I need to kill an 8 or possibly 10 hr day.
Meditation session was legit, really good. HR as low as 46 bpm? Haha, this heart is doing good and thank god...cause it's not looking good so far on my end saleswise.
52011
Ate 5 oz salmon, 8 small asparagus spears lightly fried in one tablespoon of extra virgin olive oil, half medium avocado, and two tablespoons vegan kimchi. I'm super excited for this food to hit me. Energy will be fire.
5 more hrs Sha. STFO! You got this shit!!!
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 02:46 PM
Oohhh fuck this is so much damn work. I've got all this good energy and thank god, cause I'm trying for this 68% of high goal.
Not reaching goal each day isn't an option. I am determined to meet goal everyday this week, and if that means 10 hr shifts...then fuck I'll be streaming 10 hrs a day.
5.5 hrs down. 2.5 more hrs or 4.5 to reach goal.
I'm no quitter. C'mon Sha. You CAN do this!!!
Update:
8 hrs streamed 92% high goal glad I STFO
NitaBaby
09-29-2019, 05:49 PM
i am literally $33 bucks away from low goal and it is driving me crazzzzzyyyyy. I don't know how I even managed to milk this much out of these guys (THE HUSTLE WAS REAL) but I am sick of re-vamping what I'm doing every 5 minutes. I have been the gold show girl, the cam game girl, flirt-for-no-reason-in-free-chat girl, and I's tired boss.
As proud as I am of myself, I want to walk away knowing that I truly did my ultimate best. And "my best" equals more money than this shit.
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2019, 05:55 PM
^^AMEN! HALLELUJAH! You fuckin doin it! You got this girl! You so fuckin got this!
NitaBaby
09-29-2019, 06:07 PM
^^AMEN! HALLELUJAH! You fuckin doin it! You got this girl! You so fuckin got this!
This made me smile so big tho lol
golddiggerAF
09-29-2019, 09:36 PM
I guess I need to find an alternative to TextNow... this app keeps going absolutely batshit crazy on me.
First it froze right while a call was coming through..
Now one of my regulars is trying to call me and the app is restarting itself mid call.
This guy is happy to pay me $2.29 just to tell me how sexy I am.
Act TF right TextNow! lol
Things that try to make me give up and log off. NOPE! I'm staying tf on!
golddiggerAF
09-29-2019, 09:44 PM
My "work week" starts Sunday night.
I'm logged in on NF trying to make an honest living and my TextNow app is hating on me big time.
But the money train is still chugging hoe!
NitaBaby
09-30-2019, 06:44 AM
I do this before every shift now. Change my outfit twice. Eat an extra bowl of cereal. Contemplate the meaning of life. Re-arrange the tabs that are open on my computer (because the Youtube tab HAS to be next to my stream tab, but SW needs to be the first tab that I open, no matter what...). Should I clean the kitchen first? Which turns into me vacuuming the livingroom.
Anything to avoid getting tf on.
izshadow
09-30-2019, 10:23 AM
I do this before every shift now. Change my outfit twice. Eat an extra bowl of cereal. Contemplate the meaning of life. Re-arrange the tabs that are open on my computer (because the Youtube tab HAS to be next to my stream tab, but SW needs to be the first tab that I open, no matter what...). Should I clean the kitchen first? Which turns into me vacuuming the livingroom.
Anything to avoid getting tf on.
Girl I feel you.
Ugh I should sign on. Oh maybe I should vacuum first. No cause if you do that then you will clean the whole house. But I have to wash the dogs.... no girl, just sign on. You do that and you will be down and out for like two days and you still need rent money. You cant waste your afternoon like this. Okay just a bagel then and then I'll sign on. Oh look lizards stuck in the screen, no wonder my cat is trying to take down the window. Let me save them and tape the spot closed. Hmmmm my head hurts, let me OD on some aspirin. No seriously, dont OD. Sigh. Okay let me start a load of laundry I can start doing that while on cam. You really need to get groceries. No! Stop. Get on cam. FINE! I'm here.... ugh!
Miss_ShaSha
09-30-2019, 10:59 AM
Did 4.5 hrs earlier then took a nap & I'm groggy. Do NOT wanna cam, but I'm logging on after tea for 3.5 hrs.
Gotta make this $1k foreal!
sweetandnaughty
09-30-2019, 11:08 AM
Yes! I was this way all of September and couldn't afford to be that way. I'm on the ball for each day in October. Low goal $150 and high goal $200..or more. I finally got all my pso accounts back up so that will help. I love doing pdo but streaming always makes me procrastinate. Wish I new why. Maybe it is stagefright..
Well I just needed to vent. Get that $$$ girls. Coffee shower food and then 3pm to 6 am shift today and tomorrow!!
NitaBaby
09-30-2019, 11:28 AM
Girl I feel you.
Ugh I should sign on. Oh maybe I should vacuum first. No cause if you do that then you will clean the whole house. But I have to wash the dogs.... no girl, just sign on. You do that and you will be down and out for like two days and you still need rent money. You cant waste your afternoon like this. Okay just a bagel then and then I'll sign on. Oh look lizards stuck in the screen, no wonder my cat is trying to take down the window. Let me save them and tape the spot closed. Hmmmm my head hurts, let me OD on some aspirin. No seriously, dont OD. Sigh. Okay let me start a load of laundry I can start doing that while on cam. You really need to get groceries. No! Stop. Get on cam. FINE! I'm here.... ugh!
LITERALLY like this lol
LoraDoll
09-30-2019, 06:59 PM
I overslept a bit, and I can spend only 5 hours on cam. The maid ll arrive at 8am so I need to stop before that. I dont like such short shifts , but I decided to hop on anyway. Let s see what can be done. :3
izshadow
09-30-2019, 09:04 PM
I'm back on. I'm tired. I look like shit but here I sit.
Miss_ShaSha
10-01-2019, 06:57 AM
Nita, WTF are you doing? Aren't you supposed to be on cam? Make that money honey! You know you got it like that :)
NitaBaby
10-01-2019, 07:37 AM
Nita, WTF are you doing? Aren't you supposed to be on cam? Make that money honey! You know you got it like that :)
i've been caught! lmaooooo alright alright I'm getting on
caramelcraze
10-01-2019, 08:40 AM
2 hours down, 10 to go. About to have my period and want to make my time online count before a week of basically being offline.
NitaBaby
10-01-2019, 10:43 AM
I had to pick bf up from work almost as soon as he clocked in so I’m about to get back on again. Everything is still set up
SuperPookie
10-01-2019, 06:06 PM
It's really important that I make at least low goal but damn this is killing me. 9 hours down 1 to go before I throw in the towel for the night.
Miss_ShaSha
10-01-2019, 06:23 PM
^^Girl, I admire your will power. It's fucking hard sometimes & you get down & do it!
LullaBelle
10-01-2019, 06:53 PM
4 hours in and I reached my lowest goal of $100. 3.5 hours more to go. I'm going to STFO and try to keep up my positive vibe.
izshadow
10-01-2019, 08:54 PM
My back is on fire but I'm back on. Praying this goes quick and I dont have to sit and wait and cry and beg. I just want my bed.
NitaBaby
10-01-2019, 09:00 PM
My back is on fire but I'm back on. Praying this goes quick and I dont have to sit and wait and cry and beg. I just want my bed.
Same. Either tonight works out or I'm officially paying late fees. I wanna be wrapped up in my covers so fucking bad. I hated watching my bf go to bed, leaving me in this livingroom with these raggedy mfs on my laptop screen. It's just me and this nasty ass energy drink now.
izshadow
10-01-2019, 09:21 PM
Same. Either tonight works out or I'm officially paying late fees. I wanna be wrapped up in my covers so fucking bad. I hated watching my bf go to bed, leaving me in this livingroom with these raggedy mfs on my laptop screen. It's just me and this nasty ass energy drink now.
I'm seeing a lot of day time girls pulling nights now. I feel for them to. I just need $81 bucks. Like fucking my mother fucking life. Come on!!!!!! I want to flip this desk and go office space on everything.
Esixxx
10-01-2019, 10:08 PM
Just took a dinner break about to log back on- 3 1/2 hours worked. Going until I get tired- the shark is coming this week.
golddiggerAF
10-02-2019, 12:49 AM
Just finished my nails. About to hop on MFC for the 1st time this year lol
golddiggerAF
10-02-2019, 03:00 AM
I was only able to cam for about an hour before my daughter woke up. As soon as I heard her turning the door knob, I stopped broadcasting. I want to get back on after she goes back to sleep... if my son doesn't wake up too. #MomLife
Edit: Son eventually woke up about 1.5 hr later. Daughter never went back to sleep but I turned on some funny kids clips on YouTube and she stayed in my bed while I hopped back on cam in another room. I'm proud of my commitment to squeezing that extra hour & change in this morning.
MissAliss515xx
10-02-2019, 07:40 AM
GTFO now. Sigh. The quicker I get on cam and bank the rest of my money I need, the quicker it will be done !
xStellaBlue
10-03-2019, 03:50 AM
Sometimes idk if STFO is worth it. I've been onSM for 59 minutes and only made $2.40 so far. Trying to stick it out until 4pm EST though. *sigh* Gonna listen to some LOA stuff
Miss_ShaSha
10-03-2019, 07:02 AM
Sometimes idk if STFO is worth it. I've been onSM for 59 minutes and only made $2.40 so far. Trying to stick it out until 4pm EST though. *sigh* Gonna listen to some LOA stuff
Good idea. You got this.
xStellaBlue
10-03-2019, 07:38 AM
Good idea. You got this.
I'm still at $2.40. :( and my electric bill is due today.
Miss_ShaSha
10-03-2019, 07:49 AM
^^It can be discouraging. Sometimes I'm on for 6.5 hrs before I get some good shows. Sending you good vibes.
xStellaBlue
10-03-2019, 08:16 AM
thank you, you're a sweety. youre posts always inspire me <3
Miss_ShaSha
10-03-2019, 09:06 AM
^^You're welcome, doll. Hey, got your FR but SW won't let me accept it. I'll keep trying tho. Yeah, I need this thread today as I'm streaming 8 hrs. I have a feeling it's gonna be slow, so I'll need to take breaks when appropriate to hang for 8 hrs.
We got this!
Miss_ShaSha
10-03-2019, 01:34 PM
Streamed 2.5 hrs then got off as it was so dead. Watched a self healing documentary, did some LOA work, then hopped back on.
GTFO for 5.5 hrs. Gotta reach goal. I can do this.
Miss_ShaSha
10-03-2019, 01:42 PM
Streamed 2.5 hrs and nothing. Just got back on for 5.5 hrs and got a 10 GOLD tip for feet. Feeling hopeful. Only willing to stream 8 hrs today and not a minute more. If this week sucks, fuck it. I know it will get better.
MUST. STAY. ON!!!
SuperPookie
10-03-2019, 01:50 PM
^^Girl, I admire your will power. It's fucking hard sometimes & you get down & do it!
I admire your attitude!
I ended up staying on for a total of 12 hours yesterday & at the very last minute I got a NiteFlirt show and squeezed into low goal. That guy has no idea how much I wanted to hug his pervy self because at that point I was actually almost crying on cam. But in the end stfo did pay off :D.
Miss_ShaSha
10-03-2019, 02:01 PM
^^FUCK!!! That is STFO!!!
Miss_ShaSha
10-03-2019, 03:36 PM
So glad I GTFbackO and STFO!!! It was so terribly dead in my room on SM. I took a break then came back with a positive frame of mind.
Then this happened in an 11 min excl:
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And then my fav foot fetish reg came thru for a 15 min excl block and did this:
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GTFO ladies and STFO! These men want YOU. They want YOUR time!!!
So grateful!!!