cherryblossomsinspring
01-28-2015, 01:40 AM
Hugs gingersnaps!
I went through the same thing with both my mega whales. I got too comfortable and started thinking hmm this guy is really great. As soon as I started laying back that's when shit got real. The push to meet to fuck started to get over kill. Obviously it wasn't worded that way but it was the sweet " just dinner". Nope not doing it ever. Eventually what happened is the guy just started disappearing or playing games when it came to doing privates or skype. Then he started that whiny bullshit of " I'm catching feefees" yawnnnnnnn. Every time I turned around I started catching the guy in bold face lies. have work to do so she leaves him alone and then he pops in on cam sites.
The money was good but the push just got worse and worse and the lies were just nauseating. Now I'm the type of person to call them on their shit which guys like this don't like so they do that gaslighting crap! Now it's all in your head or you're imagining things. Nice try but that crap doesn't work on me.
After a while the guy was saying "hey do you want to go private?" then I said umm ok and he's like " only if you really want to" and I"m thinking wtf is the game? Sure enough " well I'm going to bed byeeee!"
Yes that "please want me desperation crap started and then " fuck you bitch .... leaving" came afterwards.
Even tipping became crap throwing here and there from someone that was clearly spending K. Even comments like " wow that was a short private, or hey you should put up some ads to get business". Yes so now I'm doing ok without him. Actually it's made me pushier with some men and I'm getting more from people that I typically didn't reach out to. With him out of the picture I'm also connecting with new members that have only seen me because I'm actually around:)
I started talking to another big time tipper that popped into my room night to "impress tip". Same situation different day. I dropped him from my friend's list faster than any other high tipper in history. He tipped did a long private and by the time I spoke to him again he was already doing the sales pitch of "I'm doing x,y,z for this model and I pushed her to this position on mfc". I"m sitting there thinking "and why are you telling me this". I mean if you're tipping 20K tokens in this model's room , why are you telling me? Ohh I get it, praise from her isn't enough you want someone to say "oooh wowweee wish that was me!" Sorry bub got that and more already.
Then he said something that sounded really crappy. He said she was calling him yet he not only ignored her calls but he sat back and watched her rank slip. He mentioned loving "challenges" and I thought wow sounds cold.
Next he went into how his next challenge was going to be taking the next model " that will fly to live out her days by his side" to the top. I thought hmm. This guy had to be going into a 4 hour chat about what he does for models yet in that time couldn't send over a damn tip. The good thing was I had a sub that was blowing up my room in tips so sitting there listening to this guy wasn't costing me anything even though he thought it was. The next stupid line that I've only received from men his age was " text me when you wake up" lol What I heard was " chase my money". I nearly vomited in my mouth with that comment and thought hmm so you go into not wanting to pushed by models but you clearly know I charge for phone. It's like he thought he had some weird "model history credit" .I realized he was probably out of money with how hard he was selling his "good deeds" but 4hrs in my pm wasn't enough. He wanted more free time on my own phone. HAAAAAAAAAAA!
I said first off I don't give my number to anyone but there is an option for phone that you can tip for on my profile. Then I got that creeper response " you just have to know who to give your number to". I said you're right men that spend for it.
I made a comment in free chat towards that sub I was playing with (multi-tasking) and once mega bucks saw the tips he logged off. Aww did you really think I have 4 hours to chat with you and let you dangle the "possibility" of money in my face? No daaahling.
Point is the high spenders get off on getting you comfortable with their spending that you don't actually reach out to other customers. Next thing you know your regular customer base just dries up and it's like you're starting from scratch. Then they pop in to taunt your dried up stats but if you play it just right you'll find a new base and a fresh group of people that spend and spend well enough that several of them = made it.
Other members try to reverse how camming works. Instead of going to models they try to flip it where models are chasing them down looking for money. Once I realize this I drop them and let the game come back to my court.
I went through the same thing with both my mega whales. I got too comfortable and started thinking hmm this guy is really great. As soon as I started laying back that's when shit got real. The push to meet to fuck started to get over kill. Obviously it wasn't worded that way but it was the sweet " just dinner". Nope not doing it ever. Eventually what happened is the guy just started disappearing or playing games when it came to doing privates or skype. Then he started that whiny bullshit of " I'm catching feefees" yawnnnnnnn. Every time I turned around I started catching the guy in bold face lies. have work to do so she leaves him alone and then he pops in on cam sites.
The money was good but the push just got worse and worse and the lies were just nauseating. Now I'm the type of person to call them on their shit which guys like this don't like so they do that gaslighting crap! Now it's all in your head or you're imagining things. Nice try but that crap doesn't work on me.
After a while the guy was saying "hey do you want to go private?" then I said umm ok and he's like " only if you really want to" and I"m thinking wtf is the game? Sure enough " well I'm going to bed byeeee!"
Yes that "please want me desperation crap started and then " fuck you bitch .... leaving" came afterwards.
Even tipping became crap throwing here and there from someone that was clearly spending K. Even comments like " wow that was a short private, or hey you should put up some ads to get business". Yes so now I'm doing ok without him. Actually it's made me pushier with some men and I'm getting more from people that I typically didn't reach out to. With him out of the picture I'm also connecting with new members that have only seen me because I'm actually around:)
I started talking to another big time tipper that popped into my room night to "impress tip". Same situation different day. I dropped him from my friend's list faster than any other high tipper in history. He tipped did a long private and by the time I spoke to him again he was already doing the sales pitch of "I'm doing x,y,z for this model and I pushed her to this position on mfc". I"m sitting there thinking "and why are you telling me this". I mean if you're tipping 20K tokens in this model's room , why are you telling me? Ohh I get it, praise from her isn't enough you want someone to say "oooh wowweee wish that was me!" Sorry bub got that and more already.
Then he said something that sounded really crappy. He said she was calling him yet he not only ignored her calls but he sat back and watched her rank slip. He mentioned loving "challenges" and I thought wow sounds cold.
Next he went into how his next challenge was going to be taking the next model " that will fly to live out her days by his side" to the top. I thought hmm. This guy had to be going into a 4 hour chat about what he does for models yet in that time couldn't send over a damn tip. The good thing was I had a sub that was blowing up my room in tips so sitting there listening to this guy wasn't costing me anything even though he thought it was. The next stupid line that I've only received from men his age was " text me when you wake up" lol What I heard was " chase my money". I nearly vomited in my mouth with that comment and thought hmm so you go into not wanting to pushed by models but you clearly know I charge for phone. It's like he thought he had some weird "model history credit" .I realized he was probably out of money with how hard he was selling his "good deeds" but 4hrs in my pm wasn't enough. He wanted more free time on my own phone. HAAAAAAAAAAA!
I said first off I don't give my number to anyone but there is an option for phone that you can tip for on my profile. Then I got that creeper response " you just have to know who to give your number to". I said you're right men that spend for it.
I made a comment in free chat towards that sub I was playing with (multi-tasking) and once mega bucks saw the tips he logged off. Aww did you really think I have 4 hours to chat with you and let you dangle the "possibility" of money in my face? No daaahling.
Point is the high spenders get off on getting you comfortable with their spending that you don't actually reach out to other customers. Next thing you know your regular customer base just dries up and it's like you're starting from scratch. Then they pop in to taunt your dried up stats but if you play it just right you'll find a new base and a fresh group of people that spend and spend well enough that several of them = made it.
Other members try to reverse how camming works. Instead of going to models they try to flip it where models are chasing them down looking for money. Once I realize this I drop them and let the game come back to my court.