View Full Version : Butt plugs while dancing?
Tina Bloodaxe
01-17-2016, 10:45 PM
Lol! Well I'm glad that my "emotional investment" made you consider for a half second the other reasons a woman might utilize a butt plug. ;)
Tina Bloodaxe
01-17-2016, 10:51 PM
You seem to be very upset over this, for someone who doesn't wear one at work. If you are so passionate about this, why don't you wear one? Just curious.
It's just one of those things that loses it's appeal when there is more than one person in the building wearing one, and I currently travel with a girl who wears one. I never said I WOULDN'T. I feel less inclined to bring that aspect of my personal life in to the strip club, for my own personal reasons that I don't care to share with you, because it is frankly none of your business. But that doesn't mean that it is something that is completely off the table, either. I am not upset that women choose not to wear butt plugs. I find it INCREDIBLY upsetting that women think it is okay to say such heinous things about the women who do, as has been demonstrated in this forum. It's disgusting.
charlie61
01-17-2016, 10:53 PM
I'm reporting this thread to be closed. My snark appears to have gotten all of us into quite the tizzy.
tempest666
01-18-2016, 12:14 AM
My my my. What a bunch of ill informed, ignorant shenanigans being vomited forth behind the safety of a keyboard. I am surprised, and incredibly amused at the idiocy of the comments being made here. I've been dancing for ten years all across this country, and first of all, let me tell you, this is not a new trend. I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that most of the nay-sayers have never seen a dancer with a jeweled butt-plug, or perhaps never used or seen one ever. They do not "protrude" past a dancers butt cheeks, or (and I can't believe someone actually thinks this is a thing) "seep" bodily fluids, or fuse to the skin and riiiiiiiiiiip it out at the end of the shift. (....Whaaaaaaaaat?!) Nor do they "fall out of your ass". Are you people serious? I shudder to think of what sort of weird medical problems some of you are currently experiencing with your own assholes to come up with these mythical problems for the users of the butt plug.
First and foremost, there is preparation and sanitation that goes in to the safe and cleanly insertion of the plug before work, as well as the removal after the shift. The dancer can't feel it while the butt-plug is in place. Not while you're dancing, not while sitting down. Nope, not even if you sit down really hard. Think about it. Do you spread your butt cheeks so that you can smash your asshole against a chair when you sit down? Of course not. Or at least I hope not. The middle of a butt plug is tapered extremely small , and the plug rests within the anus. As far as feeling is concerned, for lack of a better example at the moment, think of how a tampon feels once inserted. If you concentrate on it, you can sometimes feel that it's there, but usually not. Same with a decorative butt plug.
You can't see the plug while the dancer is walking around or even dancing, not even with a g string. You would have to have very minimal butt cheek for that to be the case if it is even possible, as normally the dancer has to bend over or spread her cheeks in order for it to even be visible.
It is NOT an act of masturbation, and before someone tries to get uppity and argue the point, you better damn well look up the definition of masturbation first if you are in any way unclear. I have not met a SINGLE dancer that gains any kind of sexual gratification from it at work, nor do they remove and re-insert the plug or even touch it throughout the course of a shift, so you can take the "OHMAHGERD IT'S TOTALLY MASTURBATING" erroneous thought off the table. It's just blatantly wrong. You are wrong.
It is downright disturbing reading many of your comments and watching all of the stigmatization grow internally between women within an industry where we are already constantly fighting not to be stigmatized in the first place. Comments such as "It's trashy and disgusting and many dancers I worked with had poor hygiene such as leaving tampons around, they'd be the same ones who'd do this shit. I'm all for camming and whatnot, but if you can only making money by doing these things and expect dancers to accept it in clubs are probably those who couldn't make money otherwise." are so fucking ignorant, immature, and obnoxious. Who the hell are you people to make a claim like that? That a woman who uses a decorative butt plug has bad hygiene or does not take care of herself, or was not previously capable of making money? First of all, you're dead wrong on all counts, and it's just another indication that the people with such strong, blown out opinions and egos have never known anyone to use one, or even seen it before. Some of your comments are akin to "She can't make money any other way so she has to take her clothes off. She must be uneducated/a crackwhore/ a fucking loser/ lazy/ sexual abuse victim, etc. etc". It is absolutely vile, and shame on all of you who have made such idiotic claims. SHAME!
"Sticking anything in any orifice (yet alone the anus) for a show... That should never ever ever! Be a part of strip club entertainment, there's plenty of opportunities in the porn and escort industries for people that are into that; So call me close minded, I would never react positively to something as degrading and disturbing for the sake of 'progressiveness'" Excuse you? I would call you INCREDIBLY close minded for a number of reasons. First, nobody sees the insertion. It is literally a small jewel that peeks out when a dancer is bent over during her performance. It is actually quite pretty. Personally, I find it preferable to staring directly at someone's asshole. And who the fuck are you to call a dancer's personal choice about what she chooses to do with her body "degrading" if it is quite literally not harming her, nor anyone else in the club? Some would call your line of work "degrading" as a whole, and it's just as wrong, ignorant, and judgmental, is it not? Why is the thought of something that is not causing any kind of sexual gratification, is not unsanitary in the slightest, and is not being removed during the course of a shift so bothersome? Is it the simple thought that something is in another dancer's ass? I get that the overtly sexual nature of it can be unnerving, but myself and the vast majority of women I have worked with over the years, in every part of the country, feel that way about A LOT of things that happen in strip clubs, such as hardcore grinding, loud fake moaning, genitals right in the customers face, etc. But you know what? It's none of my damn business. I stay in my own lane, dance and hustle my way, and everything works out just fine. It is in this way that I have been able to maintain my personal safety and sanity, and been successful in this industry for the past ten years. Try it some time.
The women I have known to use the butt plugs are already hard core hustlers who have found a way to integrate their one hundred percent HARMLESS kink in to an intriguing performance/marketing tool. They don't "HAVE" to do anything, they simply got creative. I keep seeing comments about dancers having to "compete" with women and their butt plugs. One of my travel partners often wears a jeweled plug, and it does not interfere with my money at all, because I am a damn good performer with a bad ass attitude who spends my time lifting people's moods, rather than being the snarky bitch in the corner tearing down other dancers and worrying about the going-ons of other peoples assholes. Has it occurred to a single person on here that women are using them as a tool because it makes them feel even more sexy, risque', and empowered rather than a degrading last resort that they HAVE to undertake? I feel like some of you must be trolls disguised as strippers, or maybe it's just wishful thinking. I seriously can't believe that this is the subject that so many of you have zeroed in on to freak out about and call it "nasty".
The last truly laughable comment I have seen is "It gives customers the wrong idea!!!! BLAAAARGH!!!" I don't know where you people are working, but it must be in a damn dream land full of unicorns and rainbows where customers don't REALLY want to see you naked, and every single person who walks through the door has the purest of intentions, certainly would NEVER dream of propositioning anyone, and would never ever push the envelope as far as they could. Butt plugs don't make your industry more dangerous. Lack of security and enforcement of body contact rules, as well as a dancers lack of regard for her own personal safety make it dangerous. Some customers are dangerous and disgusting. It is up to the dancer to constantly be aware of her surroundings, as well as the bouncers job to ensure that customers stay in line during private dances and while sitting at the tip rail. Butt plug does not equal unsafe environment.
Why are you so butthurt? Something crawl up your ass? ::) :D
Tina Bloodaxe
01-18-2016, 01:21 AM
Nyuk nyuk nyuk!!! Oh puns. And creative, too!
Starling
01-18-2016, 01:50 AM
Trolls trolling trolls.
charlie61
01-18-2016, 02:03 AM
I think we all momentarily forgot that kittens exist. Obviously, the existence of kittens nullifies the importance of butt plugs. We can all agree on kittens.
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Vyanka
01-18-2016, 03:02 AM
It is a "peek-a-boo". A small added accessory. Yet another reason why I do not understand the shock and outrage behind it. A quick google search will present plenty of websites that will inform you of the proper and safe sanitation and use of butt plugs among other sex toys. Try http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/guide-sex-toys for starters. Nobody I know does it next to their co-workers, though I imagine it happens. I can see how it COULD be unsanitary, but I have personally not met anyone who wasn't cleanly about it. Once again, your are flying full steam ahead with the idea that women who use them are not hygienic, and that's pretty fucked up. The only way it would become unsanitary is if a girl is removing and reinserting it on stage, but that is a separate matter entirely. There is nothing "subjective" about that when it is done properly. Personally, I do not at work, but know many women who do.
Someone here asked how do you keep it in. That alone is unsanitary if it fell out. Heck, and like I said before....drunken tired girls by the end of the night, will take them out in the dressing. Or maybe mid-shift. That toy will probably be placed on benches where we change or God knows where else. C'mon now. You know careless some girls can get.
Also, who has time to prep their ass before work??
Miss_Red
01-18-2016, 12:34 PM
Tina Bloodaxe actually explained how they stay in within the rather aggressive text wall of her first post.
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This is the type of butt plug girls wear on stage. Note the slender 'neck' of the plug, which then flares out into a large bulb. The asshole clenches around the narrow bit. Because the narrow bit is so much narrower than either the bejeweled area or the plug itself, it can't just 'fall out'. It has to be pulled out. It can't fall out for the same reason poop doesn't randomly fall out of our butts: the sphincter is very strong and doesn't want things falling out.
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KaraLynn
01-18-2016, 01:07 PM
Tina Bloodaxe actually explained how they stay in within the rather aggressive text wall of her first post.
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This is the type of butt plug girls wear on stage. Note the slender 'neck' of the plug, which then flares out into a large bulb. The asshole clenches around the narrow bit. Because the narrow bit is so much narrower than either the bejeweled area or the plug itself, it can't just 'fall out'. It has to be pulled out. It can't fall out for the same reason poop doesn't randomly fall out of our butts: the sphincter is very strong and doesn't want things falling out.
44007
I've never worn a butt plug but the shape of it looks very uncomfortable to me. I feel like I'd have trouble forgetting its in there. I don't think I'd want to walk around and dance with that in all night but to each their own.
It's the thread that never ends......it goes on and on my friends.......
arielbriel
01-18-2016, 01:47 PM
It can't be healthy to wear that for 6-8 hours 3-5x a week...
Selina M
01-18-2016, 02:34 PM
I'm baffled by the number of newbies now that want to make usernames just to jump in on threads and write aggressive walls of text calling us nasty names.
Tourdefranzia
01-18-2016, 02:59 PM
Butt plugs with "tails" is a thing in Portland, too. Also, sword swallowing, naked girls performing by lighting themselves on fire and breathing fire, and don't forget Puppetry of the Penis started in Portland and now is a touring act around the country. A little over a week ago was pantless public transportation day in Portland where thousands of people ride the bus and trains without pants. There's also the World Naked Bike Ride that attracts about 10,000 naked bikers every summer in Portland.
What seems weird to most people is "meh" in Portland. We just aren't all that hung up on nudity or sexual expression between consenting adults. I applied for a job that required that I have strip club experience as part of the application process (lobbying group that works for sex workers). Our elected state officials take us seriously as a constituency.
Tourdefranzia
01-18-2016, 03:01 PM
I think we all momentarily forgot that kittens exist. Obviously, the existence of kittens nullifies the importance of butt plugs. We can all agree on kittens.
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*Do not place kittens in your butt
tempest666
01-18-2016, 04:19 PM
Are y'all still going at this? Lol I just woke up and had to check out of curiosity.
simone87
01-18-2016, 06:29 PM
Holy shit I've been on this site for years and this is one of the most emotional, angry,crazy threads I've seen...and over butt jewelry no less! This is definitely destined for " the best of stripperweb" thread hehe
lynn2009
01-18-2016, 06:36 PM
ignore list ftw you guys
tempest666
01-18-2016, 09:25 PM
Tina Bloodaxe actually explained how they stay in within the rather aggressive text wall of her first post.
44006
This is the type of butt plug girls wear on stage. Note the slender 'neck' of the plug, which then flares out into a large bulb. The asshole clenches around the narrow bit. Because the narrow bit is so much narrower than either the bejeweled area or the plug itself, it can't just 'fall out'. It has to be pulled out. It can't fall out for the same reason poop doesn't randomly fall out of our butts: the sphincter is very strong and doesn't want things falling out.
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I just read this while pooping and I had to laugh.
Miss_Red
01-18-2016, 11:18 PM
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hippiechick
05-19-2016, 10:42 AM
Y'all...I saw a girl with a TAIL attached to her butt plug sticking out from under her little mini skirt the other night. Smh...not my thing. I'm pretty open in my personal sex life, but I just wouldn't bring that to work. Lol
SuperJa
05-19-2016, 12:08 PM
Y'all...I saw a girl with a TAIL attached to her butt plug sticking out from under her little mini skirt the other night. Smh...not my thing. I'm pretty open in my personal sex life, but I just wouldn't bring that to work. Lol
Also idk what the fashion rules are on buttplug tails but I feel like she should have had the tail tucked over the top of the skirt? Like how you would with an actual tail
charlie61
05-19-2016, 10:26 PM
Noooo, this thread isn't coming back, is it? Fuck. I thought we killed this one.
Miss_Red
05-20-2016, 10:35 AM
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SuperJa
05-20-2016, 01:59 PM
Noooo, this thread isn't coming back, is it? Fuck. I thought we killed this one.
This is going to be one of those things anthropologists in the future use to find out what life was like in the 2000s.
miss.a.p1600
05-21-2016, 07:20 AM
Noooo, this thread isn't coming back, is it? Fuck. I thought we killed this one.
I will say its controversial, interesting, and just (fill in the blank) .......... Almost like those race threads that could literally go on and on - till someone says something totally out of line causing people to get riled up and it gets locked.
ScarletKitten
05-21-2016, 03:15 PM
I don't even care about strippers wearing butt plugs anymore. Doesn't even faze me anymore.
tempest666
05-21-2016, 04:31 PM
This industry is going down the shitter one way or another. May as well go down in style with a rhinestone shoved up my sphincter.
Missdoll
06-19-2016, 04:42 PM
The only time I saw this was the other night.
Porn star feature Natalia Star had a diamond butt plug while doing her stage lol. I was a little shocked but then I remembered she was a porn star.
Tina Bloodaxe actually explained how they stay in within the rather aggressive text wall of her first post.
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This is the type of butt plug girls wear on stage. Note the slender 'neck' of the plug, which then flares out into a large bulb. The asshole clenches around the narrow bit. Because the narrow bit is so much narrower than either the bejeweled area or the plug itself, it can't just 'fall out'. It has to be pulled out. It can't fall out for the same reason poop doesn't randomly fall out of our butts: the sphincter is very strong and doesn't want things falling out.
*edit* Okay, this is kind of cute. The feature I mentioned had one that stuck past her butt cheeks... Like totally noticeable and she used it to fuck her butt hole briefly while doing some floor work. It stayed in the whole time though. Hmm... I think I'm jaded.