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Starling
06-23-2015, 02:53 PM
I just read this thread and am glad this wasn't a thing when I danced in clubs. It's trashy and disgusting and many dancers I worked with had poor hygiene such as leaving tampons around

Not to mention a lot of the dancers I would overhear in the DR bragging about their poor hygiene...

"I DON'T NEED TO WASH FOR THESE MEN!"

Kellydancer
06-23-2015, 07:19 PM
Ugh, that sounds horrible. It's one thing I never understood, why not clean up and make money?more? I would often brush my teeth periodically and use deodorant all the time, not to mention showering and shaving everyday. If a guy wants a slob, he'll stay at home.

Kellydancer
06-23-2015, 07:22 PM
Now that's not a positive attitude to have! We just need to turn that frown upside down! All it takes is a dose of delusional positivity and this industry will bounce back!

Unfortunately it needs more than that, including economy and all the other things. I don't think it'll change for awhile. I just wonder how it went from dancing to how outrageous one can get. What's next is what I wonder.

I_am_out
06-28-2015, 05:51 AM
Fucking trashy >.<

We are already required to get nails/hair done,put on heavy make-up,invest in nice outfits/gowns and dance all night long in 7-inch heels, paying house-fees,tip staff,put up with customers and management's bs and now what's next? Competing with girls who wear this shit? As if competing with prostitutes or at least with dancers who give wayy too high contact for ridiculously low money is not damn enough.

FUCK.THIS.CRAP.

And fuck camgirls who support butt-plugs at strip-clubs. You actually should be against it too. After all, shoving toys inside yourself is YOUR niche. Aren't you worried about losing part of your income, hmmm?
And how would you like if physical contact with customers(which is not part of your job) starts getting common in "camming" world? I know, it's impossible. But just imagine. Most of strippers feel the same about playing with sex toys at work.

Thanks but no, thanks.

Miss_Foxxx
11-05-2015, 06:36 PM
Just FYI to those baffled by this thread who don't live in Oregon, the strip club where this is trending has live girl on girl sex shows on stage where there is penetration, oral sex, and toys are used onstage by some girls. The private dances are fully nude "friction" grinding and the customers are allowed to touch. Many girls masturbate for customers during the private dances. They at least charge $40 a dance, and the club is always packed so those who work there make a lot of money. It has polarized the stripping scene in Portland where some clubs still only allow air dances and the focus is more on performance through costumes and pole tricks. I worked at said club for two shifts and couldn't take it. Not at all surprised at this fad.

So yeah the line between cam shows and club was already crossed 5 years ago when they started doing live sex shows. This is just a new twist.

SuperJa
11-05-2015, 07:20 PM
I was thinking about this thread the other day and I'm so happy it reappeared.

Vyanka
11-06-2015, 02:34 AM
Just FYI to those baffled by this thread who don't live in Oregon, the strip club where this is trending has live girl on girl sex shows on stage where there is penetration, oral sex, and toys are used onstage by some girls. The private dances are fully nude "friction" grinding and the customers are allowed to touch. Many girls masturbate for customers during the private dances. They at least charge $40 a dance, and the club is always packed so those who work there make a lot of money. It has polarized the stripping scene in Portland where some clubs still only allow air dances and the focus is more on performance through costumes and pole tricks. I worked at said club for two shifts and couldn't take it. Not at all surprised at this fad.

So yeah the line between cam shows and club was already crossed 5 years ago when they started doing live sex shows. This is just a new twist.

Omg. What the fuck???! Nooooooo. Ugh

zola
11-07-2015, 11:31 PM
I would totally wear them if I worked in another nude club that wasn't just divey and horrible (I started nude), but a more glamorous club I'd do it. I think they're cute and non sexual (those types don't provide any sexual pleasure, they're just for decoration). I'm not into anal play but I love cute jewelry.

ShyCamgirlBB
11-08-2015, 05:33 PM
I thought would jump on this thread Bc its interesting. I tried stripping VERY shortly and found it wasn't for me. I honestly can't imagine wearing even a small butt plug the way you guys have to dance. It would start to irritate and dry up. Cam girls are constantly lubing themselves to prevent irritation from toys. I Dont see that being possible in the club. Overall that seems like a really bad idea to be wearing that for even a 3-4 hour shift. Not likely to cause anal prolapse, usually happens with bigger toys and improper lubrication. But most likely will cause soreness and irritation.

Ninelives
11-09-2015, 12:42 AM
Someone said that stripping isn't Pornography? ( I'm a former one ) from the merrium dictionary;


Full Definition of PORNOGRAPHY

1
: the depiction of erotic behavior (as in pictures or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement
2
: material (as books or a photograph) that depicts erotic behavior and is intended to cause sexual excitement
3
: the depiction of acts in a sensational manner so as to arouse a quick intense emotional reaction


Stripping is Pornography

Cynthiafae
11-09-2015, 10:05 AM
none of the girls at the club I work at have done this yet. as for me. Butt plugs while dancing. NOPE NOPE NOPE not happening. not ever.

littlelizard
11-15-2015, 12:01 PM
A girl at my work wears one and I don't live in Portland. I think it's cute, it's super small, super sparkly, and she says she can't really feel it. However, I would NEVER wear one personally. But I like to think of it as jewelry for the butt :)

Lenore
11-20-2015, 11:39 AM
Yup. It's a newer "thing" in Portland at a few clubs that pride themselves on being sort of "different" and "extreme." I don't find anything wrong with it. Girls know what they're getting into when they go to work there. I seen a girl with one in that had a "my little pony tail" off the end of the plug! Lol! I found it humorous and I think it adds to the patrons comfort level when there's a little something to joke about and you feel like the girls are approachable. I don't know about you, but a girl with a tail hanging out her ass seems like someone you could laugh with and say anything to.

I've never worn one or worked in a club that girls do, but my husband and I had fun at Casa the night we went and my little pony gal was working! But idk, we are kinda weird. Lol!

tempest666
11-20-2015, 03:33 PM
Inserting anything into an orifice is crossing the line into a whole 'nother ballgame. Besides, don't you feel like you have to poop after a bit? I don't see how that's sexy in the least. (Unless you get a fecalphiliac.)

tempest666
11-21-2015, 05:54 AM
The day that I resort to shoving a rhinestone up my pooper is the day I retire from the industry. I've never had to stick anything in ANY orifice to make a good living and I'm not going to start now. (This applies to ITC situations)
Now if I was to go back to a peep show that's a different matter. I had a duffel bag full of sex toys. But there was no contact whatsoever! I was behind glass and the customers could not touch us. We were required to sanitize our area before we left. I doubt that strip clubs would vigorously enforce hygiene standards if butt plugs were kosher.

Starling
11-25-2015, 10:00 AM
If it makes anyone feel any better, I have worked a few times in a club where I saw a girl do this. It didn't affect my money, but it's a big club which was busy and it was hard to see. I think there might have been a couple of them that were doing it. I don't know how it would work out in smaller clubs.



A somewhat related video I thought I would share:




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qLdUG3id2rs

SexyStella
12-01-2015, 06:52 PM
I'm VERY liberal with an open mind and nonjudgmental but this is just tacky! Much better off getting your a-hole bleached and all pretty looking!

MistyGirl
12-27-2015, 11:46 AM
I have not seen it at my club, and I don't think I would try this personally!

SuperJa
12-27-2015, 04:14 PM
"i'm perfectly fine with showing my asshole in general, but a bejeweled anus? that's where i draw the line!" - what some of y'all sound like.

I have no problem with an asshole jewel- like if you want to bedazzle yourself, fine. I think the issue most of us have is that there is an object inside of the butthole. Why not walk around with a dildo sticking out of you while you're at it? A nice glittery one of course.

Starling
12-28-2015, 07:26 AM
It's amusing that these are your first posts.

lynn2009
12-28-2015, 08:46 AM
that's a false equivalency. there's nothing inherently sexual about an asshole.

don't ever blame a man's repulsive reaction on the behavior or actions of a woman. it ain't extras girls that are fucking with your income, it's the dirty ass clients.

I strongly disagree.

Leather_Jacket
12-28-2015, 02:25 PM
that's a false equivalency. there's nothing inherently sexual about an asshole.

it ain't extras girls that are fucking with your income, it's the dirty ass clients.

No, walking around with a dildo hanging out of your vagina is a very similar. Have you been on the internet!? Assholes are seriously and overtly sexualized in tons of porn... to the point where I'd imagine it would be difficult to find a porn sight that DOESN'T contain any anal porn.

And on the note of extras girls; Yes... it does hurt the STRIPPING industry because extras provide customers with an illegal competing service (PROSTITUTION) that consumers may later come to expect from other service providers who do not offer them. (Imagine if you worked in the pharmaceutical industry. Your competitor next door, not only offers the same service that you do, but also secretly offers illegal drugs as well. Yes you still share normal customers, but if you have customers seeking both legal and illegal drugs or only illegal drugs then those customers will buy from your competitor. Now imagine if more and more pharmacies become like your competitor. Many new customers will ask why you do not offer illegal services when your competitors do. In order to compete with their buisness you must provide the same services, if you don't, your business is at a disadvantage due to competitors offering a service you can not provide. So yes, the competeing businesses that offer illegal services are definitely at fault for illegally influencing customer demands and expectations... but that isn't what this thread is about.)

Leather_Jacket
12-28-2015, 03:25 PM
Anndddd back on topic.. The butt plug thing has been happening for so long at my club. I notice girls who dance with them somedays and without them the next, and interestingly enough the butt plugs seem to hurt their money more then help it from what I've seen. My theory is that yes, some guys may be into it but the majority are not (It wouldn't be all that wild to think that of the men who do like it, a decent amount of them are assholes themselves *da dun tss*.) Anyway more money for my tight ass... haha... ok I'll show myself the door.

Selina M
12-29-2015, 12:34 AM
Oh lord. Where's the popcorn.

If 'improving technique' means shoving things up my ass, I'll retire. I think many of us are strippers partly because we don't want to do that, and would be cam girls if we did.

Nobody here looks petty except you, the newbie to the forum getting her thong in a bunch over something that she says doesn't affect her... Why even comment then ::)

OliveJardin
12-29-2015, 01:35 AM
I think the issue most of us have is that there is an object inside of the butthole. Why not walk around with a dildo sticking out of you while you're at it? A nice glittery one of course.

^Exactly! When something is inserted into any hole, the line from stimulated sex/entertainment etc and performing an actual sex act blurs and it creates a non even playing field, in the same way extras girls do.

tempest666
12-29-2015, 05:37 AM
y'all can disagree all you want, that's your prerogative. but i mean, you're also the old and bitter strippers who sit around and complain about "how the industry has changed so much!" and "wahwah, extras girls are ruining my income!" while the rest of us are evolving with the times and tweaking our hustle so we continue making money.

honey, times change. and you can either change with 'em, or blame your own shortcomings on others. because there are plenty of women still stripping without providing any extras, and they make bank... wonder why that is? oh, yeah. their hustle is polished and perfected, because they took the time to study their craft as it transformed into something else. if you're doing well at your job, then you'd know that you're always learning new things and improving your technique. if that ain't happening for you anymore... well...

god, could you imagine what the world would be like if every business person sat around and complained whenever their industry evolved into something new and different? bill gates sure as hell wouldn't be a billionaire, that's for damn sure, and the internet was one of the quickest changing industries. shit or get off the pot is all i'm saying, because the only thing you accomplish when you make bitchy threads and posts like this is looking like a goddamn petty fool.

I highly doubt Bill Gates is sticking bejeweled buttplugs up his arse.
And how long have you been dancing? Please impart us with your "wisdom", O Great One! We are but decaying relics of a bygone era. ::)
:rotfl:
The stuff that comes out of the mouth of n00bs!
Is this the same one that posted about pooping at work? On another note I'm contemplating anal bleaching for personal reasons. Anyone had luck with a product called "Pink Cheeks"?

Leather_Jacket
12-29-2015, 08:31 AM
Honestly, I'm not even opposed to the whole butt plug thing. Personally it's not my thing, but with that being said there is a time and place for girls who wanna show off their butt plugs. It's inappropriate for stage considering when you hit the stage with a sex toy protruding from an orifice you run the risk of doing so for no money at all; this also takes away another option for your more expensive customers. If I was comfortable with sticking butt plugs in my ass, I'd push sales like crazy on VIP shows. Which makes me wonder why on earth girls are walking around in them all night for free when it could be making money for them in private rooms if their club allows toy shows. They're hurting their own business by doing it for free, as well as everyone else's, especially those who push VIP. If you really want to "evolve" into the ultimate sales stripper who offers everything LEGAL to their clients then save your premium performances for the guy paying $500 in VIP, not the asshole tipping $2 on stage. My opinion is not based on the "morality" of wearing a butt plug; it's based on what's logical and best for my money, my clubs money, and the money of my competition/co-workers/partners.

Yes, healthy and legal business competition helps all parties (Mac vs. PC has helped increase the sales of both companies). But if Bill Gates gave away his products for free then he would have nothing and if Apple tried to sell their products to consumers, customers would laugh and ask why the hell they'd buy a $1000 laptop if they could obtain a PC for free from that dumb ass whose just handing them out.

Miss_Red
12-29-2015, 11:06 AM
I'm with Leather Jacket. As I've said earlier in the post, I work at a club where this is very common, and choose not to partake, and do just fine. Like her, I've had customers comment that they find it weird and off-putting before taking my non-bejeweled ass to the back room for dances. I've also seen customers who are completely entranced by them, and take the plugged girls into the back. Because it's so common at my club, it feels more like a blonde vs brunette thing than an extras vs. no extras thing.

If it wasn't common at my club, I might feel differently--more like the other girls on this thread. Kind of like how boob touching is typical at my current club, but would have been considered an extra at my first club. Part of this is where you're located. I still think butt plugs that remain in place throughout the night and are not inserted in front of customers constitute a wardrobe choice rather than an extra, but that might be because it's very normal where I am. Some of us are clearly going to have to agree to disagree on that point.

CrystalHeels: although we're on the same side of this issue, why are your first three posts so alienating and insulting to the members of this board? If I felt the way you did about the girls on here, I'm not sure I would have bothered creating an account. They're not "old and bitter strippers", they disagree with you, it's different. Don't be rude.

Something about the way you keep comparing butt plugs to extras, and then insisting extras girls do not hurt the income of clean dancers, makes me wonder if you're offering more than a bejewled asshole in the back. Are you an extras girl? I ask this only because you're implying that you are pretty hard. I do think extras hurt the income of other girls at clubs. When I was willing to offer more than my first club would allow, I moved to a club where what they allow me to offer better matches my boundaries. If I ever found myself willing to go farther, I'd make another move and become an independent escort or go to an extras club. But I wouldn't stay at a club where it's not the norm to do such a thing. It's a race to the bottom otherwise. No pun intended.

Leather_Jacket
12-29-2015, 04:44 PM
CrystalHeels: although we're on the same side of this issue, why are your first three posts so alienating and insulting to the members of this board? If I felt the way you did about the girls on here, I'm not sure I would have bothered creating an account. They're not "old and bitter strippers", they disagree with you, it's different. Don't be rude.


Based on the lack of knowledge involving stripping in general (and the troll-ish attitude), my money's on "crystalheels" being of the male customer variety... particularly the kind who starts up threads about "Pooping at Work" like tempest suggested. Sorry man, what I should be telling you is don't be such a cheap ass and pay some girl in VIP to do an anal toy show. God, some people will ask for anything for free, won't they?

"Hey so I don't buy dances, but your butt plug makes me so horny. You'll fuck me in he back for free right?" ...Yes, let me "evolve" to indulge the kind of idiot who says things like that.

kaninchen
12-29-2015, 04:52 PM
Based on the lack of knowledge involving stripping in general, my money's on "crystalheels" being of the male customer variety... particularly the kind who starts up threads about "Pooping at Work" like someone else suggested. Sorry man what I should be telling you is don't be such a cheap ass and pay some girl in VIP to do anal toy show. God some people will ask for anything for free.

I was thinking the same thing. It's like, sure, we all want to keep our game sharp by learning new things and improving our techniques. But it's pretty easy to do that by reading one of the dozens of sales e-books out there, or a few issues of Wired or Forbes or the NYT, learning some new pole tricks, going to a damn art museum, branching into camming or PSO, etc. Who jumps past all that like, "Fuck it, *buttplugs and buttplugs only* are what I need to salvage my business!"? Come on.

Talk about business savvy. Doing the most for free is always the worst business plan possible.

SweetJulia
12-29-2015, 05:18 PM
Talk about business savvy. Doing the most for free is always the worst business plan possible.

OMG you mean you don't think running around with a drying toy in your ass for six hours is worth putting a smile on sweatpants boner man's face?"

Gigi82188
12-29-2015, 06:39 PM
I have never seen a dancer use one and I've been to a a lot of different cities and different type of clubs (bikini, nude, topless) I could see where some men would find it sexually stimulating and others who would turn their heads but that's what strip clubs r for though right? to find their fantasy girl that's why they hire all type of different girls. I personally couldn't do it but more power to the girls that can and are comfortable trying new things. I would actually like to see what it looks like it person 😜😜😜

tempest666
01-01-2016, 04:12 AM
I don't know if I mentioned this, but I bought a small one as an experiment. I walked around my house in my work shoes for an hour. I felt like I had to shit, sitting down was VERY uncomfortable and my friend's kitten that I was pet sitting kept going for the object in question when I laid down on my stomach. (The only comfortable position you can be in. So yeah. I can't imagine this for a four hour (or longer) shift. Maybe my asshole is just petulant or I got too big of a plug. I don't know. But I'm officially out.

DorkiestDancer
01-11-2016, 02:25 AM
I'd love to do this, lol, I'm not sure what's so gross or trashy about being sexual at your sex worker job. I wish I worked in a nude state so I could pull this off. Sounds like a dream come true for me. Also sounds like a lot of you are being really close minded and rude, if it's not your thing, don't do it, but don't knock the girls who do. We all have a right to run our sex worker jobs how we want to, and if I wanna wear a pretty butt plug so guys are staring at a diamond instead of a brown eye, than I'm going to goddammit.

I appreciate your sex-positive straight-forwardness! Such a relief. And as someone who enjoys anal-play and -sex, no it would not be that uncomfortable to have a small butt-plug in all night. I will probably not ever do it because I am too sensitive to cattiness from dancers (they would hate me here in CO where all the girls try to pretend like they are classier than Marilyn Monroe)--but I'm sure any nude club outside of PDX, you would rake it in BIG TIME.

BUT MY QUESTION: How do they keep it in?!? I mostly use anal beads during masturbation and I am always having to push them back in as my sphincter muscles try to push them out.

charlie61
01-11-2016, 03:59 AM
I work in a club where this is the norm, and I think it is utterly and completely ridiculous. Like, I can't even. I can't even. I just can't. Like...what. What.

You're shoving sparkly shit up your ass and I'm making twice what you're making with my empty, pedestrian asshole.

tempest666
01-11-2016, 04:04 AM
I work in a club where this is the norm, and I think it is utterly and completely ridiculous. Like, I can't even. I can't even. I just can't. Like...what. What.

You're shoving sparkly shit up your ass and I'm making twice what you're making with my empty, pedestrian asshole.
I just fell off the treadmill laughing. Literally. I gotta siggy this.

Kochana
01-12-2016, 05:18 PM
Oh jfc I just can't. This is the trashiest thing I have ever heard.

KaraLynn
01-12-2016, 07:02 PM
This thread is still happening?

Miss_Red
01-12-2016, 11:49 PM
It will never die. Nuclear war will happen and the only things left will be cockroaches, twinkies, and this thread.

Vyanka
01-13-2016, 02:21 AM
Imagine the girl next to you in the dressing room whose buttplug fell out of her ass, and it accidently on your foot.

:ill:

samanthamx
01-13-2016, 06:51 AM
I would not use a plug at the club, but I've used it ocasionally at home and I enjoy it, but I would not keep it in for a whole shift. I could comment Tempest's experiment and answer Dorkist's question, however, since this thread looks like the brainchild of a troll (sorry if I'm wrong), I'd answer through a PM to them only if they realy want me to do so (because such answer might be actually, grotesque).

Tina Bloodaxe
01-17-2016, 07:40 PM
My my my. What a bunch of ill informed, ignorant shenanigans being vomited forth behind the safety of a keyboard. I am surprised, and incredibly amused at the idiocy of the comments being made here. I've been dancing for ten years all across this country, and first of all, let me tell you, this is not a new trend. I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that most of the nay-sayers have never seen a dancer with a jeweled butt-plug, or perhaps never used or seen one ever. They do not "protrude" past a dancers butt cheeks, or (and I can't believe someone actually thinks this is a thing) "seep" bodily fluids, or fuse to the skin and riiiiiiiiiiip it out at the end of the shift. (....Whaaaaaaaaat?!) Nor do they "fall out of your ass". Are you people serious? I shudder to think of what sort of weird medical problems some of you are currently experiencing with your own assholes to come up with these mythical problems for the users of the butt plug.
First and foremost, there is preparation and sanitation that goes in to the safe and cleanly insertion of the plug before work, as well as the removal after the shift. The dancer can't feel it while the butt-plug is in place. Not while you're dancing, not while sitting down. Nope, not even if you sit down really hard. Think about it. Do you spread your butt cheeks so that you can smash your asshole against a chair when you sit down? Of course not. Or at least I hope not. The middle of a butt plug is tapered extremely small , and the plug rests within the anus. As far as feeling is concerned, for lack of a better example at the moment, think of how a tampon feels once inserted. If you concentrate on it, you can sometimes feel that it's there, but usually not. Same with a decorative butt plug.
You can't see the plug while the dancer is walking around or even dancing, not even with a g string. You would have to have very minimal butt cheek for that to be the case if it is even possible, as normally the dancer has to bend over or spread her cheeks in order for it to even be visible.
It is NOT an act of masturbation, and before someone tries to get uppity and argue the point, you better damn well look up the definition of masturbation first if you are in any way unclear. I have not met a SINGLE dancer that gains any kind of sexual gratification from it at work, nor do they remove and re-insert the plug or even touch it throughout the course of a shift, so you can take the "OHMAHGERD IT'S TOTALLY MASTURBATING" erroneous thought off the table. It's just blatantly wrong. You are wrong.
It is downright disturbing reading many of your comments and watching all of the stigmatization grow internally between women within an industry where we are already constantly fighting not to be stigmatized in the first place. Comments such as "It's trashy and disgusting and many dancers I worked with had poor hygiene such as leaving tampons around, they'd be the same ones who'd do this shit. I'm all for camming and whatnot, but if you can only making money by doing these things and expect dancers to accept it in clubs are probably those who couldn't make money otherwise." are so fucking ignorant, immature, and obnoxious. Who the hell are you people to make a claim like that? That a woman who uses a decorative butt plug has bad hygiene or does not take care of herself, or was not previously capable of making money? First of all, you're dead wrong on all counts, and it's just another indication that the people with such strong, blown out opinions and egos have never known anyone to use one, or even seen it before. Some of your comments are akin to "She can't make money any other way so she has to take her clothes off. She must be uneducated/a crackwhore/ a fucking loser/ lazy/ sexual abuse victim, etc. etc". It is absolutely vile, and shame on all of you who have made such idiotic claims. SHAME!
"Sticking anything in any orifice (yet alone the anus) for a show... That should never ever ever! Be a part of strip club entertainment, there's plenty of opportunities in the porn and escort industries for people that are into that; So call me close minded, I would never react positively to something as degrading and disturbing for the sake of 'progressiveness'" Excuse you? I would call you INCREDIBLY close minded for a number of reasons. First, nobody sees the insertion. It is literally a small jewel that peeks out when a dancer is bent over during her performance. It is actually quite pretty. Personally, I find it preferable to staring directly at someone's asshole. And who the fuck are you to call a dancer's personal choice about what she chooses to do with her body "degrading" if it is quite literally not harming her, nor anyone else in the club? Some would call your line of work "degrading" as a whole, and it's just as wrong, ignorant, and judgmental, is it not? Why is the thought of something that is not causing any kind of sexual gratification, is not unsanitary in the slightest, and is not being removed during the course of a shift so bothersome? Is it the simple thought that something is in another dancer's ass? I get that the overtly sexual nature of it can be unnerving, but myself and the vast majority of women I have worked with over the years, in every part of the country, feel that way about A LOT of things that happen in strip clubs, such as hardcore grinding, loud fake moaning, genitals right in the customers face, etc. But you know what? It's none of my damn business. I stay in my own lane, dance and hustle my way, and everything works out just fine. It is in this way that I have been able to maintain my personal safety and sanity, and been successful in this industry for the past ten years. Try it some time.
The women I have known to use the butt plugs are already hard core hustlers who have found a way to integrate their one hundred percent HARMLESS kink in to an intriguing performance/marketing tool. They don't "HAVE" to do anything, they simply got creative. I keep seeing comments about dancers having to "compete" with women and their butt plugs. One of my travel partners often wears a jeweled plug, and it does not interfere with my money at all, because I am a damn good performer with a bad ass attitude who spends my time lifting people's moods, rather than being the snarky bitch in the corner tearing down other dancers and worrying about the going-ons of other peoples assholes. Has it occurred to a single person on here that women are using them as a tool because it makes them feel even more sexy, risque', and empowered rather than a degrading last resort that they HAVE to undertake? I feel like some of you must be trolls disguised as strippers, or maybe it's just wishful thinking. I seriously can't believe that this is the subject that so many of you have zeroed in on to freak out about and call it "nasty".
The last truly laughable comment I have seen is "It gives customers the wrong idea!!!! BLAAAARGH!!!" I don't know where you people are working, but it must be in a damn dream land full of unicorns and rainbows where customers don't REALLY want to see you naked, and every single person who walks through the door has the purest of intentions, certainly would NEVER dream of propositioning anyone, and would never ever push the envelope as far as they could. Butt plugs don't make your industry more dangerous. Lack of security and enforcement of body contact rules, as well as a dancers lack of regard for her own personal safety make it dangerous. Some customers are dangerous and disgusting. It is up to the dancer to constantly be aware of her surroundings, as well as the bouncers job to ensure that customers stay in line during private dances and while sitting at the tip rail. Butt plug does not equal unsafe environment.

Selina M
01-17-2016, 07:56 PM
Oh, I need popcorn for the replies to this ^

Tina Bloodaxe
01-17-2016, 10:10 PM
Personal preference is one thing, and not an arguable point. Going out of the way to bash and degrade another woman for their personal preference, especially on the basis of misinformation and false assumption, is something entirely different, and not okay with me. I despise bullies.

arielbriel
01-17-2016, 10:13 PM
Sooo, what's the point of wearing them if they can barely be seen, they don't protrude past your butt cheeks, and can hardly be seen in a thong??

"First and foremost, there is preparation and sanitation that goes in to the safe and cleanly insertion of the plug before work, as well as the removal after the shift."
Care to explain these preparations and sanitary practices? And does this happen in the dressing room next to your coworkers?

Your opinion that "is it not unsanitary in the slightest" is subjective... most of us seem to think it would be very unsanitary.

So, I'm confused..do you or do you not wear a butt plug?

charlie61
01-17-2016, 10:22 PM
^I've only seen this in nude clubs. It seems to be some sort of white-girl "my asshole isn't as white as my face" insecurity thing.

Tina Bloodaxe
01-17-2016, 10:28 PM
It is a "peek-a-boo". A small added accessory. Yet another reason why I do not understand the shock and outrage behind it. A quick google search will present plenty of websites that will inform you of the proper and safe sanitation and use of butt plugs among other sex toys. Try for starters. Nobody I know does it next to their co-workers, though I imagine it happens. I can see how it COULD be unsanitary, but I have personally not met anyone who wasn't cleanly about it. Once again, your are flying full steam ahead with the idea that women who use them are not hygienic, and that's pretty fucked up. The only way it would become unsanitary is if a girl is removing and reinserting it on stage, but that is a separate matter entirely. There is nothing "subjective" about that when it is done properly. Personally, I do not at work, but know many women who do.

Tina Bloodaxe
01-17-2016, 10:33 PM
^I've only seen this in nude clubs. It seems to be some sort of white-girl "my asshole isn't as white as my face" insecurity thing.
Wow. That is an incredibly demeaning and ignorant assumption. From a moderator nonetheless. Good job!

charlie61
01-17-2016, 10:37 PM
Wow. That is an incredibly demeaning and ignorant assumption. From a moderator nonetheless. Good job!

Apologies if I offended you. My post was based on an entire conversation I overheard in the dressing room expressing exactly what I wrote. Based on your emotional investment, I'll assume that some women wear them for other reasons. Shrugs.

ScarletKitten
01-17-2016, 10:44 PM
Wow. That is an incredibly demeaning and ignorant assumption. From a moderator nonetheless. Good job!

You seem to be very upset over this, for someone who doesn't wear one at work. If you are so passionate about this, why don't you wear one? Just curious.