View Full Version : are any lies off-limits
Jay12
03-01-2015, 05:40 PM
I think that the only two lies that are off limits are these two ones:
-Lying about terminal diseases.
-Lying about death (many customers would claim to be "widowers").
I'd say that all other lies are pretty much a fair game.
Omegaphallic
03-02-2015, 08:54 AM
Its funny how society makes sexually objectifying people into this bad thing, but then when you don't and get emotionally invovled instead you get hurt.
Stripclubs and Massage Parlours are where you really need to compartmentalize and sexual objectify these women, they prefer it, because you getting emotionally attached is bad for everyone.
I've been going to massage Parlour lately instead of the stripclub and all the girls are beautiful fun, sweet, kind, good sense of humour, open minded and understanding, intelligent and are amazing people in every way, it would be so easy to fall in love, but I know that would be a disaster for all involved so I make sure to focus on there tits and compartmentalize.
FasaCorp
03-02-2015, 09:43 AM
it would be so easy to fall in love, but I know that would be a disaster for all involved so I make sure to focus on there tits and compartmentalize.
That is actually the best advice I have seen on this Forum so far...as long as you don't carry that objectification over to the real world (and real women around you).
It really does say something about our culture.
gameover
03-02-2015, 12:05 PM
For those of you who do lie about other personal stuff, I'm curious how effective it is for you. So many strippers tell hardship stories, that it almost becomes comical. Maybe you ladies really live lives of turmoil, but if you are going to really try this as a tactic, you need to keep it believable.
There is one dancer at my current club that I do enjoy spending time with, but I don't really pay attention to any of the stuff she says is going on in her personal life. In the last couple of weeks, she has told me that she has had her car hit and run, had all of her dancer clothing stolen from her car, had her cat knock her phone in some milk (breaking it), and had to use rent money to bail out a relative.
I do buy dances and drinks with her because she's fun to be around, I find her sexy, and I enjoy her dances. I guess this stuff must work for her sometimes, but after you go to clubs for a few years, you hear so many wacky stories from dancers, you build up a shell and just ignore it. Still, I do spend money on her, so I guess it doesn't hurt her--she just doesn't get any extra from it. It is kind of fun seeing what weird stuff she can come up with each week.
Seriously, if I believed all the stuff dancers said happened to them, and I was an insurance underwriter, I'd never sell them insurance, because their lives must be pure chaos. Do you dancers have little lightning clouds that follow you around :)
rickdugan
03-02-2015, 01:45 PM
Its funny how society makes sexually objectifying people into this bad thing, but then when you don't and get emotionally invovled instead you get hurt.
Stripclubs and Massage Parlours are where you really need to compartmentalize and sexual objectify these women, they prefer it, because you getting emotionally attached is bad for everyone.
I've been going to massage Parlour lately instead of the stripclub and all the girls are beautiful fun, sweet, kind, good sense of humour, open minded and understanding, intelligent and are amazing people in every way, it would be so easy to fall in love, but I know that would be a disaster for all involved so I make sure to focus on there tits and compartmentalize.
Your only defense against falling in love with p4p providers is to objectify them? I'm not trying to be remotely mean here, but for most people there are a whole range of emotional states that sit in between deep attachment and pure objectification. It sounds like you're very lonely, which may be making you vulnerable to overly strong feelings in response to paid sexual services and the customary kindnesses that go along with them.
Idk, but if you are in a place like that, you may want to spend your time and resources dealing with your real needs rather than frequenting p4p providers. IMHO going into strip clubs, and I would guess other adult entertainment situations as well, with feelings of loneliness is a recipe for disaster.
Anyway, just my :twocents:
audritwo
03-02-2015, 01:51 PM
Subject, not object <3
salzsieder67
03-02-2015, 07:21 PM
While getting away from the original topic, objectifying the dancers in the club is a bad way to go. If the dancers are nothing but objects to you, that will then allow you to rationalize all sorts of rude behavior. The dancers are there to provide the service for which you pay them for, just like any other service provider. I hope you don't feel the need to objectify the dental hygienist in order to avoid falling in love with her. After all she is providing a rather intimate service for you as well. It is possible to enjoy the scenery that dancers provide and not to fall in love with them while still treating them like a human being.
unbeleavable
03-02-2015, 08:38 PM
Closed, it's all about what you look for when you enter the club.