View Full Version : The "Just stay the fuck on" thread.
gbjenna
11-08-2020, 05:38 PM
STFO worked for me today! Rode it out through the intense boredom and blocked a lot of people lol but I finished $25 above high goal!
Keep going ladies!!! You’ve got this!
Genoveve
11-08-2020, 05:49 PM
STFO for one hour......I'm gonna do 4 today and I'd like to get them done early but Saturday days tend to be deadzo for me so if the one hour is shitty I'll come back later for the other 3, but if it's fine I'll stay on longer.
I didn't do 4 hours. I did 2 then got hungry and logged off to have dinner and came back at night but it was slower than anticipated so I bounced. I think I have to accept that split shifts just do not work for me, once I log off for a while it is nearly impossible for me to rally myself to get back on let alone stay on. I have to get good at actually staying the fuck on, and I think in order to do it I HAVE to do dayshifts because I never feel like camming once the sun goes down(for some weird reason). In order to stay on for longer than like 2.5 hours it has to be during the day.
moneybags
11-08-2020, 07:13 PM
^^^^That’s funny I only like camming at night...just a night owl. I’ve had a bunch of lame customers, but I’m gonna stay the fuck on till I make my medium goal. I know it’s just a waiting game. It’s still early. I’m gonna drink this kava tea and then act like a dumb slut $$$. I swear I could have worked in a high end club, but I always made money in divey places. Same with camming I get all this sexy music and lingerie on and they just want to act like a trashy whore. Whatever. If it pays my bills. I just didn’t have my whore game face on, but I’ll get in character and make that money. Go team!
Made close to $500. Lots closer to my goal than if I logged off. STFO and make that money! There’s always a guy willing to buy if you are able to fill a NEED for him. Make him think you’re THAT girl!
~Carmen~
11-09-2020, 01:10 AM
^^^^That’s funny I only like camming at night...just a night owl. I’ve had a bunch of lame customers, but I’m gonna stay the fuck on till I make my medium goal. I know it’s just a waiting game. It’s still early. I’m gonna drink this kava tea and then act like a dumb slut $$$. I swear I could have worked in a high end club, but I always made money in divey places. Same with camming I get all this sexy music and lingerie on and they just want to act like a trashy whore. Whatever. If it pays my bills. I just didn’t have my whore game face on, but I’ll get in character and make that money. Go team!
Omg this made me laugh so hard :D
izshadow
11-09-2020, 12:36 PM
I didn't do 4 hours. I did 2 then got hungry and logged off to have dinner and came back at night but it was slower than anticipated so I bounced. I think I have to accept that split shifts just do not work for me, once I log off for a while it is nearly impossible for me to rally myself to get back on let alone stay on. I have to get good at actually staying the fuck on, and I think in order to do it I HAVE to do dayshifts because I never feel like camming once the sun goes down(for some weird reason). In order to stay on for longer than like 2.5 hours it has to be during the day.
I'm the same. Once I take that shower and eat my dinner, I'm done for the night and cant move off that couch. I just wish days were as lucrative as nights can potentially be. But even the dogs are dragging me in to bed by 11pm and with the cooler weather coming, my butt is going to be wanting to be under those blankets more so then ever once that sun goes down.
Esixxx
11-09-2020, 03:32 PM
On this morning for two hours. Took a lunch break, walked the grandfurbaby, then logged back on. Mondays used to be good :(. Trying to stay on until 6 pm- which is another hour and half.
Update: STFO until 6 pm as I intended to do today. Reached medium goal with the help of an SP show-I'll take it
Genoveve
11-09-2020, 04:15 PM
^^^^That’s funny I only like camming at night...just a night owl.
I used to do exclusively night shifts back in the day, idk what happened although I suspect it may have been the switch to mandatory free chat. I feel like doing free chat has made me more temperamental with my schedule, your energy levels are more important when you're on display the entire time.
I'm the same. Once I take that shower and eat my dinner, I'm done for the night and cant move off that couch. I just wish days were as lucrative as nights can potentially be.
Same and that's my big issue with STFO, I have the energy to do it during the day but days are usually slower for me. It happens to me all the time where I log on early in a good mood with high energy planning to do an actual shift(which to me is like 4-6 hours) and then it ends up being slow AF so I bounce, and when I log on at night with low energy and so not in the mood to be there(and unwilling to do more than a couple hours because I don't want to be up late) is when I make the real money. That being said though, I do at times have slow nights and at times busy days and I always wonder if I actually stuck out a week of day shifts if my average would end up being the same.
Genoveve
11-09-2020, 06:30 PM
Woohoo I STFO for 3 hours, my longest 'dayshift' in ages. Tomorrow I'm gonna finally do a 4 hour one.
Miss_ShaSha
11-10-2020, 01:46 PM
Currently streamed 3.5 hrs. Hit low goal in 2. Planning to STFO til 8pm which is 5 more hours. Tryna manifest high goal.
C'mon Sha...you can do this!!!
Esixxx
11-10-2020, 02:20 PM
Been on a close 4.5 hours- with a break earlier. Going to take a break and walk the grandfurbaby. I need the exercise and she'll give me good boost of energy. Game plan is to log back on after the break and work a couple more hours.
340 minutes-I give- $32. Going to destress- tommorrow is a new day
Miss_ShaSha
11-10-2020, 03:23 PM
5+ hrs now and I'm ready to log the fuck off cause I haven't made shit since 2pm and it's almost 4:30pm.
Damn, it's been a deadzone. I dunno if I can STFO til 8pm. That's 3.5 more hours.
Lord, give me strength. HELP!!!! lololllll
UPDATE:
DAAAAAMN!!! STFO works! About to log off and this fella comes in, goes pvt, and all non-nude proceeds to tip almost $70 my cut:
53590
Med goal exceeded!!!
tiffany_twisted
11-11-2020, 01:51 AM
Yaaaaay omg this was my mantra tonight, I have endometriosis and I just got wrecked by my period and like daaaaaaaaaamn I did not wanna work tonight. ive been so frustrated because my walls are super thin so i can only do typing shows and i've been struggling to find my groove. so i went on for just over an hour and i made like 9 tokens and i got so disheartened and in a bad mind set, i am dramatic as hell so i was lying on my bed like "WHATEVER i'll never make money i guess i'll STARVE" hahahahaha. But after like an hour of that I went back online and stayed for 5 hours, and ended the night with 13467 cause my one whale regular stopped by. all thanks to thinking about this thread!!!!
xxxGothBarbie
11-11-2020, 01:59 AM
I was up very early this morning & fighting sleep all day but nope I stayed up & worked. I'm even pushing myself now to stay available until 2 am. I already have low goal yay
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2020, 04:20 AM
It's really slow going. I got on at 3:55am cst and it's almost 5:30am. I wanted to get on since I wasn't tired. Gonna stay on til 6:40am which is when I have to go to the gym. Hoping by staying on I can pull in more before reg shift at 9am.
UPDATE:
Stayed on for 2.5 hrs and $113.15 isn't exactly bad, but I had hoped early morning hours would have yielded much more. Going to make breakfast then get ready for the gym. Will be back for reg shift 9am-6pm cst.
UPDATE:
Back from gym and on for reg shift. 9am-6pm. Already got a show. STFO!!!
UPDATE:
3+ hrs and just 7 min paid chat. Damn, getting really hard to stay on. I did walk to the store next door and got some air and stretched my legs, but this deadness is horrible. Gonna STFO tho. The only way I make med goal these days is by doing hours upon hours.
MUST STAY ON!!!
Esixxx
11-11-2020, 02:34 PM
I've been on 4.2 hours and made $15.67.
Took a break to spend a little time with my daughter- needed to vent and decompress and got a cup of coffee.
I'm thinking I need to change my work hours. I am at a loss, but going to give it my best.
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2020, 03:27 PM
I've been on 4.2 hours and made $15.67.
Took a break to spend a little time with my daughter- needed to vent and decompress and got a cup of coffee.
I'm thinking I need to change my work hours. I am at a loss, but going to give it my best.
I had to take a long break myself. Of my actual shift (4 hrs from 9-1pm cst) I'm at $21.78
This shit is tough. I had to stop the 4-9pm shift cause it wasn't yielding much and went back to earlier hours. Changing times isn't a bad idea at all cause it's not you. Your energy is right.
I'm finishing this last two hours then I'm off for a date night with BF. This deadness has really gotten to me and I totally feel you, girl. TOTALLY.
Esixxx
11-11-2020, 03:42 PM
I had to take a long break myself. Of my actual shift (4 hrs from 9-1pm cst) I'm at $21.78
This shit is tough. I had to stop the 4-9pm shift cause it wasn't yielding much and went back to earlier hours. Changing times isn't a bad idea at all cause it's not you. Your energy is right.
I'm finishing this last two hours then I'm off for a date night with BF. This deadness has really gotten to me and I totally feel you, girl. TOTALLY.
Enjoy your date!
Yeah I am thinking it's time to do something different. The hours that I have been doing aren't working out for me thus far. Monday I was able to hit medium goal which was $160.
I'm going to brainstorm somethings out- I know there are men with money ready to spend!
P.S.. Thank you for the encouragement!
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2020, 04:18 PM
Enjoy your date!
Yeah I am thinking it's time to do something different. The hours that I have been doing aren't working out for me thus far. Monday I was able to hit medium goal which was $160.
I'm going to brainstorm somethings out- I know there are men with money ready to spend!
P.S.. Thank you for the encouragement!
Yeah, most def!!! You're usually helping me feel better about shifts.
Oh, I'm so ready for fun. BF is really, I mean REALLY bad at pool lol and I just stomp on him. Like 5-0 stomp. But boy is he good at darts like he kills me. I taught him darts and he steady whoops my ass. It's fun cause we talk shit to each other. It's fair cause we both get to talk lots of shit hahahaaaa.
Esixxx
11-11-2020, 04:51 PM
402 minutes on SM today. That's all I got today- I am famished. Tomorrow is a new day. Going to put my thinking cap on tonight.
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2020, 05:15 PM
^^Well done! That is def STFO!!!
Esixxx
11-11-2020, 05:29 PM
Yeah, most def!!! You're usually helping me feel better about shifts.
Oh, I'm so ready for fun. BF is really, I mean REALLY bad at pool lol and I just stomp on him. Like 5-0 stomp. But boy is he good at darts like he kills me. I taught him darts and he steady whoops my ass. It's fun cause we talk shit to each other. It's fair cause we both get to talk lots of shit hahahaaaa.
I gotta say this - It sounds like you are in a solid relationship. He's there for you, encourages and motivates you and you guys have fun :)
And the shit talking is great! I haven't played a good game of pool in ages- kind of want a beer now after today lol
Have an amazing night!
Miss_ShaSha
11-11-2020, 06:48 PM
I gotta say this - It sounds like you are in a solid relationship. He's there for you, encourages and motivates you and you guys have fun :)
And the shit talking is great! I haven't played a good game of pool in ages- kind of want a beer now after today lol
Have an amazing night!
He's incredible & I truly believe I manifested him. I was working on self-love for a couple years.
As for financial manifestation & financial abundance? I'm manifesting lack. & thank God for him. He's extremely supportive.
I have health in abundance, love in abundance, but I'm on the verge of broke. It's so hard to balance. I lose sleep my income situation is so bad. When you posted that stellar night sleep I was so juiced for you. I strive for that. & when you post about family I just get so happy. My family is far.
Wouldn't it be nice to one day have it all?
Esixxx
11-11-2020, 07:23 PM
He's incredible & I truly believe I manifested him. I was working on self-love for a couple years.
As for financial manifestation & financial abundance? I'm manifesting lack. & thank God for him. He's extremely supportive.
I have health in abundance, love in abundance, but I'm on the verge of broke. It's so hard to balance. I lose sleep my income situation is so bad. When you posted that stellar night sleep I was so juiced for you. I strive for that. & when you post about family I just get so happy. My family is far.
Wouldn't it be nice to one day have it all?
Call me a dreamer, but I think we can have it all :) Life's a journey.
You got me to thinking in a good way- about the blessings that we do have. I also think about last year where I was emotionally and mentally- and there is a huge difference.
My highly sensitive self has learned to cope and manage my energy. ( I really think that studying and practicing reiki helped with that) And that has been awesome. I need to get back into doing self reiki again on a regular basis. My determination and focus has also improved.
That night was the first night in a long time that I had a solid night sleep, I really had the energy to go the distance that day.
Miss_ShaSha
11-12-2020, 11:55 AM
^^All that makes me happy and hopeful. Your progress isn't a surprise as I see you putting in work. You motivate the shit out of me!!!
Miss_ShaSha
11-12-2020, 12:01 PM
I missed morning wood and for 1.5+ hrs I was sitting with some deep regret and a lot of anxiety. I sat in my dead room feeling horrible. Thought about logging off and just taking the day off when a reg jumped into a private tipping GOLD on top then directly after that show another member hopped in private.
Just gotta stay on this bitch cause we have no idea who will come by. Yesterday was horribly slow and I went long stretches with nothing only to be saved when I wanted to give up.
Gonna try to STFO for 6 hrs today. Already 2+ hrs in. Just gotta be patient.
Esixxx
11-12-2020, 12:24 PM
I missed morning wood and for 1.5+ hrs I was sitting with some deep regret and a lot of anxiety. I sat in my dead room feeling horrible. Thought about logging off and just taking the day off when a reg jumped into a private tipping GOLD on top then directly after that show another member hopped in private.
Just gotta stay on this bitch cause we have no idea who will come by. Yesterday was horribly slow and I went long stretches with nothing only to be saved when I wanted to give up.
Gonna try to STFO for 6 hrs today. Already 2+ hrs in. Just gotta be patient.
Well done! Get it :)
Esixxx
11-12-2020, 12:43 PM
So far I've been on 2 hours. Logged off to walk the grandfurbaby. Took a short 15 power nap
53598
Back at it now- shooting to work until 5:30. Reiki circle is tonight.
Miss_ShaSha
11-12-2020, 12:51 PM
^^OMG that pic is so damn cute hahahaaaa. Just made my chest all warm.
Esixxx
11-12-2020, 12:55 PM
That's why I posted it :) She was not thrilled about being put in the raincoat lol.
MsJess
11-12-2020, 04:17 PM
haha how cuteeeee!!!
Looks like today is gonna be slow!! gotta stay on! ugh...
Miss_ShaSha
11-12-2020, 05:04 PM
STFO today & holy smokes: exceeded high goal. I did not want to stream. I had bad anxiety. It was slow for the first hour & a half, but damn did it turn around.
Feeling grateful AF!!!
Genoveve
11-12-2020, 07:19 PM
I'm STFO for an hour and twenty minutes. I was on earlier but it was too dead so I took off after 40 minutes, and by doing an hour and twenty tonight I can at least say I did two hours total. I'll stay on longer if it's busy but I'm not feeling very optimistic since Tues and Wed were freakishly slow for me.
Genoveve
11-12-2020, 07:29 PM
Wow CANCEL CANCEL CANCEL. It's still dead for me, since Tuesday I hardly very low traffic. I'm giving it fifteen minutes and if it doesn't pick up I'm leaving.
MsJess
11-13-2020, 10:46 AM
Let's see how this friday goes! i have a huge goal and need to make it as fast as possible haha, thinking about all my big spenders regs and calling them mentally lol
Miss_ShaSha
11-13-2020, 12:14 PM
2.5 hrs in and had to take a break at 1.5 hrs cause I was sitting at $8 in a dead ass room. Thank fuck for GTFbackO cause I got 3 shows.
Gonna try for another 6 hrs today. Must STFO!!!
UPDATE:
It's def slow. 3.5 hrs now and I've exceeded low goal and I'm $30 from medium goal. It's only because of 2 regs tho. I really made the last show last a while cause it's so damn slow. Damn, gotta STFO and do more hours.
UPDATE:
5.5 hrs and I've exceeded medium goal. I did go 1.5 hrs without a show tho. Just gotta STFO. I still have good energy so I'm gonna try to do 2 more hrs. I haven't had a day off this week, but by STFO I've almost made 1k so I'm certainly not complaining. I think I'll stream half the day tomorrow then rest.
Genoveve
11-13-2020, 04:55 PM
STFO today & holy smokes: exceeded high goal. I did not want to stream. I had bad anxiety. It was slow for the first hour & a half, but damn did it turn around.
Feeling grateful AF!!!
I swear, if you can keep your mood up and STFO it almost always works out in the end. It doesn't matter how slow it is, if I am in a good mood and stay online some random guy will show up and do an hour-long exclusive or I'll end up doing a 40 minute long pvt with a bunch of guys in it the whole time and end up doing good for how slow it was. The problem is that 90% of the time I am impatient and almost never feel like staying online anyway if it's slow. I'm gonna do a caffeine detox since caffeine exacerbates my impatience and makes me more cranky, and this next week I'm really going to try and do only days so I can see if my average ends up being the same.
Miss_ShaSha
11-14-2020, 05:09 AM
I swear, if you can keep your mood up and STFO it almost always works out in the end. It doesn't matter how slow it is, if I am in a good mood and stay online some random guy will show up and do an hour-long exclusive or I'll end up doing a 40 minute long pvt with a bunch of guys in it the whole time and end up doing good for how slow it was. The problem is that 90% of the time I am impatient and almost never feel like staying online anyway if it's slow. I'm gonna do a caffeine detox since caffeine exacerbates my impatience and makes me more cranky, and this next week I'm really going to try and do only days so I can see if my average ends up being the same.
I'm in agreement 100%. The only way I made goals when I first started back up full time was to STFO. And my intent those days was to keep a high vibration. The most challenging aspect is getting the fuck back on when it's so slow your mood drops that you have to take a break to recoup. But yes, even if it's slow and you do the hours the day can turn out good overall.
I'll be there next week doing the same thing. I'm back to days now myself. It'll be interesting to see the difference if I apply STFO the whole week.
Miss_ShaSha
11-14-2020, 08:38 AM
Genoveve, super grateful you bumped this thread. It was a huge help and why I was able to make 1k+ this week.
STFO works ladies, I mean really truly. And GTFO too. If you can stay on or get back on after a break you can make a camming sucks day into a camming rocks day.
MsJess
11-14-2020, 05:12 PM
I'm gonna STFO and fight! i've been feeling so sick but i need to get online!
charlie61
11-14-2020, 06:33 PM
I swear, if you can keep your mood up and STFO it almost always works out in the end. It doesn't matter how slow it is, if I am in a good mood and stay online some random guy will show up and do an hour-long exclusive or I'll end up doing a 40 minute long pvt with a bunch of guys in it the whole time and end up doing good for how slow it was. The problem is that 90% of the time I am impatient and almost never feel like staying online anyway if it's slow. I'm gonna do a caffeine detox since caffeine exacerbates my impatience and makes me more cranky, and this next week I'm really going to try and do only days so I can see if my average ends up being the same.
This is exactly how it always was for me in clubs, too. The first hour or three would be really slow / rocky, and you'd be thinking like, well i guess i should just give up and leave. But in my experience, it would almost always pick up, and I'd make 80% of my money in the last 20% of my shift, or whatever. Self discipline is easier in a club, maybe, because you had to drive there and pay a house fee to work. I would think it'd be really tough to stay motivated when you're working for yourself from home. I would honestly have to set a schedule and stick to it no matter what; otherwise I'd constantly flake out.
MsJess
11-14-2020, 06:45 PM
Its rough out there! still on!!
fawnresponse
11-14-2020, 09:27 PM
Its rough out there! still on!!
It's SO BAD. I need to get back on and stfo!
caramelcraze
11-14-2020, 11:12 PM
Yesterday was poppin, today has been dead for me.
1 short phone call in 4 hours and not a single text!
https://media1.tenor.com/images/dab314fc4139cfc6fa056f8606600f09/tenor.gif?itemid=5183835
6 more hours to go.
Jodyjensen
11-15-2020, 03:21 AM
Focussing on GTFO and STFO this week! 25 hours absolute minimum. I can’t get put off when it’s quiet or I end up logging off then can’t face getting back on for days at a time which does nothing for my bank balance and goals.
Miss_ShaSha
11-16-2020, 11:20 AM
Gonna try to STFO this whole week. I'm back to days and I'll be trying to STFO 35 hrs this week. I know it's gonna be slower as it's a SM contest, but by STFO and GTFO I did well last week.
1 hr in and it's dead, but it's all good. Gonna do 8 hrs today. 7 more hrs gotta STFO!!!
UPDATE:
This is why I'm glad I stay on even when there's hardly any traffic: reg swoops in and does a 15 min excl block. Then another member comes into excl and tips on top.
UPDATE:
Gosh, getting hard to stay on. 4 hrs in and $20 from low goal. This is tough!!! Must STFO 4 more hours.
UPDATE:
YUK! 5.5+ hrs and still $20 from low goal. Contests are like this for me. Zero traffic and can't meet goals despite spending hours on. I really hope a reg comes by and saves me. This stinks lol.
MsJess
11-16-2020, 03:19 PM
I'm here to STFO until i make $200 pls pray cause Im in need :(
Esixxx
11-16-2020, 04:33 PM
Patience is the name of this game. I worked 90 minutes this morning was at $3. Power nap because I was not mentally awake, walked the grandfurbaby and logged back on.
Sitting at 5.55 hours finally broke low goal. Trying to stick it out as long as I can. Threw on workout clothes to stretch to keep my energy up. I think I need to invest in a mini trampoline :)
Miss_ShaSha
11-16-2020, 04:44 PM
^^Yesssss!!! That's how you do it. You're STFO for real. I'm here with you trying to break low goal. 1.5 more hrs then I'm off to have pizza. But I'm ready to log the fuck off lol it's so dead!!!
GET IT GIRL!!!
Jodyjensen
11-17-2020, 02:44 AM
So hard to STFO today, have horrendous tooth and earache so I’m sitting with a face like a smacked arse! One hour down, painkillers taken, another 4hours to go minimum.
Update: managed 4 hours then logged off. Hot bath, maybe a nap then I’ll go back on for at least another hour. Torture today. Just under 15 hours done so far this week.
Miss_ShaSha
11-17-2020, 03:00 PM
^^Wow, girl. That's takes guts!