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lupojohn
04-26-2015, 01:46 AM
31 is still young! Lol
It is. My girlfriend is 18, though.
rickdugan
04-26-2015, 06:19 AM
Confession: I too want a younger girl(I'm 31). Guess what? I found one by being myself. I told her the truth about my age, financial situation, etc. and she actually loved what she heard. She's now my girlfriend. Oh yeah, she's also a webcam girl. Lesson here? Be yourself and don't lie. Maybe you are really a sugar daddy. Maybe you really are looking for someone that young, but that would be kinda creepy. Also, as someone else pointed out, don't go looking for one on here.
31 ain't the same as 61 dude. Guys at 31 are still relatively young and healthy. At 61, they more often look their age and have lots of other health issues. It's no great feat to date an 18 year old at 31. I certainly could have. At 30, the question isn't whether you could date an 18 year old, but whether you should. The reason I didn't is because of compatibility and maturity issues. Just like with guys, a lot of maturing happens with women from the ages of 18 to 24 or so.
In fact, IME a lot of smooth talking types in their early 30s often find it easier to bag younger girls than those closer to their own age, because the girls in their mid to late 20s tend to have higher expectations of potential partners and are generally less gullible. I'm not saying that this is the case here so don't take it that way, but I do want to keep it real. ;)
lupojohn
04-26-2015, 07:37 AM
31 ain't the same as 61 dude. Guys at 31 are still relatively young and healthy. At 61, they more often look their age and have lots of other health issues. It's no great feat to date an 18 year old at 31. I certainly could have. At 30, the question isn't whether you could date an 18 year old, but whether you should. The reason I didn't is because of compatibility and maturity issues. Just like with guys, a lot of maturing happens with women from the ages of 18 to 24 or so.
In fact, IME a lot of smooth talking types in their early 30s often find it easier to bag younger girls than those closer to their own age, because the girls in their mid to late 20s tend to have higher expectations of potential partners and are generally less gullible. I'm not saying that this is the case here so don't take it that way, but I do want to keep it real. ;)
Not gonna argue a word you said. Thing is, my family(who doesn't know yet)thinks it's, for lack of a better term, "socially unacceptable" for me to date someone so young. Granted, 61-20's and 31-18 is not nearly the same and never will be, but I guess it's just the way I was brought up. A lot of girls closer to my age in my area tend to be less adventurous than the ones in the 18-20 range and they're also physically more developed(at least the ones I saw). I like that stuff as well as being romantic and caring. Thing is, I never cam with my girl the same way I cam with others. Nevef would talk to her or treat her like that, despite her profession.
Getting back on topic, why did he put abcde multiple times?
unbeleavable
04-26-2015, 08:15 AM
So lupojohn you joined SW to teach us about dating a much younger woman?
lupojohn
04-26-2015, 08:52 AM
So lupojohn you joined SW to teach us about dating a much younger woman?
Nope. Not at all. Just to partake in whatever conversations I find relevant. My situation is probably not common nor do I think i'm trying to "teach" anything and apologize if it came across that way.